#9 The Most Enjoyable Woman || Relationship Goals

[@RighteousnRich]

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[@grizzlybear2702]

What you said in the beginning 40 seconds of the video is completely wrong and backwards. Women want men that are higher status then themselves not vice versa. A wealthy man will marry a poor woman but a woman will see any man who earns the same or less as a inferior human being. Pressuring her for her beauty is true under the condition that you are a handsome man. But your absolutely right when you said the relationship starts of great but is guaranteed to get progressively worse as time goes by.

[@MoSquared81]

​gup

[@strivinghope]

May Allah allow anyone who’s looking to get married, to find a righteous spouse that will be the coolness of their eyes. Ameen.

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

you are enough chillll

[@bintjamiel2873]

Ameen yaa’Rabb

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

@Bilal Demede advise the sister in a more gentle manner akh

[@갱갱항상]

sister i would recommend changing your profile picture as it has a symbol of shaytaan in it.

[@strivinghope]

@@갱갱항상 Removed! Jazak Allahu khayr

[@TheDarkuchiha101]

looool I think I finally clocked the Somali proverb Dawahman's talking about: kabo aadan lahayn ha ku soconin - Don't walk in shoes that don't belong to you (i.e don't try to be someone you're not)

[@tamimabdullah4638]

40:47 "A person can't walk another person's walk for too long" Wisdom ❤️

[@sf6510]

Although I'm not married (in sha Allah soon), I find your talks very insightful. Anything that doesn't have it's foundation as for the sake of Allah, will eventually crumble.

[@abuabdillahat-tunisi1775]

Ikhwa I had a suggestion for an episode down the line. Maybe a specific episode about wedding and wedding expectations, maybe how to have a halal wedding and setup/expenses/etc. not too detailed but enough for an understanding.

[@MotorStorm66]

Maybe also something to do with parents opposing their kids' choice of spouse based on ethnicity, etc?

[@sb_1389]

@username101 tba xmas trees!! 😂😂😂

[@Junuu]

Marriage seems mad scary, seems like marriage requires a lot of mental CPU power. SubhanAllah

[@beinghuman4725]

Yeah

[@sb_1389]

It does, but I hear the game play and payoff is rad.

[@djyyy3015]

@@sb_1389 😂

[@sb_1389]

@@djyyy3015 🤓

[@maya.x2036]

I’m not too sure of the exact Somali proverbs brother Imraan is referring to but there is one proverbs that comes to mind that delivers a very similar message. “Luuq luuq maroow, laazim laamigaas imaahaa” which translated to “Regardless of he taking narrow paths and shortcuts he'll be back to mainstreet”

[@realpaperboy6219]

The Somali saying is “ socod ad u dhalan sadax saamod ma dhaafo” which means “ the walk that you didn’t born into doesn’t exceed more than 3 steps”

[@janpierporunarefu2941]

This series is just pure bliss.

[@sb_1389]

Imran: I just want everyone to know I'm joking 😅 Also Imran: But I'm also very serious. 😐 Very nice episode, gents. Very respectful, informative, good conversation, minimal interruptions, etc. May Allah (swt) bless you for your efforts.

[@ZeeshanAli-nm7eq]

I am going through a really hard time, and you posted this lecture alhamdulillah, jazakAllah bhai Imran, really needed this...!

[@abdulahad-sc5ti]

I’m so happy that u man talk about this massive topic so much. Mashallah. God bless u man. Frfr

[@Survivor2661]

I watch these episodes not for myself but for my kids when it comes to a time for them to get married! Inshaa’Allah!!!Pray for me people ! 🤲🏽

[@tanzila2568]

Can you make a relationship goals podcast on what requirements sisters should have of brothers in terms of their deen. So what things should they look for in terms of their deen. I think that would be extremely beneficial, especially for sisters who don't have practicing walis to do that for them and they don't want to be fooled by someone claiming to be practicing. Jazakallahu khair, that would be v v appreciated.

[@thepanda21]

So soo sooo beneficial allahumma barik!!! Wallahi all of it is so true and important yet the love hormone blinds us. But wallahi i can relate. I learned a lot from this podcast may Allah bless you and brother Abbas. Ameen

[@hopefulthatthingswillgetbetter]

Could you make a video about how women living in the West with no Mahram/no Wali should search for a righteous spouse & how they could get to know this person better without falling into haram? I'm talking about women with no practicing or caring men in their life & about revert sisters. In the UK there are more mosques but for example where I live there are not a lot & there might also be a language barrier since we Muslims here are from different parts of the world.

