My Struggle with Learning Disabilities and How to Deal with Them

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KatherineChloeCahoon

KatherineChloeCahoon

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@michaelknapp8961
@michaelknapp8961 3 жыл бұрын
People need to understand that there can be a lot of trauma with these kids that have to live everyday with a learning difference. When they make a mistake in the classroom and the whole class laughs at him or her, it hurts. When someone calls him or her a retard for not getting the answer right, it hurts. The ill feeling turns into low self and significantly affects the kid in many many ways. A learning difference doesn’t just stay in the classroom, it follows them everywhere they go.
@Keana43
@Keana43 2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@velvet5983
@velvet5983 8 жыл бұрын
I suffer with a learning disability and anxiety and depression and i have alot of trouble with my social life also when someone says i did somthing wrong i feel horable and my throat swells up and i just feel SO BAD and i just want to say thank u for sharing 💖
@kaitlynfresh
@kaitlynfresh 8 жыл бұрын
ImAnOrange :3 I feel your pain! I suffer anxiety because of my LD. Lots of social anxiety!! Nice to know I'm not alone
@taffy8675
@taffy8675 4 жыл бұрын
Same it’s hard ime very shy towards people cause of it I lock my self in the room cause I have depression Ime glad my parents don’t force me to do school they do tell me to go and do school butt they don’t get angry if I get bad grades
@jayalexander9033
@jayalexander9033 3 жыл бұрын
Awwwww me too! I struggle with keeping a job and if I keep a job they give you a hard time and I'm very rude to me because of my loading disorder they never get it and they get aggravated I live on my own and I freak out about losing my apartment
@JamesKramer1684
@JamesKramer1684 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god that happens to me as well. The longest I’ve lasted at a job was 3 months and most recently I lasted a month. I was told more or less that “I’m slow”. In their terms I wasn’t picking up on the material my co workers got. It’s such a horrible feeling and embarrassing to tell a friend who doesn’t understand what it’s like.
@pikachu0181
@pikachu0181 3 жыл бұрын
@@kaitlynfresh i have learning disabilities and I struggle with social anxiety too and i feel like my life is hopeless and i really dont know what to do
@ChristinaOstil115
@ChristinaOstil115 7 жыл бұрын
A teacher has no right to say you can't make it!
@learningenglishwithanubha2697
@learningenglishwithanubha2697 5 жыл бұрын
Yes christina
@learningenglishwithanubha2697
@learningenglishwithanubha2697 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@seanm7539
@seanm7539 4 жыл бұрын
Ur damn straight I’ve had many teachers tell me I would never lead normal Life
@Ceremolligence
@Ceremolligence 4 жыл бұрын
I hope that teacher is fired. I remembered when I was in Grade 9 I had an sea in Foundations Math that didn't even care about helping students, she is the worst sea I ever had in my life, when she gets angry she said to me once "if you need help, I will be sitting outside of the hallway" and my heart was racing because I didn't know what I did wrong, so once all of that was over, I talked to my math teacher saying that if you see her again tell her I said sorry because then again I didn't know what I did wrong when she got unseat, probably because I was not understand questions that she was teaching me. When I talked to my mom about it, she told me that she should of handled the situation differently because she is suppose to be helping you, she is doing her job and she should not have to say that to you and walk out of the room like that. I just don't get how an sea like that can get away with that BS. She even told me one time she meet my mom at one point (which was true) and she said I know who to go to if you done something thats going to make me angery, and I said to her "Go right head, she's waiting to teach you a lesson". At that point she never came to the school again. In conclusion, don't let anybody put you down weither its your assistant, teacher, random people or your loved ones, stay strong and look on the positive side. I just wanted to get this off my chest, thank you for reading this. Good day to you all. :)
@rjdungca4044
@rjdungca4044 3 жыл бұрын
I Remember my teacher when i was in math class she was asking one of the students who can answer the question then my teachers favorite student picked me then, i heard her whispering into the students ear then i heard my teacher say "HE DOESN'T KNOW ANYTHING" thats what made me want to give up.
@blurryface4592
@blurryface4592 3 жыл бұрын
I know that this is an old video but this definitely brought me to tears. I have a learning disability in math. I don’t know how I did it with passing each grade, but I got a zero on every math test. My teachers were so frustrated with me, they would yell at me and call me stupid. People bullied me and laughed at me when I was called on to give an answer in math, I am 15, going on 16 and I’m still embarrassed. I am in now a much better school that helps me learn and deal with it but till this day I can’t do money, read time on a clock, do multiplication and division and read measurements. I still fear for my future because no matter how hard I study and try to learn,, I always seem to forget it the next day. I don’t try to hide it anymore but it’s so hard to live this life with it, especially with depression and my anxiety disorder. People tell me to grow up and call me names for not being able to do things that’s what considered normal people do. I still cry, wondering why I’m just not normal. But I come to the conclusion that no one is normal and everyone has a struggle and mine is math. I’m not just bad at math, It’s something I don’t think I’ll ever fully grasp and that’s okay. I’ll learn in some way that I can. I know I can do it and with anyone out there struggling with math as well, I know you can to it as well. It feels so good to know that I am not alone.
@allkindz6792
@allkindz6792 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 28 years old guy. I have LD. I graduated HS, but never went to college. At my school or state, it wasn't required for LD student's to pass AIMS Test in HS. It sucks dealing with it til to this day. I work at good job with hardly any math involved but when learning a new job it's hard. My advice to you buddy, when your not in school, is read a book. Like for real. My mom would stress me a lot to read when I was your age and I would ignore it. It cost me to struggle in life, but now I love books. Math in life is not really a big deal, depends what your dealing with in life because there's always a calculator near by but try to get hooked on reading though. Try to play less video games, but stick to reading because in the long run you'll have enough time to play video games in the future. But read a book is most important thing. I'm not your parent, but I'm just telling you from experience, read a book buddy things will get better. I know reading a book is boring but trust me it'll help you in the long run.
@vejaybaker2822
@vejaybaker2822 2 ай бұрын
Same here. Im 27 year old now. So many experiences like these even up to this day. I use to be ashamed of it but so far, not any more
@Dreadful_art
@Dreadful_art 8 жыл бұрын
I also have a learning disability . During my High school year i always felt like i was a total outsider.
@maripanic9477
@maripanic9477 8 жыл бұрын
same I feel you
@matthewsnowdon8530
@matthewsnowdon8530 6 жыл бұрын
Raquel Larios omg finally i found people who understand me
@noelortiz472
@noelortiz472 5 жыл бұрын
Sorry me too
@davidtichborne2912
@davidtichborne2912 5 жыл бұрын
Developmental disability is a life time disorder
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 5 жыл бұрын
@@davidtichborne2912 I respectfully disagree. CRISPR researchers can now successfully Target the genes responsible for some learning disabilities, especially those similar to Fragile X Syndrome.the only question remain if we are able to trigger the brain to react to the changed genome post adolesence.
@Aries2445
@Aries2445 6 жыл бұрын
“This is a problem you can’t fix but you can adapt, its part of you”. I hate when people make it seem like you’re not trying hard enough to learn or something. Very frustrating!
@alexislopez2736
@alexislopez2736 2 ай бұрын
I have a bunch of learning disabilities. It's been a struggle to just get basic things done for everyday life. Especially in college, i have been held back twice elementary and I have to wait 2 years to continue my degree because I could not past the prequets classes needed to move on in the degree. I'm 26 in a classroom with people who are much younger than me and yet are still more in advance in understanding the material that I ever will be. It's really discouraging. I just keep telling myself. "I can't quit now. I can do this." But sadly, i've been struggling with believing that still. Thank you for sharing your story it's good to know that there are many of us struggling with these issues. Because I want to know what happens to people like me In life as disabilities are not something that can just be fix. They are forever with us. Until the day we die. all we can do is just adapt to everything that happens to us.
