When the demands for money start. Walk away. Its not complicated.
@muajin2 ай бұрын
Thai women say (I don’t cheat) yet when you want to check her phone, she gets defensive and crazy calling you controlling.
@Starforme-xr6sb2 ай бұрын
Right
@enricohagn2 ай бұрын
@@muajinbehave like a simp, be treated accordingly 😂
@werl7892 ай бұрын
Agree with the remedy totally (for those who can). But biological /evolutionary emotions are both real & powerful to combat. It really is complicated, as the prevalence of victims indicates
@nithitaliengcheep32502 ай бұрын
@@muajinThose kind of Thai girls love losers.
@lendlalfred78702 ай бұрын
The biggest reds flags weren't the lies and cheating, but getting serious with a massage girl to begin with. Like what did he expect?
@lendlalfred787015 күн бұрын
@Pamanudavy-qz1vx I wouldn't get seriously involved with any woman who is a massage therapist. She can work in a legitimate massage business that doesn't do happy endings, but I still will avoid that woman, because her job requires her to touch men's body sensually. However, you are right, the gentleman missed a lot of red flags.
@lendlalfred787015 күн бұрын
@Pamanudavy-qz1vx There's an exception for every rule, I'm sure you can find good Thai girls who are message therapist. However, generally speaking, it's not a risk worth taking. I haven't heard of many successful stories of men setting off into the sunset with massage therapists and living happily ever after. It's usually crash and burn. But I agree with you on middle-class Thai women. Thai women who are middle and upper class don't usually go for foreigners. They prefer Thai men on and above their economic level. Unfortunately, this leaves the low-quality Thai women, which a lot of foreigners end up with. Now don't get me wrong, as a farang, you can still get a decent Thai lady with a good job and good morals, but such Thai lady is hard to find and you will have to take your time through vetting and getting to know her properly.
@azadpedia284514 күн бұрын
@@Pamanudavywhy you wanna look for food in a 🗑️? Are you homeless?
@1985Haylon2 ай бұрын
I get you tryna make the story longer but you be just repeating alot of stuff over and over
@thailandunfiltered2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback. Will try to improve on that for the next one
@portlandGTR2 ай бұрын
I notice that also. Good story but the repeating gets bothersome and I find myself using the FF a lot and spending the video up to 150% option
@allisotiroff17682 ай бұрын
Well read .. I think the other comments on here were harsh for no reason. The repetition is not repetition it’s actually summarising of the content, maybe the actual repetition is actually how often this happens to men today ! I look forward to hearing more off your channel .. take care !
@jonnybigpantsАй бұрын
@@thailandunfiltereddon't listen to him/her .. I think it was brilliantly told well done 👍
@TraveldocumentarymediaАй бұрын
Your comment nails it! Repetition can really drag a story down, especially in a travel documentary. It’s all about keeping the audience engaged with fresh and compelling details, not just stretching out the content. Quality over quantity every time!
@EddieGillies-lj8dp2 ай бұрын
She got her fangs in him.
@annalee9911Ай бұрын
😂😂😂venomous fang!!
@loisaustin62003 күн бұрын
Just her name should have been a red flag to him. Who names their kid "Fang" in the real world??
@bobbyb1772 ай бұрын
Fool me once...shame on you...fool me twice...shame on me.
@edwardroy3401Ай бұрын
The more intensely a man "loves" a woman, the more vulnerable he is to being exploited
@stebarg21 күн бұрын
Yes, but, however, the one who loves gets the most out of it in terms of good feelings.
@edwardroy340121 күн бұрын
@@stebarg Irrelevant
@cameronrussell9362Ай бұрын
This guy is the King of simps. The three day rule is very important fellas.
@darrenford3036Ай бұрын
Or the hit it and quit it rule 😂
@stebarg21 күн бұрын
Why three days?
@sciencewins8798Ай бұрын
A friend of mine has a nightmare marriage with a woman from Sri Lanka. Since years everybody keeps telling him to leave her but he seemed to be like in a cult. No abuse, even physical, seems to be enough to drop her. We all finally gave up on him.
@stephenclayton70522 ай бұрын
It's not just Thai women but African woman and I guess maybe other places too. It's so easy to be manipulated when you're in love. I'd urge men to take things slowly. If someone loves you they won't be constantly wanting money. Always follow gut instinct. Be patient and wait for a good partner. A bad rel destroys you emotionally and your trust in people.
@edwardroy3401Ай бұрын
A woman using a man's love against him... how more ruthless can you get??
