My Mom & Sister Judge Me For Rumors About My Sexual Past! | KARAMO

[@dineongoepe2494]

The mother bodyshamed her and then tells her shes insecure?? Of course she is because you caused those insecurities

[@erynjefferson111]

Exactly. It’s like she doesn’t realize the effects that name calling has on children ESPECIALLY from their parents??

[@LexiePorter-t9u]

That part hello?

[@latoyaowens3645]

My girls are curvy and I told them to never be ashamed of your curves! Embrace them!!!!

[@karenmcgee1869]

I Agree. But I am grateful that she apologized too. Hopefully they can come back together as a family.

[@brittanisimmons5430]

And the soft talking & apology at the end felt incredibly fake to me.

[@lunacy3]

Calling her names at a young age and then calling her insecure is nasty work

[@lovelee883]

@@lunacy3 Nasty nasty work

[@Unique_n_Devine]

Nasty nasty work that mother should be ashamed

[@SheUhhThot]

The truth is they act just like the mom it’s clear as day

[@karenmcgee1869]

@@lunacy3 for sure!

[@kimpeterkin1999]

& she beautiful 🤞🏾💕

[@shaniyajones2042]

“She’s insecure. Don’t sit up here and act like you not” is crazy from your mom 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@LolittaJackson-xn4vm]

Yes she was dead wrong. Her children are beautiful young ladies. The one she called fat and insecure, is the one who looks exactly like her. She started all this mess between her daughters.

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

Right what an entrance…

[@harleysarutobi]

INSANE cus???

[@deejai1173]

The mom is the direct reason these girls are the way they are!!

[@ericalashay0209]

Yep

[@cyndinahicks8798]

Agree

[@sensen_its]

Agreed! The power of the tongue!!

[@butterflyyarrum4842]

I AGREE.....THE MOM IS TRIGGERING ME 😫

[@sweet906]

Ogoshhhhhhh factsssssssssss 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ondrarosie]

A 14 year old CANNOT have sex with a grown man. That’s what you call rape. Imagine being told you had sex with your abuser by your mom and sister. That baby has every right to be angry.

[@Almondmylk]

I could never forgive them. Irreparable damage.

[@sleepy-peepy]

talking about "you were talking to mom's man". like that's even possible. and to this day, mom is calling that man a "friend of hers". made me feel sick.

[@victoriahollister6875]

Ya'll act like that girl didn't know what she was doing? If a 14 yearold unalive your child you would say ole he or she didn't know better.

[@sleepy-peepy]

@victoriahollister6875 "children know what they're doibg" is the justification pedophiles use for grooming and raping kids btw

[@nyty9578]

@@victoriahollister6875 He was an adult who manipulated and raped a child who cannot consent. BY LAW children cannot consent.

[@Lovely_1One]

She was a VICTIM! Not “fast.” Our community needs to do better and stop shaming girls for being themselves and start placing the blame on the ADULTS. I used to stand at the bus stop in Detroit in late 90s age 14 with my book bag on on my way to school, was tall, skinny and dressed like a boy and had grown men still trying to talk to me and offer to take me shopping and out to breakfast instead of school. Theyd try anything to get me in their cars. Why not believe there are some sick people out here and place the blame there. Stop blaming the real victims and change your language. Y’all are contributing to the victims’ trauma. SMDH

[@elove2.038]

@Lovely_1One You are Absolutely Right! Theses ninjas don't care nothing about age, how you look, gender, or anything else. We in Detroit too & these whole married men be trying to get with my daughters who are 21 & below.

[@elvismohlala]

You look beautiful

[@Gamingandlipstck]

Ty!! I went through the same little sister! It’s victim shaming at its finest….Bless you & I pray our community can change these evil ways & protect young ladies & men…

[@GangstaBoo7]

THANK YOUU!! Ppl refused to believe that a man, their uncle, brother, cousin whomever is/was an abuser, it's heartbreaking 💔 & it causes ppl to start that bs "what did you do to cause him to do that to you"

[@NubianP6]

I agree 100%. That twisted attitude is the very reason why men like R. Kelly were able to get away with what he was doing for so long, and even today, there are a lot of women, and men who will defend his sick behavior, because in their eyes, the girls were “fast”. A lot of times, a young girl acting out sexually could very-well be a sign of past abuse.