@victoria4638
@victoria4638 8 жыл бұрын
I have short term memory loss which affects my reading, writing and math. It's difficult when people don't understand how I forget information so fast and I can tell it frustrates them when they have to repeat some information, more then they would have to for someone else. I find that talking about it now with a counsellor about it now that I'm 21 is really helpful to release all the negative thoughts I have and what I thought others were thinking about me. Thank you for the video!
@Azenzar74
@Azenzar74 7 жыл бұрын
me too i stuggle with memory problems wich affects too my learning and writing... have you a facbook victoria?? i want to talk with you about this ?? thanks.
@no-de3lg
@no-de3lg 7 жыл бұрын
victoria4638 it's same with me I struggle with everything
@victoria4638
@victoria4638 7 жыл бұрын
It's really hard when you feel like you are so much different from everyone else. I'm really happy that people are talking about it because I don't have anyone else around me that have memory issues. I hope you have someone you can talk to about it :)
@saarinenj1
@saarinenj1 7 жыл бұрын
victoria4638 same
@monkeyhaters9258
@monkeyhaters9258 6 жыл бұрын
victoria4638 wow I can't believe I didn't look this up a long time ago is everybody always tells me I'm full of shit I'm an asshole have a hard time remembering anything I've learned to disability I can think of off the top of my head and I'm a smart-ass I really don't have any friends because of my sense of humor and everybody seems to think I'm smart cuz I can say smart-ass things off the top of my head I can't remember anything past a couple of days I've been diagnosed with learning disability since first grade hope first grade teacher actually got fired for the way she treated me over it this is back in the 60s my mom which also has problems always told me I had selective memory I would go into more detail but this is getting boring I don't like reminiscing I hope you get help never thought to check this out but I feel after answer everybody on this page because I feel the same way good luck
@8656737s
@8656737s 3 жыл бұрын
Teachers can be horrible! I've had a few teacher that made me feel stupid. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. It ruins your life and self esteem. I'm 41 and going to see a nuroligest I need more answers? I'm severely depressed. Thank you for sharing your story ❤
@dcgoddard
@dcgoddard 7 жыл бұрын
First of all, Kyle is an amazing individual!!! And then second of all, so are you!!
@davidstokes1977
@davidstokes1977 8 жыл бұрын
I have a LD myself. All my life I was in special classes throught out my childhood. I have felt ashamed for years. I did graduate from high school 20 years ago attending special classes. In the 80's and 90's it was rough being in school with a learning disability. I think back then, most teachers just did not understand how to deal with it. In class, we we're not giving much assignments unlike regular students because they just wanted us to graduate on time. Many of them assumed we were not going to college anyways. I declined going to college mainly because of it. So now, 20 years later I am now in college. Unfortunately I am having a very hard time adjusting to the academics. All forms of math and English writing is very difficult for me. in fact, I broke down last week because I could not comprehend well. I just hope I do well. Thank you for taking the time for making this video. you are a brave woman to come up over here like you did on online just tell the world that you have a learning disability. congratulations on your success. This gives me hope.
@ninjatops99
@ninjatops99 8 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing. i have some learning disabilities too. its really emotional and hard.
@thefbiiswatching9251
@thefbiiswatching9251 6 жыл бұрын
electrabot Math is really hard for me, its very sad;(
@loloheakaufusi91
@loloheakaufusi91 4 жыл бұрын
Same! I get so upset when I make an mistake.
@vietnamemperor123461
@vietnamemperor123461 8 жыл бұрын
I have learning disabilities also. I have trouble following and listening to instructions unless like something really simple like stacking boxes on pallet in a factory warehouse. Especially for a new job, the co worker have to repeat the same thing over and over again and everyone got so annoyed because they thought I was stupid and couldn't learn as fast as them. I was scared and humiliated because I was I felt like I was a joke and it makes the situation even worse.
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 8 жыл бұрын
I can appreciate how scary and humiliating that situation must have been, but you’re not alone! Keep searching for the soft spot…that person who can understand you and help. I also think that for you it is important to find a manager who understands. There are many different types of intelligence. You have problems with specific types, but I am certain that you have other valuable talents. The right people will recognize that. Get help with your troublesome areas. Take what you are best at and build upon it.
@Xslices
@Xslices 7 жыл бұрын
I have a learning disability and I have the same auditory issues. Words would get jumbled around in my head and I would need them repeated back to me. I understand instructions better if they are written out. Some of my coworkers think I'm an idiot but who cares what they think. I noticed their weaknesses also.
@lilbeviltwin
@lilbeviltwin 6 жыл бұрын
vietnamemperor123461 exactly, i hate it.
@MacarthurLouissaint-rz7tl
@MacarthurLouissaint-rz7tl 5 жыл бұрын
I know how that feels I also have a learning disability. I wish there was a cure for it
@shin_roku5696
@shin_roku5696 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this and it's even worse when you're parents can't understand what disability you have.
@TheFredster-dk1bi
@TheFredster-dk1bi 6 жыл бұрын
Growing up I’ve been struggling with school and still am, so bad I cry when I struggle with something... I never found out what it was, and still don’t know what I have but recently my mom admitted that i had complications during my birth and tends to struggle with telling me everything, it stresses me out because I’m aware of it and no one wants to be direct with me, it’s also hard for me to speak long sentences because I get lost in my words, thank you for sharing your story I feel like I’m not alone
@yabuxrabu
@yabuxrabu 8 жыл бұрын
You inspired me not to give up anything and it's okay not to be insecure with having learning disabilities. I feel no longer depressed. Thank you so much.
@blakesee3083
@blakesee3083 4 жыл бұрын
Trust me I'm with you too with having a learning disability we have to just try my best that's all we can do
@taffy8675
@taffy8675 4 жыл бұрын
Idk I’ve tried it’s just not working for me
@priscillavelez7392
@priscillavelez7392 8 жыл бұрын
I am 27 and also have dyslexia, my family was always in denial about what I had so I never got the help I needed. but know with the help of my husband I am finally seeing a specialist. Your video was seriously so helpful, its weird but I kinda feel like I found a twin I never new existed. thank you!😀
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 8 жыл бұрын
It’s so wonderful to meet you and hear how much better you’re doing now. What a wonderful husband you have! I’m sure he feels fortunate to have you, too.
@Learninghowtorebuild
@Learninghowtorebuild 6 жыл бұрын
Wow that's a blessing, i wish i had that support
@andymass4599
@andymass4599 Жыл бұрын
People who tell you that "you can't" struggle with an understanding of people. Everybody struggles with something. Well done young lady.
@MuckFen
@MuckFen 3 жыл бұрын
So inspiring! I’m 30 yrs old and just found out last year I’m dyslexic. Grew up my whole life thinking I was stupid. I listened to what teachers said about me and just decided not to bother trying. I did go to college but it took me 7 years to get a bachelors degree at Mizzou. So I can’t tell you how much this means to mean to hear your story.
@whirlwindraccoon
@whirlwindraccoon 7 жыл бұрын
Sounds like we had a similar experience. My teachers in middle school made the same claim about me never graduating high school, it's such a disgusting remark to make about a child. When you make such claims you are actually admitting that you've failed as a teacher and are unable to do your job.
@MrZEEsterious
@MrZEEsterious 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, I hope someone said something about the teacher saying this kind of stuff to a student, discouraging students should never be allowed with any teacher. It should result in a write up for them, or they should be fired. I don't know about everyone else, but this is just my view on it.
