MY FILIPINA GIRLFRIEND LEFT ME…

How do you prevent your future FILIPINA girlfriend from leaving you… 5 KEYS TO SUCCESS #dating #philippines #travel

[@Worldstreetphotos]

Never never marry one or send them Money it will never stop. ever.

[@SAMLAMB]

I can agree with that Worldstreet…lots of truth in your comment…you be save guy

[@Dave-ji1yp]

AGREE!!

[@Coffewithsteve]

Don't worry you find someone else

[@Coffewithsteve]

She probably means love can fade they want money not love

[@SAMLAMB]

I think during the heat of the moment and sometimes that can last for years, you think she’s in love, and you’re in love…..until she packs up and leaves, and then you’re wondering what in the world happened…by the way I’m not describing my ex Filipina gf. That was my ex wife in the USA

[@pumpkinjoesphilippineexperienc]

Province girls are the best....in my humble opinion. Not saying they're not good in the city, but I like the character and demeanor of province girls better.

[@SAMLAMB]

Pumpkin, you are 100% correct…I think I would have given up on dating 16 yrs ago after my divorce…but once I arrived in Manila and I realized there’s a significant difference between city girl and province girls…that gave me hope of finding a significant other I my life…thank you for joining us today…you be safe

[@ArtificialIntelligenceGlobalNe]

@@SAMLAMB "She satisfies ALL my fantasies" Poor Girls, and Poor Old Men, immature and Never truly Grow Up.

[@ArtificialIntelligenceGlobalNe]

@@SAMLAMB; One thing that I never would Understand is the Obsession of getting Together with Girls who Look like Your daughters or Granddaughters.

[@ArtificialIntelligenceGlobalNe]

@@SAMLAMB At least this Girl, Razel, is Reasonable.

[@theconstitutionalveteran5778]

@@ArtificialIntelligenceGlobalNe I can explain it. It actually quite simple and natural. I'm guessing you're female which is why you don't understand it.

[@Ridgefall]

Absolutely great advice and perspective. ty.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks Wind. We really appreciate your comment.

[@red-hat-mike]

Moral of the story : nice guys finish last

[@SAMLAMB]

Red hat Mike. There’s a lot of truth in that…but if you get back up and try again and again…that’s the journey, that’s the fight, that’s what life is all about, never giving up on your principles. Never give up on who you are. When others do you wrong that’s on them not on us…love your comment Mike…

[@SAMLAMB]

If you have a big G on the front of your hat…Georgia Bulldogs , we can become friends hahaha 🤣

[@brenda121143]

So do nice women. Never get mixed up with someone in a foreign country and never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever give them money. You will live to regret it

[@lowtech67]

Excellent video. Great topic. Hope you two are always as happy as you are today.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Lowtech, we appreciate your comment… we wish the same for you too.. have a great day!

[@reelwrite]

Thank you for such a balanced discussion. Hearing the direct experiences of both of you is very helpful. Coupling is a relationship between two people and both have a distinct voice.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Allen, I just love how, when I throw a topic in Razels direction without her knowing my interpretation of a certain topic. You get a completely different perspective on the whole video. …it allows me to learn more about RAZEL..she is so honest in everything she says…she never fails to amaze me cuz she never sugar coats any thing…you have a great day and thanks for joining us…

[@orangeclipstv]

wow! This means she was cheating on you the entire time, women are women regardless if you go to the moon. Great video.

[@SAMLAMB]

I don’t know that for a fact when she decided to cheat or leave me…maybe days before or months before. That I can’t be sure…thanks for joining us Basketball…

[@keltic_nomad]

saying yes can make you a fool, saying no can make you wise

[@SAMLAMB]

In the heat of the moment, acting like a fool didn’t feel so bad until the reality set in that your Filipina is gone…thank you for the comment,Keltic.

[@capncmbk]

great interview with your girlfriend. Open, honest and raw. Ballsy to put that on KZbin.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Damon. I’ve interviewed her often on my channel. She’s interviewed me too. Vlog “ expat true confessions “

[@glenclarkchidley3637]

Poon will empty you wallet, mind and soul… best to just keep it casual.

[@SAMLAMB]

You’ve got that right, Glen. Thanks for joining us.

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

Just empty my ballz!

[@SAMLAMB]

😂

[@randalsaladbar]

Wise words, thanks for sharing y'all's story

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Randal. We appreciate you.