@darrenford3036Ай бұрын
Unfortunately they don't care...doesn't matter where you are it happens everywhere these days
@itodave10020 сағат бұрын
after the first month, you go from a victim to a volunteer
@steelmagnateАй бұрын
In Thailand just stick to the fun and leave the emotions back home period!
@suzietjahajastaal5521Күн бұрын
Yes I agree with you. 👍👍👍
@ryanmalone26814 күн бұрын
Don’t be a simp. Have standard and understand your value.
@Ivoeur2 ай бұрын
Can’t even be mad at her. She is who she is. Just have know when to say when. When you marry base on looks the slightest affection shown will make people go dumb.
@ridinwithjake6 күн бұрын
Can’t be mad at her? She’s a money sucking, entitled l, selfish vampire. Those Thai girls are the worst scammers ever, targeting lonely men.
@chendareach27352 ай бұрын
Massage girl from Thailand , big no no!
@Crumliner2 ай бұрын
In the end of the day people can address it like they want. The whole Pattaya thing is the same like going to a giant brothel. You pay for a service and not for love.
@suzietjahajastaal5521Күн бұрын
👍👍👍
@kevintan1559Ай бұрын
i was in a similar situation , lucky my was five years, the worst part was, after everything you have done for them , they don't see and feel , their heart is very cold , money always come first before you . there is no love , money is the only love they have. not you , not anyone else .
@motorhead4446Ай бұрын
"they don't see and feel" ... dude what do you expect? They spend their whole lives, from the moment they open their eyes for the very first time, living in literally shit. They're like animals in the wild constantly searching for food, not knowing where their next meal is coming from. There ain't no love with an empty stomach man. It's a proven fact, lack of food has driven people to insanity in the past. Their concept of loving a man for who he is, it's like me trying to wrap my head around metaphysics. Think about it. You think they were brought up like you and me?
@darrenford3036Ай бұрын
Love is baht...baht is love 😂
@dennismijac82973 күн бұрын
Money first - Love 2nd place
@tilu3303Ай бұрын
It's not complicated at all. She had learned from a very early age that making someone "feel" loved was her side of the transaction and being paid well was the other party's side of the transaction. It's ingrained in their culture. Imagine how frustrated she was when it became so much harder to make the same person "feel" loved. She was expected to do a lot more than that as a wife. Just go out shopping for a car and see how many salesmen will make you "feel" special. This is the nature of transactional relationships and it really isn't sustainable indefinitely and in fact inevitable that attention will gradually shift to the "new" customer.
@tselim88402 ай бұрын
This can happen in anywhere so don’t blame it on somewhere
@TheRealFamespear2 ай бұрын
It’s such a common story here in Thailand it’s become cliche. In the twenty years I’ve lived here, I’ve heard a hundred of these stories. And 99% of the time it’s working-class blokes. Yet to see it happen to educated professionals - unless they’re slumming. 🤷♂️
@Facts.Are.StraightАй бұрын
In every loss there is a gain. Most people who consider themselves lucky, are unaware of what they are loosing. Ying Yang.
@LizazzaАй бұрын
Funny thing that when you get married with a Thai man , there is no dowry given to the foreigner wife😆
@drhalinah111Ай бұрын
Have to ask for dowry
@muajin2 ай бұрын
As an English teacher making 30-35k baht a month. Sounds like no Thai woman would marry me. lol. Imagine blowing most of your monthly salary just for some clothes.
@thailandunfiltered2 ай бұрын
Millions of people live on way less in Thailand every month, I'd say your chances are pretty good. Just avoid the typical danger zones 😊
@sususfancylife4 күн бұрын
Wonderful Chiang Mai ❤
@TraveldocumentarymediaАй бұрын
That video title is truly intriguing and captivating, pulling viewers into a story they won’t want to miss. But here's a tough question to ponder: How could a simple Thai massage lead to a decade-long nightmare, and what does this unexpected twist reveal about the darker side of cross-cultural relationships?
@troyelam89782 ай бұрын
Most of us going to the Philippines and Thailand to live and find relationships, are far too old to invest extensive time in a woman that’s playing games. We no longer have 2-3 year blocks of time to be wasting with a broken relationship. The very moment we detect betrayal, or even just a lack of sincere interest in us, we have to break up with them. Yes it’s going to hurt, but luckily, if we’ve already relocated to Thailand or the Philippines, we can go right back out and find her replacement. That is the ultimate benefit for living overseas when it comes to women and dating. The ease of being able to replace a girl that is not following my program is the chief reason why I want to move overseas.
@shabbos-goy94072 ай бұрын
Finding a good woman in these times in SE Asia is nigh on impossible. I'm in LOS and they are all no good.
@troyelam89782 ай бұрын
@@shabbos-goy9407 where is LOS?
