Narcissist On Christmas Morning Acting All Sad To Destroy The Occasion

[@YouDontKnowMeDoYou15]

Yes, that's spot on. They do it on birthdays & they're not even sad, they just don't want you to be having a good time.

[@ninafigueroa3818]

I feel ya. I suffered a narcissist boyfriend

[@neethuk7940]

Yessss and I always used to think, " why there's drama during festivals and my bdays?" I realised much later that all that was on purpose!

[@YouDontKnowMeDoYou15]

I wonder what will happen when the monsters meet their maker. I'd like to think they will be held accountable. That would be a narsasits ultimate he'll I should imagine.

[@FayreeenAarow]

@@YouDontKnowMeDoYou15 oh absolutely they’re running at all they can. Thank you. God bless you.

[@FayreeenAarow]

@@neethuk7940 bless your heart you’re not the wrong ranger. Lol.

[@victoriavitoroulis3273]

Your misery is their happiness & your happiness is their misery …sad but true.

[@Christie-J4f]

😮😮PERFECTLY stated❤🎉❤🎉😮😮

[@margaretkeenan8121]

Every event of family life ,affected by their drama .This is spot on.

[@franken-pattern]

My parents, both Narcissists (one covert, the other malignant) would fight every holiday and make everything tense and depressing. To this day, I get very anxious every time a holiday is coming up. Last night being Christmas eve, I had to take a sleeping pill to rest, and I've been 'no contact' for almost a decade. On another note, I'm glad this Christmas belongs to you and I, Danish...and to all of the other survivors who escaped 🖤

[@TiitPriidik-t8n]

😢😢

[@andreagruber5813]

You are not alone, I know exactly what you mean. Plus, my sister was allowed to be with the grandparents, I was as always "too much", so I was alone, with fighting parents at Christmas. Every Birthday, which comes near, every Christmas, I am scared, that something "might happen". And yes, I do not have contact as well anymore. Still, it is there. All the Best and hopefully one day, we will lose that anxiety. 🤗❤️🎄

[@franken-pattern]

@andreagruber5813 Same to you, my dear. Try to have a little fun today, and do what brings you peace and hopefully, a little joy. I will be thinking of you and all of us survivors today. Be proud of yourself! You have come out the other side of a dark place.

[@YouDontKnowMeDoYou15]

Merry Christmas 🎅 to you too. I hope you had a nice day 😊

[@andreagruber5813]

@@franken-pattern I am sometimes not so sure, if I am "already out", but still thank you and well, I am surrounded with cats. What else I could ask for. 😻

[@dizzyvalentine]

we just had our first christmas in 24 yrs WITHOUT the narc. every moment was joyful. without his hateful, toxic energy, my home was full of beautiful, loving people, enjoying each others company. so blessed to be in this energy❤i have no regrets cutting him from my life.

[@godschildyes]

GOOD FOR YOU! That is so wonderful and I am so happy for you all! 🙏🏾 ❤😊

[@forgiven5919]

Absolutely correct again! This man is extremely well versed in the narcissist tricks of torment. They also ruin birthdays unless its theirs.

[@godschildyes]

Birthdays seem to be their number 1 choice.

[@Alexandra-l8v]

Weddings too!!!

[@godschildyes]

@@Alexandra-l8v So true! 😲

[@__-fl3yt]

I just realized that after making special dinners and cake on his birthday after 27 years of marriage, he never felt appreciated and according to him only received little presents from the kids.

[@an28382]

My mother did this literally yesterday and had a screaming match to humiliate me in front of my other relatives. I don’t know what I’d do had I not found this channel- it is spot on. Unfortunately i have no means to escape this narcissist or the rest of them in this family, but I am thankful for all that you do to help reach people like me, Danish. If anyone sees this comment, I hope your Christmas was better than mine.

