When I was younger I was very very insecure about my hair cause it's kinda bushy and thick (like Hermine Granger's in the 2 first movies of harry potter). But one day my dentist said "you know what, I really like your hair" and when I came back home, I looked at myself in the mirror and thought "Hey maybe your hair isn't ugly, but unique". And that one little comment of my fucking dentist made me like my hair so much more SO GUYS IF YOU LIKE SOMETHING ABOUT SOMEONE, ANYONE, THEN TELL THEM CAUSE IT CAN HELP SO SO MUCH. Peace and love to everyone who read this
@okayjer7 жыл бұрын
damn your confidence is everything
@emiliiajayne7 жыл бұрын
"If you're watching this video, you're watching for a reason." Only at this point was when I realised it, so thank you. This video was beautiful Freya 💕
@TheGoldenwolf5227 жыл бұрын
"You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there will still be someone who hates peaches" 🍑
@jayeful65647 жыл бұрын
When you said everyone goes through pain in different ways that hit a soft spot because that was always one of the things i didn't like about myself...how i handled grief,bad news or pain is through crying,alot of it😕
@princessulku7 жыл бұрын
Girl I hated being naked and recently I took my shirt off and saw myself in just my bra and shorts and I was like "I feel amazing" and now I do it often
@noorjahan97277 жыл бұрын
Katelynn Neagle you go girl!!
@abriannaleerae22807 жыл бұрын
!!!! Yay!!!!
@princesslulu49336 жыл бұрын
Me too
@whatyasdid627 жыл бұрын
crooked teeth ? girl your teeth are the cutest; they give your smile character, something to remember
@haso3237 жыл бұрын
I start my senior year of high school in 5 days, and I'm absolutely anxious. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for being brave enough to be vulnerable, so you can help others. Truly, I thank you.
@albaroman20937 жыл бұрын
haso323 I am starting my senior year too next month, and as a person who is understanding you right now: good like, attrack the positive and spread it in a grade that everyone needs it. Have the best highschool ending that you possibly can!
@frenchfroggy70147 жыл бұрын
haso323 I start college in the next few weeks and I am terrified because I will be moving to another country and start a new chapter, but change makes you stronger and push yourself further, always ! :)
@haso3237 жыл бұрын
Woowww. Moving to another country? That's amazing- you're so brave!
@frenchfroggy70147 жыл бұрын
haso323 That's what I tell myself hehehe. I men, retrospectively, I live in France and I am moving to the Netherlands, so it is not that far away. But it still a different culture, a very different place, different climate... I hope your senior year will be a blast ! :)
@haso3237 жыл бұрын
I hope so too haha. Thank you very much. I wish you a safe travel and lots of adventure! Good luck!
@theaparnaverma7 жыл бұрын
Power to you girl. And power to all the rest of the girls in the world. 🌹
@indi67117 жыл бұрын
You are so real and honest. It takes courage to admit your mistakes like this, but it shows us how real and human you are. You are such a positive and bright ray of sunshine, and i think that it is wonderful that you choose to share your life with us. You could honestly talk about anything and it would be interesting because hearing your perception on things is so comforting. 💕🌞💕 Also, can we take a moment to appreciate the sick ass makeup in the thumbnail?! 🌈🌈
@mariamnasser15337 жыл бұрын
i think self love is the most beautiful thing you can give to yourself because it changes the way u see everything and everyone around you 🌹🌙✨
@Freyahaley7 жыл бұрын
Mariam Nasser it changes your whole perspective of the world, you learn that you deserve more than you've previously been accepting and you give out more love (in my experience), sending love to u xx
@jayeful65647 жыл бұрын
I love your dog and i haven't even met him...but just the way he looks up to you as if asking what to do is so cute!
@jaelyncarnes41757 жыл бұрын
this is so raw and beautiful. it's so satisfying to see how honest you are with yourself and accepting of the choices you made when you were younger. it's always great to see people realizing where they could have gone wrong and changing for the better.
@jazlynflores41927 жыл бұрын
you're amazing freya haley. could you maybe consider making a video about being bisexual in today's society, how you realized who you were attracted to and how others treated you because of it?
@Anonymousmz7 жыл бұрын
Tbh,you look like an older version of hermione than emma herself.
