MY LIFE AS A SINGLE CHRISTIAN LADY | DID I HAVE A BOYFRIEND BEFORE I GOT MARRIED? 🤔

[@womanofgod8262]

" any man who takes you to bed and he's not committed to you is a thief" woww that's deep.🙏🙏

[@adailydaughter6196]

Amen! But I also want every woman to know that if you HAVE MESSED UP, there is STILL HOPE in Jesus. You can be made whole and new no matter what your past looks like 🙂✨🙏✨

[@elishap3110]

This was really good. I admire the confidence you had while in college and setting boundaries. From childhood trauma/sexual abuse, I didn’t even know what boundaries were and I had issues with my self worth allowed so many men to come in/out my life. Since I didn’t get the chance to wait for my husband, I never saw myself as valuable. I longed to be alone with the Lord. Now that I’m in love with the Lord, I enjoy being by myself. I’m content where I am and if God sees fit, He will send me the right one.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Praise God that you have found the lover of your soul who has helped you to see your worth! I pray you will abide in Him continually and that you will follow His leading in all aspects of your life including regarding a spouse. Thank you for sharing and thank you for watching 😊🙏🏽.

[@bijoumwaura3735]

Watching from Nairobi, Kenya - I loved this video so much! I am 22 years old with a strong desire for marriage but I am encouraged to remain satisfied in my singleness from your testimony. May God continue to bless you and keep you :)

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Praise God! The Lord will settle you as you continue to serve Him in faithfulness. Make sure to invest in yourself in anticipation for marriage. Thank you for watching🙏🏽.

[@janeillepitter]

I’m a single young Christian currently and I don’t worry much about getting married. I set boundaries, I don’t give everybody access to me and I know God will send my Godly husband soon! 😇🙏🏾

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen! I love your attitude towards marriage. Remain pure and purposeful and He will surely reward you in due time!

[@womanofgod2948]

Literally felt the presence of God while you were speaking. We need more women like you who by the power of the Holy Spirit can teach women how to respect themselves and come back to the principles of Jesus Christ 🙌🏾

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen. Praise God!

[@divinecharity4083]

Virtuous woman of God. You are inspiring to your generation

[@karin0963]

I am 57 y.o. and didn't really know the Lord until in my 50s. Boy, would I have done things differently!

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Hmm! Thank God for a new beginning even at an advanced age. “Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.” Isaiah 43:19. “There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.” - Romans 8:8 Thank you for sharing, ma’am 🙏🏽.

[@karin0963]

@@MrsCharityUmar thank you for this amazing video. Young women need to hear this message before it's too late.

[@performingartseducator]

Thanks for posting your age. I’m 52 and never met the man for me. I will continue to pray for myself but Charity’s reminder is this: Jesus gave his body for us; let’s give our body back to God. Love God and please God. He will keep us healthy and loves us more. This is a healthy reminder to love ourselves too. Women are worth it. ❤

[@florazerbo1719]

I am discovering your channel and wow, may God bless you! Your video almost brought me to tears,! I was first looking for video for hair, but I didn't know I would found more: A young lady passionate with God, who speaks with all her heart, and you put words on what I couldn't express, I feel like you are the first lady who would understand me! You encourage a lot, God bless you, keep it up!

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Glad to read your comment!😊 praise God. You’re very welcome to the channel.

[@naomibonte7039]

This is also my story. I'm waiting on the Lord

[@MrsCharityUmar]

"The Lord is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him. It is good that a man (woman) should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the Lord."-Lamentations 3:25,26

[@naomibonte7039]

@@MrsCharityUmar Amen

[@Ifunanyaspace]

"Taking those desires to God, saying LET YOUR WILL BE DONE" 💯

[@lydiaheelu2681]

In every dispensation, in every season, Jesus has His remnant and once again this is proof right here. God has His faithful sons and daughters who are committed to doing His will just as He prescribed it in the Bible. These are Believers who are committed to studying His word and seeking Him above all else. They’re willing to study the scriptures and travel even thousands of miles to go where other believers are gathering and godly knowledge is being dispensed. Thank you my dear sister for sharing your testimony and telling it like it is. You didn’t water God’s standard’s down. May those who have ears to hear hear. I bless you and your family. May peace continue to reign in your home as Christ continue to reign in your hearts and minds.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@Ifunanyaspace]

"Any man who takes you to bed and is not committed to you is a THIEF" 💯💯

[@LinaMarie1122]

Oh, sister! This was such a beautiful video! It is ALL about our identity in Christ. I could relate so much to what you said about being zealous and being content to wait on the Lord. I never dated in school. I wanted my husband to be my first and only ❤️ God bless you!

[@MrsCharityUmar]

😊Praise God! Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@mercyoni4804]

Preach on baby! I will have to forward this to some of my girls. Knowing that you are a princess of Almighty God and truly believing it makes a difference. May the Lord expand your vision to the youths and young adults In Jesus Name Amen.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen and amen! Thank you so much for the encouragement, mommy Mercy!

[@janeillepitter]

The Lord is faithful 🤍 He’ll literally give you the desires of your heart if your commit your life to him completely 🙏🏽

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen! Very true.