@mmp495
@mmp495 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly true. If a teacher is becoming frustrated and berates a student the teacher is a problem.
@sheagaier7582
@sheagaier7582 8 жыл бұрын
I have an autism spectrum disorder and ADHD so i know how you feel. My specific ASD is nonverbal learning disorder so learning visually screwed me up a lot growing up. I also had trouble making friends because I can't read social cues very well. when I was in 6th grade one of my classmates called me stupid and my self esteem declined. i currently hold a bachelors degree in psychology with a minor in speech communication and i work with teenagers with mental health problems. I recently applied to grad school for Ph.D programs in research health psychology.
@mmp495
@mmp495 Жыл бұрын
My son is ADHD and SLD. He is kind, charismatic, funny, loving, charming and so cute. He is also resilient and has perseverance. I will take him as he is over being book smart or an academic any day. I love every bit of him. ❤❤❤❤
@HeroKeepOnMarchingOn
@HeroKeepOnMarchingOn 7 жыл бұрын
You're not alone. I was born with Learning Disabilities, its hard to deal with it. School is very Hard etc... I've trouble with reading, math, and I can't remember solving, and I'm always failing my testes. Plus I feel like other kids are smarter then me, and they are fast at learning, and I'm like trying to catch up to them but its hard. That's why I like working by my self, no one will judge my learning if I'm working alone. I got left back in kindergarten because I didn't know anything. Was in Special Ed for 8 years, and in High School in a Huge class now, makes me not want to do work because looking around, every kid I see is smarter them me. I prefer to work alone, so no one will judge my ''Learning Disabilities'' 11th grader now, passed only one regents, by cheating a little, and need 4 more to graduate but it hard to pass these Regents. I wasn't never good at testes, and always failing. I was bullied through my Life, because I was Different with ''Learning Disabilities'' etc. and I don't know why they hate special Ed kids so much. Also I was depressed through all my life because of School, the kids and because of my family. School kids, and other people just don't understand how hard it is for kids with ''Learning Disabilities'' Was getting suicide thoughts a little but I got passed that now. My (LD) are reading/writing, and memory of learning. Looking up Famous People with ''Learning Disabilities'' etc, make me feel better, like Tom Cruise etc. They all have Disabilities and they're still successful in Life, if they can do it, we all can, never give up. We're the special ones with more rights. I've Dreams, want to be a Marine 20 years, cop 7 years, and then travel anywhere, and do stunts, just want to live wild. But us people with ''Learning Disabilities'' can do anything. We all can still be successful in life. So never give up. Couple months will be an Marine.
@samquintenlyons6093
@samquintenlyons6093 7 жыл бұрын
you passed the regents by cheating a little on the exit exam?
@yobiwolrd07
@yobiwolrd07 6 жыл бұрын
I cheated for the regents in fact someone gave me the answers :(
@alishamacaulay1710
@alishamacaulay1710 6 жыл бұрын
NGU MOTIVATION thank u for sharing this i know i dont know u but love Coming ur way ive felt the exact same way been struggling with it my whole life im so proud and just in aww of how u have grown to love ur self and exept ur self through every challenge cause are mind convinces us other wise but having that mental Power and being in control of how we are is important never giving up
@skyer713
@skyer713 4 жыл бұрын
Is it bad that I don't know or remember my disability? :/ I'm always failing tests too and I was doing poorly up until college. I have a diagnosis of adhd as well. I don't know anything.
@sirram5148
@sirram5148 7 жыл бұрын
Yeahh.. same problem here. and thank you for sharing. i always have a problem with memorizing things especially directions/navigations.. i'm a slow learner and very poor in mathematics.
@joeb8245
@joeb8245 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting. I am 34 just recently decided to seek out help with mine after years of feeling shamed from years of abuse I suffed from teachers in grade school who didn't know how to deal with me. I'm about to do a college reboot and your story gave me hope .
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 8 жыл бұрын
When I read your comment, I literally got the shivers. I can relate to the feeling of shame and I’m just so happy that you’re committed to trying college again.
@judechukwuelue617
@judechukwuelue617 5 жыл бұрын
Joe B you can do it! I have faith in you!
@Skerboysweet
@Skerboysweet 3 жыл бұрын
Hy can you please let me know how that goes i would love to go to college i just didnt want to waste the money cause there is very very high chance i wont be able to finish
@yabuxrabu
@yabuxrabu 8 жыл бұрын
I was in special ed when I was a kid because of speech and language disorder. I isolated myself from everyone including my friends who accepted me who I am and willing to help me overcome my barriers because I felt burdensome and doubted that I'll ever improve communicating with people and critical thinking in reading. And it was hard for me to express my opinions and explain my thinking process of why my answers are feasible in terms of writing essays. I just thought I was not successful and good enough to be around with people who don't have what I have. A speech and language disorder. But I am not the only one going through this struggle. I told myself that it's okay someday this pain will be useful to me and I'll definitely get out of special education and remain in regular class by pushing myself to work hard. I did. Also I went to tutor for extra practice and learn things ahead. It took me eleven years to graduate from it. Elementary school to the beginning of high school.
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Hearing about you being able to go from special education to regular class is such an inspiration for others struggling through challenges. Please keep going. You're terrific!
@sunsetave5206
@sunsetave5206 7 жыл бұрын
I'm in middle school I'm in special ed I have a learning disability its just so hard u feel embarrassed I struggle with math a lot I'm scared and I want to get out of that class sometimes ppl would make fun of us r say special ed I get offended and cry
@juniorbeck5
@juniorbeck5 7 жыл бұрын
Tears* I still struggle today and I'm 33 years old as I got older and realize We just learn differently from other people. Take care and God Bless!
@marisaramirez575
@marisaramirez575 2 жыл бұрын
Yeaa I still struggle with my learning disability and was honestly embarrassed by it🤦‍♀️😭I'm still learning how to cope with with it because I get emotional fusterated alot.
@laurenmcgee3081
@laurenmcgee3081 7 жыл бұрын
This young lady is amazingly inspiring I pray that God heals her from inside out then she is able to testify of God's mighty power and love. God bless you
@Oddlyn
@Oddlyn 7 жыл бұрын
I got so freaking emotional as a person with disabilities as well knows how she feels when the teachers says you are doing bad 😭 and how easily people get frustrated at you
@learningenglishwithanubha2697
@learningenglishwithanubha2697 4 жыл бұрын
Same feeling dear
@treroney4720
@treroney4720 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so much better after watching these videos
@sandyj3945
@sandyj3945 3 жыл бұрын
@@treroney4720 Me too.
@sandyj3945
@sandyj3945 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!❤️
@josefholzer2433
@josefholzer2433 3 жыл бұрын
Me to!
@theunknowjellybean118
@theunknowjellybean118 8 жыл бұрын
I I have a learning disability I struggle with math I don't know what it is called sorry and I feel embarrassed when people see me and I don't really talk to people and it makes me sad ; ( I also suffer from depression I just want to say thank you for sharing.
@yasminbeatricebahaoui4697
@yasminbeatricebahaoui4697 8 жыл бұрын
i have math problem too. it's called dyscalculia
@JasonLE89
@JasonLE89 8 жыл бұрын
same here
@yasminbeatricebahaoui4697
@yasminbeatricebahaoui4697 8 жыл бұрын
TheUnknowjellybean you are smart and beautiful person inside and out!:) And you are trying your best that's all that matters. Good luck!
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 8 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you! Working hard to rise above your disability despite these obstacles means that you earn a score of 100% on every test in terms of courage and perseverance. I am thankful that your current classmates are supportive.
