Real fam, do you have a friend who always skips paying when you go out?
Пікірлер: 373
@shanice68725 жыл бұрын
I live for separate checks! Unless I'm treating you or someone is treating me. If we all decided we wanna hang out then every body paying for what they get. Collectively we'll tip out waitress.
@vatricegeorge52775 жыл бұрын
I do not go out with folks i need to get a seperate check...
@JayneAngelinaSkye5 жыл бұрын
Periodtttt
@tracyndlovu97175 жыл бұрын
When my friends amd i go out, we choose a place suitable for everyone's pocket. The money discussion is done way before the date even happens to avoid that kind of drama. If one of is doesn't have money but we still want her to come, she just has to make sure she's got enough for her ride home and the rest pick up her bill. It's a group of 3 friends. Small group of friends is easier to handle anyway
@BlackcrescentAngel175 жыл бұрын
I got friends that get separate checks, or split it evenly if we ordered bunch and shared with everyone. But I don't hang around stingy people. If we do split the check, we do it by what we ordered, then split the tip equal. If you don't have money to spend, don't go out.
@stephaniecaskinette45775 жыл бұрын
Unless I specify if I’m paying for my friend, separate checks please!
@Minzies25 жыл бұрын
All of a sudden I want lobster , crab cakes & drinks thanks to Nene 😂🤣
@MegaDede12125 жыл бұрын
Fr I'm like lemme stop and get some crab otw home lol
@nikkistahr71055 жыл бұрын
Facts on Facts its 6am here and im literally planning on a exotic seafood lunch w drinks...🙄
@girlnextdoor28365 жыл бұрын
Lmao 🤣 That l rarely order when alone coz it’s pricey 🤣🗣🤣
@sarax86445 жыл бұрын
Nene’s friends are rich themselves how cheeky for them to be waiting for her to pay 😂😅😅
@mgeijho5 жыл бұрын
Maybe its not the RHOA girls.because she said they in diff financial brackets and they should atleast get her valet ticket.so possibly its her other friends offscreen.
@woodswal5 жыл бұрын
Nene has normal everyday friends as well as rich friends.
@luwamalem95375 жыл бұрын
Exactly What I'm thinking!!😩😂
@Persephonie225 жыл бұрын
That's just cold of her friends to do. She should've been straight out with her friends in the outings. That she picked up their tabs in the last outing now it's their turn. Heck I'm leaving my wallet at home tonight.
@coppercoloredcutiexoxo23155 жыл бұрын
She might be talking about her off camera friends who don't have it like that but order expensively just because of who they're out with and her kindness .
@girlsgeneration91305 жыл бұрын
their drinks always look so good
@ScottD_5 жыл бұрын
That is just plain rude , I always make it clear when I’m going out with my friends (I usually only go out to eat with one friend at a time anyway) but I always make it clear if we’re splitting it , if I’m paying for it , or if they’re paying for it (if I got it last time which you better believe I’d remind you) but to expect someone to pay for everyone’s meal is just so rude and if you were raised that way you were raised wrong
@tinaloveseddie5 жыл бұрын
Scott D I do the same. But, always treat on birthdays or special occasions.🥳
@WantaFanta15 жыл бұрын
In high school we would always meet at a restuarant for our birthdays and it was understood that everyone would pick up their own check?
@mikhaellockhart49255 жыл бұрын
Nadi Nad I’m in high school and we usually split the bill whenever we go out, but if it’s a birthday we pay for that friend’s meal
@golayla695 жыл бұрын
I'm confused why have a birthday dinner and I'm paying for my own food and drinks and bringing a gift. I just skip birthday dinners at a restaurant I don't need to spend 150 for a birthday dinner
@czarinaczar5 жыл бұрын
Scott D, I definitely agree with you in all you wrote. That's me as well. If I pay this time, you pay next time. And I don't have friends who expect me to foot their bill. How shady and wrong. 😒
@brooklynforever19905 жыл бұрын
Honey I have no shame about requesting a separate bill. 💅
@TheTbabylati5 жыл бұрын
brooklynforever1990 Some places don’t split the bill.
