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@tonyharrison17266 ай бұрын
Thankyou for your comment. Greatly appreciated. I am not consuming him anymore. Like you have said. my medicine is devouring knowledge. something that a narc could never awaken with.
@injashiran6 ай бұрын
Total silence in my experience,is the only way to handle a narcissist.... (sadly but true.)
@bettysaunders68416 ай бұрын
A@@tonyharrison1726
@marilynschmidt64005 ай бұрын
@@injashiran that is hard when they've isolated you and there's no support. The only support you've got is their flying monkeys watching and the internet to get by
@julieann7776 ай бұрын
I truly believe you reap what you sow both here on Earth and in the afterlife. My Narcissistic "Family" believe they are Untouchable. They believe their own lies and delusions. God is a God of Justice and He will not be mocked. He will make wrong things right when you give it to Him. Trust Him to be your defender and vindicator and He will give you double for your trouble. God Bless everyone who has suffered at the hands of Narcissists.
@rosiemcking726 ай бұрын
AMEN sister!!!
@tinyvr70366 ай бұрын
It is called grace. His grace, and He is a merciful God. Never forget . His Love is a perfect . ❤
@janicejohnson21686 ай бұрын
My husband was raised by a narcissistic mother and he grew up to be a narcissistic man and was also diagnosed with PTSD from Vietnam. I was married to him for 52 yrs... he passed away 5/11/22 of pancreatitis. I NEVER felt loved. Our adult children, and I have PTSD now too. My husband, a few years before his death, said that anything he said to me was the same as God saying it, and I must submit to him. I did love him, but lived in fear of his anger and didn't trust he wasn't on the edge of a tirade. He was never satisfied and always wanted more. We were always struggling financially, but he passed away of pancreatitis. It was a painful death. I was devastated because I always hoped and prayed for his recovery that someday all would be better. And he would be cured. 😢
@tinyvr70366 ай бұрын
@@janicejohnson2168 Sometimes you don't know, and the doctors diagnose only what may be physical or on the surface. Sorry you all suffered with your husband and his problems but if he was saved, perhaps he is cured now, and God will give you all the peace that surpasses all understanding. He will make it right. God does say Love covers a multitude of sins but only if we or others repent and ask for forgiveness. It doesn't not mean we are called to be in bondage but to peace. He is the One who sets us free. Blessings and may God comfort and protect you and your family. 🙏
@ElmarieMorland-y6v6 ай бұрын
Thank you i can show this to my daughter...god bless you
@carolynnovak99526 ай бұрын
Proverbs 11:17 “Your own soul is nourished when you are kind, but you destroy yourself when you are cruel”. (new living Translation)
@DaniellesMicoMarley6 ай бұрын
amen!!
@gabrielleaumont39716 ай бұрын
Yes. Right.
@betaylor50316 ай бұрын
Proverbs 11:17 King James Version 17 The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but he that is cruel troubleth his own flesh.
@zoeyanaqvi-zn74825 ай бұрын
True
@ingobernableappleofgodseye39965 ай бұрын
God is so wise. yes, this is very true!
@witchywoman7376 ай бұрын
The narcs in my life have died horrendously, but not humbled...They narced until their final breath. They're of the darkness
@ritavega16066 ай бұрын
This is not exactly related but it’s funny how when a narcissist takes the Myers Briggs personality survey they say they are INFP or INFJ and they are actually nothing like these personalities
@zippermonster95966 ай бұрын
@@ritavega1606 So weird. Mine is top of the line INFJ and demands everybody take the test just so he can explain to them how superrior his personality is compared to theirs... This comment is golden. It took me a while to realize how much of a BS Outcome his personality test resuolts really were
@rubyparchment55236 ай бұрын
They do die sad deaths, and alone. Where are your druggie side-chicks? Your precious, ever-mooching “Friends?” Was it really worth it?
@LarryjrnflTV6 ай бұрын
The fact your name is witchy woman is scary.
@minakumari15156 ай бұрын
this so true . they never change never ever. everything what they r dies with them .
@iaaeottg216 ай бұрын
Also, they start to experiences various illnesses, loose their looks, always upset about something.
@karenzilverberg46996 ай бұрын
100% correct.
@ekinsenan98866 ай бұрын
Normal people too cmon everybody gets old and start to look like a peace of shit.
@lilu67666 ай бұрын
Yep, always upset about something
@peacheedandee6 ай бұрын
@@ekinsenan9886 That's what I was going to say. Everyone loses their looks and gets less healthy. I'm like duh, that's NOT punishment. Hell, I'm not a narcissist and I don't need that sh*t either 🙄
@CodyCole806 ай бұрын
@@ekinsenan9886Not everyone. Wickedness has a certain look that seeps through the countenance that’s hard to explain. Watch Kenneth Copeland’s “Inside Edition” interview. You can’t tell me his face is normal. Some narcs will stop dressing well like they used to and become unkept. I know one that gained hella weight in a short time after a marriage because it wasn’t working out to his favor like he planned. A lot of it has nothing to do with the normal physicality; it’s their mindset and how they carry themselves when they feel their worlds are crumpling.
@lynfawcett2216 ай бұрын
My narcissistic husband was paid back with KARMA. 1 week after he retired he went to our GP had tests and on getting his results, our GP told him he had liver cancer. Further test and a first appointment with an Oncologist and that first diagnosis changed. He had metastatic Pancreatuc cancer. A death sentence. 2 years and 10 days later, he died. I am still healing from this. I was diagnosed with CPTSD. But my life is so much better now.
@CodyCole806 ай бұрын
😮Wow! Right after he retired and was probably expecting to relax and instead he was given a death sentence … Was he having issues before the appt or was it just a regular check up?
@laurabfromvt61976 ай бұрын
This is very similar to my husband and my life. He died of lymphoma at 64 after the regular treatment, 15 months of remission, and then 2 more years of worse treatment ending in a failed stem cell transplant. I knew from the start it wouldn't work and would just extend the suffering, mine and his. He's been dead for 6 years now and they've been the best years of my life.
@begoodfeelgood17076 ай бұрын
Happened to me also.My narcissist husband passed away in January due to CKD, chronic kidney disease.He suffered lot of pain during these last 3 yrs
@julieann7776 ай бұрын
@@laurabfromvt6197 Praise God!! The best is till in front of you. ❤
@kameshiam16746 ай бұрын
Ooooooo 😮😢
@IzabelaWaniek-i1x6 ай бұрын
You reap what you sow. The narcissist’s pride and arrogance blinds them and leads to their fall.
@sheeschannel4396 ай бұрын
I believe in heaven..here I m suffering a lot..but God has a plan for every one
@Trini2dbone8685 ай бұрын
Correct
@eyeamphree33372 ай бұрын
They have pride & arrogance in gang stalking someone that they are afraid to show their face to lol who takes their goofy ass seriously wasting their time harassing 1 person 😂😂 imagine how their group meetings go feeling powerful being powerless roaches who pick weak battles because they know they are not about that life. Yea I’m done with the weird shit & dgaf about their obsession or reasons behind it. This is not a movie & I do not know their weird ass so they need to have charges pressed against them for illegal criminal activities ✌🏿
@VisibleTimes27 күн бұрын
@@sheeschannel439 It definitely challenges your faith.
@hazelrivers76425 ай бұрын
I m proud of myself I left my husband tonight and moved in with our daughter n never ever going back again thank you Jesus
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
That’s major. Congratulations as I know that had to take a lot to get to that point. God lead you into your future in peace ❤
@hazelrivers76425 ай бұрын
@@GodsChosenMekAmoR yes it did but I'm free and never going back god helped got out and me peace as well thank you
@hazelrivers76425 ай бұрын
40 years of abuse being cheating on disrespected it got worse until with no other choice but to go n save myself
@Spiralclarity5 ай бұрын
Make sure that you get your devices checked for stalkerware. They can buy a software program that gives them full remote access to your devices. Including your location. Congratulations on leaving him.
@couleuredgirl63145 ай бұрын
So many blessings are going to pour out! I promise you!