@ilovericonasty30567 жыл бұрын
Right ! She does
@willmaan38547 жыл бұрын
yes, but like in the most beautiful way!
@melissadbm7 жыл бұрын
True!
@silkthyme7 жыл бұрын
she truly does. like a young emma watson.
@rosiewhitmore86957 жыл бұрын
Actually hermione is actually supposed to be kinda ugly
@user739247 жыл бұрын
To anyone who reads this comment, remember that you are so incredibly beautiful inside and out, and anyone who says otherwise can fuck off !!!
@indi67117 жыл бұрын
Sophie well put
@theodorakazaki30547 жыл бұрын
Your profile picture is goals
@ninatys36257 жыл бұрын
Sophie Amen !
@scaredofworms20047 жыл бұрын
We have the same profile pic
@felixfelicis25177 жыл бұрын
Sophie the contrast of your profile pic and comment tho😂
@kirar64337 жыл бұрын
I had a breakdown over this yesterday. I started crying and told my parents about how much i hate the way i look and how ugly i feel. They comforted me and told me that i was beautiful just the way i am. But i was soo happy When i saw this notification! Watching these kind of videos make me feel so much better and they really help me:') thank you so much❤️
@princessulku7 жыл бұрын
In the summer time I loved myself so much and then I went back to school and instantly someone insulted my outfit and I lost it all but now it's coming back slowly and I'm happy again
@maliah.86697 жыл бұрын
tbh I think one of the reasons i love you so much is because i relate to you in so many ways. over the past few months that i've been watching your channel you've helped me grow so much, my confidence and my self-love has flourished and you've had such a great impact on my life. i love it when you say something - big or small - that i can completely understand and relate to, it makes me feel a little bit better each time to know that i'm not totally alone in my struggles. much love to you freya!
@ashaburwood39237 жыл бұрын
when you said "if you are watching this video it is because you want to accept and love yourself and you are watching for a reason", I only realized then that that was why I was watching. thank you Freya, I wish I could have as much self love as you. x
@eckstein4537 жыл бұрын
Asha Burwood continue with your self love journey and you most definitely will!!
@jayeful65647 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful freya inside and out...we all look up to you because your such an inspiration and you are so real. You have helped a lot of people with your videos like these and o just wanted to say please never stop making these,being personal and just being you...thats all your subscribers could ask for😚
@ruwansolangaarachchi57164 жыл бұрын
Self love. Smile .be happy. Little things happiness. Positive thinking. Positive affirmation. Wake up early. Beautiful. Confidence.
@saira28487 жыл бұрын
i definitely needed this a girl going into high school who has struggled with so many of the things you addressed in this video. thank you freya. i love you 💕💕
@haylee3967 жыл бұрын
This is probably one of the most inspiring videos I have ever seen. Your voice is so calming and what you have to say is even more calming. During the school year I had zero time to focus on myself so I told myself that in the summer I would focus on myself more spiritually. I'm so happy that I can now say that I love myself, I feel confident without make up, and that I feel confident enough to dress the way that I want. We have very similar stories, thank you so much for making this video❤️
@nicolemarie00017 жыл бұрын
This was such a real and raw story
@nesreenalmo7 жыл бұрын
Your inner and outer beauty shines brighter than the moon, the stars, and the sun. Keep doing you and please continue to make videos like this, they help others way more than you'll ever know :)
@heavenesone7 жыл бұрын
Genie is like "love I need love" , "Why have you stopped petting me?", "LOVE?!".