[@deliawright8626]

Thank you. I am alone with 3 cats. No one ever calls. I have fun making my holiday house windows with Creches and Angels. Get the kitty girls yummy treats and new toys. I say my prayers of gratitude that I am no longer connected with hateful relations. Merry Christmas to all who are learning that Christmas's and birthdays are actually better then being exposed to hateful people. Bless you all 😊

[@FayreeenAarow]

@@an28382 God bless your heart. I know exactly where you’re coming from. Been there and for years no way to escape. But one day it happened miracle I was able to escape thank God and Dorothy. He was gone from living up under the same roof of me, but he still came around. Until she found out, and of course she stopped it. Thank the Lord. Now he’s dead and I’m free either than to relive over and over again the things that he is done. How can one escape the abuse of memory and the bitterness of it??? God may our help♥️

[@FayreeenAarow]

@@deliawright8626 God bless you dear. Absolutely it is far better to be along and to be around in devil. It’s all good!…😇… And it’s gonna get better!… father, grace of God!!!❤️

[@FayreeenAarow]

@@an28382 remember, we’re facing a new year. Full hope, and promise through our Lord Jesus Christ to he be the glory….❤️ have a blessed new year😇❤️

[@FayreeenAarow]

Correction, by the grace of God🙏

[@shannonmaire]

My family went out of their way to make this holiday season the most isolating and lonely one of my life. I was hit by a car last year, in a cast and financially broke. They would make fun of me and call me lazy. They made a point to be around and remind me how unworthy I am. Now I'm doing well, have money for presents and in cheerful spirits. My brother wouldn't say one word to me at Thanksgiving and my parents announced they would be on a cruise for Christmas. I gave them gifts for Thanksgiving and Christmas. I received none. Now I'm alone in an airb&b for Christmas with a beautiful ocean view. I'm grateful that this will be the last holiday I will ever allow them to make me feel unwanted and lonely for the holidays.

[@danetteperez3863]

Celebrate with the Christ of Christmas. He will never forsake you. I know,

[@ghostingwo]

Sorry they did this to u. My family makes me feel like I’m a whole problem of the family, even though I’m the one who doesn’t care to save face and actually tries to fix things, meanwhile they continue to start toxicity enable and hide and excuse their problems just cause they like each other, yet act like I’m toxic cause I don’t excuse their bad unfair treatment, and yet they see me trying my best to be a good person and they blame criticize and treat me like crap like its a cult or smth. People r sad sometimes it can even be ur own blood that treats u like crap and never gave u a chance, my own family made me scared and distrusting of society. I don’t understand them, they act like I act so different like I’m an abomination or something like I don’t know what they think is so wrong with me that they wanna just never talk to me about anything and just default to treating me bad, but unfortunately that’s just what they do and that’s the family I was given lol

[@heretolearnCA]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 wow!!!! First, congratulations! I also just spent my second Christmas alone, but first with an ocean view, and it was one of the best christmases in over a decade! Second, thank you for sharing, and for rising above this crazy difficult chapter. I haven’t really known someone else who experienced obvious cruelty while they were dealing with injury and couldn’t fulfill their narcs’ image of what they deemed was appropriate (ie called lazy because quite literally could not move😅🤣) To your story, I could really relate as I’ve been recovering from injuries and experienced a similar apathy bordering bullying that was finally glaring enough for me to accept what it was and move on- not just onward, but forward, to a new better chapter, able to choose how and who I spend my time with now that I’m doing better physically and financially. Feels poignant to see your comment, so thank you. Well done again, and happy holidays!

[@julies7819]

You’re not alone ❤

[@preetymodi1543]

Keep up to your promise.❤

[@artgirl1339]

Pollutes the energy of exactly what they do

[@franken-pattern]

@artgirl1339 my ex was a covert Narcissist and I used to say, "Why are you always such a cold, wet blanket in every situation??" However, I think Danish said it better. Polluter.

[@MR-ly4xt]

Yes, so true. He totally ruined the day. I ended up not eating & going to bed early due to his toxic drama. He does this on my birthday too.

[@Amy-qo6xf]

They love your birthdays most to belittle you and ruin any plans of fun.

[@stingray0033]

I shared a birthday w the one I was married to so sucked to be him😂

[@godschildyes]

Always!