[@twindragontyler]

Great location for the video…..interesting topic…..Razel always comes through in your videos when you ask her questions. Great job Razel. Good work Sam.

[@SAMLAMB]

She is the secret weapon to my video, twindragon…it’s never rehearsed and it’s always on the spot…she actually hates me for doing that…but I’ve told her if she hear or see my video before I ask her the question she will answer it completely different. That’s why, when I’m sitting next to her and she answers the same question that I just made the video on, I’m like you guys watching it for the first time. surprised and amazed with her comments. Thank you for joining us twin dragon..you have a great day!

[@miguelc.819]

Great advice 🙏, thanks, I'll be there in 2 1/2 weeks

[@SAMLAMB]

Yay! Let me know if or when you visit Duma. You be safe Miquel

[@JEPOYHEROBLOGG]

as filipino it5s true most filipina need money but not all we also have few real love

[@SAMLAMB]

That’s very true JEP, I’m in a relationship with Razel right now and I can describe our love as real as it gets. Thanks for joining us . You be safe

[@EasyCrypto101]

Not really what you think. Reason why most likely she broke up could be just she could not take the family pressure. If they date a pinoy the family expects not much and if they date a afam they expect everything and so does relatives like they rich. Been married there and divorced here and done many relationships over the last 25yrs. That seems to be the biggest issue dating a poor girl ya difference in hobbies, connection and other factors don't help culture, age etc

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for joining us crypto. I did mentioned she had a lot of pressure from her family but I edited out. Didn’t want to put the blame on her family. You have a great day crypto. Be safe.

[@okayq]

It sounds like a scheme when dating in that area.

[@SAMLAMB]

I can’t say that okayq. I think it happens everywhere…All relationships has his own twist and turns….i think once a woman feels insecure in a relationship she will start looking for answers..have a great day !

[@harveygault1911]

Maybe it's just me, but it seems to me the info you and Razel presented is good for all relationships everywhere. Communication and understanding are key. Thanks Sam.

[@SAMLAMB]

You are on the mark, Harvey. It’s pretty much universal. But The key is understanding the culture of your Filipina.

[@garydavis9887]

thx you two !

[@SAMLAMB]

You are welcome, Gary. Hope all is well with you have a great day!

[@oroville12345]

I am sorry brother it hurts but it always gets better with time.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m cool with it now…the girls name was Mary. If she hadn’t left me I wouldn’t have met Razel.

[@oroville12345]

@@SAMLAMB thanks for the awesome words brother be well.

[@marchoman1776]

My present fillapina girlfriend: she is 34 yrs younger than me ,very beautiful, very sweet not addicted to social media. I just pay her a salary. Why . Im having the time of my life and I'm not delusional 😮. I'm gonna enjoy the ride till it ends and i want this to last as long as im still treated GOOD. I KNOW WHY SHE IS WITH ME. i did not come here to find love or a wife, i don't want to sleep around what i got is great. I live in reality. Very happy 😊

[@SAMLAMB]

Marc, thank you for being honest…we appreciate you.

[@JW-ro8xr]

What website did you use, or did you meet her in person while you were in the Philippines? How much is her monthly budget or allowance? Thanks.

[@SAMLAMB]

@JW-ro8xr we met on Cupid and then I met her in person. Her monthly budget was not a lot. It was the monthly stress when different family members would ask her for money and it seemed every situation was an emergency to her.

[@befree9579]

To keep her grounded i would have kids with her. So she focuses on the kids, not her family drama.

[@SAMLAMB]

@befree9579 hmmm,

[@Coffewithsteve]

For guys just stay single less headaches

[@SAMLAMB]

I’ll take that advice… next time 😅😅😅…thanks for joining us Coffee.

[@wowokingxoxo]

Aw ... dont give up on love. You should get another one . And learn to love again and never give up until you are broke.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m broke!😂

[@piacash5216]

Awesome Topic 👍👍👍

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you very much Pia…we appreciate you taking time to join us today…

[@ckSport3000]

They need to slow down.. go there to the Phils and chill.. wait for the right person and situation. Be HONEST with yourself about the age gap and look in the mirror. But Sam, so many lonely old guys. who lack good judgement.. nothing we say will stop all the mistakes these guys will make. .. Curtis, 57, retired Navy in Dumaguete

[@SAMLAMB]

Remember I was in the Philippines for almost 5 yrs before I moved in with her. It took me another 6yrs before I committed to living with RAZEL. And I still don’t have it down lol. Thank you Curtis, for joining us.