@tashie206 ай бұрын
They are never happy or content no matter how much they have…..my ex Narc wanted more women,more money and more worldly things. How greedy can you be when you have it so much better than many others? They are so ungrateful and unappreciative people,so sad 😞
@tinaureta98916 ай бұрын
Ungrateful, showing No mercy, but expecting Mercy.. & expecting Gratitude to them
@queenesther41426 ай бұрын
Yes, exactly! They are some toxic people @@tinaureta9891
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
they are toxic.
@PervertHoover26 ай бұрын
It can be frustrating, but eventually they will pay, I've seen them pay over and over. They like you to think they're doing so well, but they're not. Just do your own thing and they will collapse at some point.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
@@PervertHoover2full circle.
@Anna-Jade6 ай бұрын
The TRUE punishment is that the narcissist is unable to feel love, joy or peace of mind. Imagine never being able to feel those emotions that make life worth living? It is truly hell on earth.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
This was shown strongly in the Boondocks Color Ruckus episode. Uncle ruckus grandma was a malignant narcissist in decay & displayed all the traits well
@minakumari15156 ай бұрын
its actually a living hell. they dont need to die to experience the hell they gave to others. they live n die every moment untill they r gone forever..
@Lusciousqueen816 ай бұрын
It’s not they are unable to feel love, joy, or peace of mind. They choose NOT to feel! No matter how kind you are to them and cater to their needs, they still choose to hurt you!!!
@Nyc996 ай бұрын
Some never had dad and took on moms persona
@mingo20245 ай бұрын
And they still have an eternity of being separated from God in hell to endure.
@flowerchild896 ай бұрын
My narcissistic mother has alot of supply. She has 5 siblings of her own and two of my siblings are narcissistic. My mother is turning 74 this year. I chose NC almost two years ago. It's ironic that my mother took pleasure in triangulating my siblings and I, but my mother has her siblings to this day. It angers me that my mother did that to me. Total isolation just because I spoke truth and asked for accountability.
@MermaidMompreneur6 ай бұрын
Omg this post I needed 😤😫😭 Everything she said we “didn’t need” or take from me and she still has hers in tact and gloats takes everything in me not to feel resentment for all the loss that can never be expressed or explained smgdh thank u my spirit needed to express this with someone who innerstands 😢 we will be alrite tho sometimes i feel suicidal then my anger kicks in and says don’t let her or “them” win!
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
Same with me. I know my mother will always have supply from my narcissistic sisters. Maybe her punishment is she won't have as much as she used to and she can't abuse me on a daily basis or send my siblings as flying monkeys to do her dirty job. I don't even think they will ever have the terrible nightmares I have due to their lifetime abuse on me. Anyway, we need to leave it in God's hand because it's not in ours and that will keep us miserable. At least I have overcome the fantasy of believing they will addmit their wrongsdoing or will have remorse. More fantasies that keep us stuck. I have already watched many channel and I have read enough comments about what happens when they are close to dying to know that doesn't happen. Some victims feel relief others feel rage and mourn the fact they left without a good word towards them. Most people abused by their parents don't even get an inheritance, their narcissistic siblings get them. That's why expecting a miracle from them keep us stuck. Many victims can't cry, they have no tears left. Take care 💜
@MermaidMompreneur6 ай бұрын
I keep trying no contact but then close family members die and I get swept back into the shitstorm and have to go the full cycle again. I remember being scared to even think in my mind that she was evil. Caused me so much pain shame isolation needless suffering and couldn’t get her out my head or know who I am. Life was great without her in it we all were very close and healing from the lies soons she returned everyone divided and bs again . Such a strange kind of grief dealing with these types but to God be the glory everyday I wake up without suicidal thoughts and instead the will to rebuild on a righteous foundation of truth and joy of life. May I never be like them is my Motto
@MermaidMompreneur6 ай бұрын
I feel u on giving up the fantasy that they will ever admit they were wrong or Apologize. I’m ok if I’m in no contact but notice a sort of hypnotism or something when in her presence it’s just like being sucked back in. I fight the urge to pick up and move across across without a trace . I feel like any part of my life she had access to in any way is tainted and I’m willing to leave it all just to be untied completely from her. But also just making mental effort to redirect my thoughts away from her entirely bc the rumination causes major stagnation. I will take back my mind and rebuild a new life that she cannot touch or destroy!
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
@@MermaidMompreneur Try mindfulness and guided meditation. Yoga Nidra works good too. It's on KZbin. God bless you 💜
@donnessroulette13495 ай бұрын
So sad, I pray for every narcissist to find God and heal. No matter what type. Although I’ve been hurt…My heart still hurts for them. I’ll continue to keep my distance but this is no way to live. My all their broken pieces be healed in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@jackieday31475 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@annettestevens52766 ай бұрын
I love how you said they can’t even stay in their own company when they’re by themselves that was the best line I ever heard
@tinaiamvictoriousswygeart2595 ай бұрын
My ex has been from woman to woman since we parted just sad smh
@JamesPetroff5 ай бұрын
The bad people make you better. God gives you them to get better.
@VisibleTimes27 күн бұрын
Give me an example.
@zg60456 ай бұрын
That is how I see it, too. I was asking God why I had to go through that? You explained it right, we are their chance to change. And we served our purpose and God kew that we would be the only person who will try as long as we did and put up with them without becoming a worse person. We are still loving and caring!
@Firdouse37376 ай бұрын
I also think God allowed the narcs into our lives for us to learn lessons, too... The number 1 lesson for the survivors would be to never ever have traits in us like narcs such as entitlement, Arrogance and pride..and also to teach us that there are some evil people out there who will weaponize our mercy and compassion and that we need to set boundaries...
@jackie529126 ай бұрын
So true
@jaynestarrett77795 ай бұрын
and ill from their behaviour, and our wasted time! but no still loving and caring with a fear of people, wiser though!
@darkrain4915 ай бұрын
@@Firdouse3737 I believe it's because we who go through it still have some pathological "sympathy for the devil" God wants you to see what a devil truly is. He wants you to stop feeling sorry for a devil, while he is also giving that devil a chance to change. I feel blessed knowing God thought I was of such good nature that I may have had a chance to save a soul, and that I know now there are some people who can't be saved.
@Firdouse37375 ай бұрын
@darkrain491 I can't agree with you more! If a person doesn't love himself enough to make a change within himself and become a better version of himself, no one else can do that job of changing him. Change has to come from within. And it's quite unfortunate that these people won't mend their ways and become better people. They really have a heightened ego that they just don't find anything wrong with them while everyone around them can see them for who they are!
@sonjag.86866 ай бұрын
A narcissist is never happy for a long term! When your satisfied, happy and content, you don’t have an interest in hurting others! Very simple! ✌🏻
@indigosungirl2 ай бұрын
It is in them to find or create new circle of problems anyways with each new time of happiness it is a check box and brief. Like 5 minutes lol
@KarrenV6 ай бұрын
Their biggest punishment is they way they are and the way they feel every day, their inability to receive love... very, very sad!
@utebretthauer42646 ай бұрын
Narcissist are professionals and there are plenty desperate people. Sad, but true😢
@tirsamazariegos48676 ай бұрын
He blocks them from all angles. Their plans are shattered.
@JesuisLord6 ай бұрын
AMEN 🙏
@marilynschmidt64006 ай бұрын
God blocks them from the good angels 😇
@kbar36125 ай бұрын
@@marilynschmidt6400How so? I had a narcissist parent that was a nightmare from birth. Did your god punish me and my 4 siblings and my catholic mother by sending us a narcissist to raise us and mentally abuse his catholic wife using religion to cheat on her and threaten to kill her if she even thought about divorce? I’ll tell you what your GOD did. He rewarded the narcissist parent with a second wife half his age, another child at age 70 and he’s a much worse father at this point. Plus after his entire family got away from him, god sent him some new loyal slaves that made sure he was well taken care of till he died. Yeah god sure does work in mysterious ways. If he existed.
@Lovely_Diva5 ай бұрын
AMEN!!!!!!
