7 Tips for Christian Dating

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7 Tips for Christian Dating
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@lolasantiago9788
@lolasantiago9788 4 жыл бұрын
I am currently single. But recently about a few months ago me and this boy that goes to my church, he happens to be the pastors son, I noticed that I was starting to see him in a different way. And at the moment I thought I was crazy but I felt like God was telling me that that’s who I’m going to marry or that that’s who he wants me to marry. And I thought that for a few months and I prayed and prayed about it and ask God to take those thoughts away if it wasn’t for his glory or it wasn’t what he wanted for me. And one day I went to go visit my mom because I currently live with my dad and she said she wanted to talk to me about something. Mind you, I’ve never ever ever mentioned this boy to my mom. And for a long time I was praying to God to show me and sign if he really is the one for me. And my mom wanted to have a talk with me and she said the following “I don’t know if I’m crazy or if this is all in my head but I feel like God really, really wants me to tell you this. I think that you and the pastors son are meant to be more then just friends. I think that you guys will do extraordinarily things for the lord and he wants you to know that.” At the moment I was so shook and I started to cry. I was so overwhelmed with emotions because the thought I have been having taht I thought were from God but I wasn’t sure so I just kept denying it, it ended up being true. And once I got back home he said that he urgently needed to talk to me about something. And he said the following “I know this is going to sound crazy, and I know that this is completely out of the blue. But I truly feel that this is what God is telling me. I think that God wants us to be more then friends. Maybe husband and wife one day.” And at that moment I started to cry and cry. He said that he have been praying about it for about 5 months and the answer has never seemed so clear. And I have been praying about it for about the same amount of time. We talk about things and for now we are just friends. We are both very very young, he is 17 and I am 16. And for now we want to focus on God and have God be the main focus of our life. Because we don’t want to have to be in a committed relationship at such a young age. We want our relationship with the lord to be as solid as can be before we decide to go further into our relationship. This dating video really helped me see some views on what I should work on and what I should consider once me and this guy start dating. So thank you so much for this video and so sorry for the long story.
@janellee250
@janellee250 4 жыл бұрын
Lola Santiago great testimony and I pray the Lord keeps pouring truth into you and that, at your age you absolutely are right in that right now your focus should be on his word and prayer for guidance. You’re in my prayers too.
@lolasantiago9788
@lolasantiago9788 4 жыл бұрын
Janel Lee Thank you 🙏🏼
@delancey3181
@delancey3181 4 жыл бұрын
Wow lucky I’m 16 and I’ve never dated or had boys liked me I think I’m never gonna date
@teecee6655
@teecee6655 4 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@juri8999
@juri8999 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you. You have a beautiful soul ❤️
@jadealexander8233
@jadealexander8233 4 жыл бұрын
1. Date someone running towards the same cause as you 2. Initiate with Clarity (clarity your intentions) 3. Date with autonomy (lead with morality instead of desires) 4. Date with purity 5. Date graciously 6. Community 7. Date patiently
@peggz223
@peggz223 3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@growthgrowth1087
@growthgrowth1087 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@MenacingThreat
@MenacingThreat 3 жыл бұрын
Spoilers(;
@GentlemenJack109
@GentlemenJack109 3 жыл бұрын
Im in a relationship with a puppet and it’s Been going amazing. We listen to love songs together and we just cuddle up and kiss. Our relationship is so romantic. I’m objectumsexual which means I have a romantic Attraction and feelings of love and commitment to a object. Im in love with a puppet and her name is Sandra jakoby, I love her so much, she beautiful and amazing. God approves of it to.
@wildshaper2085
@wildshaper2085 2 жыл бұрын
@@GentlemenJack109 confronting your heart is often difficult. I myself sin and fall short of the glory of God, as with everybody else in the world. While many struggle with addiction, lies, hatred, disobeying parents etc. Others struggle sexually. Dating an object is not Gods way or nature. In the recent years people have tried changing, twisting, misinterpreting and reinterpreting Gods word. But that will ultimately never change his judgment or ways. Our hearts are at many times deceitful and that is why we must trust God and not lean with our own understanding. I am also not here to judge you but to remind you that He will sooner or later judge you based off of your actions and believes. God wants you to follow him and his ways. Having lustful fantasies with an object is not what He has planned for you
@caribaez5711
@caribaez5711 3 жыл бұрын
1) date prayerfully 2) date with intentions; tell them your intentions. Be clear. Speak with clarity. 3) date with autonomy; date with morality. 4) date with purity; assess why you want to be with that person. It is not the sex that will make you see if you two are right for one another. 5) date graciously. Be kind to yourself and the other person. 6) community; don’t isolate yourselves but get together with a prayer/ any group whom will help to let you know if both are good for one another. 7) date patiently; be wise and pray as you are dating somebody. God creates your story and He loves you. Don’t compromise until you know the truth and they match up with what God intends you to be.
