His new supply deliberately wanted me to show how happy they are right now. Well she thought Ill get jealous nope mam I feel sorry for you
@peachesmcghee9802 Жыл бұрын
No Contact, No Reaching Out x 7 months
@Glitter504 Жыл бұрын
I’m 1 year no contact we win and I dumped him
@Sup3riork1ng Жыл бұрын
I went 5months Iongest this time for good keep up the work my friend 😊
@jemainejohnigan1033 Жыл бұрын
I'm married to this narc separated now 3 weeks no contact. Thanks for videos
@FranciaMalone Жыл бұрын
stay 💪 🙏🏽
@MA-yv8dw Жыл бұрын
🎉🎉❤great job! 😡👎🏾💪🏾NO CONTACT
@karenwalters3164 Жыл бұрын
NARCISSIST being BORED is their CYCLE!!!❤going BACK and FORTH between SUPPLY!!!❤at the end of the DAY, weather we were the new SUPPLY, old SUPPLY, BACK BURNER,we were just the REPEATED CYCLE for the NARCISSIST ABUSE!!!❤break away for the ABUSE!!!❤
@heaven4life69 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!
@MarriageFraudSurvivors Жыл бұрын
💯
@stacydixson55344 ай бұрын
You are so right oh my god I won’t ever let him back 💯
@jrlatina Жыл бұрын
9 months no contact! 💪🏽💪🏽
@Cali001 Жыл бұрын
That’s great. Awesome. I’m going on 4 months No Contract and it feels so good
@jrlatina Жыл бұрын
@Cali001 great! You can do it
@mbrowne5105 Жыл бұрын
I think the new supply often times are narcs, sociopaths and psychopaths themselves. Children of God are few and far between for these narcs. I think my ex-weirdo isn’t having any luck. I received 2 texts from two different numbers yesterday and today, asking how I was, and come over for dinner!!! Lol. That dusty backside is blocked and the last I heard from him was a year ago. Keep them blocked ladies, don’t give in bc they are getting it so bad without you!❤❤❤thank you Telsha 😍
@heaven4life69 Жыл бұрын
I was a new source of supply, and far from being a narc or a sociopath. I was totally oblivious to the deception I was in. I was just another part of the sick cycle he had me in. I'm free now. Thank You, Jesus!
@KellieAlston Жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree that this probably happens. I found out that the woman he got engaged to two months after we broke up (and we had been together for almost 2 years), married him to spite her ex-husband who had remarried 8 months prayer. She used him and he definitely used her. Now, they are divorced and her ex-husband is still married. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️👀😱
@Melvina19755 ай бұрын
@@heaven4life69I can relate to you, was new supply and had not a damn clue as to what a narcissist is/was until the devil arrived 10 months ago, I left him in Feb this year, I couldn't take the verbal abuse anymore and just how I always felt like I could not trust him and that something is really really off with this guy. I'm still a bit trauma bonded but getting better as each day goes by.
@fridachanel82345 ай бұрын
I have zero desire to experience worst than all the abuse I already have. It rook me awhile for this blindfold to be lifted, Paise God for his patience, He has better plans for the kids and me. He can stay in his madness and whatever amount of supplies he has. I'm Done! Makes sense and its sickning all the cheating he did and other people involved in our marriage. Thank you
@sheilablanton4894 Жыл бұрын
Amen never let them come back 🙏 they will discard you again
@nikinova11 Жыл бұрын
Or flip the script let them back so you can just discard them?
@sheilablanton4894 Жыл бұрын
@nikinova11 that's exactly what I done he hooverd me I made him think we were getting back together an then I went ghost...AN I haven't returned since..I was done with the same cycle of abuse the lies cheating making me feel like I wasn't enough..him keeping in touch with exes I was just DONE ....
@nikinova11 Жыл бұрын
@@sheilablanton4894 Congratulations on breaking the cycle 🎉🌟💚
@sheilablanton4894 Жыл бұрын
@@nikinova11 ty an to you as well ❤️
@nikinova11 Жыл бұрын
@@sheilablanton4894 thank you ~ ✨️💚
@aliciabell7631 Жыл бұрын
So true, my ex would start arguments out of nowhere. He'd storm out and stay gone a couple of days than come back like Nothing ever happened
@jackiecolbert3915 Жыл бұрын
Come on preach I was in that mess with my ex husband. But thank God I prayed my way out of that mess. Soul ties and trauma bonds are real. I never knew any of this until I started watching you and some others on KZbin. Thank you for speaking the truth.
