Natal Moon Opposite Venus- Love yourself to get love

[@cassei18]

Thank you. I needed this more than anything. I felt this was the younger me in many ways though I hide it. I'm very slow to show deep emotions or express to others. I used to be in constant conflict with myself. Today, more than before I need a lot of alone time to process my thoughts and emotions. For which I feel connected to and disconnected from at the same time. I know I'm loved but I don't feel entirely connected to those around me at times. I'm more comforted by how I feel towards myself that's when I feel loved the most. I'm more comfortable and at peace when I'm alone. Moon cancer Venus cap here 7°opp.

[@VladaldTrumptin]

I feel you :)

[@joyce123rocks]

I have the same placement! I feel this way too wow

[@theresapelham1918]

Same here! Cancer moon Venus Cap! Wow

[@SafniA-t9u]

mine is pisces venus virgo moon;(

[@BruceL33Roy]

Acquiescencing MORE than those around can only lead to being taken advantage of. " Be There for Yourseld, so Yourself can be there FOR YOU" Thats what the Angels told me God Bless...

[@jerrah79]

I just had to say, this caught my eye, because it's the simple straight forward language and pure obvious kind of truth that I recognize to be truly from our creator, though for some reason, I tend to not think about angels, and even I almost usually take mention of them with an eye roll, ...this short little 2 year old comment struck me just right to open up my mind and heart more. Had to say thanks 💚

[@geraldinegoedtkindt9551]

This aspect is strong in my chart, it has 1 degree orbs, i have moon cancer in house 11 opposition venus capricorn in house 5. in my childhood i was very comfortable when alone but in a group i was lonely because i didnt got a real connection 2 someone, i felt the odd untermensch girl, i was alone in this world without the feeling of being a part of it, and when i was a part of that i was the one who got used as the slave.... also in my middle class when i was a young 17 year old i was the slave from my friends, there was a lack of disrespect and i could not find any respect for myself cause i didnt love myself that time... even my parents got me the feeling that they hated me for whom i was, i felt like i did nothing right and when i did something right it was just normal but never good, no compliments only breaking you down so i think that it is normal you got this unloving feeling for yourself! i also attract the narcissist kind of man, they see the insecure me and parasite on me, i had a relationship of abusive behavior towards me for about 7 years and i kept it a secret to the outside world cause i was scared that someone would say i had to leave him and i didnt want to end up alone again but actually i was the most lonely person in the world back then.... Then all of a sudden i talked to my innerself and i fell this unconditinial love for myself and i got healed from inside out, and it started to become more spritualminded and fell the right energy inwards me and my selfesteem kept growing because i have a beautiful inside and i feel more happy then before..... Thank you for this accurate explanation of this rather challenging aspect.....

[@marilynzeinel-abidin1027]

You are one of the best astrologers out there, Jewel

[@sigreddasparks16]

I have Pisces Moon and Saturn opposite Virgo Sun and Venus all within 5 degrees. This video has described my ongoing issue of feeling like I need someone else in my life for that emotional stability and security. I have been learning to deal with this on my own as with a Virgo Venus opp Saturn I'm sure you know that would make the process a bit more painful and cause more solitude and confinement when it comes to love than any other aspect I just mentioned. So I have always felt alone and isolated from others when I just wanted to be a part of a friend group and have people that cared about me as friends and valued me in their lives. I've been learning more in the past 3 years that I have to take care of myself and if someone doesn't mean me well then I need to drop them like there's no tomorrow. I've always had that mentality for the latter but I just never really had to implement it all the way. But I know for certain that I'm gaining more self-worth and learning to trust myself and my instincts and go slower with others and treat others as the treat me, nothing more nothing less.