[@thelightworker01]

Polluting the environment is actually diabolical

[@KBArchery]

Don’t forget the carefully planned gifts to humiliate you - a used candle and men’s socks was my last Christmas gift and my parents are wealthy. While my brother the golden child and his wife get spoiled w expensive gifts. When I found out they had their own separate Christmas without me and my family. We all live 10 minutes apart I was extremely hurt. No contact 3 years. Christmas is a really hard time for me

[@ThankYouJesusTheChrist]

I hear you. Big hug from me to you on this challenging day (of course, at least it’s not Mother’s Day 😉)

[@SubhashreeSubhadarsini-v1i]

Sorry to hear you... But focus on yourself without expecting on others... Everything is available to you❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

[@NightsideOfParadise]

Used candle 😒 wtf

[@forgiven5919]

So sorry for your pain, I hope you can find a new family of your own choice.

[@EmpressPixie420]

Sounds exactly like my family and then some every Xmas or holidays! I have been no contact for a few years also. I'm just sad when the terrible memories kick in. I just embrace it and wait for it to pass. Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays from my family to yours. 🎉🙏💜🥳

[@sharontokas8521]

Bang on!!! Christmas and every occasion...an audience is what they require to wreak a perfect occasion...blessed are those who have done away with them..

[@vickibazter3446]

MERRY CHRISTMAS WITH GRATITUDE to you for everything you do. God bless you. 🎄 🌟

[@kimberlylamantia7794]

This is why I despise holidays. Longest days of the year to me. Walking on eggshells, waiting for the hammer to come down. I'm determined to have a great Christmas, though. Happy holidays everyone!

[@garywhite-u2o]

Laugh dance sing just do you

[@Carolyn-u8u]

Be Blessed this Christmas day! 🎄

[@kimberlylamantia7794]

@Carolyn-u8u Thank you. You and yours have a Merry Christmas

[@Carolyn-u8u]

@@kimberlylamantia7794 Thank you!

[@FayreeenAarow]

@@kimberlylamantia7794 well, he won’t let you have a great Christmas darling. I’m sorry. But that is true only way that you can have a great Christmas is to get away from misery.(get away from him.)

[@shannonbrowe3870]

I'm finally leaving today after 15yrs with one! This Christmas I woke up to him blaming me for something I didn't do so he threatened to kill me and barring me in the basement then poured a whole gallon of milk, Gatorade and coffee on me. I can't make this crap up. They are evil! Every BDay, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and even their own bdays! 😢

[@JacquelynF-zt6wc]

Omg I’m sorry @yourlevelupguru!!

[@kellystarlight7025]

So TRUE!! Mine would hid in the bedroom when my kids came over,, because THEY KNEW WHAT HE WAS!! Took me three tries to get him out!!!

[@janetjones5087]

Totally agree to this Christmas day 2023 by 7.00pm i had this all day,spoiling it for me and my family so told him to leave and my divorce is through soon 20 years of mental and physical abuse that i am still recovering from,be strong get these Demons out of your life and home.

[@sickofcrap8992]

After marrying the narc I usually WAS depressed Christmas. If I wasn't depressed, I was horribly stressed.

[@lauraporter3434]

@@sickofcrap8992 I always became sick during holiday vacations due to stress from narc

[@QFam6Love]

I seem to always get sick some how​@@lauraporter3434

[@proverbs2522]

Don’t forget the violent ones throw the kid’s favorite presents because they’re “mad” for no reason but need an excuse to destroy someone’s joy!

[@lauraporter3434]

And/or disappears, demanding everyone to stress

[@BadEngrish]

Since they don't notice who are befriending you, don't tell them who are nice to you or they would ruin any connection you're going to have.

[@janinesmith369]

Ruin

[@thelightworker01]

Yes the will. I couldn’t understand stand why every time I would introduce a friend to the narcissist we would lose our connection

[@BadEngrish]

@@thelightworker01 Yeah, the need to isolate to have control. Everytime I would meet new people, it's either they won't look at me, give me the side eye or scared of talking to me. Before even saying "Hi!," but I'm used to it. I think all the slander I went through has it's purpose because his ex-workmates are either narcs too & psychopaths, by now I don't care about their dirty tactics.

