My grandpa said I'll be pinned by NETFLIX today 🤭❤
@sjr2001 Жыл бұрын
nahh
@NetflixIndiaOfficial Жыл бұрын
Can't say no to that!
@ayushpandey4237 Жыл бұрын
@@NetflixIndiaOfficial love u too 😘
@Mauvellista Жыл бұрын
@@NetflixIndiaOfficialwow
@Racoon-t5y Жыл бұрын
Lucky 😊
@loveyourself-n6y Жыл бұрын
Most unrealistic part is when the parents started to feel guilty 😂😂 they'll never accept their mistakes, they'll keep blaming their sons/daughters no matter what 😂
@yomaddy Жыл бұрын
Exactly because they're highly entitled. Movies mein sorry v bol dete hai lol 😂
@NusratJahan-hs2fs Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@unicornsaanvi Жыл бұрын
💯
@Gorakhpuriya.couple Жыл бұрын
Exactly.... Parents will blame u anyhow and if u complaint like this they will blame u for this too...
@92-m-tasnovatabassumela96 Жыл бұрын
Yes you are absolutely right dear In real life parents will never accept their mistakes Rather they will blame us
@np142 Жыл бұрын
only people with toxic parents will understand why someone becomes so bitter in life❤
@anikitakapsi8348 Жыл бұрын
So true .I feel the pain.
@sweetydevi4559 Жыл бұрын
I think sooo many people especially in India have toxic parents but no one dare to speak about it in any interview because of the image that parents can never be wrong.... living with toxic parents is like taking toxic breath every second and dying from inside every second.
@Invest-banker Жыл бұрын
Add me in.. Have been through a lot though trying to let go but the impact is worst than Chernobyl
@severalpeoplearetyping2477 Жыл бұрын
who the hell are taxic parents do they apply taxes on you or something? edit: to the dear people in the replies i am not mad just a sarcastic joke
@HopefullyNeko Жыл бұрын
@@severalpeoplearetyping2477they probably meant toxic. That was a typo. Don’t be mad 😂😂lmaoo
@rufaidaruthi Жыл бұрын
The way our parents compares the achievements of siblings in front of them, destroys their interpersonal relationship. Awareness to stop this is needed!
@arpita.talapatra2011 Жыл бұрын
Thats true. Especially in my life. I started to feel like Iam worthless. I made a crime as I was born in the family, or the world may be
@Komal_Thakurr Жыл бұрын
True
@musicmysoulandlife Жыл бұрын
My parents never compare me and my sibling. I was always an overachiever and my sibling, just the opposite and I am grateful towards them for not spoiling our relationship. However, I am sure they would've done it if it was the other way round because my parents who are so understanding towards us used to compare me with my friends and sometimes even bodyshame me, that too in their presence.
@aintnotroublebigenough Жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying this!
@yashchouhan3473 Жыл бұрын
JUST DO BETTER @@arpita.talapatra2011
@truthmaster4462 Жыл бұрын
In reality when women like Kiara expose such people, then instead of them crying or realizing the mistake people team up and begin calling her crazy, even laugh at another person's face.
@vidyaarvind4458 Жыл бұрын
While the parents concerned in this film were neglectful and tactless, it also must be remembered that Kaira did indeed make the choice to lead a bohemian, aimless life full of bitterness for which nobody would obviously praise her and even if her parents had been supportive, they would be disappointed in her choices. Just as kids today openly diss their parents, why should parents always be expected to be supportive? Many parents hear a lot from entitled kids these days. They're even blamed for their kids' entitled demands as the result of poor parenting. This movie makes it seem that all the problems in Kaira's life is due to her unhappy childhood until the therapist reminds her that her life is her responsibility too. Don't young adult kids and teens lash out at their parents so often with a "it's my life" outburst. Do kids imbibe all the good values inculcated painstakingly by parents through childhood? Which parent in their right mind will ask their child to drink, smoke, do drugs and sleep around (something many youngsters do today to look hip or to overcome a self developed insecurity). Is parental influence the only influence on kids once they step into teenage and young adulthood? Then why pin all the blame for all the wrongs in a young adult's life on the parents alone? WHERE IS PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY? 🙄
@LBINLONDON2010 Жыл бұрын
@@vidyaarvind4458 well said!! Yes parents make mistakes but eventually you need to pick yourselves, get all the help you need if parents are toxic and move on
@vidyaarvind4458 Жыл бұрын
@@LBINLONDON2010 Thanks for getting the point. 🙏
@Maya_hee Жыл бұрын
@@vidyaarvind4458We should definitely do our best to get help and better our lives but that doesnt mean we should not call out the toxicity that your parents treat you with. If parents see their children becoming aimless and acting out, do you think mocking their children and mistreating them is gonna set them straight or do you think paying attention to their child, helping them identify their problems and working with them through it is a better solution.
