Skinny Girl in Transit S6E4 - After The Blues

Tiwa struggles to come to terms with losing her first pregnancy, and Shalewa looks to Mohammed to clarify issues in their relationship.
Music:
Wilting Rose by Warsheep
Brave by Buki
Dirty Laundry by Apartment VII
Do You Remember Me by Jessica Bongos
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[@misskemo]

When a woman's done there's no shouting, no dramatics we're just done. Shalewa did a great job.

[@onyiiodiri]

True that

[@ebialexander]

True! In the coolest voice “it’s time, we can let go now.” No drama indeed.

[@hildanyarko8735]

Oh sure no shouting ,no dramatics,,,in fact no nothing

[@beautifulirawo1900]

If only men knew that it would save alot of relationships.

[@patriciaoluku08]

@Oyindamola Akinso yep.

[@ogbajedeborah9304]

All you watchers of SGIT, Sign your attendance sheet here👇 We go soon start roll-call

[@mercylynette4250]

Present ✔️

[@chiderahnwabudu9003]

👌

[@MissMensah]

Mo ti de🤘🏾🤘🏾

[@vivianduvwode]

✅

[@NothinButDazzle]

Present mam

[@Thishotsunshine]

I love how they showed us Mide’s pain from the baby loss. We often don’t see that side. We focus more on the woman & forget the men hurt too

[@faithyande6702]

Yeah. It will be nice if they genuinely show it.

[@thelma5571]

Hmmm I wish I saw my partner’s pain

[@chimdinmafrank4612]

@@faithyande6702 I agree. most times they don't show it

[@stephogome5142]

I'm not saying that the man does does not feel the pain that comes from losing a baby but it is different with the woman because she carries the baby in her and sometimes the woman is blamed for the loss of her child people would say that she did not take care of herself when she was pregnant

[@oluwapelumihelen4916]

Hmmmm,true

[@heyyyitsbeni1986]

Shalewa fans let's gather here and cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭by hitting the like button and who's happy that Tiwa is ready to go back to Mide

[@francesakazogie7247]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@chelangatchellah1235]

😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😭😭😭🤯😭😭

[@franciscakyei507]

Benedicta Azakaye me me me me

[@edwardray4919]

😥😥😥

[@Foshoko]

Mide was scientifically created in a lab to be every woman's dream and there is nothing anyone can tell me

[@hannahbamwerinde9629]

yes my dear yes

[@bsperenyi]

Foshoko Hahahaha you are mad! But seriously though are there any men out there like Mide’s character?!!!

[@janenunoo6342]

If he is just that way in real life then abeg the lady with him I jealous her

[@Foshoko]

Jane Nunoo he can’t be. Not that Ayoola is bad oh. It is just that the funding could only make one Mide

[@grstjo]

In the lab of Abimbola's brain

[@chinazomokafor3038]

The script writing, dialogue, the beautiful characters, everything is so real and relatable! These guys deserve multiple awards! KZbin, do you guys do awards for KZbin Series????

[@zoby6556]

yes they having been displaying incredible acting skills

[@efeokorare1916]

I share this view too.. I'm really impressed with it. Very relatable and realistic.

[@cradlehaven8137]

you are wrong. The role of Mohammed is a joke. Every other thing is perfect but that northern man role is a joke. They speak hausa that has no single meaning. Or make silly mistakes when they make a simple sentence in Hausa. In this episode for example, Mohammed is wearing a chain. that is not even possible for the role he is trying to portray. I know they probably forgot or did not even notice. He is probably just wearing his everyday chain and forgot to take it off. his stylist or screen director was supposed to remind him. I mean if you want someone who is not a northerner to act such role, get him a trainer. we say we want to compete with foreign movies or foreign series yet we miss out on little details. If an American needs to act the role of a northerner they will get him a trainer to learn all he needs for 1 year if possible.

[@nanaakua613]

@@cradlehaven8137 come and train him then?

[@eyituoyoemmanuella8608]

Honestly

[@OreoluwaAremo]

I am not going to lie. This is the saddest episode ever, and I can’t even explain it. “show me how to love you” is an important to question to ask your partner today. Damn these hormones...

[@ashleyroberts6249]

Oreoluwa Aremo it really is! One guy I was with asked me from the beginning , “what’s your love language” and that really set the tone for tough situations

[@thisbigblackgirl]

The most emotional, the most interesting

[@bukoladammy5308]

Someone shud plz tell me wat Mohammed did

[@odesolaayobami7325]

@@bukoladammy5308 He had sex with Fareedah

[@miraclejohn5810]

No, the saddest episode was 3

[@Ladyhadassah]

This series is underrated. It should have more views and likes.

[@ikeomumuchinyere7650]

ogba esther very underrated. I felt it so deep

[@hannahbamwerinde9629]

facts

[@isiomaomoseh]

Very true...one of the best out here...real life lessons

[@gloriaosamoye2939]

It doesn't have that much publicity. I Just found out about it last month. Maybe that's why it's underrated The series is the best

[@fatimahconteh3024]

I think it will.

[@badmosajarat4674]

even me too I lost my first pregnant at 6weeks, and the second one 20weeks, am praying for God to give me the one that will stay with me(Amen)

[@gloriaonyinyechi9789]

Amen 🙏

[@Annie-vc1ol]

Amen my dear

[@adwoaa7419]

He will IJN

[@olugotunaderonke6637]

Amen ijn ❤

[@nazfav2757]

I hope you now have your baby Ma?

[@wanemiebele2578]

After watching today episode I feel like de should bring another episode tomorrow.. How many people de with me on dis one

[@Naok725]

Meeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[@chinasaeni30]

Meeeeeeee

[@Chika10279]

Meet oo

[@Siameiam]

wanemi ebele imagine ahhh... waiting for next week is killing me

[@nkoyoekanem9751]

Meeeee

[@AdaobiNnoli]

Why do guys always say its a mistake, if roles were to be reversed you wouldn't want to hear any of such. I love the way Shalewa handled it, shes now so matured

[@rosettefeuze7918]

Imagine "it was a mistake" how did he do to enter in that mistake. If it was with a woman that you just meet yes but no the one everyone knows and who you pretend to not love. Mohammed just go home, leave our Shalewa in peace

[@AdaobiNnoli]

@@rosettefeuze7918 Let her focus on her focus abeg.

[@Misssomebody02]

Mistake is breaking a plate Mistake is burning your cloth when ironing it. Mistake isn't have sex with a girl everyone knows Is suppose to be your wife and then telling the girl you love it's a mistake.