@theunknowjellybean118
@theunknowjellybean118 8 жыл бұрын
KatherineChloeCahoon thx so much
@felicityjohnston9276
@felicityjohnston9276 5 жыл бұрын
I struggle mentally too,but I am autistic. I wish i could give you a hug and Kyle a massive high five! 💜 When you said what Kyle said to you i actually laughed out loud and clapped for him. "Don't let that make you afraid" Shit I feel like crying at that. Normal people,who dont have anything i have, have always made me feel less than human. I look normal but im not,they don't get how hard it is. I am SO proud of you,good on you for proving the haters wrong and for standing up for yourself. And for believing Kyle,for allowing yourself to see his beautiful perspective.
@owen5704
@owen5704 7 жыл бұрын
I have Dyslexia, ADHD, Dysgraphia. I can relate to this story in many ways. Thank you for making this video.
@Slarti
@Slarti 6 жыл бұрын
I too had learning difficulties as a child. My parents sent me off to boarding school 450 miles away from from home between the ages of 8 and 18 to try and help me but in many ways it just made things worse. I remember an incident when I was 17 at home in the holidays, when I heard my mother tell my father that I would never succeed at anything, they did not realise that I could hear what they were saying. My father stood up for me and I remember this very clearly as for the first time in my life I felt that someone was defending me. I have not done too badly - at the age of 48 I work as a software developer in one of the tech centres of the world (Cambridge UK). Your sincerity, kindness and strength show and I am sure that you will go on to inspire and help a lot of people.
@queenofweaves916
@queenofweaves916 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. You have helped so many people by sharing. I have a math learning disability. My son has a speech impediment and reading learning disability. He is 17 but reads at about a 4th grade level. But he doesn't let it stop him. He was like you and didn't read out loud. But now he does and he also gives presentations and debates. He has an incredible visual memory and is very artistic. So I am learning to work with his strengths. I am so sorry the memories still hurt you. I cried watching you cry and as a Mom I just wanted to hug you it reminded me of my son when he gets frustrated. I tell my son he is not dumb or stupid he just learns differently and there is nothing wrong with that. :0)
@melteddarkchocolate000
@melteddarkchocolate000 6 жыл бұрын
I wish i have you as my mother 😭😭😭😭
@MichiganPeatMoss
@MichiganPeatMoss 6 жыл бұрын
A teacher who communicates with such negativity is not contributing to ANY form of success. Unfortunately there are lousy teachers out there. Great work pushing through it! Love your video.
@froggy8030
@froggy8030 3 жыл бұрын
I feel your struggle and send you much love and kudos for putting yourself out there. You are brilliant! As someone who was shouted at Infront of my whole class and told by my teacher that another teacher I had retired because I couldn't do maths. I totally understand your angst.
@Dohsoda
@Dohsoda 7 жыл бұрын
Having a learning disability is tough, but once you realize it's not the end of the world, life gets better. Positively is difficult when you have a learning disability, but it can can make a difference.
@Skerboysweet
@Skerboysweet 3 жыл бұрын
It is bro considering high paying jobs you need college and in my expiernce not many jobs are patient with people who learn things slowly they just fire you or get frustrated
@carebare3310
@carebare3310 7 жыл бұрын
I have a learning disability and I'm struggling making new friends.And my friends would call me dumb sometimes and I get hurt because I wish they knew how hard it is to have learning disability.My school makes me feel dumb and I hate it,it sucks.I would avoid reading aloud,I would read sentences over and over again,and when I'm done reading a article,I couldn't remember anything.My dad would pressure me to get good grades and it's hard.I would never even memorize anything from a book.Those of you who are reading this and have a learning disability,I promise you we could go all through this together god bless you.I have dyslexia btw
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your feelings. Yes you can go through this..
@907krischan
@907krischan 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I just graduated from high school. I never knew I had learning disability I felt so stupid not knowing all these years. I felt so dumb and stupid. I felt depressed after doing some research about learning disability I broke down. I always wondered why I never had the classes with some of my good friends. They were all smart while I'm in the average dumb side. I'm trying my best to go ahead of life as an adult and try to be independent.
@anelbre0904
@anelbre0904 7 жыл бұрын
Watching this is making me cry. You're so brave!!! What you're doing isn't easy. I'm severely LD in math and sciences, and have been since elementary. I've been teased mercilessly whenever faced with challenges with those subjects. I just wish I could hug you! Thank you so much for making this video.
@robmcmuffin8453
@robmcmuffin8453 8 жыл бұрын
im not going to pretend that I understand your whole struggle, but i do understand what it feels like when people simply label you and point blank say you won't succeed or get very far. it hurts. im so glad you were able to overcome and help others through this exchange. keep up the awesome!
@sandyj3945
@sandyj3945 3 жыл бұрын
Listening to her story and reading these comments, " Had me in tears"! I too always felt I had a " Learning Disability". It's hard to retain information when I try to learn new materials. Sometimes I can't remember what I just read and have to go back and re-read the paragraph. I suffer poor memory. And each and every job I had people notice that I am a " slow learner". I don't get opportunities to move up at my job, because of it. I too felt ashamed and embarrassed! Suffering from heavy anxiety. Once I had this old ugly teacher with A. Big black mole on her face, For some reason or another, " She hated me"! She said out loud in the classroom that she wouldn't recommend me to work at a pie factory! Smh! She was ao cruel to me.... But anyway, The doctor told me I may have "ADD"... and to get tested. I never got the chance to pursue it, however I will go back and get the tested as soon as I can. So, I pray for the young lady in the video as well as all of the people who has commented on their story of LD. God bless!
@binkyfaith
@binkyfaith 3 жыл бұрын
Same here… I believe I suffer from this…. It’s so debilitating I was told at a job I don’t know nothing…. It’s been one blow after another
@Defender78
@Defender78 3 жыл бұрын
Its dufficilt having a dearning lisability
@just_jenean9503
@just_jenean9503 2 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to you on everything that you just mentioned^.
@mmp495
@mmp495 Жыл бұрын
I love how you stand up for yourself Sandy. Definitely look into getting evaluated and learn some strategies that can help. I'm hoping and wishing you the best.
@marcelavillalobostorres5046
@marcelavillalobostorres5046 Жыл бұрын
​@@binkyfaiththat is so messes up what they told you and that is not right😡
@judechukwuelue617
@judechukwuelue617 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video! I am really proud of you! I am 37 years of age and I struggle to learn things.. I am scared of progressing my self in any job... I stay at a comfortable level because climbing the learning curve is hard and I feel embarrassed. I am trying. It took me 5 years to finish a 3 year degree in physiotherapy... it was soo hard and depressing. I tried to be a personal trainer and I couldn’t develop any further with making significant money to have a life. I am now a Firefighter in London and it’s hard especially the learning curve for a beginner....I find life stressful. Thanks for your honesty and sincerity.... your story touched me. I’ll try and remember some of your mantras: you can get this down!, don’t give up! It’s part of you but it doesn’t have to be the thing that stops or scared you from achieving.
@Tim_G_Bennett
@Tim_G_Bennett 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a heart felt video, it's hard I know. I found out I'm dyslexic two years ago when I was 37. The amount of shame I had been carrying around for years was huge, I just thought I was dumb even though everyone else said otherwise.
@AStoicMaster
@AStoicMaster 8 жыл бұрын
That's really cool that at least a few people cared, & were willing to work with you. Gives me a small shred of hope I might get that someday. I'm a 35 year old male who still to this day hasn't received any such support. From teachers, family, friends, etc. It's always "you're just intellectually lazy", or "Try harder!"
@lilbeviltwin
@lilbeviltwin 6 жыл бұрын
A_Stoic_Master hate being called lazy,when in reality im actually trying my the best i could.
