My biggest regret of my twenties.

[@mattdavella]

I'm bringing the 30 day experiments back! What should I do after yoga? (don't say meth).

[@noddingbart6915]

Purple drank

[@thatoneguy4214]

Adult coloring books!

[@leonm3767]

Writing a book.

[@couldnotcareless8667]

Meth.

[@natchalike]

Massage Natalie for 30 days

[@MichaelHevor]

“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.” -C. S. Lewis

[@TheArtofKAS]

👏👏

[@bagindaaricha9822]

I'll keep this.

[@the.bonsai.samurai]

Thank you brother! Writing that on the wall now!

[@Isaac1ofone]

Goat 🐐

[@ireumhannah]

Yuhhh. 💗

[@SamEmara]

That unboxing soothed my soul

[@FernandoFajardoChannel]

When I started my driving lessons I remember feeling so frustrated when I did something wrong and even felt anxious when I was on my way to driving school. As time went by and as I got more practice I became very comfortable driving so as you said at some point we will be beginners at something, it is hard to get out of the comfort zone but when you look back you will always be happy that you were strong enough to do it.

[@IsaSensei]

I have the feeling that whatever we do, we will always have regrets. The right thing to do is to let go of the past and continue going forward. GOOD VIDEO BRO

[@FinancialShinanigan]

“Hell is meeting the person you could have been” - Matt in a black shirt -

[@SirMopy]

😂

[@doxo9597]

One interesting thing about these “what I regret” or “what I would do different” is that it shouldn’t be about “I wish I did things differently” because that totally misses all of the growth that you have gone through throughout your life. The way I see it, if you are in a part of your life and you have things that you would do differently, that just means that you grew as a person! How boring would it be if as soon as you are born until the day you die you were perfect in every way? Growth is what life should be about, not “already being perfect”… As is often said: “it’s all about the journey.” So don’t feel bad if you have regrets. It just means that you are a better version of yourself.

[@Ali-ew9gv]

Very well said!

[@howtoadultschool]

Very well said. Whenever I find myself regretting something I check in and often find that when I'm objective it's because I said yes to something instead, and got great value from that thing I also said yes to. Every decision you make says yes and no to something, and usually you end up growing from it in the end.

[@remoratilemogodi2121]

This is so timely, Matt! I turned 26 on Monday and was thinking about how to maximise my last 4 years of my 20s. Thanks a million for this.

[@CrabappleKing]

As a 30 year old that used to think this way... age is just a number man. Life won't end at 30. More likely, you won't even feel much of a difference. Just enjoy your existence and do small things each day which will add up towards your goals.

[@danielmatin5435]

I turned 18 on Monday! Best of luck to you.

[@shadowsmith1386]

Turn 28 Monday to crazy

[@shadowsmith1386]

@@CrabappleKing facts

[@Jaycceee259]

I turned 27 Monday LOL

[@stephen-finance]

"I ghosted Many people"... Kind of a strange flex, but okay... 😆 Just teasing. Glad you're back to weekly videos!

[@JasonSullivan]

Love this. Fear is such an enigma…it feels so massive and daunting, but in the end, it’s mostly in your head. Thank you for sharing this. Feel the exact same way.

[@FranksCreativeCorner]

I think I'll need to repeat this to myself every day, until it's drilled down in my head. God, not a day goes by without me regretting not having done what I set out to do the day before, out of fear! I'm 20 and I live in fear. It's exactly how Matt explains: I'm terrified of trying new things, failing, not meeting my expectations, not being perfect... Although I recently started working on it, I put myself under so much pressure that many times that terror takes over, and I end up postponing in some way what I have to do. I know that I will never be perfect, and that as they say, "you have to jump in before you are ready", but still it's often very difficult to put myself into action. PD: Sorry everyone, I just felt like I had to take out my frustration somewhere. I'm actually making progress in the matter, you know, slow and steady, and I'm happy with it. It's just, there are some moments when I fail to control myself, it's so frustrating. It feels like I'm going backwards everything I have advanced, or like I'm never going to achieve what I set out to do.

[@drishtik6355]

Don't worry just try new things that's all you will develop confidence slowly n steadily..All the best 😊👍

[@Robertomp2201]

Hi buddy quick comment here I'm 21 never being on a relationship before, always had a crush on a girl decided to ask her out. She said yes and we were in a relationship for six months being honest not sad at all after it ends up. Since I went out of My confort zone and went very well it was a learning and a nice experience to me. Recommmend to not be afraid and just going for it. Otherwise, You will be thinking what would've happened if?... Just keep it up you got it.