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

Het Custis, im 57 and retired Navy. What was your rate bro?

[@SAMLAMB]

Rate, or Rank…I was never in the service, my Dad was, as a child, we travelled through Asia during the Vietnam conflict. Thank you for serving our country. By the way, My grandson just decided to join the Navy. So proud of him…

[@randyhutchinson-fp4ic]

Let’s keep it more basic. Biological and cultural (financial). In America they definitely want a younger man who is more financially capable. In the Philippines it is more age is just a number but not ALWAYS. If you are 30 years older than your partner and she is attracted to a younger wealthier man it is just biology. Can’t fight it!!!

[@Bob-xp1sy]

You had me fooled on that headline ha,ha 1:47

[@SAMLAMB]

Yeah, it was close to being a click bate as one of the comments suggested, I just wish you guys can name the title every time I make a video…thank you for joining us today Bob…be safe.

[@lucianello100]

Hi,nice to watch your videos! That s true,a foreigner over there is a hope,first of all; after marriage he will be just a wallet,in 80% of the cases. Survival is the priority,rather than a romantic story with a stranger,her family condition comes first....i got married with a girl from Seul in the 90's,even i got divorced soon after,she s still the only one who could know about my inner feelings and my dark side. It never happened again,with hundreds girls crossing my life all around the world....please,hug hye-sook for me,if you ever meet her in Ilsan.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for joining us Lucian. I really love your story. Sometimes we feel we can be someone’s shining armor. In many cases that’s just not realty. I hope you have a great day.

[@lucianello100]

@@SAMLAMByou re welcome,Sam! Life is now,not yesterday,nor tomorrow! Be happy,wish you the best!

[@SAMLAMB]

@lucianello100 thank you so much.

[@SAMLAMB]

@lucianello100 great Advice…

[@philippinesdreamorreality]

Good video

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

Its that bad luck Georgia Hat!!! Lol

[@SAMLAMB]

Omg Commonsense! Do we have to go there… 😂 first we lose to Alabama and now this comment. Just wait til next yr. You be safe. Look out for a Bulldog coming up behind you hahah

[@blaklion-eq5ji]

There's no fool like an old fool

[@SAMLAMB]

Love it , Blaklion…on the spot…

[@philippinesdreamorreality]

That was C.B. Sam😂 you scared me for you.

[@SAMLAMB]

😁no worries guy, we are good…thank you for joining us today. You have a great day!

[@capncmbk]

Sound is really bad. I'm guessing it's by rushing water?

[@SAMLAMB]

Up in the mountains of Valencia. Outside of Dumaguete Philippines.

[@RONALD......]

She should've kept her job.. this lady worked hard to get that job..

[@lindalarsson1436]

What kind of job?

[@SAMLAMB]

@lindalarsson1436 when I first met my gf she was working as a massage therapist. I asked her to quit that job. And then she worked as a waitress before meeting a German expat. And the rest of the story. 😎

[@goatman3828]

All these things and more should be dealt with by the 5th date at the latest. As soon as both think they may want to be together then tackle this stuff. If one of you doesn't feel the same afterwards, better to know now other than down the road when things get sticky.

[@SAMLAMB]

I agree with you Goatman, as I look back I think in my case I probably was blinded by lust…just being honest here. We all live and learn…just happy Razel is putting up with me 😃

[@goatman3828]

@@SAMLAMB wish I knew then what I know now. We as men need to do better about teaching the younger men (and women) some of these important life lessons. We might just help out a few people.

[@SAMLAMB]

I hope through my mistakes others can learn and have an easier time or less stress during their journey here in the Philippines.

[@thevibeinc]

It’s crazy how these guys/foreigners always know everything and give perspectives, outlooks, and opinions from a flawless, selfish angles. Always complaining about countless imperfections. They just can’t get it into their head that even though they’re from the Philippines and ethnically of Filipino descent, they are WOMEN. In my opinion, these guys will never figure it out until they understand that they are individual women.

[@SAMLAMB]

Great comment The Vibe. Thanks for joining us today. You have a great day!

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

Social media has destroyed relationships all over the World, even poor Countries.