@madisonelyse65177 жыл бұрын
love, love this. I finally began my journey to self love about a year ago after having an eating disorder, anxiety and panic disorder and suffering from self harm for nearly my whole life and for some reason i never thought self love was important?? its honestly the hardest, but most important thing i've done in my life and this video is super helpful I hope everyone out there, no matter what point in your self-love journey is doing okay
@jayeful65647 жыл бұрын
I love how you put a warning at the begining of your videos it just shows how dedicated you are and how you do not want to cause any of your subscribers harm 💕💓💖
@jayeful65647 жыл бұрын
Anybody else LOVE when they see freya in notifications?😇
@juu7837 жыл бұрын
thank you so so much for always being such a genuine and honest person. My friends at school always joke at me when 'loving yourself' comes up, because in year 8 we were asked what we wanted our last words to be and i said 'i love myself'. It saddens me because every time i do try to think about self love their laughter fills my head. Thank you for this video it did stop their laughter for a while, and i cant thank you enough. Much love as always Justine xx
@indi67117 жыл бұрын
JustMuskSticks Put it this way... self love is the first step to a healthy and happy life. You're one step ahead of everyone else girl! don't let anyone tell you different. ❤️
@kaileymohlmann29347 жыл бұрын
"Self love is from within" I've never heard more pure words come out and me having to pause I video and actually reflect! I live this girl with all my heart ❤️ she is wonderful, beautiful, and she know it and so is everyone watching this video
@skylar92707 жыл бұрын
thank you for doing this video. my journey to loving myself has been very long, but i'm slowly getting there. as of lately i have been knocking myself down and seeing this video has very much helped me get back up. thank you so much, lovely! 💛
@peytonmargo31007 жыл бұрын
I deeply appreciate this video. I admire your honesty in so many ways, in a way that you may never understand. I'm only 7 min in, but this video has already really spoken to me. It's hard to believe someone through my phone could impact my life (in a good way) so heavily, but I just want to thank you for being so vulnerable and honest💌 I hope to meet u someday!
@laurencurrie74757 жыл бұрын
This video really lifted me, yesterday I got drunk with people I don't care about and I felt depressed afterwords but this video really helped me feel good about life.
@EllaRingrose7 жыл бұрын
this really helped me today, at such a young age your so wise and truly inspirational .. strong girl xx
@ThinkInStyle7 жыл бұрын
it's amazing to see how much of a strong person your experiences made you! you reminded me that anyone can change at any time and it's just up to us to make ourselves better people 😌
@vasiliki13246 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being such an open and honest person! Watching this video has helped me so much to realise that self-hate and self-harm are not the right way to cope with things. I feel like we've got so many things in common and it is always helpful to me to watch your videos. I wish you all the best and stay strong, much love xx
@frenchfroggy70147 жыл бұрын
Your smile is actually god damn fucking beautiful just like the rest of you. LUV FROM FRANCE 🇫🇷 Oh, and I completely support your point about being naked and embracing yourself naked, whether it be alone in the bathroom in front of the mirror, or in your bed and loving the feel of cool sheets on your skin, or in your room and looking out of the window playing people spotting.... my fav is when it's raining and I don't have anything to worry about immediately, and just enjoy nakedness whilst the world storms but you don't. Personal fist pumping is 💎
@miadelosr7 жыл бұрын
awe i appreciate the warning you give in the beginning, it genuinely show you care!Thank you for this video
@katrinh62017 жыл бұрын
the horrible thing is, i can relate so much to your story - sexual assault, self harm... i want to thank you that you are so brave and courageous to put your story out there. you will never know how you helped me (and others for sure) personally. you are just pure, radiant love my dear! send u a thousand hugs and kisses!
@mypalewrists89507 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for sharing your self love journey, you have given me so many ideas to help myself with trying to change how i see myself and how i can try to turn my self hatred into self love. i've been struggling badly for the past few years with my self esteem badly which has led me to anorexia and i thought it would always be like this but thanks to you, seeing other people be able to grow into being confident and comfortable in their own skin brings me hope for myself and i can't thank you enough Xx
@janellelives51587 жыл бұрын
I can relate with this so much my, lowest point of confidence so far has definitely been during middle school. I tried so hard to impress other people by wearing the same brands, clothes, act different etc. I find it hard to communicate and connect with a lot of people. I'm always thinking about what people thinking about me and judging not only myself but others as well. I've also treated some people unkindly and I regret how I acted towards them. I'm hoping I'm able to be more positive about myself now that I'm starting highschool and not care so much what people think about me.
