Myths About Marriage People Don't Talk About | Part 3

[@thebeatagp]

Hey BEAT family! This is the final video in this 3-part series on dating, engagement and marriage that I did with my wife. I hope you enjoy it. You can catch the other two videos here. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXy1i56poL2gmrM kzbin.info/www/bejne/jZLSaqp-Yt6rfrs

[@zewdifessehaye5158]

Peace with you allen , it has been long that i didn't watch your videos but here this night you were on my dream praying rolling your ring and saying the ancient of days with full of tears may i have an explanation about this please?

[@pizzarac4885]

Allan please do a video on this ... OSAS is false and Jesus words prove it. Read Matthew 25:1-12 the parable of the 10 virgins. Notice in this rapture parable 1. All 10 virgins were VIRGINS or believers 2. All 10 virgins had their lamps or the word of God (Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path) 3. The 5 foolish virgins had oil at one time (they were saved) (Matthew 25:8 The foolish ones said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil; our lamps are going out.’) 4. All 10 virgins were looking for Jesus return (Matthew 25:7) BUT 5 were wise and 5 were foolish, why? They FELL AWAY (Luke 8:13 Those on the rocky ground are the ones who receive the word with joy when they hear it, but they have no root. They believe for a while, but in the time of testing they fall away) or ran out of OIL (Holy Spirit). They didn't know (Matthew 25:12 “But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I DON'T KNOW YOU.’) or have a relationship with Jesus. (Hebrews 5:9, Acts 5:32, 1 John 4:8 Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love, John 14:15 “If you love me, you will keep my commandments).

[@HerbGal]

"Your spouse's job is not to make you happy, it's to make you holy" I LOVE this! Such wisdom!

[@yamilee1354]

Factssssssss i realize my husband can’t provide my sole happiness and it literally has forced me to lean into God like never before

[@Codi-Ann]

I’m not married, no where near a relationship, but here I am looking forward to these videos everyday. 😂They are very helpful and God is truly using you both to bless others. Thank you!

[@malefetsanemabote3655]

Same😂😂

[@marcy21ish]

Same lol

[@jonathanbwirukiro3993]

Same here 😄🤣

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

Same

[@therealjakande]

Same lol ... but I feel like one is coming around the corner 🙏🏾

[@zeal4god402]

For those hoping sex with their spouse will always be a super hot passionate creative moment, as the Parrs accurately stated, the porn industry has painted a false perception of that. With kids, fluctuating hormones and other major life events that will occur, the sex will not be on the same level all the time...but...when both spouses have overall peak performance attitudes, have a habitual tendency of consistent fitness, excellent nutrition, quality rest, and feeding his/her mind/soul with optimal content, quality sex will be more frequent because both individuals are generally holistically healthy and care for their temples with finesse and consideration

[@robynaboverubiesorpearls]

I am with Sister Jennifer again! Experiences like travel are more important than material things, and an upgrade on a long-haul flight is so valuable! 🤗💖 Great tips throughout. I loved this series. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@slimequeen4073]

I so love Jennifers voice ❤

[@brownparkproductions3488]

Thank you for this video. Thank you for this series. The biggest takeaway that I’ve gotten from this video (which is also confirmation) is that marriage is not supposed to make you happy. If you’re miserable while you’re single, you most likely will be miserable while you’re married. The best thing to do as singles is to work through your trauma and issues as much as you can BEFORE getting married.

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

Straight facts! 💯💯 Many people are desperate to get married because of the fear of being alone but in reality they are miserable being single. That was a light bulb moment. I’ve been happily single and celibate for 5 years now. Best decision I’ve ever made. It’s a game changer that has shifted my focus solely on myself before I allow a new person into my life in the future.

[@brownparkproductions3488]

@@accesstotheredcarpet you’re absolutely right. Some people rush to get married, thinking that it will make them happy. The key is to be happy while you’re single. I’ve been single and abstinent for many years now. I’m loving my peace!

[@evertonporter7887]

As a single man, I used to feel both unhappy and inferior, as I thought marriage was this near heavenly state and that being single meant I was a bad person no woman wanted to touch, let alone marry. That thinking caused much depression and feelings of worthlessness. But I learned that God loves me in spite of my 'inferior' marital status and that I have just as much worth as anyone else. I learned to be content with God and you know what? I have peace, confidence and joy within. I'm putting God first and seeking His kingdom and righteousness, knowing that everything will fall neatly in place.