[@shanieirwin5357]

This is my mother. She would intentionally cause chaos every Christmas and I had no idea what she was doing until I reached my mid 40s.

[@PatGusoff]

My mother did the same thing! Temper tantrum. Cursing, complaining and throwing things. Anything to ruin the day.

[@farheenyousuf7957]

They hate u having a good time, destroy your happiness by raging and lashing out on petty things and spoil all festive occasions at all times giving you traumas that would last a lifetime

[@Mirage031]

My dad's Christmas tradition is to sit on the couch, hand over face, acting as disinterested as possible, especially if there are gifts next to him. Sometimes he will fool with the radio or tv in the middle of everyone unwrapping their presents for an added distraction. If he did shop for anyone else, he went the night before and acts like anything that fell through was just bad luck.

[@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom]

Oh Wow😮

[@Belle-m20]

It was my first Christmas in 14yrs without the narc. It was beautiful

[@ladyredd6857]

Same here 14 years and this was my first Christmas with out my narcissist husband who left me and my kids for his new supply coworker

[@deliawright8626]

​@@ladyredd6857Good on you!

[@deliawright8626]

Brava Ms. Belle🎉

[@Belle-m20]

@deliawright8626 🥹❤️🙏

[@Belle-m20]

@@ladyredd6857 We can celebrate together! 🫂🎉❤️🌄

[@ReshmaSingh-xr3de]

I've experienced this on every single happy occasion of life for the 10 looong years I was married to a narc. This is spot on video.

[@porshamarshall4658]

This is so true!!! This what my ex did every Christmas!!! In fact every special occasion!!! You are always so spot on with your depictions of narcs!!!!!! I love your channel! ❤️❤️

[@liseduedue2715]

This traumatic happenings all the time… stress, press, drugs, screaming, driving around without meaning, angry words, putting blame and drama on you, … it makes you sad, scary, exhausted in the holidays. Always something wrong.

[@AgentClaytonWebb]

Merry Christmas 🎁🎄 ♥️ to all my amazing survivors out there! You’re all loved and wonderful!

[@jangunning1676]

Thank you and same to you! 🙏✝️🙂🫂🕯️

[@76482]

Merry Xmas! ❤

[@deliawright8626]

My best gift is I know what I am because I know what I am not!🎉😊🎉

[@AH-wx1rt]

Happy holidays Danish!! Have a blessed day!!

[@CathyKpikpira]

So true

[@HealthEYS]

They always act super sad before they abuse people.

[@RobinEngland76]

This fool told our youngest son NOT to come wake him up on Christmas morning!! Because he wanted to sleep in!! On Christmas morning??!! Nothing but vile!! I mean what father tells their kid that BULLSHIT

[@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom]

Because he is a fool

[@stewarln52284]

Yep…wake up early but then proceed to have a tantrum and clatter around the kitchen because the coffee machine isn’t working right. Make a huge mess in the kitchen to show his anger, leave the mess, goes on with his destruction.

[@renarich4942]

My husband open my presents I bought for the kids with out me 😢

[@777Pattie]

Typical narcissistic behavior trying to steal the children's love from you 💔. Be very careful with your children he'll also try to lie about you eventually. Good luck 🌠

[@geraldfriend256]

My narcissister decided to ruin Xmas 2021. So I eventually went no contact; had enough. The holidays are brutalgo those with narc families. My plans fell thru this year but my whimsical decorations make it fun enough, just another day to choose happy over sad.

[@deliawright8626]

EXCELLENT! What a good attitude friend. Thank you for making me smile.😊

[@ValerieRoberts-uv7kf]

Narcissists spoil every day, including holidays😮

[@bleelee4566]

This is a deceptively simple but very profound observation which has helped me a lot. Thank you and Merry Christmas!

[@Monalisa0622]

Yes the biggest slap in the face was him taking his life dec 27. 2 days after Christmas our daughter's birthday. But the Lord has the las word. We will heal. This is what Christmas is about, our savior Jesus Christ.