@vidyaarvind4458 Жыл бұрын
@@Maya_hee How come you have no answers to the second half of my comment? How come we can't call out those kids who fail to imbibe the good values parents have painstakingly tried to insult? A great number of teens and young adults simply don't wish to listen to their parents and routinely disregard good advice given to them by parents. Alia bhatt's troubles in the movie are not only due to her parents' neglect. I have already written a lot. Learn to read comments in their entirety.
@vaish7504 Жыл бұрын
The boy's expressions were very genuine at Alia's outburst. He really could understand what she was goinh through inside.
@Buckminsterfullerene115 Жыл бұрын
he is rohit saraf i guess
@lira9924 ай бұрын
that was just one shot....
@kirtig___182 ай бұрын
Yess absolutely 🙂🤌
@johnparbhu512810 күн бұрын
Yeah. He felt her ignored pain. He was pampered his whole life because of ONLY one reason!!! Yes , I know it's a movie, but a serious message was sent across India!!!
@zolo5376 Жыл бұрын
This movie changed my view about Alia as an actress. I like how she initially ignores the comments and slowly simmers and finally snaps. This was very realistically portrayed though. You can still be rich and have everything, but when your family looks down , you truly feel unloved.
@loganm.s.z2227 Жыл бұрын
Same, thought oh another nepo kid, overrated at that. Become a Fan after this scene.
@PrinceK-dm3xs10 ай бұрын
@@loganm.s.z2227And after Gangubai she has really solidify herself as one if the best main stream actress of current time. And she's just 30 , she has bright future ahead.
@faizanins5005 Жыл бұрын
"How could you just abandon me?" This line hits hard...her expressions just made it more painful This movie is underrated..Alia was lit in this movie I've been loving Alia As Kaira forever 💓
@sidimahaq904 Жыл бұрын
Ikr she is actually a very actress
@Ariaa814 Жыл бұрын
@@sidimahaq904what's "very actress"?
@ananya997 Жыл бұрын
Ya it is truu
@yogitakashyap4248 Жыл бұрын
Movie name??
@khao_na6 ай бұрын
@@yogitakashyap4248 Dear Zindagi. Read the title of this video.
@ThasnaThasna-ib7qo11 ай бұрын
This scene hits hard. Im going through the same thing and it really hurts. Parents will never realise the emotional pain that they put through their children.
@renunair4316Ай бұрын
The part about just as you’re getting close to grandparents the parents whisk you away!😭its like she was talking about me😢
@factofile544Ай бұрын
@@renunair4316 at least u had ur grandparents I am a single child my parents fight like crazy all the time and both sets of my grandparents live in another city
@mrinoshiamateurs11 ай бұрын
In indian culture everyone has a mindset that parents are God ,mother is Goddess. But only kids with toxic parents know the pain. And the worst part is , no one is there to help you from the toxicity of your parents. Whom you're gonna ask for help saying that your mother is torturing you , taking advantage of your kind nature, giving you life long trauma which even years after feel like it all happened yesterday.
@krishnapriya_206 ай бұрын
True😞
@ENZERYN6 ай бұрын
Bro when I went to my grandfather to complain about my father, he started PREACHING *ME* that a father is Dashrath and I should be Ram, blah blah. It's not even a culture, it's ALL EXPECTATIONS. The thing Indians call their culture only exists in their expectations, dang! So children never get the recognition the need.
@samanthaliang61906 ай бұрын
The problem is many in our society doesn’t consider these toxicity as a problem but ignore it as parents right. Sadly it’s the children who carry the scars forever.
@mrinoshiamateurs6 ай бұрын
@@samanthaliang6190 true.. our society doesn't even recognise the torture of our parents. Even we have been accepting their torture whole our lives thinking it is the right of parents to treat us like that. It's only when we become mature thn we realise that It was nothing but physically, mentally, emotionally torture in the name of parenthood.
@mrinoshiamateurs6 ай бұрын
@@ENZERYN well... Even Ram left to keep the words of Dashrath. Dashrath stayed at the castle while Ram struggled in Jungle. The story needs to be revised. It needs a different perspective. The perceptive that Dashrath should have stopped Ram anyhow and let him live peacefully. How much Ram's trauma and struggle Dasrath could have avoided if he would not let Ram leave. If Ram left to keep the words of his father, he would have stayed if his father wouldn't let him go.
