My boyfriend of 5 years turned out to be gay

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@giggle77
@giggle77 3 күн бұрын
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@joshuamccleery9976
@joshuamccleery9976 10 күн бұрын
That is some of the most impressive acting I have ever seen. I know it’s re-constructed from a real story, but the actors really make it feel real. They’re on another level.
@Firespawnable
@Firespawnable 10 күн бұрын
Yeah they should be in a k-drama together with this as a storyline
@kiorodjirane8517
@kiorodjirane8517 10 күн бұрын
Yes, that some great acting here. It's obvious with the setting that it's acting but for a second they make me doubt. And that how good it was. :o
@Firespawnable
@Firespawnable 10 күн бұрын
@@kiorodjirane8517 We don't know they could be acting from personal experience. A lot of people have dated some one that turned out to be gay.
@christi-anncook9738
@christi-anncook9738 10 күн бұрын
I understand that she's not mad at the fact that he's gay, but the fact the he was faking the love and giving her false hope for 5 years.😢 I mean if you knew or were ever uncomfortable during just say it when you start doubt, don't waste her time😓
@CoolNumber1
@CoolNumber1 10 күн бұрын
Society dont like gay, and his parents probably don't allow him to be open, so he has no choice but to keep to himself.
@shamkand
@shamkand 10 күн бұрын
@@Noatak-ce3qd Makes 0 sense, if he is gay he was not attracted to her at all, should not have entered a relationship.
@etcwhatever
@etcwhatever 10 күн бұрын
​@@Noatak-ce3qd yeah sure let's waste a woman's limited time span to have children because of his feelings. It's a dick move
@HigumaHoney
@HigumaHoney 10 күн бұрын
@@Noatak-ce3qd or rather he didn't speak because he knew he was guilty of using her as a closet to hide his homosexuality.
@kimpletschette9215
@kimpletschette9215 10 күн бұрын
It could also have been bc korea is very homophobic and has very heteronormative social expectations. I understand how hard it must have been for the girl and I don't excuse his behavior, but I understand it. He probably just was afraid and it might as well could have been dangerous for him to come out:(
@soniadamerchie2576
@soniadamerchie2576 10 күн бұрын
Be true and honest about yourself, say who you really are. Don't lie to someone, hurt there feelings and being fake.
@nadofjames9978
@nadofjames9978 10 күн бұрын
Merci Amen
@kimpletschette9215
@kimpletschette9215 10 күн бұрын
I get what you mean and think you're right...but I also get the guy. It is very difficult to come out in a conservative/homphobic society like Korea...even in more progressive places it can still be very dangerous to be true to yourself, due to social expectations and norms. I guess he was just trying to fit in.
@soniadamerchie2576
@soniadamerchie2576 10 күн бұрын
@kimpletschette9215 yes that's true to
@Kajukissmiss-g6w
@Kajukissmiss-g6w 10 күн бұрын
But still don't date, don't ruin other people, if you are scared to come out just don't date to fit in, there are many staright people who do not date, pretend to be them in society rather then pretend to be a straight that date, how cab risk.someone else for you, that's extremly immoral
@georgeoust
@georgeoust 9 күн бұрын
From my understanding he realised he’s gay only recently, not before dating. Idk how this conversation came to be, either by him getting caught or him confessing he is actually gay. He does mention his gay friends helped him a lot which makes me suspect they’re the ones that helped him come to terms with it, and probably very recently, and hence why this discussion is happening now. It’s a very tough situation for both, but unfortunately it’s quite common, especially in homophobic societies. This isn’t California or New York, where being gay is normalised and people can easily come to terms with it, tho it still happens even there.
@exodia6579
@exodia6579 10 күн бұрын
I feel bad for both of them. The pain the both of them are going through. Gosh that sucks. One feels deceived/betrayed and the other feels isolated/having to hide. 😢😢
@phoenixj1299
@phoenixj1299 10 күн бұрын
It's not real
@maryam-nusa
@maryam-nusa 10 күн бұрын
@@phoenixj1299the story is real but the people who come on are actors representing said story
@exodia6579
@exodia6579 9 күн бұрын
@ I know it’s not real, the story is. I’m just a big softie, sorry. 😅
@Rosa-xg4vd
@Rosa-xg4vd 9 күн бұрын
F**k you!!!! why do you feel bad for him he is the one who cheated on her and hid it from her she is the only one who got hurt!!!!
@BetterMe-f6d
@BetterMe-f6d 8 күн бұрын
For them??? Them? He is truly an unforgivable monster.
