MY MISTAKE Moving to Thailand

Don't do THIS in Thailand! Learn from my MISTAKES. When I moved to Thailand, Keis told me, Tempus told me - but did I listen...? NOPE! I let my ego run wild and surely enough, it all came back to bite.
Today I speak very candidly about moving to Pattaya, Thailand and the terrible mistakes I made. I discuss binging and spending vs health and budgeting.
I talk about saving money when relocating to Pattaya, Thailand and reveal happened when I let grog get the better of me in downtown Treetown. This may not be an easy watch but I believe it's worth saying should it help others from making the same mistakes. I need to do better - and I will.
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[@johnceragioli9671]

Very good and honest video Sam. One thing to always remember, when you go overseas you should open your heart and open your mind, without any preconceived notions and ideas that you bring from your home country, to your new countries realities. Always remember that you are a guest in their country and you are at their mercy. Main rule, never do anything thing that’ll make a Thai person lose face, it’s disrespectful.

[@DreamofThailand19000]

As a Thai, I appreciate your honesty. We all make mistakes but we learn from it. We( Thais)'d rather have foreigners who are real and own their mistakes than those who think they are more superior than we are, and disrespect us and our culture in our country. Welcome to Thailand!

[@mikeyboy3054]

Everything Adam told you is solid advice. Listen to him. And as far as you making 3 poor decisions during interactions I say congratulations because you learned valuable lessons and made ammends for it. None of us are perfect. You're lucky because if you get into it drunk or angry with the wrong guy here or any country you could end up dead. You got this. Keep going. A few bumps and the road will be smoother.

[@GoneAdrift]

Thanks big guy 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@allenbracchi8922]

Dude , it doesn’t matter what station in life or nationality another person is , you should always be polite and respectful to anyone you meet.

[@PloyandJayinThailand]

Thanks for your honesty. Learning from mistakes is key. We are all young once and make mistakes. But no need to overthink these things. Better days coming 👌

[@sk8nix66]

Hey Sam, I highly recommend getting into some kind of activity/fitness routine. It's what mentally gets me through my rat race office job. No gym needed, walk/bike/run/skateboard/pushups/squats/whatever floats your boat and gets your blood pumping and muscles firing. It's free, gives you routine and purpose, makes you healthier, takes up a little portion of the day where you could be worrying or drinking, and the routine and discipline is respected by others. Also those endorphins! It's like free drugs bro, you feel good physically and mentally when you're done and you know you can do it again the next day. Cheers mate! Love your content!

[@GoneAdrift]

Love this sentiment brother. I’m going to follow this up

[@peteonretreat2023]

As a fellow local KZbinr that openly talks about mental health challenges living here I can’t tell you how refreshing it is to hear your honestly on this topic. Too many folks just say whatever they think their audience wants to hear. You got a sub from me and an ear if you ever want to talk. Take care 🙏🏼

[@GoneAdrift]

Fuck yes mate

[@stanleykyle]

living in Jomtien you have a great beach walkway to get out and cool off your hot head each day by going for a long walk.. you can do two a day, one early in the morning and one at night. I lost 25lbs by doing that in December and January. now I go to the gym every morning to start my day. Shopping at the markets will save money, get a rice cooker, meats at Big c or lotus. develop a daily schedule. you will get back on budget in no time.

[@Deeroc25]

I find your honesty and transparency regarding your struggles to be very relatable. Kiesy has a great channel and he seems like a very good friend, but honestly, I can’t really relate to his 100% non-stop enthusiasm and positivity. Anyway, hang in there mate. We are rooting for you 👍. Remember how many blessings you’ve got and be thankful. You’re a young man, living out your dreams in a beautiful part of the world. There will always be bumps in the road but the troubles will pass ✌️

[@GoneAdrift]

He sure is 100% positivity, always. Never gets stressed. Rarely angry. Rarely concerned with Jack shit! Wish o was more like him 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@native_ty]

some solid advice right there. After spending 3 or so months in thailand earlier this year im getting ready for the big move myself. thanks for the tips !

[@bradfromoz]

Love your openness with your ups and downs on your new adventure Sam. Youve done so well getting where you are now. And a positive youve learnt some tough lessons early on. Keep going Brother!!

[@GoneAdrift]

Love you bro

[@philt6470]

Glad that you made amends with those you wronged & those that you mean a lot to.👍 Just know that we all can make mistakes & don't beat yourself up to much about it. Be the best person you can be to others, whilst remembering why you moved to Thailand in the first place. Good Vibes & Good Friends.😉 Thanks for your honesty Sam.

