My Dad's Journey with Cancer 🌸

[@CheekyVlogs]

Hey guys! I will be back with vlogs from next week! I wanted to put this video out before I put out content. I know its heavily delayed and I am sorry! Also I am pronouncing Hospice wrong the entire video, please do manuchify!

[@Mohammed_sha]

Same colonal cancer happen to my dad in d year 2017 after surgery and 6 chemo cycle... alhumdulillah he was doing great.. again now he is under going with chemo for lymphatic cancer... hope soon he will b back to form... pray for all those who r sick... cancer patient should b surrounded with positive people which helps them to stay positive.... so stay positive, spread peace ..spread love..

[@aravindansethuponselvan1335]

More power to you and your family cheeky, it takes so much power to put out everything and relive the entire journey through the video. Events like this test our entire belief system.I hope putting it out helps you feel a bit relaxed, take care subha ❤🙏🏽

[@sridevisenthilnathan]

I couldn't stop crying.. you are a strong girl cheeky.. and we are all of same age that I can relate and feel the same way you do.. keep moving forward ❤

[@monicapuppy4573]

I feel like crying but at the same time wanting to take good care and spend a lot of time with my parents. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@satwikaasundarrajan2457]

Deepest condolences!! Faced this with my mom and she fought back bravely, so could connect with you on all the details. More power to your family!!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@raushislifestyle7508]

Very sorry to hear your loss. I too lost my dad to the same few months back. I could relate to every word you spoke. As a daughter I totally understand what you are going through.

[@drabbhinaya5078]

Very unfortunate! Being thrown at a situation with zero experience, at the same time knowing that it is ticking time bomb, you have done your best! Sending prayer and condolences to your family for this huge loss.

[@akshayanarasiman72]

Tightest hugs to you Subha.. its not easy to come up and relive (mentally) the entire experience in front of camera. more strength to you! Papa will always be around you. Stay strong.

[@soumyasundararaman7220]

I can feel the pain in your voice! I can also sense that you are holding back your vulnerability! I went through a similar phase in 2023 where i last my father to pancreatic cancer. He passed away within a spam on 1.5 months post diagnosis. I know you have the strength in you to pass this phase but do let out your emotions to people close to you or to yourself! Do not bottle your emotions! More power to you!

[@Nikita-uz8su]

My mom went through this with my thatha. The amount of strength that is needed to witness a loved one going through such a painful illness is unbelievable. Hugs to you and your family.

[@Asha-br9dp]

Such a heart wrenching video. I couldn't hold back my tears. Sorry tht you had to go through so much.. n all over again for the video.. We needed this awareness n I am sure someone's life will be saved..More power to you Cheeky !

[@madhuaadhil9577]

More power and love for you and your family❤️ You are giving more strength to all of us by sharing your dad's cancer journey and your family's journey also🙏

[@pavithrasrinivasan1047]

My deepest condolences.I can really feel how much of pain you must have undergone throughout the process, more power to you and strength and we are all here for you, thanks for educating us. Take care and much love to your whole family.🫂♥️

[@CheekyVlogs]

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[@journophilicgirl2258]

Thank you for spreading awareness ❤ more strength to you🫂

[@pb5452]

More power to you! cheeky. I have been watching you since 2017. I can feel you throughout this video.

[@emilinejoy1111]

Will pray for you and family !! for strength and Kudos to your brave to upload this video virtual tightest hugs 🫂🫂🫂

[@Indraja_editz]

I'm just trying to hold my tears sis..! You're so brave really🫂🫂😔

[@jordanb9363]

It is not easy as a commoner reading & taking deep dive about all the medical things your loved one is going thru, how heart sinking it would be. More power to you cheeky. Your courage is commendable

[@priyalr20]

I also lost my father to colorectal cancer and I can completely relate to everything you’re saying. He will be really proud of you for using this platform to educate others. Your video could save many lives. Thank you and stay strong.

