My Experience With Cold Approach/Daygame

[@Dimitrius_M]

More men need to speak up about their experiences with this. Alot of guys are afraid. So this is needed.

[@paulcooper5748]

It becomes easier when you get older from my experiance.

[@Don_Amo]

I'm in the same position bro, gives me some encouragement to try. I'm not perfect, but I'm sure as I improve, the experience I get from just doing it will be invaluable

[@BeastMode-oz8qc]

11 months in. How has it gone man? Im actually starting myself.

[@jaimeherrera3165]

I missed my due date on my online homework to watch this, that how valuable your perspective was to me,

[@jballin2288]

Bro really appreciated u sharing that. All of my friends r taken or don't like going out to meet women so I'm kind of all alone in tryna get better at stuff like this, so it's heartening to hear about other guys that're dealing w the same struggles. Awesome that u had success early on also. Hoping to start doing this soon

[@josheves9022]

I really suggest a coach bro I’ve been doing it a year an a half shits tough I’m now in sales in jewellery basically having someone pointing out all your mistakes will cut your time in half or even more

[@tongobong1]

You can read my story here. I approached 360 got only 9 phone numbers and ZERO dates before I lost hope. I used indirect opener - asking for direction.

[@fifaguy2498]

@@tongobong1 Come on man. 360 is nothing. That's less than 1 girl a day for a year. I can do 360 in 90 days.

[@tongobong1]

@@fifaguy2498 I actually did it in 4 months. 360 approaches is still a lot of work for the result that I got - that is ZERO dates. Don't you agree?

[@Dimitrius_M]

@@tongobong1 if you approached 360 and no dates. Your game is off. At that point it's not the women it's yourself. Could be something small don't be discouraged.

[@iunnor]

This is why i cringe at those $600+ courses trying to teach guys how to pick up girls. Nothing in the world is a supplement for actually putting yourself out there and talking to the opposite gender. Learn all you want, unless you get over that approach anxiety there will be no progress.

[@seky123]

yep i agree with you, you can have all the game in the world but if you cant even approach its useless.

[@owelx1637]

Holy cow, I needed to hear this!

[@epicotakugamer4930]

Good Looking Loser has been the best one so far and I knew you were gonna bring it up lol.

[@RadicalImprovements]

Yup, the all time GOAT site for no nonsense approach to dating and self improvement

[@shop-steinert7166]

Thank you for the tip with good looking loser. I checked it out and like it!

[@tongobong1]

My story on daygame is terrible. I only used indirect approach by asking for directions. I know how hard it was to ask the first one. I was shaking and it was terrible. She just went away without saying a word. Then the second one the next day was much better and then it got better and better until I asked up to 15 per day for directions. After 360 approaches I only got 9 phone numbers and ZERO dates. At that point I lost hope in day game. Looking back at the experience I think the indirect approach is no good. I think the direct is much better. With indirect it is really hard to transition from asking directions to getting her phone number. Also she feels that you are not really there for directions and so she thinks that you are afraid of being direct with her. Finally most girls during daytime have boyfriends or husbands so they are not available anyway.

[@Nick0wnsz]

self awarness is key. Women are much more socially intelligent than an average man. Being able to read the room and capitalize where they give you an opening is key, otherwise most attempts will be just attempts. Tusk is the best from my perspective. Although he can be more ballsy right away cause hes good looking and tall.

[@tongobong1]

@@Nick0wnsz thank you for your advice. Just few years ago I actually found a far superior way to seduce women than any "game" from online PUA gurus. The key to seduce women is being the natural real man. It is the way our ancestor did it in stone age when they had no speaking language. You can only use body language to seduce the right woman at the right time and place. Deep down people are not much different than they were in the stone age. Women still follow the most authoritative guy like they always did. Tusk is like all other PUA gurus. He talks waaaay too much because he is trying to seduce her and make comfort etc. - he is gaming her by talking to her. He should instead just look at her like a real man with deep serious look - no smiling and she would respond. If response is submissive or she is smiling or she is kind then just slowly take her hand and move her toward sex location. You don't need to say a single word. If she doesn't want to go with you then let her go and find another hot woman. You should remain serious even if she smiles at you. You should never smile during seduction because women see smiling men as totally unattractive.

[@fifaguy2498]

@@tongobong1 You're right. Smiling is bad especially if you are asking for directions. However, you still need to open your mouth. LOL.

[@tongobong1]

@@fifaguy2498 You actually don't need to open your mouth or you can just say short sounds like "hey" to get her attention or words like "come" or short sentences like "let's go there". That is all you need to seduce her. You should seduce her with your body language and not by talking to her.

[@tongobong1]

@@smp5343 Collecting many numbers takes a lot of time and time is money. Efficiency is the most important here. I want to get a solid date every time I spend 4 hours approaching women. Anything less is just not good enough. With my method I get an instant date in 1 of 3 approaches during night time where most women are looking to meet men. Tusk has no clue about what women really want from men. He is the product of feminism that is promoting its agenda in Hollywood movies and other media. Feminists want to make men soft - feminine and to empower women and most men and women are brainwashed by the feminist crap.