[@SAMLAMB]

I just finished making the video on the exact topic you are talking about. It’ll take me about a week to edit it. Looking forward to your comment when it comes out. You have a great day

[@rabidfarmer9765]

Bringing her home to your place is always a mistake. Not sure why men will do that. LOL> Heavens forbid if she got lots of baggages.

[@jimbohi3648]

Good advice I guess, but the most I got out of this particular video was Sam became the milkman

[@SAMLAMB]

🤣🤣🤣. I thought about tha, Jimbo…glad you caught that…when I’m making a video, I just let my thoughts run..I never thought how much milk I was buying for her family, until I started editing this video lol…have a great day my friend.

[@jimbohi3648]

@@SAMLAMB 6 days to go before I land in Cebu I am backwards man I do everything wrong that's what my last ex-wife sad and I guess she's right . But I will be with my GF for 2 weeks traveling around

[@SAMLAMB]

Enjoy your time here guy, I remember my first trip here 16 yrs ago as if it was yesterday…it really had an impact on where I should live the rest of my life…enjoy the journey , be safe ..

[@jimbohi3648]

@@Rwj378 it was our first meeting it was 2 weeks of laughter love peace and joy I will be going back again in August

[@jimbohi3648]

@@Rwj378 I don't think I mentioned this but we've had daily video chats 7 to 8 times a day for over 3 years so when we met in person there were no surprises connections there everything's great

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

You support and pay for her to get her nursing degree, she then moves to the US and abandons you!

[@SAMLAMB]

I’ve heard and have seen that story many times here in Sarasota, Florida..the retirement capital.

[@WilliamFluery]

@@SAMLAMBI guess girlfriends don’t come with a prenup agreement

[@SAMLAMB]

@WilliamFluery hehe, no they don’t, I wish they did haha 😂

[@FilipinaAndTheForeigner]

Always good to see you together 👍

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you. Hope all is well with you guys

[@user-oi3mz8gs2c]

Never….film near running water or traffic.

[@SAMLAMB]

Got it. Thanks

[@SonofthewindsInc]

Listen To Will Downing's song : " I cant make you love me " fits in with what you are saying

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Hard Cheese..just listened to the song..and I loved it…lots of similarities looking back at that situation…in the defense of Mary J..if you remember the part of the video, we had a few more contacts and 6 months later she got married…those few contacts were us trying to find the love that we once had for each other and in the end I couldn’t take her back even though I still loved her…

[@SonofthewindsInc]

@@SAMLAMB You are welcome. Discovered your channel by chance and very good insights. Honesty and truth stops all the heart ache in the long run. Thank you !

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for joining us Sono, we appreciate your comments. Our video is pretty much who we are. Not the most interesting couple but we try to make content that hopefully can bring our two cultures closer together…if that makes sense…you have a great day!

[@SonofthewindsInc]

@@SAMLAMB You are welcome. We learn from the known to the unknown buddy. The world is a huge onion.

[@SAMLAMB]

@SonofthewindsInc a big onion’

[@DennisSleeswijk]

I saw the title and thought “no way that Razel would leave, must be a clickbait”. But after watching it’s not really clickbait as it was a truth in the passed. And yes, if that would happen to me I would feel used. But I also know there are no guarantees. I do believe it does show that opening up to others or being exposed to others does also increase the risk to drift away from your partner. So I don’t believe that talking to your Filipina about sexual needs is enough. Lengthy solo trips can be risky as you expose yourself to others. Trust isn’t enough either. Often actions are required to fulfill your partner needs. It also requires actions to avoid risky situations (like avoiding lengthy absence from your partner) that would drift you away from your partner causing to look at others near you. And that is not only your own risk but that would also put your partner in the same risk. No matter how loyal one says to be.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m with you 100% Dennis, as I was making the video and talking about the past with Razel sitting in the background…I was thinking how fortunate I’ve been in the past 5 or 6 yrs since Razel and I met…the longest I stayed with a Filipina prior to Razel was about a yr..I think no matter how hard i try. The older i get it’s harder for anyone who is willing to put up with me…

[@charlesdefilma7433]

How old is razel bro sam

[@SAMLAMB]

You know girls will not reveal their age…I’ll give you a hint…we met when she turned 26…you have a great day Charles , be safe

[@Edmundo75]

Why don't you look for a woman in early 40's with grown or no kids? Its not as exciting as a younger woman but you will probably have a much better outcome.

