My first time on the bottom story

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@braggarmybrat 7 ай бұрын

In practice, the bottoms have all the control. Some tops fear loosing the control, but honestly, when the bottom takes charge, it so much more fun for everyone! Make him warm you up, take your time, be in charge, and ride that horse until you want it to buck. Be kind to your top, it's a great time for all.

@ricktomlinson5481 7 ай бұрын

The simultaneous reach around is the key to make this work for both of you! Plus all prep before is essential ! 🥰

@a-liberal-patriot 7 ай бұрын

If it weren't for bottoms, tops would have to handle things on their own. 😁 Seriously, kudos for trying. Bottoming isn't for everybody, same is true for topping. Every once in a while, though, it can be a nice change of pace. What I'm hearing from you is that you should look at the idea of bottom shaming existing somewhere in your psyche. (This doesn't preclude physical issues.) Many bottoms I've met, and myself too, had to get over that stigma, that seems to be pervasive in our community. Give it some thought.

@ScottyLinscott-u7h 4 ай бұрын

I'm mainly a top but have bottomed. I think doing so helped me be a better top, as feeling what I might to make things more pleasurable for him.

@stevec404 7 ай бұрын

A lot of it is psychological and emotional. I had only done a little self 'play' before my first time 'hosting'. But two things made it amazing for me. I was mentally over-the-top (no pun intended) ready...and he spent time warming me up. The automatic clench response was very short; and in he went to the hilt. I was in seventh heaven! Born to bottom? P.S. He suggested a bit of variety - so we switched positions and I took a ride. That didn't work for me at all. It just felt...wrong. Back on my back solved that problem. It's where I needed to be in my headspace. I wanted him to be the one to want to connect with me, if that makes any sense. I'm new to all of this; and would like to try being the top someday. But for now, my butt is very, very happy!

@blakethomas8897 7 ай бұрын

Yes. More of the story please. Thank you

@Alanik06 7 ай бұрын

I used to feel similar to your description of the experience. All I can say is that high fiber and a good clean out help the "pressure" feeling 10,000%. Plan at least a couple days ahead!! digestive systems are days long, the food you eat today def isn't coming out tomorrow. Anyways, once I found what worked for me, I enjoy being 100% vers, every time.

@Alanik06 7 ай бұрын

also a p-gasm (gasming while that area is being stimulated) is like 10,000x more sensation, throughout your entire body. Aneros makes some toys to get you used to the feeling using natural muscle contractions. Look them up.

@eddiegardner8232 7 ай бұрын

It is generally recognized that if you want to try the grass on the other side of the fence, you should get a set of progressive sized toys and slowly stretch the area over a period of time until there is no pain in accommodating the largest toy. Also, injecting a good amount of silicon-based lube right before will help things go smoothly for all concerned.

@ricktomlinson5481 7 ай бұрын

Very good advice ! 😀

@rpbphx 7 ай бұрын

"It wasn't amazing, but it wasn't awful..." A ringing endorsement!

@DavidG-l6n 7 ай бұрын

Well he had something to do with the result of it wasn't amazing but wasn't awful review, lol.

@Δημήτρης-η6κ 2 ай бұрын

I know if I am bored I have to leave, so I try meeting in a closer distance. I love funny guys who do crazy stuff and are not driven by egoism. Protogenous material is my best option. I like the friends category who evolve into something meaningful later.

@ReyCC1387 7 ай бұрын

You just took the first step of what you need by admitting to yourself that you can bottom with your partner. A mental state is very important and they are exercises you can use to relax to be more receptive and you can both do it together. About position, I think riding is the best position for a starting bottoming since gives you the control need it. So the key of all is to be relaxed and believe me from experience (I was primary top and now I'm completely vers) it will become more pleasure in time. Oh! Don't quit trying it. I hope this helps. Happy Pride!!🌈💖

@dubon9999 7 ай бұрын

God bless and protect all Gay men of all what is bad 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️

@indyjust4fun 7 ай бұрын

They key to enjoying this is being 100% in control so that you can relax. The best way to do that is by riding him. That way you control how fast and how deep. If you will ever enjoy it then that’s the way. Then once you are relaxed you can go back to letting him drive the action! Good luck!

@kennstransky 7 ай бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS

@dubon9999 7 ай бұрын

Gay Power ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

@brentsweer8900 7 ай бұрын

My current partner recently started to come out, and I am the first one that truly has entered him. Not only enter but give him pleasure. One of the things I do is after filling him with pleasure, I stay in and have him fall asleep in my arms while still in him. It relaxed him so much and created such trust, and he relaxed. Now, he opens up so easily for me to slowly slide in. He just loved that.

@ejf9999 7 ай бұрын

I had a similar situation where I had an X and I was his first. Enough cannot be said about using a lot of lube! Starting out with one finger, then 2, then 3, before penetrating him did wonders to reduce his anxiety about being penetrated. Also taking turns falling asleep while in each other (even without needing to cum) created trust and contentment with each other.

@HMFan2010 6 ай бұрын

If you’re not used to have that area of your body stretched, training with insertables and your fingers can be really helpful. Learning how to douche properly also helps. Being tense and apprehensive about things “going up there” can greatly affect your experience and tends to be more of a mind over matter thing. The more used you are to doing things with and having things done to your hole, the easier it becomes. It DEFINITELY helps that your partner took his time. There’s nothing worse than someone who storms the castle like the entire fate of the kingdom rests on his shoulders. Numbing cream is fine but be aware: pain is very good feedback data. The last thing you want is for something to get damaged and you’re not aware of it because you can’t feel it. You might only be an occasional bottom for the “right guy;” that’s okay. You might be 85% top and 15% bottom. Whatever it is, you won’t know if you do or don’t like something unless you try it. Having someone who is willing to go and learn with you on that journey is important. Enjoy exploring!

@bajanyaoikaizer6902 7 ай бұрын

Way to go Ty, keep it up. woop woop. Atta boy Tommy, I know you had it in ya 🥳 Now I wonder if we can throw in Tyler Dantuma, Evan Knox, Angel Rivera, Marcell Tykes, Leo Grand, or Joey Mills; and _Squish_ you between the Czech Twins

@leosheppard8517 7 ай бұрын

And Connor Peters

@rufus5517 6 ай бұрын

@@leosheppard8517

@charlieireland5422 7 ай бұрын

For me it really depends how I feel about the person, it can't be just a fling it has to be good feelings. so It won't happen the first few times we go out.

@lcacaccounting2112 6 ай бұрын

I feel like if a guy isn't fully open for business yet he will stop it. The goal is to get a guy fully open before you switch on the jackhammer. Best start is probable cowboy style because of how your legs open up your core.... 3 min and you can use the jack hammer to the full extend, well with me it is lol.

@vincenthaegebaert1854 7 ай бұрын

It took YEARS for me to get comfortable with it, and it's still not my prefered role, but when you find the right man, you can have a great time switching things up. For me, the pleasure in flipping is the fun it gives him.