Our pregnancy story - Infertility struggles

Hi loves,
This is a little bit of a different video. To be honest it was tough to record this, but I really wanted to make a contribution because when I was going through infertility struggles, these kind of videos helped me out. So, here is our fertility journey. It is a lot of information but if my story can help a few women that is good enough. We personally went through a lot of things these past one and a half year including IVF, but in the end we got pregnant naturally. As mentioned in the video this is my story and every story is different. So, one of the big tips I am giving is to find a really good fertility doctor that can help you out in this process, but more about this in the video.
Much love,
Negin

[@saranikolla4322]

That’s why you should never ask a couple “when are going to have a baby” You never know what’s their situation and how much your “simple” question can hurt them. Ps.Happy for you two. Congratulations 🤗🥳

[@fer1892]

I agree with you 100%

[@janinnero8435]

so many still do this unfortunately.. or not even ask, they just assume and comment pregnant in the comment section.

[@saranikolla4322]

@@janinnero8435 yeah unfortunately. 😔

[@idzellblanc]

Absolutely!

[@johannabaumgartner]

Hi Sara, you are so right. But not only because it can hurt. Just simply it is nobody‘s business. Maybe some couples do not want children which is also absolutely ok and their personal decision. On the contrary, we should be thankful for them as well as one of the biggest problems humanity is facing is overpopulation. In 2050 we won‘t have enough food for everybody (and I‘m not talking about unequal distribution). We will not have enough food per se, unless we come up with some solutions in agriculture etc….so all this pressure society is putting especially on women is absolute non-sense and in the future it might even turn around.

[@ramonagiuglea6677]

The fact that you had to explain yourself so much in the beginning of the video because there are people that feel the need to be hateful is heartbreaking. Infertility is an issue that really should be adressed more and you should be so proud for sharing your journey❤️ sending you and your growing family good vibes🥰

[@user-wy5vj6xk5d]

Hey Negin! I am 28 years old and the tests showed an AMH level of 0.07. I was desperate, I found out about this by accident and do not have a partner to have a baby now, but would like to do it in the future. You gave me hope that anything is possible! You and my doctor who said everything would work out! Thank you very much! We really need to know more about our women's health as early as possible! Thank you for sharing your story, it will help many women! Happiness to you! Congratulations!

[@lupsy54]

Hi! How did you find out? I wonder if I can ask my family Dr for that test.

[@johannabaumgartner]

@@lupsy54 Anybody can do an AMH test, it is more expensive than the normal blood test though. But what Negin said is right. Normally, as all her doctors said, an AMH level can not rise again once it is down. I was in the situation - much older than Negin though - and that was what I was told……but after hearing this story from Negin I would always also check the Prolactin as there seems to be a correlation, at least in some rare cases…

[@g.s.632]

You will I promise you !!!! If Negin did, you will too.

[@johannabaumgartner]

@@g.s.632 It is really important to give hope, but you should not promise things you can not influence or do not know enough about. I have been there myself and I have not had a Happy End. So be careful with easily said promises. It is much more important to give hope also beyond the dream of a child….women are valuable whether they are mothers or not. We should not forget that! But one should not give up hope before having really tried everything possible!

[@g.s.632]

@@johannabaumgartner you are right however be respectful when you address someone. I am not responsible for what goes on in people’s lives. It is less harmful when it comes from me as a human being rather than a doctor. A lot of doctors either tear people down or give them false promises « you’ll have a baby one way or the other ». So alright, I only wrote three words which you not only didn’t agree with but also made you angry, it wasn’t my goal. I think you should give your mind to the doctors and not me.

[@sjhappiness11]

I’m so sorry your first fertility doctor caused such heartache for you. There is so much misinformation about AMH. It is NOT a direct measurement of how many eggs you have left, it measures something about how your body is effectively preparing eggs each month (something like that). In any case, your AMH number CAN change. I started with a .2, and then focused on reducing stress and being healthier, and brought my number up to .67 in about 3 months. Also, egg quality matters, not just the number of eggs. Yes AMH goes down overall over time as we get older, but we can still have hope even if the number is low. So happy for you and thank you for sharing your journey ❤️❤️❤️

[@marijanam.]

My Amh was 1,93 - (39 year) and I have a beautiful boy 🙏🏼🥰💪🏼

[@sjhappiness11]

@@marijanam. that’s wonderful!

[@marijanam.]

@@sjhappiness11 thank you 🦋

[@martak.7011]

Exactly!!! There is a lot of misinformation about AMH and even a lot of doctors seem not to fully get it. I had two daughters naturally despite low amh and high fsh. It is possible ❤

[@Beauty_bydeborah]

That’s so interesting! I didn’t know that. Thanks for sharing your knowledge

[@nadso28]

It took my husband and I 10 years and 5 IVF treatments to have our beautiful baby girl! Never thought for a second we would struggle and I’d be diagnosed with a low ovarian reserve. Thankfully we were blessed and so were you.. I pray everybody out there trying gets their dream! X

[@BySamWithLove]

Thank you for sharing. I am so happy for you both. I've just gone through another 2 years of failed IVF. It's the end of the journey for us. I can't continue anymore as we have been trying for almost 4 years and I am now over 40. I've kept it all a secret because of how much pressure people add on my husband and I. That's been the worst part of it all. It's been a very hard, sad and heartbreaking journey. I'm glad there are people like yourself who share their journey. I appreciate how difficult it is for you to do so and I'm very grateful. Congratulations, wishing you continuous joy and smooth pregnancy. Much love xx

[@cccmv8059]

I’m 40 and 36 weeks. Delivering soon!!! Don’t give up. 🙏🏼

[@quiannatorres7820]

True don’t give up ! My sister thought she was in menopause because she lost her period she is 42 years old but it result that she was pregnant after 4 months she learnt that ! And recently had his baby boy at 43 years old healthy and happy! With faith everything is possible.

[@cindysmith4919]

❤️

[@ruzki4967]

Checkout Dr Marc sklar on KZbin

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@thesparkedlife]

What a blessing. You will look at your baby everyday and consider him/her a miracle. I had no trouble getting pregnant but had 4 miscarriages in a row. My son was my 5th pregnancy in 2 1/2 years. He is 9 years old now and not a day goes by that i don’t thank god for the gift of my child. Congratulations!!!!! I am so happy for you both and thanks for sharing. People have no idea how devastating and hard it is to go through situations like this. Lots of love.

[@johannabaumgartner]

More people than you think know it. But we do not talk about it enough. Once someone like Negin speaks up, you see all these reactions and stories - like yours - being told, for everybody to read. It is so important to speak about these experiences and not make people believe that life is picture perfect or easy.

[@ciaraluke1787]

Hi Negin, I’m a doctor in Ireland. I’m so delighted for you both and wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy. This really is such a brave video to post and will help so many couples, well done ❤️

[@dianalastovska8386]

Women with Endometriosis has infertility issues! 1 in 10 women worldwide has it! Please share this with others and stop women’s pain!

[@eg4767]

yep :(

[@staciemurray514]

Wow you’re a warrior and went on such an emotional rollercoaster! So incredibly happy for you and Mauritz💛💛 we struggled to get pregnant for 6 (!!) years and naturally got pregnant and we now have 3 amazing children. Wishing you guys all the best!

[@nivacanedo1043]

I also got pregnant after getting the fallopian tubes checked for blockages. It's as if they were cleaned out. Congratulations Negin!

[@sarahswaid]

Wow, I’m a fertility nurse working in IVF but a follower for so long! I also just recently found out I have a lower than average AMH and the panic was real. Watching this just helped me so much, knowing that I am not alone and definitely there is still so much hope! So proud of your strength and journey ♥️♥️

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@jeniferr.lopezmota5586]

Thank you for knowing the importance of sharing your story. There are women out there thinking they’re not normal because of infertility issues and you being someone with so much influence that many women look up to, it is a relief to know they’re not alone. I am beyond happy for you. You and your fiancé deserve this and so much more. Enjoy the journey. Thanks for sharing 💓💓💓

[@MsRC25]

My husband and I have been trying for almost 3 years. We’re seeing a fertility doctor now and are learning so much! I feel less stressed the more I learn, so it’s helping us. I can sympathize with your journey. I’m so so happy for you guys!! Wishing you guys nothing but the best with your new sweetheart!

[@irener219]

It’s been so hard to deal with infertility with my husband. We’ve been also trying for almost 3 years but He has has a hard time accepting that we need medical help. Until now we’re finally seeing a Dr in Tijuana. I’m so so hopeful that we will be able to conceive soon!

[@PamelaBrown-bd8br]

I was one of those who never believe in miracle until i get pregnant after 12 years of trying to conceive..I have been married for 12 years without a child, many means to get pregnant failed, one day I was online when I saw series of testimony about a great Priest called Priest Ose, Some testify he cure their infertility issues, some testify he gave them business spell that attract customers to their company and some testify he reunited their long broken relationship.. Immediately i contacted him, told him my story, he cast a pregnancy spell for me and conceive after having it with my husband.. i am now a mother of a handsome baby boy.. Many thanks to great Priest Ose.. if you're out there passing through similar issues don't be shy to call or WhatsApp him on: number: [phone] or click on his page: facebook.com/Spiritual-helperspell-caster-100496481599995/

[@amelia.c7300]

@@irener219 Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@cat8lina]

You’re so brave and loved for doing this! Keep inspiring so many young women out there like you do ❤️

[@malinzzz378]

I was 31 and ready to start a family when I found out I had a pituitary microadenoma. After going on the prolactin meds for about 4-5 months, we found out we were preganant. Had a boy. Went back in the prolactin meds a few years later for our second baby. Had a girl. And then we had our 3rd baby without even going on the meds again. Apparently pregnancy hormones sometimes help to kill off the tumor naturally. (And every time you get pregnant, the tumor can shrink due to your pregnancy hormones and then grow again in a different way after pregnancy.) I hope that happens for you too (that the tunor shrinks and totally goes away). Wishing you all the best! You will have beautiful babies 💖

[@yuskacompany8924]

I’m crying 😭 Thank you dear Negin for sharing your journey ❤️ I learned yesterday that due to an extremely rare genetic mutation in my collagen, I would never be able to carry a child or I would not survive birth if I try. This is a deep and intense heartbreak as having a big family was one of my dearest dreams since I was a little girl 💔

[@kimberlybellefontaine1215]

I’m SO very sorry.. 😞😞😞

[@nikkiponcsak]

So sorry to hear this for you ❤

[@user-ug9hc6lt4s]

Ya Allah, please bless Yuska with a child. In sha Allah AMEEN!!!

[@annakryukova8932]

Please stay strong and positive! There are many ways of becoming a parent even if you are not able to give birth yourself 🧡 Sending lots of love your way!

[@Lottieloves287]

I have PCOS. So, I completely understand you. I found out because my body started showing signs of a hormone imbalance. Thanks to God I could afford all the testing. You’re right, we are not taught anything about fertility or hormones. Thankfully I am on medication now and I am doing much better🙏🏼😇💙 I am happy that you finally got pregnant💖 I wish you the best on your journey sis. Thank you for sharing your story😇

[@LaviixD]

What tests did you take? I also have PCOS. :(

[@Lottieloves287]

@@LaviixD Hi there :) the ones I took were similar to the ones Negin mentioned. I took DHEA, testosterone.. and I can’t recall the other 2. But I would highly recommend that you go to a Gynecologist or Endocrinologist for help. Wish you the best sis. 🙏🏼💙 I feel your pain and I send you a huge virtual hug.

[@amelia.c7300]

@@LaviixD Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@MrsBalmaks]

Couldn't hold back the tears at how happy I am for you and Mau after such a journey

[@layla9377]

Sending you so much love and I hope you and your partner will soon have happy exciting news ❤️❤️

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@SarahOUZOU]

Negin, there were moments where you were speaking through your experience with the doctors/hormone results and the MRI among other things where I listened with my hand over my face, because it was scarily close in similarity and felt mirrored to my current experience. Yet, I have learnt many things from this video and it was refreshing to openly discuss fertility, I cried with you and listened to you. Publishing this video was valiant of you, courageous of you and human of you. Congratulations to your little family🤍✨

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@mateap9826]

I started to cry when you were crying at the end cause I really felt everything you said about how you didn't want to upset your family and Mau. And I am so so happy for you two ☺️

[@victoriadelacruz7557]

I'm about 14 months into my own infertility journey and also have high prolactin levels. This has given me so much hope and reminded me that I need to follow up with my doctor about getting the right meds down. Congratulations to you and Mau, so excited for your journeys as parents!

[@zhenyaz8692]

Cabergoline really helps to lower prolactin

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@christinaorso2640]

Months before I got pregnant I took a test and had a light line. My husband and I were so excited. We tested the next three days expecting it to get darker and it never did- it disappeared. It was heartbreaking even though we wanted to actually “try” later that year. I’m so happy that your test was accurate the first time and that it didn’t fail you ❤️

[@DominikaJankowski]

Why am I crying 20 seconds into the video? So happy for you and Mau and thank you for sharing this intimate journey with us ❤

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@Lulubelle_312]

Being women, I feel like with all our hormones, stress impacts us in such an awful way. It does terrible things to our mind and physical body. So happy for you congratulations and God Bless❤️❤️

[@megangottschalk8962]

Thank you for sharing your story and journey! I went through about 2.5 years of infertility myself, and two cycles of IVF. My issue was a balanced translocation (making most of my eggs not chromosomally normal) however I did not know this for the first 1.5 years, so I was like you and googling everything, educating myself, self diagnosing myself with everything (lol) but yeah it was a tough journey with lots of tears and I know the feeling of a failed IVF/not making it to the transfer is so hard. Thankfully when we did transfer, it stuck and our son is now almost 7 months old and such a blessing! Looking back on my journey I appreciate what I went through as weird as that sounds (however its because I got my happy ending - had it of not ended well I would not be this positive). I do think its made me a better mom than what I would of been without fertility struggles because I have that extra gratitude. I also used to watch a lot of youtube videos on people struggling with this and their journeys, so I am sure you sharing this is helping SO many people. I am so excited for you guys and excited to see you both become parents! Baby is lucky to have you both

[@cuddlebunny6299]

Congrats on your pregnancy!!! Thank you for your journey. I had a miscarriage , but life goes on and soon I’ll be a mama when the time is right . I’m so happy for you after facing a hard journey …congrats beautiful Negin x

[@feridez5758]

It will happen! God is good 🙏🙏❤

[@q7jdwomfvkbj74]

God help you. Love to the little soul.

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@awquerida7602]

I watched the other video where you celebrated your birthday with your family and told them about your pregnancy. I could see the joy in your mom's eyes & face as she got up to hug you. I wanted to hug you. So many challenges, hard work and disappointments to get to this place where you are today. I'm a retired labor & delivery & pediatric nurse. This pregnancy is so special. Do everything within your power to stay healthy. Eat well, rest, go for walks, meditate on gratitude, etc. Congrats to the two of you.

[@meeraabdallah8774]

When you launched your instagram page there was barely and people who made a career out of being an influencer, and now you are known as one of the first influencers who pioneered the way for everyone else. With sharing your fertility story you are doing the exact same thing. Pioneering the way for women to share their experiences and help each other by sharing your own very personal and private story. Also, your life looks so picture perfect, and when you share these honest and raw videos you are reminding everyone that your just like everyone else, going through your own struggle and facing your own battles. I know you worked really hard for your platform, but also god couldn’t have chosen a better person to give this platform too. You honestly make the world such a better place. Keep doing what your doing and may you always have never ending blessings. I’m so happy your fertility journey story has a happy ending.

[@mamam9497]

Prolactin IS the thing in my case. It influences fertility, the size of the beasts and mood swings! More over it changes so much everyday, depending on how acitve you are, nervous and so on. I am so happy that you are going to be parents soon! Such a journey!

[@ZeldaZelda-RichesToRags]

I'm an old lady...70 yrs old and I still cry about having infertility....am thinking of making a video about our journey...i'm still heartbroken.

[@vanysaint3212]

As an expat living in the the Netherlands who went through fertility treatment in Italy in the past. with no result and very dehumanizing treat to women who are going through this problems, have to said the fertility clinic here for me was amazing! now finally expecting my first baby with a barely invasive treatments, all doctors, and health workers where super friendly and kind. So I just have good words for this part of health care here (not to mention the whole process was paid for my basic insurance) so happy for u finally having ur first baby after all the stress u suffer :)

[@lenasophie2039]

Oh my god Negin I am so happy for you being pregnant!! ❤️ it is crazy - I had sent you a message 1 1/2 years ago after I was diagnosed with a pituitary adenoma!! Back then I saw so many symptoms in you (when watching your vlogs) I had experienced myself and I thought maybe I could help - I don’t know if you ever saw that message 🙈 turns out you really had also an issue with your pituitary… Wish you only the best for your pregnancy - you are sooo strong!!🥰❤️

[@hostafrancs8527]

Hi Lena. Would it be possible for you to share what those symptoms have been? I think it could be very educational for people to know. Thank you so much ☺️

[@lenasophie2039]

Especially facial water retention (which she talked about very often in her videos), weight gain without eating more, SEVERE headache attacks (but this must not be for everyone), blurry vision due to the location of the pituitary gland in the brain - the tumor can damage the Nervus Opticus. Amenorrhea or irregular periods… but it also depends which kind of adenoma you have - if it releases hormones or not. For example Negins tumor secrets the hormone prolactin. But your tumour can also release hormones like cortisol (then you have cushings disease) or growth hormone (acromegaly). If your tumour does not release any hormones it tends to grow faster and shuts down the function of your pituitary gland - then there is the danger of experiencing addison crisis.. I hope I explained it well 💗 So this is some serious stuff Negin had to go through - it takes a lot of strength to share ! ❣️

[@hostafrancs8527]

@@lenasophie2039 Thank you so much for your openness Lena!

[@alwayessilent4373]

I never wanted, and still don't want to become a mother, but I got really emotional and thrilled 😭 and I'm so happy that it ended happily. I hope nobody goes through disappointing things in their life.

[@elisa_06]

I cried with you, SO HAPPY FOR YOU guys ! Love you ❤️ Can’t wait to see you as parents ! 😀

[@namelessari5310]

words can't express how happy I am for you. I am grateful that our generation has a platform where you can talk about topics that are still taboo for some reason.Thank you thank you thank you 💌

[@aiab3536]

Thank you so much for sharing this video Negin, it’s so supportive and means so much, especially for those women who is going through the same problem , i did my AMH 3 months ago and it was 0.6 and i am only 29 , and 2 days ago i did it again, and it’s 0.9 still trying to get pregnant 🙏🏻

[@fer1892]

wishing you the best!

[@MCJVDV1990]

♥️ sending all my prayers

[@beautybys9142]

Thank you for sharing💟💟💟

[@johannabaumgartner]

Wow, what a story! When you said that your AMH was so low at the beginning I was like, OMG! Having been there myself and also having been told that once the AMH is down, there is nothing one can do to increase it. It would really be interesting if they could tell you what made it go up????? That is really puzzling. I went through the same hell as you….except there was no happy ending for me/us. But then again, I am and back then was much older than you. But I also want to give other women some reassurance and comfort. Even if like myself, you should not be as lucky as Negin and Mauritz and not end up having a child, do not despair! You can still find happiness and lead a happy life. There are so many facets to life, life is fantastic and beautiful. You have to find a way to look at all the other opportunities and good things there are out there. Having been there myself I know how hard it is and it is difficult to believe that there can be a happy and fulfilled life without children…..but there definitely is! Love to all of you out there going through this!

[@katiethriveshine]

AMH does not provide a precise answer about how many viable eggs we have left and the times it “goes up” is when the first or even second test is inaccurate and female hormones are notoriously difficult to test accurately. It’s likely the first result was inaccurate. My sister was in the same position as Negin with PCOS on top of it and I helped her conceive naturally with herbal and nutritional support and after 6+ years of her trying with no luck, after our work she fell pregnant in 3 months and my baby nephew was born 5 months ago. I don’t have children myself, but I’m much older and you’re right, we can have a wonderful, fulfilled life without children and there really are so many healing/natural fertility options for women out there nowadays to help women struggling with fertility xo

[@talael-bakri3531]

Thank u for posting this! My husband and I also struggled for over 4 years and went through 4 failed IVF rounds (2 of which resulted in early miscarriage). Sadly, we are told that our issue is due to low sperm and not much can be done. I'm already 37 and tired of going through this so I've made peace with it, and just like you, know that there are other joys in life and ways to feel fulfilled without children - especially during times like these and what the world is like, I think, maybe it's not so bad ☺️

[@johannabaumgartner]

@@talael-bakri3531 Hi Tala, I‘m so sorry you had to go through all of this! But I’m so with you and you seem to be a strong woman and couple! COVID made it also easier for me to make peace with it and to see all my friends with children who struggled. We are godparents of really nice girls and I‘m focusing on this and it is a great joy. Also, I want to contribute making this world a better place. I‘m just in the beginning of launching my own YT channel and want to focus on presenting lifestyle products of small, unknown, responsible producers. I want to fight over-consumption, the risk for people to go into private dept (spending their money on overpriced luxury items no one really needs) but also help protect our planet from materials such as polyester etc. Where are you from, what are you up to? Would love to hear from you. Maybe we could also do video together, an online interview for women like us, to give them hope? What do you think? I wish you and your husband all the best! Johanna

[@johannabaumgartner]

@@katiethriveshine Hi Katie, you are right. I made several tests though, I also did TCM, acupuncture and what not….but I was definitely to old. Because I conceived and lost it really early and the 2 IVF I went through also ended with chromosomal issues…one has also to know when to stop. And I‘m thankful for my life, my loving husband whom I met late in life (but I‘m happy I waited for the right one to come along and not let me pressure)….and life has so much to offer and I can give a lot of love and other contributions without being a mother…I think that for women it is also very difficult to know if they really want children or if they want unconsciously because of how we were brought up and the pressure of society. Look how many parents especially women complained during COVID about their surely difficult situation with the kids…home schooling etc. I think it is high time we stop judging women by facts like being married (at all, early enough etc.) or if they are mothers or not. Nobody does that with men. And there is nothing wrong with not being married and not being a mother. Everybody has the right to their own life concept. And it is surely better to stay alone, or at least not married, than marrying the wrong partner for the wrong reasons as it would end up in pain. It upsets me so much! I might upload a video on this on my channel even if it is not my core subject, but it is so important! Have a good day! And you can be very proud of yourself that you were able to help your sister. Johanna

[@cccmv8059]

Congratulations!! Just know that you’re not alone with these feelings. Many many including myself struggled with fertility. It’s common it’s just many don’t talk about it. Know that you have support and you’re not alone in this. Much love and blessings for a healthy pregnancy 🤰🏽🙏🏼💕

[@tweetwee23]

Omg, i cant stop crying 😭 i am living the same situation with my fertility since 2018 :( not my turn yet but so so so happy for you ❤️ thank you for sharing your story! for all those who do not live the same situation or do not have fertility issues, please know that they do exist and its so so so hard to deal with. Sending hugs ❤️

[@bellag8423]

Negin, you’ll be a great mother. I am a bit older than you and very grateful for this video because I decided to go through this check just to know what is my condition and whether it’s time for me to make a decision. Thank you a lot, girl ❤️

[@ECris9]

Prolactin is very important for the body and sadly not talked about enough. My mom has hyperprolactinemia and experienced menopause symptoms earlier than expected (your menstruation can completely stop). She was given meds and the prolactin levels dropped. I'm in my twenties and due to anxiety my prolactin levels have shot up in the last 3 years (genetics may come into play here as well). Stress can definitely mess with our bodies in ways we only realize later. Congrats, Negin!

[@g.s.632]

Thank you so much for informing us about your mother’s issue. Hope all of you are healthy

Same happend to me, just normal doctor check up before planning to try for a baby, they found out my prolactin was three time higher then it should be. They sent me to MRI, found a cyst 6 mm and 8 months later here I am on my Dostinex hoping it will drop down and I will stay pregnant.

[@amelia.c7300]

Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰

[@rebecachaves9438]

So so happy for you Negin! Thank you for sharing your story, I'm sure it would help a lot of women who maybe are going through the same situation. Can't wait to see you becoming a mum 🥰

[@juliemaggio1292]

I have been absolutely distraught as we approach my wife's last & final (3rd) FET transfer next week. The thought that I may never be a mother due to my endometriosis and my wife's struggle with IVF is so crippling, it's hard to continue on when you just keep failing treatments. She has prolactinomas, has lost so much hair from the treatments (however we LOVE love love love love love gisou and it has tremendously helped to keep the hair she has looking so healthy). The trauma we have been though for nearly 2 years has been crippling, she miscarried twins, we have both been through so much, so much testing, so many cycles, my wife's had shots daily for over a year. It's too much. My point of saying all of this is that this video was so helpful in getting me over the hump until we try again. I applaud you for your vulnerability and I'm so sorry you had to go through any of this.

[@lgayt003]

Negin, I have been following you for some years already and watch your videos religiously. In one of your videos you said you were going through something and you didn’t feel comfortable sharing about it yet, i was super sad because your voice broke and you appeared very emotional. I somehow thought it was related to fertility and so when I learned you were pregnant, I tear up of happiness. I love you and your little family, you and Mau seem very kind hearted, super loving, kind, and super smart, I am extremely happy for you two and cannot wait to meet your little angel, you look gorgeous pregnant 😍 thank you for opening up and sharing your story with us, there is definitely a lot to learn from your experience. You are so brave Negin 💪🏼

[@yn3481]

Osteopathy does a ton to help with many different matters. Glad that you used this as well

[@valerialebedieva4301]

THANK YOU Negin for sharing your story! You are changing right now the lives of women by encouraging them to get tested as well as their partners and have hope! I cried during the video several times because I could really feel your pain, you are a true WARRIOR ! And I am SO SO SO HAPPY for you and Mau!!! And I wish you have a healthy and beautiful baby!!!

[@royaalmostafa6459]

I'ts like you were decribing my 3 years journey..sooo difficult sooo painful..i got prégnant naturaly after a few IVF..i have a 4months old baby girl..every day i see her i look at her as a magic gift. Congratulations dear..i feel your pain your dessepointment and i feel your joy as well. i've been through this journey..a million congratulations for both of you and for your family..sending you much love.

[@MrsHB2011]

After a long struggle there is a light at end of tunnel Negin. I know it was hard i had similar issues 4 years ago but got pregnanet after i was told i can never be! When someone tells you that you can never be a mum is the hardest however aganist all odds god heard my prayers and got preganet. Congrats. Focus on whats to come 😘

[@zarinameykhori9773]

Oh Negin, I watched it with the tears in my eyes. I’m so so happy for you! Thank you for sharing dear!

[@elettralastra]

Negin I wish you and Maurits an healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby

[@dorsahadi5757]

Every time I saw a pregnancy story of you I’ll go back and see the announcement video which makes me cry every time . There are some of the things in all of our lives which is not easy to move on or fight for or even to talk to someone else bit you’re an absolute example of a brave woman who fights for what she wants and a great role model for many girls. So Happy for you both

[@lorene6812]

Both of us are so happy for you. We’re following you for several years from France. We were waiting for that great news. Thank you for your words. Congrats Negin and Mau! Can’t wait to follow your new adventures…

[@yoanakrusteva3819]

I have the exact same issues with AMH and Prolactin as you did. I am 24 and not yet planing on having children and thank God we caught the issue on time so that we could control AMH via birth control pill until I decide to get pregnant some day. Please all girls and women check your health, find a doctor that takes time to check you and do exams and be aware of such issues. AMH is irreversible yes, but if you know you have a problem with it at an earlier state then you have more options. Thank you Negin for sharing your story. Sending you so much love. Looking forward to seeing you and Mau as parents. Be calm and do not worry, everything will be totally fine and amazing for you! ❤❤❤

[@jihaneng4163]

Such a brave woman 🌷 Proud of you since day one 🧜‍♀️

[@Erinv_]

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad you found that doctor in Belgium. I started crying when you took the test and showed M. Congratulations and god bless you ❤️❤️

[@jolienparmentier2526]

Super mooi verteld Negin en heel erg bedankt om te delen! We hebben zelf ook 1,5 jaar moeten proberen en zijn nu ook plots natuurlijk zwanger. Ik herken me heel hard in jouw verhaal, emoties en traject want onze levens verliepen de laatste 2 jaar heel gelijkaardig. Zo blij voor jullie want jij & Mau gaan fantastische ouders worden! 😘

[@hks191]

I don't plan to have any children rn as I'm early in my journey of career, but this is so insightful and informative. If the moment was to ever come for me, I know I will always think of you Negin. I will think of your bravery and willingness to learn about your health. You are both so deserving of your new life with baby. If anyone does give any bad energy or hate on her feeds, shame on you.

[@kimberlybellefontaine1215]

What a journey! Congratulations to you both!! I’m so very very happy for you! For me, motherhood has been THE best thing in my life. And yes, I definitely believe your story (and others like it) will help other women who are struggling with fertility issues. As you said at the beginning of the video, it’s important that we talk more about this topic and be more open about it. So I’m glad you took the time to put your story out there. I know soooo many women who are currently struggling with fertility and desperately trying to get pregnant. When I think about it, I’m so extra grateful (and surprised) that I didn’t have any such issues myself. I was 37 yrs old when I married, 38 when I had my first baby, and 40 when I had my second. When I think about it, I’m just so fortunate that I had no problems conceiving because I could’ve likely had many problems. I also suffered with endometriosis and recurring ovarian cysts (which ultimately resulted in a necessary hysterectomy in my 40’s, with removal of both ovaries as well). So I often think back with wonder and amazement and thank the Lord that I was able to quickly and easily conceive when I did.

[@Ana_Lev]

Thank you for sharing this with us! What a blessing to have a baby- what joy xxxxx

[@AnnaNooshin]

Zo dapper dit en heel blij voor jullie ❤️ hoop dat dit veel mensen helpt ❤️

[@chanw5797]

We love you Neign, thank you for being so open and sharing ❤

[@roxannar3820]

You're amazingly humble for sharing this. Which you shouldn't feel you have to. Glad you are able to. Doctors are great but there is alt they don't learn and therefore question us for asking the questions. It's shockingly insightful to find a doctor who is open minded who WANTS to put in the work to answer the questions even the ones they do not have answers to. That journey alone is difficult. Thank you again for sharing this.

[@nataliad1853]

Congratulation! I am really so happy for you both. Thank you for sharing your story! I understand exactly how you feel. We have been through something similar. We both could not have children the "normal" way. Had to do 5 treatments over 2 years, but ended up with wonderful twins (boy & girl). They are 18 today ❤

[@melicaabtahi2468]

wish you and all the women who are trying to have babies best of luck💕💕💕

[@tabithaheadington2604]

Thank you sooo much for being so vunerable!!! This is the best news ever! Sending all 3 of you so much love!!!!!!xxxxxxx

[@jauchsandy6528]

So happy for you and Mau 😘🙏🧚🏼‍♀️ For me, i married in 1993 and i was pregnant in 2003. Ten years to welcome my little boy Roméo who just has 18 years old now…it was so so difficult and i was often despaired but for you, like for me, when baby come you forget this difficult moment ❤️

[@NouraAN]

You really did so much work to understand everything and explain all the hard medical terminology, I’m soooo happy for you

[@famke5917]

Wauw wat ontzettend heftig, echt heel knap dat je je verhaal hebt gedeeld! Ik denk dat je een hoop vrouwen hiermee helpt. Ik wens je alle gezondheid en geluk toe ❤️

[@pattylaya]

This is such a beautiful, emotional and raw video. Your goodness shines through, Negin. You both deserve this and more! So happy for you.

[@imbrigita]

Sending this to my friend. I hope she finds it useful. Thank you Negin for being so real, raw and honest. I’m positive this video is going to help many many people. ♥️

[@mathildevert]

Congratulations ! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Went through fertility issues after naturally having a baby without a problem 8 years ago and I definitely relate to the fact that the most difficult part in the journey is to keep going and mobilise positivity and hope over and over again every step of the way. I don’t think it’s a fair warning you get from doctors at the beginning of your experience… that is why vidéos like this one are so important. Even if you get bad news in the beginning, make it a habit to cross check Info, seek second third fourth opinions, research the best professionals in your area etc until you find a professional you feel comfortable with to start the process. Good luck to all the couples out there ✨

[@or8duckk]

Thank you so much for sharing your story, Negin. You are a true beauty inside and out. I’m sorry to hear about your difficult journey, but I know you two are going to be the best parents ever and your little one will be so lucky to have you. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Maria-rc4bl]

I met you in Heathrow in February, just before Covid 😅 you are such a nice couple✨✨✨ glad it all worked out, many blessings to come ✨✨✨

[@Magda-re4fz]

“Here I am… pregnant.” - My eyes immediately full of tears. 😭😭 I am so happy for you Negin… You are so brave. ❤️

[@viridianazamorano]

Thank you for sharing this! This topic is definitely one that should be more talked about! Blessing for you, your hubby & of course your little baby!

[@dob8240]

What an amazing testimony! What a beautiful miracle. Congratulations 🎊!

[@Jess-vp2wy]

I had picked up on it months and months ago that you were struggling with infertility.. and I wrote you a message, saying: 🙏 you will get pregnant. I have been praying for you both to get pregnant all along, you think you went through it all alone but I just want to let you know .. you didn’t. I have prayed many many times for you and Mau and your little angel - from one mum to another 💕🥰 I can’t wait to follow your next chapter, enjoy this beautiful time.. 🤰 find the beauty in all of it, and you can tell her all about it one day 😊😊💕💕👶🏻👼🏼 Thank you for sharing your story. Also after baby, your more fertile.. ( my bff fell pregnant with her second daughter 4 months later, she was breast feeding and never gotten her period back yet) now they just had their 4th daughter .. !! They also struggled to get pregnant 🥰😆 well not anymore.. ( they now have nanny’s to help and yes talking about baby number 5! ) 🤪 I’m sharing this coz anything can happen in life.. please vlog about how your feeling and how your pregnancy is going 😘xx

[@HelloMoto_]

Aw I just want to say how brave you both are to open up about this. We appreciate the honesty and the rawness of it all. I’m glad you are showing everyone how human you are and that not everything is as perfect as it looks. God knew that you two would make great parents and blessed you with a little angel. & from someone who has worked in medical facilities, you are not alone to almost want something to be wrong so there is something that could be done or fixed. You see this a lot in the ED.

[@q7jdwomfvkbj74]

both? its her talking

[@HelloMoto_]

@@q7jdwomfvkbj74 well it takes two to tango.

[@mirihase4684]

I'm so so happy for you! You're so brave to speak about this sensitive topic. I guess it is very inspirational for a lot of women who are struggling with getting pregnant.

[@marieh.2728]

You describes the highs and lows of fertility treatments and the journey so so well

[@isamarques1686]

You made my day literally :) Me and partner are going through the same experience and has been really difficult specially for me to cope with all these bad feelings and move on with my life at the same time… I also feel like that we all suffer in silence and doesn’t help at all as we consider this subject very private and confidential…maybe we feel embarrassed talking about this with other people as well…anyway my prolactin is also higher than normal and thanks to you today I sent an email to my doctor to ask about this…who knows :) I think the hardest part of this journey is to stay positive and believe that is gonna happen but the uncertainty sometimes takes over with the few negative pregnancy tests… I wish all the girls in the world good luck if you are trying to conceive or experiencing the infertility journey! And one day i hope I can be pregnant too ❤️ Thank you so much for sharing this with us and please make another video about that!

[@ay7115]

Very brave to share your story. Fertility is a very private and sensitive subject.

[@rosyapplekitchen635]

This video was very well done. I didn’t expect to watch until the end. I am so happy for you. I had a miscarriage in October and have really struggles with my emotions and mental state since. TTC is a very very stressful overwhelming process I have found. Thank you for the information in this video.

[@osonia6738]

Hello from 🇯🇵. I totally empathize with you. I've been through infertility struggle and did IVF at 20's and it destroyed me mentally. Throughout all the checkups the clinic didn't find any definite reason for my infertility. Now I'm blessed with a healthy baby and I can't thank all the blessings enough. But looking back, I kind of feel like I believed the information on the internet too much, assuming something was "wrong" with my body because I couldn't get pregnant in 1 year which is deemed as "normal" on the internet. I thank the clinic of course for bringing my baby, but I sometimes wonder what if I had trusted my body more.

[@melissagomez4938]

Congrats Negin, thank you sharing your story. ❤️ This information is so valuable and more conversations should be brought up surrounding this even before trying to conceive. I appreciate you a ton!! i’m so happy and I can’t wait to see the rest of your journey unfold.

[@ygujt]

Even though we’ve never met irl, I’ve always considered you a friend , I’m so happy that after everything you went through you’re finally pregnant and soon you’ll be a mommy!! 🥰 i wish you, Mau and your baby a life full of happiness and health !

[@souki66]

I cried listening to you in this video, i’m just so happy for you!!!

[@michielpauw8059]

Lieve Negin, Wat is dit bijzonder dat jij dit verteld en deelt met iedereen die jou volgt, ik moest ook echt een traantje laten toen je moest huilen. Ik leef zo mee al sinds het begin van je carrière. Jij gaat een prachtige moeder worden en Maurits wordt een geweldige vader ❤️

[@stephanielichtenstein4819]

Negin you are so amazing for sharing this story with people like me ❤I was choking up with you in those first moments. I’m probably going to need IVF in a few months and it’s both terrifying yet validating to hear your story. So glad you have your baby now

[@nikkiponcsak]

Cried with you during this video ❤ I'm sorry that you and Mau and your loved ones all had to go through this much pain, but I'm soooo glad you got what you always wanted! Hopefully the worst is over and this will all just be a small moment in the scheme of things 💝

[@eco_alli]

Thank you for posting this journey. I am struggling to get pregnant and your story and your courage is inspiring. Thank you

[@jules.iiiiii]

Oh Negin, I'm in tears over here. Thank you sososo much for sharing, and congratulations, you two!

[@seszti]

I really feel you pain for us was 4 years because I had cervical cancer and endometriosis none of them was operabile so I had a lot of treatments and after 3 years we got to a point when we could start ivf after all that suffering the first ivf was a success and now I have a 1 year old baby and last year we decided to do another ivf and now I’m 22 weeks pregnant with twins, I so happy and blessed because they said my chances are less then 10 %. I know it’s hard but you can’t give up hope.One of my colleagues told me if God or whatever is up there thinks it’s your destiny to be a mother you will be…I really hope that’s true cuz now I will be a mom of 3 under 2 😂

[@NatalieNumie]

This video gives me so much hope. Thank you for being so brave and kind to share your story. I will do the same❤️ let’s pass it on

[@pillyvanilly]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey Negin, and the key takeaways at the end are super helpful 🙏🏽 wishing you and Maurits only the best in this beautiful journey to becoming parents 💗

[@ranaayazx]

You are a strong woman, I don't know if its make any sense for you but I proud of you because of your braveness! 💜

[@afterglowisle]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I'm not trying for kids yet, but definitely want some in the future and this gave me a lot of insight ❤excited for you and Mau and your family, God Bless you all!

[@sofieegmont1713]

Thank you so much. Important in so many ways.... for women, for men, for doctors- for all of us. I wish you and your family all the best.

[@parisa20]

Thank you Negin for sharing with us what you went through, I am so so happy for you and wish you a very healthy journey!