My Man's Baby Mama Followed Him To Our Home State | Jess Fix My Mess

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[@kennykarls8605]

"I've got my daughter but I'm kinda done with the marriage now" is diabolical 😭

[@preciouscbwinner07]

Like got damn 😂 he needs to chill before he end up on the news. I’d be so pissed if I was his wife and he said that in that tone to me. 😂

[@kennykarls8605]

You know 😭

[@michelleward1901]

⁠

[@lawestphilly]

If you dont have any kids with him sis run as fast as you can 🏃🏽‍♀️ it isn't going to get any better

[@PomegranatesWeather]

💯

[@ayetejeda242]

💯💯💯💯💯x333

[@msarmstrong410]

RIGHT!

[@godschild8677]

Does HE STILL WANT HER? That’s what’s most important and concerning. She’s not a threat if he’s not allowing her to be. I’m not sure why women focus on the other women and never the man, who is the common denominator 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@blondie7389]

You ain’t lying it’s something more on his end. They always focus on the other woman🤦🏽‍♀️

[@user-dl6xi9eg9r]

WHY IS THIS HEIFER FOLLOWING THEM? THAT'S WHY THE CONCUBINE IS HER FOCUS FOR NOW! FOH

[@wendyfan8071]

💯

[@KultivateWKah]

Which caller put time stamps

[@therealmvp232]

Don’t get in involved with people with kids. It will never be just you 2. There will always be extra people in your relationship

[@kelsblair5963]

If you do t have kids then don’t date people with kids at all. You don’t have to deal with that mess no matter how good the person is. If he can’t check his BM then you don’t need to deal with that man

[@InternallyExploredDame90]

This is why I don't date dudes with kids. Now, they could've made this move so that the child(ren) can always see both parents more frequently and easily without having to take trips to other states, but the baby mama could also be obsessed or still sleeping with the father. I ain't got time to be worrying about ANY of that. So I'll pass 😅

[@shogunedpada4293]

Facts this is why i dont date single mothers i dont have time for Baby Daddy Drama.Baby mommas are for baby daddys and single childless people should stay well away.I dont have time for no brat telling me you aint my daddy or no little girl making accusations because she dont want me with her momma.You Crazy!!!

[@lex01246]

Yall need to post these more often

[@maniac50ae14]

The last caller was foul AF

[@StephenEllis-sv3yr]

I'll be forever grateful to you miss Susan Maria Collet, i really don't know how to appreciate you, you change my life and my family situation ..

[@AustinRivera-ex9wj]

After i raised 325k trading with her i bought a new house and a new car here in the states 🇺🇲🇺🇲 also paid my son's surgery (Oscar) Glory to God. Shalom.

[@PaulStone-wx9dq]

I'm surprised that this name is been mentioned here,i stumbled upon on of him clients testimony on CNBC news last week.

[@DamnCtlraztly]

Wow I'm just shocked you mentioned Susan Maria Collet, taught I'm the only one Trading with her

[@Elizabeth-wu6nl]

So nice to see Susan Maria Collet talked about here,her good works are speaking already,wnd like wild fire she's spreading

[@Brandonmendoza-cn6lf]

I would have considered all this as complete rubbish if I didn't witness myself,miss Susan saved me from debt and I'll forever be grateful to her

[@tainatai.]

Jess said damnnnnnnnnn😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@integrafreak1]

This is so perfect for Jess, she’s very well experienced in both areas.

[@nadinehandy6737]

YEP, HE LIKES THE CHASE.

[@blondie7389]

😂😂

[@msarmstrong410]

Majority do until the chasing ceases! Smh!

[@annwilson90]

EverythingJess said! He doesn't have to play along with anything unless he wants to. He definitely enjoys the attention. A year isn't long enough to stay in a relationship that comes with any level of drama. Life is too short to waste time!

[@SlappyMcSlappster]

Thr baby momma will always be in the picture. You should have known this before getting with him

[@VerleanHurd]

True, however, being in the picture, and still messing with the man is two different things.