@just_swiftly_shake_it_off_1989
@just_swiftly_shake_it_off_1989 8 күн бұрын
THIS ACTING WAS ACTUALLY GOOD. LIKE ACTUALLY.
@Влад-ю8ф
@Влад-ю8ф 7 күн бұрын
ur mom is acting good
@BramishaBramble
@BramishaBramble 7 күн бұрын
​@@Влад-ю8ф💀
@7fii
@7fii 4 күн бұрын
Shut up this is real idiot
@debduttapathak8588
@debduttapathak8588 4 күн бұрын
They are actors only they are just portraying a real life story it's not about them in real life ​@@Влад-ю8ф
@julianquixoteen
@julianquixoteen 4 күн бұрын
hoe this is real
@Okbokdok.78
@Okbokdok.78 6 күн бұрын
the actors are on another level, the way they acted was impressive
@sebinnn0402
@sebinnn0402 10 күн бұрын
this must be really upsetting for the both of them.. she must be really heartbroken that he was dating her for such a long time knowing there were no actual feelings from his side has to feel extremely betraying. on the other side being in a relationship with a girl when you don't even like them has to be really mentally draining. i genuinely feel bad so for the both of them, 5 years is a long time and in the end both of them ended up being miserable.
@Faiziscreations
@Faiziscreations 10 күн бұрын
He probably lied to survive in this socitey. But if I was him, I would definitely tell her before dating.
@LohClayderman
@LohClayderman 10 күн бұрын
agree
@Xeno-MOBA
@Xeno-MOBA 10 күн бұрын
To survive society he shouldn't have agreed to be in the show in the first place, but they get paid I guess, altho they are real feelings, money wins and it's sad
@Faiziscreations
@Faiziscreations 10 күн бұрын
@@Xeno-MOBA that's the reality
@nqzlni2667
@nqzlni2667 10 күн бұрын
​@@Xeno-MOBAthey are actors but the story is real
@maxm.m.7219
@maxm.m.7219 10 күн бұрын
These are actors recreating the stories and conversations of the real people. These aren't the real people.​@@Xeno-MOBA
@seungcheolhenggarae3034
@seungcheolhenggarae3034 9 күн бұрын
i got panic attacks few times after i found out that my ex is gay. i can't imagine being in her position
@millevenon5853
@millevenon5853 2 күн бұрын
Why? How did you find out?
@Jack_Ragnarsson
@Jack_Ragnarsson 10 күн бұрын
I think it's fair to mention that in some communities and family's that are very/ultra religious/conservative there is the tendency to think that if you suppress your feelings and "be straight" it will make you straight. When really you're in the closet suffering for how many years because if you come out you have much to loose like family or standing in the community etc. Where I grew up it very common to see that, I've seen people get divorced after 20 years because they're just so unhappy living a lie. But it's also unfair to your partner if you're lying to them as well.
@rabseh1
@rabseh1 7 күн бұрын
Faking love and relationships is deeply the most unforgivable, hurtful thing to do. You should always tell someone before it's too late! This can create grudges! This can ruin relationships 😢
@davidparkes3701
@davidparkes3701 9 күн бұрын
Boyfriend for 5 years sums it up right there. If he didn't already try to put a ring on it, he wasn't planning to.
@Lablynx-h3s
@Lablynx-h3s 7 күн бұрын
Context is not very clear, but from my understanding, I think he discovered his true gender, possibly during his relationship with her. For those defending the guy, he may have faced social pressure, but why did he keep the girl if he realized he was gay? He should have broken up with her, but he didn’t. This clearly shows he was using her to his advantage and pretending to be a straight guy in front of others. This is definitely bullshit and cannot be justified. I almost had a heart attack when I found out my ex was gay, and I let him go. So, I can understand what the girl is going through. Never use people for your advantage.
@shuris_vibranium
@shuris_vibranium 10 күн бұрын
I've seen some videos like this where it was a sort of reenactment of conversations between people in these situations based on a reddit post or something. Always interesting to watch when the actors are good at their performances.
@georgestoo-rf4sj
@georgestoo-rf4sj 7 күн бұрын
The boy is a coward ! He makes the girl waste 5 years of her life .
@Bluebalz-n2q
@Bluebalz-n2q 5 сағат бұрын
Shut your mouth, korea is like the most homophobic place in the world, whatever this story eas based of off, the guy definitely never lived a normal life after this. He lied to survive, better to lose five years than the rest of your life.
