My Wife Married Her Ex-BF The Day I Fall Into A Coma But My Young Kids Kicked Her Out

[@edfinite7534]

You never should have married someone with such lukewarm feelings for you. You did this to yourself.

[@CoCo-Five]

I'm just so confused... He stalked a person who clearly didn't want him. The parents pushed her on him. And in the end, it sounds like he never thought any of this was wrong from the very beginning.

[@Digitalfairy]

How do we know it was all OP's and not just the parents' scheming aside from what we just read?

[@CoCo-Five]

@@Digitalfairy We don't...I'm only following the story from his point of view. It's a whole bunch of red flags going on. I did catch he didn't say much about his parents though.

[@carolsimpson4422]

@@Digitalfairy he knows his wife only "endured" sex with him. That should have been a hint that she had married under duress. He even says "I spent years trying to get her to love me" - so he KNEW she had never had any romantic/passionate feelings towards him.

[@karinasamaniego8765]

​@@Digitalfairy because he STALKED her to her home after he knew she wasn't interested, then talked to her PARENTS. What was he hoping to come of that? Sounds like he wanted them to push her toward him. He's a creeper.

[@veroushkavrolijk915]

Exactly what I was thinking😮

[@carolsimpson4422]

Obviously one shouldn't cheat- but I'd be "irritated by the mere presence" of op too 😂 omg he's INSUFFERABLE 😂 😂

[@troublemcallister730]

I think OP's biggest issue was stalking her at the beginning, then approaching her parents without her permission even after she'd rejected him. Her's was not standing up to her parents and being in control of her own life, rather than marrying for money and then making a mess of said marriage. However, I feel sorry for his kids - assuming of course they are biologically his. But either way they are innocent victims in all this.

[@Tantejay]

THIS. If somebody isn't interested, you say thank you for your time and move on. You do NOT stalk them. OP is an absolute wanker with a serious narcissist streak

[@jamiesatyr1309]

Old fashion relationships were akin to stalking. It's just the way it was. Dating is a new innovation of the last 50-60 years. Often marriages were arranged. Women know this, but when men pursue them it's stalking, but if they do it, it's something that's meant to be. 😮

[@douglasluiz2225]

I hope anyone you like cheat on you like crazy

[@troublemcallister730]

@@jamiesatyr1309 - I'm 57, my husband is 62; it's NOT 'the way it was'. Moreover, here in the UK marriages haven't been 'arranged' since Victorian times, unless you belong to certain hardline religions that FORCE it on the couples, or the young woman at least. So yes, it IS stalking. Moreover, unless the woman in 1800 UK was okay with it, then it was STILL stalking. NOTHING makes it right. Take it from someone who was stalked by a guy; I told him the police WOULD be involved if he kept on. Took 6 weeks and a caution, but he backed off. STALKING IS *NOT* OK. NEVER.

[@no-one3804]

My thoughts exactly. I am not sure which country you are in but in America, you would have gotten slapped with a restraining order. You sir are dense.

[@tiffanywalker8479]

'I couldn't shake off the feeling that she wasn't as in to me as I was into her.' You don't say. 🤡 After she rejected you several times. After you admitted you suspected her parents pressured her into dating you.

[@chaosgoettin]

after he stalked her. not only in the store, but home. too. and then he pretents it's all fine and all. like, she's owning him something. r/niceguy vibes. yuck.

[@TheDiehardall]

@@chaosgoettin why diid she wait for the biker to show up before leaving him ? She just used him ….. to get the loser biker to marry her ……..

[@chaosgoettin]

@@TheDiehardall there is this wild thing called "being pressured into something". When everybody wants to make you do something you don't want, and they only stop If you (seemingly) give in, you say yes to have your Peace. And then you convince yourself you want it. Until you Break. This ist why OP ist the AH here, because Not only didn't He accepted her No, He stalked her, pressured her, used her (for His picturesque Family Dreams) and never heard her real opinion or her needs. She wasn't using him. He used her, on a psychological Level and basically forces her to be His personal prostitute. She didn't use him, but took His offer. This was never a relationship or a marriage. They need consent from Moment one. If a Girl says No, you Stop. No Matter If you Like it or Not.