@icewolfpack5 ай бұрын
@kbar3612 I honestly think God put you through that challenge so that you could help someone in that similar situations. We are here to help/love/restore each other. God bless you.
@EvaCFricke6 ай бұрын
More than God punishes them, they themselves punish themselves.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
John 16:8 (NKJV) And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.
@Beginnerreadsthebible6 ай бұрын
God gives them A LOT of time to change their ways. His love is INCREDIBLE and patient ❤
@VisibleTimes27 күн бұрын
How do you reconcile that with His love for you and the things you suffered especially if your testimony involves narcissistic parents as well? I'd like to hear your story if you are willing to share.
@jobarkow7636 ай бұрын
This really hits home as my husband was a huge narcissist and as his health declined in the last 10 years of his life everyone around him disappered exceot for me - and I've just recently discovered I have adhd which is a very hard combination - anyway - a month before he passed he went in and was put on a vent and he told me at that time he "died and came back" I guess there was a priest in the room that saw his spirit rise about 6-8" off the bed and come back down - he pulled all the tubes out cuz he thought he was alone and no one was there - nurses came in and didn't put the vent or the pic back in - he went to rehab for 2 weeks (and this was during covid) and came home - at that time he was changed - he was very prejudiced duirng his life and this changed - I noticed he was different - it was the start of dementia for him but the times he was lucid he was different - the last week of his life he apologized for everything he did to me - physical/emotional/mental - cuz he knew that if he didn;t he would go to hell instead of heaven - he constantly apologzed and told me he loved me - so in my thinking he died and when he went to the other side he was told he had to make amends to me or he would not to go to heaven - I told people after that that this week was what I had hoped our marriage of 45 years should have been
@angierox69646 ай бұрын
That sounds like the worst of the worst. I’m so sorry that happened to you it would have been better had he just died so that you didn’t have to heal with all these conflicting emotions. They would have been conflicting anyways but his last week of showing you love And apologizing… To me that seems like his final slam. I wish you happiness and healing and forgiveness of yourself 🙏🏼💕
@redruby56896 ай бұрын
Thats sad, waiting all that time to have him love you all because he was threatened with heaven or hell. He had his choice. You can choose too whether you forgive him or not ! Forgive, let go !!
@scouthmk23125 ай бұрын
peace be with you
@patriciajordan40775 ай бұрын
I took care of my father until he died. For about nine months of his life. And he was an alcoholic and very distant man, emotionally, and physically. As I’m reading your statement that your husband apologized, I think how much I would’ve appreciated hearing that from my father as well. at least you got to hear him say he was sorry and that he had loved you. He loved you the best he could and how he knew how to love. My ex-husband is not in very good shape either at the age of 63. He was a narcissist, alcoholic, drug addict. He’s been homeless for quite a few years now. He has apologized and I have accepted. And now I’m learning to live in peace, joy, and happiness.
@Dknow78126 ай бұрын
Your best video yet. Once you peel back the layers, you realize it is a spiritual issue not a mental one.
@SoraSky14105 ай бұрын
So very true. It is a spiritual battle for their lost souls.
@VisibleTimes27 күн бұрын
Or a combination of both
@liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas9845 ай бұрын
You get back what you have given out,the evil person suffers within,the good person lives in peace, joy, happiness, contentment,let us pray for the narcissist, it's very sad way to live
@VisibleTimes27 күн бұрын
Respectfully, I somewhat agree with your statement "You get back what you have given out..." How does this apply to the person that is being violated? In what ways is this part of the statement true for children of narcissistic parents and those who have narcissistic family members and others outside the family aimed at destroying the "good " in their life. I agree with the second part of the statement but I ask, at what cost? I think about Joseph and Job yet I often perplexed by the lived experience of how the evil assaults from these entities are causing so much damage in my life and I know that I didn't sow that. Nevertheless, I am discovering some areas of my life that were in desperate need of attention in order for me to become my best self. The process is difficult and complicated.
@beautypablotamarini73156 ай бұрын
They abuse all love, respect and good.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV “Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
My cabal of narcs led by 'Zippity's Circus' all love bomb each other. They do hate wholesome things & kindness but that doesn't stop them from treating each other like royalty.
@joantrainor65846 ай бұрын
God did take the narcissist in our family . Finally. The damage he did still lingers.
@goddessgifts35785 ай бұрын
My ex narc was finally taken out of our lives also in October last year. Died alone in hospital after an unfortunate accident.
@Manderz-df8xt6 ай бұрын
I was with a narcissist for 7 years and the hardest part is in the end I was left on the streets with nothing but a trash bag full of clothes and I never heard or saw one negative thing happened to that person everyone just felt bad for them because they played a victim and their family felt pity for them and took them in and started taking care of him again all the while saying I made them miserable while I was sleeping on the street
@beautypablotamarini73156 ай бұрын
Sick family. I'm very very sorry this happened to you. Please, you must be mentally and emotionally prepared if/when that monster come again in your life.
@heneverforesakesme40386 ай бұрын
I want to give you a bit of encouragement. I'm 54 years old and I can see by your picture I have seen a little bit more then you and have a bit more experience. First of all, JUST WAIT. That's all you gotta do is wait. I have a sister that was very beautiful when she was young, had her PICK of men. Men I couldn't even dream of getting a date with. High value, high quality men and she dogged them all out and was mean as a snake to everyone around her, including the family and her friends. Fast forward thirty five years. She's no longer pretty, age has taken hold, she got really chubby, she developed a hump on her back. Men use her as a DNA receptacle, nothing else. My family ignores her because she has used up all their resources. People get tired of cleaning up the mess. Man or woman. So, just WAIT. It might take two weeks, two months, two years or twenty years. But it WILL come back around.
@Manderz-df8xt6 ай бұрын
@@beautypablotamarini7315 lol trust me they already tried. I love me I love Jesus Christ. I have a nice new car and my peace and freedom. I could care less about that situation anymore. The only thing that still is a wound is the love in time I put into something and I genuinely thought was going to be forever. Love and time I cannot get back. And it just turned into a lesson. Open my eyes and gave me some knowledge
@karenzilverberg46996 ай бұрын
Not right. 😢
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
John 16:8 (NKJV) And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.
@ohhmyyken6 ай бұрын
My narc ex girlfriend and her family was so evil to me especially when the relationship was ending. My narc and her family especially her brother got their karma with legal trouble, mental illness, health crisis, and financial hardship. Like back to back. I don’t wish trouble on no one but God/ the universe leaves no stone unturned. The real karma is living in a constant state of hating yourself. That seems like hell on earth.
@bryanutterback40746 ай бұрын
Forgotten literally. It’s so bizarre and traumatizing. Lost everything
@huruduru51446 ай бұрын
These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this..
@Elizabeth-nt7uq6 ай бұрын
I feel like they have no soul, or they just let go of their original human soul they see as weak and powerless in trade for a demonic, nasty replacement they feel more powerful with.. Then the thing inside is now ready to go about throughout the world for the loss of more... Their ultimate goal is to destroy as many souls as possible.. I don't think they "take" a piece, but destroy pieces, as many as they can, until their victim is as empty and lifeless inside as they are.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
That's why Nick nobody, Zippity & RubberShogun actually hate me. They're late stage sociopathic narcs who have to troll people to feel happy. They may swear up & down I'm a pedo for liking anime girls who are 16 but they treat me as narcissistic supply.
@beaglerescue52815 ай бұрын
I remember vividly the first time I saw that glee in my daughter’s eyes while I suffered over her behavior toward me. Sixteen years later, I learned she was a covert narcissist l. Now she has zero power over me and knows it. None of her tactics work on me anymore. Now I’m the gleeful one.
@Sweet-fn6po6 ай бұрын
In my experience the narc’s in my life ended up with health issues and being alone.