@miimonalisa5 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing to be ashamed of lol. If I’m not treating then I’m not paying for everyone unless I have extra money to spend and wanna be nice
@bamboochef22025 жыл бұрын
You can always tell the waiter upfront to ring up your order separately so that you have a separate cheque. This is the difference between being able to save a deposit for a house and staying renting. You gotta watch your pennies and cut your coat according to your size.
@smmilam19915 жыл бұрын
Those aren't friends. Those are gold diggers
@Gustavo-vk5nd5 жыл бұрын
The fact that you have a friend who is willing to pay for your food and all she asks is you pay for her valet and YOU STILL take advantage of that is gross .
@rebeccalove20655 жыл бұрын
Adrienne looks great she’s been serving looks 😍😍🔥🔥
@javiruiz44055 жыл бұрын
She is confused with words she is used to being on her back!!!
@Samirahsworld15 жыл бұрын
Javi Ruiz you’re a big troll seriously you need to be blocked by the real you never have anything decent to say and you’re always commenting hate are you that miserable with your life you feel the need to do that ????? Seek help
@deezy28865 жыл бұрын
Axha ‘ her and Jeanie are sexii
@faithfo72555 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Get your own check!! Pay for what you eat!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@beeexcited14315 жыл бұрын
the worst is when those people will order apps, drinks, pick the most expensive thing, add something on the side, and get dessert like at least me mindful
@tamtamr90815 жыл бұрын
yes exactly! so greedy!
@fayepatrice16725 жыл бұрын
Yep when I go out with a family members who are millionaires (I am not) and they already offered to pay, I am still just getting the chicken and no alcohol. I go out with them for the pleasure of their company, not to take advantage of them. I would actually order more if I was paying for it myself,
@lupitab.90325 жыл бұрын
That's why you separate checks. Each pays your own, you know how much you can spend.
@nikkicole543215 жыл бұрын
Sometimes a server will ask early if the bill will be split: i would say upfront before the food is ordered that the checks are separate that way we all know that im not covering for everybody.
@bamboochef22025 жыл бұрын
@Daisy Sauce! Bill Cosbys Quaalude Cocktail! But what happens if a few friends are planning to share a few side dishes between themselves?
@jewelsokike27125 жыл бұрын
Treat people the way you wanna be treated. My friends and I don't run into this problem. The problem is planning at the last minute or it's financial convenient for them but not me.
@hlengiwezungu81525 жыл бұрын
Nene is funny. I enjoyed the show today
@madeinaotearoanz5 жыл бұрын
Yeah she's good value. I can't believe she's 51, she's stunning!
@SA-xk7lk5 жыл бұрын
In a lot of European countries we take in turns to pay the bill or one person pays and everyone pays them back. Splitting sounds like a good concept
@MelissaKarmel5 жыл бұрын
I’m trynna figure out why everybody not on separate checks 🤔🤔🤔
@sahraali5685 жыл бұрын
I had a friend and her boyfriend won't even pay her birthday meal but he is willing go pay his friends bills . Some ppl just like to use you and don't appreciate you at all . Know your friends
@j.graham82015 жыл бұрын
Wow, issa fuckboy
@sahraali5685 жыл бұрын
@@j.graham8201 I know right 🙄
@czarinaczar5 жыл бұрын
Your friend needs to kindly let him go. He definitely doesn't have her back.
@tammyzelaya94505 жыл бұрын
When me and my longtime friends go out we all put in. Love them!!
@thriveacademy99575 жыл бұрын
If it happens all the time...stop inviting them out!
@lakeshiaball16095 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@hoperagan1945 жыл бұрын
You know what you can do... when the food starts getting ordered... and the waiter ask "what will you be having today?" Just say, "oh this is on a separate ticket, by myself. Yes I will have the lobster, salmon, shrimp platter , with the unlimited cocktail, and wait I want dessert!" Then turn to your friends and be like, " ya'll I'm finna EAT and I don't want to put all of this on ya'll." Taking charge, eating well, and throwing shade without being charged all while DEMANDING R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!
