Not all Eritrean men’s are disrespectful, first foremost. But getting married out of your community in long run isn’t good for ur kids and for ur wellbeing cos they will face identity crises as we saw in the west world, why Caribbean’s still they not respected in the west world cos they r pulled out from their root so they are disconnected, yes Nigerians they r Africans but we don’t share common value & culture,,, terainii motherey ezena hiza keteeelel 😊 also habesha community we r so big forget our political views east Africa we r big to least go with your habesha people we r same, that’s why the Jewish & Indian community they r strong and Nigerians with their big economy & number they weak, hawena I respect your opinion, to sell ur opinion in KZbin its easy but practically its decisive,,, soon or later our people and nation we will be hand to hand hagerna Selam yeweredelna,,, ab nebseka key wereda u can’t feel it mate so better u encourage for our unity and love. Thanks.
@awetweldrufal337916 күн бұрын
Thank you so much ❤it's not about racisme, it's about the culture 💒+🕌=🇪🇷✌
Akile as us said the point to work as community and preserve our culture and heritage. Because the building block of a community is marriage and if that fails we surely r going to fail..
@hizbawit23 күн бұрын
I absolutely disagree with you. Marrying someone who is not Eritrean does not mean losing your community nor does it mean losing the community. Good, strong, highly educated women often do not want to marry an Eritrean for cultural reasons. These women are often oppressed by the community. Eritrean men often do not want highly educated women and do not know how to communicate with them in a normal, equal way. Highly educated Eritrean women notice this. Why would they want to live in a miserable relationship? This is one reason why highly educated women choose not to marry an Eritrean. Even though they are not married to an Eritrean, they do not lose their culture and bond with the country. They stay close to their culture. In addition, there are newcomers who have come to Western countries in the past ten years. These women often experience domestic violence, unequal treatment, and differences in treatment between men and women. They are told: "You are a woman, stay at home, you are not going to work, you are not going to study." This is a form of oppression that gives these women no space to develop. For their freedom they choose to leave Eritrean men. And if they get the chance, they sometimes marry non-Eritreans. Take a look at your culture, 1,Female circumcision was invented by men to deprive women of their right to sex 2, women are not allowed to study and men are. This was also invented by men so that the woman becomes dependent on a man. 3, women should perform household chores and take care of children. This rule was also invented by a man so that he has more freedom. 4, women are abused by their husbands and the community accepts it and sees it as a habit. Worse still, they are asked to keep their mouths shut and not discuss it within the community 5, women should not move freely without their partner's permission 6, women should not use contraception without their partner's consent. I can go on and on, but which highly educated woman consciously makes this choice???? Unless the women have a disability.
@zewdihabtegergs973423 күн бұрын
Thank you so match Akile haweyyy btaemi 💯 Haqi kkewn zelewo. Gelixkayo blbi nemesgneka qexlelna ❤❤❤❤❤
@miriamhabtemichael239321 күн бұрын
Thank you kem wetru abi seb. Nqhat btami iyu zhaxrena zelo. Hzbna kndi zmerameru, qeltifu ab xerfi, zelefa yiatu koynu😢😢
@rozahermale258125 күн бұрын
በሓቂ ጽቡቅ ገሊጽካዮ ❤❤
@alekkahsay295024 күн бұрын
Ur best Akelilu ma dear so God give u age of matussala!' ሰብ በጸቢብ ኣተሓሳስባ ክቁረን የብሉን ኣብ ምዕቡል ዓለም እናነበርካ ካብ እንስሳዊ ኣተሓሳስባ ወጺኡ ናብ ሰብኣዊ ኣተሓሳስባ ቀይሩ ክነብር ኣገዳሲ ኢዩ ሰላም ንኹሉ ወዲ ኣዳም
🎉👌Yes u r right ✅️ my best brother 👑 💎 ❤️ GBU all your family 🙏🏻keep going ✌️
@aziebnaizghi879724 күн бұрын
Alike well said and I’m glad you brought this topic to the media attention because it was very informative. Thank you I’m your follower ❤❤❤❤❤
@PapiKaka-td5ts11 сағат бұрын
What is ur thought sis?
@user-yo9dx7bf8i24 күн бұрын
ጽቡቅ ኣጋላልጻ ናይ ብሓቂ 🙏🏽
@saadaomer187125 күн бұрын
This situation is just Life isn't fair but good in deed... Our greatest ability as humans is not to change the world, but to change our selves God bless everyone who in the world
@user-nl1hv7ni2l20 күн бұрын
This lady is not the first ERITREAN lady to make a MARRIAGE with our NIGERIAN BROTHERS. RACISTS MUST STOP BLA BLA BLA BLA!!!!. AKLILU, YOUR CONCLUSION ABSOLUTE PERFECT!!!!!.
