My Sister Did Unspeakable Things To Those In Her Care...I EXPOSED HER r/Relationships

[@HoodieHorizon]

this is what happens when high school mean girls are no longer in high school. They seek out a position that allows them to be constantly around those vulnerable so they still feel powerful and above them. If she was truly angry and upset then she would've quit being a nurse. But no, she WANTS to punish scared women

[@sydneyyxD]

Is that why all the mean girls turned out to be nurses in their adulthood? It's scary accurate that every single one of them I went to school with are nurses. Half of them were dumb as a rock, and the other half peaked in high school.

[@lunalou3489]

I was a L&D nurse for almost 20 years. I worked at 3 different units and only came across 2 nurses I would classify as "mean girls". They were truly horrid to other nurses. Got off on belittling new nurses. I never ever saw them treat patients less than though. BTW I was not the mean girl in high school. I was the one mean girls bullied.

[@Mama_Bear_of_3]

I was a RN for 25 years before I retired. The incident with the teenager needs to be investigated, and a file needs to be made with the police. A "Nurses dose," typically means they give a patient more meds than what was ordered. This goes against policy in every hospital in the USA. Too much morphine distributed during labor, especially if given later in labor can cause temporary breathing and heart rate problems for the laboring mother. Affects are even worse for the baby. They can have difficulty breathing, shallow breathing, slow and labored breathing, no breathing, AND death. So basically this nurse giving too much morphine to the mother during labor could be the reason why the baby died. My heart goes out to the girl, and her family. OP needs to go NC with her sister for the safty of her and her child. Again, a police report really needs to be filed.

[@Callimo]

Oh ffs, ofc....I'm glad the hospital admins moved as fast as they did. It seems that OPs sister had a wave of complaints against her.

[@jennix8666]

God I really hope she didn't give it to the poor girl before birth, during labor..... That breaks my heart just thinking that op's sister could have possibly been responsible for the baby's death

[@autumn557]

And was delusional enough to not even notice or think she’ll be caught being a raging c**t monster to people. If I were a patient and I feel uncomfortable with a nurse I’m old enough to speak up about it but kids usually arnt.

[@MaryTheresa1986]

💯

[@animatorstanley]

I feel like OPs sister admitted to killing a baby!

[@patheon9541]

story 1 update: i actually dropped my bowl of oatmeal from the line about the girl losing her baby i am so glad this woman got fired she does not deserve to be a nurse

[@MorganVsTheInternet]

Oh no! RIP oatmeal bowl! I almost yelled WTF in the library!

[@immapotato1]

considering the sister's personality I would concur with the top comment on the update that she might have rigged the dosage. One of the main reasons for thinking so is that OP's main reason not to is her sister's tone which sounded guilt free to her but if we consider the monster she is that would be her proud moment although she probably won't say it outright. also hospitals would probably sweep it under a rug for their own benefit to protect themselves from lawsuits. this is how a lot of monsters like this keep repeating their crimes over and over again. they get fired get another job cause this isn't on their record then do it again.

[@CircusoftheMoon]

I’m on my lunch break and almost choked on my coffee. Goddamn.

[@BrandonVout]

My exact reaction was "how is she getting worse?!"

[@Davimez]

​@BrandonVout the sister is a future murderer that's how much worse the sister is

[@hannahchristine5240]

1st story: holy shit, OP’s sister is a monster. Why do people go into nursing when they clearly hate people and just want to see others suffer? Why is that so common in healthcare? I’m so glad the OP reported her to the hospital. I hope the sister loses her license in general. That’s crazy.

[@ohboy-zi1yf]

There have been several cases of men going through medical school for years just to satisfy their sick fetishes or assault women. Horrible people go through great lengths to inflict horrible things on other people

[@hannahchristine5240]

@@ohboy-zi1yfI just can’t understand why, though. I’m finishing my PhD because I wanted to help people in my field. I don’t understand all that hard work and effort to cause others harm or even wanting to.

[@MomokoTuHarumaki]

Jobs like medical, education, and early childhood care attract the worst of humanity because they get easy access to people they see as beneath them and easy targets. It's horrifying.

[@SpiderRiderKya]

Power tripping. It gives them a place of power over someone in a vulnerable situation.

[@OneInAMillion31]

God complex they want to hurt people while being praised

[@arithefierysecretary6411]

Markee going "oh my gosh" quietly in the first story made me like him so much more. I'm pregnant with twins. If this nurse was my nurse, I'd sue the hospital for neglect and emotional abuse. Edit: My husband is WAY hotter than I am on a good day. He does have a bit of the dad belly now, but he is handsome as hell. That whole "whale" thing that the sister said just triggered every single insecurity I've been battling since I was 8. She should not be in health care for vulnerable people.

[@catandrobbyflores]

Her comments about the premie baby infuriated me. I was a premie and I know that's not something any mother wants to go through. How dare she!

[@LizLuvsCupcakes]

You should ask your beloved to get you some cheesecake and eat it together out of spite. Seriously, what a horrible bitch, who talks like that about people?