[@kingtyb9340]

The guy is the most matured one to me for being honest

[@baelahot8381]

Adaobi Nnoli next thin we will hear now is dat d girl Is pregnant,,shalewa say on ur own joor

[@chinasaeni30]

I totally love the way Shalewa ended her relationship with Mohammed. This episode is too emotional😭😭😭😭. Finally, to the cast and crew of SGIT, y'all deserve smoking hot akara, bread and a cold bottle of water.

[@danielleese3645]

Akara and bread ke 😂😂😂😂

[@chinasaeni30]

@@danielleese3645 😂😂😂😂😂

[@chidozieibe9734]

You mean coke

[@cutencool3182]

@@chidozieibe9734 or zobo sef 🤣😂🤣😂

[@user-uz2gc8rl6y]

Now I want akara and bread

[@catherineanthony4776]

Love how Shalewa handled her issue. I mean, why fight when it's clear there's nothing to fight for ... "it's time. We can let go now. Go home, Mohammed" A sad move but it was very necessary.

[@elizabellaenobong5328]

Catherine Anthony chaiiiiii.....very apt sis

[@AdaobiNnoli]

Looking back at the Shalewa one will never have expected her to be this mature.

[@catherineanthony4776]

@@AdaobiNnoli Exactly!

[@moroladefawehinmi2181]

Mohammed broke my heart

[@AdaobiNnoli]

@@moroladefawehinmi2181 He broke everybody's heart

[@Belle_K]

I didn’t expect Tiwa’s weight issues to play into her miscarriage. It makes it so real that our insecurities come back up in a different way. It was so heartbreaking to watch her self destruct.

[@nessawithsmiles]

Farida Belo-Osagie excess weight can surely impact the health of a pregnancy

[@keziaho]

I know! It was so sad to watch! I wasn't expecting her to say those things to/about herself! 😢😢😢😢😢

[@ruthchigwida4067]

These kind of communication skills are what we need in this life. "Show me how to luv you" wooow. This is my lifetime favourite series.

[@DiamondAbbie]

That sentence resonated within me so much that I had to pause the series to analyse that sentence and how it would help a lot of confused partners.

[@alomajajulianah8513]

this words make my knees weak

[@didymma]

Yet, how many actually listen when u answer

[@prosperity4581]

This show deserves an award! In fact multiple awards! They’ve discussed real life topics and did it with so much power! Well done!

[@hannahbamwerinde9629]

facts this is an underrated tweet

[@olufisayoo.2213]

Most relatable show!

[@toyosioyejobi309]

Yup, one of the best Nigerian tv shows ever

[@curriesalex9057]

You are right dear 🙏🙏

[@odenehonana5524]

@@hannahbamwerinde9629 tweet ke 😅😅😅😅

[@winiezoe4820]

This episode has many lessons, the pain of shalewa, Mide and Tiwa is what alot of people deal with. Thumbs up Ndani TV and SGIT Crew👍👍

[@patriciaoluku08]

True.

[@Churchgirl_Fiona]

Prior to Mohammed blurting out the truth, Who else first thought the big secret Mohammed was keeping is that he had a secret wedding in kano (with farida)...

[@chinemeremudoh3732]

Yes ooo! I thought the "stupid guy" did something that stupid.

[@chinemeremudoh3732]

Sometimes us guys don't know how good we have it, until it explodes in our faces.

[@pearlsplumvlog1746]

Honestly I thought so too 😂

[@franktimewithNina]

Meeeeeee🙋.....I did too!! Wouldn't have been funny...but either ways this news too isn't funny...

[@amirahogunyemi7193]

I swear that's what I thought too

[@ajibolaalimi]

Couples should have heartfelt conversations when going through trying time....Shalewa is the definition of growth "Go home" is the way abeg

[@emperordiv]

"We can let go now" - Shalewa. I felt that deep in my soul.

[@Justeenaking]

I felt that too.

[@j.u.s.t.g.b.e.m.i]

And she was even holding his hands when she said it.😪

[@preciousagboghoroma1039]

E thouccheeeed me mehn😣😣

[@oluwadamilolaajibade6881]

We can call Salewa's dumping of Mohammed 'Quality Dumping'😄

[@Lifewitlucy]

@oluwadamilola Ajibade it was an exquisite dumping, dumping with finesse😎

[@preciousagboghoroma1039]

With finesse. I love ittttttt

[@ufohogechukwu5992]

Hahahahaha

[@Mzlizzy]

Don't leave me 😁👍...fitnesse at it peak

[@adwoaa7419]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@adesuadoyinsola6428]

The disgust on Shalewa's face when Mo was talking says its all. Oh my Mide, a definition of perfect husband.

[@GracefulKnots]

Yes I captured that in my review and called it the look of finality!!!

[@Palmerkyng]

“ I don’t want to walk on eggshells “ ... the saddest episode yet a lot to learn. Have a relationship that you won’t be afraid of speaking your mind or being judged. Sigh 💔

[@oreoluwaadelowo2779]

Salewa has really grown, I love how she handled that Mohammed Scenario.

[@mz_dyd5738]

Yes oh..infact..

[@JEO301983]

Agreed, but one small slap without breaking a sweat wouldn't have hurt...all else was certainly praiseworthy tho🍹

[@oreoluwaadelowo2779]

Jasmine Dokun 😀😀😀

[@chimdinmafrank4612]

absolutely

[@NollywoodJunkie]

This is arguably THE BEST EPISODE OF SGIT EVER!!!!!!! HANDS DOWN! MY GOSH!!!!!

[@toese]

Ehhh💃💃 see our Adenike here.. waiting for ya reaction o

[@toluwalaseogunleye1360]

Me too! Hope to still see your review o. We'll wait till you're available to make it happen!

[@abbynarh5168]

As in! I tell you.

[@kakahs_insights]

Ndani TV mehn plain pure reality!!!!

[@maameadjoaadjei7258]

Can't wait for your reaction 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

[@Ministerpraiz]

Kaiii the SGIT team deserves an oscar award. This series is relatable 100% of the time to real life happenings

[@ayisatadejobi3279]

My mum in-love who is 67 is stuck on SGIT. Its so bad that she's the first to inform me once a new episode is released

[@Dingusgt1324]

PRAISE IGWE absolutely

[@damilolaodunlade1525]

"show me how to love you" - a love language. Mide, A king, I stan.

[@michaelkolapo5370]

Who would think that these guys would show their mad acting skills on a web series. This episode was an emotional rollercoaster. You could see from the look in Shalewa's eyes, as Mohammed was talking, that she'd had enough. And Tiwa's pain was so real. Great episode really.