[@deliawright8626]

So sad that he tried to inflict so much damage. I say tried because you will heal with God's help, with angels help. That you are alive and free is the gift. A prosperous and growth filled 2025 to you and yours.🎉😊

[@sakshimathew1613]

Wow ! That's so true ! That's exactly what happened at home today 😢

[@janinesmith369]

Especially if you’re harassed ❤

[@huldahb3495]

Same here😢

[@ninafigueroa3818]

Thank you!!!! I suffered years of my boyfriend ruining Christmas for me

[@theresacrockett8559]

My ex would wake up angry, express nothing except discontentment and I would be walking on eggshells, jumping through hoops trying to make him happy. He ruined everything.

[@deliawright8626]

Merry Christmas! Aren't you glad it isn't you? 😅 It is like learning when you ever hear ANYONE say "look what you made me do" TO RUN AWAY😮😮😮😮. Every day in every way those of us who are not sick narcissist's are getting better and better. Happy 2025🎉🎉

[@Prabhunathachari]

They acts depressed to make others depressed so that they feed sadism😂

[@thelightworker01]

This !!

[@SuzieQH4812]

Merry Christmas, Danish!! Sending you love, peace, and joy from California. 🎄

[@julies7819]

Spot on, thank you. Don’t forget choosing some random thing, past or present, to rage about.

[@QFam6Love]

Today it was because i asked who pooped ended up him saying he will drag me down the hall by my hair so i made sure the whole house heard him say that i mean idk kinda toxic of me but when he threatens me i get nourvous and need someone to hear when he says stuff like that i think i have ptsd sometimes from him

[@Nene1-m9c]

Or, they are excited and happy because they know they’ve made everyone miserable.

[@lisaroselle4559]

This is the least anxious and stressed I have been at Christmas since I was a little kid. 3rd Christmas since the end and I am loving it.

[@bleelee4566]

Third Christmas from the beginning you mean.

[@lisaroselle4559]

@ yes!

[@danetteperez3863]

I remember when I was gifted with a huge historical portrait with my two grandsons faces superimposed on the artwork . I cried from excitement! I happened to glance at my husband thinking he would also be overjoyed. He had this look of disgust and played the victim because it was not given to him!

[@laurac.9322]

Geeze

[@Anna-uy7dp]

I hold my breath (metaphorically) at Christmas, trying to suppress the fear of more of the same. It's so engrained i still do it when not in their presence - which is a present in & of itself. What a delight to discover this spakly gem of truth. Danesh as xmas elf... spreading joy & solace to those that need to be reminded that they'e allowed it...😊 thank you sincerely

[@skbarnes2012]

Yah unfortunately my mom (covert narcissist) has made me dread this time of year because she has to find any excuse she can to be miserable. She’s basically a poor version of Scrooge. Saddest part is ever since my parents divorce decades ago all I ever wanted for Christmas was for my mom to be truly 100% happy. Still hasn’t happened and it never will.

[@deliawright8626]

Sweety you sound tired. I am 67 and the best thing I ever experienced was realizing that not giving a hoot is very helpful. So is shaking people up. Announce in advance that you will hire a sitter to be with mom next Xmas. Fix two dinners with all fixins if necessary for her and sitter. That maybe no gathering at your home at all. A few presents for your husband, kids. Maybe going to church etc. Set boundaries (much deserved present to you) Keep on keeping on for your 2025🎉😊

[@Himandmeable]

It is because they don't believe in the true GOD they have no hope 😢 ! Pray & fasting seem 2 B working this Christmas season 4 me & them . Thank B 2 GOD Amen 🙏!