@sairasheikh1349 Жыл бұрын
Not lying. My name is Saira and this is exactly me. Except my parents didn't abandon me. They emotionally abandoned all of us and barely worked on raising us. When I blame them for the psychological, relational effects, they call me crazy. Trying so hard not to be them for my kids.
@akhilagkrishnan15808 ай бұрын
Same here
@arpita.talapatra20118 ай бұрын
Me too. Grown up emotionally and mentally abandoned
@namitashreyasee47507 ай бұрын
Same
@SnehaSharma5436 ай бұрын
Same ... My parents were worst their EGO was more
@Alisha_k6135 ай бұрын
Same
@leenarene782 Жыл бұрын
Alia nailed it...scene by scene...
@GoldenCat-g3n Жыл бұрын
She does it always her expressions can kill anyone ❤
@saiganesh3800 Жыл бұрын
This one scene is enough for the movie and alia's potential in her acting
@NetflixIndiaOfficial Жыл бұрын
A legendary actor was born that day!
@yashaswinisingh569 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, overacting ki dukaan
@MrCool842 Жыл бұрын
@@NetflixIndiaOfficialtrue❤
@pollobmohonto-u8t Жыл бұрын
@@NetflixIndiaOfficialdefinitely,,she is just awesome all around of the world ❤❤❤
@Votefor17 Жыл бұрын
Honestly highway monologue was the start. It's sad that people don't acknowledge how good of a actor she is
@oinamdevi861 Жыл бұрын
same feeling when my mom overly praising my brother who literally didn't do anything for her.I did everything for my parents built house, purchase mobile phone, health treatment,paid their loans.its pain to see my parents longing to talk to my brother who didn't neither attend nor pick their calls.
@AnilQuad Жыл бұрын
I hope they will understand it someday
@jiabirje7696 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree you more... like my little sister always manipulate my parents with her sweet lie...
@detraxop6680 Жыл бұрын
I would say love yourself.dont expect anything from anyone and try to have a bond with god he or she will love you immensely
@infinitebeing1119 Жыл бұрын
Let go and don't care. They will soon start complaining.
@vidhyakarthikeyan6458 Жыл бұрын
Uff
@kashfia_7767 Жыл бұрын
Each and every word of her brought tears into my eyes
@ayeshazulfi1536 Жыл бұрын
Same here. I cried watching the movie few years ago and i still get emotional on this scenes
@hemathamizhmani6355 Жыл бұрын
I haven't watched this movie.But these dialogues made me cry , relatable.I have good parents but it hurts when they complain and compare you with others. 🙃
@MANISHAKUMAR-bn9pz Жыл бұрын
You should totally watch it…it’s a very good movie 😊
@arpita.talapatra2011 Жыл бұрын
I strongly suggest you to watch. As I was watching the movie, I find it as my own life in a storyline, almost my childhood
@hemathamizhmani6355 Жыл бұрын
Ok sure I'll watch it 😀
@parsami9895 Жыл бұрын
Movie name pls
@geethakrishnan9857 Жыл бұрын
@@parsami9895Dear zindagi ❤
@chandrikachandrasekharan9025 Жыл бұрын
My mother wouldn't understand how the extra focus and love on her son impacts me till date. At 40 I have the best job and education all from the motivation and love my husband gave me, he is my God and Guardian angel🙏
@unnatibhadauria5256 Жыл бұрын
I can understand dear. I too feel like my mother prefers my brother more than me. He’s allowed to make mistakes but as an elder daughter I’m not allowed to do anything that’s not correct according to my parents. The standards are extremely high for me but for him, it’s all served on a silver platter. Can’t wait to get a job soon and leave this damn hell hole
@chandrikachandrasekharan9025 Жыл бұрын
@@unnatibhadauria5256 dear sister, I totally understand how you feel. I wish and pray that you get a job soon and build a life of your dreams.
@Als1822 Жыл бұрын
do better with your kids
@chandrikachandrasekharan9025 Жыл бұрын
@@Als1822 of course, goes without saying
@Invest-banker Жыл бұрын
Let's be friends chandrika, we sail the same boat
@AishaChoudhary-ni5sb Жыл бұрын
Kaira is absolutely right... Pehle parents khud apne bachhon pr dhyaan nhi dete apne aage dusro ke aage and then they say ki ye khraab hogye h.. badtameez hogye h... Blaa blaa blaa ... They don't see wrong in their actions
@risingray37 Жыл бұрын
The day before my 10th class board result came i had a fever and my mom was sleeping with me to take care of me at night......i was feeling so uncomfortable and my tears couldn't stop because of high fever, my mom heard me and she said it's ok if you get only passing marks, nobody will ask for the marks of 10th class, she thought i had a fever because of the pressure 😅(i was a good student so expecting good results) but it really made me feel genuinely happy that my family care more about me......and now when i am 30 i have experienced many losses but still can say the care and support of my family doesn't change.......
