Natal Moon Square Pluto- Emotional transformation

How the square from the Moon to Pluto in the birth chart demands deep emotional transformation and maturity.
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[@iwuvmuffinz]

Sigh. Yes. I am a master at self-isolation. Even from my family members under the same roof.

[@abciluvme]

Pamplemousse omg same!!!

[@OnyxxRose]

Omggg me too😭😭

[@cessiebear]

SAME.

[@bjornhellstrom5716]

Haha me too

[@pointdotpoint]

I have only dogs under the same roof lol

[@Patrick-de8qg]

If you guys are interested in learning more about Moon-Pluto aspects, Judy Hall wrote a whole book on it called Hades Moon

[@Natalie-rm5li]

Patrick K thank you

[@IblewuponyourfaceIII]

Patrick K thanks

[@LateRaven]

It looked like people were saying "k thanks" lmao

[@Mandy3141]

@@LateRaven lollll

[@vxgasworld]

Omg thank you

[@Natalie-rm5li]

Moon square Pluto- we seem to attract intense people.. a need to transform in all our relationships- lovers / friends. Strong intuition and gut feelings- heightened emotional senses. Bursts of passions- love and hate!

[@mindofmangyah-theriddler1645]

Natalie 💯💯🤔

[@kani9284]

It's because we ARE intense people ourselves. Someone non-intense wouldn't be able to handle us.

[@lorybond]

@@kani9284 Defo✔

[@user-dz3qq3jw3o]

I have moon and venus square saturn and pluto

[@TheBrighterSpider]

So spot on it blew my mind. I literally took two years off work to do the hermit thing and sort myself out. I am emerging from that cocoon now in my Jedi phase. And yes, I definitely had my Sith origins. I fed on my pain for 40 years and evolving to the next stage for me has been making a powerful conscious decision to stop that. Blow up all that old pain and let it go for good. If you are a moon Pluto reading this, take a good hard look at yourself and find all the places you feel sorry for yourself and just freaking stop it. Life is too short for self-pity. Nothing will destroy your life and waste it as much as feeling sorry for yourself. No matter how bad it was, you can either get over it or you can spend your entire life circling the drain trying to understand it. If you want to get over it, you’ve got to let it go. Life does not begin until you reach the point where you understand that in your very bones.

[@manifestationqueen9122]

TheBrighterSpider OMG thank you 😭

[@TheBrighterSpider]

11:11 You are so welcome! Love and light to you.

[@sexycutiepie9545]

My husband doesn't understand why I walk away from him when I get angry..He follows me and I hate it..He doesn't understand that I need to isolate myself to collect myself..If you don't have this aspect you can't possibly understand..

[@steelviper1321]

@@TheBrighterSpider thank you

[@henrietadale5079]

I want to help a man that I love to transform. He has this aspect and often goes into hermit mode. I used to push to get him out but I understand that is not what he needs. I just let him know I am there for him should he need me. How can I help him to overcome his fears of commitment and emotional attachment?

[@skyogrady3199]

my mom was domineering and angry, alcohol. manipulation, from a kidlike perspective she was mean. she was the type who was passive agressive so I was on my toes. heres a good one for moon square pluto- "tip toeing"

[@rowdrunar9407]

If you do not have a hard moon Pluto aspect you could never fully understand us. I'd read a psychologist quicker than he would read me.

[@Paghmani1sher]

rowd runar they say I am psychotic

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

So true. I've been terminated by a couple of therapists for calling them on their own obvious issues. They don't like that much. Lol. Therapists find me threatening because I don't view them as benevolent authorities. I can see right through them. After having that happen three times in a row, it's quite clear therapy is not an option for me (Moon square Pluto in Cancer). Honestly, learning about astrology and spirituality has been far more emotionally healing in my life than years of useless therapy has been.

[@PenelopeRyder]

I agree with that.

[@self-love2355]

rowd runar LMAOOOO

[@Teodora.Gheorghe.Autor88]

The same thing happened to me. 😁

[@Scorpiomoon808]

Being in a relationship with a person with this placement requires a lot of emotional strength because you will not receive emotional investment initially and because of their unrequited expectations it can feel like your dating someone with tons of secrets when they don’t trust themselves to be venerable with you. At first it was difficult but now I’ve accepted this is who he is and am patient with the layers peeling over time.

[@ShadaeMastersAstrology]

My partner has this aspect and it’s very draining especially as a moon in Cancer myself. Emotional fluidity and expression I came to realize is a very important value of mine from the intimate difficulty in this relationship. It doesn’t help that he also has zero water or air signs which are main elements in my chart, yikes. It’s great that you accept your partner, I’m guessing that your relationship has other components that make up for this aspect.

[@ShadaeMastersAstrology]

@@immortalhygiene I have Mars/Moon opposition Moon in Cancer/ Mars in Capricorn. One at home and one exalted 😭 lol.

[@halaal-sulami540]

i have this aspect and I wish i was loved like this

[@elizabethchapman4291]

This is what I'm struggling with. I'm emotionally unavailable and am attracted to men that are emotionally unavailable. Thank you so much. I needed to hear this.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Elizabeth Chapman 💗💗💗💗💗

[@breathesfreedom]

this really explains it. My longest and most painful relationship was with a guy who had Moon conjunct Pluto in 8th. I have Moon square Pluto and square Mars in 8th. I don't think I'll ever stop loving him. It's been like five years lol

[@aml8760]

​​@@breathesfreedom revaluate the story you tell yourself about the relationship. Take a hard look at what actually happened and not just the good parts that you remember. There's a lesson in a reason for why it didn't work out. If you don't do this it won't allow you to be happy in the future with someone else. Do it for you.

