My ex demanded me for child support for a kid that is not mine, my mother and sister are on.

My ex demanded me for child support for a kid that is not mine, my mother and sister are on their side...
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[@brodrickflowers117]

"Forcing your ex to be a single mother" Nah, she tried to force you into being a father under terrible pretense 😂😂😂

[@juliearmfield2634]

She F'd around and found out.

[@falxblade1352]

​@@juliearmfield2634quite literally

[@dorn0531]

She made herself a single mother. Her choice, her consequences.

[@eowyneadig7879]

It would be a lesser evil if she had tricked him into being a real father. She’s trying to steal his money to support another man’s DNA.

[@thespectre01]

I firmly believe that anyone who defends that woman is a red flag you should never interact with. Making a man who was betrayed, pay for a child that's not his? Shame. She's money hungry and the defenders lack a soul

[@Night_Hawk_475]

If the defenders think anyone who's not related to the kid should be responsible for him then they should be the first to put up the money to help :)

[@lifeisamess8100]

​@@Night_Hawk_475Do u really think women are going to take responsibility for what they say?😆😂🤣 (Not really about gender but, women during an argument in general tend to say so much nonsense that's it just unbearable😐)

[@DIPSAINT]

​@@lifeisamess8100"not to bring gender into this....BUTT-" do you realise how ignorant that sounds right?😂

[@Liquifywater]

​@@lifeisamess8100what

[@lifeisamess8100]

@@DIPSAINT I mean, I was via experience and tbh most people would agree that normally women emotionally a*use others at such a high level that's it's quite terrifying ngl 💔

[@dennisvicarth6823]

"A woman's word goes first and that's all the proof anyone needs." The level of ego in that statement. Is OP's sister floating above the rest of us regular folk?

[@dorn0531]

It’s just the “believe all women” nonsense in a different hat.

[@dennisvicarth6823]

@@dorn0531 agreed, that's why I half-quoted Bill Burr. 😂

[@ResidentWeevil2077]

Narcissists believe they're above everyone.

[@dorn0531]

@@dennisvicarth6823 Oh right. Sorry, I didn't recognise the quote. My bad.

[@ConstantBit9]

@@dorn0531 And this is why I have trust issues with not just women, but both genders in general.

[@RepellentJeff]

“I’m grateful my mom and dad gave me hot food, fresh water, and my own bed growing up.” That’s what’s otherwise known as the *_BARE MINIMUM!_* They’re legally required to provide that for you, and it sounds like that’s about _all_ they did! I hope OP2 wises up and realizes he doesn’t owe them jack-shit.

[@potatogaming7044]

Depends. if they were a very poor family, struggling to live by, and constantly worrying weather they could eat or not. Other than that, it’s should be the bare minimum for any family

[@UGOISCOOLNOW]

@@potatogaming7044if they were that poor then they shouldn’t have had kids

[@Mikron20]

I resonate with this story.

[@TheGamingSarman]

About story 1: The mother just trusted her son's girlfriend over her own son, I find that absolutely crazy even with *abuse* allegations.

[@dorn0531]

Plus the sister believes women over men regardless of facts. Disgusting people.

[@CajunReaper95]

It’s common as people think wimminz are incapable of abuse which is a bunch of horse, donkey, cow, pig and goat shit!

[@djswordman3867]

Bro, the bother is a w man

[@MyulMang]

The mother and sister are probabaly a cheater as well and living off the Dads/Father money

[@_junedays_1614]

“Responsable” lmao 😂

[@ZilynHD]

Yes😂😂😂😂

[@albertwayne2323]

It's Spanish, maybe the OP is from a Spanish speaking country?

[@nate9974]

In the first story. That would honestly make me question whether I would want my mother or sister in my life again. The sister is just damn insane and the fact the mother took the ex's side so quick and dismissed her own son being abused because "she seemed so nice, no woman like that could be abusive" absolutely insane words. I have seen first hand how quickly someone's personality can change behind close doors...

[@Hoki4]

That sister in first story sure is stupid. She thinks a man should take responsibility for the mistakes of women, but still its misogyny when man does what he wants and doesn't want to give money to support a child that isn't even biologically his and has no legal obligations. That sister of OP's is just another useful idiot who is brainwashed. If I was OP in that first story, I would have cut off contact with mom and sister instantly. There is no point staying in contact with people who do wrong to you, even if they're blood relatives. The sooner you realize to cut off the toxic brainwashed stupid people out of your life, the happier you will be. Always stand your ground, never let people shame you into doing shit you don't want to and cut off the people who try shit on you, they're not worth it.