[@chaosgoettin]

@@TheDiehardall No means No. If she's playing stupid Games, she wins stupid prices and IS Mad to win the stupid prices she is. There is No "women Change Rules". As a Woman, I am telling you: If she is mad about you doing EXACTLY she told you to do, you should throw a Party cause you dodged a (prolly very dumb and toxic) Cannonball. No means No. End of Story. Even the "I don't want food", and then getting Mad or stealing your food is dumb. There is one Thing you do when you dare to step into These buffon's life: Turn around and say: "OK. bye." Cause the implication you Just did throws you into r/niceguys and incels area, and you don't want to be there

[@TheDiehardall]

@@chaosgoettin its interesting........it also seems from the comments women dont want a man that can give them good life ....they count it as buying them with gifts......they prefer the one that treats them like crap......

[@strawberrysangria1474]

Lowkey, if a guy stalked me and my parents forced me to marry him, I'm running the second he winds up in a coma too. Heck, forget waiting for a coma. I'd pack and run at any opportunity. To OP this is traumatic, but to Anna, this is a gift from the gods. OP is a creep, and "I could kill her with my bare hands" shows he's obsessive, not loving. Ironic since he's so hurt that she never loved him.

[@stilettosnthaghetto6997]

Gift from God!!! You never lied girl you know she was packing faster than will smith in MIB. I feel so sorry for this woman shes had no control over her life uterus or children. This man literally wrote an entire synopsis of how he tracked stalked and then caged the woman of his dreams Stephan king would be proud.

[@triciahenry4674]

no kidding, I cannot blame her for leaving this creep who is the OP who basically convinced her parents to force her to marry this man because he's wealthy! This poor girl was trap and left the second she saw an opportunity! I don't feel bad for this OP at all and the girl had every right to feel this way!

[@PABrightlyColoredCutie]

14:31 I'm surprised OP was crushed when the wife got angry that he went to her parents and "tattled" on her because (gasp!) she wasn't meeting his needs anymore. Poor baby, OP! Do you need a bottle-wottle, wittow baby? This manchild is absolutely infuriating.

[@triciahenry4674]

@@PABrightlyColoredCutie right!? He is 100% infuriating! Omg, he needs a reality check!

[@galadriel4101]

Wow!! So she said no. Then he stalks her at her job she says no again. He then follows her home to get her address. He then love bombs her. He goes to her parents to tell them what a nice guy he is and hopes he'll get to speak with her. Even her parents were against her and all but sold her to marry this jerk. He should be behind jail for stalking. She needed a restraining order against him. Talk about a narcissist a**hole.

[@Livin-life111]

OP sounds like a major weirdo!! First he stalked her for months. Then forced her into some kind of arranged marriage between OP and her parents. Then wonders why she never loved him?!? Very bizarre!!

[@krismcdaniel2858]

First, don't stalk your next victim, I mean female love interest. Had no interest in you and was forced into the marriage. She felt cornered by everyone and had no choice. He's equally, if not moreso, responsible for what happened. Persistence isn't love, it's stalking.

[@emasters8619]

Right? I'm two minutes in and wondering why he thinks this icky behavior will make him the love of her life.

[@csarzeli]

He's solely responsible for this situation he's a creep

[@adrianramone-ey9hi]

​@@csarzeliwhat about biker gang boyfriend

[@Animeaddiction]

​@@adrianramone-ey9hiVery likely abandoned her. He'd be arrested for bigamy, plus whatever other crimes he's committed.

[@SherryClemens-po3ur]

There is nothing to fix because there was nothing there to begin with

[@mistysgamingchannel9918]

OP is a stalker he basically pushed his way into wife's life and cries when she doesn't love him. 😅😂

[@tracygardner6318]

He may have pushed himself into her life, but also what she did was wrong to taking the kids, they’re not just her kids they’re both of theirs.

[@RaspberryHugs]

​@@tracygardner6318 The only thing she truly did wrong. I had complete sympathy for her up until then

[@Animeaddiction]

​@@tracygardner6318Add bigamy to the crimes since she married her biker BF when he wasn't dead yet.

[@sheilarobinson5164]

Her family forced her into this marriage. OP knew this, but chose to ignore this. One cannot buy love or coerce it. I feel bad for both of them.

[@billymobby]

"Something was missing from the marriage." You mean LOVE sir??? It can't be missing if it was never there.

[@tarajamchenry171]

So she turns him down, he stalks her, he goes over her head to her parents to marry her, she refused to sleep with him on her wedding day and he's surprised when she is distant with him. She was forced to flipping marry her stalker.

[@zachmedlin2608]

“I never loved you.” No shit. Stevie Wonder could have seen that from outer space.