[@AMAli-ct5df]

Courage is action in the face of fear.- Matt The Big Brother you never asked for but needed.

[@Anna_Vorobushek]

Matt, you really gave me sort of an insight - that guys can be afraid of dating too. I never thought about that… Sometimes it’s hard to see other person’s perspective…

[@haneenbdoor1583]

Not gonna lie, I've been dwelling on my regrets for the past week, I feel so much anxiety when I think of all the chances I didn't take in life, but this video made me feel better, I'll try to dial up my courage like you said.

[@jeswinj8221]

I'm so happy that you came back for us after a long time. Weekly videos ..... yay

[@TheToobNube]

Watching this during my break in my mid level paper company lunchroom. Greetings from Scranton! 👋

[@Kira_Martel]

Love this, Matt. I've been really enjoying the more casual, raw, and vulnerable vibe you've been bringing to your videos lately. Much appreciation for the courageous sharing of imperfections, and the focus on process over product. It's really cool to see these more un-edited and intimate facets of your personality shine through.

[@sparkosthenes]

I'm 16 and think it was really good to hear this. Thanks Matt!

[@stephen-finance]

The immediate question I had when I started watching this video was, "do you never wash those exercise shorts too?"😅 Great message Matt! Glad you're back to every week.

[@lividea]

Hi Matt, I really needed to hear this. I'm 25 now and am living a life almost exactly as you just described and it's comforting to know I'm not alone. I have let fear and self doubt control me in many aspects of my life, and it's encouraging when you talked about facing those demons as soon as possible before they get bigger. Thankyou.

[@BaqirBayani]

Hey Lividea! We are on the same boat! I am a twentysomething as well. It is an important decade of our life. To help me make the most out of my twenties, I recently summarized The Defining Decade book. It is an amazing book for people like us. If you have time, watch the video. You might find something useful in it. Here is the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pn-9m3RnrNGlh5Y Much love, Baqir

[@georgedarshini7917]

All of us have anxiety about something, we just don't like to do those things to avoid the feeling of being uncomfortable.

[@sahajbana]

Matt D'Avella - My biggest regret of my twenties. Me: My twenties are my biggest regret

[@ya5hita]

Lol same

[@andresvidoza]

Learning to code in 30 days? Love the videos Matt!

[@asynchrony]

As someone who is risk-averse suffering from worsening social anxiety, work anxiety and impostor syndrome, this video resonated with me so much it hurt. It hurt, but it was the awakening that I needed.

[@CarolynnMc01]

You're not alone! I was scared of everything until i was almost 50 years old. Now, i just forge ahead! I have released my comfort zone (except for catching some darn virus!). Be well

[@AhmetKaan]

*5 things to quit right now:* *1. Overthinking* *2. Trying to make everyone happy* *3. Living in the past* *4. Worrying* *5. Doubting yourself*

[@successscroll9274]

"right now" doesn't apply to something that needs a lifetime, those things are simply part of our human nature, you'll always worry, you'll always doubt yourself, and always live in the past, thinking this way is what make people give up and stress out to about life, no one is a machine or super human, you only can do your best to not let these things control your life and be a handicap :)

[@thetelebuddies]

YESSSSS WEEKLY VIDEOS ARE BACK!!

[@LostandLore]

Just what I needed to hear! Thanks man!

[@saturdaysolitude7800]

"Catch you while you're young." - Matt D'Avella, 2021

[@bomis181094]

I'm 26 and only just now I'm starting to get some courage and be less stressed out about what people might think of me. I always think that people are constantly on the lookout for mistakes I would do, but truth be told, either those people don't even know who I am and we'll never meet again, they won't remember my mistakes or I don't even care what they think of me. Everyone is mostly concerned about themselves, instead of worrying about others, so I shouldn't worry about what others think of me if I'm not even on their radar. And why would I stop myself from enjoying life just because of reasons and stories in my head that aren't even real

[@manibarathi08]

"I'm gonna do it for 30 days cause my name is Matt D'Avela" LOL😂

[@ImprovementGang]

Good thing I am hearing this!

[@richardhegenkotter4276]

My Kung Fu-trainer told us, that fear is a bad teacher and you shouldn't act out of fear. That kind of stuck in my head. I'm in my early twenties now, and I hope, to keep that in mind :D Have a great Day, Matt ;)

[@nicklascazares]

Action before motivation!

[@fannycraddock99]

Some once told be that there's nothing to fear but fear itself.

[@danilopioli2512]

"You can't outrun your demons, they always find you" David Goggins

[@gauravm.]

Who else thinks that Matt should make a dedicated dating advice video for people in their 20s? (Especially, early 20s.)