[@CajunReaper95]

Tbf I can kinda understand the mom to a certain extent because the ex said the child was actually op’s because the ex lied to op’s mom and for all she knows the child could be op’s child as the ex lied and said the child was op’s!

[@kaedeshirakawa1979]

@@CajunReaper95i had a stroke reading this

[@Only1199]

I remember story 1 No OP's mom, sister is the one who needs to stop and is the one tearing the family apart, she's the one who needs to forgive and forget not OP. No OP'S relative, sister is the one taking it too far, harassing him at work and harassing him on social media to ruin him.

[@Nvggs]

This is some of the worst grammar I've ever seen.

[@falxblade1352]

​@@Nvggsno its fine

[@Pokemon_Doge]

@@falxblade1352no falxblade1352, grammar needs be better

[@Nvggs]

@@falxblade1352 no, it's fine*

[@thetruth1223]

​@Nvggs this is youtube not English class..

[@wickesentertainment2377]

Let’s be real nobody really has OP’s back as the father failed for letting his wife continue with this behavior and how OP’s mother failed when she choose to support the woman who hurted and abused her son, OP should have called his mom a failure of a mother for trying to convince him to take care of a kid that’s not his. I hope the OP wins the lawsuit and gives us an update about it too in the near future. The mother is a prime example of what a failure of a mother looks like because what type of mother sides with the woman who hurted and cheated on her son?!

[@Antsaboy94]

Story 1: Well, perhaps those relatives could had told the sister to cut the crap early on instead of sweeping it under a rug and letting OP take the fall!

[@crowfather0249]

I still wouldn't have been cool with the mom. She still took his ex's side in the breakup over his for no reason.

[@user-co3ey3mj7k]

What do you mean "for no reason." She was so nice 😊

[@Deimos001]

Story 2 The op should go NC and in regards of the op getting married,the op shouldn't invite his immediate family. After all they're rotten to the core, they're look at his money instead of him.

[@Serenity_Dude_X]

She should have taken responsibility by using contraceptives or other protection.

[@namedhuman5870]

Mother and Sister pay child support. Equal responsibility to OP so the fact that this is a dumb idea shouldn't bother mother and sister.

[@Mattonimus]

Story 2: Just as a friendly reminder to anyone that might need to hear this, family does not have to include blood relatives, and can most certainly be chosen or found: I.E., friends, partners, surrogate or adoptive, even just role models. Just because someone shares the same last name, are your mother or father, your niece or nephew, aunt or uncle, whatever the affiliation, does not mean that they are family. Those who love you unconditionally and without remorse or resentment, are the ones that should be considered family. Always remember those that have been there for you through hell and high water, and forget those that are willing to chastise, reprimand, injure physically and/or emotionally, and belittle you for no better reason than because they're terrible people with complexes.

[@SapphireExile]

If that's the argument that the sister's making, then she has to pay child support for every child on the planet that isn't hers. That would shut her up real quick.

[@juliearmfield2634]

I love how all these self-serving righteous people are so generous with other people's money. Op really needs to go no contact with his psycho sister and the rest of the family that agree with her.

[@kush7138]

His sister sounds like a raging feminist while his mother sounds very manipulative.

[@landonhagan450]

Story 1: The Ex's actions are evil and Machiavellian, but at least I get what she's trying to do. There's logic there. Something's profoundly wrong with the sister, though. It seems she, like many, has let politics rot her brain to where she'll destroy her family and ally with someone trying to hurt her brother just because she's a woman. She's an unhinged traitor.

[@Stxvn]

Reason 4 on why I am scared of women: because they are insane feminist to the point that they aren’t even feminist anymore but rather misandrists. I don’t hate women. I hate the ones that treat men unfairly in the name of femenism

[@kush7138]

There's no explanation that can defend the ex in the first story. She thought OP was a sucker and she failed plain and simple. Nobody told her to go spread her meat curtains open for another man while cheating on OP.😂

[@landonhagan450]

@@kush7138 I wasn’t defending her, just using her rationality to highlight why I thought the sister was even worse than her.

[@michaelwang6415]

If I was OP, I would hit them back with their logic of "Even it's not your kid, you're morally obligiated to help her!" with "Even it's not your kid, you're morally obligiated to help her by being a MIL(mother-in-law) figure and an SIL(sister-in-law) figure to the single mother? Why don't you help pay then?"