[@ruweydaa5710]

This mom is triggering me. Why does she feel the need to disrespect and put seeds of insecurities onto her daughter.

[@T.2.U.u]

Me too! Feels like she took one side in their fight.. also Im whondering if the siblings got treated differently what caused their rivalty?

[@nflglo]

She's jealous of her own daughter that's why

[@krisjackson6567]

@@nflglo I don’t think she jealous you can tell by her apology that she really is sincere of her love for her daughter but also she as a mom did the best she could and that’s no excuse but we all deserve grace.

[@nflglo]

@@krisjackson6567 I can accept the apologies but at some point her mother/sister became jealous it turned to hate this is why they are ready to become violence...what I would say I pray they continue to work on communication so they all can hear each other out besides assuming the worst...I have experienced it We have all been thru some misunderstanding terms let alone want to be loved... everything will work itself out

[@Dontsay-i5b]

@@nflglo I stay far away from my mom and sisters fake mess

[@inukoko2012]

I like mercedes. She seems soo down to earth and she’s just hurt and feels attacked by her sister and mom.

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thanks, love!

[@inukoko2012]

@@MersadiesWhitaker you’re welcome 🫶🏼 I hope things are better for you.

[@janya-a]

@@MersadiesWhitaker omg mersadies! i hope things are better for you, keep going on the path you are. the strongest people will always have someone/something trying to block their success... stay focused. and congrats on all your future accomplishments.

[@Bri-sj1xw]

yes preach!

[@lkpeace911]

I hate that when young girls are violated. Their parents labeled them as fast.

[@alexciad3741]

body shaming your daughter on NATIONAL TELEVISION is deplorable. so disgusting and then have the nerve to wonder where her insecurity comes from. YOU ARE THE ARCHITECT

[@selfmadegussymoto]

@@alexciad3741 mental manipulation at best

[@mindfulness8160]

They're all jealous of her...CUT TIES WITH THEM. They showed you their true colors,family or not.

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

I understand you but, they're trying to fix it so I'm going to give them a chance. But after this if the rumors and lies start back again I promise you, I'm done with them for sure. I can love them from a distance then to sit and deal with that any longer.

[@god_chose_me24-7]

@@MersadiesWhitaker You are beautiful and I went through something similar with my mom siblings and family I’m hella grown now and I had to heal from past trauma as well. I just pray that God can fix your family and that you all heal from this!! If things doesn’t change love from a distance and live in peace God Bless you 🙏🏽❤️

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

@@god_chose_me24-7 Thanks love god bless you too

[@torry24]

They definitely are

[@merryjane7186]

@@MersadiesWhitakergood for you Mersadies you are a beautiful young lady all y’all are beautiful! I hope you all can mend yall relationship and move on into calmer waters🤍

[@royaldavis640]

Her mother is a bully and is the reason why one daughter bully’s the other

[@soulflowerpeace9236]

Exactly

[@oholm09]

I don't like bullies

[@Shawtybee1987]

Crazy

[@RiahYannaBeans]

I just want to hug that baby. She doesn’t deserve anything that she’s getting. I’m glad Karamo sent them to the back because she needed to take a break. She was about to unravel

[@Maiden_to_mother]

Lord… as soon as mom opened her mouth, everything started to make sense. So many messy women are out here handing down generational trauma and it’s absurd, it’s ridiculous. Thank God for Karamo, I hope he gets through to these people because it’s scary the way some children are being raised these days.

[@patriciacrowell2808]

THEN SEND THEM OUT TO BE WITH Other PEOPLE'S CHILDREN.

[@Chen-my1ks]

handing down issues due to unhealed trauma is pretty normal human behaviour tbh. What is absurd is the way black women specifically are cultivated to believe that feelings are inconvenient. The resulting obligation to simply keep going instead of pausing, unpacking and healing is what perpetuates the unhealthy patterns. Trauma literally rewires the brain and given that black, female trauma is typically intergenerational and current?... whew. Expected to heal whilst being retraumatised and triggered regularly? I feel like therapeutic interventions should be free for specific demographics frfr

[@janya-a]

@@Chen-my1ks thank you for breaking this all the way down!