@WomanofGod-jc4cj7 ай бұрын
THE devil IS A LIE 😂😂😂😂. THEY CAN STAY ON OVER THERE IN THAT NEST WITH THE OTHER BIRD😂😂😂😂Q.I LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU SO MUCH QUEEN ❤. I NOW TAKE MY BREAKS LISTENING TO YOU QUEEN. ❤ I WORK NIGHTS. THIS REALLY HELPS ME GET THROUGH ,ESPECIALLY WHEN WERE HAVING SO MANY CODES. THE TEACHINGS ARE MEDICINE FOR ME. I GO THAT HOUSE FOR NOW, WITH A BRAND NEW SONG IN MY SOUL. IM SO HAPPY BECAUSE ILL BE GONE. ❤❤❤ IM OVER HERE CRYING AGAIN ABOUT THE DUCKS WITH SOME BALLERINA SLIPPERS😂😂😂😂😂
@maryanngray4519 Жыл бұрын
Hell no l don't want it back, the abuse was terrible, lve healed😮,God can't bless me if l go backwards,l choose to keep my P,OM.
@debbiepeterson6829 Жыл бұрын
Better her than me. Thats what she gets for committing adultery and trying to steal someone's man. Should have checked to see how he treated his wife. As his wife im just glad to finally done with his abuse.
@rae0813 Жыл бұрын
"Same thing they did to you, they doing to them"
@ShunSmith-dw8hj10 ай бұрын
Facts
@Lillian-z7c7 ай бұрын
Yes, he kept talking about excitement and how powerful it is. He was basically saying he was bored. That’s when his demeanor changed, he began the devaluation process, I told him let me call you back. Never did and blocked that duck with combat boots. He started saying he was lost going to the store so he could talk on the phone to the new/old supply. He would look at me with disgust and contempt. Every night he’d start drinking and try to start an argument. I told him there you go creating problems where none exists. And leave the room. He’d come find me later asking if I was okay, I told him I’m completely fine. Two places I’m not going with anyone, back and forth. I will NEVA call that short legged giraffe 🦒 again. One day I came in the room after he was talking to me and he said make me sick. I was surprised as to how he would be at that level with me but now i know that’s how narc do. They are doomed stuck into creating the same pattern for the rest of their life. So glad I’m done with that clown. 🤡 TGBTG ❤🎉😊
@Melvina19755 ай бұрын
@@Lillian-z7c Mine had to go t the store like every hour...(yea right) talking bout he was playing proline,😂😂😂cause he really thought I didn't know what he was doing, and we had only been together for 3 months at this point.
@erickonassis6310 Жыл бұрын
Omg, the midnight 2am arguments for no reason. Watching reality TV with the volume up while I m trying to go to sleep. Arguing when I try to go home to get some sleep. Crazy
@angelaelliott8533 Жыл бұрын
Ducks with ballerina slippers!!🤣🤣🤣
@rare_breed35 Жыл бұрын
Wow.. so all the times I was being accused of starting a argument just to be able to go do whatever, it was really what THEY were doing.. I was always so confused with all the blame shifting and projection! Snatching the covers in the middle of the night, slamming doors, texting on 3 different cell phones..One in their hand, one under the pillow, and another in the damn dresser🤬it pisses me off and makes me SICK to think back on it all now! Especially being that they really didn’t even have sh*t going for themselves.. couldn’t even keep a job and honestly wasn’t even physically my type! Lord I knew better.. I was bamboozled! lol But because of the experience I came into my spiritual awakening so I’m kind of thankful for it happening even tho the trauma bond is something serious 😩About a year no contact now tho 🦾 despite them STILL stalking my house and trying to Hoover every 2-3 months🙄 Glad it someone else’s problem now 🙌 but the new supply does have my sympathy 😂
@pocahontas4583 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like my ex. He was always accusing me of the most ridiculous, disgusting things that never even crossed my mind. He would badger me for HOURS standing over me accusing and antagonizing me, giving me money and taking it back and talking about since I’m talking to other men that’s who I need to get money from and I wasn’t even thinking about other men. There are a lot of things I’m just remembering now that we’re not together realizing he was the one cheating. I notice they all always have multiple phones too and take the batteries out at night.