@deepikasingh3990 Жыл бұрын
Lucky ho.....or mujhe yad h jb mene kha ki confirm nhi h bt..shyd ek subject m graduation m back lg jayega...jb ki sure nhi tha ki esa ho hi...unka jesa reaction tha tb ..m nhi bhuli yad kr k aaj bhi Rona AATA h..vo face expression vo bate...Jo kbhi expect nhi Kiya tha..socha parents support krenge ki koi back hi to lga..or mehnt kro..bt.. reaction to... khair...bad m result aaya to PTA chla marks add nhi the or back bhi bhi lga .,...SB shi hua...bt..vo bhuli Ni aaj tk
@loveyourself-n6y8 ай бұрын
Meanwhile i got 93% and still got scolded... After that, I've no interest to please Or satisfy then
@Durriyataj8 ай бұрын
I wish my mother was this supportive
@arshiyathebeginnerartist95827 ай бұрын
@@loveyourself-n6y As someone who only gets appreciated on getting the best, I relate to it very much. I have been getting the first rank consecutively from last 5 examinations. And I know if just drops from first to second, I will have to hear a lot. I have my board exams this year and my mom already says the way you study you are only gonna get 90+ and not 95+. They only expect 95+ from me and I know if it is even 94, I will have to get a lecture.
@Nevermind.206 ай бұрын
Same here my mother was ill during my 10th board so I was out of station most of time after I came back everytime I got sick. I didn't score well in 10th board. Everyone expected 95%from me. But When result came out my father looked disappointed he was like its ok but he wasn't surely satisfied.. He started comparing me with other students and how they were celebrating with good marks. Soon he stopped going to PTMs and other scl functions and always taunts me. My parents r just helping me either..😢
@yomaddy Жыл бұрын
One of the reasons why I'd be happily childfree because of childhood traumas. I've put an end to the generational curses and the cycle. No wonder why south-east Asians are highly relate to this movie because of toxic parenting. Alia, the phenomenal actress done amazingly ❤
@iammyimaginationandwork11 ай бұрын
Exactly! Same here
@gunjanramteke9099 ай бұрын
The biggest favor you can do to your children is by not bringing them to this world... Neither I was a favorite child nor I was accepted by my boyfriend... So I decided to put an end to this cycle.. No marriage no babies..
@namratarao91168 ай бұрын
2:35
@maumitasen3638 ай бұрын
@@gunjanramteke909 you are great! I wish others also could think the same way as you do.
@gayathrikandothp6574 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Galadriel70 Жыл бұрын
No loving parent can stop parenting, it is a life time commitment, however the type of parenting changes depending on your sons and daughters age from nurturing to teaching and discipline to guidance to letting go and observing. Unfortunately there are many who get stuck at teaching and discipline and would never allow their kids to grow up.
@SnehaShaw-e2x10 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@alap1983 Жыл бұрын
This is the Bitter truth for Millions of Children who aren't the "Favorites" or the "Mera Ladla Beta / Beti". Parenting is tough BUT ONLY if you are willing to do it and do it right. Merely Complaining about Parenting being tough is like fishing for compliments or appreciation. Children often suffer simply because they think it is THEIR fault. It was SUCH A Blessing to have Grandparents who actually cared and put in the long hours to listen to their Grandchildren, play with them, and help them understand the weird, confusing, complex, and often hypocritical world. Parenting must be sorted out by BOTH the parents. It must be a tag-team effort. Instead, it has increasingly become a "Passing the Parcel" or "Hot Potato" game with innocent children.
@loveyourself-n6y7 ай бұрын
In middle class families, children are nothing but just investments
@loveyourself-n6y6 ай бұрын
@upasanasharma9081 I hate my parents proudly
@anushkasrivasatava91405 ай бұрын
Only my paternal grandpa was always there for me. Rest of them always used to compare me and my sister and making me feel disgust is every way possible. And the fact that now my parents never understand the trauma i've faced due to my skinny body and brown color, by my close relatives itself. My mother is like "Pata nhi dusro ke liye kya kya bhar ke rakhti ho apne andar" when i shared it once to her, that time i was too emotional otherwise i've been not sharing it since childhood. And, I'm decided now that no matter what i'm not going to control to not share it anyway to them coz eventually they're gonna blame me ......i'll face all my anxiety and stress until i burst out in front of everyone.
