I cannot wait for you to be seen by all- your music opens up the deep wounds that no one wants to sing about. And yet here you are ❤
@chloeslater7231 Жыл бұрын
This has become the music I listen to when I feel impossibly alone. Incredibly grateful. x
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
Your never alone when there is a song you believe in and can totaly relate to. Thats the Rory effect.
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
Rory your refurbishment of your self is nothing but pure genious. You still deliver hard hitting, story telling lyrics. I know why my son in heaven liked you and I make no secret of it I do too. Never stop Roxanne the world is your oyster and how you deal with that will define you x.
@monikagodynska7474 Жыл бұрын
I’m really glad to see your ADHD channel getting the love and recognition it deserves and I hope the same will be true for your music! You’re doing an amazing job despite all the curveballs, always remember that ❤
@lisayoung9082 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This song hit me so hard!! I finally found the strength to cut that final branch, no contact and now I can finally start to heal.
@simonbevan7831 Жыл бұрын
Love this song so much, you don’t realise how many people you have helped and this song especially relates to so many of us, thank you so much for helping us with your lyrics ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
Domestic disputes or even violence resonate way beyond puberty and adulthood its like a stain on your brain. I hear you and wish you might find closure one day.
@wilM2624 күн бұрын
Wow, this touched me so deep! This is therapy Rory, you're 'allowing' people to feel those feelings that they didn't think they were allowed to have! And your voice is incredible, it's so different but perfect! Thank you for this Rory ❤ sending you love 😘
@bottomofastairwell Жыл бұрын
You have NO IDEA how much I relate to this. For basically my entire childhood I was verbally abused and gaslit into thinking that I was the problem, that all of the issues with our family were my fault. It got so bad I didn't want to live anymore at all. thankfully I'm doing so much better now, but I had to go no contact with almost everyone in my family except my sister. Thankfully it gets better. But songs like this always touch me in the most intense way
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
You were never the problem, the issue lays square on the floor of the abuser, never forget that. Put in it a locker in your head, walk tall and move on. I know what I ask of you is a tall order but once you enter a life without drama you will not only know the difference your body and mind will feel it too.
@bottomofastairwell10 ай бұрын
@@cappyGLA oh I know. It's since been a long time and I've had plenty of time to heal and move on and realize I wasn't at fault. And thankfully, I'm in a much better place now
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
@@bottomofastairwell I am a believer that mental trauma has 3 stages, first being shock, second being anger and the last that you have finaly figured it out.Sadly a lot of people dont make it past stage two, but makes me smile you did.
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
@@bottomofastairwell Every victim who can not process what is happening to them in real time for some strange reason always seem to think the issue lays at their feet. Its music to my ears to read you have survived. I always say "survived" as just like you said some people do not and yet someone that could see the path you career on choose not to intervine. Its truely sad but I am truely pleased reading this post of yours. Gods love and protection x.
@bottomofastairwell10 ай бұрын
@@cappyGLA oh, it's not strange for victims to place the blame on themselves at all. it's incredibly common with abuse, and that's because abusers are very good at manipulating victims into believing things that aren't true. if people could see the abuse for what it is and process it in real time, while it was happening, they wouldn't put up with that shit. but as children, especially as young children, we're hardwired to look to our parents or primary caregivers for everything. for explanations about how the world works, for answers to all our questions. we're wired to depend on those caregivers for everything and to just believe them. so of course if they're lying to us and feeding us BS, it's gonna mess with us as kids, and require some re-learning and healing. but the good news is that we CAN heal. and i'm glad i've been able to do that. all i can do is share what i've been through and hope that maybe it helps someone out there feel a little less alone
@sazninetails1192 Жыл бұрын
Rox you are amazing, your songs speak to me and I have shared them so many times with others who all get a bit emotional as they feel heard. You and Rich have been an inspiration. Massive hugs to you both
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
Its Amazing and inspiring the age difference all the people posting on here but with one common denominator that in our youth or even our adulthood was the victim of mental collaterol. Its even more inspiring when people come out and post about their experiences. Reason being one person might feel like they are going through a mental crisis alone. Surrounded by the righ family and friends you will never be alone.
@laurarosner199422 күн бұрын
Your songs are incredibly healing! Thank you so much! I cut ties with my mother two years ago and it’s still so hard, especially because people think it’s cruel that I cut ties with her. But they don’t see how I learned to breath again. I still feel guilty that I feel better without her. But that’s it! I feel BETTER without her. I send all the love and strength to those who are in a similar situation. You are not cruel for cutting ties in a toxic relationship. ❤
@199520sophie Жыл бұрын
this song has really help me get through so much .. thank you for being amazing x
@its_r_o_r_y Жыл бұрын
So sorry you have been through this. Appreciate the kindness x
@mzvibe2232 Жыл бұрын
@@its_r_o_r_y this is Epic!