[@FernandoFajardoChannel]

x2

[@Julian_Bertsch]

"The fears we don’t face, become our limits."

[@sophrrrrrr]

I really want to make the most out of high school. I don't really know what's going on with my current relationships, but I want to keep doing well academically, and talk to new people again. I remember letting fear control me in elementary school. I would sit alone outside because I was so afraid of what others thought of me, let alone talking to others. I'm a little older now, and I've learned a lot along the way, and I may have been alone for a while, but I know I can talk to people. Friends are just so special, and I get a bit jealous of my brother that's going into grade 12. He has a lot of good friends, yet here I am, going to grade 10 with one best friend.. Meh, I'm not going to let that hold me back. (I really need a journal.) Heck, I even let fear control me in grade 9!!! But even so, through the inner battle of my overwhelming thoughts, I went to talk to people with confidence. I don't want to be the fear-controlled girl I once was. It just feels so liberating to be myself, and it motivates me so much.

[@borispejic170]

Dear Matt, try art therapy, fine art (abstract or figurative), art history or some other arty 30-day challenge 😄

[@Hello-_simplyzane]

Thank you Matt. You touched my life. I am facing my fear by posting regularly on my KZbin Channel

[@royleow]

Thank you. Just what I need. You deserve more subscribers. :)

[@RodrigoCruz-iz3kb]

Talking about regreats without blaming yoursel is a big signal of maturity. Nice video Matt!!

[@ProxyDE]

"Matt you have to try this new snack." Matt: "FOR 30 DAYS!"

[@alex-mn9tg]

Lmao underrated comment

[@미카-d3f]

😂

[@ladyyyClare]

I just turned 20 matt and I really needed this. Thank you so much!!!

[@amyl.1947]

YES zero waste! I would be SO interested in that challenge!

[@aliatk]

It’s true that the fear becomes bigger over time, i’m going through this phase right now and struggling to get the courage to do something about it. Thank you, i really needed to hear this advice💪🏻

[@rudolphilaga9557]

Gosh I love Matt! That ending. 😂

[@homeofcreator]

Matt would love if you make some more videos on business side of filmmaking. I know it's audience would not be much but it would be so helpful for some of us.

[@Doomsday_Life]

Thanks for sharing these valueable experiences, I find it super useful

[@BucketListTravellers]

Always wise advice! Good on you for giving yoga a try. Namaste! 🧘‍♂️

[@khaoulaboukhriss4351]

I just turned 25 and going through YT videos for life advice to enhance my twenties experience , this came just on time ! Thank Matt

[@alfapi148]

I'd like to see a video about van life from you Matt. Sounds quite interesting and a fun experience!

[@sathviks7442]

Yeah the newsletter hit me hard.

[@justinhughesofficial]

Love the subtle office reference 😬

[@AndresGarcia-kj3jq]

Heck, I have never left a video part-way to subscribe or redirect to something else, but this has been the only exception. Huge huge fan, and would love to support and learn from your newsletter!

[@kareemsakr41]

Yo you have no idea how meaningful this video is, it is meaningful because you're definitely in role model status to me lol yet it's very humble and relatable to my personal regrets and struggles. Thank you so much.

[@Theledart]

I love your honesty in sharing the fear you had. I was in the same boat for a while and I think you telling your story (as a guy who looks pretty together and confident) helps many people. Thanks.

[@shiptj01]

That's a good point. I'm 35 and I've been working in a new career for the past three months. I was so nervous for awhile because it's so different from anything that I've ever done, but I think that I am finally getting more confident with what I'm doing. It was awkward for awhile, I got yelled at/corrected a few times, but it's a positive change for me.

[@valeroooo]

We missed you Matt!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@_gunnnu_]

Yaayy, 30 days challenge are back... Yaaay, every week new videos... Yaaaay, yet another regret video... Anyhow, this was very helpful thank you so much Matt. Your videos always affect me , in a positive way...

[@SooDamGood]

I’m 22 so thank you for this

[@FernandoFambrini]

So glad you're back to posting every week! Thanks for that, Matt, it really adds value to me.

[@yaminaim]

loved this video. the courage to conquer one's anxiety is pathway to one's own greatness.

[@mahmoudyounis3228]

When u let small problems in your life without fixing by time they will be your demons that will take hell of willing to face it

[@OktoberJournal]

I'm turning 30 tomorrow, and I only have two regrets for things I didn't do in my twenties. Not going to therapy sooner, and not starting working out sooner.

[@TomSimak]

I respect your vulnerability!