[@Jacky.c.v]

I have many fears about pregnancy. One of them is a nurse like her, how traumatizing. Sad for the teenage girl, everyone needs comfort while going through pregnancy. Edit: it got even worse, imagine going through grief and having a nurse like that

[@HoneyBakedHamlet]

Your fears are warranted and valid. Medical gaslighting and abuse is a huge, huge thing and jts so common. I didn't have a nurse like this, but my sister did - until I outwardly told the nurse to get lost. And she was the head nurse too. As a disclaimer, I dont go looking for trouble but if there's trouble, I won't run from it. And this bitch wasn't actually in charge of my sister while she was birthing, but.. kept walking in/poking her head in to ask our nurse if she had seen [insert staff name here]. After the fourth time, I was super bothered and loudly said to her that if she wasn't in the room participating in the delivery of the baby, she needs to go away. She gave me a shocked look and quickly shut the door again. It was the last time we saw her. 👌🫡 The best thing you can do other than be on guard yourself, is make sure you have someone with you that's going to do you proud. I dont go Karen, I tone it down to Professional Bitch, if that makes sense. Like, I can totally understand that they work long, gruelling hours with no breaks and have to deal with horrors of humanity everyday. But at the same time, I don't exactly make a good outlet to let out frustrations and no one else should be forced to be one either.

[@mrbadguysan]

There’s a difference between viewing your patients poorly and treating them poorly. The nurse sister is doing the latter. She’s giving pregnant women too much pain meds to shut them up.

[@Jacky.c.v]

@mrbadguysan I think you can't view people poorly fir years and not somehow mistreat them. You can only hold it in so much.

[@RavenLunacy44]

If it makes you feel better, I've had two kids, and all the nurses I had contact with were fantastic. I had one hold me as I cried because I had to miss my older kids' softball game, and she hit her first TWO homeruns.

[@kp2223]

​@@RavenLunacy44 100. There are great nurses out there who really love their job and work really hard to make sure their patients are happy and healthy. This woman Is a power tripper. The kind of person who got this job specifically to have power over Other People. There are a lot of them in other fields too.

[@locusxe1411]

Beating the crap out of anyone is morally wrong but if I was the parent of that teenager and heard the stuff Ops sister was saying and doing to my daughter when I wasn’t around I would have had to ruin her life

[@hm5468]

If I was that sister’s parents, I’d fuck her up, I’d beat her and shave her hair off. If she didn’t get punishment when she acted like crap as a teen, she’d get it in condensed form as an adult.

[@LadyBama]

I had the best sweetest nurses when I had my son. She needs to report her sister!!!

[@jamesn0va]

Listen to the story before posting😂

[@LadyBama]

@@jamesn0va I did listen to the story. I know SHE reported her sister, I was agreeing with her!

[@Twila5836]

My nurses were so sweet too. If I had ops sister as a nurse I would be traumatized

[@canislupusfool]

@@LadyBama "She needs to..." suggests a future action. "She did the right thing" would be clearer. *unwanted English teacher... Away! *

[@bryn1063]

Is this a crime? This should be illegal.

[@addiewatson5372]

Story 1: My heart goes out to the teen mom who lost her baby. I had my first at 16 and almost lost him during birth, My Doc was horrible, gave me too high of a dose of the induction meds and it caused my son's heart to almost stop and she *wouldn't* take me off the meds or lower the dose. My head nurse was thankfully amazing and called for a C-Section to save us both. My doc wouldn't even do the surgery, they had to have a *different* doctor come in and do the operation. It was traumatizing. I can't imagine going through that and not having my baby at the end of it, all while being verbally abused by my nurse. It gives me chills. That poor girl. OP's sister deserved to lose her job, and I hope she never works in the medical field again.

[@tayloredwards1675]

I sincerely hope that a misconduct investigation was placed against them, many wishes of love, health and happiness to you and your family ❤

[@ComaLies225]

Being empathetic is not “kissing up to patients,” it’s understanding how they’re feeling in the situation and offering them comfort the best way you can. Had sis told my mom that she should have done better to not have a premature baby (I’m a premie and that’s one of the stupidest things I’ve ever heard) my mom would have most likely ripped her eyes out for that comment. I would also like to point out my mom nearly throttled a nurse when I was a premie but that’s a story for another day lol Edit: OH THAT UPDATE

[@Feynix4]

This is terrifying, imagine being so vulnerable and having a horrible person like that for a nurse

[@minsugasmelanin.6656]

she needs to also report her sister to the board of nursing. I’m in nursing school, and since i’ve started clinicals i’ve been so excited to go to class. i absolutely love it.

[@meloncornets3034]

I got annoyed at a nurse that told me to stop screaming but that was the worst. If I got treated like this during my birth, I would feel crushed. With how sweet and supportive my nurses were, any bad memories I have from birth were nothing about them. They were fantastic. Edit: I commented before that horrible comment. What an absolute monster! My first thought was the nurse must have caused it.

[@OneFryShort4]

😂 my cousin was whimpering while given birth and a nurse told her to stop she screamed in the nurse’s face and told her to f*** off and get the hell out if she can’t handle it it was crazy so much drama!!!!

[@meloncornets3034]

@@OneFryShort4 LOL relatable! Your cousin is awesome.

[@OneFryShort4]

@@meloncornets3034 my poor aunt was horrified LOL! My cousin’s hubby who didn’t make it back in time because he is military said he was so proud of his wife!

[@platinumaether8198]

Story 1: After dozens of hours of Aita/relationships, across multiple channels…. I finally found the most evil lady ever. Edit. Update 1: HOLY CRAP NEVERMIND SHES SATAN INCARNATE

[@naturebehindglass6512]

Don't insult Satan...