[@SAMLAMB]

Edmundo, I’m in a relationship now with a Filipina. ..thank you for your comment.

[@BuzzMccabe-iu9ph]

I have a travel question. Does Philippine airlines weigh your carry-on bag. The rule reads 15 pounds or 7kg. That's not much.

[@SAMLAMB]

I was just on Philippines airlines 2 weeks ago, and yes they do weigh it. And it is 7kg

[@BuzzMccabe-iu9ph]

I guess I'll just do a small back pack 7kg and a check in. Found your channel about 4 days ago. Very good 👍

[@SAMLAMB]

@BuzzMccabe-iu9ph thank you Buzz. We really do appreciate you. Have a safe journey. Are you coming to Dumaguete ?

[@BuzzMccabe-iu9ph]

I will be going to Tuguegarao. Thats a 50 minute flight from Manila.

[@SAMLAMB]

Ah ok. That’s far from us. Be safe my friend and enjoy the Philippines.

[@robertmurray2843]

Its called baggage nothing new most cultures have this in some instances to a varying degree

[@SAMLAMB]

That’s a nice way of saying it. Thank you for the comment, Robert. Welcome to the channel.

[@robertmurray2843]

Still great words of wisdom was shared thanks to you

[@SAMLAMB]

@robertmurray2843 thank you You have a great day.

[@bradleymiller7375]

I love the baggage mine came with! Love my little Angel!

[@JenGioPhilippineJourney]

So she left you ?

[@SAMLAMB]

My ex left me 11 yrs ago, Giovanni…from that experience I was able to learn from it and when I met Razel I was better prepared to live with a Filipina…hope you’re having a great day!

[@mindspaceinvader2606]

Take some me time and travel to maybe Thailand.🎉

[@SAMLAMB]

Love it mind space. Thank you for the comment. Thailand here I come 😃

[@user-qs2br2jl4x]

Only difference I see between western women Filipino women. Western women are more expensive to maintain than Filipino women. Like a car. If you drive Mercedes will cost you more. If you drave ford will cost you less.

[@SAMLAMB]

Nice comment, Fighter…I’ll agree with that. Thanks for joining us today

[@papabear007]

My attention spand is short. But I agree I can’t spend every minute with her need space as well happy when she’s at school . Family finance is an issue. I don’t mind her mom and dad but the sisters brothers I have issues and she knows it . I tell her to find someone better

[@SAMLAMB]

Yeah, we’ve all been there Pete…thanks for the comment..you be safe..

[@bradleymiller7375]

That will be easy for her, or she sticks around for more money!

[@user-dy5pq7tp7g]

I’m new to your channel…I think your new girlfriend is very pretty and sweet. Are you in Dumaguete?

[@SAMLAMB]

Yes we are, we actually live up in Valencia. thanks for joining us…hope you are having a great day…

[@Meintheboxx]

Take it from a Filipino. Just need to have a lot of money and something to look forward to when you die like properties, houses.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for the comment Mein. You have a great day my friend.

[@PG-kd9mc]

Your luck came in.marry one and they turn into mercanaries

[@norvin3186]

Go find a nurse in the Hospitals.

[@SAMLAMB]

? Not sure what you meant by that Norvin. Are you saying I should find a nurse for a Filipina girlfriend?

[@bradleymiller7375]

I've met many nice nurses! But I think Sam found his soulmate!

[@DManGrand]

UGH let them go there is no shortage of available Filipinas.

[@SAMLAMB]

I can agree with that. Still lots of good women here.

[@wld-ph]

Don´t live your life by text. Was this mostly remotely, whilst working abroad?

[@SAMLAMB]

I hate texting but you can tell someone something without facing them and be rejected in person…I think that’s why texting is so popular…thanks for joining us Humphrey. You be safe

[@hurleywilson7246]

The moral of the story, buy stocks in milk...

[@SAMLAMB]

Love it, Hurley…thanks for joining us

[@jonpritz9838]

i bit you were already divorced from previous marriage. That is the sign of who you are

[@SAMLAMB]

Yes, I was legally divorced in the USA before coming to the Philippines.

