NDE Stories About Planning Our Lives Before We're Born

A compilation of stories about how we plan our human lives before we're born into the human body
00:04 Anastasia Moellering
01:05 Lewis Brown Griggs
03:23 Suzanne Ingram
04:32 Martha St Claire
05:40 Robert Schwartz
10:16 Christian Sundberg
25:33 Nancy Rynes
29:13 Kimberly Clark
31:25 Ingrid Honkala
32:15 Toni Winninger
34:00 Nicole DeVito
34:43 Mary Helen Hensley
35:49 Kelly Sammy
39:45 Dolores Cannon
41:42 Robert Schwartz
47:24 Tom Campbell
58:45 Robert Schwartz
1:06:24 Alan Watts

[@333-u9o]

I'm very grateful for your compilation videos ❤

[@4k99m]

Thanks for this compilation. I appreciate it.

[@333-u9o]

Also thank you so much for adding the names ❤

[@waywardson3498]

Thank you for your channel.

[@Historyiswatching]

I was born in China, from a lower-middle class family. I had a bad upbringing - my childhood in china - dealing with my emotionally neglectful parents and china's cruel education system (they make 8 year olds wake up at 5am and take night classes no joke!) My higher soul was pretty ambitious I say to set me up and endure all 20 years of crap. I immigrated to America right around age 9. Never had a childhood. We were very poor in America. My father was an angry sadist so I always kept my distance from my parents. I raised myself alone and have been alone since 10. Just trying to make sense of it all. I was bullied a bit. Being so poor...a country bumkin fool...with no support system. I just knew I had to get good grades or I would fail my parents and bring shame. Then I went to college even though my parents never made it beyond middle school...(I wonder if their souls chose on purpose very hard lives too.) I was suicidal when I met my husband. I was hoping he would be some psycho and end my life so I didn't have to. I met him online - I was 22. Turns out, he is a super sweet and intelligent and successful man. We got married and became millionaires young (luck with stocks). Now we have a healthy daughter and I love my family + my in-laws. Not to say, we didn't go through crap. We were scammed out of $100k on a real estate contract. But money is just money. I am thankful my husband came to Earth with me and chose me to be his wife. Without his support and love, I was just another suicidal, poor, confused orphan from the wrong side of the track. If life was just a play, damn I'm pretty impressed with this plot line I got. Someday I do want to give back. *If anyone has any ideas on what they see in their community as a need, please let time know.* I'll put it into my list of projects for what I can do to give back. Thank you!

[@jonnyw82]

What an amazing story! God bless you!

[@kateb6893]

I had a similarly rough upbringing with very abusive parents, and also lucked into meeting a wonderful man online and marrying him, but I was older. We both kissed a lot of frogs before we met each other and the only explanation to me is that we have a lot of gratitude for each other because of it.

[@alexinwonderland6239]

That's such a beautiful story! See your life really sounds like a very good storyline. I also had a traumatc childhood and just a very difficult go of it, but I have a strange feeling it's time thing will turn around. I just turned 30 and I keep thinking if I truly planned this, the best story with the most lessons would start out incredibly difficult, but then become beautiful (I would think around 30 years of age). So I'm hoping, and I intuitively feel, that my life will turn around like yours did. Thanks for sharing 🖤

[@alexinwonderland6239]

Have you ever thought of really investing in creating a way to get near death experiences out to more people? That might even pay for itself. There are channels on here that are very successful, and look as though they've been made with AI and zero effort. It'd help so many people to have another professional channel with more resources to go into it!

[@jilltyrrell7525]

Thank You 💓

[@lizzyfitz311]

I must be a spiritual numbskull then..because I've had a very painful life..and none of it by my choice. This is the one thing I have difficulty with. I can't imagine why I would have "chosen" such a painful life. A little joy to balance it out would have been nice.

[@denarisnoctem4562]

I get you and I struggle with this as well. Do you like movies? Consider for a moment what it would REALLY be like to LIVE the life of someone in "Ghostbusters". While we (the watcher, the one before/after the life lived) enjoy the comedy, danger and drama of the movie, the participants are rightfully horrified and uncomfortable in LIVING the story. I can think of this only from a distance, but it seems similar to what people describe in these situations. Edit: a word.