@love-5f
@love-5f 4 күн бұрын
I appreciate this men honesty. There are lots of married men who hook up with boys behind wifes. I use to get lots of DM in Instagram from married men. So before you have wife or kids, just because honest. Don't hurt everyone around you by acting straight.
@MangaKnightg
@MangaKnightg 10 күн бұрын
I think they need a hug
@Hynjinn4
@Hynjinn4 9 күн бұрын
Yes
@Yaz-j4y
@Yaz-j4y 8 күн бұрын
She does make some good points
@darronmarcel3261
@darronmarcel3261 8 күн бұрын
this actually happened to me.. i have a hard time telling the truth that im gay.. so whenever a girl likes me, I'll take it as chance to go back to "normal" or straight as people say... i tried but im still looking at guys anyway.. and then i end up telling her that im just not ready for a relationship...
@Alex_BLACKPINK09
@Alex_BLACKPINK09 9 күн бұрын
I’m gay and in my opinion its wrong that he didnt tell her earlier. Dont hide anything from ur partner.
@raymondleongdiva
@raymondleongdiva 7 күн бұрын
It's wrong to keep a secret when there are emotions involved... one's sexual orientation is nothing to be ashamed about but when it involves another person's feelings that's when it crosses the line and it only brings hurt to everyone ..not only themselves but their friends and families ...he should have done it right from the start but five years is just bad on his part ...
@Cosmarae
@Cosmarae 8 күн бұрын
You should always tell the truth to your partner, whether you're gay or anything else. An uncomfortable truth is better than a comforting lie.
@happysheep9941
@happysheep9941 8 күн бұрын
He stole her 5 years of love that's messed up
@rxlhr7134
@rxlhr7134 8 күн бұрын
She has every right to be mad but us as a watcher keep in mind that he also been through a lot with who he is, he would not do this if the society just let him live his fucking life man
@NateWithWho
@NateWithWho 10 күн бұрын
know yourself, accept yourself so you don't live in a lie and hurt yourself and others.
@gkpoCS
@gkpoCS 10 күн бұрын
* 본 영상은 실제 사연을 바탕으로 재구성했습니다. This video was directed based on a real story
@Asahi_Almaliki
@Asahi_Almaliki 8 күн бұрын
So they actting the real STORY
@ecytb7042
@ecytb7042 10 күн бұрын
its fine to be gay but if you date a girl just said you bi just be honest. She got feeling too.. 5 years its a lot.
@dirty_white_tee17
@dirty_white_tee17 10 күн бұрын
bro why would you lie about being bi if you're gay.
@ecytb7042
@ecytb7042 10 күн бұрын
@ well he date her for 5 years I don’t think a real gay man can be with a girl for 5 years and feeling nothing maybe now he just gay cause after dating a man he realise he maybe only like guys.
@okokokbrobroh
@okokokbrobroh 10 күн бұрын
​@@ecytb7042 theres this thing called denial. one could spent almost their entire lives in one, faking themselves and all. if ur gay ur just gay is all im saying
@nwlrma
@nwlrma 10 күн бұрын
You straight folks always in queer people’s business like do you even hear yourself and how dumb you sound rn? 😭 There are quer people tryna stay undercover just to survive in a homophobic society. Real gay men marry women and have kids just to fulfill their family’s expectations, which is messed up but still real
@minnies_boot
@minnies_boot 10 күн бұрын
@@ecytb7042there are gay men who are literally married to a woman because many different reasons like religion, or to fit in with their community.
@samtproperty
@samtproperty 9 күн бұрын
이게 실화를 바탕으로 한 거라면 그녀도 정말 잘 연기했고 그 남자도 그랬어요. 이 두 사람이 한국 네트워크의 대작 영화에 실제로 출연할 수 있다고는 상상도 못하겠네요.
@thavelasco
@thavelasco 8 күн бұрын
What a horrible person he is! She didn’t deserve any of that!!!
@Bluebalz-n2q
@Bluebalz-n2q 5 сағат бұрын
How does that make him a horrible person? Horrible is a strong word so dont go throwing things around.
@Hellokitty_391
@Hellokitty_391 10 күн бұрын
The way this wouldn't happen if the society is not heteronormative
@Beautycomesoutofashes
@Beautycomesoutofashes 9 күн бұрын
There’s a reason for that.
@seriouslyanything8005
@seriouslyanything8005 9 күн бұрын
oh my fucking god, why do you guys have to blame society for everything? he's a lying, cheating manipulator. end of story.