@faymoosa50645 ай бұрын
Yes. Married to a covert narcissist for 42yrs. They get worse with age. The mask falls off after many years 😢
@kelleyphillips93416 ай бұрын
I prayed for GOD to show me how best to interact with my narcissist parents and brother. I got a very clear message back, letting me see how sick and hateful they all were towards me. After years of taking the abuse, I finally hit the saturation point and went no contact with them all. GOD is more than enough to replace all of them! I'm so grateful to not be going through this alone. I know GOD is with me and will help me when I am forced to be around them again. I'm at peace, but I know they definitely are not. I'm also extremely grateful for a community of others dealing with the same destructive people I am. I've learned so much from these insightful podcasts and others comments. ❤
@beaglerescue52815 ай бұрын
I’m also no contact with my entire family. I’ll be 60 this year and I have no regrets.
@glowieokenney79156 ай бұрын
My narc is a very very sick man. I should have known when he didn’t even say I looked beautiful on our wedding day. He took off on our wedding night and went gambling with his aunt. Now we are getting divorced 18 years later. Why did I put up with him for so long?! I don’t know! God will take vengeance on him.
@shawnmarie19126 ай бұрын
Yea, I can count on 1 hand the compliments I received in 23 years
@kariroderick15076 ай бұрын
My soon to be ex actually told me I was beautiful on our wedding day . His narcissism didn’t show up till a week or so later. I prayed back in November for God to deal with him because after 26 years of marriage I couldn’t take it anymore. Early January he told me out of the blue that he wanted to leave because of him driving 2 hours a day wasting his time going to work and not doing what he wanted. Then a week later he wanted a divorce because he was tired of being married. All because I stopped taking his bait and not responding to his accusations
@joseenoel80936 ай бұрын
Oh my! Mine never says I'm pretty (although countless others....). It's our 29th yikes and, as usual, I'll go around saying don't know if we'll make it to buds... Got married in white rugby pants/white sweatshirt (it did say Banff) no ring 💍 that's just gross, a lamb 🐑 to the slaughter are we! Honeymoon 1 night then he needed to detox to turn me into baby churner, now he sneak texts and calls the other woman when I'm out (our daughter) cuz I need fixing, oh well, hope she can fix her own baby sitting requirements when her much wanted baby arrives, not wanting a local boy, like me, family all in EU, very unhandy! Hope you do well, maybe more people should be divorced than married, my husband dribbled on, encouraged my daughter's boycott of me, it is like parenting with a toddler!
@marnatieger66526 ай бұрын
Same here ! He told be his back hurt when he saw me! Hes such a horrible person. I’m trying to leave after 20 years
@dakoderii42216 ай бұрын
I've never been married but it seems like that would be one the first things the groom would say upon seeing the bride, if not the very first thing. It should just flow out naturally.
@LavenderandLinen6 ай бұрын
These are such good points! I have often wondered why they just get to go on and on not being held accountable for their crimes, but this makes sense. In fact, a verse occurred to me while I was listening to you: “And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a depraved mind, to do those things that are not proper…” Romans 1:28
@tinaureta98916 ай бұрын
Wow!!!’ Wow!!!! Incredible verse. Yes indeed… it’s so sad, but they refuse to be merciful and loving and grateful to God and others
@deborahcaldwell97756 ай бұрын
That’s a good one.
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
This is the actual truth. God knows what He’s doing. It is not the universe but the duty of a man to humble themselves, surrender to Christ, and live a life of love and support to others. The Creator God Elohim Yahweh has told us this over and over in His Word. They indeed have a reprobate mind and their pride will not allow them to humble themselves under Him and obey living a life of LOVE and obedience to Jesus Christ to the glory of God.
@eyeamphree33372 ай бұрын
@@GodsChosenMekAmoRlol and they are making this about me like I actually need their help to level up in life when they are here to distract me from doing just that. No this is about THEM 😂😂 this is their test & this is my purpose to humble them in the eyes of God 🤷🏿♀️ He knew I wouldn’t back down & bring them all the way to the finish line & reveal their heart’s most wicked desires. Will they pass the test well that’s not my problem. They signed up for this & I was chosen for this ✌🏿
@GodsChosenMekAmoR2 ай бұрын
@@eyeamphree3337 I soooo understand no overstand what you are saying. I went through the same. The narc was a weapon sent by the devil to steal, kill, and destroy my purpose. He did NOT succeed. He wanted to be my god so bad and hates God for it. Not my problem, left him long ago and even FOUR years later and kids almost grown he recently tried to come reason with me for us to coparent and be friends as if “WE” need each other 🤔. I had to remind him I don’t bother you nor checking for you. Life is peaceful and I got the kids stable. Too late to be saying “THEY” need us. No YOU THE NARC ARE STILL NEEDY FOR SUPPLY and need me. They love trying to bring you down to their level. Just shows demonic people never stop. Do not trust their lips stay focused on your own life and purpose. If they are a narc I can tell you without a doubt they never experience peace. No peace for the wicked says the Lord.
@miriam100ful6 ай бұрын
this is the narc parent's worst thing for them is being left on their own.
@maryrnbsn51146 ай бұрын
But if the narcissist plays victim they get the family and the partner is left alone.
@deborahcaldwell97756 ай бұрын
(My mother)
@deeevansnola81786 ай бұрын
That was my father (the narcissist) worst fear was to die alone
@gwenmcgowan32835 ай бұрын
No one wants to die alone. I know a narc who dies not want to be alone, he wants to be married again. I am alone and I am more than content, more than happy because I believe God planned it that way.
@badomaji6 ай бұрын
I see the narcissist collect other narcissists as friends . They meet, communicate, and rake other people - the more vulnerable and unable to defend themselves the better - over the coals and abuse them to alleviate their own self-loathing.
@MJ-qb5ph6 ай бұрын
I wonder if that is because the only ones who can cope with their toxicity is their own - everyone else has fled or will once they understand
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
That's what my narcissist bullies do. They're part of a discord cult & they make trashy live streams about lolcows or anyone that gets on their bad side. I got into one discord argument with them & trolled them, they planned on triggering me but it backfired.
@briandrake68816 ай бұрын
Narcs become a boat with no oars, no rudder, no map and no coast in sight.
@angierox69646 ай бұрын
And they are heading toward a huge waterfall! 😏
@Wayoutgurl6 ай бұрын
Never receive LOVE!! I would absolutely hate being them! You are right!! Right ! Right!
@amywilliams66376 ай бұрын
They age awfully and their own family disowns them, cuts them off financially.
@marilynschmidt64006 ай бұрын
I don't want my father's money. It's dirty money and that was my choice and my choice alone. If I accept money from him it's going towards my composting toilet in my tiny home
@heneverforesakesme40386 ай бұрын
yep.....
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
That's when they don't hold the money. If they do, they will hold on to it till they died. They use money to keep people caged because they have nowhere to go and they are isolated.
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
@@marilynschmidt6400 I would accept my deceased father's money he worked so hard to earn it. The problem is my mother, she's the narc alive and kicking and she said she will cut me from the will and I'm sure she meant it.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
Romans 3:19 (NKJV) Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.
@terriarnold43646 ай бұрын
In general they are very spiritually Evil,have been grown up with a bunch of narc's! I'm surprised I've survived so looong!🙏❤️🙏💜
@this19656 ай бұрын
Honestly, what I see is that he moved on from one day to another to the new supply and he is living a happy life. I’m destroyed. After 2 years of loving him and giving him all my attention, he just disappeared. At first I didn’t understand what is going on. Later I came to know that he was meeting with other women during our relationship. He was registered on dating apps. And the reason for his disappearance was a new long term supply. When I asked for explanation, I couldn’t recognise him anymore. He was so cruel, the monster. I even asked him: who are you? And he said: the devil. He was joking, but I was shocked. Zero emotions. He saw my pain and suffering and kept on joking. My health is destroyed, I’ve lost a lot of weight. I am the shadow of the person I used to be. I don’t think this is fair that they go on, destroying so many lives.
@agotahorvath6 ай бұрын
They drain your power center ( solar plexus) by attaching etheric cords . Get a healer to do a cord cutting session with you , it works wonders to regain your energy as well as to stop obsessing over them.