[@laydeeslim]

Boy I cried for the young lady with the braids 😢 them two really broke her down in so many ways and the mom is so wrong. This is what happens when you try to be friends with your kids and not the parent.

[@meldawilliams1829]

Me too and still crying 😢 😭

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

I been going through this with them for so long to the point where I started to believe the stuff that was said about me. Like dang am I the problem? But I wasn't and I'm in a better place now. I haven't been this happy in a while I'm just glad this is done and over with.

[@Hxgh3ditsVsp]

@@MersadiesWhitaker do you no longer have contact with your mom and sister? Also I’m sorry you were going through that for so long, it’s such a blessing to have someone come and shed light on your POV I’m glad you’re doing better beautiful

[@Earlykidtv]

@@MersadiesWhitaker what’s your instagram?

[@juliusdixon898]

@@MersadiesWhitaker I’m glad to hear that you are in a better place. I know that the episode is just airing. Where do you stand with your mom and your sister?

[@itscollysworld1389]

Ok finally a episode thats NOT about a couple in they mid 40s, worrying if one is cheating, even tho their side piece calls their phone every night😒

[@savagebull9183]

🤣🤣

[@Zahriaaaaa]

😭😭😭😭

[@deejai1173]

😂😂😂

[@stephensrocky]

@@itscollysworld1389 😂😂😂

[@HAZYHEAUX]

Yep I'm sick of those episodes tbh

[@gabbysreality5248]

“Sorry you was fat” I’m sorry what 😳

[@Creative.Clouds]

@@gabbysreality5248 I choked over my food when I heard that

[@yomajesty2703]

😂😂😂

[@raynb4358]

Yea, I hope he addressed that in the full show

[@gabbysreality5248]

@@Creative.Clouds 🤣I was shocked I’m like wait that’s not…

[@mizzmention8555]

Chiiiiiiiiiiile if I had false teeth they'd be on the floor!!

[@emmacaldwell3583]

Her sister is just jealous of her accomplishments it's the mother's fault why their acting the way they are

[@danniellejohnson448]

Triangulation

[@ChristineMcdaniel-oi7ue]

She's not jealous the sister is cause don't no mfs fuck with her cause she's messy and insecure

[@bossibunz8143]

I see where tf they get it from. Good Lord!!! Every time I watch these episodes I’m so thankful & blessed for my mommy.

[@inukoko2012]

Sameeee. I love my momma soo much!

[@Shestheman013]

Same, this show makes me grateful for the relationship my mom and I have.

[@collinsugonnalawrence7113]

A messy day in Karamo's show

[@seawilliams7068]

Edit: her mom looks just like her and she’s jealous, Off top why is the mom judging her daughters past when she probably got it from being raised by her? Also the other daughter is a hypocrite how you mad at someone for doing supposably the same thing you were doing? 🙄 I hope she continues with her full ride and continues to shine regardless of her support system she’s really GORGEOUS! ❤️🥺

[@kakishisfriend1126]

Yes the mother did not love and support her daughter. She needs to go no contact with them both. They HATE HER!

[@sexxiede]

Their mother was a child raising a child.

[@tylerdubose9547]

@@seawilliams7068 Yes very jealous unfortunately. I hope they both see that! It is so apparent.

[@SableDevon]

Right it’s so weird they say be better than me and then you do and this is the outcome sometimes.

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thank you and I won't ever give up on my full ride or my dreams. With God by my side, I can achieve anything!

[@willybeama1]

I hoped this showed mom how powerful of a force she is in her daughter’s lives. Her words and her tone matters. Her daughters actually really respect her and want to make her proud. Mom has made mistakes, clearly, but she has done enough good that her daughters still really look up to her. They get loud because she gets loud. When she was calm, they were calm. She has much influence over their lives and she can use that to take her family to heights unforeseen. I truly hope she learned how powerful she actually is.

[@mzmindbodysoulinrepair1573]

🎯🎯

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Yes, your absolutely right! I love my mom, and I only want to make her proud. Yes, she isn't the perfect mother she messes up sometimes too. But she's trying to be a better mother, and I will always love her for that.

[@nicolewalton9670]

@@willybeama1 she knows, that's why she does what she do and says what she says

[@jeslynlewis337]

Perfect analysis of this situation!!!

