My Thai Massage Turned Into A 10 Year Marriage Nightmare | Thailand Stories

[@lendlalfred7870]

The biggest reds flags weren't the lies and cheating, but getting serious with a massage girl to begin with. Like what did he expect?

[@lendlalfred7870]

@Pamanudavy-qz1vx I wouldn't get seriously involved with any woman who is a massage therapist. She can work in a legitimate massage business that doesn't do happy endings, but I still will avoid that woman, because her job requires her to touch men's body sensually. However, you are right, the gentleman missed a lot of red flags.

[@lendlalfred7870]

@Pamanudavy-qz1vx There's an exception for every rule, I'm sure you can find good Thai girls who are message therapist. However, generally speaking, it's not a risk worth taking. I haven't heard of many successful stories of men setting off into the sunset with massage therapists and living happily ever after. It's usually crash and burn. But I agree with you on middle-class Thai women. Thai women who are middle and upper class don't usually go for foreigners. They prefer Thai men on and above their economic level. Unfortunately, this leaves the low-quality Thai women, which a lot of foreigners end up with. Now don't get me wrong, as a farang, you can still get a decent Thai lady with a good job and good morals, but such Thai lady is hard to find and you will have to take your time through vetting and getting to know her properly.

[@azadpedia2845]

​@@Pamanudavywhy you wanna look for food in a 🗑️? Are you homeless?

[@broncsyanks]

Lmao. Have to laugh at this concept you wrote. You’re 100% correct

[@ratnoinamaew7822]

When the demands for money start. Walk away. Its not complicated.

[@muajin]

Thai women say (I don’t cheat) yet when you want to check her phone, she gets defensive and crazy calling you controlling.

[@Starforme-xr6sb]

Right

[@enricohagn]

​@@muajinbehave like a simp, be treated accordingly 😂

[@werl789]

Agree with the remedy totally (for those who can). But biological /evolutionary emotions are both real & powerful to combat. It really is complicated, as the prevalence of victims indicates

[@nithitaliengcheep3250]

@@muajinThose kind of Thai girls love losers.

[@1985Haylon]

I get you tryna make the story longer but you be just repeating alot of stuff over and over

[@thailandunfiltered]

Thank you for your feedback. Will try to improve on that for the next one

[@portlandGTR]

I notice that also. Good story but the repeating gets bothersome and I find myself using the FF a lot and spending the video up to 150% option

[@allisotiroff1768]

Well read .. I think the other comments on here were harsh for no reason. The repetition is not repetition it’s actually summarising of the content, maybe the actual repetition is actually how often this happens to men today ! I look forward to hearing more off your channel .. take care !

[@jonnybigpants]

​@@thailandunfiltereddon't listen to him/her .. I think it was brilliantly told well done 👍

[@Traveldocumentarymedia]

Your comment nails it! Repetition can really drag a story down, especially in a travel documentary. It’s all about keeping the audience engaged with fresh and compelling details, not just stretching out the content. Quality over quantity every time!

[@EddieGillies-lj8dp]

She got her fangs in him.

[@annalee9911]

😂😂😂venomous fang!!

[@loisaustin6200]

Just her name should have been a red flag to him. Who names their kid "Fang" in the real world??

[@steelmagnate]

In Thailand just stick to the fun and leave the emotions back home period!

[@suzietjahajastaal5521]

Yes I agree with you. 👍👍👍

[@robertchen8297]

A sucker is born every minute.. including me for spending so much time on this video which simply keeps repeating the same stuff.

[@kevintan1559]

i was in a similar situation , lucky my was five years, the worst part was, after everything you have done for them , they don't see and feel , their heart is very cold , money always come first before you . there is no love , money is the only love they have. not you , not anyone else .