@Hellokitty_391
@Hellokitty_391 8 күн бұрын
@@Beautycomesoutofashes mind to elaborate?
@str.nickxx
@str.nickxx 7 күн бұрын
Fr
@realistnightshade6300
@realistnightshade6300 6 күн бұрын
@@Beautycomesoutofashes There's no good reason for that
@diyawoo
@diyawoo 4 күн бұрын
I know it's just acting, but watching that conversation gave me anxiety and left me feeling unsettled. It triggered my trust issues, making them spike. The kind of fear portrayed in that scene feels haunting, something that could linger in your mind. I genuinely hope no one ever has to go through such a situation, whether it's the guy or the girl.
@bdxxean1995
@bdxxean1995 9 күн бұрын
As viewers, we do not know the background of the story and if he was already sure of his sexual orientation when he began his romantic relationship with the girl, if that is the case, I think it is very selfish that he uses the feelings of others as a shield against the criticism from society, if during the time of the relationship, he began to realize his orientation, I think he also had a bad reaction when he began to process it, since he preferred to talk about it with friends, before talking to his partner about it...I just hope that he accepts himself completely and the girl managed to move forward and heal that wound
@vegan.rex_8
@vegan.rex_8 10 күн бұрын
A membership!? Everything is a subscription these days isn't it!?
@Fujoshi_Noona-e3r
@Fujoshi_Noona-e3r 9 күн бұрын
I HATE IT
@ramendoy
@ramendoy 3 сағат бұрын
I feel so bad for her. One person chose to lie to her and deceive her for years. Because they couldn’t handle the truth.
@heinrichharkonen2084
@heinrichharkonen2084 10 күн бұрын
Tongqi is a Chinese term for women who are married to gay men
@maryam-nusa
@maryam-nusa 10 күн бұрын
In English it’s called a beard
@charlie6923
@charlie6923 8 күн бұрын
And the inverse is called a "bra"
@HayoungKoreaFoodLuvr
@HayoungKoreaFoodLuvr 7 күн бұрын
I feel bad for her, she must be super mad about this fake love he was giving her
@rashi.r_0418
@rashi.r_0418 6 күн бұрын
Don't cry my girl 😢❤ I'm here for you 😣💔
@TheSweetTeaBoy
@TheSweetTeaBoy 9 күн бұрын
Oh man, it sure looks to me like crazy things might be going on now that he’s told her he’s gay after they’ve been together for 5 years. But still, I wonder they will do now that the truth has finally been revealed between both of them though 😮
@leomendez3195
@leomendez3195 10 күн бұрын
damn that dude done this girl dirty AF for 5 damn long years bruh
@Spectacular9
@Spectacular9 9 күн бұрын
People in the comment have a tendency to pick side or inadvertently try to justify whose experience was "more" painful. If you really think about it, it's a sad experience on both sides. We shouldn't default our mind to measure pain. Pain is pain, period. I know it's acting, but for the real couple that are out there, they both deserve to be happy. Moral of the story: check in with your partner once in a while to make sure both your needs and desires continue to align.
@BastabBorthakur
@BastabBorthakur 4 күн бұрын
I feel so bad for her..i am literally crying right now
@heinrichharkonen2084
@heinrichharkonen2084 10 күн бұрын
Now imagine how many kpop idols and celebrities are also gay but won't come out
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 10 күн бұрын
I totally agree but sadly many are still homophobic and think everyone is straight, which is most likely not the case.
@HigumaHoney
@HigumaHoney 10 күн бұрын
idk, they have a lot more societal mobility than the average civilian.
@heinrichharkonen2084
@heinrichharkonen2084 10 күн бұрын
@HigumaHoney do they? They can't even date
@HigumaHoney
@HigumaHoney 10 күн бұрын
@@heinrichharkonen2084 most celebs date in secret anyway, unless they're both celebs.
@heinrichharkonen2084
@heinrichharkonen2084 10 күн бұрын
@ Holland is dating a not-celeb man
@GoGoPooerRangers
@GoGoPooerRangers 8 күн бұрын
It’s ironic how society, particularly in South Korea, continues to either ignore or view homosexuality negatively, and yet seems surprised when LGBTQ+ individuals feel compelled to suppress or conceal their true identities. Who shaped society in this manner? In South Korea, especially as one reaches a certain age, parents often begin to pressure their children with questions like, "When are you getting married?" and "When will you give me grandchildren?" If society does not evolve towards greater openness and acceptance, this pattern is likely to persist.