[@islamimumin6641]

Assalamu alaykum brother. Im glad you mentioned the angels curse part. I always didnt like hearing this but it sounds better from the way you explained it

[@hoodoabdi5370]

My Allah increase the sweetness of your heart brothers especially sir emran

[@ma_c_ray3455]

Ma'Sha'Allah brothers. Sometimes though daughters do grow up to be better women than their mothers ever were. Allah truly does guides who He wills

[@IbnSharif]

Can’t wait for the Hijra episode.

[@xSunnyDaysx]

40:30 Had to ask my mom for this one. I'm guessing it's one of the first two, because the other ones are too longer for people your age to use. - Ismoogeh (one who acts like he's some one else and people have noticed him 'slacking' but he's not aware of it) - Kabo aa laheeyn ha isku gishan; don't wear shoes which aren't yours. Don't try to be some one you're not. - Qaajo maro cad: the literal translation is hunger with a white cloth. Meaning pretending to be some else. - Isku dayasho dameer aa cunug ku dhalay (ama ku rimaday). Copying others made a male donkey birth kids. You will never be like some one else hence the male donkey birthing kids... it's impossible. - Dameerti faras la daaqdo, faras ee is mooda. the literal translation is the donkey that surrounds himself with horses thinks he's one too. You think you have the status of the people you hang out/ surround yourself with.

[@salmaali7390]

I heard all 🙂

[@Zaruuja123]

I’m impressed with you and your dedication for the maahmaah it’s amazing you did it a great job 👏

[@xSunnyDaysx]

@@Zaruuja123 Allahumma barik feek. Well thank you!!!!

[@RakhtanQ]

You don’t need to put that topic at 58:46 in there, this is world-class content even though sometimes it takes me days to complete these podcasts but I do enjoy them. Thanks for the content worth my time, we need these type of discussions in order to know what we need to be cautious about

[@adeelnisar7907]

When Abbas said it’s very organic made me feel happy alhamdulilah idk why 😅 53:20

[@amatullah3491]

SubxanaAllah what a beautiful lecture 😍😍JazzakAllah kheyr akhi..

[@ghurabaa114xx]

This was really good! May Allah allow us to be enjoyable wives for our husbands aameen

[@InaAbdurRazzaq]

Salam aleikum, sister. We should be strict with our languge when interacting with the opposite gender and should refrain from using hearts. May Allah Azzawajal bless you

[@lilgilz]

اسلام عليكم ورحمه الله وبركاته I found this series really beneficial. May Allah swt rewards you guys. If possible maybe can there be a episode of where viewers can pose their questions regarding the issues covered. I really think it would be beneficial.

[@zahidajaved6551]

MashaaAllah learnt so much

[@baha3738]

Living the consecutive content Akhis. Keep up the good work Allahuma Barak

[@predestinedbyGod]

🐐 channel

[@R3HM4NR424]

Asalam alaikum, how do you remove hypocrisy from yourself , and how do you know if youre a hypocrite ? Jazaak Allah khair

[@MK-xg6jk]

Love this podcast but i was stressed DawahMans thobe will hit the candle

[@7577ia]

32:35 it is so true that if he is not of the same status / intelligent / resourceful then she DOES have hard time ....he disappoints her and she can't give him the status of a leader of household.....only giving him status to obey Allah..... only for taqwa that she has but it tears her heart apart and she holds on to Taqwa .....O ,its very painful 💔😔

[@afiandure6744]

You should talk about simping it's a global pandemic in its own right

[@humbleDon96]

Love these series

[@ah3621]

we prayed the janaza at a graveyard bc the masjids were closed bc of corona when my cousin died. i think they are still doing that, is that allowed?

[@yaseen99]

Jenaza prayer is an exception. The prophet did it before.

[@xhafsaah]

Sheikh ibn baaz was blind, soubhana Allaah I didn’t know that🥺

[@Lion_Tawheed]

Wa alaykumu s-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brother Imran and Abbas

[@pradelelien3267]

Attraction is important!

[@faeiger9215]

41:35 what’s the difference between faking it and actually improving? Because the process seems the same to me🤷🏽‍♂️ it’s a bit like fake it till you make it...

[@iimiboy]

Fake is having the intention to fool someone but trying genuinely is making an effort to improve

[@tamimabdullah4638]

@@iimiboy well said brother. Allahummabarik.

[@7577ia]

It is so true ...that a woman tolerates a man and gives him his status of husband just because of fear of Allah.......

[@addisachannel169]

how about women right if husband neglect her right angle will curse him or no

[@salmaali7390]

I understand so much this video thank you so much

[@ghanwasiddiqi15]

Assalamualaikum Imran, i was wondering if you can do a video about living with in laws after marriage, and wife wanting to move out and the idea of 'husband choosing the wife or the mother' and the rights of the wife, husband and parents. Jazakallah khair

[@sadiya8075]

I hope you know you have the upper hand here it’s your right to have a place of your own.