[@jonnyw82]

Imagine you are an elite mountaineer and naturally you want to climb the most difficult peaks in the world to test your metal and challenge yourself. Your excited about it when you are at home planning the trip in your warm house sleeping in your warm bed and you are even excited about it the first day or two when you start the climb. But after day 4-6 of being cold 24/7, exhausted, tired of eating freeze dried meals and pooping in a bag you begin to ask yourself why the hell you are even doing this. You think to yourself you could be watching Netflix curled up on your couch drinking a glass of wine. That’s where you are now. On the side of the most difficult mountain anyone has dared to climb. You’ll be home again soon, and guess what? After you’ve enjoyed all the creature comforts for a few thousand years you will get the urge to climb another mountain more difficult than the last.

[@wishingwell5954]

@@jonnyw82 How do you know this?

[@ayanatetzlaff]

@@jonnyw82 well said

[@jonnyw82]

@@rjchiedog Run this race to the best of your ability knowing you will have 4000 years to rest when it’s over. Your soul fam is watching, make them proud you can do it my friend.

[@kimbratton9620]

Very amazing!

[@colincreath4695]

I wouldn't have chosen this life. I am very unhappy, and I have been for the vast majority of my life. If I die and get the chance to come back, I definitely will choose to be born very wealthy, attractive, with a childhood that isn't full of trauma.

[@Lizzyliz1111]

Wtf when I die I do not want to come back. I am tired of suffering and of life. Even when things are supposed to be good there is still a strong feeling of underlying emptiness and unfulfilment.

[@WeAreAwakeTV]

I FEEL YOU ON THAT!

[@spg77777]

I wonder if the pre-planning might be why some religions prohibit seeking guidance from mediums/psychics etc...

[@DavidGonzález-f2o]

Tom Cambell had a NDE?

[@othernewsid2]

Lol the part of The One that made "my" script, is a darn fool

[@Afura33]

What I don't understand is if someone chose as a child to get raped by his own father and if everybody agreed on this plan and to wanna make this experience, so the best thing to do would be that no one would interfer between the sexual assault, no police and no one that saves the child from his abusing father. If police would save the child, they would actually interrupt the plan that both agreed on. All this just sounds so sick to me, this actually means that we should things like this just happening so that they can carry on with there life plan that they prepared, no police intervening nothing, I just can't believe this is true. So should we let kill people each other now? No justice, no prison? nothing? So that they can carry on with their plan, cause this apprently is what the killer and the killed person agreed to previously. If I would interrupt them as a police officer, I would actually interrupt their plan.

[@motohead1106]

you forget that the police officers and the social services workers and the nurses and the doctors and the therapists and the teachers and the other family members and many others all have a part to play in this grand plan of this child and the father as well. we each have our own life plan we setup before birth, but once we're actually in the muck the plan often doesn't go as planned. the veil and the free will and the physical distractions and the emotional baggage programmed into us at birth and in childhood all come into play. this terrible act you speak of is an act that will inflict profound and sustained suffering in the child that will last their entire life. and by enduring that suffering a deep, deep hole is carved into their soul which can later be filled up with compassion and healing and friendship of the people who help that child build back up. or so is the plan. and in ways the human mind can't comprehend, that building back up grows the souls of everyone involved on the other side. we have to really feel this experience and think it's real to learn from it. you are a fragment of our creator. the creator only had one thing from which to create. and that is what you are made of and that is what you will always be. you're not just you. you're everything. you're everyone. you are a part of god looking at god thinking about god wondering about god experiencing god. having a full understanding of that is not the purpose of this place. you chose to come here to forget. you came because it's hard. you chose to come here because without all the suffering, none of the healing would happen. so much growth happens from the things in life that challenge us the most. this life may seem excessively hard or cruel to us, but from the perspective of an eternal being the whole endeavor equates to less than one night of sleep. and there was never any risk to your soul. and the benefits of coming here are profound - by experiencing duality and exploring what you are not, you can better explore what you truly are. your only directive for all of eternity is to be the highest version of yourself - whatever you perceive that to be. this earth life, this human life, helps you grow faster. you came here because you are growing as a soul. and beyond that, you're participating in something that has profound implications on the other side and which helps grow the source/god/all that is/whatever you want to call it. I have a mental image I like to use to help visually represent why we come here. imagine a great sun in an even greater darkness. what that great light did was take chunks of itself and fling it out into the darkness. and as that little light is flung out into the darkness it maintains its connection to the source and the source grows out to it and this is how us/the source/god/whatever you want to call it spends eternity doing. growing, playing and filling all that is with more creativity and meaning and love.

