DOING THIS ONE THING WILL COMPLETELY TRANSFORM HOW THEY SEE YOU! SPECIFIC PERSON

[@Cherishflowers6]

I'm not a doormat ANYMORE! Thank you!

[@wellnesstree]

Years ago, when I started treating people the same way they treated me (ex flaking, not responding, being unreliable) they all had something to say in a rage. If I had responded to them the way they did to me, they’d say I had the problem. It’s a process because in my job when I stood up for myself, people would make comments and drag me through the mud. It’s a learning process but living authentically is a lot better for my health and happiness.

[@shill_2916]

Thank you so much ..❤, happy New year!

[@andyking7363]

In a nutshell it’s being nice with boundaries or even more concise is “having boundaries”

[@Ghostcookiees]

So my SP has been asking to see me every weekend, we spend the night together, act like a couple then I leave. He chases me and texts me throughout the week too, but he isn’t 100% there yet so I actually said no to seeing him this weekend, I said I deserve more. It was so hard for me to say no, because I did want to see him. I’ve always been too nice and now I feel slightly guilty as I think it upset him a bit but I know I deserve more, a lot more. This is the new me.

[@michaella5799]

Easy pussy has little to no value, sorry youve degraded your worth.

[@Flx-zh8ze]

Same for me lol

[@Ghostcookiees]

@ oops, I did actually agree to see him Christmas night and he actually mentioned the possibility of us getting back together

[@Ghostcookiees]

@@ceciliamac4283 good thank you! He drunk called me last night, crying, saying everything I wanted him to say, I’m in such a good place now I feel like I have control. I turned my situation around so quickly and you can too! To anyone else reading this you’ve got this 💕

[@TheWBWoman]

Interesting video. It's a shame how many people treat others terribly. I see it as we have to learn to treat ourselves as well & as nice as we want to treat others. Fill our own "cups" with what we need then pour a little into other people's cups but only people who actually deserve it & appreciate it.

[@belindavanvelzen5257]

Yessss

[@LondonLady24]

Thank you so much. Your video and message has come at a great time for me. I ended a one sided relationship in November and was thinking I made a mistake. But he never respected me and took advantage. Im working on the parts of me that thought that was the best I could get. Thank you so much for reminding me of my worth 🥰

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Amazing ❤️

[@bradeweathers8888]

I'm new to the community, and it's has been a long road for me. Thank you for these videos to make me believe in my faith again

[@helenatapper777]

"I am ready to change my approach". Yes, I will never let anyone break my heart again like my SP recently did. I will not be that nice to him anymore. He will never take me for granted again. I take my power back now! 💪 All focus on me now! 🙌Thank you Natalie Dance. 🙏💗

[@lauraschouweiler-sy1os]

I am ready to change my approach!

[@Lissy_TX_Stardust]

This is perfect timing! The last 2 guys 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I am definitely changing my approach. No more abandoning myself! ❤

[@PatriciaEverard]

Thank you for this message.I have just broken up with someone 3 weeks ago.He was emotionally unavailable.Possibly a narcissist.I know the reason why I attract emotionally unavailable men.Your video has given me hope.I am determined to change my approach and find a man who is worthy of my heart.❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love this video helped lovely one xxxx

[@johnmurrin9734]

youre awesome!

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Good advice. Since I've been working on my self concept, I am not accepting this kind of behavior. Family I will call them out. Co-workers I am ignoring more and more not engaging in chit-chat so some of them can back stab me. Of course my SP who I love I am also being more silent around her. She must know how I feel so I am waiting for her. but I want the full relationship not nonsense and wasting my time. and I say that with love. She needs to realize the only man who has probably ever chosen her first deserves to be treated better because I will love her forever if she gives me the chance.

[@marymay6387]

I am so ready to change my approach

[@antoniotucci7140]

I am not a door mat. I am ready to change my approach

[@dialmstyle]

I needed this! ❤

[@belindavanvelzen5257]

Me too❤

[@sarahfara1539]

I really feel this right now. My SP contacted me again but I neither want to explain to him (again) that I'm disappointed nor be really nice. I think I might still have been a bit too nice as in I replied politely and also joked a bit... but at least I didn't show much interest or asked him many questions but gave little energy. I don't know if I still want him or not tbh, I'm really unclear about it. He just messed up so many times and I'm either fully done now or close to it. If he doesn't step up his game MASSIVELY very soon

[@Stevo79er]

Natalie, it’s been about a year for me learning about this and following your channel. Some I figured out on my own and other parts I needed reminders or clarity on diving deep and taking care of myself better and first.

[@uponfurtherreview-g5w]

I am ready to change my approach❤

[@trisham22333]

My SP & I have been together for 4 years, I gave him a bunch of thoughtful gifts, almost 15 or 20 of them, for Christmas, all he gave me was a phone charger & an oil diffuser, like wtf... should I be mad, sad or disappointed? smh ...

[@nolimits7495]

This is why men don’t deserve gifts, receiving is feminine. I’ve another acquaintance who gifts her bf expensive watches and clothes and all he does is simply wish her on birthday.