[@danilaroche1156]

You two are beacons of light. God is definitely putting together Godly couples.

[@etang5]

I love that real talk about the keyboard and flight upgrade. Thank you for your openness in sharing.

[@danilaroche1156]

She's so pretty.

[@CinemaSermons]

Man this is awesome! Sending all three videos to my girlfriend now 😂

[@LisaLisaCJ]

My ex spouse divorced me because he wasn’t “ happy”. He is remarried and still not “ happy”.

[@grant2149]

Not your ex spouse you still married in Gods eyes. You cannot pour 2 sand cups in one and try and divide it afterwards Only death breaks it. 2 become 1 people cannot seem seem to grasp this concept. Follow Pastor Login. Dr Joseph Webb. Dr Mike Gorrie. Stephen Wilcox,David Pawson,Gino Jennings.etc.... Only death seperates marriage from these names has studied scripture for 50 PLUS years.

[@grant2149]

He is living in Continous adultery. Very Very Very few churches will speak on the permanance of marriage there is no other except it be death of a spouse. I will keep spreading the true word.

[@Play-jv3oi]

Happiness does not have to do with faithfulness, i learned that through time

[@cynthiam3]

That’s so true. His job is never to make you happy. Good point.

[@cynthiam3]

People have Good Marriages when God is the head of it. We pray together study together and we try not to go to bed angry with each other.

[@niarobinson9757]

Praise God for this video wow! marriage is not to help make you happy but to help make you holy! what does work at it mean? communciation, spiritually growing together, going to church together, discussing sermon together, praying with and for spouse, being led by the Holy Spirit, forgiving spouse, having short accounts, marriage counseling, hard convos, vulnerability, tears, openness

[@mohbeenh]

Thank you so much for this. I depended so much of my wife making me happy, and kept having a problem due to her disrespect. This give me so much more perspective.

[@danny7991138]

Thank you for your leadership 💯

[@millerandlydia]

I am just gonna watch all videos that Mrs. Parr on it.. She is so pretty.. Her face radiates peace and grace 😊

[@Parentingwiththefutureinmind]

Great video, I love it, especially the flex money. I love all the 3 part series. Blessings

[@StephenItanagar]

This is the best of the three.. Thanks

[@jesuschrististheonlyway9017]

Happiness the new God, I loved how you put it. Lord in you, I finds myself my joy my happiness.

[@jkkroch]

Yes! Happiness in His good gifts isn't bad but joy is everlasting and is not circumstantial.

[@Cc2971]

I agree with Jennifer any flight over 12 hours deserves a comfortable seat. I had premium select flying to Japan and it was so worth it especially for the blood circulation in the legs and feet! I had compression socks on too. I'm glad that they both keeping it real because I am 37 single with no kids and I just said to myself the other day I am going to take my time finding the right man. There is no rush because I see these folks out here getting divorced left and right. It is terrible and I say in my head "Isn't marriage a covenant?" "Why are these folks allowing the devil to destroy their marriage". I agree with what Allen said you divorce and remarry and divorce and remarry and your never going to be happy. People need to find happiness within themselves. I am happy being single lol. I have cut so many guys off just because when we break up just from dating they come back and try to make my life a living hell because they are depressed or they will try and manipulate. I say to myself nope! Go and bother someone else. I changed my phone number in November and it has been the best decision. It has been quiet for months with no men bothering me and it has been the best spiritual experience with Jesus and I.

[@evertonporter7887]

I'm a single man who's constantly being told I need a wife to make me complete. If that is so, then why are so many marriages failing and ending in divorce? I've learned that it's only in Christ that a man or woman is complete. As for dating, I was done with that years ago and feel better for it, and more comfortable and confident around the opposite sex. But without God, no life is complete regardless of whether you are single or married! Only through being content in Him can one find true inner happiness.

[@jdkingsly]

You guys are such a beautiful couple! Thank you so much for this series!!!

[@chenanigans]

Your wife is so beautiful. I love her voice it's so soothing 🤗

[@evelynotano9136]

Thank you for all the nuggets in this video. I'm a newlywed, needed to hear this!

[@LucilleTaylor-nx5zy]

These were great. Can you do one in when there is a significant age gap between the couple.

[@HolinessUntoTheLord.]

(Off topic: but)- I Love Jennifer’s dress! 👗🤩

[@jessicah2667]

Flex money is a brilliant idea!!