[@elisabethcrokaerts1980]

This life is an illusion, only the ego thinks it's serious and real.

[@Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus829]

@@elisabethcrokaerts1980 No that's complete B.S. Life is not an illusion. Our actions have real consequences. If what you are saying is actually true, then why do people when they have life reviews, see the domino effect of the consequences to their actions? You are over simplifying things.

[@Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus829]

Because none of that is really even true. God does not will that we abuse one another while we are here. I really question the validity of what some folks are saying about this. I highly disagree with that. There is a demonic influence here on Earth while we are here. A person who abuses their children has been weakened by whatever it was that was handed down to them. To say that we "plan our lives" is total nonsense. We are still at the level of choice. And it is unfortunate that sometimes we learn this lesson a little late in life.

[@herminepursch2470]

​@@elisabethcrokaerts1980I believe we are all created equal

[@colincreath4695]

I met a guy in my early life who was a legitimately evil person. He was manipulative. He hurt people for fun. He lied constantly. He was a weak human being all the way down to his core. Are you telling me he was in heaven before he was born and he said, "you know what? I want to be the worst person to ever live! I want to be extremely hurtful and cruel to everyone around me so I can make myself feel better?" Why would anyone do that?

[@helderalmeida2790]

I don't know what the hell I was thinking when I decided to take this life task because I'm so bored and the laziest person in the world and I know it but I don't want to be bur I've no willpower to change my life plus I've really dark and stupid thought in my mind even God can escape my dark thoughts, I already asked my guides to take those dark thoughts away but they not helping me. I asked to give me more willpower or energy and still my guides are not helping so I came to a conclusion no one from other side doesn't want nothing to do with me so I'm on my own with stupid dark thoughts and no one to help me

[@motohead5916]

At a deeper level you're in control of what happens to you in this life and are drawing your experiences towards you at a soul level. You are receiving lots of help from the other side and you are always connected to that side in many ways. However before you come here you set limits to how much help you will receive so that you can have the type of experience your soul was yearning for as part of its spiritual evolution. Most spiritually searching people are in the same boat as you in one way or another - desperately craving a spiritually illuminating experience that helps dispel the darkness. Here seems to be a summary of your current predicament: Your SOUL is waiting for YOU to fix your life and tackle your inner darkness and make the most of your experience here on Earth whereas YOU living in this experience are waiting for your SOUL to fix your life. Your soul is going to win that fight every time - in other words, if you want to change your life - and clearly you do - the ball is in your court. You have all of eternity to live in the light of your higher being - this may be your one and only opportunity to live in the darkness of an existence like Earth. Make the most of this life - try to bring as much light to it as you can, that's your purpose here. You are connected to all of existence in infinite dimensions and you being here right now doing what you're doing and struggling with what you're struggling with is somehow important to all of creation.

[@wishingwell5954]

So if I commit suicide to get out of this nightmare then that means I planeed the suicide before I was even born.

[@wishingwell5954]

@oriental girl Then what happens if I refuse to reincarnate? I don't want to come back here.

[@wishingwell5954]

@oriental girl So these souls actually regret stopping experienceing decades of misery and torture? How bad is the regret? Do they become depressed and need medication like over here? Do they commit suicide again?

[@motohead1106]

Just because this life is "planned" doesn't mean this life is set in stone. This life is "planned" in the sense that you are aware of different choices you might take and you know how your life might unfold. You interact with millions of other beings who also have free will and new and unexpected paths can happen. We are all one. When reviewing your life before you incarnate you see millions of possibilities, millions of life paths. Suicide will often be understood to be a possibility in viewing the paths that a life might take. And people you incarnate with are also aware of this possibility beforehand. But planning a suicide isn't one of the reasons of coming here - the point in coming here is not possible to express in words for there is more than one reason to become human and the true designs and intentions of our souls are beyond human comprehension - but to some souls part of the adventure of this hard life is seeing how far down the rabbit hole one can get. If you are surrounded by misery and negativity and have a life that people would call a "nightmare" then that is the greatest possible opportunity for a soul to express love and kindness towards others. If your soul, badgered on all sides by evil and malice can bring light to that little dark corner of the world then your soul will grow tremendously on the other side. Incarnating as you in your life might seem outrageous to the human mind that is reading these words, but to the soul that planned this life it was very logical and very necessary to your unfoldment and growth as an eternal being and an aspect of God.