[@sophiesumleen7872]

:( not all us woman can hv da privilege 💔

[@MuslimahInSolace]

You should discuss that before marriage. If you accepted that before marriage then you can't change the terms after. You need to make it clear before marriage. What I see sisters agree to everything then after marriage start fitna and demanding change - uh No

[@sb_1389]

@@MuslimahInSolace according to what I've heard from knowledgeable people, this is a right of a wife so even if she originally agreed to cohabitation, but later isn't comfortable with it, there's nothing wrong with that. But Allah (swt) knows best. I'd highly advise everyone to watch Tim Humble's lecture series on The Muslim Family. It's incredibly well done, mashallah.

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

Jazak allahu khairan for clarifying who we take out knowledge from 😂😂

[@copysulting]

Brooooo...can you compile all your marriage/relationship videos into a playlist or even make playlists for all your videos

[@princegaraad7308]

Why don't you add knowledge college with the sunnah match?

[@mahaalhajahmed3425]

I asked this in the previous Relationship Goals video if y'all cater to people in Canada. Kindly let me know.

[@AllahKnowsme07]

check for details on their website sunnahmatch.com

[@riderbuu1]

i’m not able to pay for knowledge college. im from india. my bank has np but still it’s showin that my bank has a problem

[@ziasmailbox]

same here brother. you can create a paypal and transfer to paypal and then send via paypal. insha allah ta'ala

[@malinamahamoud2105]

Is sunnah match in International, or just your locality?

[@bintjamiel2873]

As far as I last checked it’s only for US, UK and Canada 😔 if you can read thru the terms and conditions but I guess that’s for security reasons and easy follow up.

[@adeelnisar7907]

The tawheed Tuesdays was the best series in my unvalued opinion so please carry them on❤️

[@saiemamarium6749]

Plz make the age one too

[@ilmunaifi]

#how #to #choose #a #wife #islam #spouse #husband

[@aviadeloi498]

Asalamu alkykum brother Imran, I just wanted to ask if you don’t mind, have you memorised the full Quran??

[@esamuhammad1330]

No he is not hafiz . He is talaffi

[@youtubeaccount0x073]

Can you explain how a woman gets a khul’ in the west since we have no qadhi. And what are the conditions to get a khul’

[@youtubeaccount0x073]

Caramel Cupcake JazakAllahu khayran. But what about on the cases where the husband doesn’t accept and the judge is needed to annul it?

[@youtubeaccount0x073]

Caramel Cupcake that’s very true. A rightoues man would be a kind man. Like the saying “marry a rightoues man and you won’t have to worry about him harming you” so that stresses important of marrying to a rightoues spouse. But I have to mention: violence is never the answer.

[@youtubeaccount0x073]

Caramel Cupcake LOL! Yup! You too akhi. JazakAllahu khayrayn. May Allah keep you firm on his religion and make you among the inhabitants of Al-firdaus.

[@no1ba577]

The proverb your looking for... I think 😅 *Dawaco tallaabadeedii ka tagtay* The fox that left its stride (literal translation) (Meaning; pretending to be something you're not in a pathetic way) LOOOL idk if this the one you takin bout, but it's the one that came to mind still, ps if an adeer or habaryar say it's wrong and laugh in yo face, I didn't tell you nothing 🤣🤣

[@louisdeniau8571]

explain the love and mercy verse

[@maryamnoor8764]

Is sunnah match only for the UK?

[@birgun8812]

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته no sis

[@ayshamuhammad2744]

ASSALAMU ALAIKUM HOOYO IYO IBANE MAXALKARAWA ALLAH XANABARAKEEYO SOMALIA🖤🖤🥰

[@houriaaa8685]

Love is supuse to grow

[@adamesmail]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

[@HawaK98]

I live in the U.S. and I was wondering is Sunnah Match based for people only in the U.K. or is it international?

[@nabilyasin2088]

There are Americans on there too

[@HawaK98]

Nabil Yasin Oh okay thanks.

[@ssmmm1926]

Just ask them loads of questions about the deen and their lack of knowledge will show up in their speech and you'll know they pretending.

[@nightowl522]

yea thats a good point

[@omariyo1385]

22:06 who’s seen the meme 😭

[@mr.knockknock3705]

I don't

[@muhammadfirdausbinmuhammad9375]

Is Naseeha Sessions on spotify?