[@motunrayoesther1120]

You are a role model to young girls.....I love your videos ma....God bless you ma!!!

[@tinah641]

Amen!! I am a little late commenting on here, but I thank God for what you have shared on here. Continue to let God use you to share His goodness to others. God have someone out there for all the single women, but He wants you to give Him all your attention until He blesses you with who He has for you. Thank You Jesus!!! 🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@LivingModestlyNaturally]

Amen and Amen a thousand times. Wonderful testimony of finding your identity in Christ and waiting on God for the right person to marry.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Thank you for watching, sis🙏🏽.

[@shalayne9054]

Amen! I'm just watching this. I wish I'd heard this in my younger life. Jesus has always been with me and I have learned what you've discussed and this is the best life, a life with Christ.

[@kaeley-annwilson4]

Amen sis,i thank God for his confirmation through you that i am not alone in this. I thought it odd being a 19 yr old girl,getting ready for college,whos mother advices her on modesty and how to carry herself as the bride of Lord Jesus Christ.God bless you.

[@hannahmago844]

Mrs Charity may the Lord richly Bless you for this golden teaching. Rich and unique. Amen!

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen! Thank you so much for watching 😊🙏🏽.

[@performingartseducator]

Indeed. Thank you for this reminder: Jesus gave his body for you; give your body back to God. It’s never to late.

[@jsole3]

Amen! Thank you Sis. Charity! Wow! We got born again in the same year, glory to God! There are so many important nuggets you touched on. I pray everyone that is yet to surrender their life unto Christ will not delay any longer.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen! Born again twins!😃 thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@DavidLoveJanet]

Loved it! Thanks for making the video with the leading of the Holy Spirit A man that isn’t committed to you in marriage and wants to have sex with you is A THIEF say it louder👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@joiesam3654]

Amen, amen amen amen and amen! Thank you so much my sister for this encouraging message. 👍👍🙌🙌

[@elnoradarby2209]

From the beginning I'm happy that God and your family is everything to you. I haven't watched your videos in order but I'm 54 years old and I wish that I would have met someone with your spirit and uprightness when I was a teenager. I grew up in church, but there is a difference between church and being taught Christ. I just wish my young days would have reflected what a young woman is called to be. God will continue to light the way of your family. I wish I could talk to you and hug you in person. I pray that your platform grows for the Glory of God.🙏

[@MrsCharityUmar]

😊Praise God! So glad to connect with you, ma’am! You’re welcome to my channel.

[@Charity-j9h]

What a blessing and inspiration! Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏽 God bless you richly Mrs Umar! ⭐ I'm so happy that we share the same name as well ☺️❤️

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Aw, praise God! You’re very welcome. It’s nice to meet you, Charity!😊👋

[@maritzafrank2338]

Omg! I just love this...May God continue to bless you Sis. Charity...I will share this message with the girls I'm my church...this is truly encouragement which comes from God...Blessing to you and your family...♥️♥️

[@alenisegardner]

Excellent! Fabulous! Keep letting your light shine! Hallelujah!

[@oladelekehinde4177]

Thank you Mrs Charity for this wonderful message. ❤

[@confidencekoboo3718]

Yes! Amen! I really enjoyed watching this video. It’s so important for us to enjoy our single years and spend that time with God and just wait for God to bring the right person for us that is willing to commit so this video was so encouraging! Looking forward to more videos like this, bless you Sister Charity

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen, praise God! Thank you for watching, Confidence!😃

[@karenbrown8475]

Amen..I am truly encouraged, thank you very much for this video. God bless..🙌🙌🙌

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Praise God! Thank you for watching!🙏🏽

[@givenbupe160]

I love you very much... Thank you for sharing. I know most of you ladies will stone me but hear me out. Knowing Jesus seriously and follow his will at a young age is one of the biggest blessings. Now, ladies, this is Mrs charity's story written by God and that doesn't mean that if you don't get married or have her life style God will not bless you. Come to think of it, all that Mrs charity has said Is what it's supposed to be but God can never write the same story for every woman. Ladies, certain things happen for a reason, some women have to go through tribulations for them to get who God prepared for them, this is as a result of different purposes that God has for us. As you read, also remember that not every woman is here to get married, have children, and etc. We are here with different assignments. Thank you Mrs charity. To the ladies,let's support one another. God loves everybody.

[@kaaaaaaaaa]

Hi from Jamaica, i agree with you my dear everyone is here for a different reason, so true and all the best to you my dear🇯🇲🥰

[@LGHhhhhh]

I loved this video! Please make more of this, thank you.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Noted. Thank you for watching 😊🙏🏽.

[@MyJoyfulZoneTv]

Nice content and great testimony. As much I love your story, I make sure I watch all your ads (I love to see you grow dear). More grace.

[@DavidLoveJanet]

Hehe God bless you sis Joy lol

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Thank you so much for your support, sis. Much Appreciated 🙏🏽.

[@lyne3477]

Thank you so much for this ! Your words are always such blessings . May God continue to use as a vessel .