@tatasmiles
@tatasmiles 9 күн бұрын
I whole heartedly support the LGBTQ community but this is not a noble behavior. You can't fake loving a person and giving them hopes that too for 5 years
@santana_s
@santana_s 10 күн бұрын
He didn't turn gay, he was already gay since he was born
@asylnbola1445
@asylnbola1445 10 күн бұрын
Lmao but how gay men will date with girl and have sex with them? He's must be bi
@BetterMe-f6d
@BetterMe-f6d 8 күн бұрын
Do not lie to yourself. No one is born gay .. Rather, they turn to this because of the dispersal and wrong ideas that are planted in their mind
@femalecosjayzechristineand2520
@femalecosjayzechristineand2520 8 күн бұрын
I never understood why people had to label on how a person love, loving is loving whats the difference?
@elisabeth73
@elisabeth73 7 күн бұрын
It's unacceptable to betray like this. I don't care that you are in a society that doesn't accept it. In Korea it's common to be single and not have a relationship. Even be a virgin in late age. You do not fool with someone like that.
@Eunhyukglazer
@Eunhyukglazer 9 күн бұрын
OH HOW I HATE HIM
@VinnBae
@VinnBae 9 күн бұрын
Those saying he wasted her time is probably true because he did it for 5 years and the girl probably thought he was the one and wanted to marry, who wont after dating 5 years with someone you loved, yeah yeah the guy had it bad too, they didnt suffer equally even if they did suffer, the girl's going to have more depressed and hard to move on, and how can the guy flirt with his guy friends if he has a girl friend, since he is gay its like a man in relationship flirting with women,his girlbestfriends, whatever, the guy dragged the act for 5 long years himself he made the it go on for alot of years, he is regreting alot probably, he should have said it at the start so the girl wont be so hurt because dating 5 uears with him only made her fell inlove more, some people defending the guy saying he suffered more are gays themselves🤦 i saw it okay, but please just because ur gay too dont think he suffered more, sometimes keeping it in urself just creates problem when u dont try to slove it, think carefully, you can think of how much pressured he felt, hiding he was gay and afriad to com out and be hated by society that, why dont you think the same way for the girl of how she was inlove and how it broke her, okay, whatever i am not saying the girl or guy suffered morebecause someone gonna come bite and take the words to their throats
@amibae9157
@amibae9157 9 күн бұрын
Hes soooo pretty
@mademoisellejasu4188
@mademoisellejasu4188 14 сағат бұрын
I know it's a reconstructed from a real story but I'm giving my opinion, because I know that really happens. I myself had a "more than just friends but not official" date that turned out to be gay. Well, I know it's not easy for both parts. But we have to consider it all as a whole. He probably was struggling with himself to "not being gay". He was probably trying to make her happy and feel happy as well. Trust me, no one simply wants to be gay. It's a terrible struggle to itself till you finally accept and have courage to be who you are. Before that, you will deny it for yourself trying to believe you can change it. I know her pain. I know it's not easy. But she should focus on their good moments together. I'm pretty sure they had wonderful moments during their relationship, otherwise they wouldn't make it to 5 years. Reality sometimes turn your whole life 360°. But we have to try to adjust, accept and heal in order to move on and finding happiness somewhere else. Stoicism.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 10 күн бұрын
This is why you always need to be honest from the beginning. I was mad at my boyfriend when he was not honest about a few things at the beginning, but thank goodness they are minor. If it was something big like this, I would be heartbroken. I feel so bad for her.😢 I feel bad for him too but he should have been honest regardless of how much it hurt. However, it is hard to come out in a homophobic society.
@BLUE-iv8xy
@BLUE-iv8xy 11 сағат бұрын
이건 한국이 문제야.. 사회가 저렇게 만든거임 한국은 동성애자 라고 하면 죽여야 한다고 생각 하는 사람들 때문에 인식이 개판이 된 나머지 자기자신을 속이고 또 타인이 상처를 받는 거임
@jermainerodgers
@jermainerodgers 9 күн бұрын
They are very good at acting..
@EliR-qp6bp
@EliR-qp6bp 5 күн бұрын
"We used to be close, but people can go From people you know to people you don't And what hurts the most is people can go From people you know to people you don't" Selena Gomez Do you know the last song that played in the video?
@KPOPorANIME_123
@KPOPorANIME_123 5 күн бұрын
You gotta be truthful about ur self don't hide ur true self ❤❤❤
@aila2010.
