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@GreenOx-yo6nk6 жыл бұрын
Masculine man, I am trying to be like Jeff I am trying to better myself every day, I want to be the best me that I can be so I can eventually keep a relationship, would it be too much trouble to ask for some advice from you?
@saifulanswer6 жыл бұрын
Jeff story is kinda cool, but it's too good to be true. Noone would be that Jeff when they're down. That's what I know 🤐
@thelonecyborg35556 жыл бұрын
Masculine Man I love you're animations but if you want to attract new viewers you have to make more content, you keep putting your channel on hold to focus on you're animations but you need to give us different content while you're at it, like mastar Media, I don't even like him but what he's doing is smart, he's letting his fans know I'll take a long time to make anime war animations but until then he'll post anime review videos to keep them busy, I'm not trying to tell you what to do I'm just saying these days if you keep doing the same old thing eventually people are going to get tired of it and you're gonna keep losing viewers if you have nothing to fall back on and I don't want to see that happened to a channel like yours
@fastjack27926 жыл бұрын
Never got cheated on. But when the shit goes down you gotta - whatever it be - you have to make the best of it. Actually a very Stoic notion:)
@berdt48706 жыл бұрын
I dreamed if working in an art related job or animation. This video restored a little passion in me :)
@mulani59926 жыл бұрын
no matter what anyone says, there's *no* excuse for cheating. it's a disgusting, heartless, and scummy thing to do. it messes with a person's heart and soul on such a deep level.
@79mikeotto6 жыл бұрын
No, according to this video, its ok if you weren't working out and eating well.
@bigrozo6 жыл бұрын
@@79mikeotto This video is trying to simp and white knight by blaming female moral failure on males
@Bragglord6 жыл бұрын
@@bigrozo agreed, it certainly comes across that way. Not nearly enough blame for the female.
@Bragglord6 жыл бұрын
@@azaquihelify delightfully platitudinous.
@User-s9r7x6 жыл бұрын
Beeby exactly
@itstatter55855 жыл бұрын
As soon as I heard the “coming home early” scenario I already knew...
@MasculineMan5 жыл бұрын
lol yep
@InfamousLuigi5 жыл бұрын
MTD Fishing that’s exactly my thought too. It’s sad how true and commonly it happens that you can predict it so far out
@princejlverzo72765 жыл бұрын
same
@audreypayal5 жыл бұрын
@@InfamousLuigi ikr why can't lovers just be loyal to each other? This makes me wanna be single throughout my life
@rogerbuschmann81615 жыл бұрын
It´s always the gardener !
@jeffmarron38875 жыл бұрын
No matter how many flaws someone might have, nobody deserves being cheated on.
@yourheinness92755 жыл бұрын
MMmmmmm I wonder where I've read about this before.....???? O yeah in the bible! It says not to commit adultery and fornicate or to lust after someone else's stuff. Now it makes sense! Funny how that old book still have all the answers hey?? Don't wonder why!
@jeffmarron38875 жыл бұрын
My friend. I absolutely respect christians and beloved and great prophet Jesus Christ pbuh. But i am a shi'a muslim and i have never read the holy bible. But i agree with you.
@sbj67815 жыл бұрын
The real "girlfriend" will fix that flaws.
@koniJnr4 жыл бұрын
Mike Driggs Instead of bashing a whole religion, maybe you should read the bible more, stop watching Fox News and being brainwashed. I’m Sunni Muslim, I believe heaven will be inhabited by humans of all faiths, who are honest, just and god fearing/loving.
@TheRalphrochie4 жыл бұрын
@@koniJnr haha. I think that guy is a troll. He just wanted to stir up some hate. Good thing Jeff ignored
@brandonholtz53094 жыл бұрын
I dated a girl for over 3 years. When that relationship ended it nearly broke me. Worst breakup ever (it was my first). I can’t even begin to imagine a 10 year relationship ending. Whole ass decade of your life.
@laelahazel67324 жыл бұрын
This year is unreal. I had a boyfriend 5 years he ended up my heart broke into million pieces.. From this heart brk I experiencing alots to let go.. I feel it not easier but while I'm letting go I cry this tears ll bring me joy oneday.. So heartbreak is a monsters
@kidneyenvy43794 жыл бұрын
I can. My wife divorced me. We had been together for 13 years. She started dating someone before she even moved out. The last four months or so have been hell for me.
@myaqoobi35514 жыл бұрын
exact same thing happened... broke up with my first gf.. after 3 years of relationship... in aug 2020... worst year ever.
@YanaPetruk4 жыл бұрын
My bf broke up with me after 6 years together. A year since the breakup and it still hurts like hell. But I moved on and accepted the facts. Nevertheless, it’s still painful.
@chiaramarchese83544 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry, that's really sad
@djdirewolfe60796 жыл бұрын
Basically dont let another person be your only source of happiness. You'll just be hurt and disappointed, I promise
@flufftronable6 жыл бұрын
dj direwolfe realise your the only one responsible for your happiness
@kubi-2b6 жыл бұрын
I'm in a situation where my girlfriend is the only thing that brings me happiness, and if she ever leaves me or something bad happens to her, I'm going to commit suicide.
@jenny-vh3eh6 жыл бұрын
Karolis van Houten Never make another person who isn't infinite and is just as flawed as everyone else dictate such impactful and important things in your life such as happiness and very ESPECIALLY your own life itself. It is too valuable and precious and treasurous to be determined by external, temporary things and things that dont level with the great value of you life and your soul
@lelekos91036 жыл бұрын
Great advise
@SuperRavensfan1016 жыл бұрын
dj direwolfe everyone should live selfishly in a certain aspect. That is do what you love in life, don’t do things for other people but rather for self enjoyment or help yourself be happy before you can help others.
@johnathanbredenkamp98756 жыл бұрын
"He learned that he can actually come home early" Oh boy
@mandla_on_retro6 жыл бұрын
Shouldn't have learned that 😂
@darkcrisisgaming2986 жыл бұрын
We all knew what was up after that sentence, lol
@Kcvee7776 жыл бұрын
@@mandla_on_retro bahahahahahahahaha
@LegalShield30006 жыл бұрын
I'm probably not the only one who knew where that was headed.
@soyusmaximus71766 жыл бұрын
I knew what was coming then lmao
@Ureyeuh6 жыл бұрын
27 year old guy here. Just got left by my gf of 6 years. Had proposal plans and all. It can and will happen to you if you aren't careful, and even the careful ones will still get left somehow. It's life.
@Theodore_VII6 жыл бұрын
Uriah Graves Oh man... 27? Still very young, my guy. Keep your chin up and stay strong, champ. Keep going!!
@Ureyeuh6 жыл бұрын
@@Theodore_VII thanks.
@optimusman886 жыл бұрын
Hopefully this video gives you something to learn from in finding happiness within yourself.. all the best
@KARTIKEYA0076 жыл бұрын
MGTOW is the answer my man
@ikemadi62656 жыл бұрын
Hey buddy, I was also left by my 6 year girlfriend when I was 27 (four years ago). I'm also a psychologist and I have some tips from my experience. Would you be willing to talk? I'd love to share them and show you how you can grow stronger and become a better version of yourself from it :)
@AP3x69174 жыл бұрын
Acceptance is the hardest part. Accepting that the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with doesn't want the same thing, after years of commitment, is extremely difficult.
@sagargrajput55823 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now. My 6 years of relationship just ended. I'm dead inside
@aparmaya4yew3 жыл бұрын
@@sagargrajput5582 same bro...this is so heartbreaking..
@timothygibney1593 жыл бұрын
Totally Bro. The key for getting over someone is acceptance like you said. It won't happen overnight but until you tell your brain SHE AIN'T coming back. Only then you heal with time
@blacklightrr3 жыл бұрын
20 years here...
@Dan-sm3ov3 жыл бұрын
7 fucking years and she is my first love. I was planning to marry her this year but she broke up with me, and moving on with someone new. It's been 6 months but it feels like yesterday 💔
@WigWavv6 жыл бұрын
Apparently KZbin decided we are all watching this today
@madisonalexis6 жыл бұрын
Ikr😂
@User-s9r7x6 жыл бұрын
the mazzter fr bruh lmao
@xNukedApplez6 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@edgara71416 жыл бұрын
Fr😂😂
@mutazhijazi85126 жыл бұрын
Right!?
@kworkshop6 жыл бұрын
This just popped up in everybody’s recommendations
@alithebettafish78906 жыл бұрын
The most breakups happen around the Christmas period
@kworkshop6 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm...