[@alexkerr4847]

I'm not a doormat and I'm ready to change my approach

[@timothynichols5088]

I am ready to change my approach

[@williamdevin0219]

Brilliant take, well done Natalie

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thanks William xx

[@donnamartaofficial9903]

I just get the chance to wish you all the best ❤ thank you sooo much 🎉 for your work, support, light from Rome, Italy ❤❤❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Marta! Merry Christmas beautiful xxxx

[@donnamartaofficial9903]

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop hallo beautiful, you are blessed !! I have been gaining clarity on who I am, my authentic self boundaries are within us (not with SPs) 💐 best of wishes ❤️❤️❤️ 🎁 love & blessings 💯🥰

[@tankthearc9875]

especially men, if we are too nice they value us less

[@calebkeegan3023]

100 percent of you are all hookers but keep f****** man shaming

[@cari-if3mq]

I hear you, Natalie. Thank you for speaking this. I'm listening. 🙏❣️

[@HotRodHarley06]

9:03 Merry Christmas to you and everyone! 🎁 Kind is different than "nice" sometimes when I'm being nice it has a price tag, kind usually doesn't. If I'm nice enough they won't leave kind of thing, a covert unspoken contract.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Merry Christmas xxx

[@HotRodHarley06]

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ❤️

[@returnofthemack8347]

Natalie you snatched my entire hairline with this video and i NEEDED THIS SO MUCH. I feel like this video called my name out of nowhere and I walked right to it. Thank you for this much needed gut punch .. my eyes are so much more open. I’ve felt indivisible and unimportant in so many interactions with ppl and it literally has taken so much for me-I feel empowered to stop now because this video called me and I answered. Thank youuuuu

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

You’re very welcome lovely! Merry Christmas xxx

[@camishajackson9351]

So timely ♥️

[@LeoR-e6h]

Natalie, Me! Mr. Nice guy play a new roll “Bad guy”, I like your logic and will dedicate move next few moves to you! This was a fantastic presentation from you. We’re here it’s!! Have a beautiful Christmas with your loved ones and a happy New Year.❤🎉 Thank you Natalie, “Sending you Love & Light” ❤❤

[@dreambig1082]

I needed this video. Tha k u

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

You’re very welcome lovely xxxx

[@LadyLuck8889]

Thank you for this wonderful empowering video! 🙏❤️👏

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

You’re very welcome xxx

[@tricialoftus3588]

I am ready to change my approach !

[@katiem.3685]

I don’t know how to not be nice. I really don’t.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

See your worth by healing xxx

[@mizzchime7805]

I say I'm not nice I'm kind. But dont mistake my kindness for weakness. ❤

[@nena2233]

I was never a doormat and won’t start neither

[@mizzchime7805]

I say "Im not nice, Im kind don't mistake my kindness for weakness"

[@tankthearc9875]

unfortunately they often do,

[@missquicksilver]

At what age can we start treating a man as a man, and when should we still see him as a boy? When can we start expecting that he will start acting like a grown-up man? Can we expect it from a 20 year old? 22 year old? 25 year old? Or is 30 the age when we can start expecting a man to act like a man and actually want a woman, a partner, not just a sex partner and someone to have fun with?

[@rachelchristenson8232]

My boyfriend hasn’t spoken to me in 2 days because I called him out about snapping at me.

[@Dsupernova27]

I called a friend out on her BS via a harsh text two months ago and she didn’t respond (shame?) I was about to call her today cause it’s her birthday saying that I hope someday we can “clean the bottle in order to put fresh wine”. Nat!! Should I do that?? Please let me know! Thanks!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

I can’t make that decision for you. Choose and learn and grow from it whatever the outcome

[@Dsupernova27]

I’m not doing it cause I bet you wouldn’t and I deserve the best treatment!

[@Stevo79er]

@@Dsupernova27I think a lot of people cannot handle being called out and being held accountable. I found so many talk over you, ignore something you bring up or just flat out deny there’s an issue expecting you to play along. If you are confident in yourself then just go on with your day. It sounds like you would be giving more to make that call.

[@Dsupernova27]

@@Stevo79er do you mean I’d be giving more if I make the call? More of what? I’m more sensitive now during Christmas holidays, actually everyone is, right? I’d like to have her best version back, but this video is helping me to not make the call. Sorry, English is not my first language.

[@Dsupernova27]

@@Stevo79er thanks for your input!

[@chitreshvarma6758]

everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki

[@Fringman]

So let’s say had a good date with my ex and right after she said she wanted to hang out and talk again, talked for a few days after on text but didn’t agree to plans. Now hasn’t texted me or called in weeks after I reached out 2X, what do I do. When they come back what do I do ?

[@Lokeshtimlilover003]

the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real

[@Ninja_gamingFF7]

the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored

[@calebkeegan3023]

Female narcs are multiplying

[@MrsDelacruz-o9x]

Nobody has free will. You have full control how people show up. They treat you like shit if you expect them to. It’s all self concept work.

[@MrsDelacruz-o9x]

@good luck on your long journey

[@splitzyentertainment7995]

Its true but I'm naturally nice

[@Thenewyouniverse]

What happened to changing the reality with positive affirmations??????? You are keep confusing me.

[@sulee3379]

Perfect timing!! Thanks Natalie. 🤍🤍

[@nghinguyen9747]

I am ready to change my approach

[@nuria6075]

I am ready to change my approach