@rare_breed35 Жыл бұрын
@@pocahontas4583 Yess exactly! It be things we never even thought about doing. I believe it’s all clear to us now that we are out because we are no longer in the “narcissistic fog” when we are in the middle of all the crazy making, tired, confused, and exhausted we can’t see what really going on. Witch it why they make us that way on purpose.. so that we cannot realize what is really going on. I’m sorry you had to go through that 🤍 but trust and believe they will get their karma😜
@mysweetlife388 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 🎉
@MarriageFraudSurvivors Жыл бұрын
💯
@KellieAlston Жыл бұрын
Yes! I can relate. I used to be like, "What is wrong with you?" He would start arguments over the dumbest thing. Was always on his phone and could not keep up with his lies. I am telling you, peace and freedom are priceless. Congrats to you! Please do not go back.
@deloisestaples4195 Жыл бұрын
Well, I know he's not coming back to me. I know too much about him. She's very happy with him. She works for me, so he knows my every move, but I let them see my shine😊 every day.
@NellieBelle78 Жыл бұрын
He has never and would never hoover me, because he already knows, I would NEVER engage him again. Whatever he has going on, is not my business. If I never hear from him again, it would be too soon. Thank you for your messages! You are a Godsent!
@tiffanycalloway5299 Жыл бұрын
❤
@janeenreardon Жыл бұрын
All those late night arguments.. smh.. pure evil
@iheartmari80 Жыл бұрын
Everything you’re saying is FACTS! Just got hoovered AGAIN for the second time in two weeks. Text, long winded email….BLOCKED! You’re not thriving off of my beautiful energy, BIRD! Thank you for schooling us on these wicked entities! God bless you! 🙏🏽💕
@kimsanders8262 Жыл бұрын
You are so right Ms. T my ex narc husband is trying to do that with me. I will never go back to him.
@weireffie29 Жыл бұрын
😊Yeah in love bombing walking in pride and total ignored.Presently seeking rush and attention very angry and feeling rejected. The thrill is gone.
@fosterjanine5112 Жыл бұрын
ACCESS DENIED PERMANENTLY! They must be ERADICATED! FULL STOP.
@dahna4822 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t experience the late night arguments because my X-Narc was Not @home to Argue. He was often on excursions w/ his New Supply (Under the guise of Military temporary Duty) I discarded him because he became physically violent. His mother TRIED To project her Toxic Behavior onto me & found it comical that I was left to Raise 5 school age kids as a Single parent. I don’t wish I’ll on anyone BUT I Knew it would only be a matter of time before the New Supply realized That not only did she NOT Get a Prize but rather a Whole Circus of CLOWNS 🤡 when she Chose to cheat w/ & marry a FOOL. I Do Feel for the kids they have Together & often keep them in Prayer 🙏🏽 Thank you Ms T for your sound teaching & insight. Continued Blessings to you ❤
@gx_17 ай бұрын
😂😂I've been watching your channel for over 5 years now, and you are so funny!!! I love your channel Telsa!
@Cristiano-n5r Жыл бұрын
I went no contact God delivered me out of this situation I have my power back thanking God love ❤️ these videos love u to sister
@joshuaanzalone2060 Жыл бұрын
She's not abusing me PERIOD
@lagoldie9783 Жыл бұрын
I remember when I was with the lil narc woman, lol one time it was 1am in the morning, I just finished giving her an hour back and foot massage, I feel asleep she woke me up and said she wanted more. I gave like 45 min more and fell asleep, she woke me up again and said massage me some more, smh. She didn't care how tired I was lol
@shirlspark_stardust Жыл бұрын
Hi sister Telsha I have dumped and blocked that bird on everything won’t hear from me ever those demon narcs can be miserable out there on they own. New Supple can have that malignant demon 😂
@kimsanders8262 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@maryanngray4519 Жыл бұрын
Narcissistic possessed demons N,P,D.
