My Testimony: I Caught My Fiancé In Bed With Another Woman. Signs I Ignored…

[@mawusivivor5546]

I’ve been there Almost got married to a womaniser. The Holy Spirit led me and i showed up at his house unannounced and caught him red handed Now let me tell you how The Holy Spirit led me specifically. I felt someone hit me while i was asleep and when i woke up. It was 4am I heard “ go to his house “ I heard again “ don’t drive, don’t take the keys to his house “ I obeyed, i picked a taxi and when i arrived, the gate to his house was opened “ His house help was tidying up the front of the house I entered the house, through house and went directly to his bedroom door, and knocked, he opened and there was a woman with him. I was in great shock, i was hurt. But very grateful for God’s divine intervention. Yahweh’s direction was so specific and on point, that my ex believed someone had given me a heads up about him having a woman there with him. I’m in awe of God’s divine intervention and direction We just have to listen

[@NikkisNature-m9n]

Woooow Hallelujah!! He knows what resides in the secret place. He reveals the hidden things. Hugs and more 🫂

[@wisdomspeakslife]

God is SO FAITHFUL!!!🙏🏽💕

[@mawusivivor5546]

@@NikkisNature-m9n Amen Amen and Amen hugs ❤️

[@mawusivivor5546]

@@wisdomspeakslife Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Glory be to Yahweh

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Thank the Lord for directing your path! He set you free! Proverbs 3:5

[@sonyafreeman2295]

My grandmother told me something a long time ago. Ask the Lord. If this relationship is from You, bless it, if its not part us in peace. I prayed this when i was head over heels for somebody. God answered that prayer and we parted!

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!

[@gwenmorris113]

Thank God for His love, mercy, and grace towards your situation. ❤🙏🙌🏻

[@starrjohnson1327]

I prayed that about a long distance relationship. I didn't obey the Lord so I suffered again. I finally left him and felt peace.

[@sonyafreeman2295]

@starrjohnson1327 Bless the Lord!

[@hey2930]

(DO NOT HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE EVERY SIN HAS A CONSEQUENCE) The father of my child treated me terrible. I ended up going no contact because he was a narcissist until the baby was born. I was pregnant and depressed but I met God in that depression. I wanted to die. I eventually went to therapy. I then later found out he was sleeping with another woman while I was going through pregnancy alone. It’s crazy how God meets us in the most traumatizing moments. That now man was just cheated on by his girlfriend, he isn’t a father to our child but my husband is. Key points to take away: Do not have sex before marriage. And pray for those who persecute you.

[@shannon8715]

How do we pray for those who persecute us? What do we say? Mercy, Judgement?

[@hey2930]

@@shannon8715 Something like “God you said if we forgive others you will forgive us. Please assist me with forgiving ____. You said pray for those who persecute us. Please bless ___ send your angels to protect them, shield them, please assist them with (whatever they’re struggling with narcism,corn,lust, etc etc ) -- This is the thing God can handle them better. Look at the father of my child. Getting cheated on and I knew SOMETHING was going to happen and a few days later that happen to him RIGHT after he ignored me about seeing out child but his time is up now. I’m not forcing a man to take care of his child. When you don’t actually put God first things get exposed. They would post to be seen like the perfect couple and look what happened. She ended up begging for him back publicly. I feel bad for both of them genuinely because as a now married woman I know what it feels like to pretend to have it all together and mess up in front of everyone and be judged. I feel bad for the woman who cheated because I know spiritually she deals with just and jezebel from her blood line and she is trying to break the curses off BUT she isn’t doing it correctly. But there is a peace understanding that GOD WILL HANDLE PEOPLE AND SHOW YOU THAT NO BODY IS BETTER THAN THE NEXT. Hope this helps

[@hey2930]

@@shannon8715 Idk what happen to my comment I sent previously. Look for scripture about praying for those who persecute you and incorporate those into prayer. Ask God to help you forgive them and ask God to search your heart as well. ❤️

[@JdEllis-ec6yy]

​@@shannon8715LET THE WILL OF GOD BE DONE!!!!

[@shanj8140]

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[@brideofchrist8295]

I think once we sleep with them before marriage really messes things up in the spirit realm, especially if we are Christians.😢

[@its_whatever_dani_d863]

That is true. Satan definitely takes that opening ( legality) and use it against us.

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

Every relationship that had sex before marriage went through hell. Even after they get married it’s hell. Sex before marriage gives the devil legal right

[@dineatrislloyd2921]

So true!

[@broco6608]

If a man insists on sex before marriage or else he'll leave or starts getting "cold", that's all the red flag a woman needs.

[@cynthiastevens8302]

I bet he already was wat hing you and knew you lived in the same complex

[@tashabelin1841]

Everytime someone "new" would come into my life, I would always pray "Lord, show me what this is. Show me WHO this is. The GOOD the BAD the UGLY cause within these 90 days I gotta know wat I'm dealing with" He ain't let me down yet!

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!