@LoonaStarr Жыл бұрын
You are so amazing that your lyrics speak to my childhood memories. My mother went around telling all my family that I was a schizophrenic at 2 years old. She constantly put me in mental hospitals. The doctors checked me in and checked me out, saying nothing was wrong. Then, 3 months later, she would do it again.
@cappyGLA10 ай бұрын
This is sad reading, I hope you have prevailed the awful sutuation you were in x.
@ShaunaMarieGАй бұрын
Dedicated to the sacrificial black sheep of the family. We take on all the blame for all the narcissistic family problems. This is our anthem 🩵🦋 Heartbreakingly beautiful as always, Rox 🩵🙌🏻
@gt5590 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this amazing worlds. This song is important to me because it represents my adolescence,I hope you will make new songs. I love playing family tree and singing it with my guitar. Love you❤️❤️❤️
@KellyMartin0902 Жыл бұрын
You're beautiful! Your style is incredible, you are so brave ! I love everything about this! I'm glad you're speaking up! Pain stops with those willing to feel it!
@elementscity4204 Жыл бұрын
Your songs give me chills
@Iamirxclej Жыл бұрын
You are a gift in my life ♥ ❤
@nicollealderson5561 Жыл бұрын
This makes me turn small inside. I relate so much! Thank you for helping me feel like its not my fault....I sent this song to my parents then cut them off finally.
@SerasXHarkonnen5 ай бұрын
I love when people think you're just being overly dramatic when you mention childhood trauma just because you had a roof over your head and weren't going hungry doesn't mean you didn't have a rough time of it. My mum once said she had three kids, and maybe she had to sacrifice one (me) for the sake of the other two, just because I have OCD and need to shower or wash my hands more than most. I'm 30 now and it's no mistake that my family has two international trips planned this year where everyone is going except me. A middle class family isn't necessarily a good or loving family, at least not to everyone in it.
@nataliesmith86678 ай бұрын
Love this song remind me so much of me and my family
@wraith392011 ай бұрын
Your poetry captures exactly what it’s like to have a narcissistic parent.
@Sarahlal56793 ай бұрын
Your songs are so powerful. Every. Single. One. ❤
@kathrynn7110 Жыл бұрын
Best voice ever !
@TeenyTheTurtleКүн бұрын
Your makeup is giving JEM vibes! I love it 😍
@wonderland_gothic Жыл бұрын
Ilysm your music is beautiful 💜❤💚
@beardoodle983513 күн бұрын
Omg....💀, this is EXACTLY what my family has said to me 😭😭 (several times throughout my life). Until I moved across the country from them. They still try to guilt/shame me over the phone, though. I don't tell them any personal info for that reason.
@lsjhxxx7158 Жыл бұрын
Love you Rory ❤
@brii.cheese Жыл бұрын
*Wait so someone tell me if I’m right.* is the beginning someone in a toxic family telling me that? And the song is the suffering someone goes through when people say that to them..?
@TallKulWmn1 Жыл бұрын
The opening insults are things that have been said to her. Watch her eyes, she’s still hurting even now 😢
@joshuanewby3405 Жыл бұрын
I think if you look at it what you’ll see is someone that never even knew they were being abused, my friend.
@Tricia-kp7cpАй бұрын
❤ 😢 narcissistic family I hear that 🫶✌️
@bhcmom79799 ай бұрын
Rory😢 you have 🪞 my life & I see so many others suffer the same WHY 😱 I hope you come to Texas I need to see you in person your music speaks to me more than any others has in so many years I need to scream at the top of my lungs with all your fans with you & dance I CANT WAIT YOUR GONNA GI GLOBAL🔥🖤🤘🖤🤘🖤🔥
@princesspouts2 күн бұрын
I LOVE THIS SONG❤❤❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@LeahTalbot-bd8cf Жыл бұрын
I can relate so much ❤
@meg55gem8 ай бұрын
This totally gives, “Thanks a lot, you idiot! Thanks a lot Rachel! My charger isn’t charging my iPad and it’s all your fault! I hope that you’re happy because I told mom!” 😂
@melrebel077426 күн бұрын
What a beautiful voice❤
@Littlegothflamingo11 ай бұрын
I love this song so much
@lauramorris34097 күн бұрын
wow! cold chills!
@user-ew2ti4vj8q Жыл бұрын
Молодец. Красиво
@paulamonty547214 күн бұрын
BRILLIANT ❤❤❤❤❤
@skiptastic50004 ай бұрын
Gods' body, I'm so grateful for your voice
@taraosullivan304610 ай бұрын
You basically just described my family in one song, ' going to therapy so you can feel special for your problems'. When your forced into role of the black sheep and scape goat, its bloody hard to survive. Why cause every family needs someone to blame, so they dont have feel responsible for their own dysfunction. Sorry you didnt get the support you needed and deserved.