@annika_277 жыл бұрын
You are such a strong, mature and beautiful person. Alone the fact that you can admit the things that weren't the nicest shows how mature you are. And the fact that you are working on yourself shows your strength. You will do great things in life Freya xx
@larawaibel66327 жыл бұрын
I have such deep respect for you putting yourself and your story out there. I love how you are trying to help others and making yourself so vulnerable for that. I've been watching u since ur first video came out and loved ur honesty and just you as a person/ KZbinr ever since. Xoxo
@swanky74057 жыл бұрын
jeez !! you're personality is just so pure and genuine i wish you the best in everything I HOPE NOTHING EVER HURTS YOU
@swanky74057 жыл бұрын
you're a beautiful human being (:
@lilsolarshawty6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting us in a little deeper on your story. You're inspiring, truly. Much love. xx
@tarupauliina48287 жыл бұрын
Dropped tears at the end of this video. It's crazy how a person like you who is such a beautiful human inside and out and so frikin' talented can have these feelings you just shared you are feeling now. It just shows how hard we can be on ourselves. Thank you for sharing this. ❤️ Ps. Would you mind if I did a blog post of you? more people need to know you ❤️
@hannahbrown96447 жыл бұрын
every single video you put out is so thought through and inspiring. your outlook on life is so beautiful. what you’ve be through is hard and i’m glad you make these videos for young girls that need your help !!
@lil20367 жыл бұрын
so glad you recovered you lovely soul
@DearDestiny7 жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful person inside and out, and such a shining light of positivity. I hope my videos can make people feel as good as yours do ✨✨🌻🌻
@annaweber49727 жыл бұрын
One of the greatest videos I've seen on yt . Such a great massage . I've been thinking a lot about this topic, and trying to help myself. I think it's way more important to focus on the inside, because you're eyes just show you a picture , but not the story behind it. Because in the end , the person who shouldn't ever let you down , is yourself. I wish you all the best !
@Camtoram7 жыл бұрын
"Get happy with your own company", tu es jeune et déjà si sage ! (Translation : "You're young and already so wise !; But you speak French right ?) Thank you for that inspiring speech and let's get some self love now
@sydneimichelle84947 жыл бұрын
You are the most genuine and beautiful person here on youtube. I know you may get these all the time but your videos have inspired me in the most positive ways. You have contributed to my realizing my self worth and the importance of self love, (especially with appreciating my naked form, not in a conceited way, but in an admiring myself for the body I have built and is healthy), to my challenging myself to become vegan (it will be a month on my birthday on sunday :) thank you for being honest and not sugar coating anything and having that "i don't care what you think, I'm going to make myself happy" attitude that most people are ashamed of admitting because at the end of the day you have to make choices to make you grow as a person. Sorry for the long message but I just think you're such a beautiful person. Keep making more videos
@philippinethomas5277 жыл бұрын
You have such a beautiful soul, you really help me with my journey of self love. I have to say, my confidence and the vision that I have of myself has changed quite a lot in the past few months, and you really helped me with that. Lots of love
@lindsvanleeuwen32677 жыл бұрын
I can't even explain how much your channel has helped me. Thank you so much❤️You're such a beautiful soul
@Luanapradines4 жыл бұрын
This is so true. When you don’t know how to love yourself you will eventually hurt others. Been there.
@toriharrick78917 жыл бұрын
This was so inspiring thank you for making this video. I've been feeling insecure and down about myself and parts of my life lately and this has motivated me to be positive and feel good about myself
@bee-ep9qz7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Many anxious hearts have been soothed and more love has been spread. I found it helpful, and I loved listening to your voice. I like that it wasn't scripted, because the sighs and the laughs and the intonations really made it feel like I was with a friend and we were having fun. Thank you again!!!
@mossdaughter7 жыл бұрын
I just got out of school, my second day of sophomore year. It's not going well and I really needed this. I know you must hear all these phrases of gratification and I'm just another person thanking you, but honestly, thank you Freya.
@aprilmercado56154 жыл бұрын
freya i literally think your smile is so adorable, i could smooch ya teeth lmao
@annadubois37567 жыл бұрын
Your video is so hopeful, positive and true because if we want to be happy with ourselve we can be happy, no matter what. It's so normal to love ourselve and in this way we can love people in return. We have to be grateful because we were borned in this word and it is this world we are going to live until our death. We must make the most of our life. People can hurt us and we, ourselves can hurt people but it's life, we can't change it, we were borned this way, so we have to get over it and accept it and enjoy life.
