My Boyfriend Has Close Female Friends | How To Handle His Female Friends | Greta Bereisaite

[@GretaBereisaite]

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[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

It's a shame some women will seek validation at the cost of someone's relationship. How cheap.

[@carrino15]

jepp, some of them does not care if their female friend get hurt or if their action create drama... be cool and not be to confrontonal about in the start, if it continoue... cut your losses and prepare for how to proceed.

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

When a man speaks to me, especially on chat, I always ask them about their wife or gf (especially if its on his status) to make sure their lady is okay with their man speaking to me. I dont want someone coming after me, as I never need to fill a man's bed if theres already someone laying in it.

[@originalmix2546]

oh yes! some of those women are marriedied themselves and not going to give up their husbands but they are addicted to getting validated and looked at with droopy eyes by husband's and boyfriends of other women! Ask me how I know

[@minnie5301]

​@@allaboardthegravytrain5987 this is exactly what I would expect from any strong self respecting woman. The woman constantly flirting with my current bf is a highly qualified person, much younger and actually enables him and leads him on for her own ego.

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

@@minnie5301 she probably got touched as a child because she is over sexualizing herself.

[@iPandaliciouz]

It’s not that I don’t trust him or I’m insecure. I feel like it’s the principle, like you’re going out with another woman alone...say that out loud and see if it sounds right.

[@miloudivyne]

Raise your standards

[@adelamena5403]

feel the same bruh, he goes to her place almost like every day and her coming to his place seems sus to me!

[@bhagyashririi]

@@adelamena5403 same and as I'm typing this he's heading over to her house again yesterday he had dinner at her house with her parents this happens often

[@adelamena5403]

@@bhagyashririi man I don't know what's up honestly, break up with him if he starts being sus, because it's not fair!

[@adelamena5403]

@@bhagyashririi Break up its not worth wasting your time on some individual, my bf ended my relationship of 2 years because we have nothing in common and yeah its best to find someone else who would accept you for who you are as a person!

[@theplasmacollider6431]

If a guy is getting serious with his girl such as getting engaged, he needs to distance himself from his other female friends full stop. At most, don't hang out one on one with other girls, only in groups when your girl is present. Same goes for girls with guy friends. This whole western culture of tolerating this sort of behavior leads to all sorts of cheating and promiscuity.

[@originalmix2546]

exactly!!! Kind of common Sense! 💯This Blondie is strongly pandering to RP community for likes and subs, that's obvious.

[@originalmix2546]

💯

[@theplasmacollider6431]

@@originalmix2546 I don't think that rp is wrong about many things. What I said doesn't contradict much of rp content.

[@minnie5301]

Precisely. My bf has hundreds of female friends. One however is a woman who he has admitted to having an infatuation with for many years. I found he was still openly flirting with her. He says he wants to marry me then why keep her as a friend?

[@theplasmacollider6431]

@@minnie5301 Word of advice, you need to bounce on that dude. He's going to or has already cheated on you. Get yourself one of those stable, "boring", guys that you probably overlook. If you keep playing with the bad boys, you're going to get burned.

[@bodnarova05]

You need to see yourself as irreplaceable and keep yourself on the pedestal, NOT him. You always come first , have a life and friends of your own. The more you seek approval outside , the more you push people away. Law of attraction is real.If you keep assuming he’s cheating , you WILL find evidence that he is.

[@jessicatesar7004]

Solid and sage advice.

[@muchgoodisgiven1517]

1. Trust is earned 2. Sharing feelings is vulnerable 3. If you don’t address it, it won’t get better. 4. Sharing your feelings so he can fix it

[@piak78]

Men don't understand language of feelings. Gotta give them an order or ultimatum and a consequence attached to that.

[@Ivanntu]

The video is total bs. If a guy has close female friends and keeps them close to him (texting every day with them for example), while he is in a serious relationship, his girlfriend has every right to be irritated and suspicious. First it is totally inappropriate, second there is no reason for a guy in such a relationship to have such close female friends, except if he wants to sleep with them at one point or saves them as a reserve, if his relatioship does not work out. I am telling you all of this as a man myself.

[@chucky6367]

Thank you!

[@AmericanDreamer]

exactly!!!!

[@Blondiee777]

Just been dating someone for 2 months. Things have gone really well except for the fact that he had many female friends and one of his best friends was a married woman who was about to get a divorce and apparently my guy was the only one she could talk to about it. I ran very fast.

[@hadafoxer9563]

1_Show him that you trust him. 2_ Don't reduce your confidence(don't talk about her).

[@antonijajuric2249]

I don't believe in male-female friendship. One side always wants something more.

[@braniya99]

I think it is possibile when its started in childhood.

