My mother-in-law made me get a divorce because I was't good enough for her son but she didn't know..

[@danielbutler578]

Same old story, different names. Ladies, don't marry a baby boy who is too emotionally dependent on his mommy. His mommy will make your life miserable and he will always put her first. You will be treated like a rival by his mommy because she views you as the other woman.

[@set3777]

It is the MAN that must LEAVE his father and mother. Bible says: For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

[@seabreezeblank1513]

It's incredibly rude to answer your phone while you're in a business meeting your phone should have been on silent, your phone should never ring in a meeting in a theater in church if you don't know how to turn off the ringer then just hit airplane mode, learn to tell your mother-in-law to f off

[@BusArch42]

She said it vibrated. She only left because it was nonstop and she thought there was a major problem.

[@lisaedwards2542]

Remember brides you are matted to husband not mils tell them to step off and deal with their own nonsense.

[@mariatolich4056]

Since when do parents or parent -in-law have a right to demand their children or children -in-law to get a divorce!. Nobody has a right to interfere with anyone else's marriage!

[@set3777]

Think about this. 43 evil States in USA abolished the "alienation of affection" law and so are encouaging MILs and FILs & others to destroy young people's marriage.

[@mariatolich4056]

@@set3777 That's terrible. I think the young people concerned should tell the parents, or Parents-in-law or anyone else to mind their own business and sternly remind them that which God joined together let NO ONE put a sunder 🧡😁

[@set3777]

@@mariatolich4056 Only 7 states in USA still recognize a traditional law that effectively allows a spouse to sue anyone who may have played a part in ending their marriage. MIL, FIL, counselors or adulterers all can all be sued. The states are Hawaii, Illinois, New Mexico, North Carolina, Mississippi, South Dakota, and Utah.

[@shanikaabeyratne4131]

U

[@sandram2362]

Well, maybe you've never come across Asian mother in laws - they are terrible, controlling & very bitchy..they think their daughter in laws are in competition for their son's affection but my ex was exactly like Aaron, so they'll make it really bad for their d.i.l so she'll leave...that happened to me -I suffered for 10yrs thinking if I was very obedient, be the great housewife, cook, house maid & gardener -she'll treat me nicer..it never happened because she loved to harassed & would nick pick at everything I do - food is not salty, too salty, not delicious, lousy cook, bad house maid etc. etc. until one day, something in me broke & I finally stood up for myself -made her & my ex to sit down while I gave them the riot act -took my son & maid -packed up my car & left -my mom told me I could move back to the family house & live with her, so I did -as I had to decide what to do for my life after that. Actually as I listen to her narrative, my blood pressure went sky high as I was so angry because it reminded me of what I had actually went thru for 10yrs -literal verbal abuse for days every time she had some screw loose, she'd forbade me to eat eventho I was the house maid -I did everything -my day started at 5.00a.m till 10pm every day.

[@gailboyd3585]

EXCELLENT!!!

[@s.o.t.s.o.t.]

Why did he had to give her alimony? She was working and he was housman. Doesnt he has the right to ask her for alimony?

[@annnichols3091]

Get Aaron into therapy.

[@joancampbell1377]

Put the phone down

[@nannetteharmon938]

Why does she put up with this? Just hang up and turn phone off.

[@mv7921]

i d really like to know which culture this is.

[@mccaffreybeverley450]

The far east, especially China. Mother in laws reign Supreme.

[@sandram2362]

Most times it's Asian culture as most m.i.ls are real tyrants as they treat daughter in laws as outsiders & some of them will give you this kaka everytime they want to"run you down - you're "bamboo door whilst we are teak wood door " i.e. an Asia idiom where the "nouveau-riche" wants to be status conscious the minute their husbands become successful/rich so they then begin to look down on those that are not "rich" like them -I came from a middle class family -so I guess I wasn't rich enough, hence I was so bullied by her.

[@macnichol8531]

I would say Asian.

[@gloriaprimeau7318]

Different culture

[@Ktamsor2]

Also what kind of "man" let's his mother tell him and his wife that they have to get a divorce. He married her without their parents concent, why would you listen about a divorce

[@mariatolich4056]

I totally agree you. They should both tell the mother -in-law tha Jesus said " that which God has joined together let NO ONE put asunder" hopefully that should her up

[@cynthiagreske5957]

This must be like an Asian culture or some thing, because as far as I know in America that this wouldn’t be happening

[@lkofie6670]

OK... this can't be real because she sure did take A LONG time on the phone despite being in an important meeting. I would've abruptly told her "I'm sorry... I can't talk right now as I said." That time given on that phone call was too generous.

[@teslagirl1]

Why would you want your lawyer to compensate HIM for alimony? Is this supposed to be your money or is your lawyer some kind of philanthropist who gives money willy nilly to the opposing side? And why would you "COMPENSATE" a man who treated you THIS badly? The INJURED PARTY gets the compensation...NOT the guilty party. Perhaps you meant you wanted your lawyer to file for compensation FROM your husband...which makes more sense but not much more. Because he's a non working househusband who has been buying nice suits only so he could dress the part of a successful man for his precious mom. There is no money to obtain. One might get a pittance out of him...but the legal battle for that pittance would cost more than that loser, with his bad work history, could ever earn.

[@Mew_Mokuba_Akari]

In the US it doesn't matter which party is the non working one. He could claim alimony from her. It's not right since he can work but just refuses. But if they went to court she could be ordered to pay alimony.

[@doramakris5310]

Can I call all this mother's in lows laws to wring THER neck, I'm a mother in law and they love me like I'm THER MOTHER.

[@joancampbell1377]

He he he

[@constancepeterson6156]

Why did OP say I will call you back, to her unreasonable mother-in-law, and hung up? To let the woman go on and on seems ridiculous.

[@Mspryce4]

Exactly. To entertain this awful woman for more than a moment whilst in an apparent, important meeting, boggles the mind.

[@sheilahnorton893]

No

[@jl9769]

Since when can a mother in law initiate a divorce? Only if her son agrees to it and a cowardly man baby will. This sounds exactly like my mother in law, except I don’t and have never cared how mean she is to me and deceiving to others. Last year she threatened to grab my wedding ring ( a family heirloom she thought she had a right to, when they belong to her husband’s mother who had stated that his wife was never to have it cause she’d sell it for the money,) they are worth $4,000 USD. She reached over to grab my right hand. I moved away from her and said leave. You try to touch me again I am calling the police” She says with a smirk the police won’t get here in time. I am not making this up I wish I was. Anyway I locked myself in the bathroom and talked on my phone as if I was talking to the police and she left. Since that incident she has tried to make my life hell and no longer cares if other people know or what they think. I’ve blocked her everywhere. My husband wishes “ we” could get along but also not pushing me too. I took screenshots of every text and voicemails from her. He realizes it is his mom causing drama and he apologized to me. She is no longer welcome at our house!

[@joancampbell1377]

No op