@aila2010. 2 күн бұрын
This diabolical act caused many people to be wounded and destroyed human instinct only when the world suddenly affiliated with Satan
@EvaMariam-e5b
@EvaMariam-e5b 9 күн бұрын
i thought this was actually real for a moment..until i read the comment it was re-constructed from a real story😭..something i wont understand is why do u keep quite if u cheat on ur partner? its just gonna hurt them more..i dont get it..
@tokyoroots
@tokyoroots 4 күн бұрын
The problem is that he wasted 5 years of her time. Nothing wrong with being gay, but everything is wrong with deceiving someone.
@Readman_san
@Readman_san 8 күн бұрын
Truly when you love something everything becomes ghosted. Just look how pretty and emotional she is and still he is attracted to boys.gays. . Truly love is blind of whatever kind it can be
@realzia2
@realzia2 7 күн бұрын
What an asshole, wasted 5 whole years of her life when she could've met a guy who genuinely loved her and potentially be her soulmate
@Ivy-xz2xl
@Ivy-xz2xl 10 күн бұрын
I feel like I'm watching a kdrama, but real.😮
@nonouy8610
@nonouy8610 9 күн бұрын
we don't judge both of them. we nearly spectators. We Are Not part of it. we never walked those shoes even if we did it's not ours to begin with
@Theaspirantdiary-v666
@Theaspirantdiary-v666 9 күн бұрын
Both side in pain 😭
@heinrichharkonen2084
@heinrichharkonen2084 10 күн бұрын
Gay marriage must be legalized in South Korea
@rainbowsubs2
@rainbowsubs2 10 күн бұрын
Like Ariana Grande once said “I would rather he cheats on me with a guy than with a girl any day! If I found out my boyfriend was gay, I would be like 'OK!' I'd be so relieved."
@Aight7
@Aight7 10 күн бұрын
You cannot be real... Cheating is cheating. And not only cheating... He was lying to her the whole time! And Ariana Grande should be the last talking about cheating!
@rainbowsubs2
@rainbowsubs2 10 күн бұрын
@@Aight7 u dont get it, ari means that she knows she cant compete with a man and that she would be happy that her ex bf is out and free cuz she understands systemic opression. also she is THE ariana grande she can cheat on whoever she wants.
@SaiSaranya-ol1bd
@SaiSaranya-ol1bd 10 күн бұрын
Wait i love ari too but what u said doesn't makes sense ​@rainbowsubs2
@MCFCJake
@MCFCJake 9 күн бұрын
Not that cheater talking about cheating herself.....😂😂😂😂I can't care less if she is Ariana Grande or whoever tf else, a cheat is a cheat no matter what. This is like a terror!st talking about world peace😂😂
@AminaBimagambetova
@AminaBimagambetova 9 күн бұрын
Same thing happened to me, and we also dating 5 years
@PBWK
@PBWK 7 күн бұрын
Nice job but it was definitely template of Kdrama acting 1) Leading up to being cut off. 2) Hysteria. 3) Sudden 180 in emotion 4) Entrapment in repetition. 4) Moment of silence at peak 5) fashion statement priority for women
@한노아업고튀어
@한노아업고튀어 10 күн бұрын
5년씩이나 사귄 남자친구가 게이이면 진짜 기분 더럽고 수치스럽고 추악 하겠다ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
@tuongmac2263
@tuongmac2263 8 күн бұрын
If he was trying to figure it out himself of his sexual orientation, then it’s OK for me. But he lied to her for five years? He’s already known about what he like, and he still kept it quietly. And she only found out only by looking at his text? That is disgusting.
@charlie6923
@charlie6923 8 күн бұрын
So you've never been afraid to talk about something with anyone? Learn some empathy and do better.
@Cosmarae
@Cosmarae 8 күн бұрын
While empathy is important, cheating and hiding the truth can’t be justified, no matter the situation ​@@charlie6923
@tuongmac2263
@tuongmac2263 8 күн бұрын
@@charlie6923 I have empathy for others but not for liars. As I said, if I have known that about myself, I would not date her, let alone lying to her for 5 years. wtf????? You don't have to tell her, just break up with her anyway.
@miraspaho5562
@miraspaho5562 6 күн бұрын
Why you don't let incest ? They are better then gays. You people have not limes and only thinking of the lust and sex
@anuruksuriyaarachchi3988
@anuruksuriyaarachchi3988 8 күн бұрын
How? No way. Actually, it's hard to put blame on anyone but it ended with pain.