@rayroams2 күн бұрын
@@shabbos-goy9407- Elaborate. I've been dating a Laotian for a year. I'm starting to see red flags.
@robertchen8297Ай бұрын
A sucker is born every minute.. including me for spending so much time on this video which simply keeps repeating the same stuff.
@dan0203502 ай бұрын
-.- The Lessons of Love and emotional maturity
@hangtuah2.0362 ай бұрын
😅You hear this a million times over. As the saying goes- ‘There’s a sucker born every minute.’ 😅
@bennybennyson10792 ай бұрын
I must have found a good Thai woman then as we have been talking for 4 months and she has spent more and sent me more gifts in post from thailand than I have for her. In fact if i send her a gift more than what she paid for mine she gets annoyed with me for the day. I really thought she was upset that i didnt send enough but to my confusion she was upset that i sent too much, But the difference between our gifts was like 20 dollars.
@Imold77412 күн бұрын
Your a fool and getting played. She is setting you up for a “big payday” she is a scammer Real Thailand women are conservative and are very difficult to meet
@zinmintun20018 күн бұрын
Hope at least that guy get happy endings somewhere. 😂
@stedye2 ай бұрын
Fang was a female vampire.
@loisaustin62003 күн бұрын
A snake more like.
@hgin74512 ай бұрын
Always assume if there is a red flag early in a relationship assume there is a possibility of more to come. If anyone is serious about a long distance relationship. Hire an investigator just to make sure before marriage or serious commitment. A couple thousand will save you years of anguish and tens of hundreds of thousands.
@darrenford3036Ай бұрын
Sounds good in theory but can u trust an investigator in a country like that they might get on another pay roll which u will be funding through her 😂
S U C K E R 😂. He was coldly and ruthlessly exploited
@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-19972 ай бұрын
Damn, she is pure evil.
@MadawaskaObservatory2 ай бұрын
there is always a positive part of any story
@bear021288 күн бұрын
I haven't heard of a passport bro story that ended well. But here in the state over 50% of marriage fail. Those we stay together are not necessary happily married. When the cost would weight the benefit you have to reevaluate your position. Life is to short.
@BigSam91732 ай бұрын
Nice walking video of Chiang Mai
@williamhoole20652 ай бұрын
As Thomas Jefferson said "avoid all foreign entanglements "
@portlandGTR2 ай бұрын
What day was the raid? They do them at night? I’m here and been out every night to WS and I never saw any police or anything. Actually Thursday I don’t think I went out
@grct-gamingreadingcritical8632 ай бұрын
The poor guy was in a classic relationship with a woman who has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). I was in one as well for 7 years and my exe's behavior was exactly the same as Fang's.
@annalee9911Ай бұрын
Love your story and advices. Thanks ❤
@wilaiwanphumpruk645816 сағат бұрын
i stay in the same situation ...30 years now
@koalatheworldАй бұрын
Is this Chiang Mai? I remember taking a stroll there where people were enjoying the night buskers.
@conqueringlion42023 сағат бұрын
Yes the land of false idols and false temples
@kirkhilles523Ай бұрын
Ooof. I mean, she wasn't cheating - she likely had multiple other flat out relationships. At least he didn't have kids yet. I'm sure if she suggested having them he STILL would've gone for it. No judgments though. Love makes you see what you want to see.
If he had a friend or a family member that he confided to, they would have advised him to run, but apparently he didn't. I can understand how being completely smitten by somebody could blind you and cloud your judgement for a while, but when she cheated on him the first time, it should have been game over, a should have been a wakeup call, whether she was remorseful or not. It's hard to have empathy for him. This is life, and when you're mentally weak, you get exploited. She's definitely evil, but he voluntarily committed to self ruin. I don't believe she forced him to do anything. I also kind of wonder if this is a made-up story (you practicing writing) or if you're talking about your own experience. If it was really a true story about a friend; then it must be a close friendship; how come he didn't tell you what was going on then, and why didn't you advise him to leave her?
@grahamhang1782 күн бұрын
The only way it can work is if he actually stayed there with her and not go back to Australia. Even then, he will not really know.
@brookroberson60842 ай бұрын
Look this happens all the time when men go searching for love in all the wrong places especially abroad ✌️
@fatahabukar2 ай бұрын
Thailand is good country I like thailand Thai people are very friendly
@RoderickTom-ge1vc2 ай бұрын
After all the lies snd cheating, he should have left and cut his losses😩
@chauminhАй бұрын
Merci, I know this story
@annalee9911Ай бұрын
Such a patient guy hard to find
@purgie26 күн бұрын
When she said she cheated on him I would took the first bus to Pattaya and you will forget Fang easily... Don't get attached to much.