@trinithy
@trinithy 6 жыл бұрын
So true even when you try you're best it always come that you're jut lazy .
@Learninghowtorebuild
@Learninghowtorebuild 6 жыл бұрын
I agree
@oldschoolnow2493
@oldschoolnow2493 8 жыл бұрын
I struggled with school all my life and finally as an adult discovered that I have a learning disability in several area....math, reading, recall, memory, speaking, etc.... I am currently a college student and still am struggling with this and most professors do not understand. They suggestion is you have to study harder!!! Well, that's not it because I do study hard but information does not get processed in my brain. I can read and read, takes notes, practice and still not remember. I feel trapped and fell hopeless because I see other students sailing through these classes. I want to graduate and excel but everyday is a struggle...
@Jamya87
@Jamya87 8 жыл бұрын
OldSchool Now249 wow I know the feeling. I am 29 and I remember how hard I had it in school. I remember being labeled as one of those students who had to be pulled out of class to focus one on one with a special needs teacher. I had to idea what was going on and I remember feeling ashamed. I recently started looking into LD and resources I can use to help me.
@NhN-jw9tu
@NhN-jw9tu 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jamya87 Same it's really hard.I hate when people rub it in your face and say its so easy when your struggling so much.
@floricelmendez2223
@floricelmendez2223 4 жыл бұрын
I'm like that as well. I have short term memory, communication problems, reasoning problems. I feel less than, I feel worthless, I feel as though love shouldnt be for me because who would want me. I take notes and study a lot and I recall them but then I forget real fast. As though I didnt practice. My main goal is to have a decent job one paying more than minimum wage. My parents came here for me I want to bless them for that. I feel at times like I cant. I get scared of what my future holds. Dreaming of owning a house, traveling seems like a dream. I make countless mistakes at work and I feel so stupid. Sometimes I cry and wish my parents got a normal smart daughter that can give so much than what I can. I'm currently in college. Im supposed to graduate with a degree in fashion but I feel as though I'm not ready. I need to practice more, but like I said things dont stick to me easily or quickly. I know how you feel though.
@xD3athAngelx
@xD3athAngelx 4 жыл бұрын
I realize this is late, but for those of you who are really struggling with recall, memory, and speech (but especially the first 2), I strongly suggest you ask about absence (petit mal) seizures or epilepsy. It's not known for convulsions, although that can still happen, but rarely. You lose consciousness. It can be anywhere between 1 sec. - a few mins. (but you will look awake). It can happen many times a day or once in a while, but it definitely makes something like school or work hard, b/c it affects everything. When you don't have to move much like at school or an office job, it's hard for someone else to notice it. I found out I had it when I was in college. The most telling thing for me was when the professor was talking about a topic, I would suddenly come upon a moment when it seemed like they changed material, and I didn't remember when it happened. I used to think instances like that, and me zoning out when ppl were talking to me was b/c I was being bad and not paying attention. It turned out most of them were b/c of seizures. None of you are stupid or bad for not understanding. You just aren't being given resources or taught in a way that works with your needs yet. I think that's an ongoing battle for most people.
@gonzalez93a.25
@gonzalez93a.25 8 жыл бұрын
And it's was worth it. You are truly inspiring Katherine. I've suffered from a speech disorder called " Lisp" all my life, and up until now I decided to improve that dis capability in other to pursue my dreams. We all struggle from something, but that something won't be the end of us.
@afriend9428
@afriend9428 4 жыл бұрын
*You go girl! I am dyslexic too but love reading books and magazines*
@johannah7466
@johannah7466 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I have a reading disorder and can relate. Thank you for being brave enough to share.
@antoniomcdaniel1945
@antoniomcdaniel1945 7 жыл бұрын
This video truly have open up the door to freedom for me. For years i hide behind the mask of denial. But your open testimonials have inspired me. Thank you so much. Yahweh Bless You!!!
@noahthroopthroop8042
@noahthroopthroop8042 8 жыл бұрын
I have a learning disability on grammer and math and it's not easy . I still struggle today with my learning disability and still feel depressed about disability. I am 25, and starting to go to university for the first time in my life time. I am taking bachelor of arts religious studies starting January 9 2017. I am very surprised that I I've been accepted at Mount Allison University!☺ My marks at high school was not the greatest.
@Jamya87
@Jamya87 8 жыл бұрын
Noahthroop Throop awsome
@noahthroopthroop8042
@noahthroopthroop8042 8 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@paakwasi3600
@paakwasi3600 8 жыл бұрын
Am not sure if I have a learning disability, but I really struggle with grammar.
@nnnnn1610
@nnnnn1610 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 40 and so ashamed of myself. Ive genuinely gotten nowhere with life. I feel like I'm stuck as a little girl.. I struggled in school, didn't attend most of the later years because it was just too hard, plus I was bullied. But avoiding school obviously didn't help. My spelling was good, but comprehension was almost non existent, most of the time I copied or reworded the workbooks just to get by. It worked.. Until exams. I didn't revise because when I did it wouldn't go in.. I couldn't bare the frustration of it all. I thought I'd be good at college because I didn't have to learn all sorts, but I failed at that.. ending up not attending because I couldn't keep watching people comprehend it all and churn out work again when I was no where near.. Plus the socialising was brutal, I couldn't do it. Same again at a home course, this time I thought it was the environment.. Of course it wasn't and I bailed out because I was struggling so bad. Now, 8yrs later I'm trying again with a different course and it's broken me. Why do I think I can be anything other than a failure. I'm just too stupid. Watching my husband read the same things as me and comprehend it all, even reiterating to me in his own words what it all meant, and me still not getting it.. Reading it over and over, looking for other information to help it go in.. Trying videos, different things just to get the same result...Soul destroying. Why am I so stupid!! I try and try but get nowhere, why? I wish I was someone else. I just don't want to be this person anymore. Ive got nothing, never achieved anything, nothing I'm good at... I don't know anything about anything.... I avoid conversations because I can't follow them, and of course ai have absolutely nothing to add apart from the basic stuff.. Who wants that! I wouldn't speak to me! So it's no wonder people don't. I wish I could go to sleep and not wake up most of the time. It's not a life. Part of me holds on to the hope I have some form of learning disability.. Part of me is terrified I'm just a stupid waste of space.. But what if I am. Then what. I don't know who to ask for help from anymore. Even my husband is tired of me. I wish I knew who to turn to. I wish I knew why I'm such a rubbish person.
@KhandiiedYams1039
@KhandiiedYams1039 Жыл бұрын
That. That sounds so much like me at times. 😣
@annalewis3356
@annalewis3356 Жыл бұрын
Your not alone please don't call yourself names l struggle too. You are still special God made you unique and he doesn't make mistakes.
@mmp495
@mmp495 Жыл бұрын
N please get help and support. You have something to offer, everyone has a place on this earth and a special talent to give. I'm hoping you see this. ❤❤❤
@marcelavillalobostorres5046
@marcelavillalobostorres5046 Жыл бұрын
Please dont say those things about your self , we are all worth something and even though i don't know you i care for you and breaks my heart you feel this way , don't ever give up , u are special eve if you dont see it ❤❤
@maryjanesmiley1446
@maryjanesmiley1446 6 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I have the same problems im 46 now an still really struggle.thank you for sharing. Blessings your way
@jarredreaby7435
@jarredreaby7435 2 жыл бұрын
Hey there my name is jarred I am from Melbourne, Australia I have got a learning disability as well I seen your video u should be proud of yourself to share this with other people and worldwide I also got bullied and hated reading in front of people and till this day i still struggle to read in front of people but I am starting to get abit better at it I struggle at school I had a lot of people told I won’t do well in life I should be a waiter. Now I am fully qualify cabinet maker married with 2 kids I would not tell many people about my disability because I felt people would look at the wrong way now I have started to be more comfortable of my disability i have no reason to hide it anymore seeing this video and listening to your story is really good to hear and it’s good to hear other people like u doing good thank u for sharing your story
@topiakun3245
@topiakun3245 3 жыл бұрын
This made me cry because I feel you 😣🍀
@kathythureen6502
@kathythureen6502 7 жыл бұрын
THIS GIRL IS A VERY ATTRACTIVE GIRL. SHE IS REAL BRAVE TO TALK ABOUT HER LEARNING DISABILITY.