[@KMJ1936]

Your more of a man than most of the subscribers that are watching the same Philippines vloggers that I've been watching over the last 8 years. Keep up the great work

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you KMJ, I fall short on your comment about me…but I really do appreciate it…I’m always thinking on how to become a better citizen and human being every day…how to uplift others, for I’ve been blessed way beyond my imagination…you have a great day guy.

[@brenda121143]

After seeing you with r a z e l my only comment is and I thought women were gullible

[@SAMLAMB]

Yeah, Razel is very gullible…lol…I’m very fortunate to have her…been together for almost 6yrs now.

[@LADETROIT]

Believe it or not, Fornication will always result in failure. If not in this life, in the next.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for your comment Lade…we appreciate you joining us .

[@hanglee5586]

This is why most age gap relationships will not work.

[@bradleymiller7375]

Well Mines working Great! I'm 71 and she's just turned 41 and very much in love! Been together 3 years and it's great! Sorry Sam I had to reply to this stupid comment! Sorry I guess ur age gap didn't work but Mines going great! Maybe think anout ur comment next time! Sam has the bests replies ever with all vloggers! Again sorry Sam maybe im wrong for commenting! But not all age gaps are worthless!

[@hanglee5586]

@@bradleymiller7375 you are the rare exception.

[@gailmaplesden7380]

You need to make sure that she isn't married or in a relationship with someone else. A cinamar is essential, especially before they move in with you.

[@SAMLAMB]

Welcome to our channel Gail, what is a Cinamar? Is that some sort of a background check? Have a great day!

[@SammifromMiami]

@@SAMLAMB it’s proof she isn’t married.

[@SAMLAMB]

Ah ok. Thanks Sammi. Thanks for letting me know.

[@bradleymiller7375]

​@SAMLAMB everyone know what that is! Stupidity!

[@mikeb9189]

So is the next catchy title gonna be “My Filipina Girlfriend said Yes”. … when you finally asked her to marry you. Seems like you two are already married xx years together now. Go for it Sam. Get her done. No worries regardless of your past marriages divorced. She’s the one for you for the rest of your life. That’s what an outsider observer sees from all you guy’s videos. Seems like she’d like you to finally pop that question and seal your bond together in that special way. God Bless. Take care.

[@SAMLAMB]

I really do love your comment, our video is who we are in real life. I think our life is almost a microcosm of what I think may happen to other foreigners coming to the Philippines. But, I’ve failed in 3 previous marriages…there’s a reason for that. I’ve told RAZEL once I can figure out why I’ll let her know Until then I don’t want RAZEL to ever become ex wife #4 .. Thank you Mike. You have a great day!

[@schmutly]

Hi Sam, I wanted to share some thoughts with you about the video titles. I understand the allure of catchy titles, but sometimes they can be a bit misleading. This title's not needed mate and it made me initially think it was about you and Razel, which was quite upsetting as you both get along so well and you both obviously love each other so much. You have a unique voice and content that genuinely stands out, so there's no need to rely on clickbait-style titles. Your insights, especially on sensitive and relational topics, are valuable and they naturally draw viewers in. Trust and authenticity are key, and you have both in abundance. I believe that being straightforward with your titles would not only maintain trust with your audience but also set you apart from other vloggers. We're here for the content and your perspective, not just a sensational title. I hope you take this as constructive feedback from a loyal viewer. I appreciate the experiences and advice you share; they truly resonate with us. So, keep being you - that's more than enough for us to keep watching. Thanks for considering my thoughts. Here's some Titles that would have been better: "Reflecting on Past Relationships: Lessons and Insights" "Journey Through Love: What I've Learned From My Previous Relationship" "Growing from My Past: Sharing Relationship Advice" "Love and Learning: Understanding My Relationship Journey" "Past Loves, Present Insights: Relationship Tips From My Experience" Love your channel, honesty, and looking forward to the next one. Thanks for listening Sam, you both cling to each other and may your channel grow even more :) Cheers, Rob.🤗

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you so much Schmutly, I really do appreciate you helping me out…one of the hardest thing for me to do is naming the title…I have all these thoughts and ideas on what to talk about. And then once I decide to make a video on a certain topic it takes me about an hour of rambling…and then it takes me another 2 hours of editing…and bring it down to 20 mins and when I’m finished…it takes me a day or two to decide on a title. I wish I can make a video and then let someone else create the title…I’m still learning guy, I actually took a screen shot of your titles and suggestions…hopefully I can find inspiration from it for my next title…the video is actually made…I’ll start editing in a couple of days…should be out next week…you have a great day!