[@Rosa-hi1xq]

SALAM CAN YOU PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO TO WHAT HAPPENED RECENTLY WITH RIHANNA USING *HADITH* AS MUSIC AT A RUNWAY LINGERIE SHOW? SUBHANALLAH WHAT HAS THE WORLD COME TO

[@southside-hornbaby5325]

I’m convinced Imran has a Somali wife lol

[@southside-hornbaby5325]

@EQ okay Allahuma baarak.

[@iimiboy]

Assalaamualaikum Akhi imran did you watch the young smirks podcast criticising you and brother Daniel? Abu taubah and Abu umar was talking so much garbage and contradicting themselves throughout the vid and going against their own made up principles. You need to respond ASAP

[@sb_1389]

I disagree, there isn't a need to add fuel to this mess. Almost everyone has agreed that podcast was in poor taste. Abu Mussab Wajdi Akkari also did a very good analysis on it. I don't feel anything more needs to be said.

[@altaftamboli187]

MASHALLAH

[@ii7926]

31:28 I get the reference

[@razer0072073]

15:04 18:24

[@nz7464]

That thumbnail tho😂🤣

[@Moses-jo5ox]

Alhamdulilah

[@hamzahkhaliq8920]

Brother Imran, you need sleep akhi

[@Moses-jo5ox]

Subhanallah

[@bilzy7062]

Can dua change qadr?

[@saharsakri578]

Yes!

[@bilzy7062]

Sahar Sakri but i heard there are certain things Allah won’t change . Are u sure

[@m.s20]

Bilal Yusuf Watch this for a brief explanation of your question: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jXOomZR_n9WAgZo This video is an in depth explanation of the concept of qadr in islam so you become more knowledgeable on the subject, i highly recommend you watch it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a3WUZ42kjLCmiJI

[@ziasmailbox]

@@bilzy7062 yes Allah az zawajal has the authority to accept your dua in three ways. either he will accept it as you wished, or He will give you something better, if not these then He will remove something harmful from your life or afterlife.

[@bilzy7062]

the watermelon queen thank you may Allah reward you

[@shahidulhasan1147]

Sir i really have a important question Can you please give me the answer

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

Here is the Answer

[@shahidulhasan1147]

@@slaveofthemostmerciful7855 can i ask the question??

[@DiddiPinkki]

Which question?

[@shahidulhasan1147]

@@DiddiPinkki is marrying my grandpas real sisters daughter who is few months junior than me is haram means my fathers cousin.

[@DiddiPinkki]

@@shahidulhasan1147 “Restrictions based on Relationship: There are certain blood relations which are considered haraam for you as far as marriage is concerned. (As a general rule, anyone who is your mahram is forbidden to you for marriage.) The list of such relatives is given in the Qur’an as follows: For Man: mother, daughter, paternal aunt, maternal aunt, niece, foster-mother, foster-sister, mother-in-law, step-daughter, daughter-in-law, all married women, sister-in-law (as a 2nd wife) (See Surah an-Nisaa’ 4:23-24) For Woman: father, son, paternal uncle, maternal uncle, nephew, foster-mother’s husband, foster-brother, father-in-law, stepson, son-in-law. Cousin Marriages: Though Shariah does not forbid marriage between first cousins, but there are opinions advocating against them mainly due to a probable risk of the offspring inheriting genetic defects/diseases." Source:www.al-islam.org/islamic-marriage-handbook-syed-athar-husayn-sh-rizvi/selection-spouse

[@MAhmed-zs2vp]

🤔 but what about when you pray Qur'an when you go to the graveyard for esaale thawaab at your loved ones' grave

[@riderbuu1]

masha Allah

[@negla8069]

gravity?

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

9.81

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

Bro does age matter, 18 yr old bro marring a 20+ sister

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

Dont be a secret wife!!! Like if I a young guy approaches an older woman in marriage is he likely to be refused

[@AllahKnowsme07]

I think it depends, (for example, the level of maturity on both sides, and *basically all around compatibility*) wallahualam.

[@bintjamiel2873]

What matters the most is what we are supposed to look for in both gender before marriage then other factors may come in but it’s not something should eat us up for example our Prophet (PBUH) and Khadijah our mother she was older than him.

[@meemvlogs7461]

Honestly it doesn’t matter rasool was 25 and married khadijah that was 40 like I’m 25 marrying 22 year old

[@ghafranhaque7161]

Anyone looking for a spouse, female, male, need to ask the other person about their views on feminism and freedom.

[@northwestsisters4802]

Asalamu Alaikum, We've emailed you about some important things and we're looking forward to hearing back from you InSha'Allah! Jazakom Allah Khair

[@chiaravezzutti6571]

What about asaxual people???? Ever heard of that?