[@Thesavedlolade]

Michael Kolapo I saw disgust in her face😂

[@basseycomfort9997]

The look on her face was like 🤨🤨🤨

[@bukoladammy5308]

@@basseycomfort9997 & she said "even if u don't tell me I knw"

[@bukoladammy5308]

She already knw he ws gonna fuck up... She literally begged him to take her along... She even went as far as learning Hausa so she dd fit in... Bt las las men ar... Lip sealed

[@GiftWogu]

"There is no space o, go back to your husband's house." 😂😂I can totally relate with Tiwa's problem. Running away or ignoring the problem does not solve the problem. Communication is important.

[@elohorgordon6694]

GiftWogu lol! Asin! Their mom is the realist! After using a calm voice ,she concluded with there is no space in my house o!

[@GiftWogu]

@@elohorgordon6694 You know this!

[@namhlatasha]

She is truly running away rather than speak and cry with her hubby

[@francesakazogie7247]

Yes ooo, I 2nd dat....🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ifunanyafavourndee-amaugo9362]

She's not running, she needed space

[@olajumokearuwajoye4005]

Wow, this episode is soooo apt! Seeing Tiwa on the operating table being prepped for an evacuation took me back to 2017 and my own miscarriage. Ndani TV did their home work! Thank you for doing your research and telling this story for the countless women like me that are not encouraged by our society to grieve for the child that never got the chance to fully form. The child that left our bodies before the 12 week mark, the child we never got to see on a scan. That child! We grieve for all of you that lost a child at whatever age!!!!

[@leilleebitiyong9746]

Olajumoke Aruwajoye yes!!!! I still celebrate birthdays that never were even though I’ve moved on to have 3 beautiful children the loss of those that weren’t still stings! I felt it for her because that loss is exactly what happened to me. The promise that wasn’t

[@ruthmatthew5719]

Sending you a big virtual hug! You never forget but thank God for the ones who have come after

[@ekehnancy4598]

😭😭😭😭two gone😭

[@preciouschideraalumona5143]

I had one and I wasn't even aware, wasn't even married sef. Bf didn't believe I had a miscarriage and he couldn't be bothered. I went through evacuation myself,I had no one with me. Stayed in the hospital for 6 hours,called a cab to take me home. I couldn't tell anyone,I cried my eyes out.

[@Makan_Ekanem]

@@preciouschideraalumona5143 I'm so sorrrryyyyyyyy... I'm really so sorry... This pains my chest

[@remiseunaladejana]

This episode got my emotions everywhere. Having lost two babies myself , it felt so real. I'm grateful I had a great support system. Man like Mide 🙌🏽🙌🏽.

[@jesusscriptures7601]

Remi Tidemma You is strong! You is amazing! GOD Bless you

[@anthoniaakinwale4773]

God is with you

[@bariatusalehaliu1130]

Remi Tidemma I felt it real also, d pain d emotional trauma , I lost two babies too😭😭😭🙏

[@estarbablo5972]

So strong!

[@chinemeremudoh3732]

My wife & I lost 2 babies also within the space of 3 months. I can't tell you half the pain I exoerienced. My wife? That is a whole other story. We've got 2 kids now, and grateful every day for every moment we have with them. And yeah, we talk about meeting our 2 boys in heaven too...someday.

[@evelynzion]

Today's episode 😭is too emotional, but we move. Happy Independence day to my follow Ghanaians.SGIT family ❤️🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

[@ufuomadrealtor8349]

Very very emotional. I want a Mide

[@naomiihedimbu6844]

Ghanaians leave our chat 😂😂😂

[@ekuaosamkoomson]

@@naomiihedimbu6844 ,🙄🙄🙄

[@evelynzion]

@@naomiihedimbu6844 😒 really

[@akosuaboahemaa9584]

Happy independence day ❤

[@gyenemah1067]

Shalewa’s growth is outstanding she didn’t show weakness. now Mohammed you can take her to Kano hmm continue

[@Ama_Agyeiwaa]

With the way Shalewa handles issues I can boldly say she’s more matured and stronger than Tiwa. Mohammed should stop stressing our girl 👧 for us .. Shalewa we love u 😍 so much

[@icysonie]

Mhaggie A.M.A rightttttttttt 😭 she is such a strong beautiful lady

[@henryclark3049]

❤❤

[@rosettefeuze7918]

I admire her calm and way to handle this matter... Courage Shalewa ❤️

[@ememobongnkana]

More matured and stronger? Don't know about that o! Different situations, different problems. But I like the fact that Shalewa rarely runs to her mother with her problems even under the same roof. Small argument with Mide, Tiwa packed bag to mother's house!

[@caroleecampbell7030]

@@ememobongnkana because they are different, everyone handle situation differently

[@godslove8426]

I was torn into pieces with the cycle of grief Tiwa went through and I couldn’t relate more after going through it thrice. The loss of a child is unparalleled, you have “no memories” to hold on to, only the constant what ifs and it stays with you for the rest of your life even after birthing other children! 💔 In our society where people pop babies left right and center, women shy away from being open about their loss and it’s so easy to feel like a failure, to feel frustrated like God loves us any less than He loves the next person, like no one understands and like you’re all alone as the next woman who has gone through the same experience conceals her truth for the fear of being perceived as less. Its so easy for us to project every feeling of pain, depression, regrets etc on the beautiful creatures God has given to us as Husbands, forgetting that they “lost” too. We expect them to be superhuman and take all the pain away and it’s only “human” that these men struggle to keep up with grieving with us and themselves. A miscarriage can greatly rock even the most beautiful and stable marriage. Please let this be a reminder to anyone who has gone through one, is going through one or knows someone who is going through one to be KIND to themselves and be comforted in the fact their miracle is near!❤️

[@sarahbelo8653]

well said lost 2 myself, it was a very painful feeling and i couldn't help but blame myself.

[@SaintAdlexx]

Thank you for sharing. God bless you.

[@MsOchanya]

Thank you for sharing ♥️♥️.You are amazing.

[@blessingamaechi3564]

It's well sis, God will give you yours.

[@bunmibalogun3968]

Your comment moved me even move than d episode with I cried thru though! Th pain of loss is always strong even if it a fetus

[@RachaelTN]

10:3Honestly after watching this I realized how self acceptance (physical and amongst others) is so important and if you don't deal with it on your own, before marriage, it's more difficult to deal with (together) in your marriage. Tiwa is successful, married to a loving and supportive man, strong praying Christian mother but also not perfect and human. However, look at how much she blamed herself and her body for losing her baby. She forgot what she has, who is there for her, who she believed in, who she is. It's sad and painful because she can't see that it's not her fault. One area of her life that she didn't deal with, affected almost every area she was "perfect" in. She needed to understand that she is human and she is beautiful in her own way just like Mide would always tell(struggle to convince) her. Grieve Tiwa but not at the cost of losing everything else❤️. I forgot this is a series😂🤦

[@odochidgoddessokezie536]

I just love u, Rachel! U just echoed my mind totally!