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen! Thank you for watching!🙏🏽

[@eugeniamussanda1977]

I don't even know how i got here, but I am greatful. Thank you for your encouraging words 😊

[@MrsCharityUmar]

😊 praise God! You’re welcome. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@eugeniamussanda1977]

@@MrsCharityUmar can my natural hair really grow without using protective hairstyles ( such as weaves and artificial hair )? I would really like to learn to embrace and care for my God given hair.

[@eugeniamussanda1977]

@@MrsCharityUmar am sorry to ask this, not that it's really important. But are you an SDA ?

[@MrsCharityUmar]

@@eugeniamussanda1977 no, I am part of the Deeper Christian Life Ministry: kzbin.info

[@MrsCharityUmar]

@@eugeniamussanda1977 yes, definitely! I have never used any artificial hair and my hair continues to flourish by God’s grace

[@athena7209]

Thank you for this Message 😊 I needed this. Amen. To God be the glory. I will remain strong and be patient upon the Lord. God bless you ❤️

[@sharonkhumomotse8487]

So inspiring!

[@inpursuitofholiness416]

This is wonderful. Don't defile yourself with the ways of the world. And this advice goes to men as well.

[@victoriaadewale6983]

I came across your channel today through one of your natural hair videos, I keep a natural hair as well and am a born again, this is an amazing video as well. My identity in Christ. Please do you have a group or fellowship when I can connect more and learn more as I go in this christian journey

[@MrsCharityUmar]

You’re very welcome to the channel Victoria. Yes, I have a ladies group called ‘Virtuous Young Brides.’ Virtuous Young Brides (VYB) is a holistic ladies community addressing our spiritual, and physical wellbeing. We have weekly discussions on various topics. The group is for women of all ages both married and single. It’s a sisters fellowship designed to build ourselves through the word of God while considering aspects such as self development, health, marriage and beyond. If interested, please send me an email at [e-mail] for access to the group.

[@elizabethoforiwaa7134]

God bless you so much for sharing this Dear Mrs Umar

[@sarademelash1374]

I'm blessed with your service dear sis. Thank you sis❤

[@josephkate5110]

Thank you so much even though I have made some mistakes but I believe something beautiful will come out of me amen

[@deyshaottley184]

Thoroughly enjoyed ...Amen 🙏🏾❤️

[@glorycarrier3712]

Bless you for sharing this sis 🙏

[@SRoseBlog]

BE encourage. Be blessed. Christianity isn't easy because in human flesh, stress and temptations are present. God bless

[@patiencesimataa49]

Amen amen , am waiting for the right time for now it's just me and Jesus and its very beautiful,

[@dajahhall5620]

Amen What a word God bless you

[@EllenFosuaaAppiah]

i love your head gear.

[@marvabertram106]

Me too. I hope she tells us where we can get one . I love head covers and this one is very nice.

[@Sugar_Roni]

I need you to help me learn and understand the Bible. I love this video. I need your help sis. You inspire me.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Hi, are you born again?

[@tresianyjambah405]

Thank u for helping u get back on track... The Lord bless u💛👑!*

[@tresianyjambah405]

Helping me*

[@sheillahbwire2915]

So inspiring, am humbled.

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@ogechionuorah6576]

You're blessed my dear

[@glanessgodlove9833]

Aaaawwww😍😍....this is encouraging 🙏🙏

[@evangelist-wekiatv3189]

Wow! MaybGod bless you as well for being a blessing 🙏 I love you darl 💕

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen! Praise God! Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@rachelbriggs5281]

Wow amen I needed this right now God bless.

[@bigtimeeater1735]

God bless you my dear sister. I'm so happy for you and I pray for God blessings upon you Thanks for the advice to world God bless you richly in Jesus name

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen! Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@londiyanimanda2817]

Thank you for the amazing video

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Thank you for watching!🙏🏽

[@puritynjeri7532]

😊you inspire me..

[@bernicenyarkah1882]

God bless your new home

[@vickyclarence4357]

Mrs Charity are u a Seventh day Adventist ?

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Hello there, I am a born again Christian who believes in holiness within and without. I am part of the Deeper Christian Life Ministry: kzbin.info

[@lwazincube3174]

God bless you for sharing 🙏

[@christandus3581]

Thank you so much ❤

[@kelyhsa]

Thank you!!🥰😇

[@speakthetruthministry1817]

Thank u for this message sis

[@MrsCharityUmar]

You’re welcome. Thank you for watching🙏🏽.

[@debbieokansei6593]

Thanks 😊

[@MrsCharityUmar]

You’re welcome😊! Thank you for watching 🙏🏽

[@belindagoodness6752]

God bless you my sister

[@MrsCharityUmar]

Amen🙏🏽.

[@Ifunanyaspace]

I've been blessed 🙏🏻

[@bigtimeeater1735]

Amen 🙏

[@sarahmutabazi18]

Thank you

[@MrsCharityUmar]

You’re welcome! Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.

[@ifechukwuojimba6998]

I tap from your Christian marriage in Jesus Name Amen 🙏

[@tresianyjambah405]

Ameeen

[@Ifunanyaspace]

I've been blessed 🙏🏻