[@platinumaether8198]

@@naturebehindglass6512 ah crap my bad, she makes Satan a damn saint

[@MrJpaynebb]

She still doesn't get it though. The hospital didn't fire her over some reports. They fired her fired her for her very unprofessional behavior and being a liability for the hospital. The fact they did it so quickly indicates this isn't the 1st time she's gotten complaints about her professional behavior.

[@Callimo]

Even Satan wasn't this bad. OP's sister is a sociopath who probably only became a nurse to have some sort of power over vulnerable people. Also, that "nurse's dose" and talking about "teaching that bitch a lesson" makes me so so suspicious...

[@BrandonVout]

How does she keep getting worse?!

[@de9722]

Story 1: I feel so bad for the girl and the rest of her patients. My nurses while I were giving labor weren't abusive, but not the best, except one. I will never forget her and her kindness, it got me through the birth of my son.

[@MorganVsTheInternet]

2- They’re 19! Flipping 19! Also anyone that tries to control what you wear while trying to be with you can kick rocks!

[@Callimo]

It also seems that OP comes from a family that's just as controlling and abusive as their bf. Which is why OP feels "so bad" for questioning their bf's intentions about their clothing. I'm glad they're going to therapy, but they also need a support group to figuratively knock some sense in OP and help them grow an identity beyond being someone's gf

[@FelisTerras]

Yeah, now imagine how controlling he's gonna be at 24..35..48...Andrew Tate in the making.

[@robinharding9919]

As a nurse, this is HORRIFYING, and this absolutely needs full investigation. Her sister should NEVER work as a nurse again. she is EVIL.

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

Sis is a monster and I’m horrified that there might be more nurses like her out there.

[@notevenlistening6072]

Any job that puts you in a position of control over another can attract the wrong element. Ick

[@jannekelind1220]

I worked as a nurse for 15 years and I never have met anyone in the field who was this disrespectful, never!

[@Raigius]

@@notevenlistening6072 yeah there's been observation of a supposed "mean girl to nursing" pipeline. IE girls that were bullies in high school sometimes find themselves drawn to nursing since it's a way to get into a position of life and death power over others while being able to claim the societal benefits of presenting as a virtuous selfless individuals that's saving lives. And yeah while the vast majority of nurses are decent people and deserve to be respected as such. The mean girls love to try and mask themselves as such. On the more masculine side of things there can be a similar pipeline towards policing. IE overly aggressive young men right out of high school can find themselves drawn to the profession since they can get a position of power over others that has traditionally been shrouded in either respect or fear depending on the community. Like with nurses not all cops are necessarily bad. But the profession is incredibly tempting for those who would like to abuse the position.

[@unknown62211226]

​@@Raigius It could also be a different reason. My sister has been a nurse for 8 to 9 years and worked in 3 hospitals. She says it sounds like the sister is having a breakdown and needs to be evaluated and treated or she's just a bad person.

[@Raigius]

@@unknown62211226 I'm sure that in some cases a once good nurse might get psychologically worn down by all the stress and bullshit they're forced to endure in the position. The pandemic and the staff shortages it caused certainly have done no wonders for the mental health of those working on the medical field. But if she's gotten to be this bad then she's probably too far gone / they definitely needed to get her out that hospital since she'd basically become a detrimental liability to the wellbeing of her patients. Mentally and potentially physically as well given that "nurse dose" shenanigans.

[@Aeriesan]

Story 2: I was nervous for OP thinking she was gonna get back with him but looks like the comments have gotten to her and she’s holding to not getting back with him. WHEW

[@Tijggie82]

Loved her powermove of wearing the dress when they met up again lol

[@rayajayce2034]

I've had a nurse like that. But worse. During childbirth and after. My body and mind will never heal. My daughter lost the mother she was supposed to have. PTSD from childbirth is extremely common and misdiagnosed as PPD and even PPP in the United States. We also boast the highest rates of neonatal, maternal and infant injury and mortality. Lack of acknowledged patient rights in the delivery room is a major cause of this.

[@psygaud]

I used to be a paramedic. Developing a dark sense of humor is very common when you work in healthcare, but none - literally NONE - of the other paramedics, nurses, doctors, etc. I've talked to have ever said stuff like that nurse in the first story. I would be appalled if anyone said anything like that to me.

[@invisigoth510]

Story two: you’re not breaking up over clothes, you’re breaking up over control

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

But doesn’t he have some right too? Like not to control her but not to be with her if she dresses like that. Some girls today dress like hookers and some girls see no issue being on onlyfans and don’t get why most men wouldn’t want to marry them. Or have high body counts and don’t see it as an issue. We are pushing this highly sexualized image today and while she is free to do it he doesn’t have to like it or want to remain with someone who enjoys that. Now if it extended to her friends, her family, her money etc ok but if he doesn’t enjoy that any man can basically see her breasts on full display… but I’ve never believed in the hoe phase girls think they should be able to live today without any ramifications

[@cupofcozy708]

Aside from the ultimatum, which was very stupid, how is a man expressing that her wearing certain clothing or posting pictures of her in a bikini is controlling?

