MY DAILY ROUTINE OF A STAY AT HOME MOM WITHOUT MOM GUILT| Tres Chic Mama

[@TresChicMama]

I hope you are all enjoying this series!! I'm having fun creating this type of mommy motivation for you all. No more mom guilt ok?! Hahaha xo Edit: sorry about the song volume while I’m talking!! I didn’t realize how loud it was! 🤦‍♀️

[@ashleyy8527]

Same here ! Love this and look forward to seeing more

[@akangerek3682]

Hay ashley, can I know you?

[@elizabethchurch9720]

My mom guilt is bad as we speak. My son is playing in the other room(peacefully, tyvm!) and I'm watching my show.

[@TresChicMama]

Awww hahaha If he's happy he's good mama

[@addisonpoop8690]

Elizabeth Church it’s ok me and my siblings always grew up knowing mom had her own time to relax so we had to be quiet and play by ourself it’s ok to take a break you work hard!

[@candicehenderson1289]

As long as he is happy, healthy, and taken care of, never feel guilty.

[@FruityMom]

Me! Haha. Just need some time to myself once in a while!

[@marolyneppers6204]

I love seeing a genuinely real morning routine video! Most of the time, morning routines are from single, childless women that have all the time in the world to have a perfect morning routine! I have a 3 year old and I work from home, and I can relate so much better to your video than anyone else’s I’ve seen lately! Thank you so much!!

[@alishawilliamson8707]

I can't even hear what you're saying on these videos when there is music playing over top of your voice! Love watching you both interact, it's so adorable 💜

[@TresChicMama]

Alisha Williamson I noticed I can’t either on my phone but I can on my computer 😭🤦‍♀️ Now I know for the future to turn it WAY down. Sorry girl!

[@alishawilliamson8707]

@@TresChicMama that might be why I can't hear it then bcuz I was watching on my phone as well! It's all good though, ya don't know until ya try it! Still love your videos, even if I couldn't hear a single word I would still watch just bcuz you two ladies are gorgeous & a blast to watch!

[@lillychambers-go4qz]

You're relationship is SO SWEET! AHHH I was just smiling and tearing up! I love seeing Mama's that are as involved as you are!!

[@mglet3315]

Ive been feeling so down, lately! I'm home with my 10month old and newly pregnant. I have ZERO energy or motivation to do anything right now. Then I happened to come across this video amd the music you used even made me feel more upbeat and like, "okay momma, you can do this!" Like, "its gonna be okay" I appreciated it so much. Thank you. ❤

[@sabrinap8482]

I know exactly how you feel my son is 16 months and I just had a newborn. Hang in there it’s not as hard as we think! Just remember it’s all a stage and cherish the upcoming moments

[@ambercoffman9385]

Loving the new series! You really are so motivating and I sincerely believe that you have helped me to become a better mommy to my little guy, the patience and love you always have for Sydney is so sweet to see and seeing the way you handle certain situations helps me when those hard to handle moments come along, thank you so much for being you and being an inspiring mom for me to look up to!

[@acaciadesirae5445]

I’m a stay at home mom, just got out of the military and I’m just not used to this, I feel like I go crazy in my house all day. Although I love having this time with my daughter, I just feel like I never get a break when my husband is away. He’s getting deployed soon and I’m so stressed out on what to do bc I don’t want to lose my mind!!!! I feel like I need a job but haven’t had any luck landing a federal job... I miss working for the military but it wasn’t the best option for me and my family having us both in, it’s not what I wanted for my daughter. Hopefully something good comes my way soon.

[@happilyeveradkins1859]

Stay strong beautiful! We are all in this together.

[@NinaApadula]

Girl you are crazy inspiring!!! Watching these makes me want to be an even better mama but doing our best is all we can’t do as much as I want to be super mama. Thanks for your amazing videos ❤️❤️❤️

[@Thisiswhereitstarted]

You are so right. Mom guilt hits me hard. Thanks for the video. Love iy❤❤

[@theascarlett7186]

Us mothers are incredible, especially when it's done so well like you! So strong, motivated and organised

[@jenniferartis8091]

I watched your newer videos, sitting home with new baby watching older ones

[@deilugo4813]

I love your mom voice... not annoying at all... Sydney is so bright, goodness you are an amazing mom! You are my inspiration! Thank you so much.