[@SafniA-t9u]

how you do that? i have issue to drop peoples who are not respect me. also my moon is virgo and my venus is pisces

[@Cheri04]

Thank you Jewel for this interpretation. I started my astrology self studied journey 7 years ago. It is today watching this, I finally applied my lesson how to balance this opposition. I didn’t know how but this lack of love ran my life theme for the majority. After almost 4 decades and while transiting Pluto square my Moon. It helps me see within myself and take a step back from people. I stand by “treat myself like how I wants others to treat me”. At first it sounded selfish but it has greatly impact my life for the better - it set boundaries and being less giving in the very beginning (mindful being taken advantage of)

[@earthshaker1217]

I feel this 😣😣😣 Taurus Moon opposite Scorpio Venus. But I've been working on not being codependent. 😧😧😧

[@MissDrea14_]

earthshaker1217 same here

[@iridescentillumination]

I'm a Scorpio moon opposite a Taurus venus haha 😎

[@Chloe-pi8hf]

Same

[@rae7701]

earthshaker1217 i have this exact placement too with my Venus conjunct pluto..

[@raindrop6041]

Same!!

[@mary1stcor15v1-4]

Awwe for me my venus in pisces- is in opposition to my moon in virgo. I've learned to deal with my emotions spiritually. It's the best way I get over things. Praying and crying to God. Because nobody can handle my emotions to my standards and he surpasses them of course so praying and talking to God ... not even spiritual counsel from another adult...just praying TO God I have found comfort...and learned to love him, loving myself where I can properly love others without anticipating their love in return because my love is enough. Gods love is even more enough. To an unbeliever I simply look like a person who is able to comfort myself and pick myself back up because people that try to help, though their intentions were probably pure and their heart in the right place.. the actions wont be registered because I was meant to do it myself... and myself is only able to do it with the help of God. He feels that empty void with strength to carry through.

[@JebAntannWalker]

Amen

[@SafniA-t9u]

I have same venus and moon like you but also my venus and my moon square my saturn and pluto:(

[@mary1stcor15v1-4]

@user-dz3qq3jw3o yeaaah a lot can happen in 3 years. I no longer follow astrology. I am saved by the blood of Jesus & Sealed by the Holy Spirit. Had to renounce & denounce this stuff in the name of Jesus. It has led to my detriment. Nobody knows us like God does. The will of God for our lives comes after you get saved by believing in the death, burial, and ressurection of Jesus Christ (1 corinthians 25:1-4) having faith in his blood that it's sufficient to save, for all have sinned & come short of the glory of God, being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation (a sacrificial atonement & ransom for all) through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God. (Romans 3:23-25). This leads us to believe from our heart that it was the power of God that he rose Jesus from the dead, so that we can be saved (romans 10:9-10) & sealed by the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 1:13) Then we will be transformed. Our souls become preserved blameless in the sight of God, and we will achieve eternal life. (1 Thessalonians 5:23) And though we won't be "perfect" because we will still battle sin with our flesh, one day, we will be raptured up and receive our heavenly bodies that gives us a perfect body to go with our perfected souls. (1 corinthians 15:50-54) Till then, we study God's word and rightly divide the scriptures (2 Timothy 2:15) in order to show ourselves approved unto God. The more we study, the more we grow in our faith. (Romans 10:17). For it is grace that we are saved through faith. And that not of ourselves, it is a gift of God. Not of "works" lest any man should boast. (Ephesians 2:8-9) Every other religion & false belief in the world encourages you have to "do something" to earn heaven. Nobody can "earn" heaven because we all deserve to perish due to sin... (romans 6:23) The 3 parts of a man is a soul, body, and spirit. Prior to Adam & Eve sinning, they were once perfect & made in the image of God because the image of God is the Father, The Son (Jesus) and the Holy Spirit. 3/3=1 God of three persons or roles. He made us in his image by us having an eternal soul, once an immortal spirit & an immortal body.