@jasminecoxsey1117 Жыл бұрын
Great song can relate to this so much 😔💔 beautiful singing too xx
@JC-hp6pk4 ай бұрын
Rory changed my life
@joannereader4918 Жыл бұрын
I wish I didn't relate to this. 😢
@PoemsofaGirl2 ай бұрын
Fuck I feel this song in my chest
@2crazed4u Жыл бұрын
Damn got chills
@Mombierella9 күн бұрын
Deep cut 😢
@Amyjones-su4tt2 ай бұрын
Wow👏
@larrainedeloach726Ай бұрын
It’s crazy how you read my mind.
@hayleyhawn4 ай бұрын
how have I been following your adhd page for years(?) I think and just came across this
@sircalcastex5686 Жыл бұрын
wow..
@unknownartist1573Ай бұрын
🥰🎶🎵♥️🖤💖beautiful
@adavies92399 ай бұрын
wow!!!!!!! LOVE
@sarahleach99976 ай бұрын
Beautiful❤
@Mamabearawr19 күн бұрын
I need this song
@LR-zt3bp9 ай бұрын
I've never related to someone as much as I do with you in my entire life 🤯🖤❤️🖤
@victoriavenom8864 Жыл бұрын
Oh waw this hit!
@its_r_o_r_y Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the kindness x
@victoriavenom8864 Жыл бұрын
@@its_r_o_r_y ah thank you for being so down to earth and replying to fans! 🥰
@AnnInghamlife-goals Жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Want to send it to a few people
@aaron-AJ92 Жыл бұрын
Shes a great singer
@alexritchie786910 ай бұрын
Wow what a voice 😮
@elizabethhinklehinkle53932 ай бұрын
My mother's side of the family are mostly narcissists.
@valsonder11 ай бұрын
fuck. i do not really realise how much of my internalised bullshit is cultural until this hits harder than an american-accented version ever would- yeah. being told therapists find something wrong with everyone, that's it's just overly sensitive coddling. yeah. we all deserve so much better.
@andreacapkovicova62211 ай бұрын
love it
@heschesizde3503 Жыл бұрын
...........i know this people becoz i cut my tree down! that song hit hard ! But i love that song ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
@xxxAloopzzz Жыл бұрын
Jesus The opening speak is almost spot on what my dear mother in law have said to my wife. Either directly or through her flying monkeys.
@mysterygirl1606Ай бұрын
I was blamed for literally everything...to the point that my dad's heart attack was my fault. Couldn't possibly be the amount he ate. 5 portions of fajitas. No it had to be me...I was grounded for something his family's medical history and his eating habits caused.
@Madison019318 күн бұрын
wtfrick, I'm so sorry, that's so messed up
@Madison019318 күн бұрын
wtfrick, I'm so sorry, that's so messed up
@kennedybarney9348 Жыл бұрын
good job wow
@soulcenterhealinghypnosis4 ай бұрын
Trauma is Trauma.. fuck them and what people say.. feelings are feelings x
@johnyalencar52688 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@misssweetpea289011 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@Lipsa-w3 ай бұрын
i love you rory❤❤
@jenfizz43128 ай бұрын
Oh my god.... my ex went to. rehab for gambling so i went to treatment for family members and thats exactly what they said to me 😢
@cylioacid82 Жыл бұрын
🖤💙🙏🏼💯Stuck in my Head Roxanne Emotional want to Heard trance remix noW🔥
@brii.cheese Жыл бұрын
Wait. What was that beginning. That personally insulted me. Was that literal and actually supposed to insult me…
@GRRtheFeminist10 күн бұрын
Whats The name of this Song and IS IT found full from somewhere?
@user-do8nj1gt7z8 ай бұрын
U just dug into my problems and threw it up on my fake family
@vinnieversecollections4916 Жыл бұрын
Can't wait for the 12th in bristol
@esticobersy7718 Жыл бұрын
Does the Queen reply?
@laurenpounds95376 ай бұрын
@rory literally saved my life I hope one day to meet that thank you personally you and your and husband. I helped me save my marriage. Thank you jesus!!!!!!!!🙏🏻🙌🙌🙌🙌🎤🎙🎬💯🏁🥰
@alexandraf11 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like my husband
@afreenk48259 ай бұрын
Name of the song
@eveeartistry3 ай бұрын
Family tree
@museluvr Жыл бұрын
She has a point. Now, please do away with the blue hair... your natural is beautiful.