[@Rasheens-Story]

My ex did this on my daughters bday I can’t stand the MF always trying to ruining special occasions even lie to his family about me to make me look bad, and then telling me different story so that I think they are the problem, when the whole time it was him stirring up drama 🤦🏽‍♀️glad I see it now and I know all the signs so I’d never stay in a relationship like that again

[@soniachambers6460]

Your home looks so peaceful and calm ❤

[@canyoudi9it]

😂exactly…. this makes me lough out loud thinking back at how it always was before. She’s gone now and Christmas is happy days again 🤩❤️

[@janlouisemakiling3474]

My narcissistic mother was so loud this morning and when I told her I have no plans coming to her relatives house… she delayed leaving the house for an hour.. indeed witch

[@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom]

Not a witch😅😅

[@kat71580]

Over 40 years of Narcissist Father in Law., mother in law, totally adored him, denial all her life..of his evil..now son i law in 50 years..looking forward to New Year, to leave..With much love to All..Thank you Danish..sending Love & Light., Peace 🕊

[@mariagorettij2308]

Boy he did the for years.... Till I left... Never had. A dull Christmas ever since😊

[@Talonia700]

That's what they do and knock everything off the table, too 😳MERRY CHRISTMAS!🌲🎁🎁🎁❄️❄️❄️☃️♥️

[@KhoaNgo-sr4zq]

Depends , some go with the Christmas cheer to appear good in front of everyone.

[@notbextley6997]

We're not bonding over that feeling 🤮

[@multiediterr]

we weren’t even allowed to decorate this year, and he’s bombarding us with gifts of desserts (really not good) and trying to play happy father 😪 despite the crappy holiday feels, this day is about the LORD and not me 🙏🏼☝️

[@deliawright8626]

Sigh.... I truly feel for you. Not being able to decorate, what does he tell kids? Gather up desserts and donate to shelters, homeless etc. they would be enjoyed. A little push back may make you feel better.😊 Have a better 2025. Start making plans for yourself👍

[@FayreeenAarow]

My narcissist, husband, when he came Christmas like any other day, he would leave the home as fast as he could, and especially on Christmas. He went to eat dinner with other folks, and left us home with none…. What that sweet thing that he done?🤮🤮🤮😡😡😡

[@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom]

Divorce

[@deliawright8626]

Hello Ms. I hope it is so much better for you now. Sometimes remember the first good gift, we aren't these awful, barfo plenty 🤮, sad excuses for humans! Thank you Jesus! I hope you are free and doing well. You sound strong, sometimes we forget how strong we are. Merry Christmas and a great 2025. 😊

[@FayreeenAarow]

@ thank you so much God bless you you and yours have a good New Year’s and may this coming year be better than the year past. Bless you.

[@winterqueenkel]

Yep. Destroyed holidays

[@stephanie6851]

yuuup, they HATE joy!

[@ShamarGFambkup]

❤❤❤❤ Thanks sooo... much for your understanding and Help! I really relate to all of this and don't feel alone anymore!

[@ankhofmotivation]

Yo so right on that.. just like my mom did earlier today 😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg

[@Carolyn-u8u]

I never understood a family that attacks itself. My husband was a block between me and that family (my family) for 32 years. After he died, they came back and continued the attack on me. Seeing this on Christmas morning is haunting. A family in God's design is to help and support one another, I thought. Is narcissism a demonic spirit? Please no hate. It's Christmas today.

[@porshamarshall4658]

Yes, I believe it is spiritual and they target good people. It is a demonic spirit!!

[@thislittlelightofmine5821]

Yes narcissism is demonic

[@ericae6611]

This is my sister. Either she'd act depressed or start a fight. Couldn't stand to see others happy

[@EdithMachuca]

😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮 The scene can't be more accurate.

[@karta4345]

My brother doesnt do this. Instead, he acts like all the Christmas cheer was invented just for him, and gushes and hugs everyone. He is a total mooch and squatter but we are forced to include him because my elderly father pities him. He absolutely dominates every conversation, not allowing anyone else to speak. I'm not sure if my mom was a covert narcissist or not, but she behaved just like Dinesh right there on holidays.