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

@@cupofcozy708 Thank you, I just had this whole conversation too with a man to see if I was wrong. Cause if you’re in a committed relationship then whose attention are you trying to get with those clothes

[@erinredfox5131]

Op was just getting over body image issues which can be a huge sign of past trauma. The BF trying to control what she wears is only a small part of what could happen to op mentally if she stays in the relationship. That is not him loving her. That is him controlling every aspect of what makes op who she is. A bikini is not "whorish", it's a swimsuit. Tight dresses are not, either. Men need to get over this ideology that we dress to turn them on. We dress how we like because that's how we feel comfortable. It's for us. Not them.

[@cgi2002]

​@@Catherine.Dorian.his rights are he gets to choose to stay or go, he doesn't get to demand she change because he isn't happy. If he doesn't like how she dresses, that's his issue, not hers, he is trying to make her change to fit his mindset. This would be like her telling him that he must have a beard that he doesn't want because she doesn't like people been able to see this chin because some other woman might find his face attractive without one. It's the exact same concept, "revealing" clothing is socially acceptable. Most men tbh don't really notice, there are far more sexually explicit things around us basically constantly than a woman wearing a crop top, or a bikini (hell even naked), the internet has seen to that. As for the men don't want to marry women on only fans, that's like saying men don't want to marry supermodels because they did an underwear shoot or a centerfold. Men who place all the value of a woman on such small things generally aren't worth marrying, most men are more than happy to marry a woman who is confident in their body, as confidence is sexy. Sure it should not be the only reason to marry someone, but it doesn't hurt.

[@GIChiyo]

It's good that OP reported the sister, a nurse acting like that could easily result in a lawsuit for the hospital

[@MCKevin289]

My mom was a labor and delivery nurse for over 20 years and when I showed her what the sister said it made her furious and horrified.

[@janiceandthomas]

OP in story 2: "You in danger girl..." I hope she gets out of that relationship asap

[@SapphWolf]

Pretty sure the reason people like OPs sister go into professions where they have to help people they despise is because they feel superior to these people and these jobs give them power over these people's lives.

[@catandrobbyflores]

I believe that's called a God complex

[@Rae4Real]

Wow! I am a nurse and know how bad things can get, but THIS!! My brain is exploding while I’m trying to wind down and go to bed after a 13 hour shift, while being awake for a long while before going in.. I can’t. There’s venting and then there’s this. THIS!!!!

[@Lillireify]

Markee I love your commentary, especially when you lose your mind while reading. Oh, and thanks for the ending, you didn't give me a chance to leave without a smile 😂😂

[@kruisik]

I’m an ER RN and just finished my masters program to be a nurse practitioner. The nurse story made my blood BOIL. If I would have heard her in person, I would have reported her IMMEDIATELY. How disgusting of a person can you be?!? I’ve worked with young teens with multiple STDs, pregnancy, adults with iv drug abuse, patients who have attacked us because we didn’t give them the pain meds they wanted and didn’t need… I would have NEVER put my patient in harms way just because I didn’t agree with their lifestyle. I also would NEVER make them feel any less than. Our job is to be an advocate for our patients-how can we do that if you are willing to emotionally, and worse, PHYSICALLY harm them?!? I hope she loses her license.

[@kp2223]

In all likelihood, if there's enough of a paper trail, she's probably going to jail.

[@kruisik]

@@kp2223 nurses aren’t stupid enough to leave a paper trail in charts and stuff. To give controlled medication, we need a witness that verifies how much we wasted, and that’s done in front of the witness with the person wasting it. The med room MAY have a camera that shows the correct dose was wasted, although some places don’t have a camera in the med room. And if they didn’t waste the meds in the med room like their protocol states, she would be fired for not following protocol, but it’s not illegal unless the other nurse admits they signed off on the medication waste without actually verifying it. Which means that other nurse will be fired, too, so I doubt they would out themselves. The dose itself is illegal, but I doubt there is any proof besides her sister’s report, which isn’t enough to be put in jail for. I hope she’s one of the extremely stupid nurses who left a paper trail, but I highly doubt that’s the case. It’s just so sad there are people like this “caring” for vulnerable people who trust her. I really admire the OP for reporting her sister!

[@kp2223]

@@kruisik based on how she bragged about her behavior, I feel like she might be that dumb.

[@kruisik]

@@kp2223 that’s a really good point lol. I hope she did! Bragging about that is just embarrassing to me. It’s like when people brag about cheating on their partner. You just look like an awful person

[@kp2223]

@@kruisik 💯

[@isiaadiel3468]

My grandmother was a nurse in the trauma unit up till her passing. She was so kind to the worst of people and took out her stress by collecting things and eating spicy foods. That sister is NUTS.

[@TheDarwinProject1]

OP in the 1st story should report her comments to the state medical commission & the hospital. A lot of medical providers think patients are faking their pain or are hidden "addicts" despite all symptoms pointing to under treated pain. On TikTok, many have talked about/acted out/filmed themselves AT WORK laughing as their patients they have denied treatment to, faked giving a dose (gave something like saline that feels like ice in the veins, which can be painful in itself), then gaslight them. You can even hear the patients in the background of some videos screaming/crying in pain with little to no pain meds as the nurses rolled their eyes, smiled/laughed, or put headphones in. On the other side, some providers will give meds just to "shut up" a patient, even if the medication is on their allergy/intolerance list & just try to give it to the patient without informing them what is being given. A "nurses dose" is a higher than prescribed dose of pain meds, which can be very dangerous when not requested, especially in a young patient who is likely opioid naive. Like with most med classes, patients can be fine on one specific drug & not on another & some may have interactions with meds a patient is taking. For example, my dad can't handle oxycodone, where hydrocodone works just fine. When he had to have neck surgery a few years ago, the combination of oxycodone, 2 antidepressant (one was for migraines, one for depression), & the propofol from the surgery had given him delusions, paranoia, & hallucinations. He thought that he was in the hospital chapel, which he had never been to, thought the Drs were trying to poison him, & at one point really wanted to jump out the window (which thankfully couldn't open, as he was several floors up). I knew his medical history, but since this was during COVID, I had to tell my mom to get the Drs to change him to hydrocodone & stop the antidepressants (I've hallucinated due to opioid/antidepressant interaction before too, it's long been established by research that they have dangerous interactions), which decreased his symptoms very quickly, the same day if not the next if I remember correctly. Its scary how little hospitals actually understand or care about patient experience on meds.