[@McBruce999]

If this story were true even one bit, then the victim in the story is not OP, but OP's wife. Wife was already going through a lot of emotional turmoil because of her parents. That is when OP approached and tried to force through to have a relationship with him, while she kept rejecting his interests all the while. OP states as if stalking her was a joke in the story, but it is not. OP is an absolute jerk to do that. Then he started sending flowers to her house, another irritating way to annoy his wife. He also talks with her father without her consent, and her parents forced her into this marriage. She caved in because of the pressure from her parents. Right from the start, wife never showed any signs of love towards OP, and in return he was forcing himself onto her. Her love for her boyfriend never changed, in fact, I have to say, she is a super woman for her boyfriend. OP could only achieve and accomplish to get her physically, but not her heart, soul, or mind. OP states, "If she never loved me, she should have said so and not endured me. You don't blame a man for trying to woo a lady. That's what men should do." Sorry to tell, but this jackass OP doesn't understand how other's feelings, emotions, decisions, thoughts, are important just the way his are. I really wish the wife gets back in her life with her boyfriend. Sorry to say, but I don't condone any violence whatsoever.

[@gameasasin]

Agreed one hundred percent and the kids too. Op is disgusting and his comment about the criminal biker gang vs the shiny accountant really pissed me off. Op is a biased narrator, for all we know the boyfriend wasn't even a criminal, could have just been into the biker culture. What I do know is op is scum and I hope his kids see that someday.

[@hksng5917]

OP is the AH. The wife has never pretend to love him, he is the one who thinks she can be forced into loving him.

[@vrhoads2667]

I think you're awesome. I agree with everything you wrote.

[@SugarFreeZaddy]

Yeah, I noticed the story was surely fake but because of a different reason. How can someone write out a very well-written and thought-out recount of a big argument that took place at their in-laws’ home (including everything else written in that one update, which was A LOT leading up to the meeting with the wife and parents). They wrote all of this AND posted it to Reddit before driving off, getting in a car accident, and falling into a coma??? 🤔🤔🤔 Then they woke up from the coma and were immediately told what happened to them, so they immediately updated Reddit too?!?! yeah, no… totally fake story 😂😂😂

[@mariedillingham199]

Yeah, as soon as you started hearing that he stalked her and pressed his interest on a woman VERY CLEARLY NOT INTERESTED, my sympathy for him was gone.

[@Justin-A-Carter]

The only ones I feel sorry for in this story are the kids... Let's get it straight!!! he was a creeper, He followed her to her home introduced himself to her family and stalked her..... Her parents forced her into marrying him...... And this jokester has a right to act like he is 100% the victim AND good guy.

[@LindelaniKgothatsoSodi]

She is also a victim. This guy is the worst and the parents as well. Her only mistake is giving this freak children, not standing up to her parents and committed bigamy. But the villain in this story is the guy.

[@risingrat5491]

I don’t think that he is from European or American culture.. in my culture men are supposed to stalk, cos you can’t just go up to a girl and ask for date if you don’t want to get slapped across your face. You must to find her or someone who knows her and then send someone from your family to propose “dating”. Then and only then you can contact her directly. Though rules are less strict nowadays, but that’s how it was in my parents youth and my childhood. Men were suppose to go through struggles to prove how serious their intentions or it would be taken as an insult to the girl

[@gokuxsephiroth4505]

@@risingrat5491 Yeah, but does a girl saying "No" mean nothing in your culture? She definitely made it clear she wasn't interested.

[@risingrat5491]

@@gokuxsephiroth4505 yes, it means something, but it’s complicated😅 for most part you should inform your family that that guy advances are unwanted. Then her family inform his family about it. So you’ve got two families to stop a guy if needed. Of course, it is not that traditional nowadays, so.. it is even more complicated now)))

[@jeanninelockridge5235]

All I can say is if you start your relationship as a stalker, what do you expect .

[@SR-eh4mf]

I do t feel sorry for the guy 🤷🏽‍♀️ Like he literally stalked the woman when she clearly wasn’t interested..She NEVER showed any type of affections for him.. Deep down, he knew what it was but was just an insecure man who desperately wanted a partner

[@fuchsiasecret120]

He even said he was Desperate!!! I WILL make sure my kids know about stories like this... because if they are Ever desperate for a relationship than they most definitely need to stay out of relationships!!!

[@LunaP1]

OP's biggest mistake was that he even thought she would be the perfect wife for him. It took years for him to realize that she only saw him as a money tree and it took his kids to put an end to it.

[@avalineriley6809]

He was hardly innocent considering he was stalking her.

[@robertx8020]

@@avalineriley6809 And then going to the parents first after she showed him she was not intrested!

[@carolsimpson4422]

He could see she only "endured" sex with him, and yet kept insisting on having sex.And saddling her with more babies. That part really grossed me out.