@mas7rreaper1266 жыл бұрын
Ikr! It was so annoying
@RinTheHonored16 жыл бұрын
Yep lol
@theofficialalmightygob10506 жыл бұрын
If your a celebrity you date loads of people and break up with them and the people you date don’t love you and you don’t love them your just doing it for the miedia
@alienantal5 жыл бұрын
People... just don't cheat on your partner, have respect for them and above all for yourself. If you feel like you're losing attraction to your partner just leave, end the relationship with a respectful conversation between you two.
@smigus2125 жыл бұрын
This is most sensible comment in this comment section
@alienantal5 жыл бұрын
@@smigus212 thank you! ^^
@zroh_in5 жыл бұрын
I feel like there’s not a lot of people that are willing to be adults and do what you said ... they end up cheating or they do something that just isn’t ok .
@alienantal5 жыл бұрын
@@zroh_in unfortunately that's true :/
@GXprogamer5 жыл бұрын
Celtic Revival / Adfywiad Celtaidd especially when its a long term relationship
@The.Doctor24 жыл бұрын
Morale of the story: Keep moving forward, until the very end.
@aslphoenix00143 жыл бұрын
Brat
@chesster4236 жыл бұрын
Lesson of the story: Dont make your girl the center of your life.
@masyaf8976 жыл бұрын
True
@milos63486 жыл бұрын
Lesson is don't give your girl reason to cheat.
@Kuro-hq6el6 жыл бұрын
Not really, just learn how to accept things and move on.
@kaisatoridraws34376 жыл бұрын
So that she feels like you don’t love her so she decides to feel better with someone else!
@chesster4236 жыл бұрын
@@kaisatoridraws3437 lol... *Guy doing everything* Girl: You are being so clingy, needy, pushy. *Finds another guy* *Guy not making you the center of his life* Girl: You don't love me enough. *Finds another guy*
@sasakiumiquema96086 жыл бұрын
The best revenge is to be a better version of yourself
@MasculineMan6 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@DUANEYAISER6 жыл бұрын
Yes, but throwing a bit of arson their way every now and then couldn’t hurt.
@navp80176 жыл бұрын
you are absolutely right. I saw my ex about 4 months after broke up because she ran off with someone else and rather than be cold with me, she saw the new me who lost weight and changed up my personal appearance which she had never seen before, and gave me a smile and she was at a loss for words because we both bumped into each other at the store. And its also important to better yourself for YOU not the other person. Another lesson I learned.
@johnnyd55376 жыл бұрын
Yup i was going to say that
@rhemshue24506 жыл бұрын
truth!!!
@onlyole6 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend leaving me for another guy was the best thing that ever happened to me. Got in shape, healthier, happier and have a job i love. When you hit rock bottom its only one way to go.
@maddywisteria32426 жыл бұрын
Ikr when you hit rock bottom there is only one way to go.... ...dig deeper
@jayvonwebb48646 жыл бұрын
How I'm tryin to be
@squidwardssinclarinet82036 жыл бұрын
ItzEmS he means it’s a motivation to prove her wrong for leaving him. i know what he means
@emsj866 жыл бұрын
squidwards sinclarinet I know what he means but that shouldn’t be why you do good for yourself. You will just end up in another relationship getting pushed over.
@Blackie3156 жыл бұрын
Ole Moy that’s a fact
@raygacy4 жыл бұрын
My ex gf of 5 years have left me 6 days ago without any closure. I find this really useful for me. Thank you 😇👍
@Roadglide864 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that it's brutal, I got dumped month and half ago it's torture shit
@ican39004 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for this Is that u with Gary? ??!
@raygacy4 жыл бұрын
@@Roadglide86 i feel you bro. Once you get to mix with more friends and join certain groups on dating and self improvement, you can get over it sooner than ever.
@raygacy4 жыл бұрын
@@ican3900 yes it is. No worries. I just feel sorry for her that she can't and will never enjoy true happiness. Her perception about love and relationship have been fucked cos of her and her parents. 😇
@frankotradez4 жыл бұрын
i got cheated on, we talked about it gave her one more chance only to realize she was talking to someone again that she talked to before when she was cheating on me, it’s hard to break off but with me having a bright future with entrepreneurship and investing i’ll get over it pretty soon. I see that you took a pic with Gary you’re lucky!
@FlyingBeast0096 жыл бұрын
Just broke up with my girlfriend Time to get rich.
@roroguapo36 жыл бұрын
Just remember, Mark Zuckerberg once had the exact same thought!
@nozdrik52216 жыл бұрын
Lelouch Lom Perouge same here lol
@thepowerofthegodhand70036 жыл бұрын
Hella yeah no point in crying over spilled milk.
@saltypsychosis40936 жыл бұрын
Nice
@jcross12156 жыл бұрын
@@roroguapo3 Holy shit, you're right. He might be highly intelligent, possibly an alien, but who caaares. LET'S GET THIS BREAD.
@no1wrench5 жыл бұрын
My wife of 4 years cheated on me last thursday. I found out today... from the man's wife. This helped. Thankyou.
@pleasestop86515 жыл бұрын
Hey man its ok! You’re a cool guy and you deserve so much better! Work on yourself and you’ll meet someone worth your time!
@DhirarEmir5 жыл бұрын
Wow that must be very hurtful. Just focus on your life goals and move on from the past. #YOLO
@jaleahsmakeup15425 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 💔
@deangelowilliams69575 жыл бұрын
Sorry bro
@starvinmarvin94895 жыл бұрын
well in that case you can do the good ol switcharo and fuck the mans wife and get even boom.
@mariag28466 жыл бұрын
Bruh if you lose interest in someone then the least you can do is tell them... not cheat on them...tf. And you don't need to change yourself for anyone.
@trashtrash75566 жыл бұрын
If you're talking about Jeff, I don't think he was changing himself for anyone. He was only trying to find ways to improve his life style and efficiently spend his time by doing productive things.
@JustAalon6 жыл бұрын
Preach
@job1066 жыл бұрын
TOTALY AGREE
@gabe66256 жыл бұрын
@@trashtrash7556 yep exactly he wasn't changing himself for that cheating sack of shit
@mrpandapresident97705 жыл бұрын
Ikr?! People these days...
@The_Platinum_Realist3 жыл бұрын
“Did I do anything to make her cheat on me?” That’s a very flawed and dangerous way to advise people think.
@The_Platinum_Realist3 жыл бұрын
@@beckyanna7287 Don’t need to. It only takes a handful of people to see the flaws in a straw man argument such as the argument of advising people to develop the destructive submissive mindset that it’s their fault they got cheated on like “Did I do anything to make her cheat on me?” and call it a bad idea. Bottom line there is never really a reason for a cheater to cheat. Cheaters cheat because they wanted to and because they could.
@yoo562 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I was waiting for a comment like this.
@ymmar7325 жыл бұрын
We were both happy for 6 years until she talked about her future plans and I realized... I wasnt even part of it.
@muthoniwanjohi18424 жыл бұрын
Ouch
@4cidtoxn804 жыл бұрын
fk hurts
@blindguymcsqueezy504 жыл бұрын
Yup. I certainly know how that feels
@ThatOneWeirdCapricorn4 жыл бұрын
Ramses Angus Diel I'm sorry to hear that dude :/
@eswaramoorthy7824 жыл бұрын
oh shit.!!
@daboi66646 жыл бұрын
Basically what he wants to say is success is the best revenge
@chuckmcmicheal49995 жыл бұрын
Ir jus being happy w urself
@callmealpha75485 жыл бұрын
So right. Make that bitch regret
@TG-M-gu3lk5 жыл бұрын
@@callmealpha7548 Then you just devulge into spite and hatred. You become focused on this person and therefore all your progress is fragile and faulty.
@aaryanpatel59485 жыл бұрын
Success is not better then revenge. SUCCESS IS BIGGEST REVENGE
@TG-M-gu3lk5 жыл бұрын
@@aaryanpatel5948 Again. You let that person concume you even years later then you have failed to get over it. I'd rather see no "success" and be happy then to have all the wealth only over pent up aggression and hatred. That's no way to live
@encikpanda31696 жыл бұрын
PLOT TWIST : Jeff is the man whos on the bed with Ben's girlfriend.
@MasculineMan6 жыл бұрын
LOL
@kamikaze63876 жыл бұрын
hahaha yeah
@Zarudon0006 жыл бұрын
I was thinking that, lol. Jeff and the gf remain fwb. She then asks if they could be more and he's like "lol, so you can cheat on me too? nah," and then he ignores her and keeps going his way like a boss. 👍
@basealchemist43966 жыл бұрын
Karma
@lukamodric16096 жыл бұрын
Jeez that was epic!