Well said , u ar the smart one ኣምላኽ ዕድመን ጥዕናን ይሃብኻ 🙏🏽❤️🥰 1. Ane hjiii kab ms eritrawi ms kalee ziega kmraw yhsheni, Respect alewom ab leeli g’al, Fkri yfeltu, xbuk yenaburuka, like Queen treat ygebruka so wedi adka zewardeka, zehsrekan ente koinu nab kalee ziega keyden elom nmntay yhamu, i don’t understand so Girls Msti neakn hagos Zfetrelkn, respect zhbekn kuna ❤❤❤ We lives just ones 🙏🏽❤️ God Bless Eritrea 🇪🇷❤️
Bruk hawey selam akedime. ab kampla entay aynet srah ktserh tkel gal ansteti. bjaka gele beleni❤❤❤❤❤ thank you
@msosman119 күн бұрын
Thanks for discussing an important issue regarding mirage our sisters from different nationalities I really admire your presentation and your way of thinking in different ways in the beginning it is very hard to to see your sister daughter to be foreigner other nationalities but we didn’t take action they have the right to leave with some one who understand their value Thanks Mohamed Suleiman
@hizbawit24 күн бұрын
Dear Aklilu, Thanks for this topic. As a child, I always said that I would marry an Eritrean man, recently growing up in Western countries. As I've gotten older and had different experiences, I've come to new insights about what I look for in a partner. This was something I told myself and my mother, perhaps partly because it was what she wanted to hear. However, as I have traveled more and visited different African countries, I have come to the conclusion that I do not feel fully connected to Eritrean men. It's not just about physical attraction, but also about the ability to communicate and appreciate each other on an equal level. Unfortunately, I have noticed that I do not experience this click with Eritrean men. I feel that there is often a lack of mutual respect and a tendency to oppress women, especially if they are highly educated. On the other hand, in my interactions with men from other African countries, I have experienced that I am appreciated and accepted as I am. I can talk to them for hours without getting bored and I feel a deeper connection. This does not mean that I have negative feelings towards Eritrean men in general, but rather that I have gained more insight into what I need in a partner and what makes me happy.
@zi3zi24 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey and insights. It's clear that you've put a lot of thought into what you want in a partner, but there are several concerning aspects to consider.Firstly, cultural differences can create significant, long-term challenges. These differences can lead to frequent misunderstandings and conflicts over traditions, values, and family expectations. Over time, such conflicts can escalate, potentially straining or even breaking the relationship. Studies have shown that intercultural marriages have a higher divorce rate compared to same-culture marriages. According to a study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, the divorce rate for intercultural marriages is about 20% higher than for those within the same culture.Moreover, your parents, especially your mother, might struggle to accept a partner from a different cultural background. This lack of acceptance could lead to emotional stress, family conflict, and a lack of support. Family disapproval can create an isolating and challenging environment for you, making it harder to maintain a healthy and stable relationship.There’s also the issue of deeply ingrained cultural values and expectations that might not be apparent initially. Sometimes, initial acceptance and understanding can give way to deeper, more problematic issues as the relationship progresses. You might find that your partner's attitudes and behaviors change under the pressure of cultural expectations, leading to unforeseen difficulties. Research indicates that the stress from these cultural clashes can significantly impact relationship satisfaction and longevity.Additionally, consider the societal and community pressures that might come with such a relationship. You might face judgment or criticism from both your community and your partner's community, which can add another layer of stress to your relationship. This societal pressure has been shown to negatively affect the mental health of individuals in intercultural relationships, according to a study in the International Journal of Intercultural Relations.These potential negative aspects are important to consider seriously. The long-term viability of your relationship, your family's support, and the cultural challenges are critical factors that could significantly impact your happiness and well-being. Thank you again for sharing your perspective, and I hope you carefully weigh these considerations as you move forward.
@@zi3zi I have read your post carefully and I appreciate your insights and experiences. It is clear that your position is based on both scientific research and personal observations. I want to emphasize that my path is open to all Africans, not just Eritreans, and my perspective has changed over the past two years. I now see that there is a lot of diversity within the Eritrean community that does not always meet my needs. I wanted to share my thoughts on relationships with you, especially since I've found the topic on my mind lately. I have a number of friends from different backgrounds, two of whom are in relationships. What is striking is that there are significant differences in the dynamics and happiness within these relationships. One of my friends is in a relationship with an Eritrean man, and I see a lot of tension and inequality there. It seems like she is experiencing a lot of stress, and honestly, I don't think it will be long before they break up if the situation doesn't improve. On the other hand, there is my friend who is happy with her Western partner. They really seem to fit together well and are enjoying their life together. They even have two children and seem to find a good balance between individual freedom and shared happiness. These observations have made me think about my own future and the choices I will make. I realize that I need to be conscious of who I allow into my life and what relationships I want to pursue. Although I am open to people from all backgrounds, I find that my path leans more toward those I can better identify with and feel happy with.
@hizbawit24 күн бұрын
@@samitihabte34 darga 80% mesti deletey zekdu aykonun etom 20% ka ayrayun iyom. Selezi kab mestom 80% mekad mes hade Afrikawi sebay zeftweni zeftwo kemzi ane kokone zedli kekebeleni yehayesh
@poonawalaghandhi650224 күн бұрын
You got education in west because of opportunity , but Think Eritrean Man if he got the same like you will give more communication than the other national beside an Eritrean
@militetesfatzion241824 күн бұрын
Bravo 👏 💯
@mixmood55025 күн бұрын
💯 ysmama msaka. Ketsilo 👍 tsbuk tmhrt
@senaitgebremedhin453324 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤
@selamawitemeka998924 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤thankyou
@fanielmehari589119 күн бұрын
Thanks aklilu ❤❤❤
@rahwatesfai559125 күн бұрын
Totally agree 👍 Well said brother 👏👏👏
@trhastekeste651522 күн бұрын
እግዚአብሔር ዕድሜን ጥዕናን ይሃብካ
@ghenettedla37429 күн бұрын
Good on you akilou we have big problem Eritrean people we have big problem we thinking we are better than other Africa 🌍 people if you have little dark skin they don't want accept you you are from Eritrea it's long story how Eritrean people they are treated each other it's sad ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 20:27 😅❤ 20:27