[@Nishanth_mementomori]

The dude literally stalked her he's no better

[@brenttaylor8907]

I first assumed her motivation was financial but then there were too many clues that she was a unwilling victim.

[@hushlilbaby]

Well this was a CringeFest 🤦🏽‍♀️ OP was a major weirdo!!!! He was so taken with her that he didn't bother to notice that she didn't have the same feelings🤷🏽‍♀️

[@wambutu7679]

The op is a truly remarkable a-hole.

[@annem7806]

1) you are a Stalker & the cause for everything that has happened to you. You bought her & she sold you. 🏆

[@robertx8020]

🙂spot on

[@tracygardner6318]

He was blinded by love🤦‍♀️

[@RaspberryHugs]

​@@tracygardner6318 Ugh you are disgusting. He was a stalker. You aee justifying the actions of a stalker.

[@taylormcclure3522]

"If she never loved me she should have said so and not endured me" WTF bro, how many times in the beginning of your tale did she tell you to buzz off? And your answer was to stalk this poor woman and buy off her parents?? God help your next poor victim.

[@256Halofan]

Op creeped on her right from the beginning . Nasty. Saying that she should never have married him despite her parents.

[@helenweustenfeld1910]

This is why you take "No" as a complete sentence. She never wanted to be with him, she said no multiple times, he stalked her, love bombed her, and when that failed, he went around her and got her family to pressure her into marriage. Quite frankly, I have zero sympathy for this "Nice Guy".🙄

[@maxfactor4851]

Rejected at every turn; how could she do this? Dude she said no from the very start and he still forced himself on her

[@Legend-pb9gr]

Well, his wife told OP no lies. He was an obsessed stalker who got the expected outcome. Sad part is he still lost and can't see his obvious creepy behavior.

[@Palkiana]

Dude blackmailed himself into having a wife 💀 what a whole creep. I hope the kids can make the most of this

[@girlwiththeartfolder1854]

Sorry but I feel the blame is pretty much on EVERYONE in this story, except for the kids. OP: OP knew she wasn't fully in love with him from the beginning, even up to the wedding he could see her feelings towards him were not real. Seriously...stalking her to her home!!! HUGE RED FLAG for any guy to do! Rather then continue to marry her, he should've postpone and gone to see a therapist with her to figure out if she was truly happy or not. And if that wasn't enough, he kept ignoring all the other signs during their marriage. Like seriously...GET A CLUE!!! Well, guess it's too late now!!! WIFE: She should've kept speaking up and expressing her dislike towards OP. She had so many opportunities to do so! She could've broken it up as they were dating, at the wedding, after marriage....but no! She kept leading OP on! Now she's in a big mess because of her dumb actions. IN LAWS: They should've never gotten involved with their daughter's relationship unless it was anything potentially dangerous, not to mention rather then listen to their daughter's feelings, they chose to completely ignore her and act like she will get over her old love. Well, look what's happened now!!! The only people I feel sorry for are those kids. The result of all of this is down to ignoring the signs and not being openly true.

[@tracygardner6318]

I agree out of all the comments I have seen yours is the most refreshing it’s not just one-sided

[@RaspberryHugs]

​@@tracygardner6318 Of course because this basically ignores the abuse her parents put the wife through. It also imagines a fantasy where she led him on when not once did she ever do that

[@bautistalover]

@@RaspberryHugs she married him when she didn’t want to, she had sex with him when she didn’t want to. She’s and adult with a mouth and she didn’t use it.

[@lamargordon6017]

​@@RaspberryHugs I cant stand people infantilizing women to prove a point. She was a GROWN WOMAN. No one could've forced her to date, let alone marry him. Calling them abusive is extreme and takes accountability off of her for her own actions.

[@lamargordon6017]

This is the best comment I've seen. OP deserved EVERYTHING he got. I can't blame Anna too much for being the way she was, but she was by no means a victim. Should've just told her parents to kick rocks.

[@theeunknown2620]

Was anyone else rooting for the ex wife to come out on top?

[@WardenSpectreCommander]

OP was desperate or what the kids call thirsty. His biggest mistake was giving her that second chance after she left and married her.

[@lionheartt15]

less thirsty and more like borderline insane simp

[@daemonisedone4256]

no his biggest mistake was being a creepy stalker.

[@WardenSpectreCommander]

@Daemonised One Exactly he was being thirsty and was creeping out on her and got what he deserved. Can't feel sorry for him at all.

[@vickymassey-bloodworth5875]

I actually feel sorry for the wife, OP stalked her, her parents essentially forced her to marry her stalker, then when she finally decided to do something for herself (granted she went about it the wrong way) her stalker had her arrested as revenge for the fact she didn't love him and was forced to marry him.

[@mistysgamingchannel9918]

Exactly. OP is nothing but a stalker

[@tracygardner6318]

What about the poor kids? Do you feel sorry for them? OP was not perfect by any means his wife between the two of them is the worst one they’re both victims of their own insecurities

[@vickymassey-bloodworth5875]

@@tracygardner6318 of course I feel sorry for the poor kids, they didn't ask to be born into any of this, but the wife didn't really want any of it either. She is just as much a victim in this. He stalked her, he doesn't see that he was stalking her and what is worse he thinks that is normal. The parents coerced her into marrying him against her own wishes, that kind of coercion is considered abuse. The poor women then had to spend years married to, sleeping next to and with the creep who stalked her. Not saying that bigamy was a good idea but she saw a way out and took it.

[@RaspberryHugs]

​@@tracygardner6318 OP is certainly not a victim and never will be. The kids and the wife are.

[@malikmuhammad9641]

@@vickymassey-bloodworth5875 you sound crazy 😅

[@Zaka1408]

My man married her using creepy stalker methods and is surprised that it backfired

[@stephaniewilson3955]

I feel sorry for the wife who was forced into a loveless marriage. OP is a creep whose whole view of people is off. I hope the kids live a good life despite having such an obsessive father.

[@ReyRLopez]

Regardless of how she got there, she made the choice to accept the marriage and enter into it. She is in no way blameless. She thought to take him for his money.

[@itsJustJose]

OP was selfish and manipulative to the point of coercion through family and stalking and then used her to create a family which was her biggest mistake. She tried to use him back when she had the opportunity to do what she desired but didn’t protect herself correctly and suffered the consequences. This is just an unfortunate situation that got worse but could’ve been avoided if OPs wife’s wishes were respected. Tragic 😔😔😔

[@EyesOpen2TheTruth]

He stalked her into a relationship....smh this was so stupid lmao

[@maryrinehart2346]

How could she get remarried to her old boyfriend without divorcing her first? His first mistake was falling in love with his version of his wife, instead of actually listening to her that she wasn’t interested in him.

[@FiscalDiablo]

I wouldn't be surprised if the wife was the cause of the accident and I wouldn't be surprised if the kids aren't op's.

[@myariete2011]

His pain is His Fault!

[@mesquitemagic]

The guy stalked her. Yikes.

[@evilisfun9935]

Starting a relationship as a stalker!?! Just damn. Never heard this before. I can say if a dude came after my daughters like this, he would have a really bad day. That being said I wish cheating was illegal in the west.

[@whitneyr.846]

The OP in this story is disgusting. Stalking, talking the parents into pressuring her into a marriage she didn't want and then punishing her when she found an out. Yeah.. stand up guy that one!

[@kittieknight1539]

When she did not want anything to do with him from the start he should have stayed a way and let her ruin her own life. The poor kids at least he has them because he never had her. The kids are the only good thing from a marriage that never should have happened. I almost feel sorry for her too because she told him from the beginning that she didn't want anything to do with him and he got her parents involved. I cant blame the parents for wanting better for their daughter but all everyone got in the end is nothing but regrets and she got jail time . So OP is borderline the AH for cornering her with her parents into this marriage she never wanted.

[@samanthalaramie5704]

"You don't blame a man for trying to woo a lady." When she wasn't interested in being stalked by some stranger, yes...yes you do. OP's wife should have stood up to her parents or divorced later. Better to be divorced than married to a narcissist.

[@zitronentee]

I'm really frustrated by OP. The whole mess is created OP himself. There are already a lot of red flags from the beginning, both from OP and the ex. No is no. No one change their mind overnight.

[@josephmckee3605]

Op is such a creep, he stalked her, sent unwanted gifts to her house and brown nosed her parents before even saying a word to Anna. With a foundation like that, of course this relationship can only flourish /s

[@ralphsexton8531]

OP stalking is creepy, and the parents tolerating a stalker worse. But she didn't have to accept the dates or marriage proposal. She chose that with no regard for the consequences. She didn't care what would happen to herself, her children, her spouse, or her family. If she just said no, it would have been over. Remember, after meeting her parents and her angry outburst, he gave up. After that, it was she who contacted him - even if it was at her parent's request - so from that point forward, it was purely in her hands.

[@Cecelia021]

Maybe, the wife was pressured into going along or she might be disowned or worse? I'm only guessing as I have read stories about the "if you continue to see this person, you'll be disowned and left out of the inheritance" kind of deal. I could be wrong. Still...OP needs therapy AND time in prison 😐

[@jerriewyatt905]

Story 1.. OP’s an idiot to keep pursuing someone in love with someone else.. she obviously didn’t love him and he settled for whatever scraps he could get .. it was a catastrophe waiting to happen..l’m sorry for the kids.. OP and his wife were stuck in a relationship that wasn’t based on a mutual loving one..I can’t really be sympathetic with OP..His in-laws are horrible parents to force her into a marriage she didn’t want…

[@bitesize8884]

He only really cared about her cheating he didn't really care about her leaving the kids but woooing a person and stalking a person is a big difference

[@ekjamesable]

OMFG as a non-violent, 50yo grandmother, I would just like to shake OP until he understands that his wife did tell him to leave her alone quite a few times by his account, and probably 100 times over in reality. Wonder what country this happened in, all we know is it one that a woman has no recourse against stalkers and forced marriage. Would love to hear his wife's side of the story.

[@nydiajohnson3632]

Are they really his kids? She knew were to find her ex very fast. Maybe her reasons to take the kids far away was to tell them that biker guy was their real father.

[@bernardjohnson6747]

This dude is weird and should have been arrested for stalking he deserves everything that happened SHE DONT LIKE U

[@oneuup2490]

This is what OP gets. The red flats was there he ignored them married this woman and now he's up here whining. OP was so desperate for this woman is so obsessed with her that he didn't care how she treated him. This woman was not lying it was clear from the beginning that she never loved him. OP was the one that didn't want to see it. And because of him putting his self in that situation, having children with this woman knowing she didn't love him or care much for him, he deserve everything that he got. He was too stupid, too blind, and desperate should actually figure out what was going on.

[@AlexandraSaysHi]

I feel so bad for the next woman he decides doesnt have a say in how she'll be harassed into being OPs second wife. She wasnt interested, she made that more than clear, but what OP wanted was more important. He doesnt even give her fake name, shes just "My wide, my possession. If she doesnt like me, I'll charm her parents next---" OP is a huge creep who has the nerve to act like the victim. He even knew she was forced into the marriage. He said so. He just thought he could convince her that she loved being in this sham marriage, it doesnt matter if he loved her, because she didnt want him and he had known that from the start, but that wasnt important to him and then he continued to victimize her with lawsuits and shit, and acting so righteous and justifed, its so digusting. He has kids right? Then i guess OP would probably be okay with forcing his own daughter into a marriage with someone she didnt love because thats what he would want. OP is a garbage person. And none of this he was blinded by love crap! People who stomp on boundaries because what they want is the most important thing are not "Blinded by love", they are narcissistic, in case you cant tell by how much OP paints himself to be the sad little victim when he isnt.

[@Gary-And-His-Demons]

I wouldn't be surprised at all if her parents threatened to disown her if she didn't marry OP! So it's basically give up your entire family, and support, and be instantly homeless with nothing to your name, OR marry your stalker! No wonder she was trying to fake it! She might've even hoped that she would eventually fall in love with OP. He knew that she never really loved him! He was deluding himself!!!

[@anthonyburke5656]

S1, yti, you stalk a woman, buy off her parents and virtually coerce her into marriage, then have the Gaul to be outraged when she bails out when disaster hits

[@deckardcain8507]

DNA test the kids, they might not be yours.

[@tysonscott5249]

😞😭😓

[@SR-eh4mf]

I’m willing to bet their not his, all the whining he was doing about not having sex

[@ramoneritchie4729]

Yeah I think those kids are better off with him though and they would be with her and that bike or boyfriend to hers

[@MrBeevee5]

@@SR-eh4mf **THEY'RE not his. (there, their, they're) Learn them.

[@SR-eh4mf]

@@MrBeevee5 oh I seen it after hitting send but just didn’t care to go back to edit 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@gabriellemeche992]

Some of these comments make me believe that these people need to touch some grass. The woman was forced to marry him. In no way shape or form did she give OP any indication that that she wanted him. Ew. Ew. All around. Her parents were horrible and her kids probably don't know everything about their parents' marriage. I hope she gets her happy ending.

[@lexiburrows8127]

I know. Imagine being forced into marriage to an obsessive stalker and then constantly being raped. No wonder she ran as soon as possible. The level of hatred he felt towards her when he did not get his own way is outrageous.

[@apbxny216]

Anna wasn't interested in this dude from the very beginning.... Where's the mystery 🤷

[@Digitalfairy]

From what I gather Anna must have always been one of those crazy wild girls with a bizarre fetish for "bad boys" Coughcough her ex coughcough. I mighta sympathized with her but I don't think fondly of parents kidnapping their own children to escape with a new partner all at once.

[@sherlocksteve9109]

I think OP had better DNA test his kids to be sure the kids are his kids because I think there's a chance his wife saw her ex often and got kids from him. So this may not be the end at all.

[@SpaceMel00]

This guy didn't ever seem to love this woman for who she was. He made a fantasy of her looks and decided to project that on to her. And he just didn't take no for an answer and just steamrolled her in the marriage to the point where she just went along with it. She had just got given up on her ex ever getting back eith her. But obviously was never invested in him emotionally. If you asked him why he loved her, undoubtedly he would talk about her looks and the fantasy projected by the cold cool in different woman. By having to win her over which makes her more glorified. This is a sick sick tale of unrequited love. This guy does not know what real love is, being in love, is.

[@BronaghKathryn]

One of the first betrayal stories where i think he deserved it! He was manipulative the entire relationship, using her parents too. And now he pretends to be the victim, you shouldn't have coerced her to marry you in the first place! Even from this story it didnt once seem like she wanted to be there and he only cared about what he wanted!

[@DDuMas]

Listen to him "poor me". Look how shit her life is, because of this man. Forced to marry someone she NEVER wanted to be with. Considering she never wanted him, it's not unfair to say he "r'd" her since she never wanted him. He metaphorically "r'd" her whole life. Now he's taken the kids and had her locked up for FIVE years, for lets be honest, not reciprocating his feelings. But "ahhh poor me". She must rightfully hate him SO effing much. Which is a good thing, because like love, hate can keep you alive, where as depression is a horrible thing. Look at the gall of this man, writing this story like we're all supposed to feel sorry for him.

[@lamargordon6017]

​@@DDuMas I dont feel sorry for him one bit

[@wluTom]

OP most arranged marriages do not turn into love filled marriages. You stalked this lady and then went behind her back and talked to her parents to basically get a forced arranged marriage. You got the pretty trophy wife you wanted. Now complain she wanted to run the moment you were incapacitated? DUDE! You got what you deserved. I feel bad for your kids that got stuck in the middle of this crap. I guess she should of done what middle ages women would have had to do. That is convince a man to come and abduct her and then sack and pillage your home. Or I guess if modernizing it a bit she should of paid off a doctor to shut off life support. she didn't do that she just wanted out and to be her own person. Oh and in case this isn't clear enough YTA!

[@Rickybfly]

He says he was persistent no he was pathetic.

[@maryjoyspohrer256]

Those kids were smart. They saved themselves so much heartache.

[@danacarter9147]

Well said. Now, they'll need to be super-vigilant with whom they trust, whom they let close, and whom they love because some people may be conniving, just like their mother is.

[@gameasasin]

Haven't even watched all the video yet but honestly I think op really only has themselves to blame for what happened with how they acted to get her to date them, I'm betting the parents forced her to date him. I'm undecided currently on whether they all deserve each other in the worst way possible though, will edit for final thoughts after watching the rest. Edit: finished the video and honestly I feel op is not a good man. The wife isn't much better for trying to pull a fast one and leave without a word instead of just divorcing him but I can see why she did what she did. Honestly the only innocent party in all this are the kids. Op, and the wife's parents deserve each other imo. His viewpoints make me disgusted that I share a sex with them.

[@kelseygraham875]

From the sound of this, they live in a country where she probably COULDN'T divorce him

[@LooneyBin17]

Yeah, OP needs to realize this entire thing is his fault. Stalking her, marrying her despite knowing she wasn't into him, I don't want to think about what the sex was like cuz it sounds disgusting (coming from a rape victim I felt violated just hearing that), also god knows what her parents said or did to her to make her marry him. If I was that woman, the things I would've done to my ex and parents as soon as I got away from them HOLY SHIT!

[@brownleeal]

When he finds love again I hope he doesn’t follow her home and stalk her until she says yes.

[@acstewart4]

She never wanted him in the first place. ESH including her parents.

[@199xLala]

This man is INFURIATING!!!!