[@niazakria1561]

Not Always

[@hadafoxer9563]

True 😅

[@ik1997]

The part that one side will want more.... That's true that's what we don't like that really it's not you but it's her

[@miloudivyne]

Exactly. They don't exist and real men know that. If a man has female friends those are backup plans. Pickme women waiting for him to break up.

[@AdelleRamcharan]

I'd say the best way to deal with this is to dump his ass, let them have each other and go find a real man who doesn't sit around giggling with women.

[@anaxo1971]

Couldn't have put it any better myself.

[@cesruhf2605]

Exactly, goes both genders. If they be doing this crap just dump them asap

[@samrasiddiqui8479]

Yes! Yes!

[@valyaalynn]

I would never date a guy who has female friends unless she is a super close family friend from when they were childhood friends, but then again that girl could be interested in him herself. Normal men don’t have female friends where the go out and have a cup of coffee every week and talk that’s just weird lol

[@ik1997]

Agreed

[@sansastark1451]

Exactly. My boyfriend and his girl bestfriend are on the phone every day. I dont think that's normal.

[@valyaalynn]

@@sansastark1451 no it’s not normal and I wouldn’t put up with it

[@sansastark1451]

@@valyaalynn thanks sis ! day 2 of no contact with him. Hope i can move on from him.

[@valyaalynn]

@@sansastark1451 I’m so proud of you hun for standing up for your self. You deserve a man that gives his attention only to you. A high value man would never talk to a women (so called friend) on the phone every day. My hubby has a few female friends that are also married that he met along time ago and keeps in touch with them few times a year. I have met them and we hang out with them once in a while and that is normal... but if he makes you feel jealous or weird about it not ok

[@teew.3173]

Why do women have to mold to a narcissists lifestyle? A man who has a lot of female friends tells me he needs his ego stroked constantly. Same thing if this was a female with a lot of guy friends. It’s psychological. Ladies, please don’t subject yourself to this..do what this lady is telling and find yourself in a one sided relationship. My ex had a list of female friends and I was secure in the beginning until I caught him in lies. He left me for one of them. It’s a recipe for disaster. The only exception is if your bf is completely transparent and honest with you and if he places your needs before theirs. Otherwise, why subject yourself to this situation. Plus, these women friends are usually, “orbiters”. It takes a certain type of person to be ok with this. I won’t ever date a guy with a lot of female friends. Good luck to those who will.

[@danaglover6801]

Damn same exact situation I’m currently dealing with; it’s at least 4/5 of his “homegirls” that I’ve met/seen. He likes me and me him but I’m not built like that either. I thought I could deal with these so called female friends but it’s a NO. Bcuz like I asked him, how would you feel if all I had was male friends? Talkin to them on the phone in your face or you seeing me and them hangin out at times? He didn’t answer that question of course. It’s a huge turn off for me. I’ve decided that as much as I have feelings for him I will be the bigger woman and step aside. He can keep every last one of em, for real.

[@AmericanDreamer]

💯💯💯

[@originalmix2546]

@teew - You nailed it, basically! 🔥🔥🔥💯 Been there, done that, now just regretting I didn't remove myself from the situation as soon as I saw it but stayed like a fool. While this guy was fighting me to protect his besties place in his life! Married bestie with full blown household and husband and children. She has a lot of friends, many men friends as well, including my bf, ex I should say. And he has a lot of female friends. Yes, fragile but oh so inflated ego of his...my genuine compliments, affection and words of encouragement never mattered to him . But his bestie's flattery - it fueled him 🔥 They were there when I already came into the pic so I know I haven't done anything to cause him to develop emotional affairs. Let the new GF handle it. If she is also having tons of friends, they will get along just perfect. I hope she has several male "besties" who are heterosexual as fkk!! So he can taste the cookie of his own dough finally!

[@tengsme7218]

​@@danaglover6801same here in my situation yesterday my boyfriend broke up wit me because of his Female best friend..

[@Tutume1111]

Good reminder on to keeping in mind in general that where the focus goes, that's where the energy goes to...

[@cx_n1]

Personally I will not be friends with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman, I think it’s disrespectful to the woman to do this because I would not like it if other women are befriending my boyfriend or husband. Acquaintances is different but most men want more with the woman even if it’s just in their mind I don’t think it’s appropriate at all in most cases, usually they’re trying to get some kind of ego stroke or emotional need met

[@Tar1905]

You do realize that if you try to be with friends with him when he is single, it will feel like you’re approaching him in a romantic way?

[@shawnmclean7707]

I’m a man and ladies, if your guy has close female friends and is not willing to set up boundaries or push them aside, walk away immediately. It simply means you are not respected and it will get worse.