@nahomagize60754 жыл бұрын
This video actually changed my life. I cried uncontrollably after watching this video knowing that I reacted like Ben. But later, I continued to work on myself (although I still have a long way to go) and with that momentum eventually ended up going abroad to San Francisco (which feels like Jeff travelling to Italy). Thank you!!!
@imooyeohiolebo50474 жыл бұрын
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@NarcisTheDictator3 жыл бұрын
I hope you are better now 🙏
@lemmonsinmyeyes6 жыл бұрын
No excuse for infidelity. Not happy? Leave. Never cheat. Very simple.
@kiddtaak6 жыл бұрын
Exactly this video shows victim-blaming like it's their fault they got cheated on
@mervaa74676 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s simple but people are selfish AF so expect the infidelity anyway because some people think they can have the best of both worlds.
@TothBen86 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you. It is hard to accept that the girl/boy you love, no longer loves you.. but accepting that she/he is cheated on you is on another level imo.. Clearly it is you who have to fight against your demons but mostly other people responsible for the size of these demons..
@HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH6 жыл бұрын
@@kiddtaak Yup! Been through this myself. You are perfectly correct.
@HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH6 жыл бұрын
@@TothBen8 Better to decide which way to take then move. Hate=feelings, no feeling=indifference. So "moving past", "accepting", "cooling down" is actually = burring love. But if there is much hate in both, it can be repaired on condition that destructive aggressiveness is suspended by strong will (no emotions) and not giving up. If partner is indifferent, its impossible. But no hard feelings for moving past either, "good place is never free".
@joshuakrusiewicz24475 жыл бұрын
You can trust no one...in the end you will always be disappointed if you put your sense of self worth and esteem in the hands of others.
@simpsbelongtothegulags37025 жыл бұрын
You can actually trust someone Dont let the evil majority blind you from seeing that there are still some people that can be trusted And they will trust you too
@Rose_.8205 жыл бұрын
Mostly true
@blindtherapper24705 жыл бұрын
@@simpsbelongtothegulags3702 "some people left" Yeah, that sounds like a bad bargain...
@simpilothr66535 жыл бұрын
True. Even if you're in a relationship that is 2 decades old, you still don't know what will happen to your relationship tomorrow, or after a month. A true relationship is a relationship without bull💩 and lies (lies are referred to cheating and so on, BTW) No relationship can be perfect because a perfect relationship is always one of the worst ones, if you know what I mean.
@screwmuckduck89055 жыл бұрын
Especially if it’s someone who is different in personality
@slimskinny2 жыл бұрын
When they give you the “I need space, we need a break, or we are different people right.” They have already found someone else. Wish them the worst in their life and move on.
@daisyisawesome83396 жыл бұрын
Cheating is never justified. If you lost attraction to someone, you leave them.
@Nukey7176 жыл бұрын
Exactly, every relationship should have that standard.
@beetleything18646 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Cheaters dont take responsibility- blame the other person but stay with them 🤷♂️
@handsomejack28926 жыл бұрын
True. But they rather destroy the other's emotions and trust than actually leave. People like this is straight up garbage.
@Zubaidah0006 жыл бұрын
True, because if you hurt the innocant real bad then karma will come to you
@titanzcanchat3866 жыл бұрын
The Most Hurt Things Is Being Forgotten By Someone You Can't Forget
@laurajean6056 жыл бұрын
Truth
@k.trapero54966 жыл бұрын
You guys have wrong grammar just saying i dont expect any hate replies
@jinkang21266 жыл бұрын
100th like ayee
@dariuskool19986 жыл бұрын
Truthfully True
@siyandwandwa14716 жыл бұрын
amen
@arunb32736 жыл бұрын
Moral : If you're single, nobody can break you 😁
@deafconmediaZA6 жыл бұрын
Yeah bro. Ive realized that too
@wonderland45156 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t work like that. People disappoint me each more every day
@kleozane27816 жыл бұрын
I was about to say what about if you don't see any people at all, you're invincible 😂
@wonderland45156 жыл бұрын
Kleo Zane I’ll find a way to break myself 😂
@arunb32736 жыл бұрын
The problem is we(as humans) except lot of things from the other person.. Be it your gf or a friend or family! We expect lot from them and that's the reason why we break easily. Soo stop expecting, live your life up-to the mark. I have been through the wrost breakup and also a after a year got rejected by a girl(who was actually my best friend). What I learnt from this , life doesn't go as of our wish. We just have to move with the flow. Stop expecting!
@JustMoneyish Жыл бұрын
I watched this video like 4-5 years ago almost every other day because I was so hurt and couldn’t believe this happened to me. She started acting funny towards the end of the relationship and slowly found someone else while we still lived together and boom left me. I was hurt at the time being and thought I would never get over it. It took some years and I’m finally completely over it now but those first few months and 2 years we’re tough. I worked on my self and got fit, got into real estate and even started my KZbin channel which has been growing and having a lot of success and is also a dream job so I have to thank her for what she did to me. My story is like Jeff…I found a mentor started working on a side business then the side business got bigger and eventually became a full time thing which gives me freedom to do what I want when I want…then even moved to another country (Colombia) and been living here since and it’s been beautiful. If I would’ve stayed with my ex I wouldn’t have done none of these amazing things. I cried almost everyday the first and maybe second year but looking back it was the best thing that could’ve happened to me…you don’t see it though at the time being. Hopefully this story inspires someone!
@ukkovuorela41966 жыл бұрын
Are you happy now youtube? I watched it
@Yo-bx4bj6 жыл бұрын
Recommendation huh? I feel you
@shenelll9856 жыл бұрын
Same
@hibak81966 жыл бұрын
I kinda have the same feeling lol It was a pretty noce reminder though
@willvsgaming45756 жыл бұрын
yeah I felt like i was watching this video for hour, turns out i just had 0.75 speed on.
@wdmeister6 жыл бұрын
Same. And i lost 10min. This video is so dumb. Yaaaay someone cheated on me so now i can go to the gym, eat healthily and have an online business in italy. What a mercy. And i should talk and ask what went wrong to a thot that instead of break up with me she preferred to bang random dudes in my own bedroom.
@Tuf_frijoles6 жыл бұрын
Jeff started smoking weed
@xXbussydestroyerXx6 жыл бұрын
I literally just died
@adoskacz72816 жыл бұрын
OMEGALUL
@Itsyourmandavedavis6 жыл бұрын
😆😂😆😂😆😂😆
@macinissachaib7166 жыл бұрын
He actually became gay
@miningsimulatorgaming32676 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@chrissaunders206 жыл бұрын
1 Thing learned... being single is amazing
@spookyquinnie32936 жыл бұрын
But having sex is more amazing
@rin69606 жыл бұрын
@@spookyquinnie3293 you can be single and having sex bro 👌🏼
@skali-vg9du6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, bruh
@priestgoober51606 жыл бұрын
No
@Daniel-ez9rl6 жыл бұрын
Maybe is better😂
@ugopisquano4 жыл бұрын
Hello everyone, I dont know if someone will ever watch this video and this comment, but I’d like to share my little story: I’m 18 and, about a year ago, me and my ex-girlfriend broke up after 1,5 beautiful years together. Now we dont talk anymore, even if we are in the same group of friends, and it still hurts to see her laughing with someone else while I’m everyday asking to myself what did I do wrong in our relationship. Also I dont anymore feel part of my historical group I’ve been hanging out with for 10+ years. I feel alone, anyway I’m trying to work hard and to study in order to enter university and to work as a personal trainer in the meantime (meanwhile I see other people having fun at the sea in Instagram stories), and I’m confident about my future, I’m sure I will meet other people and friends and re-build my life. Sorry for my bad english, have a good day
@Goa_4 жыл бұрын
Hope you feel better bro. Even though I’m only 14 life’s hard here and I wish you best of luck on getting in the university
@marshallmathers69754 жыл бұрын
Good:)
@luc62844 жыл бұрын
Hey man, I think we're in the same boat. Quite a coincidence, but I am also 18, just entered university and also lost my ex girlfriend of 1,5 years about four months ago. It has been a rough time lately, although I learned many lessons from the relationship along the way. Try to learn from all that happened and see what could've caused the breakup. Don't blame yourself, just try to understand what happened. After that, you can decide which of these things you want to work on. My biggest issue was probably that I barely talked about my feelings because I didn't want to upset her. This turned out to be a big mistake because in the end she didn't understand me, and made assumptions about me as a result. Nowadays I try to talk more to my family and friends, and I'm also becoming more decisive and organised. I see you are heading in the same direction. Keep in mind that it will get better soon. Just keep focusing on whatever makes you happy, that didn't involve your ex. I hope you can share your experience with some of your friends, maybe you can hang out without your ex sometime? I can imagine that would be painful.