@pucmoi66052 ай бұрын
Please don't forget that you are listening the story only from Australian guy, maybe the story from thai massage girl are not the same.
@ridinwithjake6 күн бұрын
No, I don’t believe these women. They are just money-hungry vampires. If it was a single story, sure. But this happens over and over and over.
@teefossum99234 күн бұрын
Be falling in love with bar girl
@conqueringlion420Күн бұрын
To play with a man’s heart and money can be a deadly game in the end. This is what these women do not think about that yes he may return unannounced and this time not for love but for payback time
@portlandGTR2 ай бұрын
This is an amazing example of what will happen if you fall victim to the “Sunk Cost Fallacy.” Please, look it up if you want to understand shanties is.
@WadmanP2 ай бұрын
"Sunk Cost Fallacy." I thought they just called it good money after bad money. Auto repairs are a good candidate for Sunk Cost Fallacy.
@Mishmash632 ай бұрын
The universe full of mugs , there is a Phrase mugs never die only taking turns .
@soapzboxxtv2 ай бұрын
Bro these sound mad up, but im sure every story has really happened to someone😅. Those women are the absolute worst in the world. Even if they aren't prostitutes. Trust me, i got a couple stories too😂
@paulchuah16242 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@Sl_king213Ай бұрын
Cheapest woman is the one you pay for . Still he had a good deal if she worth it. We spent more than that on girls
@raquelthehelper2 ай бұрын
Once a cheater it's always be a cheater.
@GustavvanderMerwe-e4o27 күн бұрын
This can happen to all men anywhere in the world. All women are looking for a man to support them and pay their bills and other things. This is normal. If a man can't do this, he should enjoy his onenight stand and move on. Unfortunately, most men fall in love, which is normal and that is the problem. Most men are looking for true love, but that is not always the case with women. They will always look for men with lot's of money and wealth. The Thai women are just taking it to another level. The more men they can hook, the more money they can make. It's business as usual. A normal marriage to a woman is pretty much the same thing. You dedicate your life to one woman only, which is normal.
@Tonytayloring2 ай бұрын
Yep, earning the good bucks and still being gullible about this i find it hard to believe, for a man this smart
@yingyang563211 күн бұрын
Idk if he was actually earning "the good bucks" spending like 10k wouldnt rly have mattered to him. At the end it says it drained his bank account so he couldnt have been that wealthy. Also why would that protect someone from this happening to them? Isnt it more about character?
@Tonytayloring11 күн бұрын
@@yingyang5632 Well paid individuals are usually smart, thus shouldnt 'SMART' person know better than to fall for this?
@megaworldasia3602 ай бұрын
The type of love that is talked about in this video is for foreign simps.
@rickbold93374 күн бұрын
Unfortunately I did the same thing to a Filipina. Probably worse coz I built a house as well. I know what he went through
@dannyphan13522 ай бұрын
This is a farking English & Australian problem.
@dfoster25132 ай бұрын
Because the average American ends up in Tunisia or Tanzania by accident because they don't know how to read a map?
@werl7892 ай бұрын
Nonsense. I've met many Americans over here and they seem to follow the same general pattern. I can't speak for non-Western cultures, but it seems to afflict Farangs particularly. I have my suspicions why
@TheRealFamespear2 ай бұрын
Don’t forget Americans. 🤷♂️
@enricohagn2 ай бұрын
@@dannyphan1352 it's a "western simps" problem...
@enricohagn2 ай бұрын
@@werl789 them western simps lead by money, som-nam-naa, 5555 😁
@vickychen539415 күн бұрын
that’s explain alot why you have to choose an educated person to have serious relationship with, other while you will end up like the man in this story!
@Why_So_Spicy2 ай бұрын
Sometimes you need to learn to turn off your emotions
@ImsunaSong-gw2gsАй бұрын
Her name should have been a good warning😂😂😂
@kokwahtan85772 ай бұрын
I am from Malaysia. The only SEA country that i visit is Singapore. SEA is a crime region, drugs , gang cartel, sex, serious corruption, even police could be part of the crime. !! A sick region.!
@russiandrivers99862 ай бұрын
It is possible to go to these countries without giving all your money to prostitutes.
@brahand2 ай бұрын
Is also Vietnam a ”crime country”?
@darawooten8480Ай бұрын
You Wrong!!SEA is Beautiful country, Is the person that had mean and ugly heart ❤️. You just have to be Aware about it
@kokwahtan85773 күн бұрын
@darawooten8480 yes bful scenery 100%....again as I said, pray and watchout if live or holiday there! Still...a sick region.