[@dashonnanicole8433]

Been there 🎯🎯🎯

[@chrissyw.7500]

I agree that we should always love ourselves first and have self-confidence. The one thing that I can't stand is that my dude refuses to stop talking to his female friends for support. My relationship is suffering in that area and we are lacking a great deal of communication there. He gets defensive and thinks that I'm being insecure and jealous when all I am is telling him that it makes me feel bad when he talks to other women instead of me. I think that if a committed relationship is to work you should always know the girl he's talking to and vice-versa. If I don't know her my imagination could conjure up a million different scenarios

[@ika19]

This is exactly what I'm going through.. its ok to have friends but then.. why don't u talk to me when they're around

[@pennymcclellen5544]

Definitely agree. My bf broke up with me because he refused to put boundaries down with one of his "bffs" that he was in a relationship with before me

[@ivystudier]

I think our hubbies can have some female friends. And they can talk to each other. Meet each other sometimes. But when they do that only to one female friend, and texting and talking everyday from morning up to late at night. Going out a couple of times in a week. But not with other female friends, that is for me a red flag. Especially when they give each other heart and kisses emojis on messages, that is definitely a red flag!

[@xmetalgamerx]

My bf has only one close female friend aside from me and he’s in a study group with her in college. She lives with the other members of the study group and he often goes to their place to study and work on projects. But he’s introduced me to her and we’ve all gone out together and he’s even invited me to hang out at their place multiple times. I always say no because I don’t feel comfortable with that, and I don’t like her, solely because I don’t like the situation. I do feel like I shouldn’t worry because I’ve called him when he’s been at her place and he always picks up right away, and he’s also called me from her place. And every time, they’re in the living room with all the other guys around. So idk, I feel kinda crazy worrying about it. I even have his phone password and he has mine, and we’re super transparent with each other. But he often comments on his female friends’ pics calling them pretty or beautiful, and has long chats with them joking and talking about all sorts of topics. I think that’s normal for friends to do but my girlfriends make me think it’s not. We’ve been together for almost 9 years now and I trust him but I guess I just don’t understand why it’s necessary for him to be so close with other women.

[@originalmix2546]

ditch his hoe ass...he is your bf not your baby daddy , not your husband...you are still free to go and live your life at ease without going through all this stress he puts you through!!!

[@JinanMC]

You know? Parts of this sound like pandering to his assessment of you I.e. maintain an image of confidence even if you might have human reasons to feel insecure due to immature behaviors on his part.

[@d2b277]

If you are feeling insecure then leave him and learn to live happy with yourself..be alone be happy !

[@braniya99]

And how should we react if the guy does not like our close male friends?

[@jugamiislary8997]

This is what I've been waiting for ...Thank you so much Greta... you've been saving thousands of women in the globe ... sending lots of love and prayers your way from India ❤️

[@hughjassol2072]

That’s weird. To meet someone new, and just throw everyone else in your life away. I’m not giving up my life or anyone in it to be with my wife. My wife is being added to my life, she’s not here to replace anyone.

[@minerals_3]

This is the first positive comment I’ve read so far. It’s just nice to know someone thinks the same as me. I’m just jealous of my man’s one of the female friends. Can you suggest something to just get over it.

[@thevictoriaabia]

You aren’t married yet and no one said you should throw them away, just have better boundaries. Don’t be talking to them everyday.

[@blankakasza7221]

Men don’t bond like women they don’t need female friends. They do have emotional affairs though behind their partners back and blame it on their “friend”. Always the female friend is blamed. Don’t do it. Its an ego boost to the guy and he will triangulate the girlfriend with his female friends to keep her on her toes. Men are “friends” with women when they want the free benefits of a relationship but don’t want to make the commitment. The best way for a guy to have his cake and eat it too. Especially valid for narcissistic men and for men who compartmentalize and unable to find their needs in one partner. 99% of time a guy’s “friendship” is not genuine. I think if he has a relationship backing off and creating distance is the best move. They always come back unfortunately. Classic cakeman move. Have enough self-respect to walk away and not get used. The woman who gets the commitment is responsible for meeting his needs emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally. It will only end in heartbreak at least on one end sometimes on both. I can’t list any positives coming out of a friendship with a man. Neither men or women are wired to be friends.

[@AmeliaBedelia9087]

Wow! This is a fantastic and insightful comment. Thank you for posting it. I have been looking into the idea of emotional affairs for the last few days. I actually heard about them for the first time 10 years ago and I thought they were phony bologna. Now that I’m dating this new guy and he has an attractive female friend of 28 years, I feel like a fish out of water. This has been totally new territory. I find that there are sooo many strong opinions on both sides. Steve Harvey got me all depressed for several days. I’m glad to have found this video, but I have been looking for an explanation as to why a man who is in a healthy, loving relationship and getting all of his needs met with a girlfriend would want to bother with being friends with another woman. Before I even knew of her existence, he told me “I have a female friend and she thinks that you are jealous of her.” My response was “HUH?! That’s ridiculous. I don’t even know her. I didn’t even know she existed until this minute.” Your comment reminded me that this whole thing is more about him and his thoughts and needs than his “friend.”