@bamboochef22025 жыл бұрын
Love it!!
@MajesticMyronn5 жыл бұрын
It's called " I'm bout to find me some new friends " am I expecting you to pay if i invited you out ? NO but I would atleast like to see you offer to atleast see that you want to take initiative to pay... it don't have to be hella expensive for us when we go out... and we can all split the bill instead of weighing the responsibility on one person
@ryanreigns43435 жыл бұрын
I could never be friends with people like that. That says a lot about someones character. And then to not at least even say thank you. Oh no I can’t have people like that in my life. Buh bye.
@deronreed29455 жыл бұрын
very tru
@Bloooooooooooppp5 жыл бұрын
She literally just said she wasn’t calling out her friends. Then goes ahead and calls her friends out. That’s like when she says she doesn’t talk about people she just gives her opinion. Nene can never own up to stuff, even little silly things like this.
@jerihoward30405 жыл бұрын
Didn't she mean called out be name?
@ltbwkfc5 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t imagine not saying thank you if someone picked up my bill or paid for any of my stuff. Also a lot of times people are totally able to pay but they’ll sit back and let someone else cover it that’s just the way it is 🤷🏽♀️
@natrai955 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I even still say thank you when my parent or someone who I've been dating for a while picks up the bill
@tamtamr90815 жыл бұрын
its gross really ..
@cyn93085 жыл бұрын
When I go out to eat with friends, I always tell the waiter that it's separate checks to make life so much easier
@saraha70155 жыл бұрын
I love Nene & she looks fabulous 😍👌🏽
@kirahg94425 жыл бұрын
Nene’s hair and makeup is so cute 💖
@jonnydavis60665 жыл бұрын
Loni talking about Tamar 🙄😂😂
@kingxavier33455 жыл бұрын
First like n comment💋 I love you guys💁🏽♀️
@shanec98405 жыл бұрын
I JUST was thinking about this the other day now they're talking about it. AMAZING.
@ninaangelique48115 жыл бұрын
When I ask you if you want to go somewhere or do something; you don't have to have it, I've got you most times if you're my friend...LoL
@eliahjamatthew56515 жыл бұрын
Same here:)
@Janelletiffani5 жыл бұрын
Wow I need friends like you LOL
@mieshaburley84665 жыл бұрын
That's pretty customary. But if you're always doing it and your friends aren't at least offering to pitch in or cover your tab at times, that's suspect to me.
@eliahjamatthew56515 жыл бұрын
@@mieshaburley8466 my best friend and I always fight to pay bc he'll want to pay then I tell him no I'm paying and it's so funny but thank God I've never had an issue like that:)
@mieshaburley84665 жыл бұрын
@@eliahjamatthew5651 that's an amazing problem to have! Yay kindness!! We need more people like you guys in the world ❤️
@kawaiiahjumma44505 жыл бұрын
Even when I went out to dinner with my family as a kid, everybody thanks my father. And not just dinner, even when we went on vacation we did the same thing
@simonaivancic5285 жыл бұрын
its always a privilage when i can pay for someone if they have less. whole other thing is when someone is overusing that
@4bfam5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. And If someone pays for me I make sure to get the tip at least.
@AaliyA26265 жыл бұрын
Ooh Lonie! I feel seen! I allocated the bill every time we all went out and would sit there and say ok who had what, cash or card, you name it! Everyone pays their own way unless everyone agrees to split it evenly. Real talk though, nobody I know expects one person to pick up a bill all by themselves!
@jessmontes81294 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!! Say Thank You. How hard is that. People have no social graces anymore.
@gissneric5 жыл бұрын
Did they just told Nene Leaked to "speak up?" 😂
@lionelluva5 жыл бұрын
I really love Nene and Jeannie’s looks! Very pretty. As for the convo, if you cannot pay your own way, don’t come out to play lol
@user-fy9zz9sb7d5 жыл бұрын
Loni always “ got a friend “ 😂
@MLKMassey5 жыл бұрын
Yes get ya own check! When you do one big check all of a sudden folks don’t know how to add and they always forget about the tax and gratuity smh. 😩😒
@shanec98405 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@shani62355 жыл бұрын
Thank U goes a long way. Many dont realize that!