[@piacash5216]

😂😅😂 That’s Why I Clicked on The Videos Coz I Was Curious What Happened…. But This Video is a Clickbait 😅😂😂 You Got my Attention 🙏👍👍👍✌️

[@SAMLAMB]

@piacash5216 I’m not sure I would call it click bait..1 spent the first 12min of the video explaining how one of my gf left me… now my current gf and I we are still together and the reason we are together I believe my experience from my previous gf taught me I should get things out in the open before we moved in together, but even after all the precautions, you still can’t be 100% certain a relationship will work out, but at least you will know why you broke up.

[@Dave-ji1yp]

GET A NEW ONE THEY ARE A DIME A DOZEN IN THE PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭....NEVER EVER MARRY THEM!!

[@SAMLAMB]

Dave, the next video will show that they are a dime a dozen everywhere. Not just the Philippines.

[@bradleymiller7375]

I believe that's why u alone and unhappy! Because of ur attitude!

[@christaylor7049]

I'm a dinosaur young fellow and playing the Philippines game for 20 years, rule 1 never take them back to your country especially USA, you will lose 100 percent

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m leaning toward your thinking Chris. Thank you for joining us. You have a great and special day.

[@SAMLAMB]

By the way Chris, my best friend who came with me 16yrs ago, the first Filipina he met, he brought her back to the USA 2yrs later..as of today, they are still happily married…I was the best man at his wedding, I remember telling him if things doesn’t work out don’t blame me 😅😅😅…so for some it does work out, I keep telling him he is one of the lucky ones.

[@Dave-ji1yp]

NEVER EVER MARRY!!...PERIOD!!

[@SAMLAMB]

Cave, thank you for the comment. We appreciate ya.

[@SAMLAMB]

Sorry. Typo. Dave.

[@rabidfarmer9765]

I said before, Sam - confession is good for the soul but very bad for your reputation. LOL>

[@SAMLAMB]

Yeah, I should’ve kept my big mouth shut lol😢😅

[@Farmerbrown1653]

You never give a woman everything you make her earn it you showed so much weakness and didn’t use your masculine tendencies and take control of the situation and you never talk about deep logical discussions with a woman

[@SAMLAMB]

I agree with you porky. But it’s a balance in relationship. How much is too much info. Thank you for joining us Porky. We appreciate you for taking the time out to share your comments.

[@SAMLAMB]

😂 I have to agree with you KC lol

[@bradleymiller7375]

​@@SAMLAMBagain u did it correctly! Hey porky! Communication is foundation to good strong, loving relationship! Something u know nothing about!😂

[@stbaz]

I understand the fantasy of an old man having a girlfriend/wife that could easily be his granddaughter but the optics of that seem very disturbing. So you think this woman who's going to be 40 years old when you're 85 is going to be physically attracted to you? You think she is now? Better to just have transactional sex and forget this soulmate business because it's delusional.

[@SAMLAMB]

That may work for some Stbaz. Regardless of the optics. Every person has its own journey. That’s what makes life so beautiful. Thank you for your comment we really do appreciate it.

[@lucianello100]

Any story is different ,stats are not just a death sentence as you feel

[@stbaz]

@@lucianello100 Well good luck but if age is no barrier as people like to say, why don’t guys seek out women closer to their own age?

[@SAMLAMB]

@stbaz have you been to the Philippines? It’s one of the weirdest phenomena. Can’t explain it. It just happens.

[@stbaz]

@@SAMLAMB Spent 2 years as a peace corps volunteer in the 1970s. Nothing has changed except the technology. Filipinas are quite expert at plucking a guy’s hormonal and psychological strings. Sometimes making up stories about someone trying to abuse them in some way to get a guy’s protective instincts to kick in and marry them. You need to live there doing regular life to meet normal people not just after what you represent in terms of lifestyle. Unfortunately, older men start getting impaired judgment.

[@mikekinsella2822]

Filipinas are easily replaceable. If you lose one you can get another to replace her in a few days.

[@SAMLAMB]

That’s true , but when you are truly in love it’s not so easy to restart again. Unless you were never in love with her in the first place…thank for joining us Mike.

