But they haven't stopped arguing according to themselves! What growth or healthy relationship are you talking about?
@mauri30683 ай бұрын
as someone in a long term and healthy relationship, i can say that arguing is completely normal for all relationships. it is simply impossible for any relationship to exist without arguments. it’s unrealistic to say that you will always get along and agree with someone. the fact that two people that are different from each other and have different opinions on things communicate their differing thoughts and opinions helps the two understand each other better and improve their relationship, like what we saw with dai and shun. of course it is important to keep in mind that arguments don’t turn into abusive interactions. only then does it become a problem. seeing as shun is becoming more lively, dai’s declaration of love, and them themselves mentioning that their relationship is going strong, their relationship is most likely doing fine. as outsiders, we don’t have a right to say anything about relationships that don’t concern us. the most we can do is give them our full support and respect because at the end of the day, they know more about what is best for themselves and their relationship than we do!
@c.yz.1660_daishun3 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezmarguing and bickering between couples is a sign of a healthy relationship though. You got to understand that in a relationship it's not always sunshine and butterflies. There are ups and downs.. When both of them can go through the bad together they will be a stronger couple as they grow older. And please.. When Dai and shun talked about the arguments, didn't you see their face lit up with happiness? Their arguments didn't draw them apart. Their arguments made brought them closer.. I think they knocked the pot to the floor not during the fight.. But during their make up sessions.. If you know what I mean.. 😂
@Sashtfu_2 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezmeven my parents who have been married for 25 years still argue and bicker all the time. It's a part of a relationship that noone can avoid. It's a healthy sign of a relationship if the couple resolve their right in a healthy way.
@goma09203 ай бұрын
ボーイズ達入ってくる時のMC陣の反応が視聴者側と同じ熱量www
@christellenavarra91613 ай бұрын
merci pour le moment du visionnage, pour ce live de ce qu'ils sont devenus, pour cette télé réalité qui est une pure merveille, pour les participants qui sont si différents mais tous respectueux, charmants et gentils. Cette émission était plein d'émotion et d'amour et d'amitié, cela fait super du bien
@christellenavarra91613 ай бұрын
Je leur souhaite pleins de bonnes choses et surtout d'amour et d'amitié Je souhaite à dai et shun d'être heureux, ils forment un beau couple ❤
He's a sweetheart and such an amazing human. Fun, joyful, vibrant and a vibe.... I totally do adore him and his hugs just seem to hit differently......
It's not that I don't like Shun. What I don't like is that Dai is in that relationship that is not healthy at all. Shun is not ready, they continue to fight daily and that is not a healthy relationship. Shun needs help, and as long as they continue to indulge him in every drama, only Dai will become emotionally exhausted. It's not good for both of them. On the other hand, Ryota's insistence despite being rejected several times was also very uncomfortable to see as an audience, I can't imagine what it could have been like for Kazuto who had to live with him.
@tatacooky92513 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezmyou might not know this but 2 months after the show ended Shun was the one who suggested Dai to take things at home.He was the one to suggest for an official relationship.
@tatacooky92513 ай бұрын
The OG's are always the best...The way no other season could surpass the hype of Hisman2...
@nanetterodriguezm3 ай бұрын
@@tatacooky9251 I'm sorry, but that doesn't mean anything. I know closely a relationship where one had narcissistic characteristics. This person was the one who asked to move in together. *I'm not saying* that Shun has these characteristics, I'm just giving an example.
@vivi-ip3fg2 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezm I don't think you really get a say in another persons relationships based on what you think is best for the person, because to be quite frank you don't know either of them and they do not owe it to you to date the person who you deem perfect for them. at the end of the day I believe everybody has their own person, no matter how undateable others may deem them.
@nidhikashyap54363 ай бұрын
"I thought that maybe it would be okay to be hurt by this person" -Dai We all resonated when he said he was afraid of getting hurt that's why he buried himself in work and other tasks but then when he met Shun he felt that this person is worth to get hurt for. Dai, you have all my love darling 💗
@ds9wormhole3 ай бұрын
Indeed, this was the very best quote of the show for me. 🥰🥰
@sb-rd9do3 ай бұрын
All these explanations makes me so emotional 🥹 🥹🥹🥹
@Jsarmy871243 ай бұрын
No one worth to get hurt for
@trixy18233 ай бұрын
@@Jsarmy87124 ~ 🤔True that we do not want to tangle with a committed narcissist (sadly, for all of us, they are the ones who need love the most) but that’s different than so many of us who need help to overcome our reaction to any possible threats. The skittish turtles of this world. A loving person who accepts us unconditionally can help us restore our faith and courage❤️🩹💪🏽💖
@brittanyhill91062 ай бұрын
@@Jsarmy87124People you love & who love you might hurt you, and it’s not on purpose. It’s taking a chance on love with the possibility of getting hurt and being vulnerable as we’re not all perfect.