[@mary1stcor15v1-4]

@user-dz3qq3jw3o But sin ruined everything. As the judgement God said sin equates to death. So the immortality of Adam died. The immortal spirit died making him no longer in the image of God, but rather, in the image of a fallen man. 2/3 of a man a soul in a body aka 2/3=.666 the number of man & beast. (Revelation 13:15-18) For Satan in the garden of eden was the most subtil of all the beasts according to Genesis 3:1. And he caused man to fall. Therefore we are now born in the image of fallen Adam .666 in need of a desperate savior. That's why God came in the form of man to die for our sins, because he made hell originally for Satan & his angels and Satan is trying to get as many people condemned and to stay fallen as much as possible. See when you get saved, you become whole again with Jesus. 3/3= 1 with Jesus because what died of man? The immortal spirit. So what does Jesus give to saved people? His Holy Spirit. Therefore we become whole with Christ. The two shall come together as 1. Satan wants to pervert everything God does. God has a will for each of us when you get saved. But Satan competes with that by establishing his will for everyone's life in the form of zodiac signs. There is a demonic spirit attached to each sign that are familiar spirits that stalk us and some our bloodlines and studies & observes us. Each of these spirits were assigned to different people dependent on your birthday. They want you to come into agreement with your sign and following astrology so that they can continue to have power over your lives. They are counting on your deception to do it. Whether you believe they're behind it or not, the more you don't know the more they can deceive you. These spirits are conditioning people to worship the SELF rather than God that's why astrology caters to your personality because it fuels ego that will fuel pride. Pride is why the devil fell. They also cater to your emotions because emotions can de deceiving. And emotions are temporary and can change. These ingredients will cause you to be so obsessed with yourself that you will have very little concern for others or the more important things in life. You start to become the person the devil tells you to be rather the person God intended you to be. Sure there are undeniable patters in us who share similar birthdays but thats because this astrology goes way back. Ancient babylonian times actually the Bible warns in the OT. You will either be conditioned to believe in one of the 3: 1.) You're a God 2.) Worship false gods 3.) There is no God. And certain signs will lure a person to one of those 3. It's common for Aquarians, for example, to pick option 1 or 3. I can explain that for each sign because unfortunately I studied a lot of astrology and im not ignorant to their teachings but, it doesn't compare to what God teaches by the power of the Holy Spirit. It doesn't compare to his will for our lives. What peopel call the "Aquarian age" the Bible calls the "Tribulation Age", While we are currently at the end of the Church Age which is the age of grace through faith. Satan perverts everything in the Bible and he tries to embrace the opposite of what God is and who God is..God is Love while Satan is a Liar. Full of evil, hatred, and wants us to suffer with his fate, burning in hell. Like gravity, everything must come down so the soul of an lost person goes down to hell that is beneath us. But Jesus by the power of the Holy Spirit will raise up those who belong to him. I end my message with this: 1 Thessalonians 5:23 And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole 👉🏾spirit👈🏾 and 👉🏾soul 👈🏾and👉🏾 body👈🏾 be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

[@Ish-c1h9v]

Mine is a bit opposite venus in Virgo and moon in Pisces. But same with the spiritual part

[@haynescommabrooke]

Libra moon opposite Aries venus and mannnnn did this hit me

[@heilapaulino7602]

Whew, yes. Needed this. Natal moon in Aries opposite Venus in Libra.

[@Trust788]

I found with this position people are desperate for your affection and it draws people in

[@suziemoon2244]

Thank you so much 🖤 my moon opposite Venus has cause me a lot of problems in my life and I’m finally seeing it for what it is. I’m healing.

[@littleflower1826]

THANK YOU. I have needed to hear exactly these things all my life, thank you so much!

[@JewelMayberry]

+littleflower1826 ❤️❤️❤️

[@jelenapetrovic2873]

Omg, sooooooo true, thank you!!! Imagine.. I have this aspect, PLUS both these planests square Pluto 😱😩

[@ambercarroll5421]

Virgo moon op Venus in pisces exact degree

[@maddycaa]

This felt like a therapy session omg. I’ve been struggling with this especially this past week🥲

[@roseyu7827]

You look so beautiful Jewel! Thanks for the video. Love you

[@JewelMayberry]

+Rose yu 💓💓💓

[@GypsyInThirteen]

my mom has this aspect, as well as her sun opposition moon & sun sq MC.this is SPOT ON.

[@Energyturtle09]

I just need to say...your hair is FANTABULOUS!