@jinkyrosell8459
@jinkyrosell8459 4 жыл бұрын
28 and waiting for God’s perfect time. 💛💛
@mutebimoses5034
@mutebimoses5034 3 жыл бұрын
Can we be friends
@jollygoodgordon5580
@jollygoodgordon5580 3 жыл бұрын
25 and waiting too
@andypantsxbox
@andypantsxbox 3 жыл бұрын
Hey boo
@JamalF11X
@JamalF11X 3 жыл бұрын
Lol I wonder how many good men you rejected
@revenge8215
@revenge8215 2 жыл бұрын
@@JamalF11X facts
@miri29
@miri29 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nate and Sutton, I am 23, italian, and vergin. In Italy, girls have sex and boyfriends at 16-18. During teenage years, I felt so wrong and weird, I wasn't able to find a guy that I liked who liked me back. And all those rejections were God's protection! Now I wouldn't want those kinds of people I was attracted to, THANK GOD for protecting me. I wasn't Christian, now I am and it all makes more sense with this video too. Thank you!
@Waldemarvonanhalt
@Waldemarvonanhalt 4 жыл бұрын
That's really disappointing to hear about Italy. You might want to associate with those that have a preference for the Extraordinary form of the Mass. I think there might be some good men in those circles.
@miri29
@miri29 4 жыл бұрын
@@Waldemarvonanhalt if I understood well (i am not english) you say that in Italy there are also some good men different from the mass. Am I right? If yes, I completely agree with you! I am a good girl and there are also good boys, sure, I have no doubt about that. But who I was before subconsciously chose another kind of people. I didn't know what Love is, so I had so many toxic "relationships". But now I am open to Love and I don't want that unuseful patterns anymore) , thanks to me and obviously thanks to Jesus 🥰
@Waldemarvonanhalt
@Waldemarvonanhalt 4 жыл бұрын
@@miri29 I think you would enjoy reading or listening to Fulton Sheen, "Three to get married". I think there might be an Italian translation.
@miri29
@miri29 4 жыл бұрын
@@Waldemarvonanhalt i am going to search. Thank you so much 😊
@rachelmcclain5367
@rachelmcclain5367 4 жыл бұрын
I have had that same experience. Two years later I realized that, and that was awesome
@zacharymiklos1792
@zacharymiklos1792 4 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, the way you guys smile and interact with each other is literally so inspiring. It makes all your videos even more powerful. Just wanted to say that you guys fill me with such hope - I trust that one day I too will find what you guys share together. Thanks for all that you do.
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 4 жыл бұрын
Zachary Miklos Aw thank you so much! We pray you find that too! 🙏🏽💛
@isabellesaad8506
@isabellesaad8506 4 жыл бұрын
literally so true. We love you Nate and Sutton!
@miaramona6257
@miaramona6257 4 жыл бұрын
Ditto!!!
@maria.gabriela.
@maria.gabriela. 4 жыл бұрын
I haven't even started the video, but i have to say: Sutton, your hair looks gorgeous!
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 4 жыл бұрын
Maria Gabriela Aw thank you! It’s getting out of control! Haha I gotta get it thinned out/cut soon!
@chantelpowell3693
@chantelpowell3693 4 жыл бұрын
@@nateandsutton No! It's so beautiful, what are your thoughts on uncut hair? 1 Corinthians 11
@Mint-kj9kw
@Mint-kj9kw 4 жыл бұрын
@@chantelpowell3693 That's religious. I'm an on fire Spirit Christian and I shaved my head recently...
@stephanieknowles3854
@stephanieknowles3854 4 жыл бұрын
@@nateandsutton right Sutton's hair is so long and it looks absolutely gorgeous I wouldn't do anything to it but just keep letting it grow
@piudanielaiuliana3960
@piudanielaiuliana3960 4 жыл бұрын
Chantel Daigrepont ssdsd
@meganlouiseoregan397
@meganlouiseoregan397 4 жыл бұрын
'' God is the one who completes you'' Amen 💜🙌
@victoriaashley__
@victoriaashley__ 4 жыл бұрын
Sutton, I LOVE that you said, "When you're confident in your relationship with God, He takes away the desperation and anxiety that comes with dating." Speaking from experience, that is something I find SOOO true for life in general.
