Neale Whitaker on fighting fear, finding confidence and what he wants to be remembered for

If the word ‘dashing’ could morph itself into human form-it would come the shape of Neale Whitaker.
When you invite the former editor of Vogue Living and Belle Magazine, into your freshly built house, it comes with a mixture of sheer terror and equal amounts of curiosity for what his opinion might be. When he entered the kitchen I went into a minor meltdown about if we had put the dishwasher and the bin in the correct position in the kitchen! As we all know from Neale's legendary position as judge on The Block-these sorts of things can rob you of some costly points. Once I realised I wasn’t in fact on an episode of reality TV, but having one of the loveliest humans to grace the planet for a tea and a chat, I was put instantly at ease by Neal’s charm and charisma.
His knack for interiors and style is unmatched but his deep level of thinking and firm grip on reality makes for beautiful conversation. We go deep on life matters and Neal reveals his truest heart. We talk about fighting fear, building and loosing confidence, the moment he realised he was gay and what he wants to remembered for. This chat got me good. I was blown away by Neal's wisdom, calm nature and his genuine want to impact others for the better. He even offers some incredible relationship advice! I have been focusing on the subjects of self worth, self confidence and what success means to people in this series of Tea with Jules. Everyone's answers have been very helpful to hear and Neal's thoughts are no exception. I will take what he said and apply them in my own life.
I sincerely hope you love this chat as much as I did - both Neale and I didn’t want it to end - but he had to catch a flight - so I couldn’t let him miss that!
Enjoy the visuals or the podcast below.
It's a tear jerker - you've been warned!
For more on Neale:
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[@justlinsu]

What a beautiful man is Neale Whitaker. Congratulations Jules. I loved this session with Neale, who I have always thought the same as you do, that he is such a gentleman and has certain air or grace about him. The last few minutes of this chat I was tearing up hearing him say he wanted to be remembered as being 'kind' and then your reaction.....I know that this is a key word for you....'Kind' ..... Magic moment

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

justlinsu oh yes! The tears were flowing. Kindness is everything. X

[@richardgoffin-lecar5001]

You ARE a kind and decent chap Neale. You always were. Even back in the days when we both endured Konzentrationlager CHS! Neither of us had a particularly good time, as didn't many others. You seem to be one of the most balanced of us "survivors". Well done - all the very best to both of you, and of course, the dogs!

[@SonjaZA]

One can almost not imagine that you, Jules Sebastian, may feel insecure and having to fight to push through your fear. We find courage in your courage. Thank you for pushing through, for sharing so many beautiful lives and stories with us. We most certainly care about you and about what you have to say. You are a beautiful human being. Be Abundantly Blessed!

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

Sonja_ZA that’s so kind! Thank you very much for saying so. X

[@chrissonhan]

What a great interview and Neale is such a lovely man, thank you xox

[@annmcmahon4000]

I really loved this interview, both you and Neale are wonderful people 😊

[@cathywilliams1698]

You are enough Jewels just love your show!💗❤️

[@lynettewalters7901]

We do most definitely care Jules, you are such a fabulous interviewer.

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

Lynette Walters ha! Thank YOU!

[@Kelli999]

Lovely. Your interviews and your demeanour are so tranquil. So interesting and soothing to watch and listen to. Jules you are such an inspiration. Never change. 🌼 Your choice in guests is to be commended. 🧡

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

Kelli R this is so lovely! Thank you for your very kind words. Glad you are enjoying. X

[@MsSingingcindy]

❤️❤️❤️ so heart warming. Love watching you Jules. ❤️❤️❤️

[@CornwallaceDTP]

Jules, this interview is absolute perfection! You have encapsulated the essence of honesty and warmth within your interviews, which is refreshing. I'm not super familiar with Neale or the design/fashion industry for that matter, but I learned a lot from his experience, knowledge and philosophic views from within this interview. You're killing it and this interview is golden. Thank you 👌🏽

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

Erik Prior oh wonderful! I’m glad you got so much out of it. X

[@guy4ever08]

I never knew much about Neal before this interview. Know him from the TV but didn't know much else. Thank you so much for this. What a lovely man xx

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

guy4ever08 he’s the best! Thank you for tuning in. X

[@danagodfrey2979]

Lovely interview , just believe in yourself u can do anything without fear or see urself walking thru the front door and look back and there was nothing to fear 💖🌻

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

Dana Godfrey so true! Thanks for the words of advice. X

[@mattbiocich7761]

Loved hearing this one! :)

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

matt biocich so glad!

[@joes111]

Beautiful interview Jules ❤️

[@JulesSebastianChannel]

joes111 thanks for watching!

[@faith2392]

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