[@DHB373]

Holy crap, that nurse will go down in reddit history with the art room, the couch parents, and the poop knife!

[@kp2223]

💯💯💯

[@catandrobbyflores]

Don't forget cockroach wife.

[@alexbodi5526]

What are the stories about the poop knife and at room?

[@kirstenperez4265]

I was in the hospital for over a month a year or so ago. Nurses do act this way. The nurses at the desk forgot to shut off the speaker they use when the call buttons pushed by the patients. Not only did they say rude stuff about patients, but they also talked about the new nurse who was only on her 2nd day. I listened for at least 15 minutes before they realized it was on and turned it off. I'm still not sure if it was me they were talking about or another patient, but I have the feeling it was me. I ended up telling the charge nurse about it because of how unprofessional it was. I never found out if anything was done about it, though.

[@grecia3146]

Story 2: Ah yes, the classic ''I premies I'll change'', a toxic classic.

[@abigailpulliam6996]

My ex works in a hospital, and has met nurses like in the first story. This attitude kills patients, and I'm so glad the sister got canned so hard. My ex would have become a flaming beacon of righteous fury on someone who did that kind of thing to a teenager suffering one of the worst physical and emotional pains that someone can experience. Also, a note: a whole lot (maybe even the majority) of teen pregnancy is caused by adult men grooming the teenager. There's a high chance this nurse acted this way to an *abuse survivor*. Which is just an added layer onto the terrible terror lasagna of incompetent nursing. "Stop spreading your legs," how about the sister stop opening her stupid mouth.

[@beccaf262]

I’ve been chewed up and spat out my the medical system. People like that woman are exactly why I don’t seek medical care and why I don’t trust doctors. She deserves to be fired like those horrible women that made those TikTok’s shaming their patients. You should be able to trust women in the L&D room. I wanna know where she works so I can report her too. Damn Markees commentary is so hilarious and spot on today I’m loving it!

[@nopeninja8883]

Yeah I experienced the nurse type. Was told not to swear or scream as much as it was distressing others.... this was before the epidural. I was induced and note it's generally more traumatic and more painful. So yeah that brought back good times.

[@wintermute9459]

Pitocin sucks big time

[@JustAnotherBuckyLover]

I am legitimately crying after that first story. I've met some godawful doctors and nurses in my decades of chronic illness... several of whom have treated me like a waste of space, a malingerer, a weak crybaby, an attention seeker and a druggie - told me outright that I need psych help because my symptoms were not fixed with antibiotics (because they weren't from an infection), that I'm overreacting, and that I should be grateful that at least I don't have cancer (because yeah, that REALLY helps when you're in your 20s or 30s, in constant agony despite morphine and a handful of other pain meds, while also bedbound by separate and unrelated neurological issues that mean you can't even sit upright without passing out, and you need help to do anything from rolling over to washing, dressing or brushing your hair, and which has taken away your friends, family, partner, career, hobbies, and ability to have children of your own). But hearing about an L&D nurse who is THAT hateful, spiteful, misogynistic, judgemental and vicious to ANY patient, but especially a teenager who literally just lost their baby....? I can't. Sorry, Markee. I'll try to watch the second story later, because I need to get off the internet for a time-out.

[@tinycrimester]

"she said she can talk about anyone any way she likes as long as she gets her job done" well, clearly she can't because she got fired. come to find out she doesn't own the hospital she worked at and doesn't make the rules.

[@kp2223]

💯💯💯

[@heatherdickau5335]

The first story. At some point the sister had to be breaching confidentiality. It is good she got canned.

[@deusvmachina]

The first story reminded of Elizabeth Wettlaufer (former registered nurse turned serial killer in Canada). OP's sister could have been one incident/bad day from hurting a patient. What she did to that teenage girl was abusive. Glad she got reported. Nobody who talks about patients like that should be in the medical field.

[@DragonflyandTheWolf]

I went to a friendsgiving once where a couple of ER nurses were also invited. We briefly talked about their job, but they made it clear they could not talk about patients, even if they kept their names out of the conversation. Their patients were not conversation starters. They took their patients' privacy very seriously.

[@dessnatazha]

You ain’t never gonna let us forget that damn couch story 😭😭😭😭😭

[@porter0311]

Of all my reddit narration channels, yours is the only one I refresh youtube for an uncomfortable amount of time to see when a new one pops up.

[@carlrood4457]

I suspect it's more common that the people go into the fields with good intentions, but are ultimately unsuited to it and burn out quickly. Then they fall into the sunk cost fallacy regarding their training/education time and money, so they won't switch careers. The bitterness just keeps building up.