@mileseddy56
@mileseddy56 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 17 and in 10th. Been held back before. I have dislexia, ADHD and dysgraphia. I couldn’t even read a book until 3rd grade. What I want people to know is that having a learning disability is not a bad thing, it just means you have to try harder. People that have learning disabilities are warriors. I never give up on myself and nor should you. You just have to say it in your mind that I am capable of achieving anything I put my mind to. While you might be hating school you have an entire beautiful life ahead of you. NEVER GIVE UP you can be anything you want in this world.
@Elizabeth.Meister
@Elizabeth.Meister 4 жыл бұрын
This video means a lot to me because I have a learning disability with math and focusing and this just means a lot to me that you are brave to share your story and to show other people that there not alone and I wish I was brave like you to share my story but I am still a little bit scared still to share my story face to face with someone but I’m typing my story right now and I’m proud of it and you just give me lots of hope and love ❤️ Thank You
@Elizabeth.Meister
@Elizabeth.Meister 2 жыл бұрын
I actually don’t have a learning disability with math, I thought I did but I actually have ADHD
@Mickster2233
@Mickster2233 9 жыл бұрын
Your video reminded me to always remain patient when I'm teaching someone a difficult subject. I tend to find myself losing patience sometimes, however occasionally the person I'm teaching can't help it. It's really up to me to always remain cool and collective to really break through the barrier and move forward with the pupil. Thanks for the insight Katherine! This world needs more Kyles haha!
@tyrellefrazier16
@tyrellefrazier16 2 жыл бұрын
When I was in the 4th grade I was put in a special Ed class due to a comprehension disability. People don’t understand the mental health struggles that came with feeling isolated and separated at a young age. Every morning I had to walk to the other side of the school ALONE while my cousins and friends all went to the regular Ed hallways. But I got back into regular Ed in 9th grade🎉! I changed my IEP to IGP, I increased my Lexile score, I took honors classes and graduated HS class of 2021.
@musicgirl999
@musicgirl999 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I can’t stand when General Ed teachers talk down to students who are struggling even the students who have IEPs. I also know that sometimes teachers are ignorant and prejudice against students who are on IEPs too, and assume if a student struggles in one area they’ll struggle in all areas, and truly only like the conventionally smart students.
@rosiecampos5186
@rosiecampos5186 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your story it is 2023 and so you are aware that your video and story is still helping others that struggle..
@GenericJ13J
@GenericJ13J 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you and God bless you for having the courage to do something so difficult as to make this video despite all that you've struggled with. I know that this video was a blessing to so many people out here!
@shawnbonner5117
@shawnbonner5117 8 жыл бұрын
With my life I honestly didn't feel great about having a diploma due to my learning. But I am much happier with my life because I now know I don't feel alone. Thank you
@ryanbanks8506
@ryanbanks8506 8 жыл бұрын
Your Kyle has moved away. Now you pass Kyles message like a torch beacon on the hill. You shine bright! I see You! You are realizing your ability now! I believe that special help is available when slips of realities perception happen. In strong emotional happenines things shift that's why they happen. Your beginning to ride the synchronicity of life.
@and3311
@and3311 4 жыл бұрын
Such a motivating video :) I really needed to hear this. It makes me realize that I'm not the only person who's felt this way. It can be so frustrating to feel that judgement from others, especially when they don't make the effort to see it from your perspective. Thank you for sharing!
@DQINBETWEEN
@DQINBETWEEN 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Katherine I just wanna say thank you for sharing your stories. It is very inspiring. For a long time I believed that I was a terrible writer and that I hated reading, just because that was what my mom said to me since I was 6 years old. I thought reading and writing were just not my things and that I couldnt do it. But many things happened these few years changed my perspectives and made me fall in love with both. Today I still have difficulties in reading and writing (and sometimes speaking too; like what happened to you in this video, suddenly forgetting what I wanted to say, which makes me really frustrated especially when it comes to communications in relationships. I found us having lots of things in common), and I dont know if it is due to learning disabilities or just mental barriers that take time to conquer, but I've come to believe that if I keep practicing and believing in myself, I would eventually get better and better. And after listening to your stories I have more faith in myself. You are an incredible and brave woman to have opened your vulnerabilities to help people. I truly appreciate that!
@altruex
@altruex 4 жыл бұрын
I love that you shared you story, and to do it for the world to see means you came a long way of accepting who you are despite all of that. In a way you reminded me to continue to learn how to cope with whatever challenges we all have as our own. For me, i could relate, growing up feeling inadequate and being humiliated because i couldnt keep up, it was also very hard because my parents were poor immigrate and uneducated so they couldn’t understand what was going on, that they always nagged and judged me for being “stupid” or not working hard enough. On top of my learning challenges, i had to experience alot of family issues (verbal, physical abuse and dysfunctional relations) i grew up feeling so drawn away from education, being turned off - not knowing hot to spell, read, write... i grew up liking math, but as it got harder to grasp understanding or focusing on what teachers were saying cause i felt they taught way to fast and specifically their way, my grades started to get bad, and my joy for math eventually left me... ever since then, i lost that joy of doing math. I also remember one time a teacher telljng me to stop doodling on my homework. So i did and i felt so lost of why i was even in school because i felt like i couldn’t even learn... even now im struggling to learn and it tough. End of high school i read a book for fun called ‘The Spark’ about a kid who had Autism and he was said to not be successful and when i read his story of overcoming the learning disabilities, it gave me more confidence to read, i started to enjoy reading because it wasnt about being force fed something and being tested and ultimately judged- i felt free to enjoy it and learn without feeling humiliated for not knowing a few words. This helped me develop my understanding of spelling and reading comprehension a bit more... and it sparked something in me... and a way that book was sort of like my Kyle. Im still on that journey, but its one that really goes deep... so i commend you and anyone who goes through this challenges 🙏
@janicechase9138
@janicechase9138 7 жыл бұрын
You are simply AMAZING, Katherine! You are such a brave and kind soul. Please continue to inspire others (like me)! "Salamat" (means "thank you" in Philippines/ Filipino)!
@aleshondra1985
@aleshondra1985 8 жыл бұрын
This video really triggered me, but in a good way. Thank you for sharing. It feels so good to not feel alone.
@jeffayers4701
@jeffayers4701 7 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I'm actually thirty-eight years old now, watching life through movies and television, and banning myself away from actual life. But am working for Loblaws, going to movie theatres every week, and the gym, and that's it. I'm always friendly, and can't tolerate people that are under the influence of stress or other. And that's why I feel I can't even be with my better half, and close friends. And I just don't know who to trust since I was kind of used by someone that took me for a certain amount of money. I feel things are lighting up, I feel the motivation, but have no action to go through with anything (Especially creating some kind of business) since I have this disability. I have no idea what to do. And just completely afraid of life. I've made some small changes in my life now, but still very afraid of people, on who to trust again someday. But am still staying in my parents house, and sealing myself away from life. Any ideas what I could do, since we're all alike on here?