[@PavitirahShivakumar]

More power to you love. Thanks for acknowledging us in a very informative way. Heart wrenched. May he guide all of you from heaven. May his soul rest in peace. Stay strong suba !!

[@IamShajitha]

What a nightmare! My deepest condolences to you and your family. May god give you the strength and patience.

[@abipositive123]

As a 2nd year medical student I used to see many CA cases in surgery postings…but I never thought how it would be for the patient and relatives to accept the fact that they are …literally I’m crying now…Stay strong sis ,!

[@karunyasankar8456]

Thank you Subha for sharing your father's journey. This was very informative. I wish you the best to overcome the grief of losing your father. Look after yourself ❤

[@jannatn9056]

More strength to you and your family.take care dear ❤.

[@dianaak5804]

Thank you for sharing this. Much power to you and your family.

[@preethisudhakaran8889]

Heartfelt condolences. Hope you would always remember the happy memories of your dad which would bring joy. Lots of love to you. Take care

[@SNaveenkumarA]

Tightest hugs for you ka🫂🫂🫂

[@Jolleen]

Thank you Cheeky for sharing everything ❤ the thought that it should be helpful for others is beautiful ❤️ Uncle was...is...and will always be proud of you ❤ Lots of love and big hug 🫂

[@Xylulose99]

Sending more love to you cheeky 🫂❤❤I started watching your videos when I prepared for NEET it used to be my stress buster,then u started ur vlog channel,whenever I feel depressed during my university xams I used to binge it,now watching you as I graduated this year as Doctor you’ve been that one brown girl whom I always related to while I grew up,I’m sure you’ll heal from this stay strong 🫶🏽

[@Arthis_Journal]

Tight hugs to you dear….🥹🥹i cant even imagine what you all as a family have gone through….😢😢May god give you all the strength to grieve and move past this trauma

[@anushasridharan7717]

I can totally relate, my dad is also diagnosed with stage 4 CRC in the month of April this year with mets in liver and bone. I hope you recover from the loss. You should be proud that you were there for him and mom when they needed you the most. After I told my primary care physician about my dad's diagnosis she recommended that I do colonoscopy from the age 40.

[@radhikarathinakumar]

I Could feel you dear.More power to you and the family ❤

[@sathyasuganyasivaganeshkum3059]

Very sorry for your loss dear,May his soul rest in peace

[@86vaishnavi]

Hi Subha, appreciate your efforts in putting across this message!! I am sailing in the same boat with my mother. If I may add with regards to symptoms: 1) Have a general physician / family doctor so that they can track trends in one's health 2) If a symptom (like lack of appetite, cough, cold, loose stools, constipation, pains and aches, headaches, vision & hearing changes, etc.) is not getting any better within 10 days to 2 weeks, go see a doctor. 3) If weight gain/loss is UNINTENDED (not taking active steps like special diets, workout, supplements etc), get it checked

[@selvaranit8561]

Thanks for the awareness cheeky.... planning to take test

[@saisbookshelf2688]

I can relate with our speaking where u try your best not to hurt others even if u feel others might have or have done mistake.Stay strong

[@kavyakumar1675]

you are strong.. thanks for sharing.. rest in peace sir..

[@VansRD]

Just sending you all the strength and courage you need during this time....🥺🥺

[@margret3919]

The really hurtful thing is cancers do pass to bloodline.. Its really hurting.. My Grandma had esophageal cancer, now am having severe GERD.. I have severe complications like vomiting, chest pain, upper abdominal pain, loss of appetite, difficult swallowing, heart burn and really scared of it 😢 Cheeky sis, u gone through a lot with confidence and power.. May Uncle soul Rest in peace ❤

[@shanthai399]

More power and strength to you and your family. Thank you for educating us.... Stay strong and take care Subha :)

[@myowngirlyopinions]

More power to the patient & caretakers around him & my prayers 🙏

[@reayuv]