[@adebolaadeyemi7956]

You took the words out of my mouth....

[@ellaelle4538]

Beautiful comment!

[@MsPrincessaj]

Kudos to you sis! Self esteem issues always show up no matter what the issue is one might deal with in a relationship. If Mide was cheating, she would have blamed herself and her body. If he suddenly became violent, again she would blame herself. If Mide became obsessed with work, and she felt ignored, etc., and the list goes on. We must check ourselves and love up on ourselves at all times, as you alluded to.

[@Niema.A]

When she was yelling at herself I almost cried. You said it all sis. It was so sad.

[@zinakachi2713]

Why do Mide have to be the perfect gentleman in all his movies? I just love this man

[@Restusriches]

zina kachi not in Industreet

[@clariseyuri1864]

Not in Unmarried. Hahaha he has started taking different roles

[@oluwadareelizabethkemi9561]

Not in industreet

[@faye8694]

He was horrible in industreet. I couldn’t believe my eyes at first, hated him so much in that show. Lol I guess he’s just a great actor

[@clariseyuri1864]

@@faye8694 Hahahha now I want to watch industreet

[@abbyadeniyi1425]

I honestly don't know where to start because this episode exemplified various themes:growth, grief and so on. First off, I have never been more repulsed by Mo until now, he displayed every trait of a red flag : Manipulation, playing victim and trying to bite more than he can chew but the star of the episode is how Shalewa handled the situation. Our Sha baby displayed maturity that has evolved over the past seasons. To our TiwaMide, Tiwa we felt and understood your pain, however, after taking time off to process things yourself, the pain must also be shared with Mide. Let me stop here before Mama Tiwa wires me anointing oil.

[@raymondpriscillia8722]

Mohammed is a big Sly

[@AdaobiNnoli]

Wolis anointing oil that does wonders with his 3 pieces of cow skin

[@morenikefreeman2176]

Lol

[@adeyemiyewande9690]

I see no future with Muhammad and Salewa

[@KatherineUseh]

Very well said

[@okekekingsley6412]

The main purpose of Mohammed In her life was just to help her grow and be matured and pass on

[@stardianabasi677]

Shikina.....you meet people for a reason and I'm happy she is mature now

[@mojoyinadegoroye2742]

Exactly

[@eguonoosawota5705]

This tiwa was just like mide when he lost his dad Grief is crazy mannnnnn😭

[@oluwafifunmiadesuyi3639]

Tiwa's scene in the mirror had me crying real tears. The blame women feeling when losing a baby is immense. She captured that moment so well! Well done Tiwalade!

[@youandi9244]

It's so surreal to me. Just lost my baby 5 days ago. Still trying to heal.

[@jessrcks]

Try Over so sorry for your loss

[@olapelumidestiny7332]

@@youandi9244 Oh my!! Sorry for your loss dear. It will get better with time. I lost pregnancy also on Jan 1st 2019, can never forget it but got preggy 3 months later and baby is fine. I pray you get your joy soon

[@isioshodin7266]

God is ur strength dear. Be strong More babies on d way dear

[@oshiberudamilola1190]

Try Over sorry for your lost, God will heal your heart and replace with another

[@nwanmaezeugo4758]

I cried when Mide cried. I remember blaming myself when I lost my bf August 2011. I blamed myself for not being prayerful enough and for not being on talking terms with him prior to his passing. I fell sick and was admitted for days until the reality set in, he wasn't coming back, I don't have the power to turn back the hands of time. I finally felt at peace when he came to me in the dream all smiles and bade me goodbye. Sometimes we need that extra conviction, that rude awakening to enable us accept the reality that we can't change the course of nature rather we can prepare better and live better for the days ahead.

[@HRH_09]

May God comfort u. Stay strong dear. It's never easy

[@giebbieserah4440]

I'm sorry for your loss, i have walked that path, i don't know how you felt, what i know is that: that pain of having something taken from you and to never have it back... i have felt that too.

[@ememudoh1968]

Your story is so familiar. Difference is he was already my ex. Why it got to me more was that I dreamt about it and 6 months later he really died. I was a shadow of myself. I also blamed myself for not praying enough for him or checking on him regularly. He left 2 beautiful children with his baby mama. I have since appreciated life more. I thank God everyday for the GIFT OF LIFE

[@nwanmaezeugo4758]

@@ememudoh1968 it is well with you dearie

[@omarelouisaarueyingho9738]

It is well. I understand that pain of losing someone you love dearly. Mine was my brother. God knows best

[@adebolaarulogun3202]

This episode shows exactly what happens in relationships, families and marriages every day. It's all undiluted and relatable. Thank you so much ndanitv and Abimbola Craig

[@SisiYemmieTV]

So much to unpack in this episode... memories... thank God for strength

[@mercyowususarpong8159]

i just love shalewa's calmness... gosh she's so mature ....

[@MaryKAgoyi]

Like.... she has really grown...

[@hadijatkubrat3580]

I hate she is so hard on herself. Man this so heartbreaking. Show me how to you love you. Now that is beautiful.

[@rosine-audreymbongo9225]

Hadijat Kubrat exactly she is really so hard on herself sometimes I wonder why all the Shell she is using to cover her softness and all. She literally builds a wall so it’s difficult. And that kind of thing is not when you are already married;why she wants to protect herself from wat exactly ???

[@hadijatkubrat3580]

Rosine-audrey Mbongo i guess she protect herself from being hurt in being vulnerable. So many layers. Idk

[@maboduke]

See the way Shalewa broke up with Muhammed, that’s how it’s done ladies.

[@lydiawilliams128]

Ahh abeg leave pehsin!!

[@damilolaadesanya755]

Very apt. Better to flee!

[@deserieoware7055]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💃💯

[@afolayanifedamola8598]

Mabo Duke 🤨

[@FatitiGaila]

Shalewa is a whole vibe

[@cassynworah911]

I will never understand why people call cheating a ‘mistake’. HOW IS IT A MISTAKE ABEG? Mtchew, nonsense and ingredients😒 I love how Shalewa handled the situation though.. no shouting, no crying, no drama, I’m so proud!

[@nnediazolike1244]

Cass ooo...so i found you here...small world baby

[@cassynworah911]

NNEDI AZOLIKE Lmaoo, yes oo... very small world sis!