@spawner28654 жыл бұрын
Why are you not part of your historical group anymore?
@spawner28654 жыл бұрын
Why your friends do not talk to you anymore?
@law.11596 жыл бұрын
Who also had this in their recommendations?
@zapdos84416 жыл бұрын
ya
@RinTheHonored16 жыл бұрын
Me 😂
@theofficialalmightygob10506 жыл бұрын
I had this in my recemendationt
@MilesSpearman6 жыл бұрын
I've never heard of this channel until it went into my recommendation😂
@shotgun64x6 жыл бұрын
About 4 weeks tops. Seems like everyone has this shit in their recommendations recently.
@Leelz2476 жыл бұрын
Breakups can be the best thing for you sometimes
@dudest.v.g.58816 жыл бұрын
Leelz247 yeah I’m sill sad over my breakup kzbin.info/www/bejne/hIHMZZiKqZaMqtk
@magsacat6 жыл бұрын
*Sometimes*
@wesleyjeurissen5446 жыл бұрын
Daniel Sloss - Jigsaw. Thank me later.
@BirdiePariRicoFriends6 жыл бұрын
Yes, it can be the one thing that makes you realize that you have more worth that you had even given yourself credit for.
@zachtv12976 жыл бұрын
Really?
@BloodyFish136 жыл бұрын
You guys gotta realize that walking the same path as Jeff can cause you to become emotionally numb. After breakup I wiped it all out of my mind and considered myself strong minded, up until I began to realize that my actions really doesn't have purpose/goal. Just straight, flat lined days of performing, not being able to sense a single thing in my life. You *need* time to grief and feel. Feelings are such things that you shouldn't consider bad; after 9 months of not crying or laughing you begin to miss the feeling of being sad along with being happy again, let me tell you that much.
@cortisol_induced_coma6 жыл бұрын
It was specifically stated that he DID cry and was angry at his ex for a few months; the only difference is that after a while, he realized that continuing to do this was not beneficial and started working on himself.
@RedEnergySounds6 жыл бұрын
I came to this world, under unknown circumstances, in order to experience. My eyes see millions of different nice colors, my brain can understand several intriguing and interesting stuff. Why turn my eyes black and my brain dull for someone who would never understand the depth of this gift. That girl obviously had fuckin as her top value. We are moving towards something more humane. I'm not saying we should forget our instincts, but certainly, we can clarify the FUCK that we lost our interest for a person and do this in a graceful way: -Sorry, I've lost my interest, I was faithful to you, but now I can't be with you. -Ok bye, have a nice life :) THAT IS HUMANE. (and also don't fuck my best friend xDDD)
@QuantumParticle6 жыл бұрын
Over the past decade I've started to become more and more numb to my emotions...
@SRPC216 жыл бұрын
BloodyFish13 Jeff was also upset for months though, he wasn’t a robot.
@arenspicer13226 жыл бұрын
Jeff is a man
@mastermitser56934 жыл бұрын
Never trust anyone...Being in a "serious" relationship is like giving someone a gun and telling them not to fire it. They will though. Just have fun and never get attached.
@KJ-sy7jy4 жыл бұрын
No strings attached..
@jonathanramirez71544 жыл бұрын
You should look into Stan Tatkin.
@sallylemon58353 жыл бұрын
"never get attached" are why guys became assholes and play around women. You could "just have fun" until one person you fall in love with, and you just couldn't fight it off, the heart is already there. that's where your karma takes place. Moral of the story, never create your karma because the pain is far worst than those who were afflicted the same but never did wrong to anyone.
@mastermitser56933 жыл бұрын
@@sallylemon5835 can you elaborate more on the karma part? This was certainly an interesting response
@botcrack6 жыл бұрын
...and Jeff died alone never trusting another woman ever again
@MinimalLovin6 жыл бұрын
Stop searching another mom. Your have to dominate a women calmy. Why trust your whoooooole life to someone else than God anyways? Wimp
@dvd95786 жыл бұрын
He is a gay now
@layerp6 жыл бұрын
Jack ascended and learned the truth *If she breathes...*
@dremid44566 жыл бұрын
... from a heroin overdose
@Lightning_Ace6 жыл бұрын
...or anything else...
@kmahes81696 жыл бұрын
Thank god. caught cheaters saves so many years in our rest of life.Never accept cheaters back in your life.
@MasculineMan6 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@FramedShots6 жыл бұрын
Eh idk if she cheated but she’d never give me her phone and would delete things, I left her cuz of it.
@sayaboss5866 жыл бұрын
@@FramedShots honestly you did the right thing.
@FramedShots6 жыл бұрын
Joe T. Thanks buddy I hope so. 🙏
@sayaboss5866 жыл бұрын
@@FramedShots I can relateto that, something like that happended to me too.
@xjq986 жыл бұрын
you shouldn't blame yourself for someone cheating on you when you only did the best for your partner.
@soyusmaximus71766 жыл бұрын
Exactly. If you're not in love with someone anymore, just leave them. Don't go fucking someone else behind their back.
@tormendor85856 жыл бұрын
he didn't do the "best" for his partner, he thought he did but, what is best for your female partner, is to concentrate on yourself, not on her. You can read how relationships work in depth from books or internet.
@xabashdog6 жыл бұрын
Torm Endor Yeah though still there’s a thing such as discussion or a break-up, you don’t have to cheat just because your partner doesn’t behave how you expect them to.
@tormendor85856 жыл бұрын
@@xabashdog now where did that come from. i didn't talk about how you should behave when you lost interest.
@dawahdeutschland53756 жыл бұрын
It doesnt matter how awfull your partner is. You should first leave before starting new relationships!!!
@blueflame35314 жыл бұрын
"I wanted to give her everything" see, that's what happens when you value others over yourself. Be ruthless, remind them they live of you.
@pedroclar56724 жыл бұрын
I know of a powerful man who can help you get your love back to you.... He also helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation....
@pedroclar56724 жыл бұрын
Whatxapp him....
@pedroclar56724 жыл бұрын
Thanks___ +2348119132200.....
@blueflame35314 жыл бұрын
@@pedroclar5672 gtfo
@pedroclar56724 жыл бұрын
@@blueflame3531 message him for urgent help
@MrDrProfessor46 жыл бұрын
Knew where this was going the moment I heard "He learned he can actually come home early".
@MattKittredge21126 жыл бұрын
Yep. I've seen "Old School"...I knew what was up...lol
@beevi50296 жыл бұрын
MrDrProfessor4 same☹️
@deep_jupiter_ocean6 жыл бұрын
Who's here because of the recommendations.
@observer.b_e_l_l_i_s6 жыл бұрын
Crazy how many of us feel shit on these days by females.
@evelynwilfred37746 жыл бұрын
Prabhat Bhartola 🙋🏽♀️
@kacibaci6 жыл бұрын
Me
@placement116 жыл бұрын
Me
@christy39716 жыл бұрын
I'm finally watching thisn
@ykoqe70236 жыл бұрын
This video taught me to never come home early
@idonthaveaname39246 жыл бұрын
SourPatchKid 69 Hahahahahaha 😂
@Capense-q9m6 жыл бұрын
No it taught u to never come home
@bencrosbie6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@puga42026 жыл бұрын
You'll be surprised if you try to give surprises.
@JessicaLiviaID6 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@9_drip179 Жыл бұрын
My eyes, my soul, my beyond, I have seen this video before, I can’t believe it. It was so beautiful
@PersonalizedKaraoke6 жыл бұрын
How did you know my heart is broken?youtube. you're creepy.
@davidplata13026 жыл бұрын
Personalized Karaoke dude, i know right? Well i hope this helps me
@ethanperry86 жыл бұрын
For real though
@btillie82826 жыл бұрын
God knew. Praying for ya ❤️
@kymkymo6 жыл бұрын
Probably from the videos you've been watching due to your breakup
@sarahcastelar19396 жыл бұрын
You’re *
@christopherserino25695 жыл бұрын
I never get jealous when I see my ex with someone else because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate. Always remember that friends 😁
@andrewdodds30074 жыл бұрын
God bless you!!!!