[@WineSippingCowboy]

Catholic here.. Also, I traveled to and from The Philippines 🇵🇭 for more than 26+ years. Opinon based on my observations. Moving in with a Filipina was the 1st mistake. Same result when a man lives in with a girlfriend in a Western nation: mostly bad things happen! 😖 2nd mistake: saying Yes 👍 often especially with money 💰 matters. This "obligation to loan out" is a red flag 🚩 of perpetual or long time poverty: depending on relatives too much! Slightly different than in Western nations, where the government via tax payers send money 💰. In both cases, the recipient lacks skills in entrepreneurship and in handling a budget. Good 👍 video 📹. 1 If you have a sister, that should give you a reason not to live in with a girlfriend in any nation. 2 Have an abundance mindset: if a Filipina has a red flag 🚩, dump her immediately. Because you are rare by being a Western man, you have leverage. Leonardo DiCaprio, China 🇨🇳 and Japan 🇯🇵 shun any unmarried childless woman 25 and older for dating or marriage. That applies in any nation no matter what critics such as Candace Owens and Megyn Kelly say. Better you break up 💔 than she breaks up with you!

[@SAMLAMB]

That’s a lot of info Winesipping. A lot of great advice for men coming to a foreign country. Wish I had some of these info before I came to the Philippines. Would have saved me lots of time and money. Thank you for the comment. Be safe.

[@absfinal]

What if she’s 25 with kids? Isn’t that worse than without?

[@WineSippingCowboy]

@@absfinal Yes! Single mothers are a No 👎 for dating or marriage.

[@SAMLAMB]

How about single fathers, I was pretty messed up after my divorce, and I really do feel bad for all the Filipinas that had to put up with me until I settled with Razel.

[@WineSippingCowboy]

@@SAMLAMB Strangely, single fathers can be better parents than single mothers! Hollywood will not state this! Full House was the last major sit-com to feature a single father who knew what he was doing! RIP Bob Saget. Before that, Blossom was another show. Mayam Bialik was the star. Decades later, she was a guest star in Big Bang Theory.

[@perlasngsilanganan831]

Find a faithful one every country have bad and good people anyway 😂😂😂

[@SAMLAMB]

100% agree, Perlas…thank u for the comment

[@sgreen4449]

dude you need to look for women closer to your age, she told you she has obligations to her mother... that tells you she is already looking after an older person she is not going to look after another old person. 2nd you are not a foreigner that is white. i hate to say it but its true, your chances 40% to 50% to finding a yonge girl if your lucky

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for the comment Sgreen. I’ll agree with you on most of your comment. But that 40 to 50% thing won’t fly with me. The next video will bump those numbers up to 90 to 100%. I’ll be waiting for your comment. Video should be out in a week. Just need to edit it. Be safe. And have a great day!

[@bradleymiller7375]

​@@SAMLAMByep ur a real gentleman! I wish I had ur style answering these lousy comments!

[@garysharp4499]

When life fights you: Stick and move. Stick and move. Think about it in a mans perspective

[@SAMLAMB]

Got it Gary, thanks for joining us my friend…you be safe. …

[@Farmerbrown1653]

You never satisfied her fantasy

[@SAMLAMB]

You’ve got that Right haha 😂

[@bradleymiller7375]

​@@SAMLAMBbut will try hard to do just exactly that!

[@Farmerbrown1653]

She lost all interest in you because you demonstrated weakness and she lost all respect for you as the man she thought you were

[@SAMLAMB]

I believe it. Or maybe deep inside I was looking for a way out without embarrassing myself.

[@brenda121143]

Sam I'm in love with someone else is code for Sam I found someone with more money than you

[@SAMLAMB]

That’s not saying much Brenda 😉, I think 99.99% of the world has more money than me. I like it that way…you have a great day! Thank you for watching our channel.

[@Worldstreetphotos]

She left you because you start out your videos with annoying music then your sound quality is bad.

[@SAMLAMB]

Love it World street, I feel for you guys who are watching my videos… while editing, Im thinking darn it sam, no one is going to watch 20 sec of this video due to the sound of the river in the background…you know my videos are always non rehearsed, one take and that’s it…I never go back and redo. We are not professionals, in fact it will never be professionally done, unless someone else is taking the video and they know what the heck they are doing, unlike me…I love your comment you have a great day!

[@acoolcrush2155]

Ive never heard so much utter bullshit in my life