[@abbynaakushikaankrah6787]

Team Ghana 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 waiting like🥳🥳🥳🥳🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nailaalfayeed7988]

Please you should bring nkosua ne moko 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@clickforseyram2095]

Yaba 🤣🤣🤣

[@abbynaakushikaankrah6787]

@@nailaalfayeed7988 😂

[@abbynaakushikaankrah6787]

@@clickforseyram2095 😂

[@Restusriches]

Independence Day gift my people 🇬🇭

[@damilolataiwo7811]

Mide told Tiwa, "show me how to love you".... That is the best phrase of today for me... What an emotional episode, Ndani TV great job!

[@BigDitty]

I legit cried when Tiwa was crying.😢 Sending love and light to everyone that has ever gone/is going through what Tiwa is going through.🙏🏽💚

[@feliciaandorful3736]

Ah so now that Mohammed has slept with Farida, Shalewa can now go to Kano. The same Kano that she couldn't go before.....ah Mohammed is wicked

[@adeolawilson599]

Felicia Andorful very wicked o!

[@olubunmidaramola]

VERY WICKED

[@afuantimasamoah]

Ikr!! I was so angry with him

[@jacquelinecharles713]

Yeye boyfriend

[@barbaraodiah6535]

..don't mind him... rubbish 🙄🙄😬😬😬in fact I'm vexing now

[@enyioma_desmond]

This episode is so real. Mide was right for telling Tiwa that their relationship should not be one that they would be afraid to speak their mind.

[@dolliepee]

Mohammed before sleeping with faridat: you can’t come with me to Kano Mohammed after sleeping with farida: you can come with me to Kano Mohammed you re not doing well at all

[@IfeoluwaIyaniwura]

Somebody that His head has hit the floor! If he took Shalewa to Kani we would have saved ourselves all this heartache. Besides, why do I think his going to Kano without Shalewa was all part of the plan , Small time now, Farida or whatever she is called will say she is pregnant....

[@kokobee9583]

@@IfeoluwaIyaniwura scopatuumana......the prediction is breaking my heart abeg

[@ericaatebefia595]

dolapo eyisanmi 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@CocoaDivineTV]

@@kokobee9583 I swear lol my heart jumped!

[@dolliepee]

Ifeoluwa Iyaniwura you knowwww! Mr Stupid

[@amandaa7708]

Isn’t it interesting that when Mide’s dad died, Tiwa was criticizing Mide for doing what she’s doing right now? Mourning is hard. I feel like it’s weird to get mad at someone because they’re not doing it ‘the right way’

[@raisinnrumchocolate]

Amanda A not to justify any mourning as more impartant than the other.... Mide’s dad was sick for a bit of time and Mide had a stronger emotional attachment because this was his father, it’s possible that Tiwa did not understand how much pain. But now this time it’s the loss of their child both felt with no expectation of it happening.

[@THEREALSOURCE]

Good point!

[@brokeyoutubers]

U this Amanda . It is your type that your guy will piss off and you will remind him of that thing he did to you on the 30th of December 2008 by 11pm. 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

[@Egiemeoti]

@@brokeyoutubers 😂😂😂 while drinking tea

[@chimdinmafrank4612]

@@brokeyoutubers lol

[@cassandraoforimensah263]

It’s time ⏰, we can let go now. Go home Mohammed . Shalewa your clap back game sooo strong 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@madoassani]

there is no space oooo there is no space my dear. Go back to your husband's house. Thats a good mother!

[@edithnwagwu2423]

That's my mum right there!

[@abigailmarughu3403]

The term "husband's house" is very misogynistic...

[@abigailmarughu3403]

A good mother would comfort you

[@edithnwagwu2423]

@@abigailmarughu3403 She can comfort you, ask you what's wrong still, ask you to go back. That's a typical African mum right there

[@abigailmarughu3403]

@@edithnwagwu2423 but it's not "her husband's house" *THAT'S 👏🏿A 👏🏿VERY 👏🏿STUPID 👏🏿AND👏🏿 MISOGYNISTIC 👏🏿 STATEMENT*

[@dorisgakii6926]

This episode was awesome! The acting is on a new level now. I love how you could see shock, anger, sadness, frustration, tiredness, and maturity all in Shalewa's face without her saying a word!!! N the dumping was sooooo classy. "We shdn't hurt each other further. It's time. We can let go now. Go home Mohamed." Can't wait for next episode....

[@Naakorkorlamptey]

I really love how shalewa’s character has been developed through out the entire show. It’s funny how she used to be so irresponsible and dated people’s husbands only to stay with one guy for all this trouble. Any girl in her situation is right to end the relationship

[@LInya-tm9td]

By far the best episode

[@odugbesanodufopehan1609]

Please, how many people's husband. Isn't it just one person? Easy oo, easy oo

[@nollywoodedits]

I don't like the way Mama Tiwa is limping. She needs to get healed like ASAP

[@kaybizbusinesslifestylecha4112]

Me toooo

[@TGURL97]

True talk. Why isn’t Woli praying?

[@leilleebitiyong9746]

Gabriel G Odigiri where is Woli and the anointing oil?

[@kemahasengba6622]

Gabriel G Odigiri 🤣🤣🤣

[@missfahrenheit2988]

Me too 😒

[@NiellaObijiaku]

This episode is so deep and has a lot of lessons to learn from. How to deal with pain as a couple after the loss of a child, born/unborn. And honestly In relationships, if only we sit down and listen to our inner selves, we would always know when ya time to let go, and when it’s time to hold on. Shalewa handled the situation very well. I’m really proud of her, and how much she has grown from S1 ep1 till now. So much growth and maturity is all I can see. Well done Ndani Tv and the SGIT Crew 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@uhunomawoghiren5913]

This episode is very emotional and relatable. When a couple experience miscarriage, it creates room for anger and throwing blame at each other. It takes the grace of God and time to heal. May God heal the heart of those who are still hurting from the sad experience and thank you @ndaniTV for this teachable episode

[@kemfonekanem643]

Uhunoma Woghiren they Just fu....... acting my real life story when I had a miscarriage. Damn!!!! The worst feeling in the entire world. Felt as if I was drowning

[@TemzyK]

@@kemfonekanem643 sorry dear. Just know it's not your fault. Praying for healing and restoration for you

[@uhunomawoghiren5913]

@@kemfonekanem643 I'm so sorry to hear that, I can only imagine the pain you went thru. Please do not drown urself cos it wasn't your fault. Times like this is when you seek the face of God for strength, peace and clarity. I pray for ur family, that God in his infinite wisdom amplify the love between you and ur spouse and give you a bundle of joy that will make this incident ancient history in Jesus name... Amen

[@lovezionoronsayeofficial]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 for Shalewa, Tiwa and Mide. This episode had me remember when I lost my first pregnancy with twin after marriage, it was a horrible time for hubby and I but after the rain comes our beautiful Princess. My prayer for anyone in this situation is PEACE BE STILL in your heart 💔💔

[@sheelawal7616]

Love Zion Oronsaye 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@olaitanbabalola-aborigho2527]

Nothing prepares you for a miscarriage. After 2 miscarriages within 4 months, I realized that you will need help. You start second guessing yourself. So you need someone to be with you to remind you of God’s love

[@nkechiebere8962]

Why is everybody expecting mide to be strong, didn’t he also loose a child ? I’m confused why is he masking his grief

[@hawtnsweet]

I was thinking the EXACT SAME THING.