[@stephensrocky]

The mother should have used protection if she didn’t want children, and now she’s projecting her unresolved childhood insecurities onto her daughter. Also, being loud doesn’t make you right, mama.

[@bxbydior586]

The Mother is a Big Problem!! You should never make your daughter feel insecure! And i can see the mother have favoritism. I hope she find peace wit whatever she going through an i hope she feels beautiful cause everyone every girl should feel Beautiful ❤️🙏🏾

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

I'm not that 14-year-old girl who's insecure because her mom her fat anymore. I'm 20 now and I know that I am beautiful big or small, short or tall. Thank you for your compliment!

[@bernardwylie9760]

Momma owned up to her part on that stage, I applaud her 👏

[@DaRealTamarie]

The pretty girl with THE MOST ACHIEVEMENTS reminds me of myself but you can see the sister knows what to trigger her and the mom IMMATURE 💯 that type of anger feels like “How are they not understanding this or getting this? How can they try to play me?” like nobody is hearing so we get loud SHES def the black sheep and the others WILL be needing her and apologizing it’s always that way🤷🏾‍♀️rooting for you sis❤you’ll def be somebody P.S MODEL GIRL WYD?😍 but I loved when the sister melted and broke that defense 👏🏾💪🏾💐 and I take back my Comment the Mom end up being alright😏 THANK YOU KARAMO YOU ATE THAT SESSION UP YEESSS TONE💐✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@itz.monii7860]

for sure, im also nervous because the mom seems like one to apologize once then go back into bad habits or apologize in public/cameras. hopefully thats not true and they cam all heal bc they all need to.

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thank you so much Tamarie! And you think I could model???👀😭

[@brenayaisgone]

​@@MersadiesWhitaker you most definitely could, you're so pretty!! i hope everything gets better for you

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

@@brenayaisgone thank you so much your very pretty as well love🫶🏾

[@mzmindbodysoulinrepair1573]

​@MersadiesWhitaker Both you girls look just like your mom. You're all beautiful. You're absolutely beautiful with that chocolate skin. Yes you can model!!!

[@nanioddu2528]

I can tell it’s all the mom’s fault! It’s really disturbing how she talks to her daughter! Both her sister and mom are jealous of her!

[@LeshaFBaby]

I've never seen a mom on here, apologize so quickly and be ready to listen ...she rubbed me wrong at first, then she corrected it. Her daughter is beautiful and I hate she had to grow up feeling insecure over her weight

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thank you, love and I hate that I had to grow up that way as well. Do you know I was eating one meal a day, exercising and doing all type of stuff to try to "keep my weight down" and I wasn't even big when I look back at my pictures at 14. But I can truly assure you that I know I'm beautiful!

[@NEE2TIMESS]

💯💯💯💯

[@user-iz3hy5hg1w]

@@MersadiesWhitaker I feel u I felt I was too skinny bcus everybody said it was and I was doing whatever to gain weight but now that I got the weight I wish I was back to how i was

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

@@user-iz3hy5hg1w You can always slim back down with the proper diet and exercises. And never listen to some like that again it's just negativity coming from the devil. God didn't instill fear into us, that came from the devil when Eve bit that apple. I wish you the best and I know you can do it just pray and ask God for strength.

[@user-iz3hy5hg1w]

@@MersadiesWhitaker u absolutely right queen I wish u the same 💙💙💙💙💙💯💯💯

[@monitricelashe1139]

OU the START of this. Lemme go make my tea and come back chile

[@RawVeganJenNYC]

😂

[@JordanKeuna]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lisawilliams8865]

😂😂😂

[@joneshariley621]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@LeshaFBaby]

I'm trying to tell ya ..went to my snack drawer and flew back to this

[@NURSERYTIME]

This was heartbreaking to watch in the beginning but as time went on this was so beautiful to watch unfold at the end.

[@Unpackyourthoughts]

Right😢 definitely a tear jerker.

[@topgawdrecords5823]

mom is jealous of her daughter. that's why she broke her down

[@krystalroney]

A lot of people are criticizing mom, but she was very receptive for Karamo's advice. Mom stepped up and I love it.

[@jessicatobias9371]

Narcissist move.

[@Cupcakekyxn]

Bullshit.

[@RecklessInspirer]

On tv in front of an audience.