[@kp2223]

It also allows them to maintain a position of power and superiority over a population. that can draw the wrong crowd.

[@damien678]

I've heard of quite a few people quitting nursing school because of how much they were bullied by teachers and other students...

[@annyphoenix2099]

I've had abusive nurses like that when I deliveder my daughter and I'm traumatised to this day. When you're at your most vulnerable state an adult woman can be and someone in position of autority abuse you like that it is so terribly devastating. Those women deserve to burn in hell that I don't even believe in

[@billcipher_w]

Love that the personality has returned to this channel!!

[@jadedfox7177]

Story about OP and her sister that shouldn't be in the medical field brought up some unpleasant memories. I'm disabled and I have had to spend more time in hospitals than most people ever will have to. THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT DISCIPLINED FOR THIS BEHAVIOR! I had a nurse in the ER that was 100% convinced I was faking my seizures (I was not) and so she was convinced I was untrustworthy when I told her I'm allergic to some medicines. She then to prove a point gave me a HUGE dose of that medicine to prove her point and instead I had a serious allergic reaction and stopped breathing. I obviously survived but she worked in that ER for another 5 years after this event. Nothing happens to these people.

[@SapphWolf]

How did she manage to keep her job after nearly deliberately killing a patient!?

[@OpticalArxenal]

@@SapphWolf Corporate bullshit and greed.

[@jadedfox7177]

@@SapphWolf I have no idea, I just stopped going to that ER after awhile. I can hower speculate; She likely didn't put the medication she gave me in the chart. There was likley no record she had done anything. The medication is a common sedative and is in general on hand in the ER for more agressive paitents or for people shock and 1 or 2 vials going missing isn't unusual. Without that proof it's just another patient coding in the ER.

[@GeekyBibliophile]

My immediate thoughts on seeing the title of Story Two: Oh, that's cute (sarcasm). They dated for two years, and only now is he saying something because he didn't feel like it was his place to tell her what to wear? It never was his place to tell her something like that, and it never will be.

[@CrystallynRose]

As a retired nurse, I find OP's sister's behavior disgusting. I have worked with some nurses that I didn't think were compassionate enough or slacked on their job, but this takes the cake. Often nurses vent to other nurses since they understand and it would more often be about the workload or stress. Or when you have a person constantly hitting the call light for small things or when the family is overbearing and are constantly in the way. I don't ever remember working with nurses that were that judgemental and insulting the patients (even behind their backs) is not cool. I've never understood why some people go into nursing when it's obvious they don't really care about people.

[@DeathPunk11394]

I literally had to pause the video. My mouth dropped! Thank god I wasn't drinking my coffee. Dear Lord! This is why a lot of people say the mean girls in high school go into nursing for I don't know what reason. I'm happy OP did what she did. That lady does not deserve to be a nurse. Nurses and doctors are supposed to help patients.

[@mrbadguysan]

There’s a difference between viewing your patients poorly and treating them poorly. The nurse sister is doing the latter. She’s giving pregnant women too much pain meds to shut them up.

[@heatherholzhaus7013]

Hey Markee! Thanks for posting every day! It feels like listening to a story from an old friend.

[@blaszizzz]

As a nurse myself I'm absolutely horrified at OPs sister 😳😰 she sounds so cruel. Sure everyone vents from time to time about their job, but this isn't a behaviour I'd ever accept from a person looking after me, especially in one of the most valuable states. It's like she's on a power trip and it's seriously disturbing.

[@OGK-1414]

Lol... not Markee choking on OP#2's bf's "insecurity" 🤣🤣🤣 Markee's whole commentary on Story #2🤣🤣🤣

[@briannacoutts5293]

For S1. I think the sisters did something to the baby that made it die, since she "wanted to teach her a lesson." Honestly I know it's dark, but I can't be the only one thinking that.

[@Khaisz.]

Mom used to work as complaints phone operator for a phone company for a short while, the amount of people swearing or straight up lieing was immeasurable to hear about. But not once did she ever get rude to a single one or raise her voice. 100% politeness and constant "I understand" and "I'm sorry, but according to..."

[@shadowkissed2370]

OMG, when I gave birth to my first child as a teenager, a nurse did the EXACT same thing to me because I was crying because I was overwhelmed and just had my first C-section which was my first surgery ever, on top of it all I had a horrible doctor who purposely took me into surgery after he told my family to go home, eat, take a shower and come back so I was alone during and after my C-section. She was really evil and mean, however, I shut her up when I told her she didn't know how or why I was pregnant if I spread my legs as she claimed, or if I had been SA'd. I was terrified when I learned I was pregnant with my second baby I went into panic attack's thinking I would have to deliver in that hospital. It was a good thing my husband moved me to a different state to have my second baby.

[@LisaApril]

Story one: it's not that the sister was venting about being a nurse and her patients, It's that the sister was talking about how she was cruel and abusive to her patients. There were some nurses who posted on TikTok talking about patients this way, and they were all fired once the hospital became aware of the TikTok's. It didn't take too long because someone who saw it reported them. I've given birth, and I had good nurses who encouraged me and helped me. I can't imagine how horrible and traumatizing that experience would've been if I had horrible nurses. I have been in the hospital and had a horrible Doctor who told me she didn't know what the side effects of a medication were or how it worked and told the nurse to print out pages for me to read and make a decision on if I wanted that medication. This was crazy because I was in the hospital and in very bad condition. I have to go to that same hospital because it's the only one in my area, but I have it in my mind to refuse to let her treat me. When I told my primary doctor about this once I was out of the hospital, he shook his head and told me that should never happen. I was too weak to think straight while I was in the hospital that time, and so I did not have the wherewithal to advocate for myself. I do believe that this is why it's very important that whenever someone is in the hospital a family member stay with them at all times to advocate for them and make sure they're given the best care and ask questions, ask questions, ask questions.