[@hope7959]

Girl I’m scared to do this back then . I know going to pray bc I don’t want to waste time anymore

[@j.j.4335]

I don't think you can give God a time frame. You have pray if this relationship is for you or not and to ask God to remove it if it's not from Jesus ❤

[@chosen1316]

And He never will

[@caroltoliver5792]

Obsession is a form of abuse because the other person wants to control you and misuse you to make themselves feel better

[@Laoriginal718]

Being single and childfree is the best life anyone could ever live. I thank God for the gift of singleness.

[@sunkissed6413]

you and me both! no kids either!

[@jennifercoleman6947]

This morning, my Pastor was talking about being thankful for the doors God closes. Had you married this man, you wouldn’t be the light that you are. I’ve been through devastating relationships too, and I’m sorry for the pain you went through but I thank God that He closed that door. I love you for who you are now. 🤗

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Yes AND AMEN!! Thank you💕🙏🏽

[@TheMitchellfamily-vw4sw]

​​​@@wisdomspeakslifeI listen to you all the time, your testimony has touched my heart.I wanna applaud u for having the strength to share your testimony. You don't look like what u been thru. Glory be to God. And I too love the woman u are.. thank God you choose to be on this platform changing lives.. you are in my prayers woman of God..

[@karenmcgee1869]

Amen❤!

[@vanessaharris6341]

Your testimony blessed me tremendously! In my last situation, The Holy Spirit woke me up. I literally chose to break my own heart to be in the will of God. Obedience is better than sacrifice. Thank you Jesus for opening my eyes! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

​@@wisdomspeakslife God is faithful,he always shows us the truth,we just have to listen.

[@rosegalbreath1770]

Thank you SO much for sharing. This past year was challenging. Divorced in April 2024. Discovered my husband was cheating on me in November 23 with his coworker at the job I helped him get (Helped with application/etc.,) Was married for 5 years with him. He was a narcissist. Realized the whole marriage was a lied. He used me to build him up only to dump me. I TOTAL UNDERSTANDING THE HEALING PROCESS...Honest be told..ALL Red Flags were there. Warnings were there. I didn't listen to the unction within. I was sleeping with the enemy.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry to hear you went through that.. I can only imagine the pain it caused.. BUT GOD!💕🙏🏽

[@OverComer911]

My Lamb, I know your pain, I am about a year clean of a narcissist 😢, it is one heck of a journey. We weren't married, but now I am left with two small children ages 2&3.

[@pip6602]

In a similar situation. Praying for your continued strength and the renewal of your mind and spirit in our ever-loving and faithful God.

[@kimberlygreidanus5639]

Yes, its so clear now and all the red flags and checks in the spirit after the fact. I pray for your complete healing as well, God have Your Way in this daughter of Yours and bring her the peace that surpasses all understanding In Jesus name amen and amen

[@emileedomit3511]

Dang almost exact same story, discovered the affair in June 23 and divorced in February 24. God gave me a clear understanding that I was to leave and not to reconcile, he said forgive but leave that door shut.

[@shaecassandramorris8847]

Thank you so much for being transparent . I called my wedding off 3weeks ago . I’m supposed to get married next Sunday 10/20 but I received information about my fiancé that he swears up and down was made up. I prayed for Gods will to be done so sincerely about a month ago and this is what happened. My life has literally changed in a matter of weeks. I know this is not Gods plan for me to be with this man regardless of how much I thought he was my Boaz. I was wrong. I’m trusting in God

[@wisdomspeakslife]

I’m so sorry 💕🙏🏽 I know how painful this must be💕🙏🏽 keep trusting God

[@Tanniab09]

God Will bless your faithfulness to HIM. His will is perfect! I pray for God to heal and restore you. Don't look back in Jesus name. God will carry you through. Lean on The LORD. I hope I don't sound insensitive, but God is protecting your heart and your destiny.

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

Never ignore the red flag right front your face PMC that why I stay solo with the presence of god if god want me to be with someone it will be present to me in front of me

[@maryburford7464]

I stopped at he drove me to the hospital! Now that’s crazy

[@trell1998]

Wow. Thanks for your truth. Kinda brought tears 2 my eyes. Lord knows I've been through some things as well.. Thank you. I'm happy you overcame, and GOD saw you through this.

[@pancakeslover5891]

Been there. There is no one who compares to a narc when they r grooming and love bombing their prey. Too much, too soon is a flag on fire. Remembering always makes me grateful for the life I have now. I don’t have bad days anymore cos they are all better than what I considered a good day before. NEVER ignore the msgs that come from inside. My warning was so strong I heard an audible voice. My regret comes from ignoring. Lesson learnT. God is faithful I don’t know how anyone could go thru this without him.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!

[@sylviabatiste1293]

Divorced after 19 years of being on a roller coaster ride ping pong game. I never in my life thought that my heart could be shattered into so many pieces. I didn’t even know what betrayal was. I’m sure I’ve been betrayed before but this was the worst feeling in the world. Someone you invest your time, life, energy, money and your Spirit with. He had been pretending to be happy with you. I guess his mistress couldn’t take it anymore. He said he didn’t want to be married to me anymore and he couldn’t do this. He filed for divorce. Took us three years. I had to fight for my pension. He didn’t want to give me anything. I’m on my healing journey. Definitely not in a hurry. Thanks for sharing ❤.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽💕💕

[@kimberlygreidanus5639]

Wow, so sorry what has been done to you!! I pray you can be healed inside and out completely, In Jesus name amen

[@dineatrislloyd2921]

God will heal and restore every broken piece! My pastor talked about the potters clay ( I believe chapter 8 of Jeremiah). You are on your journey to be better than before🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kaylove3318]

Wow blessings to you been healing from my breakup

[@sylviabatiste1293]

@@dineatrislloyd2921 Thank You 🫶🏾

[@donniecole973]

God delivered me feom an abusive relationship 14yers ago. I thank Him every day

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Hallelujah!!!