[@SkellyGamingCreates]

That's right mate, pull your head in. Stop drinking. Start hustling and don't settle in Pattaya.

[@franksaunders6534]

Head up, man. We all make mistakes especially when drinking and carrying baggage with us. I made plenty of similar mistakes when I lived in Indo in 1996 - most linked to alcohol and letting Western emotions get the better of me. Asia is very different. Rather than despair and fight it, suck in the air, open your eyes, learn to breathe the air and take in all that is around you. There's a lot going on in Asia and the people are great!

[@mikemcneil5647]

First video I've seen of yours and you seem easy going on camera. We all go through ups and downs, and you've been through a bit of baptism of fire moving countries with the stress that comes with it. Sounds like you understand where you need to be and you have some mates around that will help (I follow Keis and think his last video was speaking to some of the issues you mentioned). Good luck, and best wishes. I'll keep wathcing.

[@TheTimeIsNow1985]

Thanks for being real 😊 I plan on moving to Thailand within 60 days, on a budget. Never been there before. I'm glad you have figured it out quickly and got yourself back on track ❤ you got this!

[@cdmorrissy3692]

I went to many countries, when I was in The Navy, and I learned (usually the hard way) valuable lessons about being successful when in foreign places - be VERY open minded, be VERY patient, do NOT expect anything to work as well as in your home country, do NOT be defensive in your dealings with the locals (but do be cautious in extending trust) and do NOT get drunk, because all of the other "ways" you need to be are (usually) disabled (by booze), and you fail miserably. I'm "semi-retiring" in The Philippines 4/2024, and I'm preparing well for this, and thankfully, I've spent a lot of time there in the past, so "culture shock" isn't really an issue, as I know what to expect, and I'll have A LOT of savings and income, so money won't ever be a problem. The right attitudes and preparation are the key to success.

[@simonnz7193]

Number one rule , avoid confrontation !!!! Good honest vlog mate, very easy to get carried away with the drinking so good to see you are having a break.

[@jomontanee]

LOVE LOVE YOUR HONEST BLOGGING. Please keep it up. This can be your FORTE!❤❤

[@lRedBaronl]

Hey man! I truly appreciate this video because I am moving to Thailand soon and I know that going to a new country for vacations and moving there permanently are two completely different things. You sound real in this video brother. Remember we all make mistakes and you going to apologize shows that you are humble and learn from your mistakes. I’m a new sub and also, random question. You mentioned that you gave the girls at the bar “artwork” what exactly do you mean by that? Are you an artist? If so, I am a digital artist myself.

[@Dan-uc7vl]

You made 4 mistakes, 4th being "Don't swim in that ocean!"

[@paulweston285]

I agree and i lived there its a sewer

[@Dan-uc7vl]

@@paulweston285 I'll stick to using the hotel pool

[@GoneAdrift]

Hahaha classic!!

[@OUFN]

We Live and We Learn, experiences that last a lifetime. Thanks for sharing this!

[@noaneill]

Great vlog! Having the ability to raise your hands and say, "I fucked up" is commendable. And to then also chat about it on KZbin? Fair play!

[@andreasjohnson9041]

Great video! Loved your honesty and how great the people are around you. Never judge the people around you. Your honesty was refreshing!

[@chopsfury7980]

Dude, way to man up and take ownership!, that’s solid my man. Also sharing vulnerabilities and being honest with yourself. Don’t beat yourself up too much about it, just now maintain this mindset, stay positive and kick ass. You got this all the way. 💪🏻. Fully support you moving forward mate, go get it.

[@jm-is4cr]

when i moved to thailand ,after 1 month i was over it and missed home ,but i stuck to it and never looked back after getting over the first month .just gota keep going mate .

[@GoneAdrift]

Thank you brother

[@andrewoakley4957]

Good to hear that you're learning from those errors and made a point of making your peace with the affected people. It takes a big man to do that, so don't beat yourself up too much. Relax and embrace the beauty of Thailand and the thai's 😊.

[@levelinggenius1474]

Thanks for sharing. Everyone just wants to front like it’s all perfect and that it’s so easy to make it there. Being humble is so hard sometimes. Good luck to you man.