@lydia71774 жыл бұрын
I really needed this loll
@angie8848ah4 жыл бұрын
Ha “used toys”
@JohnAndAnime4 жыл бұрын
thick assasination THIS MADE MY WHOLE DAY 😂😂😂 THANK THE LORD FOR YOU
@munirahzahar98034 жыл бұрын
Holy crap. Hah! Lol
@jessehol27216 жыл бұрын
A person: 'Your girlfriend cheated on you?' Jeff: 'Yes, it was one of the best things that could've happened to me.'
@jackma776 жыл бұрын
Jesse Hol *BRUH*
@alisamramail6 жыл бұрын
A person: Your girl cheated on you? Jeff: Yes i deserved it but i’m improving
@W07F.mp46 жыл бұрын
@@alisamramail no one deserved to be cheated.
@nikolaslavov39476 жыл бұрын
True, you can not feel good with anyone if you can't on your own.
@snowflakes906 жыл бұрын
You got me 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻
@porksoda23424 жыл бұрын
I love this and I think it's really important. Uplifting yourself when you are alone after a breakup is THE MOST important thing ever!
@emilyra64916 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, but there is never a reason to cheat. The “what did I do to make them cheat” thing is honestly a damaging mindset. Yes, better yourself, find yourself after a break up, but don’t question what you did wrong because you did nothing wrong. You loved them, they cheated. If they didn’t want to be with you anymore then they should have left. That’s like someone asking “why did they abuse me?” Instead of seeing the abuse and growing from it and knowing how to protect themselves for it. No one is perfect and you have to work at relationships to keep it going. Being depressed and grieving are things everyone does differently. You need to know what coping mechanisms work for you. Personally, taking time for myself and realizing who I was as a person again. No person has any reason to cheat. If they are unhappy, they should have the respect for the other person and just break it off.
@ultraozy40856 жыл бұрын
wise words Emily Abraham
@Regene23836 жыл бұрын
So true
@businessdulevv80626 жыл бұрын
Emily Abraham 99% you cheated at some point
@vyndicate84566 жыл бұрын
Good advice. I believe you should just split if you're unhappy. But sometimes they stay until they find something better. Then they leave.
@wiseguy240Winston6 жыл бұрын
@@businessdulevv8062 99% that's extreme.
@ambushell57786 жыл бұрын
You cannot lay the blame on the person who didn't cheat. That's ridiculous. Cheating is inexcusable, if she lost attraction then she should have broken up with him first. I agree that you should move on and improve yourself but you cannot absolve the cheater of responsibility.
@rvc123able6 жыл бұрын
L
@Misslotusification6 жыл бұрын
Check out Esther Perel
@MrDrProfessor46 жыл бұрын
If she cheats on you once, what makes you think she won't cheat on you again? It's a question of character.
@DieHardjagged6 жыл бұрын
@@MrDrProfessor4 If my girl would cheat on me and say she wouldnt do it again , i would had tossed her out of the window. You cant trust any women.
@reshw0ztxt6 жыл бұрын
i see, u make sense but my thing is, why would she pick me if she didn't find me attractive
@shotgun64x6 жыл бұрын
Saddest part of this video is that this is in my recommendation and has been for 3 weeks.
@Jamjar-iu3ji6 жыл бұрын
ShotGun 64 Mine too 🤣
@ruthpierrelus67236 жыл бұрын
ShotGun 64 😬😬😬that's tuff
@svenskpolitik44586 жыл бұрын
It's because it is part of a global campaign to fool people into believing polyandrism is something normal in a civilized society. It is not. Polyandrism will be destroyed through pre-natal sex selection.
@kash19946 жыл бұрын
Real shit.hope you guys are okay
@bigclown236 жыл бұрын
😂 Same
@trackez094 жыл бұрын
I saw this video almost exactly 2 years ago after a "break up"......now after another "break up"....here we go again.... we are animals of habit....
@patriciawarigia7173 жыл бұрын
Me too..n my exs name is Ben
@الكينغالإيطالي Жыл бұрын
Hhhh you have ressistance
@swamp3456 жыл бұрын
My Evil Ex fiance Cheated on me and got pregnant by another man. I Spent 2 years severely depressed but I took control of my life, accepted that she was a disgusting Harlot and I finished college. Now I am a Police Officer with a degree in criminal justice. I have my own place and I am currently writing a Novel. That disgusting horrible excuse for a woman cheating on me was the best thing to ever happen to me.
@STXRBOY9996 жыл бұрын
A Reese 🤘🏻💔
@tuyetpham1286 жыл бұрын
A Reese My X cheated on me with a Thai prostitute then went home abuse n kick me n my kid out in freezing cold winter. I understand u are police n got cheated but b mindful that many women got cheated n abused by many men as well
@swamp3456 жыл бұрын
@@tuyetpham128 I totally understand, I don't have a vendetta against women. I just hate women who lie and let me down. I'm sorry that your ex hurt you. You deserve better and I hope you find happiness.
@swamp3456 жыл бұрын
@S M you'll make it and become a cop. Use the pain you're in now to fuel your desire and show her what she missed out on. You got this buddy 💪
@roadtolosing100pounds46 жыл бұрын
What a bitch, I hate people like that
@kekoa0z5 жыл бұрын
One thing Im afraid of: Someone losing attraction/ineterest of me.
@westernalliance7965 жыл бұрын
They will! Everyone does, people change over the years and meet new people all the time. They'll have crushes on other people, they will lose interest in you, they'll find you annoying. Loving someone requires work. If you find someone who is willing to invest time in you, get to know you not only in the beginning but after every couple of years or so, someone who knows that love has its ups and downs, you'll have found the one!
@keithberns54 жыл бұрын
Me too
@comradedyatlov41434 жыл бұрын
That's Athazagoraphobia. I have it too.
@soylalexe114 жыл бұрын
It happened to me. Hits like a truck.
@Cam-pt9ex4 жыл бұрын
Happened to me 😢
@cl0udc4sh6 жыл бұрын
Okay KZbin I've watched it..
@edisonsun21c6 жыл бұрын
Vikendi lol
@Mitters6 жыл бұрын
Lmao I'm here for the same reason 😂
@r.i.t.i.k.a6 жыл бұрын
Yeah actually..it was everywhere as recommended
@martin972644 жыл бұрын
“It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.” "Decision is the ultimate power".
@zox58326 жыл бұрын
"this is jeff" "jeff moves on" "be like jeff"
@paraaapara6 жыл бұрын
Guys, it's never your fault if someone cheats on you. It's always their own personal decision.
@TheBigjim19926 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@Alex-PSG-20036 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@olgac.h.12786 жыл бұрын
Of course. The girl was superwrong. But this Ben was a procrastinator and didn't show real love for her girlfriend. 10 years dating her, a good job, a house and still hasn't married her? I would have left him!
@callmesad5686 жыл бұрын
Paralee Williams shut up they are ...
@brandonw61396 жыл бұрын
It's usually both doing something wrong but yes the one who cheats is definitely in the wrong
@ItsnotJaycilina6 жыл бұрын
The worst part of love is getting over it
@chloekenny85826 жыл бұрын
Its not Jaycilina This comment of yours needs more likes😡👏🏿
@matiuhs6 жыл бұрын
the worst part of love is love
@lastd0ct0r746 жыл бұрын
True love is the hardest when the feeling you feel is one you can't feel with anyone else it hurts i know this and i know other people feel the same. I love someone and time difference between the countys we are both in means it would work.
@tonyatthebeach6 жыл бұрын
plot twist, love isn't real
@Naiik16 жыл бұрын
If you get over it then it's not love
@adnan.lok92 жыл бұрын
I watched this video when it came out 3 years ago and thought this would never happen to me. Guess what? It did and I am happy to say that 4 months since the breakup I have done things that Jeff in the video did and it gives me hope that I will come out of this on the other side as a better man!
@buharibmansurkt172 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@buharibmansurkt172 жыл бұрын
Message him on Whatsapp
@buharibmansurkt172 жыл бұрын
✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!!!
@rohan9252 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@harry443776 жыл бұрын
This video taught me that if your single you'll live your best life
@Silverman2166 жыл бұрын
facts
@himanshuchamoli82696 жыл бұрын
Balance is the key
@Zubaidah0006 жыл бұрын
Haa no. You just haven't found a soulmate yet
@mrnissan32626 жыл бұрын
Scarlet Zubaidah I’ve reached the point where I accept that my soulmate is trapped inside a condom
@nydelicious4u6 жыл бұрын
Not really what about when u get old or when u feel lonely, there’s a time in life when u need Someone to be with
@playboykam6 жыл бұрын
"If someone can cheat on Beyonce, no one is safe."