[@andreac647]

I would like to have a Pluto-Moon support group...

[@lessandra602]

Andrea C 😂😂

[@sexycutiepie9545]

Can I join..lol

[@Ruhma.]

I've made a group on Facebook, Hades Moon Support Group, feel free to join :)

[@s2Mikye]

Ruhma Khan Could you tell me the link?

[@meredithr9824]

Hello, my name is Meredith, and it has been 30 seconds since my last- oops. Hello, my name is Meredith, and it has been 3 seconds since my last- damn it!!

[@MJ-rk2ws]

This is the best interpretation for moon/pluto I have seen in all my years of astrological interest to be quite honest. The isolation point was interesting, I had a four year period of being a recluse. It did me the world of good that nobody could possibly see.

[@alysa4968]

That's interesting. I've entered a recluse phase for he past year and a half.. I go between trying to push myself "out there" and letting myself nurture my want to be alone. I've been wondering when this phase will end, and if it will, and if it does end, will it do me any good? I'm glad to hear it was healing for you.

[@MJ-rk2ws]

It doesn't feel that way in the duration, but I can tell you with certainty that it will end. It's a precious thing - a lot of people don't seem to have the opportunity to stop like this and take everything in, and think about where they are or to self reflect. It can be very good for you, if you let it. Your phase will end, so enjoy it while you have it.

[@violettah878]

I agree, I liked the term "intimate strength" :)

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

I could live quite happily as a recluse/hermit.

[@Diamond_tip]

Me too!!

[@Vis80842]

”Learn to trust, learn to not expect betrayel, learn to not expect death. When they are able to come out of their cocoon of self-protection, this is when we see their power” You’re a professional, you’ve managed to shine a light on my inner emotional mechanics in a way that is incredibly precise and liberating without going in circles about the inherent insidious nature of this aspect like many others. Thank you.

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

Completely relate to needing years to digest emotional pain. Nothing incenses me more than someone telling me to just "get over it" (usually said by someone with lots of Air or Uranus in their chart.) You cannot say that to someone with a 12th house moon in Cancer squaring Pluto. Just not going to happen. I need to digest and heal.

[@graciekattan6618]

I have strong Uranus and Im an Aquarius moon but Ii won’t tell someone to get over something. That’s an awful thing to say. But then again I have my moon in the 12th house so I can very much sulk when Im sad. I can’t imagine having it squared pluto wow must be difficult 😣

[@kani9284]

i have lots of Uranus aspects and an air mercury but I have moon in cancer almost exact square my Pluto so I completely understand you, too. I'd never tell anyone to get over something, because I'm not in their shoes. I don't know how they feel. It's not only very rude to say this but also very unreasonable.

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

@@kani9284 When my mom died suddenly, I had a “friend” tell me to “cheer up, Charlie” because according to them, I always looked sad. Yeah, my only parent and closest connection in this world is gone but let me definitely “cheer up” so that it makes other people feel more comfortable. That person had an Aquarius Moon and had never lost anyone close to them.

[@kani9284]

@@EMVelez-qb1zu very inconsiderate and immature. I bet when they lose someone close and are devastated by it they wouldn't like anyone to tell them to cheer up - Aqua moon or not. We are all people and have emotions. And you are not obliged to be fake happy just to make someone else more comfortable. wtf Also: noone ever cheers up when told to cheer up. It is always aggravating.

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

@@kani9284 Yeah, those types of incredibly insensitive comments were endless from other people in my life as well. It’s amazing what people think is okay to say to someone who is actively grieving. Even people who HAD lost loved ones said insanely insensitive things during that time. My boss at work saw me crying just a few weeks after the death and said “Again??” in disbelief, instead of asking “Are you okay?”. This lady had lost her father who she was very close to, yet had zero empathy for me. When someone dies, people expect you to “get over it” in a week or less. Just amazing.

[@lnilsson9935]

Amazing! I have this aspect and I dealt with generational trauma which I am trying to heal. I moved abroad for a while, which helped me to understand the destructive partterns in my family, especially regarding my mother. It took me years of meditation, self reflection, therapy, mindfulness and reiki but I am very happy with my current life and I have a beautiful life partner with the kindest family I know. I had to distance myself from my original family to get out from the destructive patterns though, which was incredibly hard for a former codependent. I actually like this aspect now because it helps me in my own profession when I help people. I do think that many people with this aspect could be helped by focusing on themselves and by distancing themselves from people who mistreat them.