[@daisyda5313]

Definitely move too fast in relationship, not because neediness/insecurity rather need for deep connection (certainly some people can be), but can be perceived as easy or off putting. Pisces moon and Libra Venus (Venus in 8th house)

[@mfl000]

thank you for all these awesome videos!

[@tomaitoe]

This resonated deeply. Venus in Scorpio opposite Taurus Moon. My moon is conjunct my NN, so this is a lesson I am committed to learning this lifetime.

[@elioscar7073]

My Venus and mars in the 8th house are opposite my moon and north node in the 2nd house. Exact opposition for moon and Venus and one degree orb of difference for Mars. I wish we could trade notes as we have a similar set up 😀.

[@yaboimarvee6747]

Taurus Moon Opposition Venus Scorpio & north node libra .. definitely sucks

[@peacepantherproductions]

This is excellent. I’m intertwined with someone who has this but with the nodes and on his ac/dc, all opposite my ac/dc..! Ugh.. So he’s an Aries rising with Venus and south node on his ascendant, his libra moon north node descendent is where my ascendant is. Chiron is for both of us near his Venus and south node… Obviously this Aries eclipse and mercury retrograde has been insane. Thank you for your insights as always.

[@LoveLeigh313]

It wasn’t until I learned traditional astrology and knew to use whole sign aspects to finally see I have this and my placements finally make complete sense. This has always been me

[@PerihelionmQQn]

This was soooooo frickin helpful, thank you!!!!!!!!

[@lessandra602]

Needed this. Thank YOU

[@Elizabeth-gy8rc]

Thanks this was really great and helpful! Moon Taurus / Venus Scorpio.

[@xIoveSICK]

Hi Jewel, think about doing a video on Chiron conjunct Moon! I think Chiron is often underrated in the natal chart.

[@doublevenusastro]

Whew. That is a doozy of an aspect. I am super invested in Chiron/Moon aspects, because they have passed down Matrilineally for 3 generations now. Grandmother has the square, Mom has the conjunction (partile -it's the tightest aspect in her chart), and I have the square which funny enough is a part of a T-square involving this video's subject matter (Moon opposite Venus/Pluto conjunction square Chiron). I plan to do a Chiron series on my channel soon, and I will DEFINITELY be digging deep when it comes to Chiron and Cancer/Moon/4th house stuff.

[@cheliae8560]

This was a brilliant breakdown! What if we deliberately chose this aspect in order to learn to manage and deal with it? I tend to think so.

[@Mustafa-xd6jz]

Capricorn moon opposition Cancer venus.

[@shayarzachary]

My daughter has this placement. How does it work for you??

[@isabelaalmeida24]

So looking forward for the Conjunction and the Trine aspect.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Isa Almeida I will likely get those two done tomorrow

[@murielpereira4507]

this is so accurate! one of my closest friends has this moon in the 1st and venus in the 7th! you are fab fab jewel

[@klubxhead]

Hi Rohini, I'm a hasta nakshatra moon with moon in 1st and venus in 7th as well :)

[@mohawmmadmahdi4618]

Thank u darling it was really helpful. Subscribed.

[@Ish-c1h9v]

I'm a crying mess especially the mother part😢😢. Never got that love from mother. It breaks my heart because some people don't have Mother with them but I have but never got love 💔💔 Edit: I'm here again because my mom doesn't understand me. I think it's my past life karma 😭

[@Aayla1111]

My personal view of this aspect is that I usually have massive walls around my heart and emotions. This aspect makes me attract many guys who claim to "love" and worship me but who I'm not interested in at all. I sense they only like me because of some superficial shit, then I rather just be by myself anyway. I seem to mainly attract guys that I don't need, and the guy I feel I need and love back never wants me in return when they get to know me on a deeper level. Even tho he might have been very interested when I have my "front personality," they don't appreciate my more sensitive side. If I show my inner authentic, sensitive self, emotions, thoughts, and interests to the guy I like and even friends, they all seem to get turned off or pulls away from me. Why is this? The ones who don't are just lonely, desperate, unattractive people that I don't like or want as lovers/partners anyways because they mostly can't keep up with my "other self" What I like and need are the opposite, and I want the person I'm with to love as I am, wholly. A guy I loved spent two years getting to know me and wanting to go out with me and was so attentive to me at all times when I made him wait or was just doing me. When I gave in, I did that because I started to feel safe with him to show him more of my whole self. I could sense how he began to lose interest, but I denied it until the last time he kissed me, and I felt like his little sister (in a bad way). I later found out he had been seeing a new girl for months. I will never date again. I'm not bitter, but people only disappoint me and take advantage of me.