@Manderz-df8xt6 ай бұрын
In the end they will get what the Lord has planned. Let Go you will be okay. I was abandoned 6 times in a 7 year span of time begging pleading trying to keep the relationship alive as hard as I could. Then was abandoned and left alone on the street in a rain storm. On the street with nothing for over a month. Just last June. Now only the last few months I've become free of that pain. But my eyes are open I've gained so much knowledge from our Lord Jesus Christ and from other people who understand. Just forgive, pray for them hope them the best and take care of yourself. You will be okay I promise. I still cry I still have pain from it but I know it's from the amount of love I had put into it that was abused. I pray for you and the wounds you have are healed, in Jesus Christ of Nazareth name I pray. He loves you, I love you, I love everyone and i can not stand seeing people in pain from their heart being abused. You deserve so much more
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
He wasn't lying when he said he's the devil. Feel sorry for whoever is his new supply. You know what she will get but I agree they are given too many chances to keep on destroying more lives. I'm not as concern with their karma as much as their future victims. It's feels terrible to not being able to stop them from damaging more people. I'm not surprised the amount of narcissistic people in this world is rising up; they either corrupt others or make more victims and healing takes years, economical means, strengh, patience...it's not something you can heal from in a month.
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
@@agotahorvath It hurts everything. The psoas too.
@this19656 ай бұрын
@@Manderz-df8xt thank you for your kind wishes
@lanat28776 ай бұрын
Here is my take: I had not been much of a believer until I experienced narcissistic abuse. "Thanks" to the narc, who is out of my life forever, I found faith. I believe God let the narc hurt me "just enough" (trust me, it was a lot) to reveal the true nature of everything I have ever known about myself and the narc and the world. And some truly odd things happened to the narc. Basically, it feels like I dodged a bullet. Today, I am more mindful, more grateful, definitely wiser, and even kinder to people. It feels like a lesson I simply had to learn. And for a narc, "Let go and let God" works like a charm.
@quasimodo6146 ай бұрын
Praise God. So glad you found positives from your situation ❤
@madeforsomuchmore5 ай бұрын
This week I finally come out of 32 yrs captivity and the best part he thought he wouldn't have to pay child support, as 2 months from now last child graduate high school. I had to learn the whole process of filing myself, with no monetary support from him the last 7 months. Well he now has back support of 3 months and 2 going forward. And he wasn't given an opportunity to get any of my retirement plan, also had to sign paperwork to honor 4 years of tuition free college. I had to learn to trust God and obey,so now on the other side of this divorce, I can look back and see the ultimate Heavenly Judge had complete control and showed in court. His choice of new supply has 3 young kids and she is 6 yrs younger and very much shorter than I, but our 3 children are grown and have futures. 30, 28, 19 yrs old. So I will proudly be empty nested and the only person I have to listen and answer to is.. My Heavenly Father who has always had my back. As I was fatherless and mother less all my childhood, so I now know that made me very vulnerable as ex and I met at young age in military. But lessons and experiences now make me wiser and stronger . Btw, he really showed out when he literally moved in with new supply while our divorce wasn't even set for court date Farewell ex of 32 yrs.. I am free of captivity
@kbar36125 ай бұрын
Religion is a tool used by narcissists to control the weak minded. Don’t be a weak mind. Seek guidance from real existing people that live here on earth.
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
Beautiful ❤❤❤
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
@@madeforsomuchmoreGod bless you 🙌🙌🙌. This is soooooo true. The verse the steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord and Romans 8:28 come to mind. All things work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to purpose. When I won the divorce he tried to stop paying and this was right after thanksgiving. Little did he know God at the divinely right time sent a job to me that afforded me to move after 2 years of being in my parents basement on an air mattress with 3 kids. It seemed like he got off easy but God was allowing and blocking things to do what He wanted to do to me. The Lord sent me the info on his cheating and lies and it blew me away but I realized that God shielded it from me the 16 years because for 14 of those I was a homemaker. The narc had his intentions but God used it to honor my prayer to raise my children in the Lord. They are amazing kids and gave me little to no problems, all know God for themselves, and we laugh and have fun and peace in our home but back to my point. Once I got the divorce he stopped paying but now I know if I was making all I made and then the ordered child/spousal support I would’ve been over the max income to live here. Also, God had a stimulus come out at that time to help me take care of the kids and have the money for moving fees and to fully furnish our home. The narc thought they were hurting me but didn’t know God used them like pharaoh. We never lacked a thing and he too had to do back pay and had to pay a significant amount they stressed him out. Played victim to the kids but the evil they do will not go unpunished. I have learned to trust God on everything regarding the narc. Like I said God sent info to me with no money and represented myself in court and did so well he had to just put his hands up. I am forever blown away at how God fought for me and these kids. I kept my hands clean and let him dig his own ditch. These memories are keeping me now as he has moved in with a lady and proposed in 5 myths didn’t even tell kids until the weekend they moved in her home. I say my God they never stop, never learn but I looked at it again that my kids will be in a better home are old enough to know what he’s teaching is sin and they will make better choices. When they were sick recently he does nothing now he is sick with pneumonia and they are starting to know the truth even when it is hard for them to accept. In the end the narc will stand before GOD and give account for how they handled their spouse and children. He will have to answer for much but I try to keep my eyes on God and keep thanking Him IAM FREE🙌😭🤯. God bless you on your journey as well. ❤
@rahulm28276 ай бұрын
I've seen and experienced it myself that all spiritual progress, and real religiosity always starts with the Self. Your access to God is always your own Self. And since narcissists abhor their own self and their own soul, they actively destroy their own soul, cummulate endless sins they will be held accountable for. And I 100% agree that bad people will go to hell. And not the kind of hell where souls are released from after sitting out their bad Karma, but that worst kind of hell, where their soul is ultimately destroyed. And if you think about it: the very base for narcissism is just those things that every religion warns you of: jealousy, pride, arrogance, lust, greed, cruelness. If narcissists or any type of bad person would actively fight against a single bad quality then surely God would help them and give them strength for their fight. But they chose not to fight against their bad qualities and even side with their bad qualities, become a slave of their bad qualities and ultimately are lead to their own destruction. And I also believe that if good people are harmed by bad people, the good people will receive a compensation from God, be it time, or tears or energy or recognition or just good things that were out of reach for them because they were caged by a narcissist.
@annamcfarlane91206 ай бұрын
I asked god why he has given a good person this awful man. Then I realised it was the other way around. God gave me to him as a gift, as a lesson.
@oklahomaisok6 ай бұрын
It’s a hard lesson to learn for sure…
@karentan55316 ай бұрын
very hard lesson yes...
@jvnd27856 ай бұрын
And what is the "lesson" that I had to learn as a victim? Being permanently disabled with 20 seizures a day and excruciating fibromyalgia- and nothing to look forward to but more of the same? Being all alone, fending for myself ever since I was a little kid, never knowing what normalcy looks like/feel like? Suffering from su*cidal depressions for 20 + years?
@jaynestarrett77795 ай бұрын
i can understand what you are saying, seems a strange lesson, who would need a lesson like that?
@kbar36125 ай бұрын
When it’s a parent and they feed you nothing but bull shit from birth to purposely sabotage you from being able to survive as an adult, then throw you away, beg you to come back even though they somehow have half a dozen new people already kissing their ass 24/7 till the day they died. I didn’t see god punishing the narcissist in ANY way. More like rewarding the narcissist with many more WILLING victims.
@schannstewart93855 ай бұрын
God took me away from my narcassist husband at the time. It was good thing cuz my spirit was almost destroyed
@CryptoProphet6 ай бұрын
They are weakest among us. They have allowed/chosen to allow demons to work through and possess them. They are already gone unless they take up the HARD JOB of finding themselves and moving towards goodness. Unlikely.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
Yeah I'd like to see more join the path of light like Lee Hammock but sadly most narcs are demons to the core. Lee Hammock type narcs are as rare as tamed alligators
@cg57245 ай бұрын
I actually watched my ex narcissist eyes turn coal black when I caught him in a lie. They are EVIL.