@valeriacaycedomore1647
@valeriacaycedomore1647 4 жыл бұрын
I’m the only one that is reading the comments while listening to the video?? lol. I love you guys, and I’m so happy that God is using your relationship to teach others so many incredible things. Sending blessings❤️.
@life-growthwithpeaceagbool6593
@life-growthwithpeaceagbool6593 2 жыл бұрын
not only you.
@lucyscheidler9639
@lucyscheidler9639 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 18, and I’m not a virgin. I thought that I owed my boyfriend (now my ex) sex, and I was too scared to have that conversation with him. I want the next time I have sex to be on my wedding night, and if a man doesn’t understand that, then he’s not the right man. If any young woman or man out there is reading this and feels like their SO is pressuring them to have sex (or even be intimate in any way), please know that you deserve better than that. Just because so many people have sex, doesn’t mean that you have to as well. I wish I had heard this when I was in that position.
@juanitasampson5487
@juanitasampson5487 4 жыл бұрын
Lucy Scheidler omg thank you so much ♥️
@angelinabean2932
@angelinabean2932 4 жыл бұрын
I never comment but thank you! I am literally in the same boat as you and I 100% understand what you're saying/where you're coming from!
@eddahwambui4596
@eddahwambui4596 3 жыл бұрын
Feels like you are telling my exact story.
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 3 жыл бұрын
Learned this the hard way too
@starrjohnson1327
@starrjohnson1327 2 жыл бұрын
I'm dating a guy who says he's a Christian. We've been going on dates but he just asked me when was the last time I was intimate. I told him I don't talk about that. He says he wants to get married but I'm not interested. He also keeps trying to grab my body parts! I'm trying to break things off.
@annedeborah5926
@annedeborah5926 4 жыл бұрын
Nate:"they were horrible." Sutton:"they could be watching our video." NATE:"THEY BETTER!!!" Me:🤯😂😂🙆‍♀️
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 4 жыл бұрын
anne deborah 😂
@rosembimo
@rosembimo 4 жыл бұрын
😆😂😂😂
@moibenkibet.
@moibenkibet. 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂💯
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
It’s important for both of us to know who we are in Christ and that we are complete in Him. “A 3 chord strand is not easily broken.” He has to be the center of my relationship. -The Hirtz Life Show🎥📺🙌🏼 (Age 32 and waiting 🙋🏻‍♂️lol)
@jpgaming9816
@jpgaming9816 4 жыл бұрын
Hirtz Life: Christian Blogs Well Hirtz I must say, if that’s you in your profile pic then you lookin good for 32
@roseghale2675
@roseghale2675 4 жыл бұрын
Age=31 still waiting We have to trust our god .becz he knows desires of our heart.in this single season we have to get more closer to GOD.. Yes no compromise. Becz god has some for us beyond our imagination..🙌🏼🙌🏼
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
@@jpgaming9816 Haha, thanks! I appreciate that! lol. -The Hirtz Life Show 🎥📺🙌🏼
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
@@roseghale2675 Amen! That is some good advice!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@roseghale2675
@roseghale2675 4 жыл бұрын
Your wel come Hirtz...🤗🤗 We all are in christ we have to encourage to each other. Becz we are going in same Page... And Iron sharpen Iron🙏🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@krystalthewriter6031
@krystalthewriter6031 4 жыл бұрын
Can't wait to I start dating again so I can do it correctly now lol...
@abigailbetts3421
@abigailbetts3421 4 жыл бұрын
I feel that sister.
@Porteranchero
@Porteranchero 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss👏👏
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 жыл бұрын
I am seriousely need girl friend i am proud .. Single ❤❤😍
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 4 жыл бұрын
Krystal the writer 😄👏🏼👏🏼
@serenaarcher1842
@serenaarcher1842 4 жыл бұрын
Right!
@limabeans6125
@limabeans6125 4 жыл бұрын
“Better to marry than to burn with passion” that cracked me up🤣👏🏾
@drrydog
@drrydog 3 жыл бұрын
that's pretty dumb logic tho... bro
@Seedbat
@Seedbat 4 ай бұрын
literally 1 corinthians 7:9 😂
@michaeln5837
@michaeln5837 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Nate and Sutton, I just wanted to thank you for making this video. I have not even watched it, haha, but in the last few days, I have always been thinking about Dating as a Christian. I'm 20 years old and I've been single for my whole life but I am praying for my future wife because I know that God has someone in store for me. God is so real and he is listening to us all the time, why else would you upload a video about what I was thinking of the last couple of days. Thank you and God bless you!!