[@TresChicMama]

😭😭 Thank you so much!!!

[@AlexinWonderlandVlog]

Hayley - thank you SO much for this video. It’s EXACTLY what I needed to hear tonight. Had just put my son to bed and put my headphones on to listen/watch your vid while I got stuck into a mountain of dishes. Pumped up the music and it helped lift my mood just by connecting with another mama. My usually pretty chill baby (just turned 1 - same date as Sydney’s bday) has been SO out of sorts the last two days and nights - I don’t know the cause - but I’m totally exhausted. Just needed this! Btw I think your makeup looks really lovely with a light lip colour as well - so just do whatever you like to do! You’re amazing!

[@magickaldust1213]

I think one of the biggest reasons you are such a good mom and Sydney is so smart and good at eating is because you use snacks like most moms use tv and I l o v e that

[@Largefamilyfloridalifestyle]

My mom guilt is terrible sometimes!! You hit the nail on the head with this one!☝🏻 Thank you for this video!! ❤️

[@lokaaay]

I'm loving this new series! You're killing it! 💕

[@TresChicMama]

Awww thank you!!

[@stephanienoble421]

Loved this video! I’ve been having some serious mom guilt, I’m a stay at home mom to four little ones it’s exhausting. I’m glad I came across your channel, you have a lot of wisdom to share, I definitely learned something I can incorporate into my days. I love the idea of breaking the time down. I can tell you are such a great mother, keep up the great work!

[@lornatwins9944]

You have an adorable daughter. My son is 17months I think me and him speak different languages I can't get him to give me even a second i do everything trying to entertain him with no success everyday

[@diamondh]

I love your inspiration from real like “shame” memes. Is that the right word. Thank you for like clearing up this silliness. I think we all need to hear this.

[@TresChicMama]

It's such a misconception that I just hate!

[@meganaboud7148]

That was one of the most inspiring messages and ways of explaining that I have ever heard!

[@ItsCharlieBee]

My 19 month old daughter seen your video pop up on KZbin and starts yelling "Sydney!! Watch Sydney!" She's a little obsessed❤️

[@elizabethchurch9720]

"Don't see birds."..like ok Mama let's go!!

[@alikanaplus2610]

You seem like such an amazing mother and person ! Thank you for your tips , they’ve given me so many ideas for my 14 month old son 💙

[@stephanieyorty3866]

Hi mama! I'm new to your channel! Love that you talk about mom guilt... the struggle is so real!! Balancing can be so hard sometimes. Thanks for the video!

[@RoxieDanielle]

I’m so glad I found your channel! I’ve been struggling with trying to keep up my channel and just everything else I have to do as a sahm. Love your content! 💕

[@robbie-leighlock8573]

Relatable video! It can be frustrating but i’d rather take care of my baby looking a mess than pamper myself or palm him off on anybody else.

[@mariamoreno5829]

Just recently found your channel and you seem like great mommy! You’re doing an awesome job

[@lillychambers-go4qz]

I LOVE mommy voices! It shows you like to be expressive with her and get on her level vocally even though you use adult language. 🥰🥰🥰🎉💕 This is the first video I've ever seen of yours, but I just subscribed! I love your channel! I also let the adds play all the way through, just because you're that awesome 🤗

[@chanellaDaboss]

Mom guilt is the worst! Lol you did a great job

[@triphop1681]

17:15 Oh my gosh, she is too adorable!❤ HiYo Mama!!

[@Arianaree]

Ugh I loved that song so perfect for the vid and the pick me up I needed thank you! Uhhhh yes thank you!

[@FruityMom]

Haha. I feel so much better hearing your words. Ugh such mom guilt here too!