@11C-r7m3 ай бұрын
姫テホンが今のギャルまでになるまでの経緯だけで1時間エピソード作ってくれませんか
@ゆい-m1x5n2 ай бұрын
素晴らしい提案です
@上田のり子-f7t3 ай бұрын
ユーサクまじ似顔絵が上手すぎる、デフォルメと本人の特徴を表現するバランスがすごい
@sarahkoho77943 ай бұрын
Im still confused on why people thought that they weren’t together anymore when it was so clear to me that they were. Just how comfortable they were with each other and how Dai was leaning towards Shun after seeing themselves kissing, it was so clear.
@nisharai54633 ай бұрын
Yeah!! Like i was clear on my mind that they were dating but still due to people saying that dai cried because they aren't together which also lead me to concussion!!!
@sarahkoho77943 ай бұрын
@@nisharai5463 it is like it was coming from people who didn’t watch the show. Do they really think that Shun would have sit down next to Dai that comfortably if they weren’t together anymore? Shun is not a fake person.
@ST-qo3yl3 ай бұрын
@sarahkoho7794 i made this exact argument like w shun and his personality do u really think he can happily laugh beside dai if they weren't dating like some people were actually not using their heads 😭😭😭
@riya_nanda92143 ай бұрын
So true I too never felt so accurate about any couple I was like they are definitely dating, these negative comments were most of the from fake account these people can't see someone happy they always have to take their negative ass everywhere they did same with his man couple
@velink59723 ай бұрын
@@nisharai5463 In my opinion, Dai cried thinking of the conversation they had at that time. Not out of pity, but sympathized Shun that he had a harsh life growing up, making Dai wants to love him more.
@JenniferMarrs-h2o3 ай бұрын
Shun holding on to Dai’s hand with both of his shows exactly how comfortable and protective he feels about him, Dai is definitely his safe place. I have not stopped smiling. 🫶
daishun have been together ever since the show ended. they’re also living together now and i can’t be happier for them 😭🤍 they make such a beautiful couple!!
@shunikaharley42773 ай бұрын
So it's been like a year now? Sooo happy fr them
@Meandino8043 ай бұрын
Wait how long after the show was this video filmed?
@joonie73 ай бұрын
@@shunikaharley4277 yes they filmed this show in october so they have been together for almost 9 months 🤭😭
@c.yz.1660_daishun3 ай бұрын
@@Meandino804almost a year ago.. But the first three months after the show, Dai took Shun to love with his family.. After that, they started living together just the two of them.. So roughly they'd been living together for 8 or 9 months probably..
@Iris-uj5sv3 ай бұрын
@@Meandino804 this video is recent, just after the show ended (days ago) and the filming of the dating show was probably last summer july
テホンさんの人間性が凄い好きでした。自分もなんでもかんでも白黒つけたがって正論で考えてしまうので「正論はあとからでもいい」を胸にしまって生きていきます😢この番組にでてくれてありがとう💐 대홍이라는 사람을 좋아했어요. 이 프로그램에 나와줘서 고마워요. 「정론은 나중에 해도 좋다」라는 말로 나도 상냥해져 살아갈 수 있을 것 같다😭
Sim, sou brasileiro e estou cansado de programas falsos, cheio de brigas. Neste, as pessoas pareceram genuinamente interessadas em se conhecer! Amei the boyfriend❤
@spacegirl923 ай бұрын
I'm from the US and can say not all of us like the scheming, fighting, over-the-top competition, and dramatics of most other reality shows. I haven't watched a full season of a reality TV show since maybe the mid-00s, but I could not stop watching The Boyfriend. I kept telling friends I feel like it was reality TV made specifically for someone like me because it was so full of kindness and genuineness and things seemed to progress more naturally than in more extreme shows.