@priyankapayel77879 ай бұрын
Who says She can't act.. She just nailed it! 😍❤
@priyankapayel77878 ай бұрын
@AnonymousAlien2099 then you show how to do acting & make a video of it! We'll then judge you accordingly!! What do you say!?
@feanix7400 Жыл бұрын
Alia put her heart and soul into this scene.
@ramyaakshay4614 Жыл бұрын
Being ignored as a child will haunt forever. When an innocent child believes her parents are her world and she has no idea that she is not even the last thing on their mind. If parents don't care for their child who else will. When you become an adult you realize you were never a child because you had to fight all alone for your place in your own parents life.That becomes a habit to fight to belong with people who don't care. You never lived as a child feeling like one. And when you are an adult that kid in you resurfaces wanting attention but you always pick people who don't care.
@deencreation Жыл бұрын
She said what we want to say to our parents
@mridusmita84 Жыл бұрын
Alia truly nailed this role, such a phenomenal scene!
@amulyasubalam20911 ай бұрын
The scene that brings back my trauma is the scene where both the kids are present but every single family member talks only abt the son..they praise one child ao much and belittle the other child so much!
@joyousbell7144 Жыл бұрын
The sad part is sometimes you don't even need a sibling for your parents to put you down. Parents can be toxic even to their own single child
@errihasini85055 ай бұрын
So true
@KaavyaBector-k1u Жыл бұрын
i always cry in this scene...this is too real...and it is exactly my story :(
@Soumeya123 Жыл бұрын
Sorry dude
@shovanabajracharya Жыл бұрын
Did your parents abandon you?
@heyluv1711 Жыл бұрын
I agree to this! Parental Toxicity should be made a criminal offence!
@trishitadebnath2 ай бұрын
There should be a strict laws for this as well.
@geethakrishnan9857 Жыл бұрын
I really loved the performance of Alia in Highway movie and Dear zindagi. Great acting❤
@vanyayadav8252 Жыл бұрын
This doesn’t seem like acting.. she is so natural.. i feel this scene .. it moved me so much .. harsh reality 😢
@sathwikabevara34048 ай бұрын
I couldn't understand why parents compare their children with other children and feel sad that their children are not like them
@arise557 Жыл бұрын
The worst part of toxic parenting is that they do a lot of things for us which we never asked for. Actually we are gratified. But that doesn’t mean we are their slaves till the end of life.
@mondiraghoshgolpo Жыл бұрын
This is very underrated movie. Alia did amazing acting in this movie also.🌸
@ananyapandey8307 ай бұрын
The only unrealistic thing about this movie is that her parents accepted that they were wrong and apologised to her. That's the complete opposite of Indian parenting. When you open up to your parents, will laugh at you, blame you, criticize you and gaslight you but will never take a moment in their lives to understand why were in the wrong or if they were in the wrong at all and you just have to deal with it for the rest of your lives.
@prachikaushik64346 ай бұрын
Vo puri baat dhyan se sun le wo hi bhut ha unka famous dialogue tamiz se baat kro 😖
@ananyapandey8306 ай бұрын
@@prachikaushik6434 true that
@aishwaryaraju9216 ай бұрын
I said this to my dad. With a lot more anger and tears and screaming. My dad laughed and said that I’m imagining everything. That my life has been great and I should be grateful. 🙂
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
My elder brother uses filthy abusive language when he gets angry in front of parents. My dad, acting surprised asks him where did he learn all these abuses. My elder brother replies dad that since childhood you've beaten and abused us so much that it's only natural for him to pick all that up from dad. My died denied on our faces...A white lie. My mother and my siblings including me have suffered the brunt of his physical, mental and emotional torture.
@Subiya_ansari10 ай бұрын
Every word she spoke hit me hard!! It was a fact when she said first parents gave birth to their child then do whatever they want n whatever is convenient for them, give them life time trauma and at the end blame them for reacting 💔
@ahmedoryo449411 ай бұрын
How petty someone has to be to think that her best actress award was 'undeserving!'
@Sneha_mandia10 ай бұрын
Ikr
@bhairavikarve5611 Жыл бұрын
Not all parents are responsible parents. You do not require any license or qualification to become a parent and thus can be taken for granted. The whole concept of “parents are my life line”, a lot of people do not resonate with this feeling at all. In fact Mother’s and/or Father’s day is just painful for them because they cannot celebrate what the entire world (normally) celebrates.