[@cottagefood6455]

Something very similar here, but conditions was that I had to live together with my abusive mother. Few years ago when my mom died, I felt relief... In her last days I was there, but not emotionally. Sad. Pluto square Moon in Cancer 10th house. She somehow had all the weapons to belittle me and she did that openly about me to others. I said nothing....I just could not believe nor find words, she caught me on surprise, I was very sensitive. And I had problems, disgrace at school because of that. I somehow did not want to realize what's going on and since I was a child I was thinking to myself that she did not mean that. Today I am wondering did that all could make her feeling better? A lot of things appear in my memory later after she died, and made the picture clear to me bits by bits like a puzzle starting from my childhood, school time, my broken relationships with men and friends... till my 50s. No intimacy, hugs nor kisses was ever between us. I was like open book for her sharing almost everything I was going through in my life, but without her support. Even worse, when in a proper mood she could get out from nowhere those blaming spiky words and throw like little knifes in my back and I was always wondering - why. I wanted to believe that my mom always stands for me... there were days when we could laugh together... I was never good enough for her. All my life there were a lot of constant lies and criticism about me... In funeral her friends were speaking weird things to me that did not make sense... like I could not exist without my mother's shoulder. I did not know those all lies and gossips she was spreading about me till recent years when everything fall in place... bits by bits show up from my long forgotten deep below - places, people, words, deeds... and I could clearly see that... my mom simply did not love me. Sometimes I am wondering if she knows now that she ruined my earlier life? When she died I could not touch her and for several months could not get in the room she died. I somehow hated going there, her smell was there in the air for very long... In childhood she was raped by her older brother, she told me once couple of years before she passed away, hoping to hear from me the same, I guess... There was abusive my music school director when I was 8, but not rape, no. My school friend back then knew my secret and she had told to her mother and then the secret came open... Why my mother wanted to find it out just now, 40 years later? Seemed she new something, but I did reject. It was deeply awkward for her after... She shared with her secret. She was sick and dying in a bed she said that it is for her sins. I objected that death is natural even without a sin. Later some her friend told me that my mom wanted to speak to me. My ruling planet Mercury is in Leo 12th house - gossips, and me not able to see the things clearly. Finally I am free and happy in relationships, but still hermit. It looks like both of us are.

[@lshin80]

Yes, this is me... I've been secluding myself since 2003. Funny thing: there's a person who's got the same aspect, and I feel like she's the only one I can safely open up with.

[@amandacote2989]

LOVE this video! That was like 20 therapy sessions in 20 minutes :) 6th house Cancer moon squares Mercury, Pluto, Mars, Venus stellium in 8th house Libra. Oh my! Mother "died" 3 times growing up, long lineage of victimization, major digestive issues. You hit it so right, cocoon, untrusting, intimacy issues. I'm an empath, and processing early childhood experiences, transforming into the Jedi knight. I deeply know I will be a rock for others. Hospice and animal rescue curiosities.....

[@alexandral.3448]

Omg, you're so so right !!! My mom has a moon square pluto and it's sometimes exhausting. Fortunately she also has a venus sagittarius conjunct jupiter otherwise it'd be only a big hell... Very emotional manipulative. She was rejected by her own mother, with me she was very attached (too much) but it's like i feel that i'm responsible about her happiness or unhappiness or lack of love in her childhood and it's too much for me sometimes. If she's in a bad mood or unhappy/depressed, she become very toxic, i'm like a punching bag. I can't make mistakes or deceive her expectations when she's in a bad mood or "i'm the nasty child, very ungrateful" and other words that hurts me so bad. She can be very generous and adorable, but sometimes very toxic, it's very weird these 2 parts of her. She reject men and intimacy too and she loves to be alone.

[@crazy4Christ]

My mom is the same way kind of a dr. Jykell mr hyde dynamic. I didn't really realize it until I got older. She didn't have an easy childhood either and she has moon in scorpio and her mom was much more toxic, but yeah no one remains unscathed.

[@alexandral.3448]

@@crazy4Christ exactly !

[@rhysthegreatblogs8865]

I have moon in leo ♌ 5th square pluto scorpio ♏ 6th- mother left when I was 7, she moved across waters, I have seen her a few times since in 27 years. I am careful to not project this onto my children as I do feel over protective of them. I'm not sure i isolate myself( maybe that's my moon in leo ) but still possibly a bit but I do have this cutting edge part of me with people, I just don't do lots of chances if u hurt me ✂️ and I do feel that part may stem not from my mother but from that life experience. Side note my mother i believe is shown on my 10th house ( as opposed to it suppose to be the father ) likely the more distant parent as I've noticed it over the years on chart I've read. But my mother is ♑ Capricorn sun 21 degrees my MC ♑ Capricorn ♑ 21 degrees - my father ( brought us up alone) his Ascendant sign cancer ♋ 20 degrees his Ascendant on IC ( him being the more maternal 4th house parent. )

[@michaeltownsendjr.8780]

I have Moon Square Pluto and Mars Square Neptune. I don’t have very difficult parental figures. However, I was very insecure as a child and always felt very different and misunderstood. I had great parents growing up but my self esteem was very low and I was even bullied a little and was very mean because of my insecurities. I also have struggled and still struggle with being very touchy and defensive. But I take full responsibility for everything I’ve done wrong and I am continuing to work on my own self.

[@alby7186]

I also have moon square pluto and mars square neptune and can relate to this comment. 👍

[@dane8802]

I remember thinking as a young person that I was some kind of karmic lightning rod for my proceeding generations unresolved baggage and it's surreal as hell to hear someone else say as much decades later

[@pixelpink]

I only have the semi square, but I can speculate that this trait would be due to strings of emotionally and mentally confusing experiences starting at a VERY young age which I think led me to believe that you can't trust people. People you trust can one day turn on you, and in many different ways. They can abandon you. They can violate you. They can be hateful towards you. The list goes on. It can be a soul crushing feeling that makes you feel small. Small, fearful and ANGRY. So you learn to go through the world protecting yourself and your emotions as a way to feel like your taking your power back. I just realized this about me and put it into words after watching this video. Funny how I knew this about me all along but forgot that it was there. This has been an enigma throughout my life. Eventually you start understanding that the true power is not in taking it from others, it's in finding it in yourself. Then you can be at peace.