[@BellaAnderson-o11o1o]

The mother and sister are wrong because the child is not his child, so he doesn't have to pay for child support. I'm glad he got a dna test and didn't buckle to the pressure, and didn't try to just be nice and give his ex the money. The second story is too similar to my own upbringing, and I also had to cut ties to family as much as possible.

[@WilsonGodoyUmBrindeAEssaPorra]

Story 1: OP needs to sue his sister and make her redact everything she posted about him, it needs to cost her money so she learns that actions have consequences

[@Ald3r_]

By the mom's logic, he should support *every* single parent or orphaned child.

[@user-tx8io7gs6s]

Responsaàblay ✨✨

[@Mikron20]

OP1's ex is a trashy person and his sister and mom are horrible people, standing by this lying girl instead of their own family and saying he "needs to be a man and take responsibility" for...his ex's...slutty behavior? Someone elses child? Just cause he has the affordable income? Of all the heartlessness I have heard in these stories about shitty families, this one got my blood boiling.

[@juanhaines7295]

Ive heard this one before. repeatedly. I really want to get one more update from op.

[@twistedumbrella7537]

Story 1: Sister is almost ruining OP's life by putting his job at risk, and he is the one taking it too far? He is just defending himself because she is showing that she will just continue until she gets her way or he deals with her legally.

[@BlueAversion]

Ex and sister in story 1 needed to be sued for harassment and slander. Its not OPs kid and he has no responsibility for the kid, regardless of what ex and sister think ex ‘deserves’.

[@f687sNFM]

Its sad how much of a misandrist the mom and daughter are. Despite proof, they think so lowly of op cuz hes a man. A small time spent with the ex, the mom finds her a better person than her son

[@simplesyrup97]

Story 2 OP: “My brother would abuse me.” I mean are you sure? “He’s a car salesman.” Oh say no more dude your family is from hell.

[@jackchop1576]

I've heard a few similar to this. Either he sues the sister for slander and mom takes his side or the sister and ex are lesbians and the mom supports them and not OP.

[@Quessen]

The audacity of ops mother and sister... He should tell them to ef off and pay for the bastard child from their own pockets if they want too. Cutting ties with these two 304s is also highly advisable.

[@MrBiggyfoot69]

Story 1: that man does not have to pay shit. A woman's word is NOT first and that man is NOT obligated to pay for a baby that isn't his. That woman is a fucking psycho. That sister and mother are psychos. He doesn't have to deal with either of them and he should cut off all ties with them. Story 2: That man is also not obligated to do anything to his family. They wanted children, they barely gave him the love and attention he deserved, they fixated their piece of shit views on their other children that they thought were more worth than him just because of a few things that they didn't like about him. That family is disgusting, and again, he is NOT obligated to be apart of that family, and it is best to cut all contact with them, just like the first story. For both of these people in both of these stories, I hope you get all the love and support and I hope all your problems get solved. You shouldn't have to deal with this and I hope putting your foot down has a happy, and all worth ending for you. You don't deserve all the bullshit you get from these people, they aren't worth your time and are taking away what deserved joy and or peace you have. Please stay healthy and safe and hope this all goes well for you!

[@peeonthe3rdrail414]

I firmly believe you should put more effort into editing the scripts for the AI.

[@spaRKLES88604]

Why can’t the system ever punish men who actually abandon their Childern instead of men who don’t have Childern but get roped into it

[@RosencrantzxGuildenstern]

Imagine siding with the abuser of your own flesh and blood

[@hughg.rection1421]

"Responsablé" The lack of effort is astounding...

[@Hecatom]

The mother siding with the ex is baffling. I can see an indoctrinated femitard sister doing it, but a mother, to just assume the son is lying is just sad.

[@ronchum5178]

In retrospect, he shouldn't have told his mother that people were suspicious that she cheated in the comments, he should have went straight to his father. These women are insane and deserve no trust from anyone.

[@phoeniiiix]

I've heard this so many times

[@dexdarapper4207]

This story is crazy 😂 I would have told my mother and sister to give her their money then

[@chung2055]

Op had no obligation to a child that isn’t his based on the paternity test

[@claws2129]

I remember this story. Did they ever find out if any of the kids werent the fathers? Cant think of any other reason for the mom to defend this behavior.