@fee892
@fee892 Жыл бұрын
I pray you'll find the perfect wife
@SuubiNamubiru
@SuubiNamubiru 4 жыл бұрын
This is so crazy, I just watched the "How to date" sermon from Passion City Church Washington D. C twice this past week. And I was more excited about your video this week than I usually am 😅 God is speaking, thank you for letting Him use you 🙏❤️
@janessarobertson2909
@janessarobertson2909 4 жыл бұрын
Suubi Namubiru this video is based off of Ben Stuart’s “Single, Dating, Engaged, Married” series
@SuubiNamubiru
@SuubiNamubiru 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is :) I've only watched until the third sermon though :/
@carinvaneldik1896
@carinvaneldik1896 4 жыл бұрын
@@SuubiNamubiru It's totally worth it to watch the other sermons too!
@sakhilentshangase1271
@sakhilentshangase1271 4 жыл бұрын
I have been listening to Ben Stuart for the past 2 months or so and yeah, pretty amazing guy.
@SuubiNamubiru
@SuubiNamubiru 4 жыл бұрын
@@carinvaneldik1896 Will do :)
@melissacalderon1515
@melissacalderon1515 3 жыл бұрын
Finding the right person it’s not always going to look simple, sometimes it takes you getting out of your comfort zone and asking God to give you the wisdom and discernment to choose the right person, and to give you the confidence to open up and meet people because you never know what God has in store but you can’t don’t want a put pressure so much on yourself, just stay true who you are and the right person will see that
@jam1369
@jam1369 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice! There is a right way to date. Having a close relationship with the Lord first is best. He will always lead you the right way. He will definitely let you know if the person you are dating is not the one.
@mariyasnizhko916
@mariyasnizhko916 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!! God always has the best prepared for us!!!
@saniaeve5297
@saniaeve5297 4 жыл бұрын
Was literally talking about this topic today with people as I'm a young person in Christ. Marriage and dating always fascinated me before I came to Christ but now that I've grown I'm excited about the topic but I wanna do it the right way. The Godly way!
@serenaarcher1842
@serenaarcher1842 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@katwhaley793
@katwhaley793 4 жыл бұрын
Thank y’all so much for being such a good role model for everyone! I’m 18 and waiting for marriage. I haven’t had a boyfriend in a couple years and waiting is hard. I’ve had to learn that I can’t go out trying to find someone I have to wait for God to show me who he has made for me. I love y’all so much!!
@AlyssaMattix
@AlyssaMattix 4 жыл бұрын
Kat Whaley I just wanted to say that I totally understand what you are going through. I am 21 right now. Before this last year, I was trying to take things into my own hands instead of giving it to God. Like you said, once I stepped out of my own way and waited on God’s timing that’s when He sent my now husband to me. Continue praying and walking with Christ. He’s got you! Hope you had a great Sunday!
@katwhaley793
@katwhaley793 4 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Mattix I really appreciate that!! So happy for you! Gods timing not mine!!!
@taizachvrchwhite735
@taizachvrchwhite735 4 жыл бұрын
That is great you know this at 18! At that age I learned to not rush into a relationship (even a Godly one). It is important to first seek God about a person who is interested in you. And meanwhile you can seek God on his plan for your future. He will make it known to you. God's plans are best and his timing is perfect. I too am single (22 yrs & almost single a decade lol) but I now know God will give me a husband someday.
@conniek1039
@conniek1039 4 жыл бұрын
Kat Whaley hey Kat, I’m also 18 and I’ve been single for 3 years and I’ve been struggling a lot lately with having patience, but I’m trying my best to trust God’s timing and prepare myself for marriage 😍 Oh and it doesn’t help that I have a new crush every couple days 😩😂
@mariaangelicamalabanan9953
@mariaangelicamalabanan9953 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 21, still a virgin .. believe in purity before marriage coz this is the best gift that I could ever give to my husband.
@maryjulius2863
@maryjulius2863 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@ctn4646
@ctn4646 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys! I'm Crying right now, because I realize now that as a virgin, God has in a way dragged me away lol from previous suitors that turned out to have different mindsets when it came to dating and relationships. Your channel gives this Christian girl hope that one day God will present me with someone who shares that common mindset and belief system. I'm praying!