[@motorhead4446]

"they don't see and feel" ... dude what do you expect? They spend their whole lives, from the moment they open their eyes for the very first time, living in literally shit. They're like animals in the wild constantly searching for food, not knowing where their next meal is coming from. There ain't no love with an empty stomach man. It's a proven fact, lack of food has driven people to insanity in the past. Their concept of loving a man for who he is, it's like me trying to wrap my head around metaphysics. Think about it. You think they were brought up like you and me?

[@darrenford3036]

Love is baht...baht is love 😂

[@bobbyb177]

Fool me once...shame on you...fool me twice...shame on me.

[@cameronrussell9362]

This guy is the King of simps. The three day rule is very important fellas.

[@darrenford3036]

Or the hit it and quit it rule 😂

[@stebarg]

Why three days?

[@Erik-V]

What's the three day rule?

[@broncsyanks]

Google it if you don’t know it lol

[@edwardroy3401]

The more intensely a man "loves" a woman, the more vulnerable he is to being exploited

[@stebarg]

Yes, but, however, the one who loves gets the most out of it in terms of good feelings.

[@edwardroy3401]

@@stebarg Irrelevant

[@sciencewins8798]

A friend of mine has a nightmare marriage with a woman from Sri Lanka. Since years everybody keeps telling him to leave her but he seemed to be like in a cult. No abuse, even physical, seems to be enough to drop her. We all finally gave up on him.

[@chendareach2735]

Massage girl from Thailand , big no no!

[@donaldlangdon]

any girl from Thailand is a No No...

[@Crumliner]

In the end of the day people can address it like they want. The whole Pattaya thing is the same like going to a giant brothel. You pay for a service and not for love.

[@suzietjahajastaal5521]

👍👍👍

[@edwardroy3401]

A woman using a man's love against him... how more ruthless can you get??

[@darrenford3036]

Unfortunately they don't care...doesn't matter where you are it happens everywhere these days

[@itodave100]

after the first month, you go from a victim to a volunteer

[@AcaiTiger]

Be a john paying women to sell their bodies to you, with 0 knowledge or care about how they ended up in that industry, or whether they ended up in there willingly. That's one example of ruthlessness far greater than taking advantage of someone's romantic feelings lol.

[@muajin]

As an English teacher making 30-35k baht a month. Sounds like no Thai woman would marry me. lol. Imagine blowing most of your monthly salary just for some clothes.

[@thailandunfiltered]

Millions of people live on way less in Thailand every month, I'd say your chances are pretty good. Just avoid the typical danger zones 😊

[@Ivoeur]

Can’t even be mad at her. She is who she is. Just have know when to say when. When you marry base on looks the slightest affection shown will make people go dumb.

[@ridinwithjake]

Can’t be mad at her? She’s a money sucking, entitled l, selfish vampire. Those Thai girls are the worst scammers ever, targeting lonely men.

[@stephenclayton7052]

It's not just Thai women but African woman and I guess maybe other places too. It's so easy to be manipulated when you're in love. I'd urge men to take things slowly. If someone loves you they won't be constantly wanting money. Always follow gut instinct. Be patient and wait for a good partner. A bad rel destroys you emotionally and your trust in people.

[@Lizazza]

Funny thing that when you get married with a Thai man , there is no dowry given to the foreigner wife😆

[@drhalinah111]

Have to ask for dowry

[@jimrudolph2864]

When they start asking for money, it’s not a good sign. Once, ok, but one time after another is a sign that it’s time to leave. Think about it, how did she survived before him? Why suddenly as soon as he’s in her life, there’s a sudden need for money. Thank you for this video to educate people who are in this types of relationship to know what signs to look for.

[@sususfancylife]

Wonderful Chiang Mai ❤

[@JonOT-1957]

100% professionally " Rinsed "

[@TheRealFamespear]

It’s such a common story here in Thailand it’s become cliche. In the twenty years I’ve lived here, I’ve heard a hundred of these stories. And 99% of the time it’s working-class blokes. Yet to see it happen to educated professionals - unless they’re slumming. 🤷‍♂️

[@francoiswilliams]

Sure?