[@g-major9885]

Thank you very much for being such a godly couples and sharing this timeless wisdom with grace. I would like a series on parenting.

[@HerbGal]

Another great video, Kids! LOVE this! Would be VERY interested to see you do a video or two on parenting!

[@commenter5901]

When I first got married, almost 20 years ago, we each got $50 of spending money a month with the expectation that we could increase it as we had more income... then we had kids and it went down to $25 a month... then covid hit and we lost our business and we're now trying to make our way out of debt and keep our house. Having spending money again seems like a dream. It's such a great thing to do when you can afford it. Right now we are only buying the bare minimum, never eating out or going out.

[@marieperez3796]

Wow. Excellent. Beautiful couple.God continue blessing you both . 🦋🦋🦋🌸🌸

[@marieperez3796]

But again that doesn’t make you a bad person being a loner . Could be due to trauma. But you are right one can not bare their feelings on others but again can be helpful. 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@tobibabalola3143]

Thank you guys. Would appreciate it if you guys can delve deeper in finance in marriage, role play and expectation

[@Dagoodnurse]

Enjoying from Brooklyn NY!

[@irinadubina84]

Really helpful guys. Thanks. Watched all 3 videos. Sharing with my younger sister. The topic I am interested is how a woman is to present herself according to the Bible? And what are man’s way to be according the scriptures 🙏🏻

[@beatanamene2307]

Indeed. I look foward more🎉

[@12Messenger]

I dont want this be the last video

[@majorphenom1]

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾 His grace and mercy be upon you all and your loved ones 🕊️🥛🍯

[@ashleydowney1222]

As a single woman who is 31 and has been single for nearly all of my life. Except for 4 relationships in the 7 years that lasted less than a month. I came into this video dreading it. I have grown up in the church my whole life. Seen countless people my age get married super young and have several. I honestly hate hearing about marriage at church. I want to be married. I have prayed for my future husband every single day since I was 12. With no godly man in sight. Single Godly men rarely are interested in being my friend. Let alone anything beyond. This past year I have gotten to a place. Where I honestly am tired of single Christian men who are passive and immature. Most of the men that I am around constantly around at church are like that. I haven't had the best experiences with single men my age. Christian or not. With my fellow brothers in Christ. I am used to being ignored completely until I am of some value. Such as bringing a dessert to a church function. Or being asked to a trivia night since I am incredibly smart and that's it. Then I go back to being invisible until I am useful again to my fellow brothers in Christ. And when I have men who aren't believers interested in me. Which is the case 100 percent of the time currently. It's purely sexual and I have men almost daily undress me with their eyes. Either way, I get objectified one way or another by men. It's awful. Rarely do I feel like I have men who aren't family like me for just me. Usually, I always wonder if they want something from me. And when they don't want something from me. I am always surprised.

[@NewBornNickumz]

My beautiful family of God, you guys are like Barbie Christian’s 🫶🏻💓☺️, thanks for your videos and serving Christ. God bless you both!

[@fishnchips2423]

Oh my, you sure did give me a good laugh in a good way with the myths of marriage. Really enjoyed it, and Mrs Parr sure is a fine lady, dressed in wisdom pearls, as I don't often see her on here. Would it be possible to also do videos on narcissistic, abusive, controlling parents claiming to be Christians? Do you know how many lives they have destroyed in the name of 'mummy and daddy?' I say this because, some parents are outright cruel, evil, dangerous and much more but time and time again Christians are taught to endure all the serious issues/situations, keep your mouth shut and happily face the consequences with a smile because they are your parents and always will be. This is very disturbing to me and needs to be openly addressed.

[@nne-nneonwuegbu]

I agree with Mrs. Parr!! I 100% see the value of being more comfortable 😅

[@stst77]

I see it too but I see his side too. Those upgrades cost a LOT. Personally I would not pay that much money for an upgrade unless I had money to throw away. 13 hours for young healthy people like them is not that long. I have done it many times with young children. 13 hours is gone quickly but a keyboard is a long term investment that can contribute to his career thus family, it can bless many others lives and it is something they can pass down to their children. You can not do that with a very expensive upgrade. An upgrade only is a brief pleasure to only bless you but a keyboard is a long term investment to bless many others.