@elysepryor3728
@elysepryor3728 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys for talking about how important it is to not compromise.. that is huge. I needed to hear that!
@Carmenh1992
@Carmenh1992 4 жыл бұрын
Guys I really loved this. I have lived a lustful past and 100% it was harder to cut off the attachment if we had already been intimate. I found myself staying even when I felt like the person was so wrong for me. God intended for us to have sex but within marriage because that soul tie is so hard to break. He doesn't want us to feel that pain. What a Great God we serve. And also thank yall for being the light on social media.
@annamontgomery7643
@annamontgomery7643 4 жыл бұрын
"Starting today, don't give it away" lol best saying ever, great video guys :)
@autumnbelle9700
@autumnbelle9700 4 жыл бұрын
"Don't compromise"- Best advice! Love you guys!
@evelyn_jenn
@evelyn_jenn 4 жыл бұрын
16:44 I needed to hear that. God is working so beautifully.. he uses simple words from you guys to encourage me 🤍
@gwenking6983
@gwenking6983 4 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS SO HELPFUL. Absolutely needed to hear all of that thank you guys so so much you are both gifts from God and may he bless you both and your family and your home💗💗💗
@aideoropeza5545
@aideoropeza5545 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice!! ❤️ I recently began dating someone. And we both know our intentions. We have clarified where we want to take our relationship to. I also made it clear that I am saving myself for marriage and he respects that. I think what we may be struggling with is patience. Our relationship has developed fast in just a couple weeks. We already know that a forever is possible for with us as long as we put God always first. But, we are both still young, and I think although we seem to be focusing on our goal we may need to focus more on the process of getting there. It’s nice dreaming about our future together but I’m realizing that we should take a step back and ask, “okay, this is what we want. How will we achieve it?” Idk. But this was a nice reflection about my dating life rn. I really enjoyed the advice thank you so much❤️❤️ I look up to guys and you guys inspire me to have a relationship similar to you guys. A relationship that is full of love and is God fulfilling. I want to ask for your prayers. I pray that God guides me in my relationship and so that it turns into something beautiful. ❤️
@dianasalgado3226
@dianasalgado3226 4 жыл бұрын
I love Nate and Sutton’s videos!! I’m not currently looking to date at the moment, but these tips are so helpful and I will definitely take them to heart! 😊 Thank you so much for the videos guys! I appreciate the advice! You guys are making a huge difference! God bless you both! (And Oaklan too! 😄)
@lorayix960
@lorayix960 4 жыл бұрын
I loved the part about clarity! It's so necessary! For my boyfriend and I it's an area we both need to work on (especially as long distance leads to more miscommunication)
@lize-marismit4654
@lize-marismit4654 4 жыл бұрын
Your message, was Godsend. Thank you so much. I have prayed and prayed for an answer and I received it. 🙏🕊
@laurengallo4855
@laurengallo4855 4 жыл бұрын
Love this! I just watched "How to Date" by Passion City Church (podcast) and its the same thing y'all taught!
@MandyJRoss
@MandyJRoss 3 жыл бұрын
Aw y'all are so sweet and cute together. This video was really authentically and transparently produced and I can feel the genuine love between you. Thanks for sharing your experience. Peace + Blessings.💜🙏🏻✝️
@Adventurer4JC
@Adventurer4JC 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to clarity! Be kind->be clear.😊
@yanelysacosta1632
@yanelysacosta1632 4 жыл бұрын
I'm only halfway through the video, but I just wanted to say that I really needed this. Thank you guys for imparting your wisdom and such perfect timing. God bles you both in your marriage, family and in this awesome ministry that God has given you. 😊😇
@stevieleegorostiza335
@stevieleegorostiza335 4 жыл бұрын
I loved this video y’all did great!!! My 15-year-old girl and I’m a Christian and I love watching your advice videos you have definitely helped me out a lot !!! Keep it up 👍
@ashleyprice3095
@ashleyprice3095 4 жыл бұрын
Guys-seriously, your best video yet. Truth!! Also would want the actually verses you referenced! It’s looking like I need to study more of Proverbs. Keep it up. Thank you!
@camerynbowers6132
@camerynbowers6132 4 жыл бұрын
look forward to your videos every sunday !! great content, thank you
@amycranfield
@amycranfield 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome video 🙌🏼. What stuck with me is to not compromise. Needed this 🙏🏼. Thank y’all!