[@blondie7389]

Exactly deal with it or dip🤷🏽‍♀️

[@user-dl6xi9eg9r]

not necessarily that's ya'll problem gtfo and continue to spread that tired ass v and quit HOLDIN ON

[@maniac50ae14]

This is why i believe single childless people should link with single childless people. And single parents should get with other single parents

[@maniac50ae14]

​@@VerleanHurdThey are, but theres always that comnection and those feelings lurking. That can happen with exs period, why complicate it by dealing with someone who is bound by an ex via a child? Thats just crazy to me. Especially since, most breakups between parents are because one person wasnt acting right, not because the feelings faded

[@thisjustin212]

One of my baby mamas? What can go wrong?

[@methu_selah]

BTW you don’t have to wait until you stop loving a man TO LEAVE… the love will take care of itself; it dissipates I felt as if I was getting off a drug cold-turkey but it worked I placed a few states between us CRAZY IN LUV IS REAL

[@pareeshaslaughter6798]

Ahh yes I remember being in the same position behind a dude, but I’m glad I’m still young enough to date and KNOW what I want when dealing with guys now

[@methu_selah]

@@pareeshaslaughter6798 ALL PRAISES

[@ninarice5279]

Amen!

[@SocialSymone]

may whoever sees this be better than yesterday and blessed! ✨💕

[@asdfghj13579fly]

Isn’t it easier for the kid(s) if both parents live in the same state? They may have done that for parenting time isn’t disrupted by distance.

[@VerleanHurd]

True, however, they could be messing around as well, and using parenting as an excuse. Let's talk about it.

[@LamarKing215]

It’s also easier to file child support papers

[@VerleanHurd]

​​@@LamarKing215 Exactly. He don't want to. He's having his cake, and eating it too.

[@user-dl6xi9eg9r]

FAWK THAT LMAO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@Missdgaf440]

@@LamarKing215ok it’s not about you or your feelings it’s about the child 😂

[@kendracosey]

When I was single, I dated a man with a child once. I said, “Never again!” If he already had a child, I KNEW he wasn’t my husband. Men would NEVER stick around for a woman going through this with her child’s father! 😂

[@janedough6410]

Most men would not deal with the situation in reverse. However there are some good men with children and it all depends upon how they handle the situation. I dated a single dad twice. The first I dumped. The second I said, _Been there, done that.... really don't want to deal with it again_ . But he kept his word and nipped things. It also helps if the child's mother is married.

[@stayfocuseddi]

yall dropping videos on a Sunday is rare

[@dee27206]

They’ve been doing it since superbowl weekend you’re late. They post on Saturdays sometimes too now.

[@dee27206]

They’ve been doing it since superbowl Sunday you’re late

[@thasoop]

I followed my daughter’s mom across state lines to be closer to my daughter while he mom went to college.. my daughters mom is married. I’ve never wanted my daughter’s mom back.. this may be the same situation.

[@Truthbetold322]

She said she knows that his ex still loves him. These are 2 VERY DIFFERENT THINGS. It’s one thing to do that for the betterment of the child. It’s a whole other thing when it’s being done because you still love the person, these are two VERY different undertones.

[@thasoop]

⁠@@Truthbetold322I still love the mother of my child too, that doesn’t mean anything - the baby mom has not done anything but follow them to a new state and assumes she plays “baby games” w/ no examples. She only been with this man for 1 year.. she don’t even understand the dynamic of co parenting.

[@shayelowlow]

It’s clearly a different situation. Your bm was married. This woman is not, she is still in love with him and the man in this story clearly has multiple bms

[@thasoop]

@@shayelowlow ..she got married after college & then moved again.. and I did it again (followed). She wasn’t married when I did it the 1st time.

[@DanniJayy-hc4ih]

Two completely different situations from how the woman explained it

[@cyoohoos]

She said ..1 of his baby Mamas? He’s immature. You’re less than smart because he hasn’t married you. So he wants it all and you play apart

[@CoreyTillman-xd9dh]

Great job Jess ❤❤❤

[@TheBasher-_-]

Oh i cant wait till Monday to see Taylor Made-Its reaction. 😂

[@ChadFreeman757]

No bs😂

[@torrancenorwood1349]

Shit was Brilliant right? ....All them niggas Washed. I been saying the real "Battle" will include niggas like ( no particular order) Stove,Conway,StylesP,Rome,Roc marci,Jada,38spesh,Bennie,Westside,Thought,OtdaReal,Graf,Ransom,Symba,Bronson, e.t.c.