[@nne-nneonwuegbu]

@@stst77 to each is own . The old keyboard is blessing others and I could bless others in the upgraded seat while being comfortable. I’ve been in 13-16hr flights as well and I 100% agree with Mrs Parr ☺️

[@liz17smile]

I like the flex money idea

[@KayDerek]

Very impactful

[@rockymountainprincess9078]

This was a wonderful series. Thanks for sharing 😇!

[@connaitredieu_]

Thanks guys! You're a blessing to me.

[@ebenezerewusi7006]

I'm talking to this lady and the connection is very good. We talk a lot and discuss issues together. I like her very much and we have a lot of things in common( not everything though) but she wants to maintain the friendship for some time(say a year) to help her make a decision whether she really like/love me or not. On the other hand, I also want to know who I'm investing my time and energy with, someone I can call my girlfriend, someone I see myself married to in the near future. What advice will you give me?

[@phieble]

How about discussing boundaries for how informed and involved other people-family, friends, strangers, and even counselors-should be in your marriage and how to identify when intimacy may be hindered by included others at unhealthy levels? Also, personal view on polygamy?

[@alexanderb5726]

They're both Christian, so the obvious answer to your last question is they do not support polygamy.

[@phieble]

@@alexanderb5726 Actually, there isn't much of any explicit biblical prohibition against polygamy and there are several Christians who are not strongly against it and some who may even be for it, it's just not the norm in our culture/time.

[@alexanderb5726]

@@phieble You're making excuses based off of lechery, and you know it. "That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh." -Genesis 2:24 One, flesh. Not two, not three but one. Give me a single example of New Testament Apostles, believers or subsequent Christians from then to now who've engaged in polygamy, a single example. The "Christians who are not strongly against it" you mention, are those who profess Christ as their Saviour, yet instead of seeking to live as pleasingly to Him in life as they can, they try to see how far to the edge they can live "without it being sin" that is not a kingdom mindset.

[@phieble]

@@alexanderb5726 I forgive you for your assumption. I am HARDCORE monogamous if for nothing else because marriage is to be illustrave of the marital covenant between the Lord Jesus and the church which is one and not several. So Jesus is a monogamous and we couldn't possibly model marriage better than him so I'ma monogamist. I just wanted to hear his and his wife's reasoning and provide the opportunity for others who may not know how to defend monogamy-onlyism and dismiss polygamy biblically. David was a polygamist and yet a man after God's own heart who was closely intimate with God, yet God never once confronted him about polygamy as if it was a sin, so what's up with that some may wonder. 🤷‍♂️

[@alexanderb5726]

@@phieble Then I misinterpreted what you meant by saying that many Christians might not be against it and that the Bible does not prohibit it explicitly, I apologize. I am too used to people seeking to impress their bias on Scripture these days and we who believe in truth must defend it.

[@slindiledlomo387]

Thank you.

[@marieperez3796]

Well done .❤ you guys .so refreshing.

[@justineandreas1233]

Thank you so much... Love you two lots, Remain blessed

[@mahletdawit7791]

Hello thank you for sharing your video, I truly appreciate it. Although on the last video, I disagree with Jennifer's statement that lust is part of humans nature.

[@anugrahadushing7756]

A keyboard is not just a keyboard, there are some pretty good ones. I know a value of investing in a good quality music and audio gear😂

[@logansrun3974]

PURPOSEFUL with the Parr's! I love these!

[@flatout1017]

When it comes to the money this is how I feel about spending money on a lavish wedding for ONE day…

[@englishbyayomajozi1735]

Your wife is so beautiful.

[@ChrissyGotTheCoils]

12:41 I was like what was it?! 😂

[@cynthiam3]

So true about the money.

[@phillipstuart3318]

There is a song called happy Happy is a truth Happy is an idol

[@kenyadavis89]

So if he is not providing then what stay????

[@chenanigans]

LOL and I can tell you guys fly with us, (Delta) ! And I agree I know exactly how expensive those flights are and the difference from main cabin to comfort Plus or Delta one is really astounding but for some people that is a worthy investment and I don't blame them! Thankfully I work for them so I can get it at a huge discount but if I didn't?, oof chile Idk 😆.

[@kw3870]

This was good

[@rejoiceishaku6203]

God bless you beautifully in Jesus name Amen 🙏 love it

[@jameillah]

Sooo about this Flex Money…If traveling together and she decides to upgrade with her flex money and leave you in coach, is that a problem? 😅

[@sonescope5518]

And all those things; leading, providing, protecting will make you happy. Marriage is a place of happiness. Just don’t use make happiness a “god” to the point you cannot contend when problems befalls. 2 Cor 2:2. A Christian is OBLIGED to make another person happy whether depressed, etc.