@xpatzy
@xpatzy 4 жыл бұрын
“Clarity is kindness.” 💥💥
@rebelgirl6252
@rebelgirl6252 4 жыл бұрын
*"I'm 13 and i need a mate!"* I remember that phase. It was rough, and i thought it would never end.
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 жыл бұрын
I love Love Love U u u u forever really 😍😍😍❤❤❤ I like u do u merry with me i am proud very 😚loveing 😙very 💏romantic 💏i sm single meete now
@Goat.Cheese
@Goat.Cheese 4 жыл бұрын
@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz wut
@kevienadixon1664
@kevienadixon1664 4 жыл бұрын
@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz hey, are you okay? I've seen you post these kind of comments several times throughout the comment section of this particular video.....
@rachelmcclain5367
@rachelmcclain5367 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like society should maybe normalize this is make it easier for people to wait, or get married earlier
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 3 жыл бұрын
I was SUCH a cringey 13 year old 😩
@isabelbaumgartner1578
@isabelbaumgartner1578 4 жыл бұрын
I read in a book (Defining Decade by Meg Jay--10/10 recommend!!) that couples think that living together is a good way to test whether they'd work out as a married couple (seems logical). However, studies have shown that it is actually not a good way to test this because of what psychologist call the sliding effect. Most couples live together because they had already been sleeping over at each other's places so it would be more convenient to just live together. They just casually decide to live together; there's no serious commitment involved. People always rationalize that if they wanted to get out of the current situation, it would be easy because they're not married to the other person. (This is also flawed thinking. Obviously, moving out is much easier than getting divorced, but moving out is still much more difficult than just breaking up with someone.) Because couples *slide* into a situation that requires commitment without the actual commitment, they are more likely to drag their feet in getting married or they might *slide* into getting married without thinking of how much of a commitment it is. Don't quote me on this because I don't have the book in front of me. You can google "the sliding effect" for more informed information, though.
@jadealexander8233
@jadealexander8233 4 жыл бұрын
I read the book too!!!🙌🏽🤗
@stephm6028
@stephm6028 4 жыл бұрын
I read the book too! So good!
@thegiftofgabby5581
@thegiftofgabby5581 4 жыл бұрын
I highly recommend that book! Made a lasting impact on me. Especially that part!! Most couple who cohabitate prior to marriage don’t get married or get divorced at a higher rate.
@Jesus.saved.me2000
@Jesus.saved.me2000 2 жыл бұрын
This method is something I never understood. I could never do this, I've seen how bad it can get from living with housemates that are couples. It just doesn't work!!
@aseafishh
@aseafishh 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. These are things I needed to hear as I'm going through a difficult time right now.
@thecompany8553
@thecompany8553 4 жыл бұрын
Such great tips. Thank you very much!😊
@seliadykes2392
@seliadykes2392 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! I've been praying a lot about dating recently and asking questions about it so this is really helpful!!
@ginellam3555
@ginellam3555 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I watched the whole video to then at the end what Nate said about not compromising hit home !!! Thank you so much for this !! I needed to hear that right now
@samuelokereke2938
@samuelokereke2938 4 жыл бұрын
I am also encouraged by your relationship with Sutton. I pray for God's love and Grace to increase in your lives. I know that someday I will share my testimony of finding amazing love.
@karimabighosn4264
@karimabighosn4264 4 жыл бұрын
I was lierally waiting for your upload .... and i love it great advice and content . I hope you would download twice or more a week because of how inspiring you are
@katielynneller6516
@katielynneller6516 4 жыл бұрын
The sweetest couple!!! Dating patiently is sooooo true! So thankful for you two!
@Nushka26
@Nushka26 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nate and Sutton! I thoroughly enjoyed this video, and all the others🤗❤. God bless you and your little family.🇿🇦
@claineypenzenik9970
@claineypenzenik9970 4 жыл бұрын
ur videos have helped me soooo much!!! i look forward to ur new videos every week! my faith has grown so much stronger bc of u guys. thank u so much for sharing God’s word and beautiful christian messages. i love u guys!!
@keilacalero6278
@keilacalero6278 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Nate and Sutton, very helpful advice for me. God bless you both 💕
@annemarievankrimpen1364
@annemarievankrimpen1364 4 жыл бұрын
I wanna thank you both for being open and teach me all these things. God bless u.