[@mactvtravel]

cant believe Ive only just seen this, your transparency in this videos speaks volumes mate, love it!! and so does everyone else looking at the views fair play mate, i know your doing well now, will pop down Soi 7 again soon as i can bro ❤

[@pejfectlife]

Decompression looks different for everyone. And without the right tools to deal with it, it can surely be messy. Glad you realized what path you were on before it was truly too late. Keep it up. :)

[@ifitistobeitisuptome]

Love the honesty, looking forward to watching more from you in the coming months! Cheers! 🙂

[@mikeg8013]

Dumping the booze is a great move, owning up to and realizing your mistakes were an even better move. Keep pumping out the content boss man 🤙🏽 aloha from Hawaii

[@ChiangMaiThaiVideoVlog]

Good advice, it is. Thanks for sharing your experiences, mate.

[@drummerchicago]

the late Robin Wiliams said it best "Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always."

[@BaileyEmia]

Respect. When your actions don't match the words you say, life gets hella stressful bro. It's kinda like you can't even do what you said you were gonna do so you start second guessing and losing trust in yourself. Then every time life slaps you back to reality and you say those same words about changing for the better and doing the right thing, they become meaningless and hold less and less weight and everything feels foreign and foggy. And once you step back and take in the view, you realise the cycle continues to loop on different levels throughout your life over and over and over. Starting again, taking on small challenges like waking up on time, making your bed in the morning, eating breakfast and following through, you start believing in yourself again and the confidence and competence starts growing again, and all of a sudden life's looking up, and you feel capable of tackling those big things again. I'm only saying this because i've been there/done that, and from what you've shared so far I see a lot of similarities. It's all love, bro. We're all gonna make it 🤙🏽

[@GoneAdrift]

Thank you mate

[@summercameron3505]

I am still thinking about visiting/moving to Thailand and have just over 2 years clean and sober here in California. I hope they have AA meetings there - the program saved my sanity and my life, and I am beyond grateful 🙏

[@GoneAdrift]

Mate I’m about to make a video about this. There’s A LOT of meetings in Pattaya and likely other areas of course.

[@summercameron3505]

Congrats Sam! Keep coming back!!! @@GoneAdrift

[@NewyJon7787]

Good luck man, found your channel from following Keis channel. I found him when planning my own Thailand adventure. Sadly mine was only a visit. Would love to come back sometime soon though. Hopefully see some of Vietnam next time as well.

[@gastongeneral6861]

You have made some excellent insights into your situation. Good luck. Cheers The politeness one/ reputation one is key as you have found out.

[@S2KDAN101]

dude, great video, I like what you said near the end about those 3 interactions gone right.. connections are Key! and will help you so much in life. you never know when walking up to someone, who they are or what they do. the more friends the better.

[@chriskerrico6855]

Great video, keep it up I moved to Thailand a week or so before you. Everything you said is on point!!

[@zzfightingirish]

Im assuming this came up in my feed because i watched keis one. Glad to have come across you and subbd . Cant wait to watch more!

[@user-qz6mt9wo5x]

Sam stay strong mate. life is never easy and a person can get caught up in the party way to easy. keep up the awesome vids buddy.

[@stackedfat]

Takes a real man to admit his mistakes and to make amends for them. Good job. Keep doing better.

[@goodvibespattaya2423]

Well done mate, good advice and please let me know anytime you want a chat or someone to hangout and bounce shit off, I’m back from Koh Samui and happy to come and meet you in Jomtien, it gets easier 👍

[@BadRongo]

Dude. Being a nice person and putting good energy out there to others will always pay you back in dividends. The younger you learn that lesson, the happier and more at peace your life will be.

[@GoneAdrift]

Yes Sir!!!!

[@daveinsea]

I feel you, bro! I have been in Thailand for 5 weeks. I've made a few mistakes, too. Mostly, with understanding/communication. I have had to watch my alcohol intake, too. I joined a gym a couple of weeks ago, and that has helped. Culture Shock is real. Head up, my bro! You've got this!

[@MrABroad]

Everyone make mistakes, but this is how we learn from them. 👌💯 I am going to Thailand very soon, can’t wait

[@tempustv]

Great vid buddy! I like the transparency

[@JayDKBGames]

Good video explaining differences in holiday and living there and culture shock.. good luck

[@jaredgrant9201]

Live and learn brotha that’s what life’s all about! Props to you for correcting your wrongs. Keep killin it !!

[@GoneAdrift]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Grimreapervlogs]

Good to see U recognise your mistakes mate. Your a good bloke bro

[@rodmcgrath2503]

Great video mate - own up to it and move on...love it and want to see more of your videos

[@GoneAdrift]

Always appreciate your + comments brother

[@ahmadfarrall2097]

Well my friend you gave some good advice, which I need to work on. Not just abroad but at home(Perth)

[@douglaswilliams4274]

Great refreshing honest video. ❤ Slow down and enjoy life. Stay Safe, and Stay Blessed Sam. Cheers,

[@theresafry3514]

Goodluck in Thailand ! Very exciting to jump out there .