@amandaevergreen8624
@amandaevergreen8624 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh this is amazing, thank you so much for sharing. I know EXSACTLY how you feel. Im Learning Disabled too. This helps a lot. Serriously! Your amazing. Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone. AND OH MY GOSH YOU WROTE A BOOK THAT IS SO COOL!
@Love2nurse93
@Love2nurse93 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! It encouraged me I'm currently in college and am really struggling because of my learning disabilities!
@EverythingFarley
@EverythingFarley 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊 I needed to watch this , I feel so stupid and worthless most of the time.
@angelic.harleen
@angelic.harleen 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing! I’m a student in grade 8 Canada Ontario and I’m a IEP ( means individual educational plan) and I remember my guidance consular telling my mom that “ your daughter can’t go to high school or else’s she’ll fail she’s not better she’s weak at her math and most subjects” I got depressed that same day because knowing my very own consular who I trusted telling my mom that broke me so down she gossiped about me to the other teachers now I feel insecure she told me I’m not goof enough yea I’m in grade 8 and next year I’m off to high school it’s so hard cause I have a learning disability teachers and everyone don’t understand it i feel so low on my self thank you for sharing
@brianallen8534
@brianallen8534 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Katherine I am 74 years live in Australia and i am dyscalculia so i know what it is like ,I hid it but life was very difficult and still is.You are amazing i now tell people and it is a lot better I have had a great life and am sure you will.
@victorialeger9040
@victorialeger9040 3 жыл бұрын
I never knew how much I needed this because I have a learning disability too and I feel stupid when I can't remember things because of my short term memory loss and I related so much to your video. I hate saying that I need someone to explain what a certain word means even if I already know it and your video made me realize that its ok to speak up and I don't have to feel bad anymore. Thank you for doing this! You are my hero!!! :)
@blckstarbeautypurpleprint2153
@blckstarbeautypurpleprint2153 7 жыл бұрын
I understand exactly how you feel! I was held back in elementary school and struggled all throughout school. Ended up dropping out after running away from home but two yrs later i got a GED and took more courses but i get terrified with training classes at work and always feel inadequate . im so glad my kids are extremely smart and honer students with colleges interested in them. I wish i could be as sharp as most but i can only do the best i can.
@papermason
@papermason 6 жыл бұрын
I suspected early in life that I had issues in class, math? forget it. I was always in a jumble or in tears. I felt so bad. I'm still struggling -- I find reading very tough sometimes -- I'm 60 years old.
@jeffayers4701
@jeffayers4701 7 жыл бұрын
Still I wish everyone all the best that's dealing with LD, and hope everyone is not struggling still to this day like I am with almost no action and to much worries on their mind. Here's words of encouragement for everyone else "Follow your dreams and goals while your still young before life does pass you by like it did me." "And reach out to touch someone's heart." "Life is short, so life it to the fullest with your family and friends." Last one: "Things make you miss out on what's really important this this life... find somebody you want to spend the rest of you life with, and hold onto that special person forever."
@everythingwithalexkay
@everythingwithalexkay 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us , I am crying as you are telling your story as it is a reflection of my life
@WhoisyourProvider
@WhoisyourProvider 5 жыл бұрын
You're doing a great job! I was diagnosed with ADHD and was in special ed until high school. To this day, my understanding is slow. I was told by a govermental organization that i'd never make it in college. I proved them wrong and was on the president's list (higher than the Dean's) almost every term. If anyone has a disability, don't let anyone tell you you can't do anything! Prove them wrong!
@imdjc4
@imdjc4 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Katherine. Same here. I gave up explaining LDs even when I was young because people would look at me like I have 3 heads so instead I reserve understanding for the few people like yourself - those who know. BTW....2:20 Welcome to my world too. As a child, I could never understand why my dad did that as well. And now I do it....a lot. It's infuriating. In grade 2, I could speed read (maybe because both my parents were writers). The teacher would ask a question about what I had just read. When I answered with 'I don't know,' the teacher would blow up and yell, How could you not know! You just read it! Keep in mind that was in the 70s. For years, I was constantly pulled out of class for 'testing' and I was told at a very young age I will fail in three aspects of life - socially, professionally and academically. And I've been diagnosed (many times!) with only a mild LD. My brother really struggled with his. But with proper schooling ('gifted'), meds and counselling he really grew as a person - both spiritually and mentally. Four years later, he was being weaned off his meds and no longer needed counselling when he died in a car accident four days before his 17th. His average was in the 90s and he had grown into such a mature young man. He was a success story for LDs back in the late 80s. He had a resource library named after him which still exists today. BTW....don't give up. My dad became a pilot's pilot and I was lucky enough to excell at what I enjoyed doing- yup...LDs and all. I'm sure you've heard it before, but many people with LDs become over-achievers. Your video has made it to my favorites and I am using it as an example and forwarding it to those who should see it. Great result!
@rusmanhl56
@rusmanhl56 Жыл бұрын
thank you, this helped me to understand my kid better and to keep encouraging them for literally a million hours they have been putting into their studies with just a 'normal' results, at least they know that their hard work I have always appreciate it, and not just focusing on the remarkable score itself.
@mykenziebug1
@mykenziebug1 7 жыл бұрын
I have dyscalculia. I completely understand :( I felt so stupid up until my diagnosis at 14. It made me feel like I would never be able to live life like most people. I still get anxious about it. I have yet to get a job and it makes it very discouraging. I know I'm not alone , it just feels like it sometime.
@henrymiddendorf8849
@henrymiddendorf8849 2 жыл бұрын
We all learn in different ways and sometimes it takes longer to pick things up be proud of who you are and be the best you can be
@NikkiCaswell
@NikkiCaswell 8 жыл бұрын
I'm twenty-two years old. I've been considered as special ed from primary, secondary and onto high school. Nobody told me as to why I was placed in the low academia level (which was a joke as we've learned minimal to nothing) that I was placed at. I was able to take tests at the same average time but wasn't able to follow directions as clearly. The subjects I struggled most in were mathematics and sciences that involved mathematical equations. This was first apparent when I entered freshmen year of high school and I was told that I was pretty much flunking algebra I and just barely passing general science. Fast forward, I didn't go to college right away due to the problems I was dealing with and many of which were never addressed despite having an IEP who saw that I was struggling pretty badly. I'm in community college now and taking college algebra for the third time (second time I dropped mid semester, which is another story) and saw that I am still barely passing. My mother denies that there's anything wrong and by the time I get the evaluation it will be too late by the time this semester ends, so I'm not sure if I should drop out of college algebra at this point. It really sucks since I went through a lifelong struggle of inadequacy, depression and being an outcast due to people thinking that I'm overall retarded. It still happens now and I'm getting desperate. I just want to be like everyone else. I didn't choose to be 'dumb.'
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 8 жыл бұрын
I’m so sad to hear what you’re going through. First of all, you aren’t dumb. Just because you are struggling in some areas doesn’t mean that you don’t have wonderful talents in others. Regarding your algebra class, I’d advise seeing the professor. Whenever I was struggling in college, I visited my professors during office hours to go over the troublesome material. With some of them, I was in every week. Those one-on-one reviews helped so much. The professors realized I was sincere and tailored their explanations to my needs. During my first two college years, I was also able to get tutoring through a Learning Center at school. Ask if there is something like that at your school. A good tutor who understands how you think can make math clear when the book and the teacher cannot. I am certain that I would have flunked classes that I got A’s in if it were not for my tutor. I’m sorry your mother does not understand. If she could only live your life through one algebra class, she would. Just the fact that you have taken this course for the third time tells me what an extraordinarily good person you are. Get the right help. You can make it!