@12Cee455 жыл бұрын
Love this hairdo aunty Loni!
@veronicaruiz49385 жыл бұрын
I’m really enjoying having Nene on! :)
@lolojen7945 жыл бұрын
I’m loving NeNe’s makeup. She looks great. Pick up you’re portion of the bill C’mon now! Unless I say I’m paying you need to pay your portion.
@vickychillin32555 жыл бұрын
Love u guys!
@iheartunibrows5 жыл бұрын
Idk if this is an Arab thing..I don't have a lot of money but I ALWAYS try to pay the entire bill. And me and my Arab friends are always arguing over who's paying. Once I went to dinner with a coworker and he expected me to pay and when I did he didn't even say thank you..I was like wtf.
@deezy28865 жыл бұрын
iheartunibrows I wouldn’t have paid unless they contributed
@keepinitkawaii5 жыл бұрын
I mean im black and me and my friends always argue about who's gonna pay because everyone wants to pay or we try and sneak and pay the tab for everyone but we also aren't going to the same restuarants as Ne Ne lol
@afy64765 жыл бұрын
The real ladies are so funny
@kathleenjohnson13545 жыл бұрын
Nene was very pleasant today.
@mehdi41945 жыл бұрын
Love this hair on Nene
@patriciastraker88405 жыл бұрын
Yup Loni. The taxes and tips getting split 2...🤣
@chilliconcarnage._.79755 жыл бұрын
I missed nene I loooivvver her hahahaha
@LoOkAtMyBeEp5 жыл бұрын
I like taking turns to pay, some people are really good at keeping track of whose turn it is to pay and everything goes seamlessly, otherwise I like to split... a few years ago, I stopped working and went back to School, so my finances were really bad, I completely STOPPED social gatherings, going out for drinks etc... Now I am doing really good financially and I really don't like hanging out with broke friends who just assume you're gonna pay for their expensive meal. I feel like you should either refuse the invite or if you're close enough and comfortable, let people know beforehand that you can't afford it.
@yasminejasmine43685 жыл бұрын
Arabs are so different... we fight each other to pay for the bill 😂 then be yelling at the waiter to take this card not theirs.... then we always say “next time you can pay” but then we all just fight again.
@saramcintosh83305 жыл бұрын
NeNe real. I've always liked NeNe.
@georgia85925 жыл бұрын
Nene calls out her friends *Whats new* 😩
@chukie305 жыл бұрын
When me and my co workers would go out to lunch for different occasions we just split the bill evenly...but it always that one that doesn’t want to split the bill but eats the most.
@lillianwilliams55105 жыл бұрын
Praying for Tamera.
@alainkov46165 жыл бұрын
Not that much rich to pay for my friends' food but can relate on those valet/parking tickets......i can can count on one hand the times they had the initiative to help me paying those tickets these past 3 years. That's why i don't pick them up that much anyway.
@yasminm.18015 жыл бұрын
Lol, it’s so different in my family and friend group. We literally fight over who’s gonna pay. Like 10 minutes before the bill comes my mum would be like ‘ imma pay’ but my aunties would be like ‘ nah, I will.’ And I’m justthere like OMG, here we go again 😊 Everyone wants to pay for everyone coz it’s a sign of respect in my culture 😂💕
@BlackcrescentAngel175 жыл бұрын
When my friends amd i go out, we choose a place suitable for everyone's pocket. The money discussion is done way before the date even happens to avoid that kind of drama. If one of is doesn't have money but we still want her to come, she just has to make sure she's got enough for her ride home and the rest pick up her bill. It's a group of 3 friends. Small group of friends is easier to handle anyway
@taina81695 жыл бұрын
Omg lol I use to work with this lady that would go out with us and when we go pick up food her favorite line was, “I forgot my card at home or her husband took it out of her purse”. Every time a new person would start she would go to lunch w them until they all started figuring it out! I don’t mind paying some days but not ALL the damn time. My boss finally got mad at her and said “where’s your money” and she pretend to look in her bra and purse and said “it must’ve fell out.” My boss said “cancel her order”. I never seen my boss so mad. Any way you never know what people struggles are but I did in fact pay that day! She didn’t really miss work so she had a weekly paycheck but never know what she was doing w it. She didn’t have custody of 3of her kids so who knows! 🤷🏽♀️
@YPM4985 жыл бұрын
Don’t tell me you actually paid for her meal. That was her lesson.