@shafserious28052 ай бұрын
Lol wallet massage😂
@badass66562 ай бұрын
We can all see all the red flags looking in the rear view mirror. Problem is when you are in a relationsh*t ooking forward.
@patrickcamilleri736Ай бұрын
It's all about the money in Thailand .
@ainstaink83122 ай бұрын
Wow thats crazy! That is why they are poor because of their high expectations! Philippines is the same way though. Never been to Thailand but been to Philippines twice and I have seen it all! I think after paying that $750 first month I would be done with it. But even for many the first $900 that Fang "needed" would be a deal breaker. "Learning so much" - I would request to see the grades....
@alhoward651419 күн бұрын
This is what you call. NO LOVE.
@ephraimlalhmingliana681613 күн бұрын
He got a wallet and heart massage... I really laugh out
@Rash2oushАй бұрын
But most men do this, they go to Thailand to find a couple and they know money is mostly involved. Not like they met and fell in love..
@kanminyaorandy52572 ай бұрын
Be smart enough in other countries. Don't be lured by their beauty. You will have a price to pay!
@darrenford3036Ай бұрын
Alot of these cases they aren't a beauty 😂
@RebeccaAdele-r4e2 ай бұрын
Fang would have learned how to fly with no plane
@waterbug1135Ай бұрын
The problem wasn't she was working in a massage parlor. Problem is the dude. Duh. These stories are kind of endless. SE Asia seems a magnet for serious simps.
@rahasiaaustriaАй бұрын
Is that Chiangmai?
@CarlWiganerUK2 ай бұрын
I don't believe lots of stuff on here any longer, seams OTT all of it.
@kiddytube3915Ай бұрын
Hahaha. Dude is so lacking of love that he would marry the massage lady..
@louisdisbury9759Ай бұрын
complete click bait bollox.
@johnenrico3510Ай бұрын
It happens when they message the wrong leg
@TrPortg2 ай бұрын
Familiar story
@Michael-il5wd9 күн бұрын
stop dramatizing the story, this could of been summed up in 5 minutes.
@loisaustin62003 күн бұрын
When in the Navy, my son married a pretty bar room floozie who did the same type things to him. He was a meal ticket to her. He loved her but she never loved him. This floozie was an American girl from Texas. It happens everywhere I guess, not only in those Asian countries.
@Jun-kr5tz2 ай бұрын
Depending on the level of society that you go to,not just Thailand.,also in your country. PLEASE do not come to Thailand for that purpose. Your country has also.
@johancoopman9216Ай бұрын
Some stupid comments. This has nothing to do with whether you are working class or have a so-called professional education. Don't throw a stone by giving the impression that the working class is stupid. I know stories of so-called scholars such as a banker who was completely financially stripped by a Thai, and with whom he still had children. . These situations can happen anywhere and to anyone, even to someone from your own culture. I also ask myself the question, if everything is so bad in Thailand, why do so many people travel there or try to live there. Just to fuck for sure and visit all the massage bars. A few years ago they arrested a foreign judge there. He was dealing with boys of 8-10 years old. So don't talk here about it only happening to the working class.
@darrenford3036Ай бұрын
Total sucker...glad he learnt something from it...atleast lets hope he did..plenty stories like that unfortunately...imagine all the fun he could have had on heaps of holidays if he stuck to the 3 day rule or the hit it n quit it rule 😂
@dawnto3818Ай бұрын
I just don’t get it why guys know it’s wrong getting involve with a Thai massage girl they are trained to take your money until They have enough to Retire
@les8518Ай бұрын
Another story teller. Do you lay in bed at nights thinking these things up.
@judybichara31272 ай бұрын
But you must have heard stories before you went there have you no control just a pretty face their desperate its a business for them their laughing at you could you not see what was goi g on from the beginning you men need to wake up get your head together use your brain they just wa t your money end of story
@enricohagn2 ай бұрын
@@judybichara3127 fun fact: *EVERY WOMAN* is I it for recourses (one way or another). In Asia them western simps are giving it by free choice, in western countries by divorce laws ...
@ROBERTHOCKER2 ай бұрын
No, i don't know how it goes. He doesn't even think it's normal to help her grow. He voluntarily gave her money. It wasn't her fault. He did it to himself. He should have paid the ones she owed money to and not send her money. He wasn't even there for her He abandoned her. She wa ted to be with friends. He should have oaid for that. Their wad no relationship. She was distant from him because he ne er stayed with her. That is normal. He betrayed her.
@hassanmuhammad27992 ай бұрын
FANG??? the name says it all. 🐍🐍🐍
@globin010252Ай бұрын
sweeet..........This is the result of australian feminism