[@Margart526]

Great video, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@ddirtdid]

Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

[@Margart526]

@@ddirtdid Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@ddirtdid]

@@Margart526 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer

[@Margart526]

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[@HandmaidenofGod]

Thank you for tackling marriage does not cure lust. I've been hearing notable teachers teaching people that they should lust after their spouse. This is not a biblical concept. I am glad that both you and Mrs. Parr spoke up about how lust is dangerous and can and will damage a marriage if not dealt with.

[@ames5949]

I second this!

[@joannakijowska3420]

Your wife’s voice is so calming and pleasant to hear . 😊

[@heidihouseholder727]

You two are adorable, godly, wise, and REAL!! Marriage is hard work but so worth it. After 32 years we are still working and growing. We can only find happiness within and can not expect it from another person is so true. I love these videos from The Beat and we are also doing the Love Dare Devotional book this year after completing the original Love Dare last year. Still tending this marriage garden and new things are blooming, we continue to grow..... even after 32 years.

[@RandomnessAndAllTheThings]

Can you guys make more videos like this about the realities of marriage? I think a series of this content would be super helpful. I don’t see many christian KZbinrs talking about the realities and practicalities of marriage. I am newly married trying to adjust and it’s been so difficult. it would be such a benefit to hear more content like this.

[@SJ-qf2tz]

How is it different from how you thought it would be ? I’m single, never married and want to learn.

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

The word you spoke out “difficult” is a straightforward giveaway that your marriage is in trouble already. This just means God did not assigned this person you married. You’re supposed to be happy but here you are as a newly married person says it’s difficult. Wow! I’m sorry this is happening to you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@RandomnessAndAllTheThings]

@@accesstotheredcarpet what makes you say God did not assign this person? He is author and sovereign over all. I’ve known people who say their first year of marriage was the most difficult. And they now have a great marriage and have been married for 10+ years. Others have said their really difficult years didn’t come until years later. Difficult times doesn’t mean God didn’t ordain it. The Parrs even just said in this video, marriage isn’t about being happy all the time. Nothing is happy all the time.

[@LeRoiDansLeCiel]

@@accesstotheredcarpet Shame on you for saying that to her/him. You have no idea what you are talking about and yet you are speaking as if you knew everything. You are not God, and you are cursing their marriage. You are a fool.

[@dogstick12]

@@accesstotheredcarpet God never says in the bible that He will make human beings happy

[@cynthiam3]

Your happiness is only found in Jesus Christ.

[@terryroberts7647]

AMEN !! on that

[@stst77]

Amen!

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

I’ve been divorced since 1993 when I was only 24 years old. I love this segment because knowing what I know now watching your marriage podcast series helps me reflect back why I got a divorce and what went wrong between my ex husband and I.I have not remarried but have had long term relationships. I’m happy to say that this is a wealth of knowledge for everyone who is considering the commitment to marriage. It is never too late to learn about what a Christian marriage suppose to look like. This is the video to watch! Mr. Parr, your wife Mrs. Parr is absolutely a gem and such a beautiful lady. She radiates everything a woman should strive to be and a husband who can lead the household just as God designed it to be. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. 🙏🏻

[@RealProphetlovy]

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[@jeannettedrown7687]

Thank you for being so open. My husband and I had to really compromise on finances. I like the keyboard/plane upgrade example and the flex money idea. This video is life giving and God honoring. May the LORD richly bless your marriage and family.

[@cherylynn927]

Flex money is an excellent idea! I see the logic of each person and agree with both! Great video guys!

[@lameishawest2461]

The end was the icing on the cake. Marriage is work, but it is good work and so rewarding. ❤️

[@evertonporter7887]

So many couples want the wedded bliss and the happy ending but they're not willing to put in the work to make it happen like every other endeavour.

[@TM-se5jf]

Love these series ❤. I'm praying to get married and so these types of videos act as my training 🙏. It has open my eyes to how not ready I am for the covenant of marriage but working on it 😀

[@niecybaby1960]

Great episode thoroughly enjoyed them. I don’t see episode 1 however. Help me with that thanks. You’re a beautiful couple and I pray God blesses you with long life so that you can keep spending his word. Much Love

[@joycewatt8289]

Good 👍 vid No lies found here 😂 Going on 15 years and Yesssssssssssssssssss Marriage is work and a good marriage requires that both parties do the necessary work. It’s work but I’ll tell anybody, it’s worth it! KEEPING GOD FIRST HELPS🙏🏽

[@monicasauco2047]

Jennifer is sooo beautiful :) Lovely couple. Thank you both!