[@wishingwell5954]

@@motohead1106 I don't know how much longer I can hold on. I feel like I am in Hell.

[@Afura33]

@@wishingwell5954 We all have a free will, you do not have to come back if you don't want to.

[@Blue-5]

So wait Whats the point of love / compassion if any act of kindness or cruelty was already planned ? Like NDEs talk about love and stuff , but this whole pre-birth plan thing just makes it all meaningless since it was all planned and part of the experience I wish I could explain this in more detail but youtube and its broken censorship wont allow me

[@motohead1106]

What makes you think all acts are planned? One of the speakers in this video mentioned observing millions of possibilities when planning his human life but focusing on certain key events that were most likely. This isn't completely pre-scripted, just the big plot points. There are surprises, there is some degree of free will, these NDE experiencers and the beings who conduct the life reviews on the other side constantly bring attention to the choices that we make in this life. Personally, I think your assessment of what these people are coming back and saying isn't really correct. As far as your interpretation, the experiences are not meaningless because in order for this experience of separation and suffering to be real and valuable one has to be disconnected from the source and from the higher self. If we did not actually experience and believe the suffering, then we really wouldn't gain the same amount of experience/knowledge/growth from it. Understand that God and the design of all of existence is profoundly beautiful and that includes this physical experience we have on Earth. The only thing lacking in clarity is your understanding or remembering of the purpose of all of this and your reason for coming here and who you truly are. And that's okay, that's the point. You can overcome much or all of the self-created suffering by going deeper down the spiritual path in life.

[@Blue-5]

​​@@motohead1106​ What do u mean by "some degree of free will" or "big plot points" ? What if one of those "big plots points" was being raped and tortured ? How r u even supossed to know if that was planned or not ? "Who you TRULY are" What does that even mean ? Who you are supossed to be spiritualy ? Your "true self" ? Then what the hell is free will if we are made with a specific purpose ? Or have no ability to change your true self . Does this human stuff even matter to the soul ? Probly not , all of ur hobbies and stuff u liked as a human will probly just become meaningless in the afterlife because this isnt "who you really are" So this whole life is basically for nothing

[@motohead1106]

@@Blue-5 some degree of free will = exactly what it sounds like. some things are planned to happen and more likely to happen. however we can always change our mind and our actions. that means there exists both planning and free will. You won't be able to understand it fully from the human experience. who you truly are = you have a human body/mind and you have the eternal awareness (aka higher self, aka soul) that is pretending to be the temporary human for the gaining of experience. you are not just a body. you have an eternal energetic awareness that is your deepest self. look up the phrase, "atman is brahman and brahman is all," that is who you truly are. yes, this experience is invaluable to the soul. it's almost like you don't even listen to the stories, all these experiencers talk about is how valuable this human life is from the perspective of the other side and you seem unwilling to accept that because of your previously accumulated false ideas and thoughts about the nature of reality. your soul will not care much about your human hobbies on the other side. it won't care much about how nicely you decorated your house or what degrees you attained. what your soul will carry with it is the experience learned from the relationships with other beings, the challenges in your life you overcame, the love that you shared with others, and the personal growth that occurs over your lifetime.

[@breezyresortsiaton4401]

I can understand this, but it gives me just one question then. If we plan our lives then why do some go to hell? Who would plan that ending?

[@balecalduin1993]

Eternal damnation is a myth created by the early church when they were hijacked by the Romans for the purpose of political control. No such thing

[@motohead1106]

Hell is a creation of religion. It's not a real place. The idea itself is illogical. For God to create a universe in which hell exists would make God an idiot, and as you get to know God better you will know that is impossible.