[@Foshoko]

I believe this is going to be an issue later on

[@joychinemerem5521]

A woman would grief more than Co's she is the one with the pain and the one pple are likely to laugh at

[@nkechiebere8962]

Joy Chinemerem you are right but I just think mide shouldn’t be told to be strong he is a human being too and should be allowed to grief🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ruthfakorede]

Yeah. It’s sad that men are asked to man up and pretend all is fine

[@Belinda08880]

Mama Tiwa plays her character so well --- such a mother.

[@Gods_blessings-jo]

I love Mama Tiwa here "Which room" After marriage ur room is taken biko😂

[@MitchellXris]

Mide should have worn that hairnet over his beard not on his head. There's nothing on his head.

[@rosemondduodu6401]

Hahahahaaa

[@seyitanbankole4650]

🤣🤣😂

[@AbigailAdetola]

Savage!!!

[@queenambrose7374]

Lmaooo 🤣

[@AbisadeAdedayo]

Was actually tearing up till i saw your comment..... You are mean🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JumokeFagite]

Tiwa's pain while talking to herself in front of the mirror is so real. I'm in tears😭

[@temitope_ilori]

Yes... I felt that!

[@fayyyy___]

Lol abeg what was real? Stop lying

[@JumokeFagite]

@@fayyyy___ haba that's her own way of expressing the pain biko

[@oluwatosinadeyemi1764]

I almost cried😭

[@jessrcks]

She never cried though. Was a bit awkward for me to watch.

[@mide546]

Whenever mide calls her name "tiwa" I melt . He calls her name like an Angel, kilode!!!

[@hawtnsweet]

Mide, man like no other, storybook husband - "show me how to love you" Oshey!!! 🙌🏾 Now every single woman in the comments section will be bawling and disturbing God to reveal their own Mide in 3...2...1....This episode sha. Gave me all the feels. I cried along with Tiwa in that bathroom scene. So much to unpack in just one episode. Shalewa all I can do is 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙋🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Major respect for the woman your character has blossomed into.

[@SisiYemmieTV]

Na real storybook husband

[@ekenemadigwe5087]

Hi Somawina, I see you

[@Leavesandgreens]

SisiYemmieTV love you Mama❤️❤️❤️

[@anonimos1211]

OMG, this made me remember the beginning of my practice, I was working as a medical Officer in gynae emergency. The first few cases I saw were miscarriages. I remember how insensitive I was. It was a couple, barely months into their marriage, I think that was the 3rd month. She started crying during consultation after an ultrasound scan reported a missed miscarriage. In my mind I felt like it's just few weeks. Thank God you're not so far into the pregnancy before it happened. I mean it could have been worse. Then I think later that week, we had a seminar, concerning recurrent miscarriage or so. And then I began to wonder, do you know how long she's been planning this? Probably before she decided her wedding dress, or wedding theme among others. What every woman looks forward to in marriage is usually this fruit. I haven't experienced it, but it's really tough. As tough as it is, not as tough as a couple who has had inability to conceive for several years, only to painstakingly go through financially draining, time, emotion, and energy consuming Assisted reproductive Techniques like IVF, and still end up having miscarriage. Husbands, in-laws, family members, please support your women, concerning any form of hardship regarding this. And fellow medical practitioners, empathy is key. Even if you've seen a million cases just like this one, this is always an index case to the patient. Even though the society and work condition isn't favorable for us, these patients do not deserve to be maltreated. TABLES CAN ALWAYS TURN. EXCELLENT ACTING AS ALWAYS

[@RitaObie]

Empathy comes easier with experience (not as a doctor but as person who has lost a pregnancy)...miscarriage or the death of one's child is the toughest pain you can ever imagine. It so hard to get over. There are no right words to say to someone who lost a baby. Let them take their time and grieve for as long as they want..it's really ok.

[@nkjv12]

Empathy also comes with putting yourself in other people's shoes

[@msowen930]

If I didn't read any other comment, yours was in caplocks in my heart. Thanks for this. If only people knew...hmmmm

[@pdm2861]

nkjv12 thanks.... that’s exactly the actual meaning of empathy. If you feel it because you have been through it, it is no longer empathy. It becomes experience

[@topetope3975]

Well said o...as a Medical Practitioner, I always ,always, feel my patients pain..I think its cuz am too sensitive but it has helped me help my patients and take life easy

[@Marie-eh9mm]

I remember when i was ready to let go of a 3 years cheating, heartbreaks and toxic relationship. I used to fight, shout, cry, yelled and even lost my sense of reasoning because of this same relationship, one day i couldn't take it no more and decided to quietly and peacefully let go. I swear that was the end i never looked back. He was shocked, even i was shocked by my actions that particular day no yelling, no cry, no questioning just a simple pack your things and get out of my house period that was it. Even when he did everyday to get the forgiveness he always get it was too late this time i never looked back.

[@modupeharrisonobafemi4608]

I relate to you sis 16 yrs cheating losing my mind, God grace bought me back. In left the marriage. Never look back.

[@bibifash7956]

When a woman has had enough she will take a honest action that will be beneficial to only her irrespective of anything else.

11yrs of heartbreak, crying, yelling and no going back because i've got my peace now

[@ozichi.]

💙💙

[@sweetartgee1100]

Marie Claudia me too! After 2 whole years of misery, holding on to the few good times as a basis to not let go, when I was finally done I was done indeed. No shouting, no pleading, no begging. I let him go. Didn’t even block his number. I just went to pray to God to keep me strong in my stance to stay away. Of course he came back, begging, promising heaven and earth. But oh I was certainly done. I was ready to face whatever devils would be out there or remain single for life. And it was the best decision I could have ever made.

[@TheOloriLohi]

SGIT prayer warriors squad it is time to pray the devil is trying but he we not succeed

[@mary-fz7ln]

See you. I'm watching and cant wait for Shalewa and Mohammed to scatter 😂😂

[@liliansoteri5865]

I just cant wait for shalewa to move on hahahahahaha

[@mariie2652]

@@mary-fz7ln Abi ooo! Does Mide have a brother somewhere that Shalewa can claim abeg!! She needs all the distractions.