[@Rockstar-kw7bz]

Was betrayed by my ex… and it was all posted on Social Media, but God! I now know It was his warning, chastisement, and protection wrapped up in a beautiful bow of his grace and mercy! Wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy but wouldn’t change it for all the money in the world. I’m closer to God than I’ve ever been and ready to bless the world! Thanks for sharing

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!🙏🏽💕

[@traciescott1871]

"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." Thank you for sharing your testimony. The enemy will send demon in the form of a "love interest" when we are vulnerable or longing for a companion. You were correct about the discernment and intercessory prayer! God heard it and answered! Amen.🙏🌸🤗

[@user-cl6uj5bn2f]

Girl, I felt you on this 🙏💔 Betrayal trauma is the worst 💯 When you said "I understand snapped" , yep 🎯💯been there

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Yes!! BUT GOD!!🙏🏽💕Whoo!😮‍💨

[@user-cl6uj5bn2f]

AMEN🙏🙌❤️

[@tiffaniejones596]

Me too🙏🏾

[@LJ-focus]

Yesss, I always say prayers like that when I'm feeling something is NOT right in any situation I'm in. Lord if this is not of you, BLOCK IT.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

YES!! AMEN!!!💕🙏🏽

[@djackson1812]

I've said these types of prayers a few times, and God has always.. always provided revelation 😮

[@LJ-focus]

@@djackson1812 ...Yep He always does. Knock and the door shall be opened.

[@marciehowell9484]

Oh my gosh ! This story resonated with me. I actually Married a narcissist who rushed me into marriage. I saw the red flags and chose to ignore them. He was a major cheater and a compulsive liar. Now divorced and healed as that was approx 17 years ago. Yes ladies listen to your intuition, it won’t lead you astray. God is so good!

[@MrTrask-pw8oj]

People are so afraid of telling their truth.. their testimony.. I’m not.. however, as a black man, telling my testimony has been something that I found to be sacred.. when a person has a calling on their life from God the enemy tries to use humiliation as a defense against them and I believe that is what happened in my life. So I’m extremely careful as to who I share my experiences with now. The point is.. I commend you for sharing this with the world as I know you’ve been healed therefore we can and will be also from your testimony. Thank you for sharing your gift with us lady.🙏🏾

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen Thank You 🙏🏽💕 And yes you are right, we must be careful with what we share and with who we share. I firmly believe that the testimony is most helpful and impactful once healing has truly taken place💕🙏🏽

[@gwenmorris113]

@@wisdomspeakslifeAmen ❤️🙏

[@BreDivineOne]

I have a similar testimony as in this video. The humiliation definitely is a tactic of the enemy to silence those who God has called . I survived and have had a miraculous restoration. I agree the testimony should be given as God leads. Our testimony is apart of our ministry and for a group of people called to us. May God continue to bless and restore His people and prepare us for His will.

[@believeringod.4004]

Thanks for sharing your story. I got chills listening to it. I've been happily married for 11 years and thank God I've never had my heart broken. Never dealt with infedelity or disrespect. I couldn't imagine the pain some women have felt dealing with men. I pray all women find real genuine authentic love. No one deserves betrayal

[@kristinaseeley45]

The minute a man accuses you of cheating, (if that is ridiculous) know they are telling on themselves and cheating on you. Unfortunately him accusing you if sleeping with the security guard was telling on himself= projection

[@AmJusSaiyan]

This is why we should never jump into relationships casually. They cause trauma. They distract you.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!! Thank God for growth and wisdom💕

[@kennymann3305]

YES WE HAVE TO TRUST AND PRAY...🙌🌞🙏❤ AND TAKE DOMINION OVER OUR FLESH AND EMOTIONS❤🙌

[@scmnelspn1088]

I had been in similar situation. He asked me to marry him and I told him we got things to work on. During such time, I prayed and ask God if he's for me, bless this engagement. I felt in my spirit something abt him nolonger clicked. After this prayer, I have been having dreams about a baby. Two months later, it was revealed he was having a baby with someone else. Discernment. Sometimes we are afraid to pray for God to reveal a person to us, but it's necessary. Could you imagine he still wants to marry me. I told him that although a child is innocent, I can't stomach watching a child and being with him knowing how this baby came abt.