@zaimahbegum-diamond16606 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@feraligatrsupremacy76996 жыл бұрын
Faxx like you gotta be FOOLISH to cheat on Beyonce😗😗
@debiedebsielein32646 жыл бұрын
Lol made my day 😂😂
@agts12316 жыл бұрын
Hahaha always thought the same thing about Eva Longoria
@everydaydre11856 жыл бұрын
XxKing KamxX perhaps you should get to know her.
@kenkaneki26086 жыл бұрын
10 years of dating But still she cheated WTF I hate these kind of girls
@jacobcargen2386 жыл бұрын
these types of people
@p.r.99826 жыл бұрын
Some people cheat 15-20 years into it. I do not believe someone who cheats loves the person they cheat on (anymore).
@daviniapolonia7766 жыл бұрын
ADITYA MANGAL guys also cheat
@dawnbreak32996 жыл бұрын
Sometimes instead of "i love you" people should start saying "im used to you...you make me comfortable because i dont have to step out of my comfort zone "
@talaset62086 жыл бұрын
@@daviniapolonia776 no shit, maybe he's just not into guys, lmao.
@villagechillershorror2283 жыл бұрын
13 years of what I thought was perfect marriage. Just found out she had been living a double life with another man the entire time. It's an unreal kind of pain
@priyathammanoharkoka43002 жыл бұрын
how are you today sir
@MohammedMohammed-bq9jv6 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story , don't get in a relationship .
@littlewazzock95086 жыл бұрын
I applaud you 👏👏👏👏👏
@MohammedMohammed-bq9jv6 жыл бұрын
@Edward Foyer lol , just found out about mgtow cuz of your comment .
@holeefuk76706 жыл бұрын
Mohammed Mohammed if its not with a big bag of cash 😄
@roshgilluw6 жыл бұрын
salute you my friend
@roshgilluw6 жыл бұрын
@@MohammedMohammed-bq9jv yeah, MGTOW for life
@VictorNoelCoryPaz6 жыл бұрын
what happened to the dog?
@LaaidiSafia6 жыл бұрын
loool asking real questions
@VictorNoelCoryPaz6 жыл бұрын
@@LaaidiSafia 😅🐾
@jayvonwebb48646 жыл бұрын
@@MICKSHRED change the dog to his cheating girlfriend and I'll be fine with what you just said
@VictorNoelCoryPaz6 жыл бұрын
@@jayvonwebb4864 Don't worry. I reported him.
@Sincerelyzey6 жыл бұрын
Fonzo Hernandez LMFAO
@benji47456 жыл бұрын
Okay KZbin I’ll watch it edit: thanks for the likes oh my
@Evi1penguin56 жыл бұрын
I know right!!!! What the actual fuck!
@darkskineffect6 жыл бұрын
Literally every video I click its there
@Nopanop6 жыл бұрын
not even that fookin good
@tmmedia96006 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!
@fizza94522 жыл бұрын
This really deserves a thumbs up!👍
@YouNoub16 жыл бұрын
and then there is a third guy who moves back into parents basement and plays fortnite all day
@MasculineMan6 жыл бұрын
lol
@hello_watsup92126 жыл бұрын
press f to pay respects to that guy
@kfji25016 жыл бұрын
Sadly that was me a few years ago. In contrast to the first guy, I didnt pull myself together. I lost my girlfriend after i caught her cheating on me. I lost my job cuz I fell into self-pity depression and as a consequence I also lost my appartement cuz I couldnt pay for it AND I broke off my studies. Then I went back into my parents basement and played CSGO for around 3000 hours. This all happened a few years ago ... It took me around 1 year until I started acting like Jeff. Nowadays, Im a pretty happy person and everything is fine again ... but reading your comment to me felt like "daaaamn bro, you got me right there" haha
@KitsCloud6 жыл бұрын
@@kfji2501 Woah, be proud! It's not always as simple as videos like these make it sound. Awesome to hear you're doing better. :D
@richirr56036 жыл бұрын
Victory royale
@not49845 жыл бұрын
This video on a nutshell: 1.Get a girl 2. Breakup with her 3. Your life gets better or worse
@sc-ek6qz5 жыл бұрын
True.
@sc-ek6qz5 жыл бұрын
Having this experience now.
@nilenninju47095 жыл бұрын
That depends on you my maan you're the master of your destiny
@paperp93165 жыл бұрын
I Basically think no one deserves to have a cheating spouse last week I suspected my husband cheating on me a friend recommended an hacker to me on instagram patrick_allen777 I contacted him and he helped me get cheating proves by helping me hack his phone giving me full access to everything he does on his phone if you suspect your spouse cheating on you text/whatsapp him +15182900093 he would help you
@cyan411n5 жыл бұрын
Your pfp fits this perfectly
@aDecentBug6 жыл бұрын
My name is Ben, I have a girlfriend that I've been dating since 18, we often talk about our future and shit and we are not yet 28 or 30... I'm low key freaking out here
@amandacooper6356 жыл бұрын
You should have a very open and honest conversation with her about your fears, being vulnerable is a strength. Keep in mind sometimes a separation for a while in a relationship is necessary for personal growth and then you can come back together stronger.
@aDecentBug6 жыл бұрын
@@amandacooper635 I mentioned it to her and she reassured me. But thank you as well for the advice and reassurance.
@Durka-Durka6 жыл бұрын
Dr. Phil has a "marriage readiness test" that lists questions that couples should address before getting married. Take a look at that BEFORE you get married.
@aDecentBug6 жыл бұрын
@@Durka-Durka I put about as much faith in TV doctors as I do Web MD but I appreciate the advice nonetheless. We kinda have a non standard view on marraige anyhow.
@Durka-Durka6 жыл бұрын
@@aDecentBug I understand. But I just want to say for the record, the only reason he's on TV is because he was hired to help Oprah with a legal case against her. She was very impressed with him and decided to have him on her show and it went from there. It wasn't like he planned on having his own show on TV.
@Carlos.Esquivel3 жыл бұрын
I am 27 years old. And I recently broke up with my FIRST girlfriend 2 weeks ago.Yes first girlfriend because those that don't know me I am very picky. So yes, she was my first everything. I really tried searching for the one and I really thought she was it. That's why I dated her. We called each other soulmates because we had so many things in common. We wanted to be around each other every single day. But by reading these comments i realized that maybe my breakup wasn't even half bad compared to a lot of people's here. We only dated for 8 months but God, we made so many memories in such a short time😓. It felt like more than a relationship bond. We were 1 month away from moving in together. I never cheated on her nor did she (or that I knew of). We were so loyal to each other. But we just had a lot of disagreements on one thing (personal) that kept going from bad to worst. I was in denial all the time about our disagreement because I know not every relationship was perfect and maybe thought that by time, it would change. But it never did. It got to the point to where enough was enough. As much as it hurted me I did what was right. I knew what was good for me and what was good for her. It still hurts today. My soul feels empty and dead. As much as I try to stay distracted I'm always wondering how she's doing or what she's doing. It's such a horrible feeling. One that I wish on nobody. I just really hope I am able to move on soon😞. And I hope you all do too.
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@nonsookoye79463 жыл бұрын
Hello! I understand how you're feeling going through break up. I know of someone who will help you fix your relationship issues
@evergraceia6 жыл бұрын
It's ALWAYS WRONG to cheat. Literally, you cannot justify cheating on someone you're with, there's no way. If you feel like you're losing interest, start a discussion and TALK about it, and if that still doesn't work break up. Don't take the lazy way out so you can keep both your boyfriend/girlfriend and another side-boyfriend/girlfriend. That's selfish and just morally messed up. If it was just a breakup, of course feelings would be hurt. But eventually that would fade away. But if you walk in on your special someone banging someone else, that SHATTERS your heart. Literally, everything just shatters and freezes. Time stops, your heart beats heavy as well and life just seems darker. This feeling would've never happened if you just spoke about it and broke up formally.
@jaydenhutchinson54196 жыл бұрын
i disagree. there are people in emotionally and or physically abusive relationships and they're scared to leave their partner
@user-mq1ng6sj7b6 жыл бұрын
@@jaydenhutchinson5419 They're scared to leave which means they get into another relationship which they will be potentially scared to leave and/or can't be open about.
@oxiroxt6 жыл бұрын
This should be the most upvoted comment. Sadly many people don't abide by morals and logic, and attribute their mistakes to being emotionally overwhelmed, being caught off-guard and confused, whereas they actually simply lack empathy and social responsibility. Luckily this is a good thing since you DON'T want to have people like this in your life. The only real bad part is the time and efforts they make you waste during their deceit.