[@TheOloriLohi]

Ah you people have no joy at all🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@catherinesena326]

I tell you

[@jeannelleokereke-iheme3699]

AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING!!!! I just love how the showcased the husband's side of loss. We always hear/see reactions from the wife...Ayo is an amazing actor! Shalewa has grown so much! This show is just so well written and produced ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tochiagbo]

I just loved the realness of this episode. As much as I was rooting for MoSha, I'm glad that Shalewa let it be known that she wasn't taking any bs. Her growth in this series has been amazing! I also loved the candid heart to heart Mide had with Tiwa... I couldn't hold the tears in by the end of the episode. Well done, Ndani 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@bridgetkyeibaffour8778]

Don't know why pple find pleasure in disliking such beautiful n educating series like this...Anyways Happy 63rd Independence Day everyone. awwww Tiwa Shalewa now grown up babe❤ This is what I call maturity

[@chiamakamadu2715]

Thank you

[@giftyntikonadu7760]

Bridget is this you?

[@bridgetkyeibaffour8778]

@@giftyntikonadu7760 yes dear pls who is this?

[@The_Cruise_Fam]

As in Friday suddenly feels like eternity.😐

[@nollywoodedits]

Sadists exists my dear

[@fine9ja]

Love how Shalewa pats him on the shoulder. Classic!

[@olaniketimothy417]

I'm happy that this show addresses issues like this. Miscarriage is not a funny experience at all and it seems to be quite common but people don't talk about it so much. I remember my first miscarriage like it just happened. I was already 5months gone, it was the most devastating period of my life, I could already feel his kicks, we had already connected and I was just looking forward to holding him-I blamed myself for so long, and oh, I cried! Then it happened a second time. I still wonder how I survived those periods but like they say "you don't know how strong you are until being strong is the only option you have". I finally got my rainbow baby this January and he's the most beautiful soul. I still hurt when I think about the losses, there are still triggers here and there. I don't think women completely forget the pain of miscarriage though it may not cut so deep as time passes. I pray everyone who has gone through miscarriages or going through a miscarriage gets the strength they need to heal and also get their heart's desires.

[@mpeasah]

olanike timothy congrats dear

[@francesjeanlouis1650]

Tiwa lost her unborn child, Mide is going through heartache, Shalewa and Mohammed are no longer!....What in the wahala is this?! This season the Skinny Girl in transit embraces real issues and I just can't wait to see how our favorite characters of the show navigate their way through the heartbreaks! The actors gave a stellar performance in throughout the whole episode! This shows is lit!♥️👑🙏😊

[@ursulaakuoko8223]

Frances Jean Louis 👍🏾

[@firststar2]

You forgot Tiwa's mom😆

[@ellaelle4538]

Lit lit litty, toooo lit sista!

[@tewannyong2889]

Happy Independence to my Ghanian Folks!🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 Meanwhile....one part of me is too scared to watch this Episode, oh mehn, how was Tiwa Able to stand up from that seat without anyone noticing. this is sad o, I'm in Severe pain, our Baby's baby is gone😭😭😭

[@Nyamekye-gw2nv]

Tewan Nyong thank you ooo sissy

[@rachelkumisina1765]

Thank you

[@Naok725]

Me too😭😭😭

[@winiezoe4820]

Happy independence celebrations

[@anormekal2358]

Thank you

[@ese4741]

When a woman shouts she’s still in love, when she’s quiet she is done. Tiwa as for you, you get cap you no get head o.

[@adebolasonoiki5957]

This is the best SGIT episode so far. The cast did an amazing job. The issues were complex and they were delivered excellently. Very well done Ndani TV. You guys are really raising the bar for Nigerian shows!!!!!!

[@elizabethewa244]

Lessons learnt from this episode: 1) love is not enough... Shalewa realises that and refuses to settle for less. 2) Love is not enough...to pierce through the shell of pain once closed off. Tiwa shut the world out...even her sweet Mide. 3) love is not enough.... To blind us from the truth...you shouldn't run away from your pain but rather face it. The pain heals faster. Mummy Tiwa knows this and refused to let Tiwa stay. She needed ti talk it through with her hub(Tiwa that is).

[@sellasi25]

Elizabeth Ewa well spoken!!!

[@modestlye833]

Well said!

[@MGITW2G]

Elizabeth Ewa wow great observations love it

[@razzymono1047]

Love is momentary

[@ololadeodutayo8423]

Love is truly not enough..so true

[@oluwapelumihelen4916]

I just love the chemistry between Mide and Tiwa,their role interpretation is just magical,topnotch👌💯💯

[@LorlaHealthyFoods]

This is a typical real life situation. We act strong when we are with people, but secretly we wet our pillows with tears. Mide crying secretly and Tiwa hiding how she feel isn't healthy for relationships and that's what a lot of persons do. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!

[@barbaraodiah6535]

Me. That's just me

[@wolexismedia]

If you've watched "Assistant Madams" here and you are absolutely joyous watching this, come and mark attendance!

[@callistaolebara34]

Wolexis present oo

[@vivianattah6463]

The way I abandoned AM ehn... I lowkey feel bad

[@reginaajayi4132]

Assistant madam ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@NiellaObijiaku]

😂😂😂 I’m only there for the checheche intro song

[@wolexismedia]

@@NiellaObijiaku 🎶Lara you dey che che che, badt girl Chioma you dey che che che, Tamara you dey che che che, assistant madams ooo 🎶🎶🎶 🤣🤣🤣

[@labelledojima]

No one should have to marry anyone who makes them afraid to speak their minds. Love how this episode ended. This marriage is so real to us ooo.

[@manda23gurrl]

I feel like this Shalewa and Mohammed story should have been a different episode cus this is deep. So many angles to it. This episode had so many layers.

[@callistaolebara34]

Amanda O. It's not biko. They should just move on

[@adj5767]

Maybe. If the show was about them.

[@patriciaoluku08]

Now he wants to go to Kano with Shalewa to meet his parents, but before it wasn't the right time.