[@tainatai.]

I was with him till he said now the daughter here he done 😮😂

[@Covers-and-Commentary]

Before dating anyone with kids think twice and count the cost!

[@diddy2612]

I say run. Don’t ever deal with someone else’s baby mama drama. It’s not going to get any better

[@septemberjai5216]

0:41-0:43 1:39-1:45 💯

[@RAfinago1]

WAKE DAT AZZ UP. ..

[@visionsoflight2357]

Good advice Jess!

[@ShermanBMason]

Great segment idea. I dig it.

[@PrimordialChaos1]

I'm digging these late weekend drops

[@oasisfullfilled7617]

Child,him, and the child’s mother are connected forever. He has to put her in her place but if he not then you already know the answer

[@malcolmblack4099]

"Trying love 2 show ain't easy to do" 😂

[@Verbatim.]

Imagine marrying someone for the wrong reasons and being surprised that the other person took their vows seriously

[@Hotwheelie]

Yo they all have me dying

[@freakboy40]

Yeah, it could be good for the baby she moved there. Now if it gets to be more than about the baby you need to go to court to get it resolved. If he is unwilling to get it resolved he is part of the problem. This is what happens when men and women enter relationships with existing children if there is pre-existing drama there. You need to meet the baby mama and find out what her true motives are first.

[@septemberjai5216]

“He just plays along”… yea aite 🤨

[@preciouscbwinner07]

Red flag 😂 She need him to go to court or leave cause he definitely creating drama.

[@user-dl6xi9eg9r]

PREACH JESS!!!!!

[@Fleefromsin]

If I can’t commit to God, committing to someone else won’t come easy. God teaches us true love because He is Love. If we don’t spend time with Him, we will continue to be selfish, inconsiderate, lustful, sinful, etc. God is the only one that can teach us genuine love for someone else. Someone that doesn’t love Jesus may be kind to you, but they’ll never love you the way that God desires if they don’t have a consistent walk with Him.

[@anthonyellison5774]

Fax💯🙏🏾

[@MsMusiqisinme]

No lies told!

[@anthonyriley4429]

💯...Nope, the courts don't play. I took my daughter's mom to court and got my rights as father enforced. PSA to moms and dads playing this game, don't! Bc the children are the ones that suffer the most in all this.

[@renaissanceyoungtv2.0]

You never realize that some people are just idiots. Why would you ask Jess for advice for love like she Dr. Love Foh. Lol. Jess is a mess. Respectfully

[@michaelhodge2104]

Going through the courts protects the man's visitation,but it will damage the man's credit when child support is introduced. It's still the best way to handle it.

[@iBryanDBrown]

🎶 “Now You a single mom…now you single mom” 🎶

[@angelahill927]

Time to roll.

[@harvemedharvemed7796]

Some men are afraid of child support and their child not loving them due to the misery of the mom.

[@Godliiest]

It was also her ultimatum too saying she only wants to have one if she got married.. they both got what they wanted

[@therealmvp232]

That’s why you don’t get involved with people with kids.

[@klondontv]

He is Disrespectful! He used her and now wants an escape.

[@almightyesso4789]

Stop getting advice from people who don't know you or your situation.

[@Tayslay1215]

He DEFINITELY knew she was moving up there

[@keshaconner230]

I believe Yes and; She should be Worried About The Baby Mama Moving to New Jersey. The Mad Baby Mama Wants The Father. 😊.

[@tjswann3768]

Somehow it's always the man's fault

[@King-xs4sd]

People must really b desperate to b calling her for advice

[@angelh6345]

I honestly see no issue with dude wanting ro leave if marriage doesnt suit him He should have been clear from the jump

[@msarmstrong410]

Oh no, she said 'one of' his babies mothers. Smh. This is why I will NEVER date someone that has children from previous relationships/ a child from a previous relationship.