@marienichelson2450
@marienichelson2450 4 жыл бұрын
Hello! My name’s Marie, I’m a new subscriber and just wanted to say I really enjoy watching your videos! They’re super helpful. I’m so glad I found some people who have most (if not all) of the Christian relationship belief’s that I have. ❤️ Thanks for posting videos! God bless y’all. 😘
@jpgaming9816
@jpgaming9816 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Sending this to friends!!
@psalmistabigail
@psalmistabigail 4 жыл бұрын
Everything was good! Wise Words! But what struck me the most was "do not compromise" Many people do this in dating and I thank you for pointing these points out to us! We love you💕
@orianaleon6595
@orianaleon6595 4 жыл бұрын
wow that message at the end when nate said "I dont know who needs to hear this" I NEEDED IT SO BAD! Thank you. i find myslef settling so much because i think i will never find better but you are right! God had better plans for me :)
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 4 жыл бұрын
Oriana Leon 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884
@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice! Thanks for sharing this 🙏🏾
@mariyasnizhko916
@mariyasnizhko916 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being the voice of God that people can hear!!! This is so needed!!! I hope many people can implement these suggestions and create a beautiful union!! May God continue to use you and this platform to reach so many more people!! May you always have Holy Spirit inspiration!!
@camilliecollins9486
@camilliecollins9486 4 жыл бұрын
This is sooooo good! Thank y'all for bringing this to the people!
@AlyssaMattix
@AlyssaMattix 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love you guys and y’all have been such an inspiration to me as a fellow Christian KZbinr!! I admire how you make sure that God’s love and glory is shown in every video!
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 жыл бұрын
I Am Single ❤❤❤❤❤
@mikaylaedgley5920
@mikaylaedgley5920 4 жыл бұрын
NEEDED THIS TODAY THANK YOU!!!!
@micheallaattiogbe3879
@micheallaattiogbe3879 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you guys so much..... I just discovered your channel yesterday and I love your messages through your videos 🙏🙏🙏..... I pray more Grace in your walk with God🙏🙏🙏..... Shalom
@rasheidareid4156
@rasheidareid4156 2 жыл бұрын
Saw your videos today for the first time and I can't stop watching. ...God bless you both 🙏
@naaaklerhokai6226
@naaaklerhokai6226 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very very much and thank God for leading me to this video. I really really needed to hear the last part of what you said Nate. I'm glad I stayed till the end. May God bless you guys so much!😊
@137Stepha
@137Stepha 4 жыл бұрын
Great advises! Very straight forward and simple. Dating should definitely be fun! There's nothing like starting a relationship with the strongest solid foundation, with our feet on the rock.
@caitlinmelgar8534
@caitlinmelgar8534 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I’ve been praying to God about my future husband and dating. This was such a blessing, keep letting God use you!
@brittanymcclintock7013
@brittanymcclintock7013 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are so awesome! I love the honesty and wisdom!
@116Swimmer
@116Swimmer 4 жыл бұрын
Love the topics you touched on :) Great job! I would of loved if you could talk about long-distance Christian dating at some point!
@nebj1014
@nebj1014 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks you too! definitely messed up in a couple areas, but at least I can use these tips to help others
@faithroberts5624
@faithroberts5624 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely some encouragement that I needed to hear today!! Thank you both so much for sharing these words of advice.. :))
@brittanymccandless2534
@brittanymccandless2534 4 жыл бұрын
Really appreciated this video. Thanks for sharing.
@dollarrider3306
@dollarrider3306 Жыл бұрын
U guys are great teachers. Straight to the point, summarized all the major important points. God bless you.
@camserrano5273
@camserrano5273 3 жыл бұрын
Loved to see you both Nate and Sutton! Your Love story is truly Gods design! It's still shine and be seen to the both of u😍 Thanks for the Godly tips. God bless u!
@Sayuki0713
@Sayuki0713 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I have been rewatching your videos. I love your channel.
@maziegarza6272
@maziegarza6272 4 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!! This video was so good! Thank you for the amazing encouragement and insights on how to day well!
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤😍sm single
@lumonica905
@lumonica905 4 жыл бұрын
I have been very encouraged by every of your videos! Thanks Nate and Sutton! If people ask me what a healthy Christian marriage is like, I think it is what your marriage is :)
@edmiley9866
@edmiley9866 4 жыл бұрын
Great hope you’re a blessing to many, especially young people!