@sireeshanamburi452 Жыл бұрын
100%
@maumitasen3638 ай бұрын
💯
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
Lately my elder sister started celebrating father's day and mother's day. Father's day celebration seemed pointless to me cos I wondered what exactly were we celebrating? Years of physical, mental and emotional torture??
@ramitapatel1168 Жыл бұрын
1.05 this part personally hits me so hard. My brother, who's an introvert, was always welcomed and loved by my relatives and called as sidha, shant bachha while I, who was an extrovert since childhood, got labeled as mannerless, badtamiz. They even judged my character when I was merely 12 because I was from city. It hit me so hard thet I even stopped interacting and playing with thier kids like I used to still they didn't shut up, instead said that I developed bad attitude. Worst is my mom never supported me because they were from her side
@angelgupta92249 ай бұрын
That is so horrible. I hope you find right people in your life who brings out the extrovert in you once again without you having to be judged.
@ramitapatel11689 ай бұрын
@@angelgupta9224 I actually have found right people who always complement me, call me cute and praises my art work. They are my friends
@VanshikaDixit-z3m3 ай бұрын
Ha to zyada Bolna bhi nahi chahiye kabhi kabhi mujhe bhi sab kehte hai ki Mai introvert hun shant hun mujhe bahut kharab lagta hai yaar
@deepikasingh93743 ай бұрын
Bhai jb introvert extrovert hota hai.then uska isse bhi same hota hai
@nawshinnawarzihan Жыл бұрын
This movie made me a fan of Alia..... Yes, she has done a tremendous job in Gangubai but this movie will be the best for me ❤❤❤❤ It has touched my heart so deeply and let me loosen a bit of burden and breathe freely again....... An all time favourite ❤❤❤❤
@nishananda13576 ай бұрын
Abandonment feelings are painful. They make you trapped in an identity crisis. Where you actually struggle to find a place of your own belongingness.
@khalid26752 Жыл бұрын
When a broken heart explodes. You will not see tears falling from your eyes. This is when you realize that you have lived with this pain for a very long time This happened to me a couple of days ago
@psravani8666 Жыл бұрын
Nobody in real life can't react like this until and unless they felt the pain so deep.. na keh pate hai na chupa pate hai bus andar hi andar ghutte rehte hai.. and sudden outburst would be exactly like this..
@sk_glamup9 ай бұрын
Dedicated to all the toxic parents . Strong message delivered through this video 👏👍
@Gayathri52909 ай бұрын
This is a real situation .. and the way she handle it after the psychotherapy is also marvelous 😊
@chadniislam3118 Жыл бұрын
She is outstanding but very true reality. Of life sometime😢
@ananyanakhye6199 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why, but i absolutely love these outbursts of characters, just yelling at someone after years of endurance
@sanskritigupta31187 ай бұрын
99% childs are suffering this type of lecture & all
@hsd28711 ай бұрын
Poor Kyra she really went through a lot in her life happiness begins from home indeed thats what I learnt from the movie ❤👍🏻
@sxnkxnrxck11 ай бұрын
After having my first kid, people often tell me I need to have another kid. I don’t want more kids. Pregnancy was annoying because I was always vomiting and sick…AND THEN! I caught COVID two weeks before labor!!! Labor was terrible and i would never put myself through that again. The months of recovery was painful because I was coughing from COVID. There’s NO ONE who can convince me to have another kid.
@prashantkondapalli41226 ай бұрын
It takes a whole life , rebuilding the broken pieces of us and still stay strong to live that life which was abused, hurted and taunted and not nurtured with full love and care 😢
@Shivhari2328 Жыл бұрын
That's why I always try to be a loving and caring parent to my darling daughter that i never had😢
@RK1313-u2l Жыл бұрын
Same here.