@LalalalisaPark_m
@LalalalisaPark_m 10 күн бұрын
He wasted her time😢 Gay ppl please don't use straight ppl for your safty
@canitay
@canitay 10 күн бұрын
Most of the time straight ppl go to Gay ones and most of these gay ones have to accept. Because.. you must know how Korea is..
@hypernova9363
@hypernova9363 9 күн бұрын
I don’t think you know what it’s like for us.
@georgeoust
@georgeoust 9 күн бұрын
Something tells me you’re a tini tiny bit homophobic… Also I feel like most ppl, mainly ppl like you, completely missed the context. It seems that he only realized he’s gay recently, not before dating her.
@nikaveter1856
@nikaveter1856 7 күн бұрын
It's your problem. there is no need to solve them with the help of straight people ​@@hypernova9363
@miraspaho5562
@miraspaho5562 6 күн бұрын
For people like is hell right. F ass
@trexistar5987
@trexistar5987 9 күн бұрын
Have they been dating for 5 years without intimacy? If they did, then he's not gay, probably bi, and cheated her with a man. If they did not, then how could she not tell something wrong? Hard to tell without full details but doesn't sound a healthy relationship from the beginning to me 🤔
@BetterMe-f6d
@BetterMe-f6d 8 күн бұрын
Even homosexual men can be intimate with girls ... because it is the instinct that is a high
@Thedevilswings
@Thedevilswings 7 күн бұрын
What a narrow minded view. Intimacy doesn't correlate to feelings and both men/women can do it w/o feeling attracted to their partner. Did you know men can also fake it? Also, it doesn't mean he cheated. Where did that conclusion even come from? You don't get to decide if someone is "probably bi." That decision is left to the person and that person only. Sexuality and intimacy are both a journey with varying timelines. Your conclusions are gross and homophobic.
@trexistar5987
@trexistar5987 6 күн бұрын
​@Thedevilswings homophobic? o_o ok... I mean if I'm with someone for 5 years and they never showed romantic feelings towards me (not ncessary bed stuff) then something is wrong. I'm lezbian myself and I can never fake it with a man. The other indvidsual might have been forced to fake it cuz being gay is taboo and it's hard to tell without details. Wich I said.. I find your reply incoherent "men can fake it but not cheating?" "Someone having intimacy with both genders isn't bi?" And going all offensive and rude calling someone gross and homophobic, now who's coming with conclusions? Where we could have had a more civilized conversation if something wasn't clear about my post. Therefore I refuse to reply anymore to immature and narrow minded people like you. Drink some tea, calm yourself and think twice about what you're saying before attacking others.
@miraspaho5562
@miraspaho5562 6 күн бұрын
Gross? Homosexuality is sin. Gross is to sexualizing a society when the same gender then should be innocent friendship is about f.. that is gross. When male makes woman less matters. And want to makes her less matters as mom. And you're girl? Go lean some limts and moral. Not hole mean right.
@toruinouelover
@toruinouelover 4 күн бұрын
All the religious ppl in the comment really don’t get it. You guys say that being gay is a sin, but force of us gay people to date the opposite gender forcefully and now you get surprised that you can’t force us to change sexuality no matter what…? Your logic doesn’t make sense
@ATzy-u3r
@ATzy-u3r 9 күн бұрын
Not at all condoning his action and he is at 101% fault but I know where he stand and why he did what he did . For those who are not gay or bi or etc won’t understand this deep and it’s completely okay to have an opinion about it but it’s not that simple as “be yourself” sometime society is so toxic that you have to do something drastic to blend in not coz you are scared but coz you don’t want to hurt your love ones especially your parents as they get the hardest slap from the society coz of our action.So you try so hard to change thinking “maybe I can change if I date a guy/girl” and make the most f*cked up decision for yourself as well as for your partner and the worst part is some friends force you and degrade to try dating someone you can never have feelings for and even set things up without you being ready for it .Nobody has the right to drag a person for 5 years in lie as that’s so selfish but at times we also try so hard to find solution to keep everyone safe and be happy yet in those desperate time we make those stupid mistakes but it’s rather to let your partner know who you are if he/she won’t expose and harass about it (if she/he is not trustworthy to keep your secret and you can’t come out to the society then better don’t waste their time as it’s hard for everyone to unlove someone after years of dedication and connection)
@aichach6151
@aichach6151 7 күн бұрын
I had thé same expérience but in my case he married me the I discovered that he is gay it was big choc for me then we divoreced never do it please it hurts extreamly
@lipq0
@lipq0 9 күн бұрын
Good actors
@thit6099
@thit6099 8 күн бұрын
Who is she? Her acting is so good, does anyone know her name??