[@TheDragonMasterRyu]

Interesting I have the semi square as well and what you described really resonate with me as well

[@meganhopkins9788]

You literally just described my mother perfectly as she has this placement. Unfortunately she never evolved to the Jedi. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ComedyKermit48]

I have my moon in Pisces and pluto in Sagittarius and I do have a lot and I mean a lot of things going on in my mind like sometimes I want to shut it out

[@michaeltownsendjr.8780]

Rian Yoki Same here. I have intense anxiety.

[@halaal-sulami540]

omg exactly my placement too!! i am super anxious but everyone tell me how cool i am 😭 i just hide it really well and sometimes i wanna crawl out of my skin and people still won't notice

[@sexycutiepie9545]

I have this aspect and my childhood wasn't easy .My mom was not diagnosed with mental illness until later in her life so my life growing up was filled with much emotional pain.She was a good mom in a sense.She worked hard to provide but emotionally she was completely distant.We have a great relationship now that she's on meds..This effected every single romantic relationship I've ever had.My husband knows that I will never truly trust anyone.Im working on that though..I'm definitely a work in progress..I love your videos..Their right on point.

[@adammantium3199]

I don’t agree with the whole “misjudgement” part, I feel that we just see the undercurrents of people that they can’t see and we’re here to drawn that out of people and ourselves.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Adam Mantium What If those undercurrents are your own?

[@jolinejoline2471]

@@JewelMayberry it depends on the individual. It’s a laser aspect, you can see people for what they are or they themselves can turn into the monster they see in others.

[@Teodora.Gheorghe.Autor88]

Even though I have always been drawn to astrology and I know a couple of things, I have found this soo difficult to hear.. It was as though a part of myself, that dark side, screamed and wanted to hide in the shadows.. Telling me it doesn't like to be seen. On the other hand, I felt somehow wiser and liberated.. And I am sort of proud of myself for listening to your video till the end while ignoring the plutonic voice in my head 😁It takes a strong, mature person to be able to admit that she or he has these dark traits.. Emotionally unavailable, manipulative, intense fear of rejection, etc Yes, I have all of those and I have lived a stressful life so far but hopefully, I will be able to transform beyond those fears. Thank you, Jewel! You are my favorite astrologer! I was wondering what your zodiac sign is (maybe you mention it in one of your videos)

[@Teodora.Gheorghe.Autor88]

@@Lilytwe thank you :)

[@itsteganyay]

I've watched this video so many times, and it's always very encouraging. Thank you for your insight as always :)

[@goldengirl8355]

My grandma, Scorpio sun, had this aspect. She was my favourite person. Her mother died when she was 12, but she never mentioned what her mom was like in personality. As a young woman my grandma was a spunky spitfire; she wasn’t afraid of anyone. In her old age she was a sweet old lady but she appeared to be a doormat. It was as though the pendulum swung too far over the other way before she could work it out in the end. My contact with her helped me so much because I have 8th house in mercury mars and Venus in Taurus, and my Pluto and Saturn are in the first house, and moon in the 6th house in Pisces. I don’t think I would have made it this far without her...

[@scottkaskey6622]

Absolutely nailed this very powerful aspect.

[@angelabaron8569]

I gotta say jewel you’re one of my favourite astrologers on KZbin. Always look forward to getting educated watching another one of your SUPER cool astrology videos!! You’re bomb. 🔥💣

[@aspiretoinspire8098]

AMAZING VIDEO JEWEL!!!

[@anaprifti8205]

This was profound. Thank u

[@Elfen41]

This is the best description on KZbin

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

Have to say though that while it's true that we can sense darker intentions from others, 99% of the time, at least for me, those dark intentions prove to be correct. I no longer second guess my hyper aware intuition (12th house moon in Cancer). I've learned it's there for a reason. I can often sense what other people cannot about someone's hidden agenda. Months or even years later, I often experience proof of my initial gut instincts proving correct about someone and the people who called me "paranoid" having to concede that I was correct in sensing that someone was less than benevolent or trustworthy. I consider it just one of many Moon Pluto gifts. I used to view this aspect as a curse but I really think it is a gift that can take years to unravel and embrace. At 39, I am now living out the more Jedi part of this powerful aspect.

[@celineypie]

Go Guerilla Foto I've had this same thing happen to me, over and over! This placement definitely explains why (I have Moon in Pisces 12th house, square Pluto in Scorpio 9th house)

[@self-love2355]

Go Guerilla Foto I don’t have moon square Pluto (my sister does) but my moon is in the 12th house and it’s not even a water sign it’s in Aquarius. And oh my god I can sense people. Like I can just sense them. My judgement is very good & I I’m not gonna lie I’m psychic most of the time because it’s made me so extremely sensitive. I’m sure my Pisces rising adds to this. But moon in the 12th house people I think have such a sensitivity. I always knew it was there but only recently was I able to recognize my intuition and use it and listen to it

[@JohnDoe-xl4be]

Good for you:)

[@Ruhma.]

Same.

[@steelviper1321]

We are beings of a higher sensitive dimension we show others the gift of space and time it depends on others their emotional energy if we can stay calm or not take it from me our knowledge can save lifes so many of them if we only have the courage and balance needed to do so as bob marley once sang 'one love......one heart let's get together and feel allright' good luck fellow mental nomads.