[@ninastar5833]

Hi Aayla, listen to this video a few times and spot the emotions that arise and make a note of them. Those emotions are important to recognize and you will be able to link it back to earlier experiences in your childhood. Once you understand the cause you can begin to change it. Best wishes.

[@MM-kq9ip]

Thank you for all your work, dear Jewel. I'd like to express my highest appreciation and gratitude towards you for the insights you bring. I would love to hear from you about natal Moon opposite Neptune and Moon Opposite Uranus. With love and blessings, Mila

[@JewelMayberry]

+Milica Mijatovic I have them on my list. Thanks! 💓

[@sparkkeeper77]

Thank you for these explanations. I have the T-square between Venus in Virgo (devoted), Moon in Sagittarius (Adventurer) and Jupiter joint Juno in Pisces (submissive)! Venus is in my birth sign, the Virgin, and in my house 11th. Moon in Sagi is in my 2nd house and Jupiter is in my 4th house, in Pisces, which is actually my 5th house. It is very hard to manage in the relations including the industrial relations, especially that Mars, Pluto and the Sun are conjoined in the last degrees of the Virgin and the 1st degrees of the Libra, in my 11th house, creating a lot of transcendent trials.

[@kitarvin770]

I'm still not ready to give up my teddy 🐻..

[@coach41]

Thanks for this video. I've read about the opposition for years but never heard anyone talk about the topic in length. I'm a Moon in Leo and Venus in Aquarius. I can't quite explain how I feel as a moon in leo. BUT I can explain that I my aqua in venus seems to predominate (maybe mixing with my mars in gemini). I love people and talk to anyone who wants to talk to me. That might explain why I don't really vibe with people who are not as outgoing / expressive. The downside is my dating life is about the same. I seem to look for these people who I can get along with in a friendly manner but I never feel any physical chemistry. On the topic of self love, what do people here do for themselves? Be good to hear what you folks do so I can learn for myself. I've read about it but everyone has different things.

[@yungkoopa8998]

How do I love myself..??

[@JasminLovesSloths]

Thank you for your videos, I truly love them. By chance can you please do a Sun conjunct Moon double aspect in Synastry video? I know your probably busy, but I love your way of seeing things and would greatly love to see your take on this aspect, I'm dumb to it. Your amazing, and your aesthtic is very nice. I hope you have a Beautiful week.

[@JooganJaeger]

I have this opposition with venus in Virgo in the 5th house to the moon in Pisces in the 11th. Chiron conjunct Venus as well so I'm unsure how that impacts this exactly but I'd love to better know how to navigate it. It's like I don't know how to love myself because I constantly feel repulsive.

[@braveknight2000]

I love your videos!

[@cheliae8560]

Brilliant - Thank you!! So true!

[@divinationoracle]

This was sooooooo accurate omg.

[@goldiejohnson6197]

This aspect is depressing

[@calgoulden8223]

Wait for a transit planet to trine and sextile both, then you'll be good

[@ewika420]

Tell me about it! Honestly! To have this aspect in your chart is a nightmare. Bad luck. 😢

[@evamarialindberg]

Thank u so Much jewel :) any chance you are going to do Venus square Saturn natal at one point ? :)

[@mellowcandle7670]

My daughter has this. I’d also love to hear 😢

[@caitm8209]

So spot on, as usual ;)

[@muzduza44]

If there is away ur recording could have more volume.i Ryde the bus at as high I can hear but struggle to pick up ur gentle voice and I don't want u to change your pressure as u express IZ calm and reassuring.