@jeenujoy4982 Жыл бұрын
Still it hurts the child in me
@Shivhari2328 Жыл бұрын
@@jeenujoy4982 it always will, I just can't shake it off
@jeenujoy4982 Жыл бұрын
@@Shivhari2328 😩
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
😢
@shch19695 ай бұрын
I sent it to my female colleagues who taunted me for having baby before i got my promotion saying that, career stays in life, children leave you... Now i told them "exactly! Career stays, children leave you with a guilt that you tortured them for building your career"
@myraavirmani3378Ай бұрын
I loveeeee this monologue!!!!!! It’s so powerful and the way Alia delivered it, the pent up anger and frustration was shown so realistically and in such a relatable way 💘
@bulbulhela935 Жыл бұрын
Exactly same feeling for my parents 😥😥😥
@KartikJain-ey2fw Жыл бұрын
After this that mans dialogue that she never failed any class again just angered me to another level
@rakshawestlife Жыл бұрын
Too much wow that was
@shikhathakur3727 Жыл бұрын
I went through same trauma....I didn't even know... because of selfishness of my parents .... I'll become antisocial.....that feeling riped me apart .....and the worst feeling is ..I don't hate them ...I blame them but can't hate them ... My husband has a bright childhood...I longed for the love I didn't get from my parents and my husband usually think I am chipku ..... It's a real struggle... sometimes I cry for stupid reasons and for no reason at all ...now to complain sounds foolish 😂
@Brenzmomyy Жыл бұрын
Exactly like my life😮
@yomaddy Жыл бұрын
Couple of therapy session would ease your trauma. I promise you you'd feel much better after releasing your repressed emotions with a right therapist. Your clinginess, your inner wounds will be reduced after 2 sessions. Mental health is as important as physical health. Don't ignore it please. I wish you all the love, wishes and health. ❤
@sumanagrawal239211 ай бұрын
@@yomaddy can you suggest of some good therapist, affordable ones.
@yomaddy11 ай бұрын
@@sumanagrawal2392 well where I live, there's one lady therapist, she's only available for offline session. I have taken sessions couple of years ago and price was only 400 per session and she provides good psychotherapy session. Unfortunately she's not into online therapy.
@sayorimukherjee4142 Жыл бұрын
She acts really well. ❤
@girlsify2636 Жыл бұрын
So relatable and felt the same so many times!!🥲🥲😶
@khushijain-mt8dy3 ай бұрын
At least someone spoke in the behalf of lots of people 🕶️👍
@carolinecharly4682Ай бұрын
Omg, Alia’s acting is to notch 🤯🔥
@varunprakash6207 Жыл бұрын
Alia Bhatt her acting skills ❤ powerful monologue
@SahilShahh Жыл бұрын
Overacting 😢
@Chachus-vy1xw Жыл бұрын
@@SahilShahhno
@dishamukherjee5939 Жыл бұрын
Just like her mother
@carolinecharly4682Ай бұрын
@@SahilShahhhere comes that acting star who accuse new actors can't act
@SakshamGupta-z4k Жыл бұрын
I have not seen this movie but after this scene i am going to watch it for sure ....❤
@nomadd27828 Жыл бұрын
you must. the movie is like a subconscious therapy.
@nawshinnawarzihan Жыл бұрын
Agreed...... Specially if you have some kind of childhood trauma from parents which at this point I believe most south asian children of our generation have
@SBhattacharyyaaaaa67 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe this is acting 🙏❤ Alia...best ever
@offernev1246 Жыл бұрын
Never shame your children in front of your family or parents even in front of their friend.
@Iloveyoutube15 Жыл бұрын
Dialogue writer deserves an award ❤
@mg-cx5tv Жыл бұрын
I was literally crying during this scene when I first watched the movie .
@Girlll-4108 ай бұрын
She's absolutely right! I cannot explain how much it hurts to be cursed by your parents all the time when they're the ones who make us happen in their lives! It's like I'm just in their lives just because of them yet they blame me for everything wrong happening in their lives! I like the idea of not existing in this world.....💔
@priyamal962 ай бұрын
most of the kids after 80 and 20 is going through trauma from parents especially elder siblings. i myself started to distanced from my family at a very young age. the day i left home was the most happiest day in my life. i never felt like going back..
@ramadevisubhadra68088 ай бұрын
this is what all parents have to listen to and change for good
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
They'll change after they've been cremated.
@AvanthikaPP-p1d4 ай бұрын
Alia's acting is wonderful and realistic....💗give her hearts full of likes❤❤
@ekta85 Жыл бұрын
Fucking true kyonki parent banne k liye koi certificate ya qualification to chahiye ni duniya mein 80% log to is layak hi ni hote ki vo maa baap bane being a parent is a huge responsibility nd everybody is not that responsible bas sex kiya hogye bcche kbi kbi to galti se pregnent hogye to hogye bcche ab jese marzi vese paalte hai jese marzi mahaul mein rakhte hai or jab khud achi parvarish krne mein fail hojate hai to blame bccho ko krte hai
@Itsme-rr4bg Жыл бұрын
I feel u bro
@lakshmikrithika25218 ай бұрын
I do agree. There is no medal for creating kids. Even cats and dogs can do that. Humans are different only because they create a child with intellect. But when they don’t they’re as good as dogs and cats😂
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
Bilkul sahi. Sex deprived men in those days hardly knew anything about birth control and kids kept popping up, left to the mother to raise and rake care and if these kids posed even the slightest discomfort in their lives, the father would become the soul reaper.