[@Kaori164]

I don't have the square but I do have the trine. However, I have noticed that in my family through generations many have the square , especially my cousins, so for us the issue is at a cellular level it seems, and even while I have an easy aspect that does not mean I haven't gone through the same process and can feel the wound as well, it's just been easier for me to pinpoint the problem and go directly to the root of the matter , so I deeply related to this video and even gave me encouragement to keep going through the healing process that sometimes feels discouraging. Thank you.

[@anastasiaantonia7504]

Fantastic video! Thanks for making

[@cheeks6310]

On point. Maybe some I hadn't acknowledged yet. I have been a commitment phobe aka 'free spirit" . Have men fall in love with me while I go hang out with one I know won't. Feels safer to be free. I think i blame people for abandoning me because they don't love me "enough" so I wonder if it's my egos excuse to retreat. I appreciate your candor. I don't agree that we're stingy emotionally back. I would say quite the opposite but I do note that I do expect others to give the way I do. Def over invest so there's no choice but for people to under deliver because I'm too in their face.

[@katieemma5454]

Thank you so much for this video! I have this aspect (Leo moon in the 6th and Scorpio Pluto in the 9th) and it's definitely a challenge - but a transformative one! Spot about about issues with the mother and fears of betrayal. I also have sun square Pluto to haha . Thanks for actually sharing advice on how to learn and grow as a person with this aspect. love your videos! xx

[@sadarasmith2994]

Sun and moon in Leo square Pluto here luv

[@tifftreads]

This explains someone so much.

[@ElevatedLevetator]

i love your way of talking and your voice. Very cool person you are!

[@aprilllc3622]

Very insightful Jewel! Definitely resonate with this message 💯. In my late 40’s nearly took this long to get to a place of freedom. My moon aspects Pluto through semi-square at 1 degree orb.

[@nneteisaac-kidd3459]

My name is Neptune and throughout this video I was inspired to write a song. I am sure it will be fruitful so I humbly thank you🙏🏾 ur video have taught me much about my complexities from inconjunctions to tsquares and I will always have love for your spirit, you are doing great

[@tinalilith]

Thank you so much, Jewel! Very accurate and insightful :-)

[@julienaklei8018]

Yep, this is my husband. He just came into the room to ask me something & I thought I was responding in a positive way to what he said but was told that my response just drained all the energy out of him because it was too mental and that's not what he needs. I frequently get told that minor statements & actions on my part, including ones intended to serve him, have drained all energy out of him. Then he says 'now I won't be able to work & we'll lose our house.' The idea of him becoming a jedi sounds cool though.

[@lulasphinx]

This describes all the tension I hold. Always wondered why my emotions seem so overwhelming that I’m compelled to hide like they’re not there. It’s like a huge tidal wave sometimes and I feel my heart rate go up and have to impulsively and chaotically take action on it… like at those big emotion moments I don’t care what anyone thinks my emotions take over even though usually I care what everyone thinks lol. hoping to channel this big emotional power toward useful things like a purpose or greater good rather than reactive situations or fears. Seems like harnessing that ruthless willpower and blocking out everything else in the peripheral like that could be transformed into a creative power once aware

[@xxxxxxxevexxxxxxx]

Thanks for the video by the way, it made me see myself

[@jenniferh8961]

Wow, this was spot on!! I recently had a reading and finally realized I have this natal aspect, Pluto square Moon and in Scorpio 😩😫 which has been hell my whole life. Lots of unresolved anger, excluded by my mother starting at age 10 when parents were pre divorce, my younger sister had a breakdown so she got all the attention. I had major conflict w my mother ever since that time, not understood or “seen” for my own needs. I was very distant from her the last year of her life but I’m not sorry. I am in a big! excavation of my childhood, emotions, psyche this past year and feel I am progressively working towards some semblance of healing. Have had lots therapy my whole life but astrology really helps to understand the dynamic- the stars have the answers!! FYI also did some Family Constellation work which has also been incredibly enlightening.

[@shaybelle8495]

I am only three videos in , and I can already deem your videos life-changing. Thank you for all that you do.

[@natalienicholesilvestri]

LOVE THIS. I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th house square Moon and this is right on for me. Thank you.

[@WonderingAboutThat]

Very helpful, thank you!

[@irisgrey2663]

I am a hades mooner. Moon in Aquarius(7th house) square Pluto in Sagittarius(4th house). I definitely had all these self destructive etc instincts but I must say I am pretty balanced now that I'm grown up. I don't try to manipulate people or venue them. I don't have emotional explosions anymore and I always think before I act. But there are some traits that I do have. For example, I'm a loner and I enjoy my alone time & my mom is very over protective.

[@IblewuponyourfaceIII]

Iris Grey I have Moon 19 in Aquarius Squaring Pluto in Scorpio, and then Saturn 6 degrees in Aquarius which usually they say a Conjunction is only 10 degrees but Reading up on moon & Saturn Conjunct it still applied to me. Astrolada said that if planets are in the same sign there is still a conjunction no matter how far. Hahahaha Sucks

[@eli6360]

Maybe you feel the saturn because an Aquarius is ruled by saturn and its similar

[@zarafye4267]

Well aquarius and sagittarius are actually sextile. If you have an aquarius moon - pluto would be in either scorpio or taurus for it to be a square 🤔

[@kani9284]

@@zarafye4267 It is still possible if it's a late Aqua moon degree and an early Sag Pluto degree. For example I have a mercury square Uranus that way because my mercury is in 27 degrees Aqua and my Uranus is in 0 degrees Sagittarius

[@zarafye4267]

@@kani9284 true! But I think square by degree instead of sign will be interpreted differently? But that's real deep, complex astrology right there

[@leamavric5683]

i really needed this video. thanks

[@reefer4u]

that was rather spot on! My sun squares both so I"m a little more intense as a T square, Thank you, keep up the good work.