@jbsdiversified9510 Жыл бұрын
Yes the narcissist has tried that trick on me with failure. You are so right about the waking up at night and cleaning, washing, and other things to start an argument just to be able to leave so she could go and be with another supply. I've gone non contact and it's driving her crazy! No more narcissist forever !😮
@katashaluckey-prince8823 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad….GOD DELIVERED ME…..THANK YOU JESUS #divorced
@chrisbas9490 Жыл бұрын
A ballerina slipper and a cowboy hat!😂😂😂
@juttalarosa4944 Жыл бұрын
Toooo funny !!!!😂
@chrisbas9490 Жыл бұрын
@@juttalarosa4944 I tell ya, her vids are awesome, but I live for those comments! Has me lmao every time! :)
@juttalarosa4944 Жыл бұрын
I know!!! She's amazing! Helps us all so much in these terrible times!
@chrisbas9490 Жыл бұрын
@@juttalarosa4944 Thats my girl! 😂❤️
@abva569 ай бұрын
Well, my ex narc GF did go into therapy bc I wouldn't continue the relationship if they didn't. But do you think they're honest in therapy? Don't think so. They will use the therapist as damage control to further their victimhood agenda. Many therapist don't even know they're narcissist or not trained in narcissism. Especially the covert or vulnerable narcissist. No secular therapy really will work anyway. Only deliverance and Christ can be the way. But because they're reprobates, what is the chance of this actually happening are? Mine was "supposedly" a Christian. Believed in God.
@HonestyIsAVirtue7 Жыл бұрын
Very sad, but true Ms Tea... That's why I can't feel animosity towards his new supply. I have walked in her shoes. And, It wasn't that long ago that I was the one that was being used, and abused by him. I know how it feels.
@godislove7011 Жыл бұрын
She was deceived just like we were.
@latoniabell3266 Жыл бұрын
Yes, 😊as soon as he got married within two weeks he stop wearing his wedding ring& not going home to her. But calling me and and ..acting as if he didn’t just get married it was so weird 🤷🏾♀️I knew he didn’t love her but couldn’t figure out why he jumped & married her this stuff is like a wierd Sci-fi movie🤦🏾♀️
@katashaluckey-prince8823 Жыл бұрын
Ducks with ballerina slippers😂😂😂😂😂 Yasssssss…THAT PART
@chrissylovely5848 Жыл бұрын
I'm so his worse #KARAMA nightmare for life, I'm the chosen one Says the most high all mighty my Lord my savior Jesus christ 🙏
@dawnluchmee3511 Жыл бұрын
So true, Tea! 😢 These people are SICK!
@yemedemure414 Жыл бұрын
Going on 3yrs NC!! All praises to The Most High God. If I lived in the same state I’m sure he would harass and Hoover me.
@katashaluckey-prince8823 Жыл бұрын
They are disgusting humans…SMH
@sarahgant7614 Жыл бұрын
Once u take yourself out the picture and block them,the new supply will become even more boring as they were getting double supply now their not.i love your videos its refreshing to have some humour on this serious topic
@SharleneRitchieChaneb Жыл бұрын
Good day Ms. Telsha..have a blessed day.
@NoCappingSportsLegend Жыл бұрын
The stuff you saying is driven by the Holy Spirit because this is on point and accurate. Wish I would have left a while ago glad I’m not in it now
@blessedstar747 Жыл бұрын
Playing music late at night.
@SHIMSTAR1 Жыл бұрын
Blessings family no contact 2weeks feels empowering 🙏🏾💯
@tiffanycalloway5299 Жыл бұрын
Mine never cleaned anything! Including that bruised Behind hole!! YUCK
@makenziepolston1220 Жыл бұрын
Great message there no rest for the wicked praise the lord Jesus blessed by this message praying 🙏 ❤❤❤
@risinggoddess559 Жыл бұрын
I rocks with my girl. I love your energy.
@td2968 Жыл бұрын
The narc isn't thinking about you while with new supply
@Melvina19755 ай бұрын
Actually they are... that is why they lie and say they are going to the store so they can call you!
@angelalowe654924 күн бұрын
Oh yes they are!!!