[@dimediamond]

❤ very similar situation myself . God held my hand and revealed to me a particular individual was a wolf 🐺 in sheep's attire. 🐑

[@perfectlyflawed5330]

I'm dealing with betrayal on soooooo many levels right now 😔.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

I’m so sorry.. I pray swift healing in Jesus Name!🙏🏽💕

[@HeiressOfYah]

You &me both 😞🙏 It cuts deep, but God is faithful &will heal us

[@vickyl7980]

Wow, I have been THERE... didn't eat for 3 days straight! Beacame nauseous & hyperventilated every time it crossed my mind. Thank God for healing!!! 🙌 ONE THING, that God warned me against, tho, was calling him names, E.g, "whore", "womaniser", "cheater" etc. He even confirmed with my Pastor that we are not to stick labels on them, as they may not have been ordained for US, but they are somebody's ordained spouse. And, just as they wronged us by cheating, we wronged God by fornication. So, as we receive the healing & forgiveness of God, we are to pray for them to receive wholeness in their souls as well. 🙏❤

[@xy_3671]

Whew this is what I needed

[@ChampionsinChapterII]

The bedroom is bedrooming..I'm sorry this happened to you sis...God has something destined for you..its all led you to this moment..you are beautiful and whole ❤️ you got this

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Glory to God Amen! And thank you🙏🏽💕

[@bobbyphilip3076]

LaTesha so pure and so vulnerable sharing her Deepest wounds to help people You are so strong , healed and complete in Christ 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️ What a chosen vessel Holy Spirit🙏🙏🙏

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Glory to God..💕🙏🏽 Thank You And God Bless You💕💕💕

[@HealedBlackGirl111]

That prayer works EVERYTIME!!! And if you dont take heed the first time God speaks/shows you.. it only gets worse most times. Ppl have laughed at me, but if it isn’t right, when God reveals.. I leave! It takes strength and courage but ladies, you MUST choose YOU! unfortunately too many women stay beyond God’s warning😢. Its better to be alone, than miserable, broken or worse. Thank you for sharing your story ❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Yes it works EVERY SINGLE TIME!!!🙌🏽💕

[@electratrinidad810]

God stepped directly into my engagement and got rid of him . I wasn't listening to my dreams, promptings from the Holy Spirit directly and through family members and friends. I myself would wake up having panic attacks the nearer the time was getting to the wedding and with 1 failed marriage under my belt I was not taking any chances this time and listened to God who had the man I was supposed to marry over 20 years earlier, placed us back in a position where we were both available and ready for marriage to each other. I thank God for 2nd chances

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Glory to God!!! Amen!!💕🙏🏽

[@kingdomseeds]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. Do you mind making a part two on what your healing process looked like? Are you married now? Praise God for his work in and through you.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Thank you and Yes I will address the healing part of this story! And no, I’m not married YET…☺️💕

[@ChildofGod98765]

Jesus give me strength. As a single mom and it is hard to have everything on my shoulders. Especially because both of my sons are special needs but despite the challenges I face it’s only because of GOD I MADE IT THIS FAR. I keep faith even as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. Faith over fear. I love you Lord.💕

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!💕🙏🏽

[@karengarrido431]

May the Lord Jesus guide you and keep providing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@joienparker2418]

Thank you so much for sharing. The pain I felt from a breakup is what brought me closer to God.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Yes! Amen🙏🏽💕

[@lke4907]

Me too. God is NEAR to the brokenhearted. ❤

[@deserieoware7055]

28:43 mins I totally understand what you meant. He definitely should’ve got up quietly and left. Some men are evil are really go out of their way to show you they hate you. I’m sorry you went through that and God bless you for sharing ❤ Marrying the wrong person is seriously something we cannot afford to do

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!!

[@shirlsshirls8594]

One thing men will do is embarrass their women and it's usually due to infidelity. Just because a man wants you to be his wife doesn't mean he's remotely ready to be a husband. He would've cheated the whole marriage. Wishing you continued healing.

[@tressiemckoy4407]

Sis this was devastating, Im sorry this happened to you. However I know that prayer saved you from what would've been worse!! You knew something wasn't right and God bless you for praying. God will show us and that I love!! So glad you're healed from that pain. Thank you for sharing your testimony. God continue to keep you. I love you Sis. Have a blessed day 🙏🏽 ✨️

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Yes Thank you so much! This is why I just love the Lord so much! He heals and Restores!!!🙌🏽💕

[@tressiemckoy4407]

@@wisdomspeakslife YES AND AMEN!!! You're such a beautiful Sister, I thank God for you!! 🫂 🤗

[@jenni.getstrongxo]

This really broke my heart for you. I am at the gym listening to this almost in tears. I could just see the whole thing in my head. You didn’t deserve that at all. You are such a walking testament and you’ve helped me so much in my walk with Christ. It hurts to know you went through something like that. And it also puts some perspective into something I said to my boyfriend this morning. Something I regret saying. I myself have been cheated on, and yet I kind of minimized his past of being cheated on, because he has projected that past trauma onto me. I would never in a million years step out on someone, on him, on anyone. Thank you for sharing this because while I do not believe he is or would cheat on me, God used this testimony to make me see that I minimized what could be a part of his. Thank you.