[@AmritaBhortake]

Hey Matt, it sure has been a treat to see your videos again. Loved this one especially the message. That is one of my ideologies in life, “have no regrets”

[@sarahkeating5672]

Thank you, Matt! I really needed to hear this

[@DeBeOtaku]

Yooooo Van life sounds dope!!!!

[@elisazouza]

"it's going to be the next trending newsletter" matt that is manfiestation

[@choo8455]

I subscribed right away even before Matt waited for me. LOL!

[@BellyBellsVlog]

Try that van life and zero waste! I love it.

[@sacdaabdurhman]

“When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.” - did you know?

[@Peter-yo2wm]

This was a very insightful video. I agree that the biggest fear you should have is not living up to your full potential. Covid has allowed me to really think about where I am/was, and where I wanted to be. I’ve really worked on myself this past year because of this. Whenever I feel fearful of something I tell myself “the world has never been changed by someone who conforms themselves to live a normal and safe life”. Love the video matt, keep inspiring young minds!

[@randomrealestateinvestor1694]

Just started my contracting business at 20 and have my first job on Saturday

[@nitzangly13]

This video came at the right time 🙏🏼 30 days experiment - clothes with new color every day... Gluten free...

[@austinreeves1233]

I'm in my 20s and I am definitely feeling the fear on certain things. I think there is so much pressure to get it right the first time. Switching to a new job the pressure that it's the right move and you'll be there forever

[@JohanRoxas]

Loved The Office reference/joke

[@yr612p]

Try Van Life please! Australia seems like the perfect place to do it

[@44BlueFoxes]

My regret is not saving for a house from my first paycheck. I'm fortunate that I can live with my dad while I save (he gets monthly rent off me). But I should've started sooner. Parents PLEASE have this discussion with your kids so that they know their realistic options & have an actual chance of getting on the property ladder.

[@Squatification]

The Office References on point!

[@marvinmazariegos4826]

Hi Matt, I'm a fifteen-year-old boy and I admire your content as you have no idea, you are the clear example of the person I want to become when I grow up, you are really impressive. without a doubt I will increase my courage thanks to you

[@BaqirBayani]

Hey Marvin! I am already on the boat of twenties and you are not very far from this great journey! It is an important decade of our life. To help me make the most out of my twenties, I recently summarized The Defining Decade book. It is an amazing book for people like me who are already twentysomething and like you who are entering their twenties. If you have time, watch the video. You might find something useful in it. Here is the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pn-9m3RnrNGlh5Y Much love, Baqir

[@Nived151]

Thanks matt for those words. I'm in my early 20's and idk why those words are straight up to my face. I lack social interaction and speaking to strangers, I've an exact course for that in my univ guess what I don't speak in that class too, I'll definitely (try to) speak in my class to overcome my fears, hey there's a start for everything

[@mirekreative]

Looking forward to a video a week so much!

[@sandeshperera1416]

Perfect timing Matt 👌🏽 I was just starting to struggle with 20s things

[@rodolfoandino2156]

"Fear is the mind killer"

[@t0p-D]

I needed to hear this today

[@madeleineramos1685]

100% YES to trying van life for 30 days!

[@geethfernando5760]

I stay awake every night thinking "ohhh man i should have done that, I should have done this" and it is destroying my life day by day

[@damonmorris5874]

Awesome welcome back Matt to videos weekly. By the way, I hope you are doing Yoga with Tim. The best KZbin teacher out there. Can’t wait to hear about your 30 day challenge.

[@MartinManweiler]

I'm 26 now and I just realized that my biggest regret was fear too. I should have moved straight to L.A. to work on music when I was 18. Instead I decided to study music at University.

[@jeromekessler5605]

I needed that, thanks matt ✌🏻

[@daelysseou]

Thank you for this video, Matt!

[@harrisonfedor]

4:19 writing this from scranton, pa. it's a real place!

[@flocketogo]

THANK YOU FOR SHARING!

[@naomihunter776]

Thank you so much for this Matt!!! This video came at the perfect time for me. Just yesterday I was supposed to have a job interview but due to my anxiety and fear of interviews... I let that get the better of me and I didn't go. Ive felt so disappointed and regretful since then. But now hearing about why we shouldn't let fear control of lives I'm going to fight harder to get past those fears which has been going on for many years now. Absolutely love your videos they always do wonders and put a new perspective on life! ❤️

[@suri4Musiq]

Much needed video, loads of Love Matt

[@little_blue_dragon661]

Finally a video where I'm already doing what Matt is talking about and I'm really proud of myself for what I've been able to achieve so far. U know life's a lot bigger if you see your fears not as walls but doors that can lead to wonderful places

[@kevinmilo3464]

Welcome back Matt :)