[@krystalroney]

Yall love calling everybody a narcissist lol. What I saw was genuine. Now move around.

[@jazzy5975]

That man groomed that babygirl. They probably come from a household where funds are lacking and he used money to his advantage. She's the victim and they are steady blaming her. Some people really dont understand what grooming looks like and i wish they would stop blaming children when an adult was involved 🥺

[@Shesnoangell]

I think the sisters will be alright but mom I don’t trust. I definitely believe she plays favorites & try to put them against each other. Wishing them the best tho!

[@SweetBbyRaya]

CHILEEEEEE... this one TRIGGERED the hell out of me......I wish that young woman peace, because I am 34 and still struggling with childhood trauma.

[@LatriceHicks907]

Man me too Lord Fix it Jesus

[@LatriceHicks907]

Man me too

[@janya-a]

i hope you are finding peace ....

[@janya-a]

@@LatriceHicks907 hope you are finding peace in life

[@GregMunro]

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@GregMunro]

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

[@GregMunro]

You wont regret it

[@AllaboutMarjorita]

The mama is out of line, it’s fucked up to call her insecure when the mama mf ass calling her fat. Let’s be real the sisters are beefing because of the mama. Me and my sister couldn’t stand each other years ago and that’s because our mother would try to start stuff between us. Now we don’t have those issues, me and my sister are close now.

[@kakishisfriend1126]

Lawd I thought red dress was going to start swinging. She wasnt loved as a kid and its pretty obvious. She needs love, support and therapy and to be heard. Confirmed once the mama was brought out. She is PURE EVIL! Its best she cut them off. Sorry baby some people cant be fixed ❤

[@yomajesty2703]

Mom did her thang with them apologies baby! She commanded respect and authority in that moment, she kept it short and was direct!

[@dahliajohnson2296]

Yeah after body shaming her daughter 🙄

[@LemutaUtu]

@@dahliajohnson2296Also after Karamo corrected her, don’t forget/skip that part.

[@yoloxoxo4042]

Apparently your just as sick as them

[@Marshay]

@@yomajesty2703 yes she did

[@brenayaisgone]

that's not real authority, just because she holds a mother title does not mean she's acting like one. shes acting like a teenager that's clearly showing jealousy to her own daughter that looks just like her

[@mariahrivera5001]

I can definitely relate, definitely the black sheep so I can relate, and for the mother is sad for body shaming or assuming her 14 yr old daughter is sleeping with a grown man is insane. The mother never made her daughter a safe space for her and you can tell by the way she’s yelling

[@sherriewilliams4167]

IM 54 AND MY MOTHER LIKED MY SISTER BETTER AND I HAVE THE MOST ACCOMPLISHMENTS AS WELL

[@4CQueen]

When I was 10 years old my mother told me that she hated me, 58 years later & I'm just starting to kinda like myself. Harsh words truly Kill the soul, please watch your words.

[@kelvinmorris1991]

@@sherriewilliams4167 Jacob and Esau syndrome

[@soulflowerpeace9236]

Same

[@danniellejohnson448]

@@4CQueenJoseph in the Bible scapegoat same . I’m 30 and left at 18

[@theartofcrashingout]

Same here! I’ve learned when you’re a kid and you’re more gifted than your parents were/are, it makes them veryyyy uncomfortable. They can’t pretend you’re a mini-me or a doll baby, and you don’t need them as much. It’s unsettling for them. There may be some jealousy in there too, depending on their insecurities. Parents usually favor the kids that consistently need their help/guidance because it’s a dynamic that makes sense to them. People don’t love you based on what you’re worth, they love you based on how you make them feel. Learning that helped me stop taking it personally

[@AmaniMariee]

Very relatable in so many ways. I’m glad this family is able to reach the help they deserve ❤️ Their journey will be tested, but I pray they make it ✨

[@LiLi-is6ck]

Mercedes gets the “mean angry” sister trope because she’s been fighting to escape the box her mother put her in as a child💯

[@chillingwithmani402]

Mom was talking BADDD about her daughter at 16 when she had a baby on her hip at 16 🙄 the double standard

[@patriciarosana4476]

😂😂😂😂😂❤🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@HoodEloquence]

I hope she leaves and heals from all this. No contact is the remedy for a family like this. Can't acknowledge what wrongs you are doing but want respect. I pray she RUN away from them and for right by herself.