@shanec98405 жыл бұрын
Chile, I died laughin' when I read your boss said, 'cancel her order'....lol. Does she still go out with you all? Personally, I wouldn't have paid for her that day (it would have been hard for me not to) but I had to learn not to get in the way of God's lessons for people. You may have blocked her lesson.
@tamtamr90815 жыл бұрын
omg your boss is the boss xD plz stop paying for her!
@taina81695 жыл бұрын
Shane C Lol No, I worked at the company like 8 years ago. I only paid because it was already ordered and ready. I had stopped months prior to that (buying her food)I had to get out of that line of work I was a case worker and went to MGM Grand (civilized coworkers) much better environment. The Casino’s feed all their employees for free. 😊
@crystalmartinez20305 жыл бұрын
I hate people paying for me! I would literally not go if I know I don't have it, and if they insist, I'm drinking water and getting the cheapest meal item!
@carmen731095 жыл бұрын
Well in our family who ever invites pays. That's just how our family does it. If I'm inviting you to eat it's my treat.
@falloncarrington47025 жыл бұрын
If you know your friends don't make as much money as you, you can do things together that they can afford.
@indirabrooks82525 жыл бұрын
I have a friend that decides to go out when she's broke. For example : we make plans to go to the movie and when we're there she's like: can you pay for it,? Cause I don't have any money. Usually its not a lot, but it annoys me so much, because I never go out being broke. I can't find a way to tell her.
@u2ube9935 жыл бұрын
Just how you just typed it.. tell her how it makes you feel she'll understand you are friends..
@the_iconofpersistance5 жыл бұрын
...or don't do things that cost money with her. lol
@sexyhomeowner93455 жыл бұрын
Next time pretend you've forgotten your wallet, or that you only have enough money for yourself.
@MLKMassey5 жыл бұрын
And I thought it was just me who has one of those friends smh. My friend waits until we’re already ordering the food or when the check comes to ask if I can pay for her. She did it at the movies too
@indirabrooks82525 жыл бұрын
@@MLKMassey One time I had to pay her taxi fare, because she didn't have any money! I'm like why would you go out and not know how u're gonna get home, it makes 0 sense.
@DRay4eveZ5 жыл бұрын
I don’t split nothing, I don’t pay for nobody. I pay for what I ate and drank and that’s it 🤷🏾♀️
@jc60865 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! I REFUSE to split a check evenly!!!! Talking bout I got some chicken fingers and water and end up paying $97.00. NOPE
@jonduflee89205 жыл бұрын
Loni looks amazing
@pd968515 жыл бұрын
Skating rink to the diner lmfaoooo
@michellechong99925 жыл бұрын
Loni is literally me! 😂
@indianahoosier63673 жыл бұрын
I loved the episode with Drita & Big Ang. Could you guys bring Drita back on the show.
@liz64845 жыл бұрын
Nene did well with the ladies😊
@NeverLetLoveGo5 жыл бұрын
Simple morals and manners: if you have eaten and drank, dip into your purse when the bill comes. At least, offer. Kind gestures go a long way.
@thejoeyson25865 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my brother and sister. I always pay for them because I feel like I should get them and then they can get me .... but nope 😑 just sit there silently
@pernilletornbjerg82324 жыл бұрын
In Denmark we say " tak for mad", it means thanks for lunch or dinner to the one paying.