[@Digitalfairy]

OK I'm gonna call it as *I* see it. It was more than just a onesided marriage: Anna must have always been one of those crazy wild girls with a bizarre fetish for "bad boys" Coughcough her ex coughcough. 🤨She wanted to keep seeing him but her parents musta threatened legal action so she agreed to marry OP (a conveniently rich admirer)... I mighta agreed with the naysayers in the comments except for that tidibit of of info AND that Anna attempted to kidnap OP's kids without caring what the kids want. Looks like the biker gang guy she was carrying a torch for all these years wasn't even worth it anyway, seeing as he just abandoned her the moment the cops showed up. 😆

[@squirrel670]

That's why you let them make mistakes early on and teach them what a healthy relationship is. They gave her away to a stalker, so you cannot tell me they taught her well. When you stunt your children by making choices for them, when they run free they are going to start learning then and the consequences are much higher.

[@tracygardner6318]

Agree

[@lionheartt15]

well depending on where this took place as the only parent who wasn't in the hospital in a coma I don't think it was really illegal for her to take her own kids with her and move somewhere else.

[@daemonisedone4256]

he stalked her from day one.

[@NunyaDammeBiznis]

How do you fall into a comma? I have never had a problem with punctuation.

[@hi.2688]

Obviously she didn't want to marry him she was either forced or convinced to marry him by her parents

[@ernestocarrera3989]

He knew she didn’t want him! That’s a red flag should left her alone, had OP looking like a simp

[@meanmsval]

Yep. He did stalk her.

[@NPRYRS]

Wouldn't expect anything less from an accountant 💯❗‼️

[@droehnix]

Are we going to gloss over the fact that op was pretty much a stalker at the beginning of the story.

[@tracygardner6318]

There’s more to the story than that that’s only part of it.

[@RaspberryHugs]

​@@tracygardner6318 Yeah there was the part where he overstepped to see her parents, she rejected him over and over, the part where her parents forced her to marry him and all the parts she never showed him love or affection throughout the relationship.

[@NecrosDarkSlayer]

This family is a disaster and regardless of how terrible the wife is, her family migh be worst and OP is a creep

[@annw8909]

Omg a narcissist point of view of marriage. Poor women no control over her life

[@peelthismonkey]

Honestly......OP is a stalker and Creepy just cause of what he said later about "Wooing Woman" If this was an AITA thread. Everyone 1 would be the A-hole

[@karinasamaniego8765]

I don't feel a bit sorry for OP. He's a rich entitled jerk that thought he could buy the woman of his dreams. She was obviously indifferent to him but he wanted her. He didn't want her because of mutual love and companionship. He wanted to possess the beautiful woman. He plowed along thinking he could make her fall in love with him??? That seems like something an obsessed fan would do. Stalked her then thought he could make her fall in love with him. He's not the victim. And he's an ahole that wanted her punished for not falling in love with him. Like an obsessed fan that shoots his target of obsession. What a complete creeper.

[@nuages8915]

She shouldve dicorced him that day, i hope op and her parents get their karma

[@christcrayola2527]

Are we just ignoring the suspiciously timed car crash?

[@dogodie717]

Man OP is a stalker.

[@tracygardner6318]

And his wife is a witch

[@tunatofu63]

Op marries woman who doest love him but is shocked she STILL doesn't love him....

[@takanuva_9355]

Yes you cant blame a man who shoots his shot .But you can blame him if he takes an MG ,empties the magazine ,and when he realizes that he still missed the target he calls a nuke(in this case her parents)

[@natetsh]

Op is a whole creep.

[@Ivymandy1957]

Op know all along that she didn’t want or love him. He is a loser who just had to have someone beyond his reach.

[@NewYorkJennifer]

OP should have been the one jailed. He ruins a woman's life and thinks he deserves something better.

[@MamieBabi]

OP is a terrible person.

[@nuages8915]

That poor woman

[@morlandoemtp]

I hate the bad things everyone saying about op, she had a choice in all this, he gave her a good life more than she deserved

[@AuntBAS]

Picturing falling into a comma..😂😂

[@yaff1851]

OP is NOT a good guy. He was a stalker at the beginning of the relationship and he NEVER EVER showed any concern about the wants of his wife. Just what he wanted and how grateful she’s supposed be for things she didn’t really want or need. That doesn’t justify his wife’s actions though.

[@ailoriarayne5086]

He's ignoring the fact she said NO to him and yet has the audacity to say " Well if she didn't love me she should have told me." . A downright psycho! He also threatened to do physical harm to her , don't gloss over that . I hope his wife tells her side and how she was stalked and forced to marry her stalker.

[@yourstruly5706]

I'm impressed at his tenacity

[@Me-th7xd]

Reporting her to the police sounds more retaliatory than justice seeking

[@rashadthompson3073]

She spoke the truth, you can't be mad.

[@Liz-eb5de]

He did this to himself and she did this to herself. No is a full sentence, to stay in a marriage for 13-15 years and not want the person is wild