[@kirito3082]

Pure projection

[@AmericanDreamer]

@@AmeliaBedelia9087 hope you got rid of that his sorry ass!! And are doing better nowadays 💛

[@hawanajwaabdullah6134]

He had this new female friend and they met a month ago. They met during an internship at a local clinic. They went jogging together, often went to her house, went cafe hunting together, calls her mother 'motherrr' and even sent this girl to her uni(yesterday). Apparently she got into the same uni as my bf and going to he his junior. I thot it's just going to end like that but then he even asked her to go hiking with his friends together. We're LDR for 5 years now and i just cant help feeling so left out and he's spending so much more time with her than me. I trust him and im not insecure but felt really disrespected. How do i approach this?

[@willa1699]

Hi curious to know how you handled this. I’m about to be in the same situation. Boyfriend has a new work colleague and I know he’s “curious” about her. He’s loyal but I wonder if overtime they’ll grow closer at work and feelings will develop. He told me he considers her a friend now not a coworker. So I told him I d like to meet her and we are also LD. I’m trying to decide am I being irrational or should I just let it play out. I’ve been cheated on before and this entire situation triggered me. Didn’t even know I’d be so insecure. Ugh, it’s not my color.

[@hawanajwaabdullah6134]

@@willa1699 i totally feel you. Sadly, after he went back to uni, he became really distant and cold. A lot of lies too and even start discussing about breaking up. I have my own personal issues at home and i just feel so overwhelmed, unloved that i just broke up with him. On the bright side, i realised that we are stronger than we give ourselves credit. My life has drastically improved since the breakup. Well, i started to look into law of assumptions and i guess a lot of the drama was due to my own assumptions/trauma. I don't know what he's done at uni but i assume the worst so things had to happen. It might sound nonsense but learning it has made me learn how to stay confident and believe more in the higher power. So i encourage u to check it out and not assume the worst or react poorly like i didd😅 i pray ur relationship goes well!!!

[@willa1699]

@@hawanajwaabdullah6134 I will definitely check it out, thank you

[@dreagonzalez6217]

"Don't act like the other women are a threat to you" In my case it's a... Fake it until you make it?😂

[@AmericanDreamer]

This "advisor" is a major pickmeisha, she clearly hates women ans believes we should abandon ourselves for sale of men! I would not subscribe.

[@originalmix2546]

she's probably a narc..is not an adequate advise ...I hope this channel is a joke and this narcissistic woman is no way near mental health care.

[@geraldinegarcia6374]

Jeez. You look so georgeus in waves 😘

[@AnaGarcia-wu9om]

agree

[@leafmealoynederpydeu85]

This is the stunning look for her. Though all her looks are beautiful.

[@sidneyrose21]

but what if he hangs out with her more than he hangs out with me?

[@AmericanDreamer]

3 years later...have you found your answer?? 💛

[@Strawberrysunset23]

He left me with trauma flirting left and right. He finally stopped but am always afraid he’s going to do it again

[@mikker29y]

A lot of women think it's ok for them to have single male friends but it's not ok for their bf to have single female friends

[@orengk2443]

I think your partner having a femal friend will only work if 1. He always will tell you about where they go, what they do and when they do it without being interrogated for answers and 2. If you yourself are friends with that particular girl. My bf always tells me if he even sees a random friend of his, boy or girl, on the street. "Oh, I saw person A at the store today. You know, the one I told you about?" And also, we have the same set of female friends, I became friends with his female friends, and they've never had a hangout that didn't include the both of us

[@rosiemo4438]

Is it bad that most of the time, she is his number 1 best friend on Snapchat. They were involved romantically on and off for about 3 years. He doesn’t involve me in their friendship or ever bring her up. He doesn’t really comfort me when I bring it up he just gets a little defensive...

[@kenzie6401]

he definitely still likes her boo dump his ass

[@KissingMedusa]

Red flags

[@miloudivyne]

Women should never accept being a girlfriend. That's just a friend with benefits. If he has female friends he isn't serious and a woman should walk away.

[@tecklafurro2040]

Explain that again ?

[@angiragena3310]

my boyfriend has a lot of female friends. He doesnt go to each friends place everyday he just has a big amount of female friends. He sometimes smokes up with them and drinks with them and It makes me uncomfortable. I want him to live his life but i dont want to suffer from it anymore .