[@patrycethomas4781]

Wow…she got married and still became a babymama! Crazy….

[@janedough6410]

That's messed up... you did things accordingly and some lame azz dude determines your fate. I'd grant the divorce. He can visit his daughter in another country and watch her call another man daddy.

[@jonndoughe2106]

Oh well women leave marriages every day b

[@loyalty3653]

Yall need real therapy and God not Jess with the mess this world is lost smh

[@ramonafortson]

Why not just leave her and wait until you meet someone that you wanted to marry regardless of a child or not

[@lpgilber]

The caller already sounds stressed 😫. I hope she doesn't waste years trying to stay in a situation that takes away from the joys of life. Life is too short.

[@angelh6345]

I dont think she followed him He invited her lol Ive had homeys that will move their kids mom wherever they move just to access the kid and probably the bm too

[@harvemedharvemed7796]

More than 2 baby mamas is a no for me and has been there with the miserable baby mama. It is a nope going forward

[@ManOnTheMxxn824]

At least he’s closer to his child

[@josephatkinson5693]

These grown men and women taking advice from jess like they don't know her history of terrible relationships and she only born in 92" why are they calling with real problems like she got good advice 🤔

[@bigwifeezy]

5:15 this advice ain it 😂

[@tg072185]

You mfs really asking a 30yrold unmarried/engaged mother of 2 celebrity for advice!! Smh

[@1taeok]

These broken home making dusties are wild. He's creating another bitter bm against her will! Whew.

[@tylerhackner9731]

Ooo this crazy

[@harvemedharvemed7796]

6:14 that man needs help because he doesnt even care about the womens feelings

[@missmarionlewis]

She really left Georgia to move to expensive ass jersey....she ain't going nowhere

[@princedoogstar]

As usual, Jess gives awful advice!! If that man hasn’t done anything to violate the trust, there shouldn’t be a concern. The good news is that he can play an active role in his daughter’s life and be PRESENT! New GF needs to grow up.

[@FN-lk7gn]

05:30 it sounds like a woman that had her mind made up about the "optics". She wanted to make sure that it LOOKED like a happy family. A little nudging in the right direction is a different than basically forcing or coercing a marriage outta someone. He should leave and get partial custody.

[@VerleanHurd]

Or, she's a woman that has standards, and high self esteem. She's not pushing out a baby until she's married. He had the option to leave, and find a woman who didn't require marriage. That's it. That's all.

[@dr.peppermintpatty4925]

Single men and women should NEVER date anybody with children.. you have a right to be selfish with your life and how you want to live it…

[@Westy-]

I can't believe people are actually seeking advice from this lady. The blind leading the blind, The duence leading the duence SMH.... This chick has bullshit her way into that seat. Claudia would have been PERFECT, hell Candice Owen too Where's Tez?

[@YTMANHERE]

FIX MY MESS … idk when my Radio Host is… #WHEREIZTEZ TUBI MOVIE On DECK

[@Ggcl149]

I don’t like women like this. They’re always quick to blame another woman meanwhile staying with the main problem.

[@Funnybut-true]

Jess fix my mess? No intelligence needed for a name like this

[@Kissmyssa]

What’s new with the bm bd bs same story different people. But the second story wild af like sir why tf would you do that 😅 He goofy asl

[@daymogeezy]

Assuming is not great thing to get from person tryna give advice!!!!

[@ELBONYBEAUTY27]

A daughter isn’t an heir.

[@dhoward5577]

You saying it so wrong.. to go threw the courts your telling the father to place himself on child support 🤔🤔👀👀

[@neakxo]

Theres 2 courts money cs court and family coury for visitation. She talking about family court

[@Oneandbeast]

The second dude is wild and going to hell

[@summersalt123]

lmfao

[@treysmart1]

Jess please add something

[@TheBasher-_-]

Pipe down pipsqueak. 😂

[@sweetbuttergeminine4756]

frrr 😂😂 ​@@TheBasher-_-

[@shadstradamus]

This man takes time out of his 24 hrs to comment on videos that he has an option to watch or not watch. It's been multiple videos he said the same thing or something similar on.