[@metamorphai]

amazing, in a world full of selfishness and narcissistic traits, people with this influence have an inward anti-selfishness to the point of self-defeat. Examples: Imposter syndrome. I don't deserve this money I earned. I didn't do enough work to justify this pay. Even in the face of fun and entertainment, I'm not actually what I represent myself to be, therefore I am an imposter and don't belong here. 8:00 - 8:30 is the way

[@LoverNine9]

I was like these in my teens and twenties as a very unevolved libra, but have since gotten a better handle at this in my later, current years. do i still falter here and there? absolutely

[@andrew19vato]

Aries moon opposite venus in libra lol

[@carolinevh8849]

Me too

[@sarahkhalil245]

Me too!

[@mooncrescent15]

Same

[@romest8752]

Except for the glutinous bit....spot on

[@jesskallia9563]

So as a mother, how does one help a child with this placement? My kindergartener has never been comfortable being alone, definitely see that she feels her self worth comes from orders.

[@Kylailao]

Thank you :)

[@elaineekberg113]

I have moon conjunct venus, this sounds like me.

[@popadoodledoo2066]

Hi Jewel what if you have this opposition natally as part of a t-square where both moon and venus are also squaring uranus?

[@calgoulden8223]

Got this in my solar return same degree 😳

[@kenhamilton1174]

Venus in Leo conjunct Asc in opposition to Aquarius Moon. Any feedback?

[@jopom4070]

I have this aspect. I feel this one is more difficult to manage than the mars square pluto for me

[@SafniA-t9u]

Venus square pluto and saturn also moon square pluto and saturn also difficult😢 and i have this at my birth chat pisces with virgo moon also gemini saturn and sagitarius pluto

[@zreinerh]

Would it be close to accurate to apply these insights to transits? For example transit Venus opposite natal moon? Same qualities as what’s mentioned in your video, but simply temporary rather than fundamental.

[@LoveEmbodiment]

Not only I have this aspect but also my moon opposes Pluto... I know is quite something.

[@Ecemd1]

Same but my moon squares pluto ://

[@wtr.t]

Hi Jewel, could you do a video on venus opposite the ascendant?

[@itsher917]

does it also appear with a wide orb? only the signs are opposite to each other

[@calgoulden8223]

Mr Beast has this one

[@LoveEmbodiment]

Thanks

[@compoundx7337]

I feel exposed said the cancer moon opp venus. Lmaoo

[@mellowcandle7670]

My daughter has this and I read that it could have to do with lack of attention by your mother is just confusing to me. I am so loving and affectionate with my daughter and it pains me to think otherwise for her. 😢

[@Ish-c1h9v]

It's because your love and affection is not reaching your daughter. Think from her perspective and ask her what she feels when it comes to mother .

[@CarolineKoko]

Is this worst than a square?

[@inspireikihealing262]

I dont have this aspect but it seems to describe my m.o. - feel like a bottomless pit of unmet neediness.

[@jedilady4485]

In my early 20's i really liked this guy but I wanted him to chase me, so ended up with a girl who keeps on chasing her. So in my 30's I was chasing this guy and he ended with me instead of another girl. Now that I'm single and 50, I like this guy who has a gf! What should I do?

[@sophiagiron3022]

moon in cancer venus in capricorn

[@yamasseenation6609]

Moon Capricorn Venus cancer😔

[@ajsadventures8706]

Same....

[@ewika420]

Painful aspect

[@Ish-c1h9v]

Extremely painful

[@allibrielle5101]

Cancer moon in opposing Venus cap

[@rebeccasloan3007]

Venus send me squares moon or vice versa not sure Venus in Aries moon and (Gemini) terrible at relationships always picking the ones I need approval from that never give it

[@soulcontrolyoga4527]

Does 8 degree count ??

[@aprilrose2389]

It does, even if it is an opposition by whole sign

[@r.thomas2684]

Mars opposite pluto!!

[@BB-lo3gl]

🎯😅