[@SableDevon]

After the all that yelling how the mom calmed down made me happy for them Karamo is the best mediator we have and I’m so happy he followed his path cause HONEY he was needed.❤

[@Merebaby72]

A demon at its finest 7:43

[@RawVeganJenNYC]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😔😔😔

[@tt21223]

they do NOT need to live in the same house again!

[@dtwr]

Exactly

[@Shawtybee1987]

At all

[@Youngari07]

Yea they don't, but if they really gonna change it shouldn't be a problem

[@Shawtybee1987]

@@Youngari07 u right

[@LexiePorter-t9u]

News flash if your child is "insecure" as you say it then it is something you did not do for her as a mother father whoever you are so it's your fault you don't attack her by calling her something like that you be there for her and love on her and then you automatically sided with one daughter over the other. That's evil

[@taylortiwari7118]

Wow. Mom was such an active listener, and took in every word he said. This is one of those where there’s so much love, they just don’t know how to harness and direct it to the right place.

[@christina2311]

Unhealed teen parents are often in survival mode and in arrested development stuck at the maturity of a teen. You see it over and over, teen moms arguing back with their kids as if they are still teens themselves. I hope they heal!

[@ChannelSettings4]

I'm in shambles 😂😂

[@jessicatobias9371]

The mom is a narcissist! How are you going to call her fat and think she isn't going to be insecure ? Im surprised Karmo didn't address that. Wow

[@mariancounsellor]

he never addresses the main issues. He goes for the quick fix instead for TV purposes.

[@JahnyeLashae]

They’re all so beautiful 🫶🏾

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thank you so much!

[@Lil_evil1990]

Accept for the mom and the sister with the black fitt

[@ADayWithChelle]

how the mom just going to pin on her that she " feels" insecure...she said she does not ( she does not seem to be too insecure to me) the mom does not know how she " feels" unless she tell her 😲 she trying to attach " insecurity" to her....sometimes parents do more harm than good 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

That's true I was not insecure until one day my mom called me fat. Hearing that as a 14-year-old coming from your parent especially your mom? It hurts. But I'm 20 now and I know I'm beautiful big or small.

[@ADayWithChelle]

@@MersadiesWhitaker ❤️👍🏾

[@ADayWithChelle]

@@MersadiesWhitaker you are very pretty, and a mature beautiful person from what i can see.. keep evolving and getting better and better.....that is what life is about " becoming" the best version of ourselves you are on the right track! 👍🏾 and let no one put your light out!...unfortunately sometims it is those closest to us that Satan uses to tear us down...

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

@@ADayWithChelle Thank you love

[@sheeronnae331]

I like how the mom CAREFULLY listening to Karamo❤ She was vulnerable enough to sit there and be corrected. I can appreciate that!! Go momma!!

[@jemimajoel]

why everytime i come to comments everybody always talking about all the problems. and not the resolution?? karamo was able to really turn this around with the help of their willing spirits. the mama did so good here. she wasn't in no kind of denial like them other mothers be. she acknowledged her behavior right there. we need more of this. by the end they was so calming, crying like lil babies. i hope they doing better now! that's a cute lil family.

[@hopehodges2383]

I was in awe watching her just receive everything he was saying. I did expect her to be closed off and trying to fight with him but you could see in her eyes she really just needed to hear it put in those words. It seemed like nobody had ever given her that advice or let her know her wrongdoings and part she played. It was beautiful to watch these Black young women be teachable and willing to apply the knowledge! 💗

[@brandyuni-gx7uo]

Someone like this doesn’t change over one conversation. It’s all of the cameras . She will be the same after

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

I will keep you updated on our relationship. If it goes back to how it was I'm going to come back to this comment and tell you myself! Thanks for the compliment.

[@jemimajoel]

@@brandyuni-gx7uo I understand what your saying, but the daughter said she will update us in the thread. They have many moms that come on the show an on camera still don't gaf. So this was different in my eyes.