[@Ivantheterrible4444]

Educated professionals? Really? 😂😂😂

[@tilu3303]

It's not complicated at all. She had learned from a very early age that making someone "feel" loved was her side of the transaction and being paid well was the other party's side of the transaction. It's ingrained in their culture. Imagine how frustrated she was when it became so much harder to make the same person "feel" loved. She was expected to do a lot more than that as a wife. Just go out shopping for a car and see how many salesmen will make you "feel" special. This is the nature of transactional relationships and it really isn't sustainable indefinitely and in fact inevitable that attention will gradually shift to the "new" customer.

[@BigSam9173]

Nice walking video of Chiang Mai

[@tselim8840]

This can happen in anywhere so don’t blame it on somewhere

[@tristanf.8331]

true story i had western girlfriend not even married and the missus had all sorts of demands from smartphones to "pocket money"... ofc i got shot of her.

[@MOVIEHORIZON]

Can’t believe he went ahead and still married her…

[@hangtuah2.036]

😅You hear this a million times over. As the saying goes- ‘There’s a sucker born every minute.’ 😅

[@Facts.Are.Straight]

In every loss there is a gain. Most people who consider themselves lucky, are unaware of what they are loosing. Ying Yang.

[@dan020350]

-.- The Lessons of Love and emotional maturity

[@stedye]

Fang was a female vampire.

[@loisaustin6200]

A snake more like.

[@Traveldocumentarymedia]

That video title is truly intriguing and captivating, pulling viewers into a story they won’t want to miss. But here's a tough question to ponder: How could a simple Thai massage lead to a decade-long nightmare, and what does this unexpected twist reveal about the darker side of cross-cultural relationships?

[@HtPt]

Welcome to Thailand 🇹🇭

[@dominicgerodano5481]

Great story. Very good narration.

[@SkennovaThailand]

เหตุการณ์ทั้งหมดที่เล่ามา คุณไม่สามารถตัดสินเหตุการณ์ที่เกิดขึ้นมึแค่เฉพาะผู้หญิงไทย แต่มันเกิดขึ้นได้กับทั่วโลก เพียงแต่เหตุการแต่ละคนไม่เหมือนกัน ขอให้ใช้วิจารณญาณในการฟังและตัดสิน ขอบคุณครับ

[@hgin7451]

Always assume if there is a red flag early in a relationship assume there is a possibility of more to come. If anyone is serious about a long distance relationship. Hire an investigator just to make sure before marriage or serious commitment. A couple thousand will save you years of anguish and tens of hundreds of thousands.

[@darrenford3036]

Sounds good in theory but can u trust an investigator in a country like that they might get on another pay roll which u will be funding through her 😂

[@annalee9911]

Love your story and advices. Thanks ❤

[@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-1997]

Damn, she is pure evil.

[@edwardroy3401]

S U C K E R 😂. He was coldly and ruthlessly exploited

[@KK-ol5ov]

I had same with a Filipino girl but lucky didn’t spend so much. She married a Korean guy and she seems ok on IG. I married another woman and also happy.

[@Sunburst75]

The best way to understand all this is this.....these girls are the same as actresses in a movie. So in one movie the girl is a mountain climber, another one she is acting in a comedy movie, another one she is a scared person in a supernatural movie. The girls such as Fang are actresses playing the part of a romantic partner, it's an ACT the same as a role in a movie. The goal is to drain your bank balance. Very simple really. This video is EXCELLENT and contains excellent advice - westerners beware!!!

[@xuscbs]

If he had a friend or a family member that he confided to, they would have advised him to run, but apparently he didn't. I can understand how being completely smitten by somebody could blind you and cloud your judgement for a while, but when she cheated on him the first time, it should have been game over, a should have been a wakeup call, whether she was remorseful or not. It's hard to have empathy for him. This is life, and when you're mentally weak, you get exploited. She's definitely evil, but he voluntarily committed to self ruin. I don't believe she forced him to do anything. I also kind of wonder if this is a made-up story (you practicing writing) or if you're talking about your own experience. If it was really a true story about a friend; then it must be a close friendship; how come he didn't tell you what was going on then, and why didn't you advise him to leave her?