[@lunetelalune2783]

I have moon trine Pluto in my natal chart. The men whom I have been with who have moon in hard aspect to Pluto have psychologically damaged me. It’s as if they could never see me for me, It’s as if they projected onto me who I was. They were very cruel and used me. They brought out a very dark side in me. They know how to press buttons for sure. It was very very magnetic tho, until I finally pulled away...if I were to see this aspect again, I would run.

[@lessandra602]

Vanessa Berg I am familiar with this. It’s very much take, take, take, take emotionally. And you are the one that’s done something wrong if you turn away from it

[@michelyntoler2175]

Moon in leo 7th house Pluto in scorpio 10th house

[@Eccentrickittens]

Vanessa Berg I felt this! I was in an abusive situation with a man who’s moon squared Pluto. I have moon trine Pluto and Pluto in the 7th natally. Very very selfish individual who was emotionally cold (he had an aqua moon)

[@chillizora]

Yes i wd run from people with this aspect as well. Too controlling, manipulativ and thinking they have the right to do it.

[@ShadaeMastersAstrology]

I can relate very painful, the emotional manipulation, gas lighting and then not speaking(stonewalling) when held accountable. Leo Moon, square Pluto, Pluto in scorpio 4th house. Most draining and emotionally neglectful experience. I have a moon in Cancer, Libra Sun so I learned a lot about boundaries being sure to care about healthy engagements vs trying to fix folks rather self love and reciprocity. Also understanding value when participating in relationships. I will avoid this aspect in the future.

[@leoneranger9348]

Wow. Wasn't expecting this level of accurate analysis of my inner most tensions! Truly, the only solution is to self sooth and begin to let go of the past (knowing we're really protected). Let the ancestral trauma GO

[@JewelMayberry]

Some serious self reflection there 💓

[@ladibyrd]

Fascinating.great video. I have this aspect. It’s all true.

[@specialk3021]

I have such depth to sympathize w others!!!!? I wish everyone can see the world thru my post cancer eyes at 36.

[@henrietadale5079]

Special K 30 do you have a cancer moon too?

[@gear14]

it's not easy to deal with that's for sure, but I feel I'm now the Jedi ;)

[@henrietadale5079]

Gil Torres how did you become the Jedi?

[@user-ly4vk5lm1f]

Henrieta Dale maybe inner work + choose love

[@gear14]

d65 yeah a lot of that

[@arwenanduin]

Ho.Ly.Cow. Thank you for this fresh 3-D analysis of this aspect--for finding the HOPE in it. Enough folks have told you how they've lived this process to a T, I'm just one more. Although I have the Moon square FIVE PLANETS AND CHIRON, this seems to be the one that has driven me most.

[@howeffingridiculous]

from one 5 planets square to the moon to another...I salute you!

[@elenacartagena1224]

The Scorpio archetype IS stingy. No matter what planet is in scorpio, or what's in the eighth house. There is a real motivation to take the most you can from others, and be secretive about your own resources and give the least you can... usually because you feel you have to.

[@DevsEnd]

I love your shirt 💜💜

[@PenelopeRyder]

Very interesting and spot on I have Moon square, Pluto. Much pain I have experienced emotionally. South Node Scorpio conjunct Neptune. Scorpio Rising. Gemini Sun & Moon. Very tough inner world. I had my Chiron return 30 March 17 am feeling an undoing now like a coming home to self.

[@lunalaguna6173]

I have this aspect and this video rings very true for me. I am interested to see a video on Saturn transiting the 4th house. Thank you!

[@meredithr9824]

You mentioned inheritable aspects- I have this aspect and 3 of 4 of my children have it.

[@clickercontrol]

6 years later I watch a great video on this aspect. Have to love KZbin. She was spot on. I'm a male with my moon in cancer 4th house. My north node is in scorpio. Emotions at times come on like tidal waves. They have been known to take me to the ground and immobilized me. Usually in a fetal position. But the spirit has gotten me off the ground. Grace has given me another chance. The beat is yet to come

[@TonyaB005]

My Natal Moon Squares my Pluto/Sun Conjunction and you are right on target.

[@cassieharbin]

Me, my mom & my grandma all have moon square Pluto.

[@gypsyfilms7976]

Yep. You are good.

[@robinwalz4323]

I have this aspect and I had a pretty rough childhood.I was always the scapegoat.. .My mother is mentally ill and didnt get on medication until i was an adult..It wasnt easy to live with her..Ive been doing healing medittatons and therapy and its helping..I feel great now..I was an emotional mess..It did make for sum awesome poetry though..lol

[@omnistgangsterenlightenmen3788]

Would love to hear your poetry!

[@saffronaji]

your hair is hilarious. xD I love it

[@MissTina62]

Wow. Thank you.