[@eastongreen7164]

Excellent video mate! When you get real... many of us can relate. I live here in Pattaya as well and essentially you gotta find a purpose. For me... I joined a gym and will begin Muay Thai soon... Keep your head up bro... Just remember it took courage to get here and leave the West in the rearview...

[@GoneAdrift]

Great sentiment mate. Thank you

[@TEpScin]

Props to you for taking the challenge of living abroad. I have plans to retire in Thailand so I appreciate your info. Have fun!

[@andyinasia0]

Fair play for opening up dude. I think your experiences will help people that move to Thailand. That bloody squirrel looked like a fridge with a head, a massive unit of a thing 🤣 Stay strong 👊

[@GoneAdrift]

Hahaha best comment! Thanks legendb

[@markhutchison5187]

Well spoken Sam , stay strong and believe in yourself mate 👍

[@carole2835]

Great video - I've learned in life if you are respectful and smile, make an effort to try to do a good deed each day if only opening a door for someone or when doing a big shop and you let that person with a couple of items go in front of you their reaction makes you feel better than any bottle of Leo could!

[@ExploringBangkok]

It's good you're honest to yourself!

[@lordrossmacca]

Sounds like some very good advice for people considering moving to Thailand. Stay cool and be safe. You need to consider the long term and stay off the grog

[@veclubby]

Thailand is nice for 2 weeks. You go home, work a bit and plan your next trip 6 months down the track. I find 2 weeks is my limit there, i cannot wait to get back to Melb

[@Improveng1]

Some great advice there Sam. It's a big thumbs-up and a sub from me. Respect from the UK.

[@stevierayripple]

One good thing, you're learning QUICK !! Good video..

[@journeyofaconfusedartist]

So True. Just be nice and kind and you will be looked after

[@jeffsimpson46]

It is wise of you to learn from mistakes. Way to go! It sounds like you are on the right track.

[@Angus_Stewart]

My 1st watch, I'll be back. Thanks for the honesty. 🙏

[@fredrickjohnson2137]

Accountability 💪. Great video brother. Maybe we can catch some drinks in the future

[@doblesptag]

Very good advise. Thank you Sam!!!

[@Paula-yw4rx]

I am very proud of you and appreciate your honesty :)

[@paulandrews4767]

Bro, have to say this is one of your best vids yet! Brutal, honest, truth! Everyone has their demons, trust me I know. Peace mate

[@brad1084]

You are growing fast.(subscribers).We all make mistakes but learning and moving forward with realization is important.I know the stress one face moving to new country.I have that experience.Reputation matters in every aspect of life brother.

[@GoneAdrift]

Thanks Brad, I’m learning right?

[@ketil4]

Keep your head up, everyone make mistakes. Nice video, not only showing the bright side of living here. I said hello to you and Adam, at Trepprasit night market about a week ago :) Keep going :)

[@scubasausage]

I found this fascinating. I dont know your back story or why you moved out to Pattaya. I lived there for 7 years as a SCUBA insstructor and the one thing I would say is that if you dont have a job or a purpose out there then you will fall victim of the city sooner or later. I wish you all the best mate. I had an amazing time moving to Pattaya when I was 20. I daresay doing it younger makes it easier.

[@dolphinvlogs2831]

Some of the soundest advice I've heard. I admire your honesty. We always keep security sweet with drinks, fruit and snacks at least once week. You just never know. Good luck

[@sweatingbuckets]

Good self awareness Sam. Well done quitting drinking. Thats the way forward. Give it a month or two and you'll be on top of everything. It sounds like you need a bit of time to decompress and adjust. Drinking wont help but time will. Relax adjust a bit. Be kind to yourself. Good video btw. Very authentic.

[@GoneAdrift]

I won’t quit permanently. Just had a break to refocus and reassess :)

[@craigellis8354]

Your contrition is sincere We’ve all had triggers in our life Live Learn Do better Stay safe brother

[@BR-bd1nv]

Good luck on your journey, Just out of curiosity have you ever lived abroad before? Do you contribute all three of your mistakes solely to drinking? If not what other adjustments (physical fitness, meditation etc..)are you taking to address other possible factors that led to your mistakes?