@nehasweet80193 ай бұрын
Both dai and shun have both taken in a bit of eachother's personalities. Dai seems more mature and calm while shun seems more confident, happy and open
@Marie_mars3 ай бұрын
True... I see the shift in Shun's energy but I think what we see now is actually Dai's personality. Remember Shun said, he's different when they are in a group setting but really likes him more when it's just the two of them because it's a different Dai. Yes, he speaks his mind when it's needed,laughs a lot, but he is quite shy and an introvert
@AdesinaGraceAdeola3 ай бұрын
Exactly, I knew it would happen. Shun can now respond to conversations and Dai can now control his Amusements😅 instead of shouting😂
The whole duration from when DaiShun held hands instead of answering in words to Shun proudly sharing that he had lunch with Dai's mother yesterday, i love that they still have those cute fights because that DaiShun in real, they fight and fix things just on time. 💗
You know the saying “People won’t change”. This is proof people can change. Shun NEEDED unconditional love and acceptance. Dai gave that to him from day one. Lovely that Dai’s family accepted Shun. So happy. You can see how HAPPY they are …still…after 10 months! I have total faith that they will last and create a beautiful family together.
@nanetterodriguezm3 ай бұрын
@@cathystussi7165 Shun hasn't changed anything. Both have confirmed that they fight daily. That's not a healthy relationship.
@cathystussi71653 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezmI doubt very highly that their “fights” are big. .I’m sure in the interview it was an off the cuff statement. At the end of the day as they communicate, which Dai seems to be very good at they will be good. I have high hopes for them.
@nanetterodriguezm3 ай бұрын
@@cathystussi7165 Obviously I wish them the best, and I hope I'm wrong about that. They both deserve to be happy
@cathystussi71653 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezm I’m a mom to a gay man whose married to a fantastic guy. I root for any couple that’s in a loving, caring relationship. With all Shun’s. abandonment issues I’m so happy that Dai is patient and I believe that Shun has found a perfect partner that can challenge his sometimes b.s. Dai talks so calmly but in a firm way that Shun gets the message.❤️is❤️ P.S. Shun really is a “princess”🤣. My son is too.
Daishun reminds me of junseonho from hisman 2 . They have a lot of similarities.
@nzk_0a3 ай бұрын
ほんっっとにそれな❗️❗️
@TheMdterp3 ай бұрын
I must say as an American watching this show, it was one of the best gay themed reality shows I've ever seen. This group of Asian men are very unlike most of the Americanized Asian men I have met. I loved how there was no ridiculous drama and fighting on the show. The way that these men were so open and genuine with their feelings was really impressive. Asian men are often feminized in culture for a variety of reasons, but I really liked how in tune they all were with their feelings, are very comfortable with outward expressions of emotion like crying and hugging each other, and were ready to put themselves out there even if they didn't get the response they wanted. I also really liked how if feelings weren't reciprocated, none of them tried to sugar coat it to the other person. They thanked the other guy for his honesty, but said the same feelings were not there. As for Dai and Shun, as a clinical therapist, I see many red flags there, but as a fan watching the show, I was really rooting for them. Shun has clearly had a rough start to life and had to learn a lot on his own. He didn't have anyone to instill self confidence and communication skills so he handles things the only way he knows how. I'm glad that Dai didn't give up on him and I think maybe part of Shun's hot and cold behavior was to see if Dai would quickly give up. It was Shun's defense mechanism because you can see how sensitive he is. Opposites attract and I think that Dai and Shun's different energy balance each other out. As for the others, Usak is a gentle giant. I hope he finds someone. He seems like a great guy. Gensei has such a good heart and I think he'd pair up well with someone else artsy, which is why I was rooting for him and Ryota. Taeheon is extremely wise. I would've been interested in him. I like his energy. Ikuo expresses himself very well but I needed more time to figure him out fully. Alan is a ball of energy that probably wouldn't mesh well with me, but my goodness his outlook on life is incredible. He seems genuinely like a person who goes with the flow and wants to just get the most out of life. I love that. Kazuto is very much like me. I need time before I can say I love someone. There's so much I need to know first, but I'm glad he was willing to open himself up for something with Alan. That was another opposites attract pairing I liked. I hope there will be a season 2 with a new set of guys.
@cjceasarneubronner25383 ай бұрын
Very well said, agree with you on the red flags , hope they will be happy together or not. All the best for each guys! I’m amaze at uzak drawings! Really gifted!
@sprainha3 ай бұрын
perfectly articulated
@chwang1990taiwan3 ай бұрын
Love you comments
@wingsofmemoriesoh58313 ай бұрын
This was very well stated. I wish the best to everyone!