[@taylorpegues5871]

Ive always said this before and many ppl have told me in the past . Be very careful of men who say they're into god and that they go to church and this and that but their actions are contradictory to what they say . Be super careful of men who spit out bible verses and talk about god just to get your attention and manipulate you. The devil knows tge bible front and back better than the average christan! Stay close to god yall and wait on him! He knows the perfect timing ❤❤❤

[@pg598]

God bless you for testifying of His good ness in the midst of betrayal 🙌❤. I'm happy to see you speak of it with a smile now😊. Much love strong daughter of The Most High God ❤❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen! To God Be The Glory!!!🙏🏽💕

[@annmarieharris5407]

I’ve been there. I thought I was doing the right thing by trying to keep the both of us from sin. He was out there whoring around until he got someone pregnant also 20 years younger than he was. God was showing me but I honestly ignored all the red flags. Brother could pray and was into church. That blind sided me.

[@zaragray6199]

Don't let a person who goes to church fool u..those are the devil from the pit of hell..I've been there

[@teialjones]

Thanks for sharing your story. I had a very similar one. While he was pressing me to move quickly into marriage and moving in, my prayer er was ‘God show me his heart.’ God did just that. A few months after we were done, he married a young lady half his age. It was traumatic but thank God for showing me his heart. God bless you!

[@gwenmorris113]

To God Be The Glory for divine intervention. I pray for your divine healing and wholeness in Jesus name, Amen 🙏

[@amahlemdwara2800]

Wow! Thank you for sharing, truly the wrong relationship can cost you so much. Thank God for restoration, God bless you💘

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!🙏🏽💕

[@imogenmorris6011]

Sis, I married the monster who did this to me, and he was a deacon in church. God helped me escape from him after the pastors wouldn't let me leave him. He died 10 months later from crack use

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Thank God your escaped!💕🙏🏽

[@victorybonds1]

Wow. He was a deacon in church?? Uggh, I'm sure that was so frustrating. Church men are supposed to do better.

[@rhemawilliams4983]

Am glad you were able to gain your freedom from what appeared to be a toxic situation. When you said that "the Pastors wouldn't let you leave him" is very disturbing. How did any person even if they are a Pastor has that much control over you that determines wether or not you leave a relationship? That is not holiness as many women of faith tend to believe. That's generally a part well traveled to being in a cult. God gives us all free will, though he asked us to choose His way for living, He never forces us. If God doesn't neither should anyone else regardless of title. Any person that loves you would never advocate for you to stay in such an unsafe environment.

[@imogenmorris6011]

@@rhemawilliams4983 I left that church. Actually, I left church.

[@DivinelyInspiredAV77]

Yes, please don't ignore the signs for the sake of love. God has so much better for you 🙏🏽 ❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!!

[@Peace4Me09]

This was so triggering for me. I understand being able to laugh about it later. The audacity and boldness of him to not only cheat but bring women to your home and record it is one for the books. I also understand that type of hurt amd trauma making you snap. I have been there too. It does make you get violent and it's not even worth it. Thank you for sharing your testimony. 🙏🏽

[@saraib3219]

Sis thanks for sharing your story! And yes ignoring those red flags & gut feeling is dangerous! I try to teach this to the youngsters behind me! I remember my ex was trying to marry me and I asked God to reveal and remove me from the situation because I was too weak to do it myself and knew it wasn’t the right path! And my Lord, be careful when you ask God for help because when the drama hit the fan that man punched me in my face and I ended up at the dentist🤦🏽‍♀️😂 mann we so hardheaded but thank God for restoration and redemption. So now, I just stay clear and yes keep my legs closed, which has been beautiful and God has been loving on me so much I don’t want to be bothered. 🙄😊🙌🏽❤️

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!!💕🙏🏽

[@molovefive9]

I had separated from my husband because the living environment was constant fussing and he began to be nitpicking about everything. Last August, I asked him to give me 30 days to have a place and be completely moved from “his” house. Mind you, I sold mine. There was 1 more week left and he says to me, “I need you to go ahead and get the rest of your things, I can’t stand to see you for another few days” So within a day or two I ask a friend to help me get completely out. I was working from my apartment and still had access to his doorbell camera. I work late so I was still up and saw he was letting someone in the garage around 12:30 am. Soon as I clocked out, I drove to his house. I still had the garage door opener and he never locks the entry door. I goes in and the entire downstairs is pitched black. I go upstairs and open his bedroom door and he is in the bed with another woman.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Oh no… I know the hurt you felt. It’s like being kicked in the gut by a horse and not being able to get your wind back… I’m so sorry that happened to you..🙏🏽💕

[@trukingdomlivin]

Thank you for allowing your testimony to bless me and give me confirmation ❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Glory to God!!💕🙏🏽

[@kaleeyahill5205]

Right on time sis . Today I am in tears and feeling this way

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Hold on 🙏🏽💕

[@ab.6031]

All I can say is wow 😮 . Look at GOD. Your testimony is going to help so many people. We need more testimonies like this from people in the church but unfortunately we won’t get them. So we have to turn to KZbinrs to relate to us all. I thank the Most High for you and may Yahweh continue to bless you and your family. Shalom

[@missfeemissfee6861]

@@ab.6031 AGREE!!!