[@AmericanDreamer]

leave him... it's the best you can do for yourself 💛

[@Thoughts54]

Greta, In my opinion you are the best relationship coach on the internet!

[@laurenrichards212]

Great tips for every wise woman who want to hold their relationship

[@officerfarva3666]

I was never insecure with my husband until I found out years later that he had cheated on me with another woman while we were first dating. That destroyed the trust and yes now I question females he has on social media... But that’s also because he acts shady about them. I caught him lying to me about them as well, which doesn’t help. The reason I don’t leave is because we have kids and a house together. I’m so old now that I just don’t care and my kids are my life and I’m fine just living my life and not interested in him much outside family obligations.

[@anaxo1971]

Omg I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I can't even imagine how tough that must be for you. I'm so glad that your kids mean everything to you, and I completely understand how difficult it is to start over. Bless you my dear.

[@sarahvasquez7794]

Thank you. I'm covered in tears rn freaking out.

[@Rasheens-Story]

I love you with this hairstyle and pink lipstick looks the best on you😍

[@micaelaguimaraes7374]

She is my queen. 😍☑️ My inspiration. Kisses from Brazil

[@robinmishue2425]

I'm going through this right now and I'm not comfortable with how close they are I thought I told him how I felt he'd understand but it seems like he treats her better than me

[@Genxmom]

I personally have never had a friendship with a guy that did not end up lasting due to hidden feelings besides my family members.

[@PKXDRedcystalYT]

Thank u so much I understand how to handle all problem's

[@sabrinaguidice-aviles4596]

I am in a brand-new relationship with my boyfriend. We’re together for two months. He dated a woman last year and broke up with her but they remain friends. They have inappropriate conversations with each other and he has told me that she has feelings for him. He has me and she is dating but he refuses to tell her that he has a girlfriend. This makes me very insecure and he tells me it should not he just doesn’t wanna hurt her feelings and make her jealous but it’s OK for him to make me feel that way? I don’t think that this is OK

[@AmericanDreamer]

He is concerned about hurting Her (!) feelings but not yours although she is an ex and you are his current GF!!?! Wooof sis, get your self outta there! He's not into you to the point he should at this point! Rly..listen to actions AND words..

[@AmericanDreamer]

and obviously he enjoys having his little ego stroked by having someone been into him still, still enjoying validation from her ..he is not single/was not single before meeting you!! Sorry you are in this situation. you got to leave him if you want to get in a health happy relationship at some point in your life. This dude is already entangled elsewhere.

[@faemarx5112]

Thank you so much for this, I love and appreciate you and this video.

[@Nature.lover.2024]

Hi Greta, I'm new to your channel. Just love your suggestions regarding relationships. I have a boyfriend of 4 months now and we are trying to create a bond between us. Lately I came to know that he has a bestie who is a girl and she is his friend for 3 years now and he considers her family as his family. She is also from another country but they talk to each other on regular basis that he tells me also. Now it was his birthday today with me for the time, we went out has lunch I gave him a card and gift. When we were going back to our places and he called me and asked me to pick a cake his best friend sent her and I did that for him but I'm not happy with it.

[@essyswift7005]

Here's my love for you. ❤️ Thank you, i desperately needed this.

[@asiastep8191]

Beautiful video Greta!

[@elenabilchinski6865]

Wow Greta, you look so beautiful 💓 God bless you and thank you for the great content 👌🏻

[@rose-ke6gg]

Trouble is cant seem to find anything on long term relationships they all seem to be about dating which I'm not doing as been in relationship for years so would be good to have something for long term not just early on and dating.

[@monaa3397]

Thanks a lot .. also love your hair😍

[@cx_n1]

But if already in that situation this is fantastic advice. No reaction always

[@muskanbesarwaria7761]

u dont know i feel so much better just by listening to you.

[@lakshmilucky3431]

I want one suggestion from you guys I have a boyfriend and unfortunately he had female friend also he will share everything to me that me and my bestie enjoyed a lot in the office...she will wash my clothes she will give money when I was needed.... hearing this from him I don't know I'm getting irritated and I didn't tell about my insecurity apart from that for him I didn't talk to any of boys because he once said that he don't like boy bestie he don't like someone to take care of me and I was like ok if you don't like it then i will be no more with any boys but why he was having female friend.....😭😭

[@amandahardy7306]

My boyfriend have girlfriend he texts and sometimes I feel like he text and talk to them everyday when it comes to me and him it's a hi and bye and that's what's killing me the most 😫💔

[@ronnietoney6914]

Prayers. I understand that.

[@christinagrabski3380]

Thank you. Your videos help me tremendously.