@yolandacastano43216 ай бұрын
I'm 77 year old lady I live in a senior building before this year I've never heard of the word narcissism but I know somebody that's like that I hired him years ago do Penny and Plumbing in my mother's house when she passed away and that's what he did he always came to me for a while and we had dinner and movies and then he went away and he never came back I called him he never responded to my calls or texts or anything it's like you just disappeared I don't understand what the situation is but now I know what is they're grown children they want attention from everybody else without giving back attention no matter what they're grown children they work and they are educated to a point but emotionally they've never grew up I've known him for 15 years I thought he cared about me but now that I know what narcissism is I'm done thank you for all this education about what that person is that I know
@sarahgilmore99906 ай бұрын
Definitely a deterioration of health and looks. Blessings they may have received while with their supply is stripped away like a job, home, friendships
@cressiddabreo56836 ай бұрын
1000000%
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
I've noticed narcs tend to age harder & faster than normal people.
@jessblulove6 ай бұрын
My narcissistic ex-boyfriend got jumped and beat up just like he used to hit me but worse and he too mentioned how his actions come around.
@Pistonhammer6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this , it's comments like this that tell me to keep going strong in life 🫶❤️
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
I'd like to hear more stories of narcs getting beat up. I'm really strong but I've gotten tons of online abuse from narcs that I could fold up in person. Internet has made narcs alot nastier & more comfortable being their full selves.
@AliciaGuitar6 ай бұрын
My ex too... his own cousin beat him up when he realized he was abusing and cheating on me. I had no idea at first... he just showed up late from work one day all beat up. Then i remarried (too soon), and it was second verse same as the first... and his "martial arts instructor" beat him up. I used air quotes because it was really a bunch of stoners playing kung fu in their basement.
@Brandg11195 ай бұрын
Romans 12:19-21 ”Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.“
@user-wi9hv2pb2q6 ай бұрын
I like to think that divinity is love and narcissists cannot find love outside of self love, and for them it's mixed with fear and hate.
@indigosungirl2 ай бұрын
Believe it or not, after much examination I’ve deduced and see it is alllll fear!! Moving goalposts all the time for fear of having a vulnerable emotion or things out of place because something out of place disturbs their fear of being uncomfortable. It’s very interesting it’s all fear based!
@imnmbrone14926 ай бұрын
I called my Narc “beautiful” after only knowing her for a few weeks. Her reply was a horrific expression of terror followed by “I don’t allow people to love me.” That is their eternal punishment: refusal to be loved or give love 💔
@peggyeldridge48276 ай бұрын
OMG that is something my terrible ex would say. Dont caress me with love, it makes me cringe.
@CodyCole806 ай бұрын
@@peggyeldridge4827 They literally hate genuine love.
@Hetal286 ай бұрын
It’s hard to believe that Narc will suffer but I surely believe in law of karma and justice of the almighty Also I believe that god wants us to stand up for ourselves and not fear them
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
Romans 3:19 (NKJV) Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.
@ghenry45136 ай бұрын
Honestly I know a lot of bad narcissists and they don't get karma because they find another unwitting victim who has a low IQ or who also has narc traits and they feed off each other. Eventually narcs make money in this world because society today worships vanity, ency and fake people. If they even do experience karma, they wouldn't even know it because they probably are ingrained in popular religions and think they are holy and good for going to church. This is my real life experience and until I see otherwise, I don't believe they get karma. They do, however, ruin their friends; ,family members', and other associates' lives though, and that looks like karma for their victims to people who are shallow, superficial and low IQ.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
If karma exists why do terrible things happen to the best of people?
@sherrymills64696 ай бұрын
They end up alone because no one can stand to deal with them.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
Or they join online cabals with other terminal narcissists & have to pick on people to feel happy
@Blonde1116 ай бұрын
I DONT THINK THEY WILL BE ALONE, THEY ALWAYS HAVE A NEW SUPPLY.
@jvnd27856 ай бұрын
No. Their victims are left all alone and- often times- permanently disabled as a result of the abuse. Meanwhile, the narc will have a supply of sorts for the rest of his/her life.
@veronicakiwanuka2475 ай бұрын
True
@francisfischer76205 ай бұрын
Bingo.
@natividadarreaga34016 ай бұрын
Hi, I grew up w a narcissistic sister. I see it now and I'm 60 yrs old...she is 5 years older than me. I grew up w her "brow beating" and bullying. I had a ?? I dont know what the word is but I grew up in her shadow. Luckily, I got married, had kids and my life is beautiful! Thank the Lord! But, my sister? Still tge same. No kids, no marriage, always right in her own eyes. Always looking for her next target. Luckily we don't live in same city. But, when we do see each other on family get together, like Christmas,nor Resurrection Sunday, I always offer a hug and a "hello". I dont think I have ever had a real conversation w her bc I walk away from her. You ask what do I think God does w a narcissist? I think He has mercy for them all their breathing days on this planet. Our duty, or at least mine, because I belong to the Most High, is to pray and repent for her...Prayerfully this spirit of narcissim, hate, unforgiveness, jealousy, oppression and bitterness will be lifted and my sister will be delivered before eternity comes her way. That's what I think God does with a narcissist. Eternity is for everyone, with or without God Almighty, Creator of the Universe, Who was, and is and will come again, the Most High. Thanks for asking!❤
@lee-annsingh29376 ай бұрын
I've personally witnessed how a narcissistic father suffers after his children are all grown up and see their father for what he really is, this in itself is torture to the father who thought he would always be all powerful and a God unto himself, children never forget how he treated and abused them and their mom, this becomes his punishment, and he too realizes this.
@jayashreethakkar77836 ай бұрын
Namastey 🙏🏻 Danish watching your video gave me some peace .I thought narcs die unpunished
@Jolyn8886 ай бұрын
So far, after one full year of no contact, all I see is that he is living his best life, prospering, and I have been left in the dust suffering the wreckage of having lost almost everything including my sanity. He looks better than ever and I look worse than ever. I am trapped in my mind with hideous ruminations and a heart which has been devastated. He gets to just continue on doing his thing, looking impressive while fooling his friends and family. I on the other hand, have nobody other than my three young adult children and I am completely isolated; shell of who I used to be, and a tortured anxious and depressed wreck of a person 💔 If I wasn’t afraid that he would retaliate against me and my kids, I would out him to everyone who knows him for being the psychotic monster he is.
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
No one will believe you. They are masters at manipulation.
@user-dv9xx3yy8v6 ай бұрын
Life is unfair noh? The bad ones thrive. Karma and god isn't real.
@lilu67666 ай бұрын
Always and forever be no contact. Get help. It's there, and it will help you. It takes time, but it will help. You have the potential to heal.
@indervirsidhu85496 ай бұрын
Love yourself. Heal yourself.
@theodorawohler22136 ай бұрын
You are telling the story of my life. I worked so hard, he hardly worked. During out divorce proceedings I found out how much money he had set aside for himself. I was paying his health insurance and alimony, he couldn’t find a job ( with a PhD in engineering). Now he is making more money than he ever did, treating the kids and their families to vacations, etc. i am frozen I can’t make a decision regarding my future after retirement. I have been filled with rage, to the point it is unhealthy. I have prayed that God would take this from me. Little by little I spend less time thinking about my anger. I am learning things will play out but in God’s time. 12:23
@nancymelloh42225 ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining. Our son is married to a narcissist. She has destroyed our family and he let her. He can't see the forrest for the trees. How does anyone forget 50+ years of family. Always supported, loved and encouraged him. Prayers everyday for a miracle.
@Royal_Rabbits5 ай бұрын
I agree with this video. I also believe God puts certain people in a narcissists life to plant a seed of hope 🌱
@janiced.hatcher12726 ай бұрын
Might as well keep going Isaiah 48:22- There is no peace, saith the Lord, unto the wicked. Proverbs 15:27- He that is greedy of gain troubleth his own house; but he that hateth gifts shall live Proverbs 4:16- For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall. Proverbs 4:17- For they eat the bread of wickedness, and drink the wine of violence. Proverbs 4:19- The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble.
@TheMistysFavs6 ай бұрын
Psalm 5"5 Psalm 6:8,.