[@champicolling3778]

สงสารแฟรงค์มากค่ะ ฉันเข้าใจในเรื่องที่คุณพูดเกี่ยวกับคุณแฟรงค์ ขอให้เจอสิ่งที่ดีคนที่ดี คุณเป็นคนเก่งมาก

[@christoph404]

As a man you would have to have zero self esteem or self worth to put up with this nonsense , just in order to have what you think is a relationship....there is no relationship and there never was, this guy is delusional which is making him a perfect mark for a trickster/con artist.

[@kevintaws5936]

Heard of a guy who lost over £250k … lost everything he’d worked for. He’d bought a bit of land and had a house built.. Turning out when he was back in 🇬🇧. His lady was living in the house with her husband and 4 kids.Apparently everything was in her name. He went over to try and get it sorted out and no one was interested in what he was saying. He was warned well beforehand. About sending money out there and remortgaging his house.. But wouldn’t listen to anyone. Last I heard he’s back in uk living in a flat and still working he must be getting on in his late 60s .

[@MadawaskaObservatory]

there is always a positive part of any story

[@VoiceBootcampInc]

I visit there 5 to 8 times a year since 2007 from Canada. Never get serious. Visit for short time to 5 to 8 days at a time, enjoy what ever you want to enjoy and move on. I don't even make friends there. One wrong move, you are screwed.

[@koalatheworld]

Is this Chiang Mai? I remember taking a stroll there where people were enjoying the night buskers.

[@conqueringlion420]

Yes the land of false idols and false temples

[@mickywhizz6317]

Sad really, a guy who wanted to be loved and mistook his paid attention as reciprocated love and affection. She took him to the cleaners and th warning signs were always there but ignored. Find someone who loves who you are not what you have in your bank.

[@zinmintun2001]

Hope at least that guy get happy endings somewhere. 😂

[@fatahabukar]

Thailand is good country I like thailand Thai people are very friendly

[@dennismijac8297]

Money first - Love 2nd place

[@chauminh]

Merci, I know this story

[@portlandGTR]

What day was the raid? They do them at night? I’m here and been out every night to WS and I never saw any police or anything. Actually Thursday I don’t think I went out

[@MOVIEHORIZON]

The guy obviously doesn’t have a “red line”…

[@Leila-hp4gn]

Definitely!! I have countless friends and acquaintances who fell for the same trap. Me and my family love Thailand but we know people there are used to making money off the tourists. Be aware!!! They see you like a ATM machine!!!

[@ryanmalone2681]

Don’t be a simp. Have standard and understand your value.

[@williamhoole2065]

As Thomas Jefferson said "avoid all foreign entanglements "

[@bennybennyson1079]

I must have found a good Thai woman then as we have been talking for 4 months and she has spent more and sent me more gifts in post from thailand than I have for her. In fact if i send her a gift more than what she paid for mine she gets annoyed with me for the day. I really thought she was upset that i didnt send enough but to my confusion she was upset that i sent too much, But the difference between our gifts was like 20 dollars.

[@Imold774]

Your a fool and getting played. She is setting you up for a “big payday” she is a scammer Real Thailand women are conservative and are very difficult to meet

[@saycog1084]

That sounds iffy… watch out!

[@lynnetteleilah3739]

Uhmmm... do not celebrate yet.

[@bennybennyson1079]

​@@saycog1084why explain more just because they are all meant to be poor girls in your mind from watching too many of these videos?

[@bennybennyson1079]

​@@lynnetteleilah3739why not its a sure lot better than most scenarios. You just meaning that she should be poor and not able to afford send me like 1000 dollars worth of gifts in 5 months??