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen thank you and God Bless You!🙏🏽💕

[@marciaannmyers9644]

I hear your story. I've been through a similar situation. My ex husband brought another into our bed while i was at work. I found her red hair in our bed.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

I’m sorry that happened to you 💕🙏🏽

[@thewayteacher]

My story trauma is very similar but I would have to say I made way worse decisions with it. Still being persecuted by my ex. We have parted more than a decade ago but because we had children he was able to extend his reach into my life. Guard yourself ladies and save it for marriage, God truly knows the best path for our life and when we live against what He wants there are consequences…. Lasting ones.

[@Tanniab09]

Amen.

[@patrickbrown2769]

Wow, to be that vulnerable is a testimony to God

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen Glory to His Name!

[@priscillaturner9376]

This message spoke to me in so many different ways I’m going through my divorce process now My soon to be ex husband and father of my children betrayed me over and over in different ways I caught him in lies so many times Seen inappropriate conversations in his phone with women while I was carrying his child Used up our rent money on partying and drugs taking other women out etc. we almost lose our home because of it This wasn’t just any man…this was a friend I’ve known before I married him We knew eachother for over 10 years!! so to be betrayed by him was so painful because I never thought he would even have the audacity to do me like that And now our kids have to pay for all that he’s done by not having a normal family I stayed with him because of the kids … but God himself kept telling me to leave.. Everytime I waited for a “green flag” ignoring the red ones the pain became greater and the trauma became more traumatic.. now I’m healing .. like you said .. just LET IT BURN❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen… I pray that you will be healed, whole and that God will repay you with more joy than your heart can handle 🙏🏽💕

[@snm2222]

Realness. It's refreshing when the body of Christ is truthful about relationships and healing. Adonai bless you Sis.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen Glory To God💕

[@dgexpressllc7450]

He knew the security guard was onto him - that is why he Invented the jealouay story - so you would stay away and not get the info you needed to learn his real motive.

[@zakiyaellis2347]

I am happy our Lord heard you cry out, great clarity there. You look healthy and I’d love to still see that on top of you taking the next move to heal . This a lot of energy and this testimony is different ! Chile. God’s Protection over power. Anytime

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!!

[@Blessed1_Shegot3]

The betrayal is real! I’ve been there, it felt like the life was literally sucked right out of me, BUT GOD! Pay attention to the signs!! It will save you the time, the heartache and the years that it sometimes take to heal from the wound 😮‍💨

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Yes Amen!💕

[@Eedosa6825]

your tuition is always right. I almost did the same thing. God rescued me it kept coming to me. Don’t do it don’t do it. When I tell you, God is faithful he is so faithful.

[@Agood24]

I was married for 17yrs & have been divorced for 20, yes 20 w/no desire to remarry. I have dated twice since my divorce and "some" men play too many games that I will not tolerate. My ex-spouse cheated and would blame me while trying to frame me for things I had no time for, between working full-time and taking care of our 2 children, while he was always so busy working overtime, not realizing I never saw it in his earnings. He is now broke, blind from diabetes and not taking care of himself and now lives with his 88 year old mother. He tells our grown kids, what a big mistake he made by cheating + all the other drama he caused during our marriage. Oh well, too late. Stay right over there w/yo momma!!! Thanks so much for being transparent by sharing your story.

[@shylincoleporter8347]

We talked about having a Family together, was going to move in with one another. Left the job I was at to work with him and support his dream. Not only was the money not there, he totally switched up on me, had another woman he was talking to, Then on top of that he told me that he would kill me. But God!!! I definitely ignored the red flags.

[@LB-lx2tf]

Wow, I'm so glad that you escaped that situation. However God led you to get out of it doesn't even need to be told....He was there for you. Keep living in His Word and He'll stay right there with you.❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

BUT GOD!!! Hallelujah!!🙌🏽💕

[@jessicadean9631]

Thank you so much for your testimony. The spirit told me he broke your heart, but he would've shattered it if you didn't leave. I gave him back his ring and broke the engament. And it hurts but God is healing me. First was fasting and praying to get rid of the spirit of perversion. Fornication is 1 of the worst sins that has so much consequences. Now I'm better we share a daughter so it's not a clean break but I'm gonna be healed and whole again. To God be the glory. Believing in God and waiting on God now.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!💕🙏🏽

[@Monicah.J]

God is so awesome and I can confirm that He has been using you to talk to me! I'm so emotional right now because almost everything you are saying is exactly what I have been through!! Like exactly similar experiences!! Thankyou so much Holy Spirit for this!

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Glory to His Holy Name!! God is truly amazing!!💕 Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I pray your heart is fully healed in Jesus Name!

[@kennymann3305]

Its amazing you allowed ALMIGHTY to show up because you called on him❤❤❤🙏🌞🙌 no more need to be said....Your healed now❤❤❤🙏🌞✝️

[@wisdomspeakslife]

AMEN!!! Glory to His Holy Name!!🙌🏽

[@christgospelchurchofcolumb1430]

Thank you my sister…Your words confirmed an ungodly relationship I was in that had all the red flags and I was stubbornly ignoring them until I kept praying for God to show me if this relationship was from him…and thank God he did…it was woman’s intuition or even better the Holy Ghost told me that this guy was In another relationship and I almost became the side piece…. I confronted him and he pretty much told me what I suspected… thank God for God being God and revealing the truth!!!