More power to you sister 🥺! Stay strong ❤

[@Jothykannann]

I never knew about this before.! It’s very informative. Thanks for educating us dear ❤

[@sujachinnasamy]

lost my dad to cancer when I was 21 - it was a very hard phase for me - may his soul rest in peace - my deepest condolences

[@himasathasivam]

Thank you for sharing this. Except for the Bhbaneshwar bit, i went through the same with my dad, here in Chennai and i did not have a supporting doctor in Apollo. I felt like i re-lived the whole experience through this video. We got to know mid Jan'22 and he was no more by the end of May'22. It was gut wrenching experience to see my Hero go through what he went through. But, i hope he is in a better place blessing my mom and me! Hugs to you.

[@nithyachandran6665]

U r the strongest and its okay to cry sometimes da ♥️ more strength and power to u ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@RagasudhaVlogs]

More power to you Subha❤ Take care 🫂

[@kowsalyas6150]

Cheeky 🫂.. i can complete feel you.. take care.. come back as strong than previous. Love you cheeky.. you did more than you can.

[@indhusekar09]

More powers to u .. I lost my dad in oesophagus Cancer/stomach Cancer 4th stage . I lost him 2 yrs ago.. still I haven't the pain he go through .. I miss my dad badly.. I understand ur pain completely..

[@priyaarumugam5891]

Stay strong subha... Let God give you more strength.

[@sin_shan]

More power to you ma’am. I know it’s hard. I recently lost my grandmother who is actually more than my mother. Time will heal everything and may his soul rest in peace. Take care ma’am.🫂

[@shraddhavlogs4849]

More power to you dear. God will be with you & your family always. May his soul RIP.

[@goodtogo9]

I could able to relate what u' ve went through these many days coz I ve been this through phase last year ..In my case ..My dad got fever& cough all of sudden ..we went and consulted a doc nearby my place& they said its just a viral fever and gave some medications for a week ..we gave medicines according but after 3 days he had some discomfort while breathing..I could able to sense that something wrong is gonna happen about his health but my dad was not complaining (may be we woulda felt I get will get afraid of coz I was 2 months pregnant at that time)next day morning my mom said to me that he is not reacting for wat she is saying ..we immediately took him to MIOT which is nearby our place ..They admitted him & took all the tests ..next day results came stating as it's TB & its contagious..It shook me ..we all were in shock ..before 3 days he was doing well how suddenly he got TB I dono ..I couldn't able to process anything and hosp ppl also dint allow me to see my dad..They just said Mam it is contagious u can't even touch or go near ur dad ..every part of this body is deteriorated coz of TB.10days he was in the hospital..I saw him with lot of wires in his nose & mouth ..as u said they r giving fuilds through that pipe & catheter was also connected ..we wanted to have some food during his last days but we r unable to give him ..11 th day he got heartattack and he passed away ..so everything happened in just 15 days .. couldn't able to cry also ...ppl around me were saying something will happen to the baby if I cry ..those days were really really horrible & terrible ....it took so many days for me to move on & to live without his presence ... Many more hugs to you❤❤❤time shall pass .. everything will change ..be strong and live with wonderful memories u had with him❤️❤️

[@CheekyVlogs]

More power to you too 🫂🫂🫂

[@jeyashreeraja7418]

Hii Cheeky!!! First of all warm hugs to you, you handled the whole situtaion in a such brave way!!! The same situation i went through when i was 26,My mother had renal carcinoma and removed her left kidney, and that time i have no family support with zero knowledge of what actually the cancer is and how to handle that Kudos to you!!! for your braveness to educate people about how to handle this kind of tough situation and what are all things your father went thru More Strength to you and ur family❤

[@priyasivakumar3607]

More strength to you and your family subha.