[@edges4540]

I broke up with him yesterday 😢 and now I'm missing him

[@deedee3287]

Stay strong ❤

[@blitzkrieg6872]

No. He does not have a female "friend". He has a little black book with other women's phone numbers and one of them happens to be hers.

[@morbidcorpse5954]

Damn straight we do.

[@Mihaleva-i5v]

Life is short, it sucks I saw pictures of his female friends in his phone. Now my attraction for him slowly begin to die. He was not like that at the beginning, with time he began to do put them on his wallpaper and keep their pictures on his phone. The funny thing is on the pictures it’s just them without him. Like this sucks, it makes me feel disgusted towards that type of behaviour

[@sagargaminginspiredmythpat4994]

Thank you so much...this was so presious msg ❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯🙏

[@razankalifa6062]

Hi Greta..I discovered you lately and you are so great..I wich I knew you befor..can you please make videos about rebound relationships. And how make a guy regreat breakingup with you..and also about no contact and male behavior during all those things..thanks again for the great work and advise

[@carissaplustwo]

You may have just prevented me from doing just what you said not to do.. thank you miss.

[@agneskorondi5551]

Very good,and useful video👍 More videos with the same topic,it's would be good

[@khayayson434]

You are right greta...

[@sunvaj6754]

Great subject! 👍

[@dilinasupuni9800]

This is like gods message to me thank you

[@adrianazapata5960]

Love your videos Greta, your advices are concrete and clear. Thank you so much!!

[@gregautomotivation]

It’s possible to have a female friend guys don’t go out wanting every woman or wants to sleep with every woman. I grew up being the nice guy not in relationships so I was always friend zone as I meet someone. Now I’m grown my gf I get now are mad I have female friends from high school 🤦🏾 smh

[@hanahana-qv3dq]

What should I do when my bf says he hates texting and hasn't texted in 2 days or so ?

[@valyaalynn]

If he was serious about you he would text you every day. He seems like the kind of guy that likes to play games to see how you would react

[@AmeliaBedelia9087]

Whatever you do, don’t chase him.

[@harrietssembeguya94]

🤗🤗Thank you ❤️ Greta

[@Desertvibes234]

Amazing advice. Thank you ❤

[@huizi1394]

There is a girl that is close friend with my boyfriend for years before I even met him. I was alright with that girl at first but she stars to get on my nerve after few things happens. - At that time, me and my boyfriend were planing our first trip together, and she ask if she can join because she and get boyfriend was planning the trip to the same place as well. - Soon she broke up with her boyfriend. At That night she broke up with her boyfriend she went to my boyfriends house and crying her eyes out stay until late night, - Another night she went to my boyfriend’s and having late night beers with him. And other small things happened as well, for example I know they text each other very often, they share their life, and I also noticed that my boyfriend will talk to her when he feel stressed. All of this makes me feel very uncomfortable of this girl’s present in our relationship. On the one hand, I feel she doesn’t respect me as his girlfriend, she doesn’t care the boundaries she should keep. On the other hand, I just seanced from all those things that my boyfriend and her share many things on a emotional level (I don’t know if that expression make sense to you guys), they are very close to each other, that make me feel jealous and sooo insecure. I don’t know how to talk to my boyfriend about this and how to stop myself from being emotional about this. I really needs some help.

[@chaleyyy]

I can feel you so much

[@huizi1394]

Chaley Bangnya Thank you, that thing has been bother me for a while

[@chaleyyy]

单kei Tell him that you are uncomfortable with that and point out the reasons , dont just say that you are uncomfortable. Tell him why and what are those reasons that you are being like this (not in a dominant way). You can also try to be friends w his female friends, try making good bond between them

[@huizi1394]

Chaley Bangnya Thank you so much Chaley. Yea, I’ve tried to tell him about this, but he got so frustrated about me having problem with his female friend. Maybe that’s because I couldn’t get him understand why I’m uncomfortable with her. Now I’m getting anxious just by thinking of they might be text each other. But I’ll take your advise to try it again, with more reasons. By the way, we and the girl went to the trip together, I tried but I can’t be friends with her, not because I have problem with her, just because she is not the type of girl I could be friend with.

[@Jaz-px5pr]

@@huizi1394 How did you explain to your boyfriend how you felt?

[@cgyh68748]

from where is your last name?

[@jessicatesar7004]

I think it’s ok to briefly ask if they dated.