@marikboo5 жыл бұрын
With my two best friends we argue because we want to pay for each other, but add more people and then it's separate checks. You pay for whatever you ordered. Appetizers go to whoever suggested it even if we shared
@KemiAdorin5 жыл бұрын
i cant get past nene's new nose :(
@gusalthorp61385 жыл бұрын
I don't mind treating friends once in awhile....But acquaintances maybe once
@memecakes44365 жыл бұрын
At least I say thank you 😊
@02230223tre5 жыл бұрын
It should always be mutual. Like she said pick up my valet or something
@jewelsokike27125 жыл бұрын
I think that all would agree that when in a group that no one wants to be embarrassed. Friends or not.
@brendaho45 жыл бұрын
Nene: “I’m not calling out my girlfriends” KZbin video title: NENE CALLS OUT HER GIRLFRIENDS!!
@meme-hz1mq5 жыл бұрын
Loni come through with the engineer brain!
@mobrown75945 жыл бұрын
I do what Loni does I diviiiiide and multiply that cheque
@MzLetty1015 жыл бұрын
I once was the ATM and now I like to cook for everyone at home. It is just more intimate and less confusing.
@lakeshiaball16095 жыл бұрын
I had a friend like that always wanted to go out but when we get there she don't have money she tried me twice i stopped going me and her aint even friends anymore she wasn't a friend from jump street#Aintnobodyfool#Aintnofriendsthesedays
@dianaross48645 жыл бұрын
I wonder what's the average age of your audience... m 18 n I'm from the Philippines Haha. Been obsessed with this show since December 2018 Haha. Love you all
@lovexoxo2515 жыл бұрын
I never split unless what we ordered was similar and not a big difference other than that separate checks period! Damn sure not paying for grown people unless I said I would before we got there.
@marynguyen65425 жыл бұрын
Or ask for separate bills when you order? XD
@mgeijho5 жыл бұрын
She said a thousand dollar bill yaol...on food for 1 night!!thats like a couple months groceries for me!
@MaleBlackExpat5 жыл бұрын
Nene looks beautiful.
@aliciawedderburn96525 жыл бұрын
When I go out with my friends we all pay separately unless it's my friends birthday then I have his or her order added to my tap and well put in on the tip. If I'm feeling generous then I'll just pay for everybody but I won't let them know until the tab comes so they won't buy expensive stuff because I'm paying. I do have some friends that eat expensive food in general but not all of them 😏😏😏
@buckleupbuttercup30385 жыл бұрын
I don't have time to keke with friends I'm raising kids lol. but if this was me I would just pay my food and the tip .lol
@sabrinag33575 жыл бұрын
Buckle up Buttercup Lol...Same! Mom life.
@sharonhala96755 жыл бұрын
Yes we all need me time
@paigez76805 жыл бұрын
Upload full eps! The new eps!!!
@g.pearson47265 жыл бұрын
I grew up watching my parents paying for everyone’s meals without a thank you 😑 My BFF and I are consultants So whoever just came off their last project pays Or if we both were just on a project the one who didn’t pay last time pays this time Or if we’re both not 🤑🤑🤑🤑 we will pay for our own That’s it ...it’s an unspoken rule We got each other’s back But it took a long time for me to get a friend at this Level 😘
@klove87265 жыл бұрын
I always pretend to be texting on my phone when they hand me the menu but deep down I'm using the calculator on my phone to work out what my food it going to cost ☺️
@kimflowers81115 жыл бұрын
Don't assume. Be prepared to pay if it wasn't said ahead of time that your bill will be covered.
@BethelhemSeifu5 жыл бұрын
sharing is happiness .... u share a meal, then u share the bill., simple!!!
@ekamaeshiett88705 жыл бұрын
In Nigeria if you invite people to a place you pay!. Be it a dinner, birthday, hangout etc. You pay for everybody. Yes its annoying but you too go to other people's party and eat and drink for free 🤷🏾♀️ so it keeps rotating.
@MariahMauricette5 жыл бұрын
My friends and myself always split the bill equally. So if it's 5 of us we just divide it amongst the group.