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
YESSSSS NOOOOOO PEACE FOR THE WICKED🙌
@cheritoms40405 ай бұрын
My x was a narcissist. He died at 50. 12 years ago. I’m 72 now. He was a horrible man. I stayed with him 13 years of suffering with him. A lot of Verbal abuse.
@lizedion13936 ай бұрын
There is GOD, the CREATOR, who set a natural law and a spiritual law, and that is, 'You must reap what you sow'. That law never fails.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
It sometimes works but more often than not, narcs never receive what they put out. Illuminaightii might have lost a lot of subscribers but she's living quite comfortably.
@1111spiritualone6 ай бұрын
i needed to here this! 🙏. Although the relationship wasn’t real for them it was for me so i know i will receive real joy, happiness, and a healthy relationship. My time is coming. Knowing they will never experience this is satisfying.
@yuu_miran6 ай бұрын
The priest at my church said: God is both the Ultimate Mercy and the Ultimate Justice. He is merciful but also has to judge our actions. Here’s what happened to my father after I was saved by St Nicholas he got a major heart attack suddenly after which his health declined and he eventually looked much older his age. I cant say he changed 180 degrees but he did realized he needed God’s forgiveness and started going to church for some time. He never said sorry to me directly but he did become less violent and died a horrible sad death. I hope he can fully repent his wrongdoings in afterlife now before the final judgement comes.
@rosiemcking726 ай бұрын
You are only saved by JESUS. No other deity in humankind has EVER claimed to "save" except HIM ALONE. Time to start thanking and giving praise to HIM asap. You need NO priest or pastor to save you either.. Start a relationship directly with Yeshua Jesus today.
@RS-xe2uq6 ай бұрын
Jesus is the only one that can save human race, Saints are dead men, they cannot save you sir, seek Jesus, ask him into your heart, repent of your sins and believe that he died for you, make him Lord is your life, then watch what he does for you! It’s amazing to follow Jesus and thank him for everything!
@FastLearners.6 ай бұрын
Thx for writing this
@yuu_miran6 ай бұрын
@@rosiemcking72 Of course I was saved by Jesus but havent you heard about StNicholas??
@yuu_miran6 ай бұрын
@@RS-xe2uq its a pity you dont believe in saints. They were given power to even resurrect dead while still being alive, even more so now after ascending to Heaven. Its even testified by Jesus himself in the New Testament. You should really read carefully there.
@faymoosa50645 ай бұрын
Yes. The Almighty doesn't like pride and arrogance. ❤
@indigosungirl2 ай бұрын
Or even False representations of it
@santitarodriguez37746 ай бұрын
Always, I am great full for your education. Plus, I like 👍 your hairstyle. Blessings. Amen 🙏🏽
@LDR015 ай бұрын
This was incredibly insightful; thank you! I unfortunately have a narcissistic mother, and it took me a long time to realize that I am lovable just as I am. I think when narcissists are faced with their reality, they physically fall apart, still pushing even doctors away with the best intentions of caring for them. They are their own worst enemy and don't have any capacity to learn. They suffer from the poverty of the soul, of humanity, and of dignity. Wishing everyone love and understanding ❤.
@andreayotte33965 ай бұрын
I believe God gives everyone free will and loving forgiveness. But we are all here to learn
@FastLearners.6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! It was so soothing and relieving to listen to your explanation. I have a narcissistic mother who has been abusing me since many years, I am unable to leave her but trying to find out a way to cut off! Praying about it.
@INFJparadox6 ай бұрын
All true! Being an INFJ I am their main prey. My mother is a narcissist too. I know they will receive their karma for their evil ways and trust in that. Just wish I could see it💖🙏💖
@glavergnetrampe6 ай бұрын
I have lived with a narcistic for 13 yrs & it was hell! He finally died of cancer 2.5 years ago. The Devine gift you mentioned he once told me that. That lasted for a very short time. The things I lived through were so cruel! I loved him in spite hoping things would change.Wrong! I bear the scars!
@RRthee16 ай бұрын
I appreciate this because I feel like he gets to stay on top of the world while I remain in pain.
@harimaxrealty67866 ай бұрын
My mother is a narcissist...my in laws both were narcissistic. My husband is a narcissist. My children recognized him and they are insisting me to leave him. I want to but waiting for the appropriate time
@Ericasentertainments5 ай бұрын
Once I become close to God I began to see my mother for the narcissistic that she is. I know my absence bothers her, whether she’ll ever admit it or not. I, however, I’m at peace i’ve been no contact for over a year now 😊
@pennyacme3806 ай бұрын
Thank you, Danish for sharing your wisdom with us. Everything you said about the narc creating their own hell makes complete sense.
@shunmugapriya41076 ай бұрын
I still see him happily enjoying while he emotionally abuses me all the time. I wondered what happens to him as there is no justice here. And I found your video.
@samchalohana44236 ай бұрын
I dis agree my Mom always starved me in the name of God and religion, saying it will help you in next world, she lived for 92 yrs did whatever she liked to, to the extent of assassinating my character, was on bed for 2 yrs she was not alone I took care of her, died peacefully, and here I am still suffering alone physically as well as mentally. She was never exposed, to me this is total injustice to me
@yvonneherdman49515 ай бұрын
Sam, sadly for her, she will receive justice, and it will go on for eternity.
@deborahcaldwell97756 ай бұрын
How did their lives end? My maternal grandmother (75), my mother (77), my brother (80) and my lifelong friend Alfred ((82) all ended their lives on their backs, screaming for attention with mouths open like starving baby birds. My first husband (80) was mummified in body bandages, on his back in the hospital, after being burned completely all over when his summer house gas stove exploded. No words from him no screaming. Dreadful.
@cheleeelbon50146 ай бұрын
I married a narcissistic that was ‘the worlds greatest conman’, Sam Cutler. Look him up. He wasn’t who he said he was. Lived on the coattails of famous people by getting a few good photos and conning a lot of people. I was in the dark till I wasn’t and then divorced him. You are so right about the old man narcissist. His own children didn’t even keep in contact with him. I was the only one, even though divorced and in a completely different country, who called for a wellness check, after he went silent on social media, his main source of fuel because he had everyone convinced he was famous too. Needles to say, the police found him dead, and what looked like for several months. I wish I knew about narcism earlier!
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
1 Samuel 24:12 May the Lord judge between you and me. And may the Lord avenge the wrongs you have done to me, but my hand will not touch you. John 16:8 (NKJV) And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.
@beautypablotamarini73156 ай бұрын
As victim of psychopath narc I slowly progress with help of others: people here on yt, abused women on meetings in social service and their stories, neighbours. I still can't believe such idiots exist. They must wear some special signs or badges so we all know who they are when they are out of their houses.
@m998hmmwv76 ай бұрын
They do.. just look at them 😂
@Lyrielonwind6 ай бұрын
I agree. Where's the Cain's stigma? I feel like those abused are the ones who carry that sign by the way they can spot an empath at sight.
@SlashinatorZ6 ай бұрын
I've also been abused by psychopathic narcs. There's even a video in the Nick Nobody archives of me arguing with the worst narcs on a panel & trolling them back. Morons were trying too hard to be venomous & it didn't work.
@flowerchild896 ай бұрын
👋 hello Danish! I always look forward to seeing your videos! Have a blessed day 🙏🕊️💞😊
@andreamaclachlan9806 ай бұрын
I'm not sure where you stand with Jesus Christ and salvation, Danish, I do pray you know Him and have accepted His gift of salvation. So much of what you spoke reminded me of so many Scriptures that back up/ support what you spoke of. You have His word in your heart, I pray you also have Him. Love and blessings ❤
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
THISSSSS ❤❤❤❤💯. The purpose is connected to our Creator John 1:1-5. This man has been purposed to teach and educate on narcissism. It is a gift how clear he can communicate but in the end it is for the glory of God Jesus The Creator. The universe was created by HIM but the world would not acknowledge Him as Creator. Yeshua.