[@jonnyw82]

I believe everyone eventually makes it back to God which is what I heard in an NDE

[@elektramagneto2211]

There is light and there is dark. There are negative and there are positive. Yin and Yang. Hell and Heaven. I think, we also need to consider the hellish NDE. Yes, most of the ideas of hell are coming from Abrahamic religions, and even Buddhism also has the concept of hell and the dark world. But that doesn't mean we are so quick to throw away that idea. To get a conclusion, we should gather all the data from everyone's NDE, including the hellish one. And, remember that there is forgiveness and hope. Don't let fear overcontrol our decisions.

[@steveneardley7541]

The few NDEs where people had hellish experiences were yanked out of it when they asked for help from Jesus, Buddha, or a departed relative. That usually ended the darkness right away. Hell is a place that people put themselves, when they judge themselves unworthy of help.

[@jklynb]

There is absolutely no way I planned my life. What a disaster. Lol ! No I didn’t want ANY of my experiences. This is insane.

[@Aldarinn]

Who plans to get raped and then burnt to death? I'm sure there are a whole lot of other factors and not just arbitrary plans. There must be karma.

[@terryleecone9675]

No, it's Not for learning because we already know EVERYTHING in our Soul spiritual realm. It's for Experience because our Spiritual bodies cannot Experience except in physical form.

[@mannykrag3486]

That's what she be saying...

[@Historyiswatching]

One NDEr said when she went Home, the beings that knew her asked 1. What did you *learn*? and 2. Did you have fun? I think there is some learning in there? New data points has to come in from somewhere

[@WeAreAwakeTV]

🎯🎯

[@DMRCapitalHill]

Experience is another aspect of learning

[@CentaurPress]

@@mannykrag3486”that’s what she said”😏

[@Evil_Teddy]

Life: 1/10 would not recommend.

[@JoLoughrey]

So do the animals who find themselves in this household where the human soul has chosen domestic violence for it's lessons also pre-plan this reality for themselves..?? Or are they just unfortunate victims of this game?

[@Theworldcanbebettee]

Can one choose to be animal?

[@DMRCapitalHill]

A lot of bitching and complaining in the comments so many of you still haven’t learned the lesson.

[@maverickbull1909]

If this stuff is true then life is just a ridiculous monopoly game. These stories are just as annoying as religions lame attempts at explaining god and life. Ugh.

[@motohead5916]

NDE's: "There really is a God, and that God is all loving. you are an eternal soul that is a little piece of God and all you've known all your existence is love. you wanted to come here to play a game to experience the opposite of love so that you could better know love. the game is hard, but it is important. and when this life is over you will return home to the love with more wisdom. MaverickBull: "Ugh, sounds stupid"

[@maverickbull1909]

@@motohead5916 and annoying

[@bettahaffe]

Who in the hell would purposely plan to experience life on EARTH. my BS meter goes to high every time one of these videos says this.

[@motohead1106]

That you chose to come here is the only thing that makes logical sense. You think you were sent here to suffer here against your will by some asshole creator? Look how beautiful and vast and elegant the universe is, give the creator a little more credit. The alternatives to you chose to come here are that God is malicious and arbitrarily assigns some people terrible lives and others amazing lives, or there is no God and it's all random. What these NDE experiencers are claiming makes more sense - there is a God and that God created many smaller pieces of Itself from Itself so that God/Love could grow faster. The world of duality (the physical world with light and dark, good evil, etc..) was created to further grow. Within the world of duality where opposites seem to exist, suffering had to exist in order to further grow love by experiencing loves opposite, and also because in an infinite universe infinite experiences had to exist and that had to include suffering. The interesting thing is that from the perspective of the other side you are excited to sign up for a human life, but when we get here most of us just want it to end. Your life is a rare precious gift where our experiences here in this world add to the overall expansion in the universe and from what all the NDE'ers state we play a very important part because we are the tip of the spear of creation. What you do here will add to your character over eternity. Do you want to spend this life continuing to complain about this miracle (life really is a miracle if you learn to observe it correctly) or do you want to get off your ass and fight harder and be more creative and be more kind and all the things you could spend your time doing each day. Your thoughts and actions create your future, small changes lead to big changes. Imagine this thought experiment with me... Imagine we were created in a heavenly realm in a cushion of love and never knew suffering, never knew lack, never had to overcome anything, never knew what it was to stumble, never knew what it was to challenged, never knew what it was to learn something, never had to face fear...so many valuable experiences we would never know but we would speculate about endlessly while sitting in heaven speculating. Then imagine in our brilliance we came up with a way to dream up a co creative, co immersive dream where we could experience these things but only in our sleep so that when we woke up we were never actually hurt and our true self never changed - but we had amazing experiences and now have great stories to tell and are more wise because of it. You need to reframe your whole perspective. I used to think like you too until I started waking up. Pretty much everything I want in life I don't get. But I know that is part of the experience my soul is yearning for and I just have to learn to accept it or work harder at getting what I want. Life is hard, it is meant to be hard and that is the curse and the gift of being human. Once you open up and your attitude changes and your thoughts change, that is when your life will begin to change faster. You are the same miracle piece of God self that all these NDE'ers experienced and claim to be - you are the same miracle piece of God self that all these enlightened spiritual masters (such as Jesus) claim to be and claim you are too - you're just still living in the illusion and haven't woken up or haven't had a reality shattering spiritually transformative experience. Your soul is infinite and eternal, you are playing a long game of hide and seek and when you see it from the bigger picture, which you will if you keep watching these and learn to open up your heart and lean into your intuition you will start to understand and it will start to feel right and you will start to incorporate a better understanding of truth into your life.