[@specialk3021]

Heak yes I do!!!!! Yep totally aloof. My mom beat me as a child. Scorpio moon. Libra 4th house. I'm living in constant fear. I had breast ca. at 36. I walked on eggshells as a kid. I'm gonna blow. They say I have bpd. Jewel your so right. I'm trying now to get past all the trauma. Holy crap are you good! Yes it was violent and emotional. The moon for my bro is in Pisces. Yep it's been generational addiction among others. I don't remember anything. I think I may have been moles u know. I'm cleaning out the lineage. I went No Contact. Yep emotionally manipulative sometimes. I'm not that bad. Yep my hubby isn't emotional. It's not painful. You haven't told me anything I don't know. I'm not using the relationship. I'm terrified of being abandoned, alone, rejected, judged. I do retreat. Been working on myself for over a year. I have cancer as my asc. I've had digested prob since a little girl. I was the Blk sheep my bro the golden child. Yes expectations. Working on it. I trust nobody. I'd give anyone the shirt off my back. I make demands out of fear. Jewel you just told my secrets. Lol!!!!! Working on it. I'm afraid to live & I SO DESPERETLY WANT TO LIVE. I believe my mom started abusing me in utero. I've been thru so much!!!! I know the dark side!

[@Paghmani1sher]

Special K 30 I am sorry Be strong

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

Special K 30 I was also (mis)diagnosed with BPD...and then I read more about Moon in hard aspect to Pluto and realized it would give anyone the traits that would lead to that diagnosis -- fear of abandonment, emotional manipulation, highly explosive emotions, etc. Being diagnosed with that label felt like another deep trauma in a life full of trauma. I would urge you to get a second opinion and to learn more about this aspect because it can explain so much. Astrology and inner self work to heal these issues has proven far far more effective than therapy in my life. Thinking of oneself as "disordered" only kept me feeling more doomed and unhealthy. Embrace the Jedi you were born to become. This aspect is very difficult, especially when you are young (under 35), but can get much better with age and awareness. I wish you healing. You are more powerful than you know ❤

[@fetterkater7484]

I was beaten, too and I can totally relate on the walking on eggshells part. It was my father who was so unpredictable that we never knew when he's gonna blow up and become violent. Scary stuff

[@user-tt7ou6ul9u]

My cancer moon square my Pluto in Libra at 0 degrees. I have about 13 other squares in my natal chart. Really trying to evolve in this lifetime.

[@rahb2417]

Wow I have my Cancer Moon in 2H square my Pluto in Libra 5H at 0 degrees with tons of squares in my natal too smh but I feel you on really trying to evolve in this lifetime, I ask myself wtf was I thinking before reincarnating lol fr tho

[@cheeks6310]

Cancer moon too with Pluto in Libra. I disagree with what some of what she's saying though. I'm very much mostly an open book. Thankfully my sun and rising in Sag keeps me optimistic.

[@CreativeArtandEnergy]

This is accurate from my experience for the most part. I have a cancer moon in my 3rd house squared Pluto in the 8th house. I’ve had lifelong trauma and I really tried to be of service for a long time to escape the fears of not having my deep connection validated.

[@RippleDrop.]

I've watched this like 7 times during the years for solace. Moon in 8th. Pluto in 4th.

[@self-love2355]

Oh my god I just reread my sisters chart and she has Saturn opposite moon PLUS Pluto square her moon. She’s so fucking touchy and doesn’t make any sense sometimes. She has this horrible pattern of projecting her fears onto everyone. Like she will say something before you do something trying to prevent you from saying or doing something to affect her when you weren’t about to do it anyway.

[@akdolphin100]

👍Always nails it.

[@stephanierend1261]

Very good video as always! I relate to everything. I can see how I went from being very manipulative in my first relationship to being completely emotionally afraid in the next, afraid of my partner having dark intentions, then I decided to be in a sort of disconnected relationship where I just didn't care and protected myself a lot. Now I'm in a hermit phase hahaha. My 12th house sun+moon in Leo squares Pluto and I'm one of those who had a at least overall good childhood as you mentioned. I wonder if it would be advisable to stay away from marriage with these positions?

[@JewelMayberry]

+Stephanie Rend This aspect will encourage you to think that way because it plays into the issues of emotional self imposed isolation. It is best to learn to trust in appropriate relationships and build a lasting connection filled with understanding, warmth, intimacy and tolerance rather than to choose to remain permanently in your emotional mountain cabin. My love to you 💓

[@stephanierend1261]

That makes more sense hahaha Thanks a lot Jewel!

[@csquared10k]

Thank you so much. Looking to transform

[@ginamenard6697]

I don’t have this aspect natal but transit Pluto is squaring my 12th house moon conjunct Saturn and NN. I can relate to the emotionally unavailable and these last 2 years have been the worst. I was looking for some info on this when I found your video. Wow.....so much I can relate to here. I’ve been trying to recover my emotions from childhood that I had to detach from in childhood......my parents are/where a piece of work!! But in a relationship right now that I’m truly discovering how cut off I’ve been. I’m no spring chicken. It’s been a long hard road. Transit Uranus is conjunct my Mars in the 12th. Hoping my Aries planets in the 12th will be finally completely free to express themselves now. And my venus and Mercury in Pisces is conjunct Transit Neptune......not sure how all these transit are going to go! 😮

[@pointdotpoint]

Very accurate, holy shit.