@jk-il6lw
@jk-il6lw 10 күн бұрын
Yes but why is he so fine 🥴
@rawanabid1876
@rawanabid1876 8 күн бұрын
He looks like actor Oh Seung-yoon
@AadithyaThapanakula
@AadithyaThapanakula 5 күн бұрын
Yeah it's really tough for both of them For her it is fake love For gays like me i completely realised that i am gay when i turned to be 18 yeah its crazy, but for some people like me , we have other supid knowledges but not the fact that gayness cannot be cured, but we live in the ignorence that ONE DAY!! I will become normal And unfortunately that day never came
@cutestgiirl5709
@cutestgiirl5709 10 күн бұрын
PARTE 2 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🙌🏽
@lofiiscool24
@lofiiscool24 5 күн бұрын
i feel like he didnt want his parents to find out he was gay so he dated a girl just imo
@Yna56
@Yna56 10 күн бұрын
this feels like acting is this real?
@ClayPusing
@ClayPusing 10 күн бұрын
I love boys love but this just really hurts me😢
@hypernova9363
@hypernova9363 9 күн бұрын
Dude, we don’t exist for your entertainment, and we aren’t your fetish
@markuslank9724
@markuslank9724 9 күн бұрын
This is so terrible . That girl is very sad . And poor. Never need lie with love
@debduttapathak8588
@debduttapathak8588 4 күн бұрын
I dont hate gays i hate the fact that he concealed from her the truth and faked his love for her
@IceIceBaby24
@IceIceBaby24 4 күн бұрын
Am I watching Kdrama? hahahahaha
@YuG015
@YuG015 9 күн бұрын
Same story
@integreetkonstruksi4628
@integreetkonstruksi4628 6 күн бұрын
Why they agree to do this. I can't understand. Even if they did given money, i don't think this is ok.
@xxcrazyboy88xx
@xxcrazyboy88xx 7 күн бұрын
This sad story is society's fault. Here you can see what oppression and inacceptance can do! Stereotypes are long out of date! Everyone should be allowed to be happy! Change and progress are needed to create love and happiness, not to suppress it or keep it silent. Everything that is here causes fear, sadness and all kinds of harm. Different opinions are OK and do not have to be forced upon people. Everyone should have the right to have a good life. You want to be happy, so let others be happy! Isn't that fair?
@양파년
@양파년 5 күн бұрын
저건 남자가 쓰레기임 게이여서 그런건 아니고 자기가 게이인데 여친 계속 만나고 그러니까 한번 커밍아웃 하면 여친 입장에서는 배신감과 자기 때문에 자유롭게 연애를 못했다는 죄책감이 생기는거임 ㅠㅠㅠ
@SK-zi3sr
@SK-zi3sr 5 күн бұрын
Ok 5 years in a relationship, idk how you manage that, yea i get hiding ur sexuality to feel safe and whatnot but in a relationship with a female for 5 years , as a guy guy i dont get that either
@lydiamawi-tn4mx
@lydiamawi-tn4mx 10 күн бұрын
What a poor girl 😭😭😭😭i can feel the pain❤️‍🩹
@Lil_CarCrash
@Lil_CarCrash 6 күн бұрын
I dont know what to think but i do think 5 years is a little too long…
@Heymantq
@Heymantq 10 күн бұрын
I genuinely have a doubt is this real or is it just a stage play
@Norah_NSPM
@Norah_NSPM 10 күн бұрын
It's real
@clambloom4539
@clambloom4539 10 күн бұрын
The story is real, but it's told by actors, they said this before in similar videos.
@Satanna.avemaria
@Satanna.avemaria 10 күн бұрын
If it’s fake that’s really bad because it stigmatises an already marginalised group of people.
@clambloom4539
@clambloom4539 10 күн бұрын
@@Satanna.avemaria It's to show different realities, it's not glamorizing it. Plus this is in South Korea, they are years behind in terms of LGBTQ+ acceptance and same rights.
@LalalalisaPark_m
@LalalalisaPark_m 10 күн бұрын
​@@Satanna.avemaria It's real put these ppl are actors Real ppl never came infrount of camara they will say tha real story to them
@kingston4313
@kingston4313 5 күн бұрын
Bae Suzy, is that u?
@Neexienous
@Neexienous 7 күн бұрын
Is this a joke?! You can go to jail for attacking gay people.
@omwtkmsapt
@omwtkmsapt 3 күн бұрын
the caption sounds so ao3
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