[@Aelitagurl]

Imagine being such a vile person and thinking that you can continue to be vile in a job that requires, MINIMUM, empathy, and keep that job. That's just lunacy at that point

[@kristys7172]

I ran away from an "A" father at 18, into an "A" marriage, first ex husband went thru my entire closet and decided what I could/couldn't wear. Run op, run.

[@lilbeegamer]

I saw a quote once that im going to repeat. Not all nurses are mean girls, but all mean girls in high school end up as nurses.

[@artemismoon7655]

Wow at the nurse story. My best friend is a nurse and has been for years. She is very jaded because of that career, but not a cruel ahole still. She rants about patients, but only the ones who treat her badly or refuse to cooperate for no good reason. But integrity is important to her no matter what.

[@owl7072]

Story 1: "She shouldn't have to kiss up to patients in order to do her job efficiently" She has to if she wants to _keep_ that job 🤨 you work in a literal hospital, treating/talking about patients the way she has is the exact opposite of what someone working there should be doing, and nobody wants a nurse they don't feel safe with _period,_ let alone one they don't feel safe with handling their health. She'd have an absolute temper tantrum, likely to a point of throwing herself on the floor, pounding her fists and kicking her feet while screeching like a banshee if she was treated even _remotely_ similar to how she's acting and likely sue the place, so what makes her think she's safe 🤨 "she was just venting" didn't she blatantly admit that she did/said some of this directly to a patient 🤔 I want to fight this woman and land her in that same hospital then deliberately send someone with a matching attitude to care for her (For legal reasons I'm joking.) (Maybe)

[@SeraphsGenisis]

That first one is horrific and I hope to whatever God there is that the sister gets fired and some form of karma comes for her. Absolutely despicable.

[@janedoe885]

I have family who work delivering babies-what the sister did is unfathomable, unforgivable, and frankly if we got an update about her being jailed over her behavior it wouldn’t surprise me at all. That is half a step below serial killers in the medical profession who deliberately kill their patients through overdose. Can ask family member the extent of trouble this is later if anyone is curious but I can’t understate how serious this is. The pattern of behavior is only going to make it worse. Even beyond the moral and legal issues this is like worst nightmare shit for a hospital. There is no way the story is over. This is the kind of crap that would absolutely show up on the news the second a reporter catches wind. Like I cannot understate how serious that shit is. That’s like a teacher going ‘oh I hated the six year old student I was teaching so had him stand in the corner for hours until he pissed himself, then called him every horrible name I could think of’. EDIT: Asked about this. Relative is very doubtful it happened (I hope it didn't) because it's so unimaginably bad. She said if it did, the nurse wouldn't just be fired--her nursing license absolutely would be revoked. She's unsure if prison time would result or not but it might. People were saying that other nurses were probably behaving similarly, but to be honest I doubt that because the vast majority of people don't join the profession (let alone labor and delivery) with a mentality like that. The other thing crossing my mind is, practically speaking the hospital can't tolerate this crap. Even before the teen that woman would have been a walking lawsuit. It's unlikely that for the number of patients she's done this to they all stayed silent, and if a doctor or other authority found evidence of even one incident of the magnitude described that would have been serious trouble. Corruption exists, but if the sister got away with her behavior that long again it's a news story.

[@susanlosey9511]

I was a LVN,( Licensed Vocational Nurse) for about 50 years. I have NEVER heard anything so heartbroken about this nurse. She she is in my opinion violating the oath we took when we graduated from nursing. She gives the rest of the nursing profession! She deserved to loose her job.

[@TonksRules]

God... I love hearing your opinions again! You're so expressive and genuine and it's really appreciated with frustrating stories like these! Thanks so much for all your hard work!

[@EluneAnzu]

Story 1 update: I HOPE the OP reports what the sister told her even if the sister didn't end the baby's life her attitude about its death means she should 100% not be a nurse I hope reporting what she said would go on some kind of record that would prevent her from ever being a nurse again.

[@littlegreycat]

Thanks for posting the update on story one. Holy cow. I had some bad nurses at L and D as well but that woman was blatantly worse

[@GBunnyG]

Childbirth is one of the scariest things a woman can go through. That nurse needs to meet a sock full of quarters in a dark parking lot.

[@DemonicGoddess]

all you need to do to get your uncle and uanty on your side is go "you miss carried well then you should of done a better job?" - they get mad at op "well im just repeating what you think this golden child says to teens who probably will delete them selfs from this child 'advice'." Edit After the update i had to look more into it there is a supposade update cant confirm the sister was infact imprisoned for murder. Cant confirm its "real" but we shall see if mark updates this,

[@kp2223]

😮

[@juanhaines7295]

Story 1 nta I heard this one before. Minus the update. I hope the sister got black listed. She is evil.