@priscillapolizzi6906
@priscillapolizzi6906 4 жыл бұрын
You two have such a gift of inspiration! You inspire me so much and I’m so glad to be able to listen to your message! 🤍
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 4 жыл бұрын
Priscilla Polizzi aww thank you that is a big encouragement to us 🙏🏼
@desirenaomi8799
@desirenaomi8799 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I stumbled on your channel tonight and I’ve been watching your videos🤗 I feel so blessed and happy right now. important things I’ll do is to always pray and keep my relationship with God growing so I could always hear from him in-order to make the right decisions and get the right directions from him. I’m 20 and a virgin, I’m now very determined to wait till my wedding night and not only that, also always pray to God to give me the perfect man He has designed for me🙏
@sierradrolet4106
@sierradrolet4106 4 жыл бұрын
First thought as soon as the video started: “daannnggg Sutton’s hair looks GORGEOUS😍😍😍”
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 4 жыл бұрын
Sierra Drolet Aw thank you!!
@justincarter2500
@justincarter2500 Жыл бұрын
Amen!!! Y'all better PREACH!!! Love you guys!😁😁😁
@samuelokereke2938
@samuelokereke2938 4 жыл бұрын
Man, I remember Nate before the jaw surgery. You were big source of encouragement to go get mine done. Just wanted to thank you man.
@mike80436
@mike80436 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you’re insights guys! I agree with most of it!
@llamalem
@llamalem 2 жыл бұрын
I am now dating a friend who said that he loved me since yr 2 and when I left the school in yr4 he thought he'd never see me again because I moved so far away. When I came back last year he was so happy and confessed that he liked me. I'd never dated anyone (or even had a crush) before him so I was waiting to see if I liked him, we started dating this year. He is a Christian and so nice and amazing to me, he asks if I'm comfortable with holding hands or hugging and never steps over the line. I'm glad that he persisted with dating me because he loves me so much and now I love him. 😊❤
@idaalessandrini
@idaalessandrini 4 жыл бұрын
I`ve been enjoying your video for months now! you touch on some wonderful things, I`ve learned and agreed with so much you both have talked about. Also Nate cracks me up sometimes.
@isabelateixeiradasilva7591
@isabelateixeiradasilva7591 4 жыл бұрын
This is so good! Thank you!
@kaulanabechtold5981
@kaulanabechtold5981 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are so amazing! I love your content it’s truly helping me a lot. God bless y’all ♥️
@rohiththomas1716
@rohiththomas1716 2 жыл бұрын
It's such a blessing to see you guys Nate and Sutton, you lives shows me what God is doing for HIS faithful, such an inspiration, thank you guys, and all glory to God
@brishelle1659
@brishelle1659 Жыл бұрын
You guys are such a fresh breathe of air. Thanks for reminding me that things really are that simple
@laurengb6
@laurengb6 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome videos thanks guys 😊
@clearhope1092
@clearhope1092 2 жыл бұрын
I love how God is working in you both to share His wisdom with us! Thank you for this video! God bless you!
@faithamian1088
@faithamian1088 4 жыл бұрын
This is so encouraging and relatable to my walk. Thanks for making this video. ❤️
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 жыл бұрын
😍😍❤❤❤❤❤❤Lol
@navidaedwards7592
@navidaedwards7592 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys... Beautiful.. words of encouragement was really helpful... God bless 😇 you and your entire family ❣️
@aminor_vessel
@aminor_vessel 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!! This is so timely! Thank you for breaking this down into practical tips through the HOLY SPIRIT!!! 😁🤗 Love y’all!!
@mariasmith8207
@mariasmith8207 4 жыл бұрын
i'm a Catholic and I totally agree with everything you guys said. Good on you guys!! xx
@nicolemarzka3532
@nicolemarzka3532 4 жыл бұрын
I love this video, I’m 15 and a Christian and I’ve been looking for a relationship but it’s hard when so many people just want sex and think that when you date that’s what your supposed to do. I’ve always felt like that is for a married couple. Seeing y’alls relationship gives me hope in finding someone in the future. Love you guys💜
@haliejesuschildandvessel7786
@haliejesuschildandvessel7786 3 жыл бұрын
Im going to be fifteen in 5 days!! And your so right!! Im totally not looking for a relationship but I want to be ready if/when God says it's time. I always want to have God at the center of any relationship. Right now God is just silent in that area and I know God has it all in his hands!! Trust in God and know he has everything in control!! He knows what's best for you and what you need in EVERY situation and time in your life!!
@travistlock
@travistlock 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t bother dating till your out of high school... you’ll save yourself from many things!
@benholderby7
@benholderby7 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are such an inspiration. Thanks!
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