@AndyU966 жыл бұрын
The heart won't shatter. You'll just want both of them to die a very long-lasting miserably painful death, hearing the words 'I'm so sorry' screamed from pain and guilt. But then you'd want her back alive so you can make her feel bad all over again. Rinse and repeat
@prasannasai36756 жыл бұрын
so true
@ivobyrt5 жыл бұрын
Title: *MY sad break up story* Video: *shows two stories of two men*
@Totaa285 жыл бұрын
Lol ik
@grottoking73555 жыл бұрын
Click bait this dude probly doesn't know anything about a real breakup
@goofy34215 жыл бұрын
Maybe he is a fusion
@foreignzi16125 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@justpassingby34095 жыл бұрын
grotto king maybe he got inspired and that’s why he made the video cuz he could relate to it
@Altaranalt6 жыл бұрын
Ben and Jeff now live a happy and for-filling relationship together.
@jamesvancam6 жыл бұрын
Fulfilling* lol
@therealheadshotguy6 жыл бұрын
Buttfilling
@LamyAssassin6 жыл бұрын
@@therealheadshotguy HAHAHAHA
@aviprayx6 жыл бұрын
DUDE!!! XD
@Donnyel6 жыл бұрын
Jeff Bozos
@maybeimpro2 жыл бұрын
wow man! very motivational video, nice and thanks!!👏
@AnuragWhoLifts5 жыл бұрын
and now jeff is Ceo of Amazon😆
@prasenjitgautam5 жыл бұрын
And bald
@jayendrakurukulasekara66105 жыл бұрын
And ended up cheating himself
@samuelochie12845 жыл бұрын
And make his wife the richest woman in the world
@SkyFTW5 жыл бұрын
Lol this made my day 😂
@kbs12125 жыл бұрын
Jeff who?
@dreadend60586 жыл бұрын
Another episode of.... .. Why is this in my recommended?
@demo59636 жыл бұрын
Bob . 007 probably you tube giving us advice
@alexandersanchez98606 жыл бұрын
This shit been on every video I searched recommended
@tavicotavio6 жыл бұрын
Lmao i love this show
@cutedog72756 жыл бұрын
Best comment ever lol
@byronlee41296 жыл бұрын
Bob . 007 because the KZbin bots have thinks u r a loser therefore recommending a loser to you, fyi, I am in the same boat, so you are buying the first round of drinks
@tanjimo6 жыл бұрын
Cheaters don’t ever deserve love. How can you betray someone who trusts you?
@mr_boats6 жыл бұрын
Well, the story's more sad for the cheater, since they just lost a person that cared for them.
@TCFan306 жыл бұрын
Cheaters don't give a shit anyway. People like that deserve to get taken to the cleaners for good.
@renaudfensie30206 жыл бұрын
@@TCFan30 a lot of people who cheated are destroyed by it because they feel guilty and feel a lot of regrets. It isn't the case for every cheaters but most of them aren't happy after that
@EricWW26 жыл бұрын
yeah atleast break off the relationship beforehand like a decent human being
@MrPro21216 жыл бұрын
well my gf cheated me eventhough i done everything for her & im 18
@AnjaliYogaFusion2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️wowww ....i completely understand the moral of this story.. ❤️ It's totally depend upon us Whether we break or we move on
@maxb93155 жыл бұрын
There's no security in a relationship. It could all collapse at any time.
@maxb93154 жыл бұрын
@TURD BURGLAR You're right. You can't trust anyone (except your mother, perhaps).
@delha96874 жыл бұрын
TURD BURGLAR thats sucky to hear damn 😂😂
@Poonam-ne6tt4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Mrbimmer113 жыл бұрын
Like biden going up a staircase
@blessedsoul9492 жыл бұрын
Happened to me severally.With the worst being my ex breaking up our engagement cz of a new girl friend he was talking to.But I have wisened up now and I will not accomodate someone whose feelings towards me are not genuine.I will be more patient for the authentic person to come my way.
@invaderderpygirl6 жыл бұрын
Even if you're attractive and successful that wont stop somebody from cheating on you
@DreamCatcher2016 жыл бұрын
Yep... I always think of Heidi Klum. It even happened to Heidi Klum!! And she’s so beautiful and successful, elegant, ...
@bogzsanchez42416 жыл бұрын
Atleast u did something good to ur self instead of wasting time on thinking on why did she cheat lesson for this clip is dont let ur self down when someone cheated on you make it as a motivation in life that u can be a better person even without her
@joseluisrivera55716 жыл бұрын
"I just lose attraction to you" is never a justification to cheat on your significant other, if you really lose attraction, talk things out and move out, there is no point in staying with someone you are not attracted to other than to hurt yourself and the other person.
@Shawn67516 жыл бұрын
I would ask more questions of how.
@ΘοδωρηςΤσουλφας-υ4ο6 жыл бұрын
Yeah you're right what's the point of being in a relationship if u are not really in love because when u lose your attraction to someone u are not rly in love
@bootyluva69914 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail hurts because of how relatable and real it is.
@criplog28886 жыл бұрын
so basically, if someone cheats on you, its not their fault, its yours because you werent attaractive or good enough and you should become better. thanks. really fucking helped me out
@NovaVortex6 жыл бұрын
crip log ikr wtf
@MauricioRamirez116 жыл бұрын
I think you miss something. I will tell you a little about myself I’m a 22 year old man. I’m a student and I have only had 2 girlfriends in my life and they both broke my heart. When I was 19 I had my first girlfriend she ended with me after 1.4 year I wanted to fix thins she did not. I later learned through introspection that she did not love me completely for who I was and she gave me warning signs during the relationship, I did not feel loved by her at all the times there was periods when I asked myself: is this how it's supposed to be, I feel hurt by her It's like she does not love me for real. I did find her attractive tough and I loved her greatly but my gut told me, my inner quiet voice subtly made me feel that something was not right. Yet I, I chose to be with her , I chose not to listen to my quiet voice, I stayed when I knew she was not right for me. In the second relationship It was the opposite, we had a deep connection beyond words, It felt as if I had known her my whole life with just talking to her a few times, the reason for that was partly because she had suffered in the same way as I had , we had similar experiences. I was extremely comfortable around her, I could be myself and talk to her like I never could with someone else, she made me tear down my walls so fast and into the most inner pars of my personality which I had never had done for someone else. She was beautiful too and I felt loved for who I was, she made me realize that I could be loved. I loved her back but I did not love her the way she loved me, I did not love her the way she was supposed to be loved , I did not love her completely for the way she was, with imperfections and all. As with my ex, from the the start of the relationship I had a feeling, a quiet inner voice that me feel as if something was not right, I was afraid though, what if she was the love of my life what if I'm making my biggest mistake of my life. I told myself that the voice would go away and that we said that we could test the relationship. During our relationship I hurted her at least 3 times at separate ooccasions, because I told her upfront of this feeling I had that that I at times felt something uncomfortable with her, I told her that something was not feeling right, I suspected that it was my attraction for her that was lacking and that it was the problem (I did not use those words untill the last days of our relationship) but I did say that I thought she was beautiful but I would like her to take mora care of herself, by caring about how her hair looks, not having dirty hair, dress more nicely , this upset her and caused her great pain those times we had this discussion, so much that at one time she hurt me greatly and told me that she wished that she never had met me. I told myself that I would learn to love her completely for who se was, that the voice would go away. 7 month passed with her and it did not happen, the reason I stayed was because there was so much that was just right with her I felt this incredible bond with her, a bond beyond words . I decided to end with her yesterday and it was extremely painful for both of us, I told her moments before she left for good that If I had not had this feeling, I would have stayed with her my whole life, I told her that i’ts better that we suffer a lot now than suffering later when we live together and we have kids together. But before she left we sat down on a madrass we hugged each other for a long time as we were crying together, holding each other in our arms, trying to accept the new reality. It was very sad, it really felt as if it was the last time and it was breaking my heart apart as it was happening. Before she would step out of my door I said wait, I felt that I just wanted to hold her hand one last time, and so I hold her hand in mine. I could really feel it you know, she was and still is really special, very precious to me and so I began to cry, we were both crying. ( Honestly, I’m crying now that i’m writing this part). As I was holding her hand I asked her, are we making a mistake? She told me quietly with tears in her eyes, no... no we are not... We hugged one last time and then we said farewell and she left. I spent most of my yesterday without appetite for food and I spent my day mostly just crying alone in my student apartment and feeling miserable and sad. I called my mom, my dad, my sister about what had happened and how I felt. Im still very sad, but the point I want to make to you, the one you are missing, the reason I ultimately suffered in both relationships was because I was not truly honest with myself. I did not trust that inner quiet voice that made me feel as if something was wrong not only that I also made mistakes in the relationship. I will work on not repeating those mistakes and I will work on myself too but for now I will focus on allowing myself being sad for awhile and then I will become the best version of myself and I have finally learned, I will not love a women again untill my gut tells me that she is the right one. I hope my story helped you. Best regards.