[@nwobhm8914]

I’m pretty new to this so far I’ve approached 9 women at the mall. For the first 6 approach’s i would be indirect by asking for directions and after they gave me them I’d go into how I thought they were cute. I ditched that method because people are right when they say it makes you look scared and not confident. Now I’m being direct. Still haven’t gotten a single phone number, but all the girls I’ve approached were very attractive( 7/10 at the lowest) and most of my life I’ve been a very nervous dude so I feel like im probably still giving off that energy.

[@RadicalImprovements]

Its fantastic you are out there man. Keep at it. Pretty normal to be obviously nervy for like the first 50 odd

[@nwobhm8914]

Thanks, man! I’ve done 16 now, got one phone number who did text back a couple times but I said something lame and she ghosted lol. Live and learn. I ain’t gonna stop i’m committed

[@Alex-one]

Respect for committing to it. Don't worry about the results early on. It's not about getting some numbers or dates after the first approaches, it's about the process and the journey. I had a coaching in germany and approached like 150 girls in 2 days and over the months I approached some girls here and there. You get good very fast if you are consistent. 1-2 approaches every day is way better than 30-50 approaches every other week. It is a step by step progress. First you get over your approach anxiety, then you want to have longer conversations (search for girls, who seem to have time). After that you want to screen girls who want to date and so on. Just don't give up, sometimes the dry spells are really hard, but it doesn't matter if you get 20 Rejections if the 21. approach is a win.

[@benjaminczegledi9748]

Such a great random video to stumble upon! So happy to see your crushing it. Funk house for life! - Ben!

[@RadicalImprovements]

Yo bro, hope you good man

[@playtime4726]

Awesome story man, fucking inspirational if I'm honest. Fuck yea to just skipping the entire AA. I quit at week 2 after I asked the same girl, the same thing, on 2 different days.

[@90sc0vers]

Was that a drill? Or you just happened to bump into the same girl x)

[@tongobong1]

I approached 360 and I never asked the same two times in a city of 300 thousand people.

[@GrafBazooka]

xDDDDDDDDDD

[@josheves9022]

I'd also add read a.g haydens book the method

[@gloglebag]

Why were you approaching girls when you already met a good girl? What happened, did you just dump the first girl?

[@ChicagoJ351]

If you can approach and focus on your looks that can work, but there are much higher levels of game you can get to from there. You don’t have to develop better game, but having looks and just talking to girls is not good game unless you are naturally good with women. Your results probably are not going to be that good just based on looks and the fact that you approached. If a guy doesn’t think game works it’s probably because his game isnt that good. Looks isn’t going to make much of a difference. I’ve had good looks my whole life and it’s not that big of a deal to women. It matters, but you have to have game. Without it women won’t be very attracted. Your essentially playing the numbers game.

[@StrikerStrey]

hey man, what town were you in the UK when you did these approaches?

[@RadicalImprovements]

Melbourne, bit far from the UK I dont like the UK much, trying to move out

[@aminerachid464]

It's true man approaching works, but you have to how to follow up, after you sweep her up her feet, you have to know your game, she needs to know you're the man

[@jasond626]

Nice video man

[@owen3520]

What age have u good at cold approach???

[@RadicalImprovements]

I was 26 when i started

[@josheves9022]

Have you tried field reports?

[@arunapurohit5730]

I have subscribed you , so now become no.1

[@LITTLEDANCERSADHU993]

Attraction is not a choice for women, when you do you,re research guys.

[@ANM21985]

I think your location helped you a ton. New zealand and Australian women statistically have the most sexual partners in the world compared to other women. did you know that? You having a british accent (novelty factor) probably helped a little too with appeal. but try getting 2 lays out of 7 approaches in London............. no chance!

[@boy123838]

Hmm

[@watkinsrcful]

Nice

[@derek713]

Your understanding of game is very limited.

[@derek713]

Good looks or a cool accent gets your foot in the door. But that's all it give u. You have to have good game to convert that into a solid number/instant date then/or a day 2. Befriend guys who r good at the stuff. It's hard to believe a KZbin comment.

[@BiraDaniele]

@@derek713 what's "good game"?

[@derek713]

@@BiraDaniele Being able to implement concepts like good posture, eye contact, dressing well, grooming, vocal tonality, passing shit tests/being unreactive/being grounded, leading conversationally and logistically, soft closes, handling objections, knowing how to vibe, being able to recognise what type of girl she is and being able to appeal to her archetype, knowing female psychology, being good in bed, having a life of substance i.e with cool hobbies and half decent income. And several other things. Ur facial feature or muscles is a small part of it.

[@BiraDaniele]

@@derek713 lovely answer. Thanks for the summary. It's easy to forget stuff like this when you have been at it for a while, stopped caring and it's become second nature. Ime though as I've been putting on muscles and got substantially buffer, I've got more and more attention. Muscles are damn attractive from the get go, it's like giving candies to babies, hard to resist. Very important to look good in cold approach, probably top 3 important. I can't fathom why guys who want to get good women don't put on muscles and maybe even complain they can't get women

[@tongobong1]

@@BiraDaniele the best game is no game - just be the real natural man without social BS that you got from TV, school system... Try to get a girl without saying anything to her because it is not natural to use language for seduction.

[@Paddehj]

You lucked out, basically

[@RadicalImprovements]

Yup, its a numbers game

[@jeisinga]

Wel.. Wel you had to come from fare

[@carpetinstall79]

So if you're not attractive your screwed and this is us-less? 😄

[@xxxiiixxx1404]

Cold approaching don't work