[@pastelbee8125]

“I’m just disappointed you ended up so selfish” I would’ve immediately said well u raised me so u failed as a parent ig 🤷‍♀️ 2:28

[@Top-G35]

2nd story set up a trust with investments to help them in retirement and cut ties

[@rhiarebecca2000]

The ex has probably said she’ll split the money with OPs sister if she manages to get her hands on it😅

[@DragonWorldProducts]

for the 2nd story, I'd see if there's a case to sue the brother for breach of privacy. If not, I'd work on changing socials, changing everything, locking the credit stuff. Ensure that they cannot gain acess to their info ever again. And maybe hire a lawyer and go No contact with that entire family.

[@Gr3nadgr3gory]

Love the Brannigan esque mispronounced words from the speech to text.

[@barondystopia]

Did someone say "champagen"?!

[@2001sith]

Mother believes the ex over her own child, thats when you just lose all trust in her

[@Raggmopp-xl7yf]

That means they (mom and sister) are both cheaters, too. No other reason to support a woman who cheated on OP and had a child that's not his. I mean, Come ON!

[@TheBagaraga]

In what country is he living ? This is absolutely nuts, sounds like an absolute nightmare, especially when you'll be fired for two nutjobs showing up at your place of work, they should have been thrown in jail, locked and the key thrown in a dumpster

[@amandagoldsbury8122]

The first story, why doesn't the sister's dad, the mom's husband, take the baby in? If they want to support a baby that isn't theirs, why involve the brother?

[@kimble15ful]

You in all this debt but you hiring a private investigator to stalk your brother?

[@fourtimingtarantula3561]

So if someone shot her to get pregnant, but since one of her ex is a billionaire she can go to the billionaire and the shooter can get away scot free. Wtf

[@yunarukami6161]

Story 1: the solution to this is that you contact CPS of the ex and give them all the information about her. Her being abusive, hanging around with random guys she can jump on and being an unfit role as a parent. The ex is using her child as a bargaining chip in order to get money from other guys thinking she won't have to worry about money.

[@kratos-iu9bs]

Sister really needs to learn that the world does not revolve around a woman or man's word going first no matter the past it's clear the Sister wants you being this financial mindless slave to your ex wouldn't be surprised if she is single herself

[@GarlicBread1210]

Responsable

[@SS_SUKUNA]

“responsablé” 🤭

[@Valast]

A Private Investigator should not have any permission to access income and stuff. As a matter of fact: they should not even exist. They are just wanna be detectives. Get a real job like in sales and stuff.

[@KDannXII]

Mom and sister: its not your kid but you should pay for it. Then why dont you do it. Hypocrites

[@ExposerTruth.]

I'd have a stern stern conversation with my mom and sister. Either she accepts my side or she doesn't see me again. Both of them

[@VynDimentional]

The sister is sexist Should get one of your guy friends to bring their kid to her house and demand child support. Record it too for fun and when she yells about it later just calmly reverse the situation.

[@LightOfMyLife227]

It's not his child so why tf should he have to pay for it

[@boblee7998]

Guessing the mom and sister are both cheaters??? That why they act like this?

[@jonathandiaz3338]

'a woman words go first and thats all the proof you ever need' dude at this point just dump your sister, shes ruined now and she has no returning.

[@kush7138]

Women will band together more often than people seem to believe. The first story isn't some uncommon practice when it comes down to women teaming up.

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

The 2nd op should change his name and everything and go nc and push for ro or something. Itll ugly fast if parents pull some 'you owe us' card 😬

[@NotMyOriginalHandle]

Dude in the first story has a W brother

[@horrormoviefan9395]

I would've sued the ex for defamation, regardless of her pleas, just to show her to its her own goddamn fault and the sister can take the same, as for the mom, sue her too, just to show her how idiotic she has been acting

[@robertortiz7853]

OP should get a DNA test for his father's sake.

[@TheReal_Antrey]

He did. He is his son. The mom is still a cheater. There is an update in the comments

[@malikpittman6376]

The sister on the first story lwgit sounds psychotic

[@danialdirty5656]

she was a terrible gf and op has medical documents showing its not his, and considering the timeline matches with the time they were together, that suggest that she was cheating when they were dating.

[@SRKStar]

Sorry two I relate to. Somone should tell him he’s the escape goat. And when they didn’t have him to use anymore to ignore their own problems. They used him. That’s why the whole thing fumbled like a deck of cards. They where too used to the routine by than they decided to throw anyone else under the bus as a result of not having him. Like the scene of mean girls or piranhas cannibalizing each other.