[@alysonsmokie]

You’re so good with teaching her!!! I’m a teacher so I know what I’m talking about 😉 Btw, their little brain is a sponge! And they learn so so fast! But neurologically their brain isn’t ready to learn letters and numbers (I mean the symbols)...they’re easily learn them but it takes away resources from their brain as they should be learning more things that include sensory and movements (gross and fine motor skills). It’s better to learn symbols after 2,5 yo.... But I think a little bit of everything is best! I see you are not pushing her and not overload her!! And I think you are doing great!! I’m writing this mainly for other mommies who might push too hard (“because neighbor’s kid is reading at 3yo”) or for those who worried that their child can’t remember number at 2,5 .... it’s okay!!)))) Xoxo

[@TresChicMama]

Alyson Smokie Thank you for this advice! I think we all need it! ❤️

[@samanthakwait8782]

I kind of have a routine for my son but not for myself. I need to do this lol

[@pconvey]

Loved this video! I respect that you choose to keep your family/friends mostly separate from your channel; howeverrr, if you have any thoughts about, or if you would ever want to make a video about making it work on your own, that would be so great to see. I am not a single mother, so I am sure you have it tougher(!), but I have no family nearby who helps me with my baby, so that can be hard. No pressure, and only if you're comfortable, but it would be so interesting to hear more about how you balance doing so much on your own, stay sane, and make it work! B/c you are doing an amazing job as a mom!! Sorry if you've already made one like this; I am a bit new to your channel but always enjoy your videos!

[@TresChicMama]

p_convez My family lives a little ways away so I hardly get to see them :( And I really don’t have that many mommy friends haha But definitely let me know what you want to see, like specific videos on this topic & I will do my best to make it happen! ❤️

[@pconvey]

​@@TresChicMama Oh wow, that sounds tough. That's amazing that you're doing it all though! I give you even more credit now than before!! :) How impressive that you're doing everything yourself. (I had assumed you chose to keep extended family out of vlogs b/c of privacy) I imagine it's tricky to do everything on your own - to balance life, work, errands, chores, motherhood, etc. My husband and I also live in New England and we love it, although we don't live near family (i.e.: parents, siblings, etc) who are helpful or at least involved; I am a WAHM and find that not having family around can be hard. I also get kinda sad thinking about how uninvolved my family is and how much of our daughters' life they are missing out on. It does make us consider relocating to be closer to his family sometimes, even though we really love where we live. Anyways - absolutely no pressure b/c i imagine it's very personal! But hearing more about how you manage day to day life as a single mom without any help nearby, and how you stay calm/happy doing it, could be so inspirational. I give you so many kudos! (BTW, Sorry for my rambling!)

[@wolflover4life19]

I feel you on that. We also don't live near friends or family. It's definitely tough relying on the few mom friends I have acquired but definitely necessary!

[@jillianclark9262]

My goodness she’s so precious. It’s 9pm and this video made me sneak into my 1 year olds room to give her a kiss ❤️❤️

[@AudizeesWorld]

Her breakfast is great and healthier than eggs and pancakes. Your doing a fantastic job!

[@therevisionproject5417]

Girl you’re my hero... my daughter still hasn’t grown out of the clingy stage which makes doing anything sooo hard!!

[@TresChicMama]

Michy D In good time mama!!! 🙏❤️

[@thehomesteadingmama]

Omg that meme is ridiculous!!🤣 I'm one of those moms having a hard time balancing it all but I really do TRY lol! And I get better about it as the months go by! I blame it on me being a first time mom lol🤷‍♀️😂 but I know I'll get better as I grow and establish good routines and habits! My baby girl turned 1 today🎉 so definitely got that clingy stage going on😬🤣 Also I'm sure I've said this before but love love LOVE this moms are people too series!!❤

[@TresChicMama]

Kayti Maldonado It took me a LING time to establish this routine that works great for the both of us!! You’re the best ❤️🥰

[@Mommyof3]

I love your countertops ❤️👍🏻

[@peytonburpee8604]

Really enjoy watching your videos! Keep up the good job, I think you are a great mom to Sydney :)

[@mirandajean8726]

Love this! I have so much mom guilt. I needed to hear this!!! I started my own channel about mommy things :) I made a video about mom guilt for switching to formula! Us moms need to build each other up!!! We are all doing our best! Its so nice to hear other people in similar situations! Who ever reads this.. Youre doing an amazing job

[@kpboo9]

Pray for me! I'm transitioning into being a single mom of a 2 year old and he's use to having someone's attention pretty much at all times, so I don't know how I'm going to be getting anything done from now on 😔