[@jemimajoel]

@@MersadiesWhitaker okay thank you boo. I always wonder how things go after watching these, they need an update season. Anyways, thank you. To know you are reading these comments, makes me feel good to know you are seeing some of the positivity that came from sharing your story. Praying for y'all 🤎

[@itscollysworld1389]

Momma a hater 🤷🏽‍♀️ n yes moms be jealous of their daughters

[@blessingsguidance]

@@dannysalzer770 That she’ll be better than her

[@blessingsguidance]

@@dannysalzer770 You try again 🤣 She’s a jealous old hag…

[@ChristineMcdaniel-oi7ue]

The mom has no reason to be jealous she's beautiful

[@ChristineMcdaniel-oi7ue]

They got there looks from her

[@itscollysworld1389]

@@blessingsguidance 🎯🎯🎯sad at folks BIG age they dont comprehend the word jealousy doesnt mean only looks.

[@Yummy411]

I’m so proud of them. 😭 A young mother trying. Their safe word should be Karamo.

[@jadynnewsome390]

That mom was not trying. She was triggering. Huge difference

[@brenayaisgone]

​@@jadynnewsome390 exactly!!

[@shanteew]

Before the mom came out I already knew why the sisters relationship was broken. It always starts from the source..

[@courtnee1060]

I definitely agree that the mom is the reason they are how they are. However, i will give her props for taking accountability. I hope it continues and their relationship improves

[@nicoleprice354]

She didn't have a safe space. I love how mom owned up to what she did.❤❤❤

[@shuntaneseknox3218]

THE SHOW NEED TO BE LONGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@SammiiLovesYou098]

They’re literally just mimicking the behavior that the mother displays. And its playing right out in her face.

[@TaylordbyTaylor]

Karamo did such a good job with these beautiful women 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 So patient so kind so understanding 👏🏽👏🏽❤️

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thank you, love you are beautiful as well!

[@danielle5391]

"They was my mans first."🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kirjahhemmans8978]

I feel like she dislike her sister over mn

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

@@kirjahhemmans8978 I felt the same way. Like she couldn't accept the fact that men she has dated found me attractive and wanted to talk to me. I would never touch nor look at any man whose been with my sister. It's just downright disgusting!

[@kirjahhemmans8978]

@@MersadiesWhitaker yes! Same thing I was saying! I believe you 🫶🏿 you really seem like a good person🥰& you're very beautiful 😍

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

@@kirjahhemmans8978 Thank you love your very pretty as well🫶🏾

[@Khaliyah_Muhammad]

@@MersadiesWhitakeryou’re beautiful and deserve better ❤

[@Chen-my1ks]

The amount of projection was crazy. I sincerely hope they get the tools and support they need!

[@JordanKeuna]

“ hopefully we can live wit you bc we don’t like living with other people “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 iktr go back home 😂😂😂

[@sheeronnae331]

She said that twice too!! She meant that. And I cried to hear it. Bc only God knows who a mom is truly is to her kids!! ❤

[@ShemiyahJohn-zo2lm]

This video got me crying, I used my whole box of tissue OML she been through alot fr the ending was beautiful I PRAY everything is going well for her.

[@leichaurellelux7547]

When she said we do not want to live with other people. Some boundaries need to be in order. Just because you live with a parent you must respect their rules.

[@Queenalika85]

Both sisters and mom are beautiful

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thank you love!

[@marismith4362]

i hope karamo continues to follow up or keep in touch w this girl . her reaction to the apologies makes me think she’s heard it all before w no change

[@blackfacedexcellence8056]

Karamo! This episode gave a lot of us a bit of healing and hope for the journey ahead ❤❤❤Thank you Karamo for loving us one episode at a time ❤❤❤

[@tiffanypierce1081]

Thank you, Karamo. This family need the intervention ❤

[@sadieo9594]

Gwan Momma - show them girls true leadership. That apology and turnaround kept it 💯 Proud of you all ❤

[@MyssSunshynebabii]

I would cut ties with both of them….. until they can talk to me with respect and apologize their would be no relationship

[@vickivalgal657]

Watch til the end it actually happened

[@MyssSunshynebabii]

@@vickivalgal657 I did…. I don’t trust it…. But it’s a start . I’m happy for them

[@vickivalgal657]

I understand for sure, I am trying to be hopeful it lasted

[@MyssSunshynebabii]

@@vickivalgal657 one could hope …I’ll keep them lifted up in prayer

[@neisci]

That type of venom doesn't go away over night, and I wouldn't stick around to allow time to heal.