@mollyshealingcorner5 ай бұрын
I would love it if Hindu people spoke to Christians this way, because y'all would lose your minds 😅
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
@@mollyshealingcorner not really. God has given men free will and when you believe Gods truth you are compelled by love to share that truth. Jesus is the only one to say I am thee way, the truth, and the life and NO MAN comes to the Father God unless He comes through me. It’s amazing that all faiths believe in a prophet Jesus but don’t believe what He says. It’s a LOVE thing because inclusion holds no weight to what our Creator Elohim, Yahweh, Adonai, I AM has said. Wish I could change that to be inclusive but man don’t get to make the rules. Our Creator who has revealed himself to mankind through His Word and then His Only Son who he gave for the world is clear. We know the beginning (Genesis) to what is to come in the end (Revelation) and see all His heart towards our constant sin all in between. I pray many will focus on the great love of God and hear His take on the matter. There is to be NO OTHER gods or idols besides Him. He is God alone hear ye Him 🥰🙌📖🙏. Sent with love ❤️
@mollyshealingcorner5 ай бұрын
@@GodsChosenMekAmoR Honey, men wrote the bible so they absolutely are the ones making all this up. I promise you that you can absolutely know deep love that comes from the divine even if you were never taught about Jesus. And Jesus would agree, because when he lived, there was no him to teach him these things. I love and appreciate Jesus but let's face it, humans are the ones who create separation, division, religious rules and labels. Like I said, if you got approached by someone saying "one day I pray you find Krishna in your heart and accept him" you would probably resist that, because it's not of your culture or how you were raised. So consider that when you speak to others who are not from your culture and don't have your beliefs. Love is radical acceptance and not everyone needs to believe the same things to experience it.
@GodsChosenMekAmoR5 ай бұрын
@@mollyshealingcorner I hear you and unfortunately we ALL can have opinions but one day will absolutely know when we take that last breath and stand before God Almighty. One of us is wrong although man teaches us that is not the case as if man made the rules. A serious stance of wait and see to play with our souls. It does not offend me for people (and I’ve talked to many) to share with me what they believe because Gods Word has told us man has tried to find and make their own way since the beginning of time. I get it. I’m going to keep obeying the only teacher in the history of all religions who did not just die and whom other religions point to as a good man and prophet. Either I believe all of the Word of God or none. Again, He has given free will to all man but we will give account of our lives and denial of His Son on that day. The beauty of life is you have free will, our choices and we will live and die with them. Until then God said in His Word to tell all the world that I so loved it that I gave my only begotten Son that whosoever (come on free will) believes in HIM (Jesus) will not perish (eternally separated from me) but receive eternal life (with me). Again, our choice but it was nice to meet you!
@iahelcathartesaura38876 ай бұрын
YOU ARE READING MY MIND and my current situation, again.
@kristeandreatujague70166 ай бұрын
Their controlling, deliberate cruelty festers inside of them and manifests as illness within them. ❤
@dyhannahall48375 ай бұрын
They are never satisfied, and we are never good enough.
@betaylor50316 ай бұрын
My ex-narc of 15 years biggest fear was realized after his death. “He is all hat and no cattle” is what his peers and friends said about him. The Truth about his facade was revealed under his own roof during the estate sale...The fountain of ‘what do you want to know. I will tell you everything’ was there...How I enjoyed purging the good, bad and ugly. It was painful, humiliating, embarrassing, cathartic, liberating, and beautiful. I was not ugly about anything. Lovely and delicate with the jaw dropping truth. God knew exactly what I needed to begin to heal The best way to finally to say goodbye, start to let go as I close the book of him in a healthy manner.
@Hope-cz4fg5 ай бұрын
My narcissist husband turned our grown up children against me. He was never a father in their lives until they were grown up. He is a cruel man. Good luck to them all, I do not miss any of them, it’s peaceful. Hope God takes care of him. Thank you for your videos.
@tinyvr70366 ай бұрын
The narc I knew for many years left a horrible, scathing lasting wound on a fellow flying monkey she nurtured/ enabled like there was no tomorrow to pay, and he did the same to his family. She died miserable and angry at God but he has a heart disease now and is angry , too. The legacy lives on? Remember the Pharoah in the Bible who hardened his heart? What was his fate? He knew better too. Thanks for your wonderful wisdom, Mr. Danish. 🙏Keep praying for you and us. Praise God for His mercies everyday.
@junejelm4236 ай бұрын
Wonderful analysis, thank you.... Narcissists avoid thinking about God...
@karenzilverberg46996 ай бұрын
Excellent presentation! 100% correct.
@cyny63056 ай бұрын
I receive so much from your experience and hard work, sir. I also believe that after death they are not rewarded. A spiritual guide I followed for many years suggested that these "Dark Entities" simply return here to Earth after death as Earth is essentially run by evil people, as much as we want to deny this. Earth will never be a paradise, though that does not mean we can't strive always to make it peaceful and joyful. This guide did not believe in a "hell". I believe that my narcissist mother has returned here and will continue her destructive ways. My sister is even worse. My mother was not aggressive. My sister is both highly aggressive and dangerous. I'm afraid always because her flying monkeys surveille and stalk me. It never stops and I am unable to entirely get away. I just wanted to offer another possible answer for those wondering what happens to these evil entities if they do not believe in the traditional idea of a Hell Dimension. Though I also cannot be certain. Thank you.
@annmurray28326 ай бұрын
Judgement was set in place ,recieving those that rejected God's way thru Jesus.The blessing of Abraham,protection ,health.They walk away from .Choosing theyre own way ,money ,admiration,praise.Justlike satan wanted and God kicked him out!
@susaniagallo20495 ай бұрын
All i can say is i was with 2 narcs. Made my daily life a living hell. Ask yourself why you stay or stayed. Heres the true answer...we in our heart of hearts we have hope they will change...BUT WHEN YOU LEARN THE WORD NARCISITIC AND STUDY...YOU REALIZE IT WILL NEVER EVER CHANGE. YOU ARE DOOMED BC OF THEM. The second you stay is bc you love them more then yourself.... think about that. You live someone who does not love you and your only worth is their evil to erode your entire being. omg Our heavenly Father who created us...NOT FOR THAT. SEEK GOD AND LOVE YOURSELF AND RUN TO THE HILLS TO PEACE AND TRANQUIITY YOU DESERVE. YES ITS HARD TO LET GO...AND SAD...BUT OMY....YOUR MIND AND BODY WILL BE RESTORED. ITS A BLESSINGVWAITING TO HAPPEN... THANK YOU DANISH !!! LOVE YOUR TEACHING....RIGHT ON! signed...a survivor ✝️🙏💃❣️ from the demons of narcissium !😂🎉❤
@soniabechus51226 ай бұрын
Excellent video, absolute detail of my “previous “ life! Thank you kindly.
@Michatember6 ай бұрын
They experience one bad luck after the other. I look at them with disbelief and in silence observing and soaking in the karma "real life series". They don't see it but I do
@JustDemi1276 ай бұрын
Recently left the narc the only thing I’ve seen God do 7 months post breakup was him losing his high paying job…
@CodyCole806 ай бұрын
🤭 That’s a lot because that’s his livelihood.
@yvonneherdman49515 ай бұрын
And his pride!
@SSL-y6u5 ай бұрын
My ex narcissist husband did get his consequences and still experiencing it. But it did look for a while nothing was happening to him and I was suffering. I left him when our daughter was 2 yrs old. I was crying a lot, almost went broke. He was just pretending he was fine cuz he always wanted to look good, keep up appearances. But every time I saw him, his hair was quickly going grey, he was losing his charm, he was looking tired and older fast. Eventually, he was fired from his job, squandered his money til he went broke, lost his friends, lost other women partners. His bank account was garnished by the government, then lost his drivers license and passport, cuz he refused to pay child support. I got a well paying job, saved up enough money for myself and my daughter to be fine. He ended up mentally insane and living on the street (so someone told me when they saw him last). He then texted me and started begging me for money, a computer, then he suddenly disappeared. My daughter hasn’t heard nor seen him since. That was 2 years ago. She’s now 15 years old. That’s Karma for all the pain I went through. 😊
@timirhonon6 ай бұрын
I believe in karma. But it seems karma Working only for me, not for them