[@amybreedlove9209]

You are a great momma! This is so vain of me, I'm sorry, but I've watched several of your videos in the past that popped up as recommended and I was looking for the advice you were giving. But I couldn't subscribe because you seemed like one of those "perfect" women/moms that I just can't compare to. I'm one of those messy hair, messy house, never put together moms 😣 I thought I would have it together by now, my daughter is 14 months.. but I'm not even doing it alone. You're incredible woman! I'm subscribing after this video for sure. You showed the realness, getting ready takes the entire day basically, and the kiddo is gonna have to wait sometimes! I thought you were a HUGE youtuber, I mean your editing, lighting, etc is so good!! I hope your channel blows UP because you are AWESOME!! Edited to add: I commend you for working to correct your little girl's "M" sitting. Also, the lipstick thing! Omg yes! I miss lipglosses etc, but it would get everywhere all over our kid and their hands 😅

[@TresChicMama]

Amy Breedlove Ok you won my heart with this comment!!! I literally am a mess all the time Hahahaha I try my best to film all sides of motherhood! Thank you so much for your love ❤️

[@LilianaRust]

I love this so much, follow on your promises is a must!!!

[@ChristinaH333]

Love the video series ❤❤❤ I get so happy when I get a notification from a video!

[@TresChicMama]

Beauty&all Aww this makes me so happy!! 🥰💗💗

[@savannahsschiano6968]

Her little voice is so precious! Keep up the reading I do with mine and as they grow it’s great to have them read a book before they watch the movie ( Harry Potter example) and they can see what movie missed. This is obviously years down but a love of reading is a great habit! You’re both beautiful, smart, and kind 😉💕

[@LahainaFireNews]

I love your videos! Wish I had it together like you!

[@rebs8476]

This is so relatable! Especially the cutting up fruit and getting the sink full of dishes done 😂

[@Braypfitness12]

You are doing such a great job raising your daughter. She is soooooooooo smart!! Keep up the good work. By the way, your makeup looks great!!

[@TresChicMama]

Braypfitness12 Thank you!!!

[@charb2781]

💖 your hair cut !🥰

[@Appu2508]

I'm a mom of a 4 month old and love watching your videos. I was going through this video while having my lunch and my bub napping ( :p ) Thank you so much for your video :) **P.s. I really wish you hadn't added the songs where you were speaking to the camera :)

[@christyhausner5806]

You go mama

[@DahliaPeesly]

I’m loving this series! I finally started getting up before my girl and I feel so much better already! I also bumped her bedtime back a bit and now she’s happier when she gets up so thank you! Dance parties are life by the way. We totally had one today with the on hold music for my health insurance. 😂😂🙌🏻😍🤷🏻‍♀️

[@TresChicMama]

Keely Lynn Hurst 😂😂😂😂😂 That’s so awesome!

[@ThaniaAbigail]

You are so relatable! I also hate dishes and folding laundry 🙄

[@mamalynne3397]

I totally understand about the mom guilt, I kinda still have it after having 3 kids... Sometimes I do feel embarrassed when I'm shopping any kind of shopping my 15 month old baby does get fussy after a while and sometime he doesn't want snacks, he wants to get out a walk around everywhere and having a 15 month old walking around the store and try to shop is hard so he crying so loud and everyone is looking at me. For a moment I do feel embarrassed but I do tell myself he is good, I'm right here nothing is happening to him.. So I do let my baby cry and he will end up stopping... I know some mom hates that I do too. But I let him cry. If he doesn't stop after a while I do take him out and carry him... but love this video, I know for me I put myself last. I really don't do anything for myself. I don't get ready or put on some makeup. If I'm going to stay home all day I just stay in my pjs. Lol I know it's bad...

[@TresChicMama]

mama lynne You do what works for you girl!!! And I do EXACTLY what you do with Sydney in public. I find for the most part, letting her get it out for a brief minute is better sometimes. It completely depends on the setting & situation but kids cry sometimes & as long as they aren’t being destructive & causing a huge scene then whatever haha xo

[@outofchips2531]

i liked your video and noticed i was 559th like so i logged into my other account to make that 560. Keep up the great work! love videos like this!

