You should be lucky that a pretty/charming girl loves you. Nowadays it is very difficult to find some girls who really loves you. Better cherish her love or else you might regret it During my twenties, I was the same as you are, aggressively looking for money n trying to earn & save as much as possible It’s not worth it It would be better if you love and at the same earn while you have someone who really care and love you !!! Shoutout from Wall Street, Manhattan, NYC!!!