[@pianoreigns]

Nailed it

[@emmasuo272]

Sometimes at night I cry a lot cry a lot why am I so alone especially as on the internet there are people but the area I'm in is so toxic I'm in pain I don't come out of my room battling with survival mode like I'm what I'm like I'm questioning my whole self it's so lonely no amount of money or good dress or compliments can take away this year's of abuse pain in pain pain is me pain is within me why God isn't seeing me whyyyyy why my azamiah is so long whyyyyy I want to see the sky rn im crying too as while writing its the only thing life has taught me I'm still fighting for my dreams while all broken with traumas and not one so many life gets easier when you have supportive parents or friends or one close friends or good relatives or any cousin or anyone but I have no one as no one us that educated all are these uneducated old Young's where girls aren't supposed to study too much like it's male dominating home going against the pattern has made me broke ya Allah im so broke I don't have any courage im done three years of chronic stress literally killed me from inside out this PTSD depression and not feeling happiness i want myself back when will i be happy i gave myself too much to the wrong people even writing this is bringing so much shame but i can't furthermore i cannot see myself screaming like that having panic attack in the washroom and whole body was nuumb and then i felt heavy and fell down on the floor i had that emotional flooding this isolation will kill me im tired of living but idk why im still alive

[@Carolyn-u8u]

Because of God. You are still alive because of God. Pray to Him.

[@AnEmerald]

Jesus is the WAY , the Truth , and the Life . Do it Gods way The Bible. 🎚️ He shows up in mysterious ways like ( here) we're at a time in the world where we're coming to the end of an age . Jesus owns the time line of the world 🌍 and he and God together made us in their image . Allaha is a manmade religion made by Roman Catholics . Just I hope you find the true shepherd and he restores your life and happiness 💓 . Be happy hun

[@kat71580]

Please, try and find a way., find you strength in your Beliefs..pray for strength and Courage..stand tall..breath, think read Danish his advice..one step..then another..take care.

[@helenshg4580]

I do not like Christmas because I always break down & cry when I think about all the poor people and especially children who are suffering & have nothing. It is one of my saddest days, but don't project it on others. I wish everyone a merry Christmas!

[@Barbara_Banks_1]

I’ve disliked Christmas, since the age of 6. Not only the family drama, but that was the year my cousin told me Santa was a lie. I think it’s a terrible thing, that it’s a world wide lie told to children. I remember the betrayal I felt, and how sad I was because we were supposed to be celebrating Jesus’ birthday… We weren’t the ones that should be getting gifts.

[@ruthgolsteyn9450]

You literally just projected it upon all of us.

[@Barbara_Banks_1]

@@ruthgolsteyn9450 Sharing your feelings and experiences is not projection. Projection is like- A cheating spouse accuses their spouse of cheating. In other words, Projection is when the guilty party, falsely accuses the other of doing what they’re doing…

[@ruthgolsteyn9450]

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[@ursamagickmt672]

She's empathic. I understand completely. ❤

[@Oldnicefunnylady]

Does narcissist wake you up by snoring loudly ? Or don’t let you sleep at all also by snoring loudly ? And why ?

[@pattiannepascual]

Merry Christmas ♥️❄️🎄🎁☃️⛸️🧸✝️🙏♥️

[@thislittlelightofmine5821]

Yup, my mom every dang Xmas and starting fights with someone then stopping off to bedroom to isolate herself then come out cussing at folks then to the silent treatment.

[@deliawright8626]

Wow 😂 does she know how boring she is? Stop inviting her...😮 give her a chance to figure stuff out😅😅 Happy 2025 here's to boundaries and settin' em🎉🎉🎉

[@ulrikehaffar2548]

Exactly! Last year my ex didnt want to join the christmas party at my parents house....he said he couldnt find his trousers accusing me of putting them away, than lie down in bed saying he wouldnt feel good. I was hard o him: hes got 15 min time to get dressed otherwise he would stay alone. He was ready then but hardly comunicated with my parents and like the year before had no present at all.

[@deliawright8626]

Yes, spoiled rude adults can and should be left behind. No one's parents deserve rudeness. You deserve a partner not a selfish child. This does not get better. Enjoy yourself.😊 Happy 2025

[@elizabethschoos]

This was a mild taste of Christmas this year. A day my son will always have to remember as one of his Christmas’s. Never again.

[@RitaD-k4i]

Yep, any holiday 😢

[@janinesmith369]

Yeah join the club. Right over on my end as well. Was wondering with the nice gifts 🎁 I gave and Merry spirits why he still seemed not to care 😯it just ruins the happy er Christmas 😢Like the…

[@Healed2Day]

Faaaaaaaar OUT ! this happened YESTERDAY ! ..... I am NOT delusional! I am NOT imagining this ! God- help me!