[@milasunflower_aguita_dulce]

I enjoy your video so much! You are such an amazing mom/woman! You dont need make up or even changed clothes, you are beautiful all natural! I'm glad to see you spend time with your LO!! Keep up the awesome work! Tip: you should watch out for the way little Sydney sits, it could be bad for her knees long term! 😊❤

[@TresChicMama]

Mila Sunflower The “W” is so hard to get her to change! 😭🤦‍♀️

[@torijane8105]

Honestly thank you so much for this video because I completely agree! When did she start talking?! My son is 19 months and still not talking. He babbles and tries to talk and say words (he’s never quiet) he just has a hard time saying them clearly.

[@samanthakwait8782]

Sydney is so intelligent btw Great job momma

[@themisfitmama4397]

Editing skills on point girl!!!!! And you’re looking super good lately, pep in your step and skinny AF, I need that skinny hot cocoa in my life! Lol

[@hayleyconatser99]

This is an amazing video. I have been trying to find balance and trying to figure out if it makes me a bad mom if my son is fussy because he wants me and I’m trying to do my makeup. It’s hard because being a mama doesn’t come with a manual. I love this series very much! I made a message to moms video a while back. We all need some guilt free self care!

[@TresChicMama]

Hayley’s Habitat Finding balance is key! Ever day is different but you are doing a great job! All we can do is show them love & attention as well as show them that self love is important as well ❤️

[@brandirenee4387]

Very realistic and i can relate very well 💛

[@mamainpajamas4734]

I'm being addicted to your videos! One question, do u put your makeup on everyday or only days when u shoot?

[@olivaaskyy]

I just have to say ur truly an amazing person....just the way u look at life...I couldn't even imagine that 4 a day...I love ur channel...& how u dont follow the ○○KZbin crowd!!! I would love a vlog on how to start up a channel n have success!!💋

[@ericadepaz8899]

Loving this series 🤣

[@cly2fan]

Where did you get that striped shirt it’s so simple but extremely cute

[@maryadam7616]

You are doing great. Love Sydney and you.♥️♥️♥️

[@elizabethchurch9720]

Yes!! I saw that!!!

[@aprilbrianne1416]

Loved the video! Trying to establish a routine with a 3.5 year old and 5 week old 💗💗💗 Also, what moisturizer was that in the video?

[@JoOoDyS]

oh god when she was crying because she want you to read the book😭😭 i have the same problem with my kid and i cant say no ☹️ i hope i can be like you some day

[@TresChicMama]

JoOoDyS It’s so hard sometimes! 😭

[@Mommyof3]

Where did you get your entertainment center?

[@cherylmetro7693]

How did you teach her number recognition so early...I'm impressed

[@TresChicMama]

Cheryl Metro She’s still learning for sure but exactly what I showed in this video is what I do! Association with the card itself and object... she eventually sees the number enough to remember. We are still working on this though ❤️

[@SydnieDrummond]

I love this!!!

[@TresChicMama]

I'm so glad!!! xoxoxo

[@elizabethvaldez87]

Omg! Hi-ooo Hi-ooo soooo cute lol

[@annissanicola6056]

Where did you get the flashcards I like them because they look think

[@WhatsTeaBoo]

You should do your hair curly or scrunchy I think that would be so cute on you

[@TresChicMama]

nunya bidness I legit just said this yesterday... I want to start curling my hair haha 😘

[@MsLoverPower]

I have a habit of singing with my boy when I do the dishes. I've cut cartoons to approx. 5 minutes while I make him a bottle before bedtime (no TV whatsoever) and his mood is so much better now. He sometimes cries for a second when I turn it off, but then he starts drinking and it's all good 😊 And your noise is not annoying, lol 😂 I love showing my boy how animals sound like and it makes him happy and that is all that matters in the end, right? 😊 Btw, where did you get those learning cards? Great video, as always ❤

[@TresChicMama]

MsLoverPower You are too sweet haha I agree with the tv... it seems to affect Sydney’s mood too sometimes. The cards are linked in the description box! Amazon!

[@janireayala5604]

I really like Sydney's plate. Where did you get it from?