@nadinewashington7467 Жыл бұрын
Oh my. All on my street. Woke me up one time at 3am to ask me if I loved him. Lord Jesus
@FernandoLopez-ev7xg Жыл бұрын
FACTS😮 I JUST GOT HOVERED AFTER A YEAR DISGAURD
@JEMENPLUME3 ай бұрын
So many answers on your channel…. That’s incredible !
@MA-yv8dw Жыл бұрын
😢❤ sorry new supplies 😂😂😂 he's your problem. Once they reach a certain age it's a WRAP! 🌯 forget about it a😂
@jbsdiversified9510 Жыл бұрын
Hi Tea! It's good to be back with you my beautiful and blessed sister! I missed your wisdom and knowledge of these wicked being known as narcissist! No more narcissist forever!
@juttalarosa4944 Жыл бұрын
Words can not express how much you are helping me and millions of other survivors!!! Please keep going, never stop with your incredible wisdom! And your toooo funny! Thanks for what you are doing gor your community! I/ we love you!❤😊
@bukelwamlanjana4666 Жыл бұрын
He made fights alright , twice, third time told him to go, left me pregnant, never seen his face since and my baby is his dirty little secret to his old supply that he also has a baby with. Sicko I tell you. Best thing he did was going, keeps trying his luck so I blocked him coz he does nothing for my child, he can fly a kite
@mariotaylor9659 Жыл бұрын
Shot out to my ex narcissist keep hoeing and going yo P! Is for everybody 304!
@chosenonekay Жыл бұрын
Definitely, my ex narc would always try and reach out every time he got with someone new and I would not allow him to triangulate me. I would reject him everytime! I know he hates for it thats why im fully at no contact right now !
@Cristiano-n5r Жыл бұрын
I left my narcissist soon to be ex husband
@vanessawilliams7660 Жыл бұрын
4 months NO CONTACT Amen love you All thanks Beautiful Sis !!!!!!! Never will I entertain that Monster
@brotherhype-maninchristjes2766 Жыл бұрын
Praise the LORD amen, sister Telsha. God bless. Agape love❤
When I think back it blows my mind how many times he would start an argument to go to the bar. Lol
@sonjaguillory4247 Жыл бұрын
Yes, they think it's normal
@Tinablackberryrose Жыл бұрын
If the bird I knew is with a new supply I feel real sorry and I 🙏🏾 for her I’ve been there and I know what she’s about to face. I have him and his entire family blocked and I don’t look at none of their socials and since I had to deactivate my FB account because of his projection I don’t go on FB at all.
@leandraherring1824 Жыл бұрын
MS. TEA U KEEP DROPPING THESE JEWELS AND 🔥🔥🔥 ON THESE ROACHES YES THAT HOPPING FROG REACHED BACK NO SIR YOU STAY OVER THERE WITH THAT DRAGON BALL WITH THE 3 MISSING PLAITS IN THE BACK RHINOS 😂😂 NO CONTACT 💯 4 LIFE.. LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤
@moonglow1158 Жыл бұрын
Oh yes midnight arguments for sure , throwing things , slamming doors .... sitting around later like a drunk overgrown baby .. on dole and alcohol ... or whacked out on drugs you hadn't known about .. those uppers they do make doors get broke and they want to brake ya face too .. awful .
@sonjaguillory4247 Жыл бұрын
Sure did reach out after getting married...even got many hoovers after IT got married
@danovangrinnell4479 Жыл бұрын
She tried that shit with me u can't imagine how a totally disgraced her
@MarriageFraudSurvivors Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I’m not dealing with this POS demon doing this BS to me any longer. And the new supply chain has my deepest sympathy. Other than the divorce being finalized, there’s no words that emp has to say to me, ever in life!