@Alexis-ng5bo6 жыл бұрын
I Adore being able to see you change in such a beautiful way through you're channel💜 I've been going through something similar w/ self love and it's amazing to see others happier in life as well! Keep it up!
@jayeful65647 жыл бұрын
To anyone who comments rude things on Freya's channel... *stares into your eyes* Do you really feel like leaving hate on a video that has helped so many? And also do you not see that dog! *He's staring into your soul* ...saying "please dont comment rude things!"
@by159w7 жыл бұрын
thank you thank you thank you! this was so so helpful for myself and i'm sure everyone else who experienced this. thank you for opening up about your experiences and allowing us to relate, and also learn to love ourselves!
@miriamjoyce43127 жыл бұрын
Thank you for using this platform to speak up on important matters . You are so inspiring❤️
@alyaziasaeed86837 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video it really opened my eyes to little things I can do to lift my self up and to love my self the way I am. There was a time in my life where I wasn't happy with myself every part of me felt wrong finding your channel really helped me not see my self that way and to expect the way I am cuz that's what's important. Thanks again
@dominiquevandongen83337 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you so much for sharing your story and all this positivity, I feel a lot better about myself now. You are amazing 💛
@lynzeesummers78777 жыл бұрын
i started crying. i really needed this. thank you so much.
@tiahnaruane16977 жыл бұрын
such beautiful, beautiful words. you're such an epitome for self love and the journey to it. thank you, truly.
@sarahmatos5587 жыл бұрын
I fucking love you omg. You are the strongest person out there and keep doing what you are doing and stay you. You have inspired not only me but others. You are such an amazing soul. Don't change pls ❤️
@siarneyles98777 жыл бұрын
thank you x
@zolilb57067 жыл бұрын
Freya just discovered your channel and have already watched all the videos about a million times!!! u r such an inspiration!!! i literally want to emulate you as much as i can!! love u! and your music choice is just bliss!!!❤❤❤
@cielohernandez81797 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much freya you have inspired me to write everyday in my notebook even if its just a simple sentence that will make me feel better about my life. THANK YOU SM!!💖
@Everdinaaa7 жыл бұрын
This is such an important video and thank you for being so open about everything
@morgmonkey1007 жыл бұрын
You are so inspiring, we need more people like u
@haticeyilmaz11747 жыл бұрын
so this is the first ever time i am commenting on youtube and umm yeah so this morning my mum - who is a very strict person- wanted to go on my instagram account to see if i had posted anything "inappropriate" (she once told me off for wearing a V-neck tshirt (keep in mind it didnt show any of my cleavage) and demanded i get changed. Anyway after she looked at my DM's (im not sure for how long since she told me that she didnt want me staring over her shoulder or something like that) which i felt very uncomfortable with, for obvious reasons. I tried not to answer back since last time she started yelling, pulling my hair and digging her nails into my left arm simply because i yelled back saying something along the lines of "This is bullshit" moving on.... Today after school when i was walking i was planning on telling her about my bully (Im not really sure of she counts as a bully but she points at me with her friends and give me weird looks and tell my friends that im an annoying bitch.... till this day i have no idea why ive never even talked to her) and i started telling my mum about it but 30 seconds into it she tells me "why are you telling me this? shouldn't you be used to it by now? your'e probably exaggerating anyway" etc and i ran upstairs to my room crying i dont even want to look at her. She is literally the main reason for my self harm... so umm yeah this is my first comment and i honestly dont know what to do as weird as this may sound i have even thought about running away but i honestly dont know.
@kellyb42727 жыл бұрын
i'm so sorry ❤️ you deserve love and support and it sucks you're not getting it. i hope you manage to do some nice things for yourself (like drink tea and watch the sunrise or watch a movie that makes you laugh or bake vegan cinnamon rolls) until you're able to choose who you spend your time with
@Vanessa109447 жыл бұрын
Please don't harm yourself. That's the saddest when the person who treats you so baddly is your mother. But remember that at one point you will be able to live your life to the fullest. Keep doing what you love and practice the law of attraction and you could start a journal. You can also take some time to create something or meet other people who'll make you feel good about yourself. You're very brave to share this with us! I really wish you the best and I hope you'll get out of this situation very soon! I send you much love! 💕
@haticeyilmaz11747 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much honestly I don't know what else to say... I am crying right now I wasn't expecting so much love and support. *virtual hugs*
@97hanabi7 жыл бұрын
Hatice Yilmaz i love you ❤
@haticeyilmaz11747 жыл бұрын
I love you more
@HannahMarie19087 жыл бұрын
Love you Freya!! Your dog is so cute!