[@ComaLies225]

Hoping that too. That update nearly took me out. Just shocking I tell you

[@cuteizombi6946]

There was a video going around about some unprofessional nurses who acted just like the sister and they were fired for it rightfully so not only is this dangerous it is illegal and she could potentially be putting patients in danger my heart especially goes out for the teenage girl who is already in a vulnerable position and having to deal with that piece of crap for a nurse this is not okay and I feel it should be talked about more often because of how often this behavior is normalized it's sickening

[@mumf4]

Omg, I have never ever been this early! 22 seconds! I watch your videos everyday! 😁 These last week I have been sick with influenza and your videos have been excellent entertainment 👍 You are doing a great job! Thank you! ❤️

[@sonolife4650]

Listen being in Healthcare myself yes sometimes it gets extremely stressful but you find other ways to cope then talk about people (potentially breaking hippa) and all through out my schooling I was always told not to judge a situation

[@mrandrews3616]

Holy mother that story about the nurse. Wow that was grim.

[@Lithiel]

Sis is an absolute monster!!! For as much as she is *physically* helping people, she is harming them TWICE as much!

[@DDuMas]

She snitched on her own sister? 😲 That's unforgivable.

[@NotGamgee]

I’m actually in danger of peeing myself laughing because you can’t let the couch thing go 😂it just caught me so off guard

[@esrafitz7895]

16:18 I had to subscribe. Thank you so freaking much for saying this, like fr. The passion in your voice was everything ❤

[@deirdrelewis1454]

I cannot believe that a nurse got away with this abuse for any length of time! I would have been fired instantly!! She sounds psychopathic!!!

[@D-Dollie]

I had wonderful nurses when I had my baby. I had a c-section and was in the hospital for four days. They did everything for me since it was during the lockdown and partners weren’t allowed in the hospital long. They even changed nappies and looked after my baby while I took shower/went to toilet. On the other hand, the lady I was sharing the room (on the last day) with had an awful nurse that was screaming/shouting at the mother and EVEN THE BABY! Good lord. People like this nurse in the story should never work with vulnerable people EVER!!

[@maxsupernova]

I am really liking the new attitude I'm seeing in these videos, Markee. Keep it up!

[@StandAgainstOpressers]

15 year LD nurse here. While I don't want to blame someone for causing a baby's death. What that nurse did could indeed have been part of the reason that baby died. What and evil, disgusting, poor excuse for a human beimg.

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

Story 1, pre update: Jesus, OP's sister is cruel! Edit, post update: I double down on what I said!!! I hope OP cuts contact with her sister and anyone that agrees with that demon. She does not need that in her life - certainly not now. Story 2: Ultimatums, for the most part, are a dealbreaker. If someone makes you choose between them or something else... choose you and make your exit.

[@deballen7031]

Oh my god, I can't believe that mad nurse story. Totally horrifying, outrageous, disgusting behaviour, I'm truly appalled.

[@yamairad1]

Story 1. I wonder why nobody said go NC. The sister is a monster. The moment she has there opportunity to hurt you and your kid she will take it. Stay miles away from her.

[@madcatlady]

a lot of bullies and mean girls become nurses, not saying nurses are mean girls and bullies, most are not but it is attractive as a career for those that are as is any job giving them power over vulnerable people

[@nikki1028]

😂I heard that sneaky "couch" you snuck in there at the very end, haha

[@hyzenthlayrose2176]

"During my sister's rant, she said that she wanted to teach the "brat" a lesson, and said that maybe if she gave birth when she was older, her kid wouldn't have died." DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE 😨

[@jessicacharlton7347]

That first story was awful. That nurse should get prison time for giving that poor teenage girl extra medication. As someone who's had a stillborn baby, I don't think I could control my temper if I heard a nurse blaming someone for having a miscarriage, stillbirth, or for the death of their baby. I probably would've hit that nurse, even if they were a family member. That sorry excuse for a human being should've lost her license a long time ago.

[@CircusoftheMoon]

HER BABY DIED?!?! I have not been this flabbergasted by a plot twist in these Reddit stories in a long time. Sh*t.

[@noblepenn4816]

"... couch." LET US FORGET, Markee, please, damn! 😫 This one had some truly outrageous characters, thanks for another episode.

[@graysonoliver2632]

"hey family. Im pregnant! And guess what, sister wont be helping me deliver it!"

[@MorganVsTheInternet]

1- Give birth is one of the most forgettable things a human can go through and if you can’t respect the person going through that process then you shouldn’t be working in L&D!

[@actuallobster7044]

Thank you for working so hard, but don’t be afraid to take a break! Burnout is real, I’m coming out of an episode myself. Thank you for the content, and make sure you’re taking care of yourself pls 💜💜

[@fallingawayfromthenorm]

Story 2 - That man is going to be a lifelong abuser and only get worse if he doesn’t fucking realize how shitty and toxic he is. He’s all red flags, the love bombing is very obvious and Op needs to get the hell away from him. I wouldn’t put it past someone like him to be one of the ones who not only ends up physically beating his partners, but would probably “mess up” and kill one of them.

[@megzarie]

If was pregnant and I had a nurse saying abusive shit like to me while I was giving birth, Im pretty sure my bf would be arrested for assault. That poor teen patient 😢

[@ashh4929]

10:09 Sweet baby back buttered Jesus, I legit just dropped all the paperwork I was doing and lost my jaw after I heard that. What the high holy f*ck?! What?! I... I can't even make any kind of dark sided joke to make levity here because this is just too damn disgusting.