[@davewave36]

Self awareness & never lying to ourselves is critical, as you realized. I believe it's a common process for western men to figure out in Asia. Something that I did, that most men will 'eye roll' about is starting a meditation practice, starting with 5 minutes & working up. Calming my Monkey Mind, working on being grateful for the friends and loved ones who put up with me, being alive and healthy, cause we forget it's all temporary. Find a Yoga class, language class, art class, whatever it is that you define as your 'Safe Activity' also been through the PTSD thing, it's brutal being hyper aware for threats 24/7. Anyway, love your content, thanks for sharing, and looking forward to watching your successful transition.

[@keepitreal1547]

Honest video, much appreciated.

[@JP.Travelz]

Thanks for your vulnerability and self awareness … doing this will provide you some pressure and accountability to keep on track ! You are only 4 months ahead of me in my Thailand dream ( October 15 😂😂) This really was an amazing video Sam

[@baltazarmonar]

Thank you for the insite Sam good to know before I fully move to Pattaya thank you

[@theworldaccordingtohappyba2393]

Wow. You are one honest guy. You may have stuffed up but you have owned it, so dont be too hard on yourself mate. It is an easy thing to do in that place. Just keep the boozing to one day a week and set yourself a limit then go home

[@mercy2me1]

Simple & natural is the best way to go bro. In my youth partying has always been toxic for me but the best things in life has been hobbies, exercise, & simple inexpensive things. When you focus more on how to help one person (even in small ways) love will find you. Some of us have been burnt in life because our job was helping others but God wants us to turn that job into a passion to help the one (shepherd leaves the 99 to go after the one). Don’t know why I’m saying all this but feel God has some good things in store for you. 🙏🙏

[@user-kz9rp3pq2z]

Great vlog, Sam. Open and honest. One of the six perfections in Buddhism is giving, and with giving your honest story you have created positive karma for yourself. Keep moving forward mate.

[@GoneAdrift]

I appreciate it 🙏🏻

[@jimmybangkok.371]

Brilliant performance mate! Also love the Turkish instrumental Music in the background!.

[@WJJ1961]

Excellent video Sam.

[@chrisvic5017]

Well done mate! You’re a good man for owning your mistakes. Cheers

[@GoneAdrift]

Always! Taa mate

[@JayJay-mw5ur]

Good video and more than the standard ‘mistakes I made ‘ vid that we see from many vloggers in Thailand , Philippines etc. Can’t put my finger on your ‘x’ factor that made me want more - perhaps it was your anecdotes and self appraisal . Anyway maybe you will find your niche with this style. Keep it up.

[@jeffkravitz9109]

TY, good vid - careful what you drink goes for me too...

[@matthewmaw4491]

Hey mate will be in Pattaya for 3 weeks from 25th July to 15th August. Really enjoyed your vids! Hopefully we could catch up for a couple of drinks !!😎😎

[@yiannisgeorge3781]

Love your honesty Sam. Great advice for all Falangs that want to relocate to the Land of Smiles.😁

[@STAXBITCOIN]

Thanks for your honesty.

[@tonychristensen6714]

Likeable characters are the ones who do really well with KZbin . And you are a likeable character man i think you will do really well 👍🏼

[@bgt828]

Mate, you were making great videos back in Oz and on your previous trips to Thailand. How about doing daily vids? Or every second day? Maybe that could be a focus to keep your mind busy and stay out of trouble? Understandably Sin City would be a tough place to live.

[@bgt828]

Also a word of advice, always give yourself 6 months in a new place. It is always hella tough in the beginning. But you need to force yourself to do 6 months and after that you'll be happy you stayed. Almost one month down, focus on getting through the next 5. 😎

[@rikwilliams388]

It's pretty straightforward, treat others the same as you'd like to be treated. Be respectful to everyone as there are better ways to deal with disputes, especially in situations when you're the only member on your team. Good luck with your stay in Thailand 👍

[@GoneAdrift]

I appreciate it 🙏🏻

[@skunkmd11]

Sam, your video is awesome and the first Farang video that gets likes and subscribe from me. Appreciate the honesty. The other Farangs always think Thailand owes them everything. Keep up the food work. Really well done.

[@GoneAdrift]

Thanks mate. I agree, Thai’s owe us nothing. It’s a Kingdom we’ve been granted entry into

[@Messyhit]

Yo bro, can’t always be rainbows and unicorns. Well done making this video that must’ve been a tough one. Pattaya can be the best place ever but also mentally draining at times, between the move and settling in you have had alot to deal with and probably not stopped to process it all. No better place in the world to learn about Jai yen 🙏🏻

[@GoneAdrift]

🙏🏻

[@byt290]

As tourists...we must be extra polite with Thai people. They really appreciate it & doors will open for you 🇹🇭😎🇦🇨

[@GoneAdrift]

I appreciate it 🙏🏻