@alyciaduenow36646 жыл бұрын
3 years ago I developed a relationship with my roommate. We did everything together going out nearly everyday. I was happy, but there was a part of me that wasn't. I wanted to be home sometimes having social anxiety I didn't like being out in public all of the time. I like cooking too, but we always went out as well. I knew a part of me was not happy and knew this wasn't made to last. We were together for a little over a year when suddenly she said her grandfather was dying and left. I begged her to stay, because I felt something else was wrong. She admitted her grandfather wasn't even that bad. Even so she just left and stayed with her ex boyfriend. Both lived out of state. I felt so completely destroyed. She broke up with me a month later. I honestly blamed myself for not loving her enough. I attempted to pick myself up but I wasn't fully there. Finally a year later we started talking and I unleashed everything. She apologized and admitted that she was the one at fault. I felt a huge relief off my shoulders. We tried again but what we had was gone. Since then I've been bettering myself. Eating healthier, and doing things I wanted to do. My life is still far from perfect and I'm still working on it and myself but I'm happier now than I ever was with her. In the end you are all you've got do things you want, live out the life you want.
@gabrielle42466 жыл бұрын
I think that was the perspective of the girl who cheated on him. But the point is, how do you respond to the situation.
@donut_seed98136 жыл бұрын
@@MauricioRamirez11 thank you for this
@rodgwr6 жыл бұрын
The lesson of this video is... ...choose money over girlfriends
@gandalfwiz200076 жыл бұрын
Money, 78 activities, be a narcissist, love everything that loves and travel for 150 years around the world with only 1 $ a day
@luis72156 жыл бұрын
Hoes are the key
@arnthoratli14376 жыл бұрын
Big fact
@j.u.a.n_v86536 жыл бұрын
MaxxyM _poggers_
@Jamjar-iu3ji6 жыл бұрын
MaxxyM and money over boyfriends 😂
@hdcontents66886 жыл бұрын
The only female I love in this world is my mom
@badaxe_gaming6 жыл бұрын
My man , I love my mom .
@mairisberzins86776 жыл бұрын
Sure... so have you ever asked her if you are adopted?
@shuaikang80986 жыл бұрын
HD كاس العالم mom always can be reliable
@yzedh6 жыл бұрын
@@mairisberzins8677 if he was adopted then that means his adopted mom was willing to adopt him. he loves his adopted mother, not his other mother who gave him up.
@RandomPerson-dy4tb6 жыл бұрын
*She do you love me I told her only partly I only love my bed and my mama I’m sorry*
@lilstrats9444 жыл бұрын
Ben: You need to leave. Jeff: *My name is Jeff*
@diribad6 жыл бұрын
Are you happy that I watched it now KZbin?
@_Asleep_6 жыл бұрын
This is the only reason I watched this, it keeps popping up in my feeds.
@djwaynorth8996 жыл бұрын
Honestly. Like I had no choice.
@zebruh27946 жыл бұрын
Omg I thought I was the only one who had that
@EpicGamer-bx5iz6 жыл бұрын
Pls be happy youtube
@thebraveone50956 жыл бұрын
Damn, you too?
@AU-xc8hk5 жыл бұрын
Conclusion: Ben: very depressed, doesn’t move on Jeff: moves on very well, changes life habits
@solarzpop65855 жыл бұрын
PS ... Be like Jeff.
@deletedd27525 жыл бұрын
UG 9076 ok? We know that ! It’s stupid if you don’t! Idk why this comment was needed👌
@FiRsTnAmELaStnAmE-jc9ju5 жыл бұрын
The walking inside jokes :D he was just saying no need to be a faggot
@christiansnaturestudio65995 жыл бұрын
I love Ben and I relate to him a lot. I will never move and die single
@christiansnaturestudio65995 жыл бұрын
@Jake the Astronaut same bro
@loralove1826 жыл бұрын
I love how ben types on his computer
@Anonyms126 жыл бұрын
Are you available?
@loralove1826 жыл бұрын
@Jirmono Brahma 💙
@Anonyms126 жыл бұрын
@@loralove182 I LOVE YOUR LIPS
@retard66906 жыл бұрын
Oh my god you guys trying to get an girlfriend on youtube. This pic is probably taken from google..
@thelxvers27286 жыл бұрын
@Jirmono Brahma holy shit you and the other loner tryna pick up a girl on KZbin are fucking SAD!
@shelseavera25514 жыл бұрын
i just got out of a really toxic relationship and this video brought me to tears. i can really relate to jeff’s story of spending “every afternoon watching netflix” and just being SOO involved with his relationship just to have it all come crashing down. it hurts.. but i’m going to use this to be successful. your channel is a blessing, THANK YOU.
@ilarikorkala97386 жыл бұрын
The problem is the cheater. Never cheat. End that relationship. Don't cheat
@masterofalltrades_6 жыл бұрын
Then someone can end the relationship just after a week.
@AnimalCutenessOverlaod6 жыл бұрын
@@masterofalltrades_ that's stupid.Love is love and never ends if its real
@bg357wg6 жыл бұрын
Ilmari Korpela the problem is that you don’t have control over other people
@badboii1016 жыл бұрын
Also why would you date the person who cheated on you? if you love her/him don't cheat.
@pastamethis6 жыл бұрын
I agree to a point. Though it's not nice there might come a time where a partner makes a mistake. The difference is if they own up to it and if they make amends or continue to repeat. A one off might be forgiven, thought hard. But something which was done repeatedly or systematically is just not excusable. And yes, if you "plan" to cheat, you should end it and back the fuck off
@unholydanger6 жыл бұрын
9:43 ''from broken relationships, to loved one passing, to getting fired.'' -- I experienced all three at the same time. I fell into depression. I fought for my life to move on. Now years later, I have a new relationship, new life and new (and better) job.
@alenkratohvil93776 жыл бұрын
That's great news. Breakup and neutered my cat. Everyone thinks it's funny but that was a double whammy. I finally decided to get him neutered so she could sleep better with him not meowing etc and she let me figure it out in ugly little ways, like complimenting other guys and pushing me away if I go to hold her hand etc. Bad
@schoolwork56676 жыл бұрын
Good to hear your on the other side man
@OmarAhmed-rg2ii6 жыл бұрын
you giving me hope
@nickspencer6576 жыл бұрын
God is good
@chrisw73455 жыл бұрын
"what did I do to cause this?" That's a very very dangerous question. It justifies toxic behavior. It shifts the blame into the victim for the other person's decisions.
@rafaelgarciacobo38815 жыл бұрын
This....At least someone noticed 👏👏
@ancientgear71925 жыл бұрын
Not to mention ,in those cases its almost never the man's fault
@bobliverseed89815 жыл бұрын
Thank you for addressing this. Self improvement is never a bad thing, and always try to find ways to recover from defeat. But never shift the blame onto yourself. It's a ridiculous and toxic idea that only works in certain scenarios. You should always be trying to improve yourself, regardless of a break up.
@Ninjaananas5 жыл бұрын
@@ancientgear7192 It is rarely the fault of the victim.
@paperp93165 жыл бұрын
I Basically think no one deserves to have a cheating spouse last week I suspected my husband cheating on me a friend recommended an hacker to me on instagram patrick_allen777 I contacted him and he helped me get cheating proves by helping me hack his phone giving me full access to everything he does on his phone if you suspect your spouse cheating on you text/whatsapp him +15182900093 he would help you
@thehumblechannel34414 жыл бұрын
I am watching this video on day 1 of my breakup. This story relates to me so much because of the three ultimate words: “I’m sorry”. She said that her feeling has changed and she doesn’t want to do this anymore, which is equivalent to her not attracted to me anymore. I am still in deep pain and that’s why I’m taking a sick leave today to go out with my family, who has always been super supportive to me. But I will not blame her about how she ruined my life. She can break up with me and that’s what she can do, but how I respond to that is what I can control, and I will control it so that instead of letting this ruin my life, I will use this as an opportunity to finally get out of my comfort zone and be who I really want to be - a motivated young man who will live a better and brighter life with a more beautiful and positive woman