[@anigrace6918]

I can very well relate to your situation because,My Father also got affected by cancer in the pancreas and underwent a major surgery for more than 10 hours and then so many rounds of radiations and chemotherapy. It was the time i just completed my schooling. My life turned upside down. Not able to enjoy my college days to the fullest. My father suffered for 5 years and then passed away because cancer never stopped spreading inside even after major operation, radiations and chemotherapy. So my life became incomplete with his absence.

[@dvz3197]

My dad too had colorectal cancer. I was 20yrs and my brother was 22yrs. It was too much to handle by that time.We were clueless about the entire process. Till now I thought he had cancer and he passed away. Today I found out that it was colorectal cancer. Thank you for explaining. I could highly relate whatever you have gone through. More power to you! Virtual hugs

[@shrrideviganesh7205]

Vry difficult to narrate it without breaking out....u did it ....more strength to u cheeky🤍

[@sahanak92]

So sorry for your loss. This video was difficult to watch. I can omly imagine to live through that experience. Grief is long and difficult. It causes hardship on you physically, emotionally and socially. Hope you continue to find strength in yourself.

[@vidhyalakshmithilak3058]

Hai!!Thanks for sharing your journey.More power to you!

[@Chandraleka-k1w]

Thanks for sharing mostly we are not educated about health problems that we can face suddenly. We must take any symptoms our body give very seriously and see what can be the consequences. More love to you and your family. ❤

[@sriilakkiya3965]

More strength to you Subha🫂🫂🫂... U r really great... Intha video niraiya peruku useful ah irukkum... I can feel your pain bcoz we were in the same situation few years back... Thank you for making people aware of this... Love you always 🫂🫂🫂

[@vaishnavid6543]

More power to you and your family darling

[@Jeevatha1]

Thank you for this vlog my father in law has similar symptoms and thanks to yr vlog I was able to push him into getting colonoscopy they have found a a tumor in the rectum hopefully it’s not cancerous please pray further check ups are ongoing

[@shuruthirajendran6449]

Great power you.. and lots of love

[@DakshinaGanesan]

I just want to give you this virtual hug 🫂 Thank you for showing up and sharing this personal journey - your dad will be proud of your courage that you portrayed while spreading awareness and your good will - the way he has raised his daughter...He will always be with you in here 🫀

[@abinandhitharadhakrishnan5198]

More power to you..stay strong..take care of your mom❤

[@Chandraleka-k1w]

Thanks for sharing mostly we are not educated about health problems that we can face suddenly. We must take any symptoms our body give very seriously and see what can be the consequences. More love to you and your family. ❤ I will learn more about Cancer because even in my family there are few close relatives passed due to cancer.

[@kalpana1984]

Stay strong. Bounce back.

[@radhisweet8]

More strength to you and your family hats off to you I m jus wondering how could you explain things when u are in so much pain..kudos to you cheeky

[@isra820]

More power to your family and you

[@mrs.farzanaumar2381]

More power you to dear cheeky Stay strong 💪

[@u_me_n_shopping]

Can u Share about his eating habits he followed for years, which probably got him to his condition. It may b useful for viewers

[@raghavemanavalan4048]

More More Power to you ❤️

[@kausalyaboobalan5929]

I'm so sorry 😢

[@vigneshkb4022]

Stay strong to ur family ❤😢

[@raveenaselvan4752]

Baby you are soo strong....am a doctor too,..i want you to immediately consult a good ,well qualified dietician to guide you and your brother on diet and lifestyle modification for preventing . Loads of love ❤❤❤❤❤ Whenever you find time just talk to yourself and heal yourself.. Some spiritual things are there in this world beyond medicine , science and rational explanation (even my husband who is also a doctor make fun of me if i say this)..your father is a good soul by seeing you i can sense it. There is a neuroscientist named Tara ,an exceptionally articulated person she is.. She tells about life after death and another dimension to see it. Hope you find peace and solace sooon cheeeky.. Tight and warm hugssss❤❤ Regards,a really , heartfelt DOCTOR ❤❤❤❤

[@priyankasweetiepie3405]

Hi cheeky.. we both are of the same age.. I cannot imagine of the pain you went through at this age.. did you explore the root causes of why your father got cancer and was it preventable?