[@honeyblunt4201]

I truly hope that these ladies have been getting along and are really making an effort to support each other. It's clear to me that all three of them have good hearts, and I believe that they are stronger together than apart in this challenging world we live in.

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Hi quick update: since we've been back in Chicago everything has been wonderful! I pray to God that it stays this way and the rumors and lies don't start back again. Because if it does then I'm done! Completely cutting all ties.

[@kayotheepotato]

I love the casual Karamo, this fit is cute lol

[@TheFinespice]

This is the reason why teenagers shouldn't be having kids. The mum didn't set a good foundation because she herself was young.

[@ariamason9324]

Exactly I made the same comment

[@Shestheman013]

I’m sorry but that I need mom at 5:39 was so real and low key funny. It was like calmly asking for security.

[@jasonmorris4eva]

With family like this, who needs enemies 😂 Such toxicity!

[@yorkshirerose49]

Karamo, you are simply the best at understanding and dealing with these messy situations.

[@soulflowerpeace9236]

When moms have multiple daughters...they can cause a lot of drama between siblings....believe me ik!!

[@TrueBased]

The HELL is wrong with this mom AND sister ?!

[@Caramel2820]

Jealousy?

[@jeslynlewis337]

I'm in tears 😢 I'm so glad they were able to listen to Karamo and respond positively to each other. Sibling rivalry can be a beast. The mom was became a mom at a young age. She had to learn to use the right tools.

[@SB-tc2jr]

good lawd...that was hard to watch. I wonder how long did the peace last! There's a loooottt of damage. I pray that their healing will continue! (In Jesus' Name) Amen!

[@claireworld_]

I cried a lot during this episode. Karamo you are making people's lives better with your wisdom. Keep up the good work!

[@MAGNETICMINDS0127]

Karamo really out here changing lives 💓

[@AlexisChantal]

I’m so proud of all 3 of them taking these steps to heal. Please- black women we need each other. Yall are family I know family go through it sometimes, but please cherish & respect & value each other life is way too short!!!! ❤️ family really is all you have & shapes your relationships with everyone else!

[@exoticchocolate1982]

Three beautiful black queens 👸🏿, hopefully they can work it out together.

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

Thank you for the compliment!

[@exoticchocolate1982]

@@MersadiesWhitaker You’re Welcome

[@vibeywyphy]

@@MersadiesWhitakerqueen we support you and love you!! Pls keep your head strong❤️❤️

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

@@vibeywyphy thanks love🫶🏾

[@charisleighmusic]

This is so sad. Mercedes is amazing. Sucks that her mom can’t see it. I just want to give her her flowers because she deserves it getting a full ride through college and getting help.

[@TamiaBrooks-z5c]

First of all.. this SCREAMS Chicago. Hopefully they figure everything out ❤

[@MersadiesWhitaker]

We are most definitely from Chicago. Generational curses all through here!

[@Joyoftheworld53718]

I appreciate mom for being receptive to what Karamo had to say. She started wrong but was able to acknowledge her role in how disruptive their relationships are. It can be difficult to own your mistakes so I’m glad she was able to move in the right direction.❤

[@Coilygirlzworld]

Their healing is melting my heart❤❤❤🥲😊🥲😊

[@oliviasanders7580]

I mean this from the bottom of my heart… I would not want either one of them in my life. It’s unforgivable. Distance is the best thing for the one in the red.

[@sheeronnae331]

I'm the eldest of 5 girls...and I'd NEVERRRRR do this on national TV. Tf! This is crazzzyyyy to me.

[@3kchi616]

I love that her mom is actually taking in what he’s sayin & acknowledging her wrongs

[@angelagibbs1963]

This is Growth in the making! Kudos to the mom and sisters for being vulnerable and taking the first steps

[@YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND]

The so-called angel one gets around with too many dudes... That's not an angel!!!!

[@dennwilliams3342]

The mom sounded like she was mad that the daughter was taking money away from her! Kids follow what they see not what they hear. If she see you asking older dudes for money what you think baby girl gonna do …..

[@sherristringfield8471]

Thank you Mom for clearing this up and apologizing!!