@arianeb8357 жыл бұрын
a video on the law of attraction would be awesome
@amychism7447 жыл бұрын
I didn't think I needed to watch this but I did anyway and I feel so much better now
@ann_om1114 жыл бұрын
Thank you my dear Freya, you are beautiful, I am beautiful, we are beautiful.
@mackenzieharrisova28337 жыл бұрын
Yessss Freya!! I literally needed this video.Love you!!
@jk-zq6zp7 жыл бұрын
haven't even finished watching but i know that this is gonna be more proof that you have such a beautiful soul! keep doing you, freya :) you're gonna come far in life x
@jk-zq6zp7 жыл бұрын
Freya Haley i love u too!! wish you love and more happiness x
@jk-zq6zp7 жыл бұрын
Freya Haley this video made me cry. had a bunch of realizations while watching. my main problem is my shyness, but after watching this, screw that!!!!!!!! gotta love myself first before anyone else
@panicatthebrendonurie11097 жыл бұрын
Can relate on the teeth comment so much! I often don't meet up with friends because I'm embarrassed of my teeth.... It's horrible
@pucks47547 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, i hope that things will get better for you. Watching your videos always puts me in such a good mood. Thank you and sending internet love❤️❤️
@lydiag1777 жыл бұрын
love when your dog is in your videos. super cute. much love xxx
@tamara70957 жыл бұрын
you are so stunning frey! so immensely proud of uuuuu!
@michaelanaranjo7 жыл бұрын
I love this so much, thank you for always being so open about your story and who you are, it inspires me. 💛
@BriannaFullerton7 жыл бұрын
This seriously is so helpful, I have been struggling, so thank you for being so honest.
@DanaM181297 жыл бұрын
You started talking and I was like same same same... thank you for this video. You are beautiful
@ithinkimsarah7 жыл бұрын
your dog is adorable, you're such a strong being ❤️ this is the first video i've seen of yours and i subbed, have a great day 🌈
@annamildway23717 жыл бұрын
Freya! You are such a an amazing creature! Thank u for what you are doing 💓💓🌻
@tashateacup7 жыл бұрын
i feel like a used to have good self-esteem then as soon as i hit like age 14 it just started going to shit, even now as a 23 year old i struggle with day-to-day confidence. like with my driving, social skills, dating.... i randomly get bouts of confidence to do things then other times i fully shy away and act dumber than i am without even meaning to. Urgh, i want to be a kid again :(
@princesslulu49336 жыл бұрын
tashateacup i feel that when i started in age 10 and now im 19 but im bad at social skills but i can talk.
@francisvial927 жыл бұрын
thank you thank you thank you! you are truly a beautiful human being!
@hayleengarcia50677 жыл бұрын
oh my god i really love you and every single aspect of your personality ❤️
@madi.mae1016 жыл бұрын
I took off my braces early because I learned that my crooked teeth made me feel unique and I learned to love them. I literally love everything you stand for ☀️🤟🏻🌸
@MariaDoriana7 жыл бұрын
The video didn't even start and i already now it's going to be a good one. Love you, Freya❤️
@Freyahaley7 жыл бұрын
Maria Doriana love to u also x
@redkizzer7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YO FACE I LOVE YO BODY I LOVE YO HAIR I LOVE YO ACCENT I LOVE YO STYLE I LOVE YO EVERYTHING♥🌻
@Gealamusic4 жыл бұрын
❤❤ same here 🌄
@catiescheib47767 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this, Freya!! Your videos are so helpfull, honest, with a good vibe. It's just a pleasure to watch it. Great job girl!! love ✨
@aj-wd3hy6 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm Bi too! I absolutely hate it when people are all like "you don't look Bi" or "are you sure, are you just confused?" And especially when they say "it's just a trend." I also struggle with self harm too, and still do. You put me at peace to let me know I'm not alone. So, Freya... from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much❤