[@bhargavisukumar2115]

Stay strong Cheeky🥺❤️

[@abcd90340]

Sending love ❤

[@hdjdjdjj4572]

I love you cheeky 🖤

[@hemashrees8768]

More more power to you cheeky ❤

[@anushasridharan7717]

Also everyone please take an insurance for yourself and your family. Healthcare is unaffordable for middle class people and no one should face a situation of compromising on the quality of healthcare due to the cost.

[@SaiVijay-v7i]

The whole story made me silent, more power to you ❤

[@sivakamibakthavathsalam3983]

More power and strength to u Subha🩵

[@elizabethpriya7543]

More power to you❤❤❤

[@Arthis_Journal]

Like you said….Some doctors in India dont know how to converse with patients family or the patient…I am a doctor myself…And I had a miscarriage in my 5th month due to a complication…I was literally begging the doctor to explain to me whats happening…but still the gynaecologist in Mumbai failed to do that..for 24 hrs i didnt know what was happening..and they kept giving me false hopes that baby is fine..nice heartbeat..after 24 hrs suddenly she came and told me that the baby wont survive the complication and hence need to abort…horrible time and i had to go through this being a doctor myself…

[@878avatar]

Stay stronggg.

[@sangeethashorubhar7228]

My father died at the age of 57 due to stage4 colorectal cancer. I was only 18 at that time. Stay strong sis. Can I know your father's age at time when cancer is ruled out?

[@CheekyVlogs]

59.

[@L20241]

In US after 45 annually we have to either check our poop or once in 5-10 years we must do a coloscopy.

[@jacintharlando4776]

My mom passed away 6 months back,i too went through the same situation...Darkest days

[@preethaa9267]

Big hugs to you cheeky🫂🫂 I am 24 and I insist my parents to take annual health checkup even though they are not interested. As you were saying, your parents are taking regular checkups, is it not possible to find out in those full body check ups?

[@CheekyVlogs]

No! Even when he was diagnosed with cancer, rest of his body was mostly fine! Like no alarming blood test report except the markers for cancer!

[@soundaryasuryarajamanickam951]

Hai Cheeky, The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit, and God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted , I pray to Jesus for your families to give comfort, and to be with you always. Stay strong, I'll keep you and your family in my prayers, and may God bless you ! ❤‍🩹❤

[@ilakkyasadha1464]

I can’t complete the video 😭 sry subha .Stay strong

[@alagammaivenkat2520]

My mother passed away 2 months back, due to massive heart attack, it was after we did a major hip replacement surgery which was a correct surgery for 2020 hemiarthoplastry surgery. It's in Chennai. I don't understand where things went wrong it was with very popular hospital Chennai. Fate. It looked and was certified as natural death,but couldn't understand did we miss something or was it our carelessness or whatever it is. Life is unfair

[@alagammaivenkat2520]

Ps: my mother was a cancer survivor for 19 years, damn, I miss her like hell, she was my child and mother, a very unique feel.

[@kanipinky7722]

akka..ammaku first stage endometrial carcinoma first stage kaa.. uterus remove panitom..aana radiation kuduka sonnanga..surgery pani 2 months kalichu radiation panom..3 days radiation kuduthom..aana ammaku surgery pana wound romba perusa aayiruchu..ipo 2 mnths aachu inum radiation kudukala..ipo venam nu solranga..enaku onume puriyala kaa

[@CheekyVlogs]

Do check with other doctors too da 🌸✨

[@lekhalekhz3976]

I lost my dad when he was all fine... talking all fine... just 10mins breathing issue n he is gone... this Jan we lost him.. I can just say I lost myself

[@CheekyVlogs]

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[@priyar2167]

What is your father last health check up that you told year done to your parents

[@Sneka0705]

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