@Lucky13Enterprise
@Lucky13Enterprise 6 жыл бұрын
Hey, at least you had the initiative to START. At 26, I have AVOIDED going back to school because of my problems learning math and such. I failed Algebra 1, freshman year, and retook it the next year and passed with 90s all throughout. We had a different teacher and I think that made all the difference. Also BARELY skated by in the rest of the science and English classes. But managed to make As and Bs in all of my computer related classes. But even then I struggled to learn ANYTHING from books. That has always been my biggest problem. I have felt exactly as you do, For years I wanted to be 'Normal' but the truth is, What is normal? How boring does that sound??? Do YOU. Be yourself. Nobody is Dumb, just better at some things than other things. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Probably not saying anything you haven't heard already. Just don't give up.
@melteddarkchocolate000
@melteddarkchocolate000 6 жыл бұрын
Omfg nikki i want to give you a hug!!! I feel your pain too omfg
@judechukwuelue617
@judechukwuelue617 5 жыл бұрын
Nikki Caswell you’re not retarded! I believe in you! I admire you! You’re worth it! Who you are is appreciated! There’s only one person like please don’t treat yourself poorly or badly!
@rks8453
@rks8453 3 жыл бұрын
Hey After seeing your video, i really feel inspired. You are actually very strong and much capable that you think. That small issue is not going to take anything out of you. You have inspired so many of us because you are strong, didn't stop working towards your goal and that is what a truly successful woman means and indeed you are. We are proud of you! ❤️ You challenged your difficulties and worked really hard. This is a special message from my heart to all those who never stopped believing and working towards their goal. You are not just a determined person but you have motivated many of us to never give up! god bless you to succeed in all your endeavors ! You are a true inspiration.
@liaqatalihassanzadah4671
@liaqatalihassanzadah4671 8 жыл бұрын
Well done to you. I really praise you guys. You are really brave and talented. Just don't let others judge you wrongly.
@kerri-annjeffery382
@kerri-annjeffery382 6 жыл бұрын
I am currently studying Learning Support with special focus on Learning Disorders/Disabilities. It has helped watching this video as well as reading the comments to understand the personal side of LDs more than just research and theories. I am so sorry to each and every one of you who has had a bad experience with a teacher. As a teacher myself I can relate to how much pressure we're under but it never gives anyone the right to disrespect or belittle. Teachers are meant to help you reach your full potential - be the best version of yourself and I'm sorry when they haven't done this. Thank you for sharing and I hope you all find people to inspire you and encourage you to keep trying. We are all different and should celebrate that.
@elmaterial8670
@elmaterial8670 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful! Thank you for sharing! It was really difficult to share but how beautiful! All the negative untrue comments you received were all about the person making the comment and not about you. I appreciate the tips you shared. Life is too short to care about what other people think; In the end, what they think or say really won't matter, for you. Love what you said about using criticism to motivate you to be the best you can be. I may have an undiagnosed disability. Thanks again!
@fionarichards9550
@fionarichards9550 Жыл бұрын
Oh this broke my heart I was in a similar situation as a child my mother was told I would never succeed in life but my personality would get me through life. I struggled and I was never helped in school. I hate every minute in school the humiliation and trauma has stayed with me for life. I went to university aged 41 and was finally diagnosed with dyslexia in the final year, and graduated in an honours degree without any assistance. I now know that it doesn’t reflect our intelligence others make us feel stupid which we aren’t. 😘
@nataliereed1121
@nataliereed1121 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your story!!! 🙏 ❤️ You are beautiful on the inside and the outside and I know by watching this video that you have impacted so many people around the world. The world needs more people like you. You deserve all the happiness in the world. God Bless You 🙌 ❤ Thank you 😊
@cezsha7681
@cezsha7681 3 жыл бұрын
I have learning disability too, when i was in school (from elementary to college) all my friends are very smart and they get highest marks on school, when they asked how much i get im saying i get lowest score:( then my friends are starting to avoid me like they dont want to be friends with me anymore cuz im super dumb, they dont know they are extremely lucky cuz they are smart, I feel completely opposite and i extremely envy on them and im struggling on speaking, math, problem solving, and i have no sense of talking... i feel like why am i still alive and i dont know why am i like this.. i havent finish my college and everytime they ask me when i get back to study, it triggers me cuz i failed many times at school and i feel guilty on myself that im trying so hard to study and it doesnt get to my brain and i still get lowest marks..
@grabram5681
@grabram5681 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that... Think that you are not alone... We are many people that we struggled very much, nobody understand or cares about it.. Now I'm an adult, I was asking me for years why I didn't do like others in school later at work, but I continue in this battle for life, is not easy... But you can, don't give up...
@MotherDaughter-cr6xw
@MotherDaughter-cr6xw 8 жыл бұрын
This was very interesting and yet very helpful i have a learning disability and there are days were i struggle and i get so frustrated but after seeing this it kinda gave me some help on what 2 do, I have always had my learning disability and always will and this video really got 2 me thanks for doing a video on this.
@jasminedrew4948
@jasminedrew4948 7 жыл бұрын
I have a learning disability, when I was in 6th grade I didn't know how to do fractions but I know them now. For example 1/2= 50% 1/5=20% etc.
@TheRosemontag
@TheRosemontag 7 жыл бұрын
I've been watching this video, as well as reading the comments below. Everybody in the comment section has always something interesting to say. And I find it soothing because I also have a learning disability. I remember my early day's when I was in 1st grade, my teacher was asking all the students to do math. I had problems in math, looked at the math question but my mind couldn't process the information. So my teacher used colour teddy bears to teach me simple adding. It was a good 15 minutes to do one question, I don't understand why this was happening to me. So as time continued on I couldn't write simple sentences. My spelling was bad. My teacher started to get angry, she lost patients with me and yelled with rage, this is where my depression started, but at the same I also developed a rebellious personality. My teacher got me upset one day, so I put the chair leg on her foot, while it crushes her toe. One day I also coloured the carpet with a orange crayon (no body knew it was me). So as the years went by I had to take a special needs class. I didn't have many friends, just one. While looking at all the social circles with everybody having 12 or more friends. People picked on me because of that so it made me even more depressed. But I have told bullies to fuck off in my day, even today. All through out my life I have word salad. My speech couldn't keep up with my brain. My speech sounded like: "asfg fghnf tjjukl." I never went to college because I don't want to experience that same bullshit. I can read okay, my math is so-so but still poor. I only have a high school diploma with a student average of 52 %. This is why I can only make 36,000 a year. I know I can do better, and you can too if you believe in yourself. Love yourself, tell people to fuck off if you have to. Now Katherine in this video you are very sexy, I understand where you are coming from. Be strong.
@atonsol7514
@atonsol7514 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you I am a retired teacher and counselor with a learning challenge in reading and math, I have a master's in educational counseling and have begun writing two books , yet I still struggle with a world , a society that has little tolerance for my blunders in every day things. I reached out for this video in a moment if sadness cause I get so frustrated with myself cause I can't relax or I will make a mistake that will upset others in particular my wife who is a genius in many areas. But has her own emotional issues that impact her tolerance level. Thanks for sharing, I know we are not alone ever.
@RUSSELLTYOUNG
@RUSSELLTYOUNG 8 жыл бұрын
Hey I was born, with a learning disability and I am proud that I am still growing and learning, I beat high school and now I am in collage and university and I am proud still takes me a while to understand what I am typing and spelling but I've gotten way better over the years and I am proud to see this video. You inspire me to do more with my life.
@KatherineChloeCahoon
@KatherineChloeCahoon 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! You are an inspiration to others with learning disabilities.
@mommusicandmakeupcaseywalt4793
@mommusicandmakeupcaseywalt4793 7 жыл бұрын
I've struggled my whole life too!!! I feel ya!!!
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