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!!

[@IamHere-si6zi]

I am really sorry that your heart was hurt in the way this man hurt your heart. However, I am grateful that the truth was revealed to you, because you deserve a man with integrity, and a man who loves and you deserve to have a man love you in a way that resonates with true love. God loves you. Sending you love and peace.

[@AdiannaRobinna]

thank you for your testimony; I needed this.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen God Bless You💕

[@DivinelyInspiredAV77]

I'm so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for your transparency. It's really hard to deal with the betrayal. BUT GOD 🙏🏽💗 You're such a beautiful person inside and out your testimony will help many. Recently, being ghosted hurt so bad, but I know God saw things I couldn't see, and I'm so grateful for that. I thought that was the one. God bless you, my sister in Christ. I'm grateful to have found your KZbin page as I'm healing and going. God is so awesome, Hallelujah ❤❤❤❤❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen Thank You and yes God sees what we cannot🙏🏽 💕💕

[@magneticfavor9500]

I was in a toxic relationship for almost eight years,I was ready to get out,I finally ✍🏽 a letter to God ,And put the letter up , Forgetting I even ✍🏽 the ✉️ fast-forward after the relationship ended I was cleaning up one day , And I stumbled across the letter. I must say God definitely hears our prayers. I'm forever greatful God snacthed me up and out of hell. I'm so glad you got out❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!! Yes He Does! Glory to God!!💕

[@queenvolker9843]

I know this pain . And the silly mistakes we make being that space of thinking there wouldn't be anyone else God has. I'm waiting on God for the lat 6 years. But serving God serving in my local church. Bless you woman of God❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen God Bless You!💕🙏🏽

[@FreedominChristJesus]

That is a heavy deep heart-wrenching pain just sight of that.. Heart Soul gripping pain, enemy tried to annialate child of God w rejection heavy among other th8ngs .. BUT JESUS THE CROSS 😂😂😂😂.. GOTTEM -

[@Theespiritualdesigner]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ I was in a relationship with a narcissist, talk about double life!!!!! Thank you SO much for sharing your story.

[@missfeemissfee6861]

I was with sum1 For 10years N HE BETRAYED ME WITH MY FRIEND😂 N I'm STILL HEALING

[@peacedove1182]

Your future is bright and God will restore you and place you in a good God ordained relationships. God is so good and he will give his children good gifts! ❤️🥰🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@wisdomspeakslife]

🙏🏽💕💕

[@Abbas_Daughters]

I understand this so much as I found out my partner tht I was loyal too was cheating, my sister and the trauma is causes feels like it can’t be overcome but it taught me soo much and I’m so grateful for those lessons 🙏🏾 God has healed me and I thank you for sharing your testimony! 🙏🏾

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Yes Amen! The healing is a process but when it happens!!🙌🏽💕💕

[@Abbas_Daughters]

@@wisdomspeakslife AMENNNN BEAUTIFUL ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Whewwww! That’s so good!!

[@larryk.watson2778]

Your transparency is just wonderful!!!!! Thank you and blessings to you….

[@Dakidddidit]

By helping others with your testimony you are lifting your burdens also!

[@deebeautiful84]

Thank you for your transparency. It is much needed. Your bedroom is beautiful 😍

[@NikkisNature-m9n]

Thank you for honouring me by sharing your story❤❤❤❤❤❤. Thank you for being a point of deliverance for me.

[@kaleiyamato]

😂😂🤣 that’s not me! 😂😭 I’m glad you can laugh now too.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

YES!!! Hallelujah!!!🙌🏽💕

[@Love-j8y]

God be showing out for his children. He showed you exactly what this man is about. Thank you Jesus ❤️

[@GreignGreign]

Thank you so much for your testimony. I have been there ! Had to fight tooth and nail to get up out of the depths of despair. I thank God for revealing to me what I needed to know . I was so in love with our little life .. a CLUELESS and TRUSTING wife. One night GOD literally woke me out of my sleep and told me to go to my ex husband’s truck and look in the center console. I had NO IDEA why. I had no idea what that man was capable of …BUT GOD revealed all. I’ve never been so angry with someone… I’ve never felt what it was like to be outside of my body. Even after the cheating, my ex continued to be so cruel to me. He had no regard for my feelings. No empathy at all. It’s taken a while to feel normal again. But the only way I’ve gotten through this life is because God has guided me. He really brought me to it and took me through the most traumatic experience I’ve ever had. Im finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. ❤ He is so good!! I am so thankful!!! God bless .

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!! Glory to God!!💕🙏🏽

[@Nurse2026]

I have experienced a pain like this also sis! It’s terrible but I begged god to help me forgive my ex and the people he cheated with. He was so cruel and evil to me and left me for someone else. By gods grace and wonderful capabilities I am healing and still able to love again. I pray I find true love someday and the same for you!! God bless you

[@GreignGreign]

@@Nurse2026 God Bless♥️🙏🏾

[@LondonJahzara2011]

Just be glad that you walked away without a disease 🦠. Some stories end in terror. I don’t know why it’s easy for people to be evil and cruel to others. If you don’t mean someone well just leave them alone 😢

[@HandleNameHere7]

Amen.