@emembots993 ай бұрын
This resonates with me. The DaiShun fever made me stay until the very end. I wish for the both of them to have an amazing journey. After all, relationship is trial and error where you always wish for it to work at the end despite the not-so-nice things.❤❤❤
Dai is going to suffer a lot. Shun is not emotionally ready
@sanlang12953 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezmthat’s just normally how relationships are. and to say that shun isn’t emotionally ready is very judgmental, if u took the time to understand where he’s coming from it’s actually quite easy to feel the way he feels. they are young and still getting to know each other. even married couples act like that lol
@nanetterodriguezm3 ай бұрын
@@sanlang1295 "that’s just normally how relationships are." Sorry dear, but not. Not relationships that are healthy. If a couple argues daily and one of them throws the sashimi... mmm, it's not a happy or healthy marriage. And I perfectly understand Shun's story, and where he comes from. That is why I reaffirm that at his age and with little experience and without healing yet, he is not ready for healthy relationships. With years and experience you will learn that it is not necessary to argue with your partner constantly. That's romanticizing a toxic relationship. That is why communication and emotional responsibility is the key. Yes, they are young, but Dai doesn't act like that with Shun. That's why Dai's friends worried about his relationship with Shun. Hopefully time will prove me wrong, and Dai will not sacrifice himself due to his empathetic personality.
@にゃも-y3w3 ай бұрын
@@nanetterodriguezm I understand what you said. Shun definitely has attachment disorder and Dai might be tired of him and leave someday. but even if they break up, they will learn a lot of things through their relationship (especially Shun)and it will be a good spice for the rest of their life. but me personally hope they date for long time. hope Dai's positive bright vibe wear off on him and change Shun.
ユーサクさんのMC陣へのイラスト ほんっと素敵です😭😭😭 Green Roomを出た後の 皆さんの生活も聞けてよかった〜 今日で箱推しに変わりました
@oto....3 ай бұрын
ダイのあの衣装、あんなの似合っちゃう人日本人になかなか居ないよ!
@テキーラ-p1c3 ай бұрын
テホンさんマジギャルで可愛い。ゲンセイも全てが可愛い。
@Caty_82 ай бұрын
No😅he is sly and devious! He had his eyes on Dai from the start and he wrote his name. Watch the conversation between Shuo and himself again bro didn’t outrightly give the advice it was Shuo who spoke out the words and got up to do it! He just needed courage but he kicked himself into action!😊 as for Taeheon he has plenty of time to advise Shuo but never did. Only to tell him on his way out to be polite? Why is that? Oh now he dates Dai’s age mate? Dude has got issues. Don’t forget he told Ikuo he got his back. Did they plan together for him to write a love letter to Dai? What more are they skimming? I don’t trust Taeheon 😂and Ikuo is a skimmer and two faced 😅 But it is really a good show👍 is he a nice guy Dai? Or you like empty flattery? He even brought the whole gang to the last coffee sale? Trying to make sure Shuo and Dai didn’t get to talk and enjoy a quiet time alone again? 😢😂 dude is funny 😢🤣
Sum of the live; DaiShun are still together. After the program ended, Shun lived with Dai's family for 3 months, and they still live together. They said they fought almost every day but were on good terms. Kazuto and Alan decided to remain friends after the program. Although the other members have dated a few people, they do not have boyfriends at the moment. 19:19 Shun said that he wanted to win against Ikou in Go cart, but not because he was jealous. 40:21 The night they slept together, the reason Kazuto took a step back against Alan's behavior was because it had only been 3-4 days since they met. 45:48 Members were asked which member they would like to be if they had the chance; Gensei chooses Ryota Ryota chose Alan Alan chose Shun Shun didn’t choose anyone.
@Loro7653 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for this 😘
@lucysapam24113 ай бұрын
Does Shun always say he is not jealous..... 😂😂😂😂😂 We get him. I am so happy they are together.
not only they are dating, but living together as well. i am definitely confident that both dai and shun will become stronger with each other by their side..... congratulations my boys ❤️🥹🤭.
@anamatei69333 ай бұрын
Le doresc sa se căsătorească și să adopte câți copiii doresc ei! Sunt foarte frumoși împreună! Vă iubesc ❤❤❤❤ Nu se atrag corpurile 😊ci SUFLETELE 💞😘
27:35 “they were practically a couple. In their own world” 🥹😂😅 Yup, this show was practically their personal platform to get together - everyone else was a chess piece to make that happen - there to give them advice or help them along the way. In fact, the world is Dai & Shun’s playground, we’re all just observers. 😂 Our little Golden Retriever x Black Kitty couple! 🥹🥹🥹🥹 so precious!