[@motohead1106]

@bettahaffe That you chose to come here is the only thing that makes logical sense. You think you were sent here to suffer here against your will by some asshole creator? Look how beautiful and vast and elegant the universe is, give the creator a little more credit. The alternatives to you chose to come here are that God is malicious and arbitrarily assigns some people terrible lives and others amazing lives, or there is no God and it's all random. What these NDE experiencers are claiming makes more sense - there is a God and that God created many smaller pieces of Itself from Itself so that God/Love could grow faster. The world of duality (the physical world with light and dark, good evil, etc..) was created to further grow. Within the world of duality where opposites seem to exist, suffering had to exist in order to further grow love by experiencing loves opposite, and also because in an infinite universe infinite experiences had to exist and that had to include suffering. The interesting thing is that from the perspective of the other side you are excited to sign up for a human life, but when we get here most of us just want it to end. Your life is a rare precious gift where our experiences here in this world add to the overall expansion in the universe and from what all the NDE'ers state we play a very important part because we are the tip of the spear of creation. What you do here will add to your character over eternity. Do you want to spend this life continuing to complain about this miracle (life really is a miracle if you learn to observe it correctly) or do you want to get off your ass and fight harder and be more creative and be more kind and all the things you could spend your time doing each day. Your thoughts and actions create your future, small changes lead to big changes. Imagine this thought experiment with me... Imagine we were created in a heavenly realm in a cushion of love and never knew suffering, never knew lack, never had to overcome anything, never knew what it was to stumble, never knew what it was to challenged, never knew what it was to learn something, never had to face fear...so many valuable experiences we would never know but we would speculate about endlessly while sitting in heaven speculating. Then imagine in our brilliance we came up with a way to dream up a co creative, co immersive dream where we could experience these things but only in our sleep so that when we woke up we were never actually hurt and our true self never changed - but we had amazing experiences and now have great stories to tell and are more wise because of it. You need to reframe your whole perspective. I used to think like you too until I started waking up. Pretty much everything I want in life I don't get. But I know that is part of the experience my soul is yearning for and I just have to learn to accept it or work harder at getting what I want. Life is hard, it is meant to be hard and that is the curse and the gift of being human. Once you open up and your attitude changes and your thoughts change, that is when your life will begin to change faster. You are the same miracle piece of God self that all these NDE'ers experienced and claim to be - you are the same miracle piece of God self that all these enlightened spiritual masters (such as Jesus) claim to be and claim you are too - you're just still living in the illusion and haven't woken up or haven't had a reality shattering spiritually transformative experience. Your soul is infinite and eternal, you are playing a long game of hide and seek and when you see it from the bigger picture, which you will if you keep watching these and learn to open up your heart and lean into your intuition you will start to understand and it will start to feel right and you will start to incorporate a better understanding of truth into your life.

[@CentaurPress]

Alan Watts has a quote about how as an immortal soul you get a chance to experience anything you want and after eons of living “good” lives, the chooses to experience the negative. I am not saying I know anything. I like these subjects and conversations and resonate with your comment.⭐️