[@annalee9911]

Such a patient guy hard to find

[@wilaiwanphumpruk6458]

i stay in the same situation ...30 years now

[@grahamhang178]

The only way it can work is if he actually stayed there with her and not go back to Australia. Even then, he will not really know.

[@grct-gamingreadingcritical863]

The poor guy was in a classic relationship with a woman who has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). I was in one as well for 7 years and my exe's behavior was exactly the same as Fang's.

[@willtrienekens]

When love and desire come in sanity goes out. One thing is important she existed before you and will axist after you so go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@shafserious2805]

Lol wallet massage😂

[@bear02128]

I haven't heard of a passport bro story that ended well. But here in the state over 50% of marriage fail. Those we stay together are not necessary happily married. When the cost would weight the benefit you have to reevaluate your position. Life is to short.

[@brookroberson6084]

Look this happens all the time when men go searching for love in all the wrong places especially abroad ✌️

[@kirkhilles523]

Ooof. I mean, she wasn't cheating - she likely had multiple other flat out relationships. At least he didn't have kids yet. I'm sure if she suggested having them he STILL would've gone for it. No judgments though. Love makes you see what you want to see.

[@grahamhang178]

Here’s the question: What’s the age difference between these 2?

[@raquelthehelper]

Once a cheater it's always be a cheater.

[@jaimearechiga4880]

So happy ending was a very temporary one huh😢.

[@soapzboxxtv]

Bro these sound mad up, but im sure every story has really happened to someone😅. Those women are the absolute worst in the world. Even if they aren't prostitutes. Trust me, i got a couple stories too😂

[@paulchuah1624]

Totally agree

[@coresupportservices9065]

Typical story for someone who is desperate and cant find a woman

[@troyelam8978]

Most of us going to the Philippines and Thailand to live and find relationships, are far too old to invest extensive time in a woman that’s playing games. We no longer have 2-3 year blocks of time to be wasting with a broken relationship. The very moment we detect betrayal, or even just a lack of sincere interest in us, we have to break up with them. Yes it’s going to hurt, but luckily, if we’ve already relocated to Thailand or the Philippines, we can go right back out and find her replacement. That is the ultimate benefit for living overseas when it comes to women and dating. The ease of being able to replace a girl that is not following my program is the chief reason why I want to move overseas.

[@shabbos-goy9407]

Finding a good woman in these times in SE Asia is nigh on impossible. I'm in LOS and they are all no good.

[@troyelam8978]

@@shabbos-goy9407 where is LOS?

[@rayroams]

@@shabbos-goy9407- Elaborate. I've been dating a Laotian for a year. I'm starting to see red flags.

[@megaworldasia360]

The type of love that is talked about in this video is for foreign simps.

[@RoderickTom-ge1vc]

After all the lies snd cheating, he should have left and cut his losses😩

[@ImsunaSong-gw2gs]

Her name should have been a good warning😂😂😂

[@conqueringlion420]

To play with a man’s heart and money can be a deadly game in the end. This is what these women do not think about that yes he may return unannounced and this time not for love but for payback time

[@brad.dalton]

How much does it cost for a marriage certificate?

[@purgie]

When she said she cheated on him I would took the first bus to Pattaya and you will forget Fang easily... Don't get attached to much.

[@johnenrico3510]

It happens when they message the wrong leg

[@vickychen5394]

that’s explain alot why you have to choose an educated person to have serious relationship with, other while you will end up like the man in this story!

[@dannyphan1352]

This is a farking English & Australian problem.

[@werl789]

Nonsense. I've met many Americans over here and they seem to follow the same general pattern. I can't speak for non-Western cultures, but it seems to afflict Farangs particularly. I have my suspicions why

[@TheRealFamespear]

Don’t forget Americans. 🤷‍♂️

[@enricohagn]

@@dannyphan1352 it's a "western simps" problem...