[@Covers-and-Commentary]

She’s the one giving most of the advice? What else are u looking for? The Pythagorean theorem?????

[@treysmart1]

@@TheBasher-_- Ask your mom

[@ramonafortson]

Maybe she wanted her child to be closer to their dad. It’s actually very noble. She’s willing to disrupt her life to bring her child close to their dad

[@Missdgaf440]

That’s how you know women don’t be wanting their men to be active parents 😂 how you mad cuz his child moving closer to him. Stop worrying about the mother she’s always gonna be around

[@jonndoughe2106]

He's in his right to leave for whatever reason he wants to...know your worth king 💪🏾

[@stephtacular1402]

Jess really blamed the man? Wow

[@davaughnallen3324]

Jess can't fix her hair, how can she help anyone? Terrible advice, take care of your kids no matter what... Jess about to be a 2x single parent...

[@brandonrogers6252]

Taking advice from somebody that can’t read is wild

[@tainatai.]

Such a hater

[@VerleanHurd]

Hating on someone who's more successful than you is wild.

[@Covers-and-Commentary]

She reads fine can yall let that stupid narrative go?

[@jamesbriggs6364]

Making fun of someone's reading skills is Wilder considering like 770 million people almost 20% of the population who can't read and most of them are women but you think she's the only one with the problem 🤡🤦🏽‍♂️🤣

[@user-oi3su7sw5n]

​@@Covers-and-CommentaryJess deserves everything she gets she always talking down on another blk woman

[@GeezyEscobarTV]

This is horrible advice how u just blame the guy for his bm 🤦🏽‍♂️😂

[@Train2Liv]

0:15 And what makes women think men want this type of drama, from a woman with multiple “baby daddies”, in their lives?!?!

[@demetriburris4259]

Men dont want to go to court yall women stop putting everything on that cuz thats what yall do

[@sweetbuttergeminine4756]

then what do you suggest. mfs always ready to tell someone what to stop doin but ain't got no solution. be helpful or shutuuup 😅

[@ebhill8577]

if he loves his kids ... he will go to court .. stop it

[@dalovaboy21]

Plus it costs a man to go to court to get visitation yet the woman goes for free to get CS

[@CiLove822]

@@dalovaboy21I know women who have gone to court on malicious intent and it backfired on them, but worked out in the man’s favor. However, if he wants to see his child for real, he would take a chance and take her to court to set up visitation. As Jess stated, he is enjoying the attention. If he ends up having to pay CS then that's a small fee for being able to see his kid. I live in Jersey and know that if he is placed on CS, and it's too much, he can go to the CS building to set up his payment plan.

[@730F-Sport]

​@CiLove822 you probably seen that on tv or sum.. The fact is that family court sides with the mother 90 percent of the time.. He probably don't want to rock the boat.. that's why he won't take her to court

[@SIK50H]

How YOU know he knew she was coming ?? stop the BS BAD advice

[@vernonwhite3936]

Not a fact… courts play a lot of games.…

[@kelsblair5963]

Stop making babies in the numbers yall do

[@readyalways1414]

Jess I just want you to know I'm happy you're on Breakfast Club, and you're doing a great job BIG DOGGIE 💯👣 I love you CTG, ENVY, JESS is doing, and keep up the great job BIG DOGGIE 💯👣

[@gameiskhan7226]

She don’t kno wha the hell she talking about

[@treysmart1]

Jess still adds nothing

[@untuchablemizz1]

This is just uninformed advice.. if hes not having sex with her, fall all the way back... sometimes the new person wants to erase the history between 2 people which isnt that simple when there's a kid involved.. he has to be nice to her to keep the peace. Woman sometimes think being nice means you r just being nice. Get the courts involved and be states away from his kid so you wont be insecure? Just dont be with him if you cant handle that situation. Point blank period.. dont cause him to be out of his kids life for a period of time for your own comfort. He will resent you and the kid will hate you.

[@britking05]

Ok Ebo-nI

[@bigboybasshead163dbl]

Jess you know im your baby daddy right