I honestly do not understand some peoples mind set that they can with impunity march their butts into property owned by someone else and announce THEY will now live there and have control over it. In fact, I have NEVER encountered anyone try to do that! If i had pre- knowledge of this, I'd get a bowl of popcorn and a soda to watch the the entertainment!!! The consequences for the stupid, entitled miscreant would make for hilarious telling for decades. That said, members of my immediate family has taken in elderly members over the years. It was done after discussion and kindness. And never for perfectly healthy able ones! Snotty, pushy, AH ones never made it through the door. Everyone gets on the same page! NO ONE can demand or push themselves onto someone without their agreement! Period.