[@enricohagn]

@@werl789 them western simps lead by money, som-nam-naa, 5555 😁

[@marcK599.]

@@dfoster2513hi crying Australian

[@kokwahtan8577]

I am from Malaysia. The only SEA country that i visit is Singapore. SEA is a crime region, drugs , gang cartel, sex, serious corruption, even police could be part of the crime. !! A sick region.!

[@russiandrivers9986]

It is possible to go to these countries without giving all your money to prostitutes.

[@brahand]

Is also Vietnam a ”crime country”?

[@darawooten8480]

You Wrong!!SEA is Beautiful country, Is the person that had mean and ugly heart ❤️. You just have to be Aware about it

[@kokwahtan8577]

@darawooten8480 yes bful scenery 100%....again as I said, pray and watchout if live or holiday there! Still...a sick region.

[@randomuser88844]

She did great. He simply simped. Live and learn.

[@Tonytayloring]

Yep, earning the good bucks and still being gullible about this i find it hard to believe, for a man this smart

[@yingyang5632]

Idk if he was actually earning "the good bucks" spending like 10k wouldnt rly have mattered to him. At the end it says it drained his bank account so he couldnt have been that wealthy. Also why would that protect someone from this happening to them? Isnt it more about character?

[@Tonytayloring]

@@yingyang5632 Well paid individuals are usually smart, thus shouldnt 'SMART' person know better than to fall for this?

[@brianleebus]

Her name was fang to. Aka kunnika cheenyoo

[@GustavvanderMerwe-e4o]

This can happen to all men anywhere in the world. All women are looking for a man to support them and pay their bills and other things. This is normal. If a man can't do this, he should enjoy his onenight stand and move on. Unfortunately, most men fall in love, which is normal and that is the problem. Most men are looking for true love, but that is not always the case with women. They will always look for men with lot's of money and wealth. The Thai women are just taking it to another level. The more men they can hook, the more money they can make. It's business as usual. A normal marriage to a woman is pretty much the same thing. You dedicate your life to one woman only, which is normal.

[@Mishmash63]

The universe full of mugs , there is a Phrase mugs never die only taking turns .

[@rickbold9337]

Unfortunately I did the same thing to a Filipina. Probably worse coz I built a house as well. I know what he went through

[@pucmoi6605]

Please don't forget that you are listening the story only from Australian guy, maybe the story from thai massage girl are not the same.

[@ridinwithjake]

No, I don’t believe these women. They are just money-hungry vampires. If it was a single story, sure. But this happens over and over and over.

[@Sl_king213]

Cheapest woman is the one you pay for . Still he had a good deal if she worth it. We spent more than that on girls

[@Why_So_Spicy]

Sometimes you need to learn to turn off your emotions

[@janeto100]

Good name for her

[@glow1815]

No one to blame but him. Sorry I'm not sorry for him. Of course some one whom truly loves you money will not get in their way of their relationship to this extend. Nor a woman will care if she truly loves him.

[@ephraimlalhmingliana6816]

He got a wallet and heart massage... I really laugh out

[@alhoward6514]

This is what you call. NO LOVE.

[@brianleebus]

I knew a girl in pattaya. Same happen to me

[@monicafarrugia7400]

The mistake he did was that he did not hire a female Thai lady and appointed her as a detective to follow the foot steps of Fang.

[@farangthony]

60 year old Australian retiree dates a 20 year old girl long distance thinking she must be in it for his amazing sense of humour. See it all the time living here in Thailand. Jesus, I´m only 30 and it feels like I´m the adult whenever I listen to a clueless oldhead talking about their girlfriend. They´re delusional like a teenager who just got laid for the first time ever. Get a grip guys and date someone who´s if not your own age then at least someone your daughter´s age, not your granddaughter´s.

[@vitaly244]

Wallet massage?! 😂 Exactly😂😂😂