[@TresChicMama]

Janire Ayala Target! ☺️

[@verobella210]

As far as the learning games. How old was she when you started to learn/play with her. I have a soon to be 14mth old and wanna start but she has no interest whatsoever. Any suggestions

[@reemharb255]

The name of the song is in the beginning of the video؟؟

[@brookephibbs9083]

Completely without judgment - how are you SAHM while single? I’m just curious bc we can’t even make it work with the two of us

[@ashleyy8527]

I am not sure if you were aware of it being bad to sit in the w shape for a little one . I noticed You corrected her,when she sat like that so I assume so. I never even realized how much my toddlers tries and sits like that until after I learned that Info . So I’m always correcting the way she sits . Lol

[@TresChicMama]

Ashley McAllister It’s an every second of the day battle & I am aware of it being bad for her 😒 Thank you! Ughhhh

[@ashleyy8527]

Tres Chic Mama I just learned about it not too long ago ! Ugh yes same here lol

[@nicolelewis2503]

Do you read her any childrens books about the Bible? Do you plan to raise her as a Christian? I hope so! You are such a good mother

[@AudizeesWorld]

Did you eat?

[@larasmith2931]

🦋family should always come first! Be prepared for life and get over appearances

[@madelinefogarty976]

You can still take care of how you look while also putting your family first. Congrats, your the mom shamer we all hate.

[@rebekahkerr1723]

Yes girl preach. Such a good video!

[@WhattheFatisHappening]

Any update on the playroom? 💕

[@TresChicMama]

What the fat is happening It’s at a stand still 😩 Waiting for furniture to be moved that doesn’t belong to me

[@WhattheFatisHappening]

@@TresChicMama 😂

[@jennifernicole2627]

What straw sippy cup is she using?

[@TresChicMama]

Jennifer Walker It’s from Target a little while back ☺️

[@olivaaskyy]

U mentioned u had to go to wrk...do u work outside of the besides KZbin??

[@Davinia77]

I saw that meme you’re talking about

[@elizabethchurch9720]

Loved this one, again!! Suggestion/question; Is there any way to "turn down" the music while you're speaking like while you were doing dishes?

[@TresChicMama]

Elizabeth Church I tried to lower it but I’ll lower it more next time/omit it! Sorry girl! 😬 Sometimes I think my computer is different than my phone!

[@elizabethchurch9720]

They definitely have minds of there own. We love y'all. Hey Sydney!! My son said "Good job, Sydney!!" to her and the puzzles

[@cherylturnbull3975]

love u guys pineapple my have dont have mom guilt we need r time or we will go insane

[@marthabaez8154]

I thought I was the only one who got annoyed with my own mom voice lol!

[@elizabethchurch9720]

Dance girl

[@JJJakubiec]

You are an amazing MUM 😍😍😍

[@kaycemichelle210]

I’m a single mom also but how do u do it like how do u stay at home and still afford to pay your bills ima having a hard time with that n can’t figure it out ... plz help

[@RandomHippieCreations]

Kayce Michelle she works

[@kaycemichelle210]

Tera K if she’s a stay at home mom that means she doesn’t work unless she does something online that’s what I’m asking n she wouldn’t be a “STAY AT HOME mom “ if she worked

[@RandomHippieCreations]

Kayce Michelle if you watch the video.. she says she is about to head out for work.. she does have a job. She is a single mom that stays at home yes but also has to work. If you need money, go after your babies dad for child support, do not feel bad for him, feel bad for your child.., or apply for help for single mothers. It still won’t be enough to survive on as a single mother though. I’m sorry, life is very tough, and even more hard with children. There is a little bit of help out there. I don’t have my parents anymore, so I had to make a decision to stay put even when not happy for my children. I hope you find your way, I’m 13 years in. I use to sell on eBay, it was decent money, kid clothes always sell left and right.

[@pieceful_puzzling]

Maybe next time turn the music down just a touch? It's hard to hear you but I LOVE this video and the message!!!

[@TresChicMama]

Jessica Komarow 100% agree! Sorry girl!

[@adi8a]

Love your videos! Wish you would stop the music while you're talking though.

[@adi8a]

Sorry. Just saw other people already post the same comment.