@hinakashif2579 Жыл бұрын
At first I thought it was about sexisim because they were constantly praising & adoring their son for litterally the most random stuff & belittiling her for the same things
@vaishalipushpa-or2tc11 ай бұрын
Whenever I saw this scene I can feel it . the same thing. 😢can't get over this for the entire life.
@Wishworld199911 ай бұрын
2:50 Really natural
@animallover3904 Жыл бұрын
Alia is such an amazing actor 👏 Just wow 👌 It's astonishing people don't acknowledge how good she is..😮
@ummati37654 ай бұрын
My parents abandoned me once for ten days.... Just because I have OCD and I keep asking same questions again and again and again It's been four years, I am doing great in life now alhumdulillah, my parents say that they are my best friends 😢but how can I believe now, I am fully broken from inside
@sadiquemuqadam Жыл бұрын
Very strong acting...movie was slow but was on a very realistic level
@armink61011 ай бұрын
Why the heck do i have tears in ma eyes why do i feel like crying....I too have toxic parents and maybe one day ill just Break down into tears bro 😢
@ramachandrans87174 ай бұрын
I did it in my school as monoact and adding some extra dialogues you know Thanks Netflix for the english subtitle
@mariyamandabdullah72843 ай бұрын
Giving children to grandparents and then taking them back was a tradition in 90's. Victims are still suffering!
@aabeljacob94924 ай бұрын
And that was one hell of a monologue‼️
@soulofmusic274112 күн бұрын
WE FEEL GUITY WHILE BEING RUDE TO OUR PARENTS AND THEY NEVER FELT IT
@Keno_psia9 ай бұрын
She nailed that scene❤
@Yyujbsingh19799 ай бұрын
This is what I call Bollywood...... I still remember that Alia from Highway, Udta Punjab...... NAILED EVERY SINGLE ROLE........
@SakshiVerma-qn5lbАй бұрын
1:58 😢😢😢right my parents same😢😢😢
@gitafernandes814311 ай бұрын
Alia Bhatt is such a wonderful actress.
@sruthisasidharan6473 Жыл бұрын
I could so much relate myself to this!! Favouritism prevails everywhere.
@iamPrinceK Жыл бұрын
From SOTY to Gangu Alia Acting Skills 🔥📈💥
@Aura-by3ek Жыл бұрын
I thought she was dragging it when I saw this a year back. Now that my mom transferred to different district, and I'm experiencing the same thing she did, I understand exactly how she felt.
@Ottoke_Ottoke.8 ай бұрын
It all started with that uncle!! She was never jealous of her brother infact she was so proud of him.. 0:43 It was that uncle person defining that there is a correct way to live one's life n that kaira was wrong bcoz she was a cinematographer n that she was not pursuing a career which is rather mainstream. N the way he gave that look while indirectly pointing out at her
@sejalq83843 ай бұрын
I disagree,she was not jealous. She was just angry with her parents for not paying attention towards her and abandoning her. She never ever hated her brother and was never ever jealous of him
@Ottoke_Ottoke.3 ай бұрын
@@sejalq8384that's what I said, she was never jealous of him.
@GoldenCat-g3n Жыл бұрын
Parents always think that there life is tough but childrens life too is not that easy I my self have suffered due to my parents and because of that i don't have anything now not a career not any job or business no relationship i have been ended being alone 😢 99% parents thinks that they doing good to there children but 90% children life is spoiled by there own parents and due to that many children go in the wrong way like smoking drinking to dipression So my request to all the parents to the world first just accept your childrens how they r don't Change them atleast let them to leave there life in freedom that is the most simplest thing u can do 🙏
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
Don't worry buddy. Things will get better soon. There's delay in God's house never darkness.
@Vanessachris Жыл бұрын
Alia is definitely an actor
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
@AnonymousAlien2099😅
@shreyapandey20059 ай бұрын
Am so sad cause I can relate to this....nope,I didn't have a beautiful childhood and yes it was because of my parents and yeah,I have no shame in accepting that I don't respect them
@mamta36325 ай бұрын
Childhood trauma can impact life forever. I hope we realize that generational trauma has been passed on to us by our parents. And it has to stop with us! Our children should not carry our burden anymore!
@eriol_h3 ай бұрын
Having kids is a personal choice but I don't think I'll ever have my own considering what I've been through.
@PankajShukla-x9u10 ай бұрын
What an actor alia bhatt ❤
@SukanyaGovindarajulu-do9jv Жыл бұрын
Bitter but truth..😢😢 if you choose wrong partner in life the first one to leave you is your parents..