[@arielrenee.369]

This is so painful to watch. My 6 year old son has this aspect

[@lovelymayhem9851]

It’s like she’s reading my biography ❤

[@parkercornwall4253]

thank you so much

[@Joliesrealm]

Love your shirt

[@77shawnie]

I have pluto in the first squaring my moon in the 11, I can relate to much of this.

[@August_Mannaz]

Thank you for your wisdom 🙏, fortune find you

[@vipasu]

Thank for this. I have 4 planets in the 12 house (Virgo) one of which is Pluto which squares my moon.. I am going through that transformation from Sith to Jedi .. well starting it now.. will be contacting you for a reading.

[@krinka1458]

Can confirm, I retreated for years

[@pablodjaras]

I'm very secretive and I don't understand my feelings well, I have moon in Pisces 12th house square Pluto in 8th house (Taurus sun Aries rising)

[@celineypie]

Pablo R. I had the same problem and I have very similar placements to you (Moon in Pisces 12th house, square Pluto in Scorpio in the 9th house, Pisces rising). I had to go to therapy for like a year and a half to decode my emotions lol

[@mariemm1062]

Same aspects for me 😔

[@grand_air_trine_astro]

Wow I have this just now in my progressed chart and indeed I’m out of a difficult relationship and am in isolation. I do indeed feed on the pain 😔

[@cedrickbrown8860]

OMG 🤭 I love you for your straightforwardness 💯💯💯 u hit everything i been dealing with my life. Moon Leo in 2nd squaring Pluto Scorpio 5th my mother is like the devil when it comes to money very manipulative and controlling in her relationship with my dad she rules him well she thinks she does. She a libra rising/ Leo sun/ Pisces moon she uses love a lot to control people it’s so crazy how she does it! So happy I’m conscious now and notice everything! And I had to fight my brother a lot in my childhood so I was war ready 🦉🦉🦉⚡️ with Pluto in 5th and yes I came to clear this horrible family lineage 😩 around sexual abuse, money manipulation and so much more

[@notyouraveragejoe7003]

cedrick brown I have this same aspect in the same houses! Best of luck in clearing up the family lineage

[@mariaflygare9993]

Omg I have the same placement moon in 2nd house virgo square to my pluto in 5th saggitarius AND my mom is Leo sun, libra rising, pisces moon! 😂 This is so crazy to me

[@mariaflygare9993]

My mom holds power over me with money. Abusive big brother aswell in my childhood

[@CeddGodsWisdom]

Maria Flygare 🤭🤭🤭 ohhhh wow!!! That’s very interesting 🤔 but thank god I was reborn with full my kundalini rising me source, my south node was in the 12 house now I got a new natal chart. I have ascended to become my higherself Krishna/Athena I’m grateful I have healed that lesson with my mom over the past year. The pandemic was horrible for all of us but it brought me and my mom closer! 🙏🏽😇🦉

[@itsteganyay]

Thank you for the video! I would love to learn your take on hard aspects between Pluto and the Midheaven, as both the Moon and Midheaven are square Pluto in my chart, as part of a T-square. I don't see many videos about the Midheaven in your natal aspects playlist, and I would love to learn more about it in general, if you're looking for requests :)

[@alby7186]

Same. I have moon conjunct midheaven both square pluto.

[@sexycutiepie9545]

It's weird because as I'm looking at the aspects of my chart I keep seeing things that say a tendency towards addiction such as drugs or alcohol..I've seen this on 4 different aspects..Although I have been surrounded by other people's addictions I myself have never even so much as smoked a cigarette..I eat right and don't really have any self destructive habits..I used to drink socially but have never touched a drug so I can't understand why it keeps popping up in my chart...hmm.It is true that I'm very cautious emotionally..I push people away in fear of being hurt..All from past experiences..This video was extremely helpful..I'm still transforming into a Jedi..lol..

[@aliahrose4799]

Wow. Everything makes sense now 😅

[@Riya-ct5zk]

Thank you, Jewel! So is moon opposite pluto more or less showing the same?

[@stacysmith7387]

Thank you. This was very accurate, how do you know those aspect so well?

[@meowed]

I have my moon in Cancer 5th house squaring my Pluto in Libra 8th house. I am also a Pisces ascendant with Sun conjunct Saturn in Libra 7th house. Both my parents were hard to deal with! My mother though was worse on an emotional level. This explains A LOT about me and what I been going through! Thank you for the amazing video and giving me hope! You always fascinate me with the videos I have watched of you. You are so powerful and wise even though you may not show so outwardly at first, but as you speak, it is like you had tapped into deep hidden treasures that no one had the guts or fortitude to even comprehend!

[@JohnJavierContrerasRoa]

I'm fu**** tired of this aspect...exhausted.

[@mariomyitalianlover]

same :(

[@NessaLee23]

Wooooow I'm just jaw-dropped, this was so eye-opening!! I'm speechless... which is hard to do to a Virgo rising lol I feel like the last couple of years I've been transforming into the Jedi side of my moon square Pluto, and it has been so rewarding! I felt like there was a fog around my understanding of myself before I turned 28, and then it slowly began to clear, so by the time I hit 30 *boom* so much clicked and made sense! I shock myself with the gentle nature that just comes out of me in my dealings with others that *never* would have existed in my younger years! I've been working on my shadow side ✌ this explains a lot lol

[@vxgasworld]

We need a support group

[@violettah878]

Jewel could you do Pluto conjunct Moon in the natal chart? I really enjoy your videos!! :)