[@chiaravezzutti6571]

Amirah M omg I’m sorry professor, English is my third language it’s normal for me to make some mistakes mr.No one

[@ziasmailbox]

@@chiaravezzutti6571 asexual in a sense brother? same sex attraction or no attraction at all?

[@chiaravezzutti6571]

Zia Ur Rahman no sexual attraction at all

[@alhomsiyyah]

.....then don't get married?

[@sweetsoul3169]

@@alhomsiyyah man marriage isnt only for sex. Its about having a righteous companion that will help you and love you for the sake of Allah azza wa jal in your journey.

[@Tizzytarantino]

❤️

[@sanayaseen5134]

that sounds degrading-the way you put it. Why not write -the most ‘enjoyable’ man

[@RighteousnRich]

It’s called click bait ... and the hadeeth explains it after

[@muhammedzakariya694]

It’s true all these Titles are stupid no need to title it like that. Looks so degrading of our sisters

[@iimiboy]

@@muhammedzakariya694 stop being a girl

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

No Arabs on sunnah match reach out to the Arabs bro

[@Zazezoo]

Cos sun nah match is for Muslims, nobody cares about Arabs or non Arabs , only Islam unites us

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

@@Zazezoo yeah no one denies that. But some people would rather marry their own ethnicity due to compatibility or they’re more attracted to them and vice versa

[@pradelelien3267]

Religion and beauty

[@amatullah3491]

28:26😯

[@Ahmad-ps4hn]

Host is cutting off Imran too much just shut up for a bit bro 🙏🏼😭

[@lolayt375]

I emailed brother. It’s very important

[@amina6725]

Asc

[@slaveofthemostmerciful7855]

Does asc stand for aslam?

[@chiaravezzutti6571]

So...you’re saying that people that don’t have the deen are bad husbands and wives????

[@RighteousnRich]

Absolutely! ... and this is not from me but from Allah and His Messenger ﷺ ... is you can’t be good to Allah, the One who is most deserving of our goodness, then who can we be good to after!

[@chiaravezzutti6571]

Naseeha Sessions have you ever checked if that’s right or wrong or are just gonna assume cause a book says it?

[@chiaravezzutti6571]

Naseeha Sessions and btw deen is somethings that kinda comes and goes you can’t always be 100% on your deen so...

[@chiaravezzutti6571]

Abū AbdulRahmān I’m talking about my point of you you can’t generalize something just cause it works in your favor

[@alhomsiyyah]

@@chiaravezzutti6571 how can you have true justice and true fairness in a relationship if it's not built upon the justice and fairness of Allah's religion?

[@dohaeljjouaoui1331]

Second

[@dailyreminder1358]

The left guy speaks too loud😬

[@sadafahmed9563]

I don't agree daughter should be like the mother that is not possible to much pressure on the woman, no son is completely like the father either! Also feen is not enough to make good man this actually comes from the family child rearing as they ar many beards so called Islamic men who treat their wives bad. Also alot of sisters come across men who want sex all the time this is not Islamic at Ll and unreasonable, like the woman is just a sex object, completely insensitive of the womans menses state of mind. Man has learnt to be like human being! We need a woman's point of view on any spouse to demand sex all the time is unreasonable. A knew a sister who met a bearded man and he was demanding it 3 times a week?? Completely WRONG.

[@sophiesumleen7872]

Prophet saws recommended to choose deen for marriage. Allah has spoken of righteous women guarding what Allah wants them to be guarded in husband's presence. If someone is striving to become a better muslim, they can become a better human and spouse. How are there muslims cheating on their spouses? Becuz they don't fear Allah enough in case of modesty.

[@sophiesumleen7872]

And what do u mean deen is not enough? Do u know what Islam is? It is the perfect way of life. Allah created us for his worship. Islam is perfect. Just becuz a so called religious muslim is like dat, does not belittle da fact that deen is important in selecting a spouse.

[@sophiesumleen7872]

Also why don't u talk about less religious muslim men cheating on their wives in brothels and other women? Why only the bearded men? It does not matter what we think if it contradicts da quran and sunnah

[@sb_1389]

Sex is a vitally important part of marriage, the desire for which (within the permissible bounds of marriage) is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. If a woman's drive isn't keeping up with her husband's, he might consider taking another wife, or divorcing and marrying a woman for whom the frequency is not a burden. Sister, I'd advise you to look into why you have such toxic views on intimacy.

[@iqradahir946]

3 times a week that's nothing seriously she's tired

[@ghurabaa114xx]

This was really good! May Allah allow us to be enjoyable wives for our husbands aameen

[@mr.knockknock3705]

Ameen

[@adamesmail]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته