Neglectful Parents Did Nothing About Her Golden Daughter Bullying. Now She Broke My Nose. I'm Sic...

[@zerofate9669]

After hearing this and seeing dad's reaction to everything up to this point and not returning; I 1000% believe he is the father. He denied the cops entry, stormed off and not returning, angry his daughter is in the hospital. All these point to he knew or had an idea, and most likely the father.

[@juliearmfield2634]

Omg that's exactly where my mind went to. I was feeling guilty for thinking like that and maybe thinking I've been on Reddit too much. But the dad's reactions to everything just are really suspicious and I do think he was worried about protecting that secret more than anything.

[@karinefonte516]

@@juliearmfield2634And would make sense, predators aim for victims that are already discredited by family and friends, so whatever they do and the victim denounces passes as a lie or fabrication of the mind. From start to finish, everything this poor girl suffered was his fault, hope he never returns and rots in Hell, if anything for abandoning his family when they needed him the most.

[@nehcrum]

No, his reactions makes sense if you take into consideration their schizophrenic grandma and him being convinced that being in the hospital killed her. And now his daughter, which showed similar traits, was threatened by the same fate. And what happened? They took her to the hospital, medicated her and now she's dead. Was he right not to involve authorities earlier? Not really. But from his side, the hospital killed his grandmother and now they've killed his daughter too.

[@brandinicole1372]

@@nehcrum that’s not true at all. Schizophrenia is dangerous if not treated. Did you also forget she suffered a miscarriage on top of her mental health issues. Also I believe she killed herself (accidentally or otherwise) due to taking a huge amount of otc cold medicine with her regular meds. You can’t avoid getting your child treatment due to outdated treatment his grandmother received.

[@itslikewhy5839]

I know right he probably sees his mother in her

[@Thaddius0]

Grandma was crazy. Dad was crazy/evil. Sister was crazy. OP lucked out. Hopefully brother is sane

[@droid2645]

i thought the exact same thing. poor family

[@kathyhallock2528]

Honey you are not to blame. Your parents did absolutely nothing to help your sister. This is all on them especially your father!

[@nehcrum]

Her father didn't want them to help her, as he saw what that kind of help did to his grandmother. He thinks that is what killed his grandmother. And now his daughter got the same kind of help, and now his daughter is dead too. So yeah, the father probably blames himself, but one can question the reason for why he blames himself. For not getting her help earlier? Or for failing to protect her from the kind of help that killed her.

[@Moleoflands]

​@@nehcrumThe help didn't kill her. Treatment too late killed her. She was too far gone. Untreated schizophrenia leading to an addiction and mental instability, leading to an OD. Dad failed her

[@wickedashley]

That first story is the saddest thing I’ve ever heard. I hope that family finds a way to make peace. I hope OP stops blaming themselves, it’s hard to maintain a relationship with people who are mentally ill. I worked in MH for several years and you cannot blame yourself for removing yourself from a relationship like that. You absolutely cannot.

[@superiorrule34]

Story 1: the real villain here is the dad he basically went everything is fine while his daughter was destroying her life and when she hit rock bottom he left like a coward. Edit 200 bucks the child was the dad’s!

[@HeoBaby24]

seriously like op need to keep an eye on her brother Bec likely chance she probably inherited that from her Grandma

[@brandinicole1372]

I believe the dad hindered the mom from getting help for her which is a form of child abuse. It’s sad the girl is no longer here because she didn’t receive any help and I do believe that girl self deleted 😢

[@emmeehan8680]

​@@brandinicole1372which girl

[@MegaHarvickFan29]

Sadly, that makes the most sense. Sis goes to the hospital, they find out she's pregnant, he has an 'oh shit' moment and skips town. Wasn't exactly a model parent before then anyway. 😟

[@zardox78]

@@MegaHarvickFan29 But it's nice to think about him needlessly spending the rest of his life on the lam while no one's actually pursuing him, at least. They've got no way of pinning anything on him (as she had the miscarriage a while before she died), and nobody's even trying to. They don't even know that there _is_ anything to pin on him. It doesn't seem like anybody even considered the notion until the story made it to (justifiably) jaded Reddit. He's free and clear. But he just knows what he did was so fucking twisted and wrong that the law _must_ be trying to chase him down and make him pay for it. Sadly, we don't live in that world. The reality is that the only person punishing him is himself, and while it's nowhere near a suitably equivalent punishment, at least it's an ironic one.

[@Intrepid_A]

St1 “They won’t call the police because it’s a family issue” They call stalking and assaulting people a “family issue”. Don’t worry OP’s parents when your golden child assaults a non family member and that person ends up seriously hurting or even killing your golden child, they can just call it a “family issue” and not get the police involved.

[@dragb9284]

Uhhh did you get to the end

[@Intrepid_A]

⁠@@dragb9284Uhhh I did and my comment was made well before the ending even came up. Did you even see when comment was made

[@treco2583]

She wasn’t a golden child. They were just neglectful parents.

[@brandinicole1372]

@@treco2583thank you people are forgetting both sister were neglected.

[@rustyjones7908]

​@@Intrepid_A you didn't put a time stamp in your post so no, it's literally impossible for us to determine that, Einstein.

[@BraveryWing26]

The sister in the last story was AWESOME and so were the family members who supported OP after they learned the trurth.

[@Hybrid301]

The reason the sister was acting so good after getting out of the hospital was that she was probably actually receiving proper medicine and care for her issues.

[@Typhony-p7f]

Dad was gone as well

[@benrussell-gough1201]

It's tragic; her plea for her sister to forgive her because she only did what she did because the 'angels' told her to do it broke my heart. Schizophrenia is a hell of a condition and its sufferers endure such torment. She wouldn't be the first sufferer to take their own life and I doubt that she'll be the last. The implication that her father was molesting her can't have made it any easier. Did she tell her doctors, I wonder? Was that why he skipped town because he was afraid that they knew? If it means anything, OP should be aware that, post that last OD, it wasn't her sister at all, just a lot of misfiring synapses. Nothing she said mean anything at all and shouldn't take it to heart.

[@Moleoflands]

Yeah, very sad

[@donnamason938]

Sounds like sister is a psychopath.

[@Lloyd_Jane]

It might be schizophrenia, early on-set schizophrenia is something people can be genetically predisposed to.

[@hamiltonfernandes3526]

pyscopaths are more self collected and calm, she was fucking insane

[@CBMOA]

@@hamiltonfernandes3526 They’re in term emotionless

[@GloriaGinniver-hi8tb]

Most schizophrenic people are not violent, p!ease dont make the stigma worse for them

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

and people refuse to believe in genetics. gramma was schizy.. and it skips a generation from time to time. so, breed with crazy you are rolling a loaded set of dice

[@xhagast]

First Story: I DESPISE how whole families get sacrificed to a golden child, a problem child or a psycho child. Even a sick child.

[@sadiewashington2855]

Sorry 1: you don’t help your mom. Leave. Go to CPS and try to get out of your house. Anything is better than being stuck there.

[@dragb9284]

Yeah pretty sure the dad was the father of the sisters kid

[@BraveryWing26]

I am so glad the creepy parents in the second story got met with NO CONTACT. That's always great.

[@QueenSunstar]

S1. Sounds like the dad was in denial. He thought he could brush the problem away and it would solve itself. Sister is definitely schizophrenic. My dad’s eldest brother has schizophrenia. He likely had it as a child too. Dad said there were moments when his brother got wild and had to be restrained until it passed. His brother got to the point where he could feel the episode coming on and ask to be restrained. He knew the restraints were there to help and not harm him. They kept him safe and those around him safe. This was in the 1960s and mental health wasn’t really understood like it is today. My dad’s eldest brother got on medication and did very well on them. He stuck to the medication. They calmed his racing mind and blocked those very annoying voices. He said the voices, while friendly, annoyed him. They never shut up. It was bliss when the meds began working. Sadly, he lost his life in a plane crash. He was the pilot and it was not his fault in any way. Black box revealed a very desperate battle to prevent the crash. It was due to mechanical failure. He did manage to save two thirds of the passengers. He’s a hero in my book. Anxiety and depression also run in the family. I suffer from both. It’s all under control through medication and I’m doing well too.

[@shin-oni4223]

When your parents say it's growing pains and others meaningless stuff, they're saying they can't afford medical treatments or meds

[@HeoBaby24]

holy shit. top 5 craziest stories op needs to keep an eye on her brother because clearly schizophrenia runs on her dad's side of the family

[@captaingramcrackergrams5990]

Just imagine. Op is actually schizophrenic and doesn't even actually have a sister 💀

[@LaviniaKing-hz9ue]

--- Report sister to the police. Tell mother to go to social services for assistance. Sister was seriously ill and needed a social worker.

[@MattJDave]

Story 3: If it can be destroyed by the truth it deserves to be destroyed by the truth. NTA.

[@Moleoflands]

Poor sister. Untreated schizophrenia is no joke. Dad is a scumbag. Whether she sexually abused her or just abuse by neglect

[@thesheerwoodcrow5465]

Please tell me I’m not the only one who suspects the Father in story one had something to do with the sisters death?

[@jorijoestar4998]

s1- If I had to make a guess, the OD was an accident. It's common for someone who relapses after rehab to accidently take too much since their tolerance is lower.

[@benrussell-gough1201]

There is just so much sadness in Story 1. Yes, younger sister was schizophrenic but I suspect OP's dad almost certainly had some kind of mental illness too and that would explain his sudden vanishing act after the girl was hospitalised. He'd either done something or was /about/ to do something and wanted to keep what was left of his family out of the 'splash zone' of the consequences. My advice to Story 1's OP is to remember your sister in how she was after her release and getting to know your baby brother. That is who she would want you to remember, not the monster her condition made her before or the frantic, dying person who was your last experience with her. Story 2 is creepy and I suspect that OP and her husband will be happier and saner being away from OP's parents until they come to terms with what had happened to their son and was still happening.

[@josephwilliams2406]

OP'S dad is a literal peace of shit basically abandons the family, and to make things worse he probably assaulted OP'S sister. That's probably why he was so scared of her going to the hospital and why she's so messed up mentally. It's sad because most of the time sexual assault victims start feeling in danger around the gender of their aggressor. That's probably why her sister decided to be lesbian and why she chose suicide. It was a way out because she might've been scared that no one would believe her, that her father assaulted her. But this is only a theory, and it's sad either way. Hang in there OP1😔

[@princessmarlena1359]

Those parents are horrible and that sister is a monster. OP should have gone to CPS a long time ago.

[@minigundozer14]

good news is your nose barely has bones so you didn’t actually break one, I’ve broken my nose before and it DEFINITELY hurt less than any other bone

[@Lloyd_Jane]

Story 1: is just sad, hope op’s sister is in a better place.

[@drifter139]

S1: schizophrenia is genetic and it sounds like dad had some type of mental illness himself. he might have also taken advantage of sister over the years which made things worst for her

[@eastfrisian_88]

Schizophrenia can be genetically predisposed. A friend of mine since kindergarten had it, his maternal grandmother, maternal aunt and later his mother. This friend behaved very strangely two years ago, he lived further away, was in an abusive relationship and was thrown out on the street and I tried to help him. He called me drunk several more times and I told him more than once that I didn't like it and gave him as much help as I could where he should seek help and he didn't want it and became abusive towards me and I couldn't take it anymore and broke off contact. All I know is that he is still alive and nothing more. My condolences to OP. The father is the asshole here, he should have helped his child much sooner and when OP's sister (his daughter who desperately needed help!!) was in the hospital running off and making sure she no longer had health insurance, that was basically the cause of death. Dang, that story made me sad and angry :(

[@naptime1900]

Take your face to the cops and report it.

[@marqkc]

Story 1: there's a lot of people who defend the type of fanfiction the sister would write, so this post further reinforced my belief of fiction ≠ reality, but what you like/write/draw/create/etc. about sure says a lot about a person! I had a visceral reaction hearing about all the sister's disgusting actions, dear lord. It's depressing that they never got her the help she needed. Had the dad not been a deadbeat, all of this would've been prevented. He was the was the reason she got to that point. Even worse, there is a chance the sister got "r'd" as a form of "correction"... Poor girl. Hopefully she's at peace now for all the neglect, mistreatment, and abuse she suffered because of incompetence.

[@txquilter608]

Im so sorry for OP 1. Her family is torn to pieces. If her sister was schizophrenic from childhood, she likely heard voices all her life, and in a way, they were her best friends. Since OP said she was on her meds, those voices, her best friends, were taken away, and she couldn't handle it. Her behavior around the pregnancy is scary. At least that's my armchair opinion. I hope OP and her family are able to get the help they desperately need.

[@nehcrum]

All signs point to her abusing those coughing pills even before she overdosed. And it's quite possible that what happened was a result of mixing her meds with those coughing pills and it wasn't about her not handling it and more about her body not being able to handle the cocktail of drugs.

[@shrubman3422]

Story 1 the baby might have been the dad's. Might be one if the reasons why they bailed.

[@RhythmShorts]

2nd story: Jeff needs to stop being such a kiss ass cause with all that "jeff is our only son bullshit" that could get OP and Jeff some weird stares in public and rumors of incest flying around that do NOT do well for a completely non-related hetero couple

[@jamesplayzreviews]

Story 1: She lost a sister and a possible niece/nephew

[@wolflovernumber1]

Story 1: Your sister and paternal grandmother sounded like they had Parinoid Pysctophrania. My maternal aunt has it and a lot of the things you said about your sister and grandmother coinside with what my aunt has experienced.

[@jokerson1316]

Story 1: you are not to blame, your sister was sick, and...a few other words I won't say. Your "parents" failed everyone, you included. Hopefully they won't do the same with your brother

[@grahn3878]

Dad fought getting sister help for some reason

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

L dad..

[@hashakahwantstorepent.4176]

Story 2 . Damn those parents are good people

[@chrisyentastic379]

Am I the only one thinking that you have some shitty friends if they see you fighting someone like OPs sister and they don’t step in to stop or help!? Those are not friends imo

[@GAMER-z8w1i]

It sounds absurd, but i will charge bunch of laws against the dad in the first story

[@hennigadient4265]

Story 1: is heart breaking... For me the dad killed his kid! She needed help and got it too late😭 she wasnt a bad kid just a sick one...

[@ARcinder]

It might be sad to say but people with a genetic heritage of schizophrenia can not be trusted with their iwn welbeing. A parent has an 80% chance of passing it to their children. Wouldnt be surprised if OP had it as well but was more in control. Her father, grandmother, and sister however certainly had it. And I pray it skips OP but she will most likely slip from her sanity as she gets older... And of course the brother will as well. Like I said the father could not be trusted to make decisions. And OP mother was too scared of her own husband to do what was needed for her children safety. Dextromethorphan, the main ingredient in cough medicine induces psycosis. It was her way to escape the horrors of her own reality. It just so sad. I'll say it now, and I dont care who i offend. If you have this mental illness dont reproduce. Even if you dont have it and it is just in your family, dont have children.

[@shadowcollins4589]

Sister needs an exorcism😂 They're lucky that wasn't me. I would have had my parents in prison and my sister in juvie I'm vindictive like that

[@sweeety969]

Story 2: I know for a fact that one's fake cause OP's trying to claim a real fanfiction story as something OP's sister wrote about herself and a classmate. If you're gonna plagiarize something, at least don't pick one of the most well-known (for being fucked up) stories out there.

[@arielshligman2146]

The girl in story one probably has bpd and never got help

[@EveHawk12]

Yikes! Story 2: shared psychosis!

[@BraveryWing26]

I didnt like the sister in the first story but its REALLY SAD things ended JUST when it seemed she was getting better.

[@MassiveChoad-vr5gy]

That old gameplay and buildings looks nostalgic asf

[@favillionbellarion9655]

For people who believe these are reals stories i am a prince that wants to sell you the golden gate bridge for one pound.

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

you. can't. help

[@experiencedotaku171]

WHAT DID THE SISTER SAY?! I WANT TO KNOW

[@natedablack7857]

OP: "I believed her apology and thought we could build an actual relationship." I immediately stopped feeling sorry for her after that. She deserves everything that happens to her from that point forward...SMH

[@brandinicole1372]

Did you see the rest. They actually had some peace before the sister died.

[@lindah3803]

You should cut OP some slack. Keep in mind that OP's mentally screwed up. She was grasping. She wants to BELIEVE that her sister "had a heart". OP is wurling right now. Hopefully therapy will help her to understand that her sister being gone isn't a bad thing. Sisters anger,violence is done. OP can focus on herself. She has survived things that most folks can't begin to understand, imagine,relate to. OP doesn't deserve any slamming,dissing or insults. As for Reddit,hopefully she has received a whole list of resources. A ton of support. Redditors that she can scream into oblivion to. Who just let her. Who don't take any of it personal. Who give her suggestion's for activities that could bring her joy. Keep in mind that due to Everything that OP has suffered and witnessed, she will never be "right".

[@raphaeld4313]

Being an internet stranger 101: See someone along with her sister going through blatant emotional, and indirectly physical abuse, and suddenly turning against her for the crime of having empathy

[@RequiemPoete]

Well you can be an idiot. You have that right.

[@ChrissaTodd]

But the opology was genuine so your comment makes zero sense go away

[@juliearmfield2634]

So the parents are the bad guys because they care about facts and reality and don't want to feed into delusion.

[@humanbeanchikin]

Wdym

[@lindah3803]

Huh?

[@raphaeld4313]

Refering to which story?

[@SaintOtter]

That's about the last story. Yes I agree.

[@SaintOtter]

"Transphobia" is a misused term. Same as "Islamophobia" is misused. We can't deny reality. The Truth can't be ignored.

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

you think the baby is normal??? guess again. genetics!!!

[@cameron765]

Story 3 base parents

[@raphaeld4313]

Parents who harassed their son, his BF and manipulated his sister don't get a pass just because you don't like the BF

[@cameron765]

@@raphaeld4313 Based

[@pioneerxx]

@@raphaeld4313what bf? There’s only a crazy girl

[@raphaeld4313]

@@pioneerxx Decent humans see two manipulators and 3 victims.

[@pioneerxx]

@@raphaeld4313 yes, delulu wife and her enabler op and three victims: sister and parents. Don’t forget the child, he will suffer the most

[@cryovizard9461]

Eh, a dude giving birth is pretty weird. Only women can experience that.

[@avelazquez6502]

@cryovizard9461 well, yes that is oppositely true. But a female to male can get pregnant if a transgender man doesn’t get the bottom surgery. Fyi

[@MrOrcshaman]

Men can't, they don't have wombs or a vagina. A trans person might be able to, if you say 'this person is trans' then that's fine, but you can't change sex

[@shortangel333]

Actually some intersex people can experience givign birth (born with XXY, XXX, XYY Chromosomes). I think forcing this idea that only women can give birth really does just send the message that women have one use in life when that's not the case and trans/nonbinary/intersex people do exist. At the end of the day, as long as they are happy, healthy and don't neglect their child then its really not an issue.

[@avelazquez6502]

@@shortangel333 exactly 💯. Well said man.

[@MrOrcshaman]

@@shortangel333 intersex is a tiny percentage, whatever woke media might say. And stating biological facts that make them uncomfortable isn't 'sending a message', its stating how nature works, and how others want to subvert that for their own feelings not being hurt.

[@dessic6191]

The last story is just so dumb and useless....

[@Karen_thatbish]

OP’s parents suck and the sister is SMI. Even though they weren’t the ones that broke your nose they might as well have. Knowing your kid is not right and a danger to themselves and others but not seeking help for her mental afflictions is the same thing as pointing a loaded gun at someone’s head. If at all possible see if you can live with another family member. Your parents attitude towards your sister is dangerous to everyone involved. & they don’t have your best interests in mind. I hope you get away from them unharmed. Your sister is for sure eventually going to delete someone or herself if she continues the way she is. What happened to her is fully your parents fault & I hope the guilt crushes them but I doubt they are self aware enough for that.

[@Brasileirale]

Didn’t the sister die already the day before Halloween? How is she gonna delete herself or someone else when she’s dead? 😑

[@happyy33]

Yo brotha just seen you used my gameplay for the vid, appreciate it and thank you for the @ in the description, if I upload another please shoot us a msg before dont mind it being used just weird to randomly stumble across it hahaha :D