[@shakeenasaroj2985]

You look great 😍😍😍

[@joce.9824]

What if they are best friends since they were teenagers and did everything together and so when you finally hangout they talk about their past experiences and some of my special memories were already done with them so now I don’t see my moments as special as I had thought

[@kikisbeautyworld5458]

Learned not to give the other woman power

[@ivystudier]

So, we just let hin text that female friend all the time he wanted, early in the morning, late at night, let them go out together, eating lunch or dinner, taking a walk in the forest, helping her when she needed help and we just accept because we trust him? And so on and so forth? What if they fall in love to each other? The wife will be left broken hearted. Maybe you will say: that’s life move on and find another man!

[@originalmix2546]

Man is already in love with her otherwise he would not run to her whenever she whistles at him. He loves her and is not gonna give her up because his gf is not ok with them both sniffing each other's booties like Tony Gaskins once put it. It's so true tho. Learned the hard way. Is the man is not willing to put up boundaries towards that "bestie" in order to prioritize and protect your relationship, he's more into her than you!

[@YusufZumunta]

I just love ❤❤

[@leilahadams955]

I love the hair greta

[@rose-ke6gg]

Just started watching your videos been trying to find out and know what to do. Not sure if he is suffering from anxiety or just playing me. Either way its happened for years we have been living together for 4yrs it's been literally high when he is more in agreement with me and seems happier we are close. Then the reverse not in agreement I could say the sky is blue! He would say no and he seems angry in those times nothing is right and he feels distant no intimacy no cuddling nothing although at this point i will say he has always found me cuddling him to be difficult he doesnt do cuddling well at all what do you suggest .i feel on these angry moment times he provokes me and maybe pulls away from intimacy as part of that

[@chrissyw.7500]

Wow...i feel like youre telling my story.

[@fatoub5954]

This girl told him that she loves him before he came to the USA. now she is coming here with no friends or family but him...

[@amymeibauer9079]

best advice ever

[@annefrancess1224]

I think if a guy says he loves you and then without even telling you he randomly says he's going on holiday with another woman and then ignores you for the full week that he's on holiday with the other woman

[@annefrancess1224]

That is enough proof that you need right there it's not good advice to say wellness have got loads and loads of Proof in your flight this man make a complete fool if you first this is encouraging women to stay in bad relationships longer than they need to

[@gratzia]

I don't know why women worry about this lol. Totally unbothered over here.

[@liviamiriam222]

Do you move to Manchester Greta? 😁

[@icysnow57cold64]

I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.

[@icysnow57cold64]

Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.

[@icysnow57cold64]

@Yez Kex Platonic relationships and romantic relationships may be two entirely different things, but that doesn't mean they are equal when it comes to the amount of love given in them. The love in platonic relationships seems to be way stronger than the love in romantic relationships are since platonic relationships are not fragile like romantic relationships are. Also, platonic relationships also seem to be a lot more intimate and comfortable than romantic relationships are. Platonic love is one of the most purest forms of love there is, while romantic love is one of the least purest forms of love there is. Most people seem to be a lot more comfortable around their platonic best friends than they are around their romantic partners or spouses. A platonic best friend is more likely to be protective of you and have your back and look out for you than a romantic partner or spouse is. A platonic best friend is more likely to be protective of you and have your back and look out for you than a romantic partner or spouse is. Romantic partners or spouses come and go but that feeling of trust, loyalty, care, love, appreciation, understanding, admiration, motivation, help, and listening is something that a romantic partner or spouse won't be able to give to you all the time. A platonic best friend however will.

[@icysnow57cold64]

@Yez Kex There are a lot more risks and dangers to romantic relationships than they are to platonic relationships. Why do you think most fathers and brothers don't act the same way towards their daughter's or sister's platonic male friends as they do towards a potential boyfriend? It's because they know there's a much higher chance someone could potentially get hurt in a romantic relationship compared to a platonic relationship. No matter what, a lot of fathers seem to hate it whenever their daughter has a boyfriend (even if he is a good guy). There are even shirts made for daughters that say "I'M NOT ALLOWED TO EVER DATE" and shirts made for fathers that say "DADS AGAINST DAUGHTERS DATING". There's also a lot of other shirts and merchandise made for fathers that say stuff like "Rules for dating my daughter: #1. You can't!" or "Before you date my daughter, know this: I'm a dad with a shotgun, a shovel, and a backyard."

[@icysnow57cold64]

Most fathers don't want their daughters to have anything to do with boys outside of being friends. Many fathers won't allow their daughters to date when they are in high school or still living with them. I have also heard many fathers on the internet say that they hate the idea of their daughter having a boyfriend someday, and are completely against it. So it seems to me that most fathers don't ever want their daughters to date and be in a romantic relationship with a guy. The same thing can be said about brothers and sisters too. No matter what, a lot of brothers seem to hate it whenever their sister has a boyfriend (even if the guy is a good guy). And I have also too have heard many brothers on the internet say that they hate the idea of their sister having a boyfriend someday, and are completely against it. And so it seems to me that most brothers (like fathers) don't ever want their sisters to date and be in a romantic relationship with a guy. So it seems that most fathers don't ever want their daughters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone, and it also seems that most brothers don't ever want their sisters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone, and so to me, it seems that a lot of fathers and brothers don't ever want their daughters/sisters to have a husband someday.