[@leilastuces4640]

Yess I Agree we need more details

[@taii_chii6782]

callista Olebara honestly both parties were deluding themselves that it was going to work and were stringing each other along. It died a looog time ago it’s just official now

[@twinkledimpleaolatoyinkans5277]

Tiwa: Good evening mummy Tiwa's mum: Where are you going? Tiwa: To my room Egbaami, Which room, Stop there ........Good African Mother

[@GoldCoastGoDess]

JEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZE! SEASON 6 IS A BANGER! Olumide took this entire episode for me! ♥️ Even though his pain concerning the miscarriage is also very valid...he exemplified the true meaning of unconditional love and marital solidarity, in how he pursued Tiwa as she struggled to begin the healing process. That's EXACTLY how a husband should be - not just a lover and a provider - but an actual best friend and an ally. Tiwa is definitely being emotionally challenged as their marriage matures - and it will be interesting to see how addressing her own personal wounds will help her blossom. WELL DONE on this episode, team!

[@stellarbyo]

It's been 2 years since I promised myself to never cry because of any movie again. 😭😭😭😭😭NdaniTV why??????????!!!!

[@oladepoitunu3067]

😂this is serious

[@RadReflectionz]

We lost our cinematic firstborn that's why!... 😪😪😪😪

[@ellaelle4538]

Why would you make yourself suffer sis ? Just cry now, it’ll pass ✊🏾

[@seunvictoria2580]

Be more determined. Lol

[@stellarbyo]

@@seunvictoria2580 😑you are not nice. I tried!!

[@ilupejudoyin3884]

Is it possible for us all to have a man like Mide as a Husband, Father, BFF & Forever soulmate? Oluwa nibo loju e WA?😀😀😀😀. How about we talked about Shalewa's maturity? She is it!!!!! As for Maleeee....... Abiyamo🥰🥰🥰🥰 Above all Ndani Tv well done. But give us joy. 😆😆😆

[@theakajansie8009]

Girllllll i am in love

[@wakeelatbutler5422]

ilupeju doyin yes love Shalewa’s growth! One of the best parts of the show.

[@henriettametieh8990]

Mide o. The emotions you portray, my God, I could feel it to my bones, I see it in your eyes. Great acting bro. I was literally in tears when u begged Tiwa to show you how to love her. ..... shivers are running down my spine. 👌.... i need a mide in my life. Please mide me somebody😂😂😂. Come to think of it, this should be a new slogan ‘ Have you been Mide’d ? 😂😂😂😂

[@vivianokoro722]

Hahaha I want to be Mided ooo

[@amakavlogs9273]

henrietta metieh 😂. no sister, I have not o

[@henriettametieh8990]

Amaka Vlogs 😀😀

[@henriettametieh8990]

Vivian Okoro 😂

[@ezehchioma4023]

Lol

[@vanessagracetv1501]

Why is Tiwa calling herself FAT.. there are fat people out here and they believe they are skinny.. Tiwa don't body shame yourself, you are beautiful just as you are.

[@auntydogo1888]

When in grief, you blame everyone and everything. Old insecurities rise up. It takes a lot before you come back to yourself

[@ememobongnkana]

Depends on what the doctor told her caused her miscarriage. High BMI can cause fertility problems even when you are slightly overweight.

[@KimmyXollins]

Hurt people hurt people. Even yourself at times.

[@Omangozika]

Kimberly Collins Very True

[@unwanabede4420]

She is grieving and everything is rational to her at that moment

[@gerried1218]

This episode is so real. I felt for Tiwa and Mide. I can relate to this. 2 years ago I had a miscarriage, and it was my third child but first ever miscarriage. It hit me so hard such that it felt like it was my first pregnancy. I was home for 1 month, I couldn't do anything,I will sit at home and cry and blame myself for everything. But when my husband is around I wouldn't want him to see my tears because I felt I was weak for showing emotions. And you know how African husbands are, they would not talk or pet you just like that. I finally gathered courage and talked to my husband that I needed some space, to go out of my environment to ease the pain but most importantly, i need a shoulder to lean on. So i booked a flight and we went for a 3 days cool off to Las Vegas. After that I tried to conceive to no avail so I gave up the idea of having more children. Thankfully, Last month I gave birth to my son. These things are so real and they happen every day. We just need lots of support and relax our minds cos anxiety and stress can affect you from getting pregnant.

[@godslawt]

When Tiwa said "It's your fault" I thought she was talking to us. I was like B...? But that scene, is devastating. It's not your fault Tiwa, YOUR BODY IS A GOOD BODY, A CAPABLE BODY!

[@Purplelips789]

Shalewa😥😥 Thinking of the Shalewa in season 1 and the Shalewa now, she's really grown both psychologically and emotionally ❤❤ Olumide🥰🥰 my definition of an imperfectly perfect man❤ I dont know what that means or if it even makes any sense 😄😄 This "baby situation" would definitely bring Mide and Tiwa closer. But mehn, Tiwa is stubborn sha😄

[@favybee5614]

Honestly

[@olyawamba6051]

@Sylvia Favor you cannot say that about/to someone who just lost the first baby she'd ever conceived.

[@sallydakpoe6631]

@@olyawamba6051 The pain and not wanting to talk is understandable . But she leaving her matrimonial home was too much. Running away have never solved issues. Especially in marriage you can't just get up and walk out even tho it feels like you need breathing space

[@traceywilliams8778]

Sylvia Favor grief is a very difficult emotion. It hits people different. Sometimes we have to let people grief in a way that they can handle. All we have to do is ensure that when they want talk we are there to listen. Thank God that they are beginning to break through the barriers but it will still take time.

[@sabinadilaara9633]

@@olyawamba6051 .....Tiawa has always been bad when it comes to communication with Mide

[@aishasolanke]

I really hope there’s a man like Mide irl. God bring him my way😭😭😭😭😭

[@dolapomohammed947]

Shalewa = darling Tiwalade = self-centred Mide = mature Tiwa's mother = iya rere Didi = fun Wosi = funny Mohammed = confusion. A word description 😊

[@rahmonbashirat7599]

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

[@asasa6312]

You are the best

[@preciouschideraalumona5143]

I don't think we can call Tiwa's actions as selfish. Those of us who's had a miscarriage or two will know how Tiwa feels. Asin you tend to blame everything and everyone and lastly yourself.

[@loisalaka4689]

Tiwalade = grieving

[@kyeredavid6634]

You are right 🤣🤣

[@catherineikzon7739]

I did not cry. I did not cry. I did not cry. I did not cry. I am a terrible liar😞😞😞 I cried my eyes and heart out. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 Thank you Mide for being a supportive partner. Tiwa don’t beat yourself up on the insecurities for too long. You’ll pull through. We love you and we’re praying for you.

[@fikunmi8102]

You know its a film jeez

[@catherineikzon7739]

@@fikunmi8102 No. I thought it was real life. Aunty I Too Know. My close friend just had a still birth a week before this; so yes it made me emotional. I am allowed to feel things and its honestly none of your business. Now Get The Fuck Out of My Comment. BYE!