@dailyprayers5853 Жыл бұрын
You speak facts
@ellemoo44 Жыл бұрын
I made the mistake of providing closure to him after I discarded. Still hoovers but he ain't risking another narc injury. Only reason I unblocked 12 months later was to remove last remaining mutual friends then blocked again. No info, no mutual friends, no number to contact, I told him when I'm done I'm done, all he has now is cryptic social media updates that I haven't checked one time, his fake clown posse that exist in his head online, and hacking my online accounts or family members 🤦♀️ Sad
@dawnettawilkins2088 Жыл бұрын
When I was still dealing with the ex narc 1 of victims had reached out to me & she said the ex narc told her he didn't want her he wanted me grade A supply & that piece of trash of chick he picked up in the gutter 😂😂😂he knew I was to good for him he was always trying to buy me but I'm a very independent woman so it didn't phase me like that 😂😂
@ShunSmith-dw8hj10 ай бұрын
😂😂
@dawnettawilkins2088 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ms T what you said the devil is a lie 11 months today I celebrate everyday 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈
@Peacealways247 Жыл бұрын
Your videos make me think about certain times and they make sense. This fool used the, "I need to go home and write some sermons" excuse to get away and not knowing what he was doing, I was like well, go. Then came the lie that his coworkers were getting together to give him a going away celebration but I wasn't invited 😏 AND WE WERE IN THE HOT MIDDLE OF COVID. Who's doing that? Nobody was getting together for anything. This fool didn't care if he brought COVID to me nor the other person. He did hoover me and I told him he needed Jesus and went into a text rage😂😂😂. I've seen him in the past 2 months at a funeral by himself...crazy self..looking like a backwards walking turtle giraffe😂. They are sick folks.
@beckysouthlondon Жыл бұрын
Wooo you just did that....
@angelalowe654924 күн бұрын
Happening to me now, his Hoovers are coming weekly. He hoovered me on his birthday and now today on Halloween, he stands on my porch staring into my ring camera. Mind you he just went on vacation with the new supply as soon as he came back from his birthday vacation he started hoovering me
@MonyaJackson-b2w Жыл бұрын
Man you really going in Amen
@HEKKYNAH2 ай бұрын
Had a tough life. I can love but wont know if im hurt unless I want you to
@KellieAlston Жыл бұрын
I knew this was what he is doing. He was relentless. Used three different strange numbers, my now ex- best friend, and so many other strategies. He contacted me while at the airport coming back from his DESTINATION wedding, you hear me? Had said he was going on a writing retreat but was getting married. I could write a book, you hear me? There is no telling what that woman went through. They are divorced now and he actually said that he and his family realize that the marriage was the worse thing he ever did. Just as you said. Interestingly, God showed me recently that HE is just like "LEGION." God heard my prayers, decrees, and declarations, so that joker had to go. God protected me. I could have married him and been tortured. Glory be to God!!!!🙌🏽
@TxHoneyBee Жыл бұрын
Did I miss a live stream last night? I don't see it online. I love the Thursday sermons.
@sabnoor1575 Жыл бұрын
In my situation. The narc has promoted back burner to primary and is working on new New supply.
@christianyouthdj Жыл бұрын
Been there..
@yemedemure414 Жыл бұрын
I hate Facebook memories the Narc demon re posted the video when he proposed to me. That was almost 3yrs ago!!! 🙄🙄🙄🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😩
@kimmoyo8220 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ms. T. ❤❤🙏
@emperorofeffectiveeducatio2105 Жыл бұрын
Backwards Walking Girraffes.😅😅
@ShonellisMusicEntertainment Жыл бұрын
Truth!!!💯💯💯💯💯
@sonjaguillory4247 Жыл бұрын
The devil is a got damn lie!!
@katashaluckey-prince8823 Жыл бұрын
The fool…woke us up .. one time….arguing about his Apple Watch…..lol…this fool threw it behind the dryer……foolishness….. They are low down…& will do anything ridiculous…to get out of your sight. I do not feel sorry for the NS…..you play stupid games….you get stupid rewards. Y’all stay blessed
@moonglow1158 Жыл бұрын
Yes they can get on that sex app to get their next supply like all day long to get rid of the last one ..
@DonnaS-q9s5 ай бұрын
He uses his new wife $ and she wants him out he’s screwed he is going to anything to make sure he doesn’t lose everything!
@danasmith8390 Жыл бұрын
Yes, after got married and soon after his mom reached out to me. So confusing
@heaven4life69 Жыл бұрын
Truth!!!!!!
@lorraineamaker9416 Жыл бұрын
Hoovered by proxy. My family already know. Staying n.c.