[@fumothfan9]

1st story reminds me of the joke a pastor says single sisters of the parish with kids stand up. Then Single men stand up. Brothers you need to tale care of these single sisters and wife em up. The guys all got up and left Then next session males decreased like 50% Also op must be mexican or hispanic Posada

[@gthing4558]

I like how the bot says responsible

[@BoardDemon]

Bro there are many poor kid in the world op should pay for them how should he have comfortable life and people are dying

[@eternal6179]

The first one could be rage bait. The second is absolutely rage bait. Some of those things could be true, but ain't no way someone went through all that as it was described, and just puts up with it.

[@DeliciousBoi]

Only fellow cheaters stand with cheaters, I'm willing to bet mommy dearest and the sister from hell are both guilty of the same.

[@Miniperi.1032]

There are updated versions of this story, and it turns out yes, mom not only cheated but conceived OP roughly at the same time of her affair, so she always doubted OP's true paternity (luckily, a test confirmed OP was not a affair baby)

[@Mahd..]

No you are not responsable

[@Fiercetits]

Soooo he wants her to pay for the consequences of her own actions and so does his mother and sister? Thats so ass backwards it’s not even funny.

[@scpfoundation8376]

If you’re going to put two stories in the video, give the video a title that addresses both of them.

[@urg54]

'a womans word go first' one of the most retarted things ive heard someone say😂

[@juliencanto4094]

Tell yo sister to take care of the kid

[@chessieray1465]

I just heard this the other day, all those women aren't 💩.

[@rand0mn33ss]

Holy English as a Second Language, Batman

[@Devin-O]

Sister said it was OP's fault she spread her legs got knocked up tried to baby trap the non dad and it is OP's fault really dear sister Duck you!!!

[@theologe6076]

i find it laughable how i always want to watch these videos after my part-time job, just so i can get mad at the people in the stories, the people in the comments or the people in my life and then question what on earth i am doing here before going to bed.

[@Grimeaper]

Good news you know what trash to get out of your life, if you pay an ounce of money for a child that is not yours you can be legally sued into child support so go ahead and do that if you want to fuck around and lose most of your money.

[@Eidolon5150]

So the awkward dude with mental problems, alcoholism, and asthma, is worth 7 figures and going. Yet the brother and sister are better for some reason.

[@aurelian2641]

That’s literally western feminism in a nutshell

[@kossettereaditte7552]

The woman in the first guy's family are terrible

[@creatordesk6414]

9:01 they don't believe in asthama being real 😂😂😂

[@pastelbee8125]

11:28 This almost made me cry cuz I’m kinda like this but minus the success 😭 but any type of success was also demeaned so the last thing I said was “why are you guys so fucking negative” and they looked like fishes, I did get yelled at tho but I don’t regret it

[@putent9623]

I saw in another thread a guy (who was in the wrong) and the op (a woman who was in the right). Apparently he still had to pay child support for a child that the woman is having that "isnt his". Now the child was his ( i think) but the thing is thar, the dad wanted a dna test (again he is the ahole so no sympathy), and the mum didnt want to. The judge said that regardless of whether its his child or not, since theyre marrier, he has to pay for the kid. To me its fkd up. Not this scenario in particular but imagine having to pay support for a child that isnt urs.

[@thetruth1223]

If I was that op I would go to another country... F that BS....

[@shortangel333]

cant pay child support if you do the post birth abortion yourself.

[@DaraxXxDevious]

Story 1 sounds like the mom and sister need to put their money where their mouth is and pay for the kid. Since it doesn't actually matter whether the kid is biologically yours, they need to take responsibility.

[@Thaddius0]

im 2 minutes in... how do you not just tell the mom and sister to get a job and bankroll her life if they care so much? they arent the father either but wouldnt that be the kind thing for them to do?

[@arthurwkm]

responsable

[@johnruckman5397]

I get that OP has their own issues and feels that they were misunderstood as a kid but 99% of the time, and I’m someone who was the same way, kids in small towns who complain about being bullied and see everyone else as a “redneck jock” never actually try to see things any other way except their own

[@MondliNgwenya.]

Imagine being forced to bankroll some random baby that everyone knows isn't yours. Are you smoking crack? 🚮

[@brendancoulter5761]

Second story is totally fake.

[@Zellonous]

The second story sounds like the Young Sheldon series. Except they were a lot nicer. Fake? How many millionaires need to vent on reddit.

[@kywayneellis5958]

It’s not like he grew up as one