[@deliawright8626]

God did! He sent you to this learning experience. Good journey to you in 2025.

[@consejosdemama6084]

They have that anger inside, so sad too bad 😂

[@bailujen8052]

My mum uses her father's death as an excuse, no wonder i wanted to host a Christmas party by myself

[@susancahill4018]

Exactly what my husband did today

[@Marble-Cake]

My narc decided to sleep till 10am ans act like nothing was important about the day....

[@ranisaheba1]

Superb acting skills! 😅

[@LisaFloyd-r8b]

Every...single...holiday RUINED...so glad to be free

[@anotherdayinthislife]

This is TOO damn accurate 😂😂

[@shikhamishra3908]

Same act On every festive occasion, very right

[@wendyg.2664]

OMG, yes! My narc ex-bf did that starting the day before Christmas Eve. His mood settings during this time were even worse than usual! He was sad at first, then he was a little cheerier and nicer to me, then I gave him a gift and he fake cried and acted overly emotional at receiving my small gift (gift #2 btw, after he demanded that I buy him something BEFORE Christmas and then buy a SECOND gift that would be presented ON Christmas Day). Later on Christmas dqy, he picked a fight with me over food that I cooked for him at his house, and he stormed out, left me there all alone, and returned with a meal of Chinese food for him and a side dish of the silent treatment for me. On Dec 26th, we went out to get pizza for lunch (which of course I paid for as usual) and we were supposed to go shopping for a Christmas gift for me (cuz he still hadn't given me anything but told me we could go out shopping & I could pick something). That day was a disaster! He decided to pick a fight with a random guy at the pizza shop and embarrassed he hell out me! After I finally convinced him to leave after saying "Hey, let's just go shopping so we can pick out my gift,"( with our uneaten pizza slices still in my hand), he bitterly shouted, Gift?! With what money?!" and he stalked off down the block. He was still cursing to himself and didn't even notice that I stopped walking alongside him. He just kept walking all the way to his house while I walked back to my place and ate the pizza all by myself while crying. WORST Christmas EVER! He did that sort of thing to me many times, prmosing to give me something or treat me to a meal and then would get mad when I would follow up on the promise that he had made.

[@JadaGates]

My ex did this every single Christmas and my birthday would buy extravagant gifts to sit back and self loathe and feel sorry for himself about how no one understands what it’s like to be him, whilst I was paying bills instead of shopping. He always had to shine, and be the victim at the same time. It didn’t matter what gift I gave him it was was never good enough

[@thelightworker01]

When I think about what my ex narcissist partner did.. how could I accept that. He actually took my car on Christmas Day, refused to spend time with my family.. and gifted me a rusty and used cross necklace

[@lauraporter3434]

@@thelightworker01 Forgiving ourselves takes tons of time - only other victims get this part of the agony...

[@JacquelynF-zt6wc]

We aren’t alone. We allllll have people like this affecting us if we are chosen ones … the evil ones are everywhere.. spiritual warfare

[@Amy-qo6xf]

Ya, drama time! Open curtains!!!

[@suzannejacobs951]

Mine just disappears all together on Xmas eve . No phone call or nothing. I still haven't heard from him. Another Xmas alone. It breaks my heart for the past 8 years. Every time like clockwork.

[@supriyachristy8362]

Spot on

[@CherylWhite-w5w]

Happy Holidays Danish😅

[@gracegwozdz8185]

Merry Christmass free of narcs!

[@Christie-J4f]

NOT This Year! NOT This time!! ❤🎉😂😂😂 Hallelujah 🙏🙌 NO CONTACT🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@csc8697]

6 yrs old Christmas morn i notice Dad with a pissed off look. In the middle of opening presents i took him the gift i had for him. He was angry & kicked the coffee table. It rolled across the room & knocked over the tree, ( it had to hurt his foot,lol) Then we all had to go to bed & not have Christmas.