[@carmencoulter8594]

Thank you so much for this. You all dropped some major jewels💕As a single woman of God this is so helpful.

[@prophetic.c]

👆👆To daughter & sons of JESUS on this comment O LORD grant them what they have been praying for long time especially financially and heal their sicknesses in JESUS NAME👏👐

[@ReubenDomingo1]

If y’all make a podcast on dating-married life, I’m for sure listening to every episode of it. Thanks for the series!

[@kenco7560]

After 40 years I’ve learned the secret. “What’s mine is hers and What’s hers is hers!”

[@gracemugoloza3597]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@stst77]

That’s often true but it should not be.

[@daisiesandpandas1218]

Your probably thinking about just money, there are other stuff off hers, her work, her care, her contribution in the house etc that's also yours and for your maybe?

[@stst77]

@@daisiesandpandas1218 if it crosses over to the point where her money is hers, it probably affects everything else as well.

[@richardcoleman4028]

Loved this advise from you both, it open doors of heathy needed discussion between us, after a 5 year courtship we got engage on Christmas Day and are planning to be married this 2023. We both enjoy your ministry very much and we talk of some day of meeting you both in person, perhaps the next Jerusalem trip, which is on our list of travel after marriage. Thank you.

[@dovaro2377]

gah-lee, this video was the last blow, the nail is buried in the coffin, I might not get married. Too complicated stuff, man. Might as well accept it now and focus on something else, and might God have mercy on my lonely heart. Awesome video though 👍

[@semilunares]

What I appreciated was y'all's ability--even in conflict--to see and appreciate the other person's perspective even if you did not necessarily agree or see things the same way.

[@dogstick12]

When you find happiness in God You stop trying to find happiness in yourself And you stop trying to find happiness in others Marriage is for seeking the Lord together and obeying His work and call on your lives together

[@katejohnson5083]

Liked it before I watched it. Didn’t disappoint. Please continue this series! God bless you both 🙏🏼

[@washingtonsteven6885]

THANK YOU BOTH REAL & EXCELLENT TALK

[@jandrewbelk]

Thank you both for sharing such wonderful information!😊

[@ajunell8388]

I watched parts 1 and 2 just this morning. I am so glad that part 3 came out today!

[@latanyaharris7160]

Say that, Say that!! Y'all preachin!!!

[@ladytinag4276]

In the words of KevOnStage and MrsKevonStage, Marriage Be Hard! But it is also a beautiful institution and can flourish if both spouses are willing to put in the work. My husband and I dated, were engaged and have been married for 31 (in Aug) years. It hasn’t been easy but it’s been worth it. I concur with all the advice shared in this 3-part series. A Godly marriage is one that can stand the test of time.

[@omalemathias2061]

Wow, the man is the introvert and his wife extrovert. I was thinking it's the opposite.

[@jessefoster2832]

I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME PHIL 4:13

[@terryroberts7647]

Both y'all are a wonderful couple in Jesus name

[@depnewshound]

I am way past my expiration date and not even interested in marriage but I’ve still enjoyed this series. You guys are a cute couple.

[@jephtherafoakwa2115]

Sweetie, I want you to wipe the notion of having an expiring date. Your time is coming. Keep on praying into your Marriage. God will surprise you massively. Continue to learn more and seek more of God. And let Him do the rest. 😊😊😊

[@Sowedintears6]

“way past my expiration date”…..for what? To the believer, time is never sovereign. God is ❤

[@jephtherafoakwa2115]

@@Sowedintears6 Yepp..We are different from the world. We don’t live according to the standards of this world….

[@Sowedintears6]

@@jephtherafoakwa2115 and so family what do you mean when you say you are way past your expiration date then?

[@danilaroche1156]

Is there an expiration date? According to who? Not The Lord.

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

Marriage is made to work 💕 I love that flex money part,never thought of it in this regard Thank you for sharing 😊 Enjoyed the 3episodes 💗 Love you loads Parr❤️

[@crouffer]

It's enjoyable work if you find the right person, but marriage is work no matter what! Having a good marriage requires two people totally willing to be self-less and think of the best for the other person. It is very rewarding