[@icysnow57cold64]

I don't blame them though for thinking that way since romantic love and romantic relationships can be a bad thing for someone since a broken heart can cause a person a lot of pain, and there's a lot of risks of someone getting emotionally and/or physically hurt in a romantic relationship. Platonic relationships don't have that many risks or dangers in them, and that's why most fathers and brothers don't make a big deal about their daughters or sisters having platonic male friends, but make a big deal when they have a boyfriend (or potential boyfriend). Most fathers and brothers usually like their daughter's or sister's platonic male friends, while they usually dislike their daughter's or sister's boyfriends (or potential boyfriends). So that's another reason why platonic relationships are better. So those could also be other reasons why the concept of romantic relationships isn't a good thing because of how protective fathers and brothers tend to be whenever their daughter or sister dates someone since they are afraid that the boyfriend will be a pervert that will make their daughter or sister uncomfortable (also break her heart or abuse her).

[@sarahphillips7593]

Okay so my now boyfriend has always had this study buddy and friend and they link up their class schedules and stuff for study purposes and honestly it’s fine. I understand she was there before I was and I’m sure he’s not cheating. Mainly because she’s 1. Not to be hateful but based on research (internet stalking) he’s not his type (and he unfortunately has a type and I am within it and it is humbling- the type being et looking ass chicks) 2. She has a bf herself 3. He’s been cheated on twice and I don’t think he would do that. BUT they do hangout ALOT. And we’ve been talking for almost a year now and just made it official a month or two ago and I’m worried because summers ending and I just know with his school schedule and studying stuff they will be spending a lot of time together again. And I just find myself already getting jealous and I of course don’t let him see that side because I love him. But I just really do get jealous of the time they spend and the friendly bond they have and I know he talks to her more on things that aggravate him than me because she understands it better. I just feel like I’m not good enough sometimes because their relationship is harmless but it’s strong and it holds more reign over ours. I love him so much I just wish I could be the one to give him that companionship. I just want to know what I can do to feel better about the situation? I’ll take any advice someone’s willing to give. Side note: We all are in our early 20s and they take the same medical school classes and only reason I haven’t said anything is because I would assume it would maybe be immature and rude if he stopped talking to her because I told him to. I respect him in knowing that could possibly be a colleague one day. (Sorry reading back on the first part of my comment made me realize that I might seem delusional but I really cannot comprehend his notes or what he talks about when it comes to school or his work and he understands that. And that’s why I’ve realized I can’t ask him to give her up basically if I care about him.)

[@bindello76]

I'm an example of that you should be wary of your man's girl best friends 😂

[@AmeliaBedelia9087]

What happened? 😢

[@sansastark1451]

Me too. Girl best friend will try to take your place and then pretend like nothing happened ! And if you ever try to talk it out to any of them, your man will hate you LOL

[@ms_n.a]

@@sansastark1451 truee ! And now he chose her over me as if im the villain and the problematic one

[@sansastark1451]

@@ms_n.aomg that is so disrespectful. you're better off without him , sis ! 💪💪

[@ms_n.a]

@@sansastark1451 i did :) , already broke up with him 2 months ago.. still healing ❤️‍🩹

[@brandonwilliams2165]

He's not your husband. Let it go

[@sarvadnyajoshi1301]

1k likes complete 😇

[@trishaky]

im so much in pain when my boyfriend shared me that his girl best friend told him that she falls inlove with him 😢

[@kimferrer2534]

Search this when my boyfriend female friend ask my boyfriend to drive her home cause she's drunk

[@JenaBato]

Are you okay guys if your fiancee talking his girl bestfriend almost everyday.

[@shrinidhipatil335]

Can't agree with first point

[@SureshBabu-ts6vx]

മദാമ്മ തന്നെ എനിക്കിഷ്ടമായി

[@rosemariemerzlak8692]

This all causes insecurity in the first place. Who has time for that.

[@rosemariemerzlak8692]

No

[@theresapowell-thomas5698]

Rubbish. A boyfriend should be investing in his girlfriend. End of. Have respect. Lose the other women and care how your girlfriend feel’s. This is reality. She will be gone. Don’t tip toe around this. Get rid of the female hanger’s on. Or lose your girlfriend. True story.

[@rosemariemerzlak3856]

Find a new boyfriend

[@theresapowell-thomas5698]

Get rid!!!