[@kingmaafa120]

Facts

[@dawnbarrett7017]

Sorry to hear that my Sister 🙏🙏🙏 I am a one man woman I feel if a man and woman should stay single if they know they like to be sleeping around should stay single I learned how to let's my Heavenly Father send my husband it's better that's way I know how's you feel it's hurt but I am a over coming by the blood of the lamb I'm still single for now it's been four years ago I'm good thanks for sharing.❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!🙏🏽💕

[@taylorpegues5871]

Amennnnnn🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@LaLa-bb5kb]

Thank you for your transparency!! We need to have true conversations like these. Because some ppl have religious spirits and act like they never did anything! I would have done the same thing and I’ve been in the same scenario!! Ask God to heal you from that relationship and heal you from guilt. Cause the enemy don’t and will not fight fair!

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!

[@okoo7385]

When a man, that knows you says, " just be careful" Ladies this him trying his hardest to not break the bro code!

[@Mz.Optimistic777]

I am so sorry you experience you shared in your testimony. Glad you made it out of that relationship I'm your right mind. May God continue to bless you Sis.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!💕🙏🏽

[@MrTrask-pw8oj]

lol.. I had to watch this again. And it’s just funny to me that people don’t understand who they’re hurting. All this and look at you now. Thank you God!!! So inspiring. I can definitely relate

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Glory to God.. Amen Thank you and God Bless You!🙏🏽💕

[@its_whatever_dani_d863]

This sounds just like my boys dad. Like omg everything you said and more. My boys dad did the same thing when I was out of town. Slept with a woman on the couch and she told me later🙄 my story would make yall heads spin….However as Christian’s we know better. I allowed this in my life and wasn’t suppose to fornicate and have kids… so I reap the consequences. I found out so much about him over the years and he still tries me bc we share children.

[@tinajones2016]

Thank you, this definitely happened to me, grooming, love bombing and getting mad that we didn’t have sex., I prayed and asked GOD to show me what’s going on.., GOD led me to the woman he has just been with the prior Sunday, and she said they have been friends with benefits for 15 years and they were both married, disgusting

[@Ms.T-s9s]

It's devastating it really lets you know they never even liked you like that to be so disrespectful and to act as if they made a mistake and for you to get over it when there trying to come BK when he or she thought the grass is greener on the other side if it is then Moe it then 🤨🤨

[@QueenieDarleenie]

Thank you for sharing your testimony, We are overcome by the words of this testimony. God bless you. It’s wonderful to see the healing of the Lord in your life after such trauma.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!! Thank you and God Bless You!🙏🏽💕

[@oliviaj_speaks]

Same happened to me! he made a Video, on my futon bed (all I cud afford) that me n my 4yr old Daughter slept on because I just got my 1st place…But we Made it thur Girl 🙌🏼 by Gods Grace and HIS LOVE 💕

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Glory to God HALLELUJAH!!!🙌🏽💕

[@gwenmorris113]

I pray that you are healed and whole in Jesus name! 😊❤

[@beckymoore3589]

Your testimony is so important to the body of Christ! Thank you so much for sharing. I am thinking I will probably stay single at 63. After everything I have been through, trusting is an issue that only Jesus can heal. I know he can heal, its ME that has the problem. So happy for you that you have come back to life after such trauma.

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen Thank you!💕 It’s only by the grace of God!🙏🏽

[@michaelaozuka5179]

OMG THIS TESTIMONY 😮😮😮😮 God bless you and God keep you woman of God ❤🙏✝️👑

[@angiejames3715]

Wow. I heart hurts for you, as I'm coming out of a very similar situation. Believing God for total healing 🙌

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Oh I’m COMPLETELY HEALED!! I’m sharing to the Glory of God!🙌🏽💕

[@crystaleRebecca]

Whew 😢 aww man something similar happened to me but I wasn’t filled with the Holy Spirit or allowing into my decision, and despite my ignorance God gave me a warning but I didn’t even think it was from God I was in so deep I knew I shouldn’t have married that man but I swore it was the devil mad because we decided to stop fornicating smh 10 years of waiting praying for God to bless my mess, was 10 years of cheating having women in my house and bringing a baby home. God finally allowed me to leave not on my terms but on his.

[@ForeverSikira]

Thank you for being so raw and honest about your experience. I know it’s going to help a lot of people.

[@doublelboogielondyn2058]

God is so on time and doesn’t play bout his!

[@Missfitt007]

I caught my ex on video, my kids found it, after begging me to move in and it was while I was at work…. Some people get off of knowing they have someone live there…. You can’t get that stuff out of your brain !

[@monadeberry9060]

Thank you for sharing

[@Stassi33]

Thank you for sharing your testimony!!! My issue is I know ppl do me wrong and I forgive them and give them another chance to be in my life SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️ the Lord been helping me! Now I’ve been celibate and single no dating for soooo many years now! It’s all about the Lord kids!!!! ❤

[@wisdomspeakslife]

Amen!!!