I learnt this years ago and trust me, it was the best decision I made. It’s not easy to be accused of, hated, abused the list goes on, yet u choose to ignore, remain silent and aim for peace , it takes much more than emotional maturity, I would say it’s a behavior given to u by the Holy Spirit,, however, u always win cos they begin to wonder why u never speak nor react yet smile with them and even help them in need or trouble😊😊😊Vengeance is of the Lord, and he does it so perfectly and victoriously ❤❤❤❤praise the Lord
@Keepingontogreatness2 ай бұрын
@@margaretinyang9964 well said!
@arlenethompson43212 ай бұрын
I love this and you are so true ❤
@nokuthulaannamanyangadze2 ай бұрын
Ameen❤
@denisehunter29682 ай бұрын
@@margaretinyang9964 Amen 🙏🏽 I’m learning that it’s a fruit of the spirit which is self control. Beautiful testimony, and a Blessing to me.Thank you.
@bascombemytton57322 ай бұрын
Amen
@denisehunter29682 ай бұрын
God I Thank you for letting this come on my time-line. This is my current situation. My family has been through a lot because my brother sold our mom house. When I tried to get my mom to stay with me, the next day she asked me to take her home, and I did because I was not trying to make my mom do something that she didn't want to do. Long story short I was called every name because I was trying to do the right thing about my mom. My mom have 6 children (our Brother passed in 2022. Im the oldest and the rest of my siblings have the same dad. I have always been the outside child bc my mom had me before she married my siblings dad. I was abused terribly by her husband, he's dead now but the hate that he instilled in them is more evident to this day. Every time I tried to get my mom to stay with me they fought me on every hand. Finally my sister who lives in Virginia told me that she came in at 3:00 am in the morning and snuck our mother out of Mobile and took her back to VA. Now she is telling lies on me that I called DHR on her, and no I did not. My daughter and I have always had a tumultuous relationship so she befriended my daughter against me even more. One of my neices put a post on FB about me, and I didn't know anything about it until she messaged me on messenger to see why I hadn't responded to her post. I didn't even know that she had posted about me bc I don't follow her on FB. So when she messaged me I asked my family did they know what she was talking about. One of my Granddaughters said she saw the post earlier that morning. So they went back and forth until my son called me and told me what was going on. I told my Grandchildren to not respond anymore bc that's all they wanted. So when I got them to stop responding. The sister who have our Mother called me, and that's when I lost my cool. God I wish that I didn't take her call bc that's when everything went left. She then called my daughter and asked her why did I call DHR on her, and my Daughter believed her. My daughter didn't call me, and ask me did I make the call she just believed what my sister said that. Then my daughter got all 3 of her children together and told them to stay out of it bc I was the one who started the mess. All Lies, and when I talked to my daughter last night she said that she believes that I did call DHR. When I tell you that I can't believe this 😮. I can't I'm hurting so bad right now 💔 but God woke me up around 5:00 am this morning and this was the first thing on my time-line. So I'm here asking for Deliverance and self control just like Dr. Myles Munroe is talking about in this video. I should have not responded to my sister, neice, and definitely my daughter. Lord I ask you this day to help me to have self control even when I've been wronged. It hurts 💔 so bad because I didn't do any of these things that I'm being accused of. I want to become emotionally mature so that I can see myself grow into the Woman that I know that I am. Eventhough I've had a hard life and have been ostracized most of my life. But as I listened to this video I see where I could have not responded to any of this. Lord I'm trying and I'm going to become the Woman that I know to be no matter what. If anyone took the time to read this please say a prayer for me, and Thank you.
@jennifersimms68822 ай бұрын
I pray Gpd's strength and peace for you as you go through season. This too SHALL PASS
@denisehunter29682 ай бұрын
@@jennifersimms6882 Thank you because it feels like I’m fighting the Amalekites low down dirty, sneak attacks. But I’m not going to give up.
@bettyluta63472 ай бұрын
Don't call them to explain, just be silent and pray, peace will come after ❤
@denisehunter29682 ай бұрын
@@bettyluta6347 That was my first mistake. I did try to tell them that I had nothing to do with that, and made it worse. Thank you for having better clarity than I did. But I’m definitely not going to try to get them to understand how the Lies hurt 😢
@Ohui73242 ай бұрын
May our Father God show you mercy and help you to receive strength, renewed grace and victory right now to eternity without any hindrances in Jesus Christ name Amen
@brendacornelius-d9y2 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this as a reminder to remain calm in every situation..
@MsLyn-hn8syАй бұрын
Same here
@shayneflanagan1689Ай бұрын
I must gain more restraints and less reacting when others hurt me. Thanks for the reminder and confirmation.
@MichelleWrightispink2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad I saw this. I read the title and knew I needed to listen to it. It will be saved to listen to again until it's rooted in me!
@KendellLenice2 ай бұрын
Me too!
@conniekayk.44502 ай бұрын
Holy spirit taught me to maintain self control....I've learned not to justify myself or to become defensive. 😊
@sharoneh8929Ай бұрын
I'm so glad that I listened to God... Silence was golden in my situation cause Jesus kept ME💯‼️✝️🙌🏾
@naomiesaint-sume79302 ай бұрын
This is playing in a loop... A friend hurt me recently. Because I care about this person a lot, I am choosing to end the friendship because I love me. Unnecessary words outside of my character that led meto weep. I don't want to retaliate. I want to protect my peace. It is okay to leave any relationship to protect your heart, mind and peace. I am not available for a person to break down as they build themselves back up. I'm still healing too.
@murtzmurtz35912 ай бұрын
With me a similar situation happened, last Friday, I came to work and started the day as per normal my friend (also colleague) walked into my office, said to me something she is about to do (first destroy her marriage after getting a tattoo because she want to be happy with herself), I just said something encouraging that she should rather seek God for her happiness. Thereafter she said she don't care about what people say and she even said I should worry about my own life. Now I was calm when I spoke to her those words, but she came back with a dark force, I could see the rebellion within her. I only said ok, and she left my office. Unfortunately, I care deeply for this friend and her husband and kids wellbeing, I end up having an extreme anxiety attack and my manager and supervisor helped me to breath. This friend however, took offence and she also went and spread rumours about me, she thought while I had the anxiety I told my manager and supervisor about what happened between us, but I didn't speak, there was no time to speak I could hardly breath of anxiety. Well we now back at the office and she is not greeting, she is deliberately speaking with anyone else and not with me at all. I have prayed over the weekend and asked God to guide my heart and to handle the matter of my friend and her family. I never ever would've imagined that I would get so grieved over someone else's family and life choices, but I did and as she yelled at me I should worry about myself. I prayed gave it to God and now just getting over the grieve because I know that me and her we will never be as we once was before Friday.
@naomiesaint-sume79302 ай бұрын
@murtzmurtz3591 I am so sorry that you went through that. Mine also happened last Friday. I was shocked and hurt and they kept at it. I tried to make sense to the why. I really care about this coworker. I told myself they're hurting and that's why they're hurting me, but that's not fair to me and I don't accept that. Mine apologized yesterday, and we spoke about it. It won't be the same as before Friday and I'm grateful it was not a rumor like yours. I'm sorry they started a rumor about you😢 I pray for your peace❤
@lindaboakye18672 ай бұрын
This message is just for me. Cry from all the emotional pains built Inside of me. The individual a love one doesn’t know how to say “ five letter words “sorry” to apologize so instead he completely ignores me like nothing ever happened. Thanks for this message It would have been so helpful earlier. Still very helpful.
@TheBOOMBOOM8Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@efuaanyanful66942 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 we should let God fight our battles
@MercyWanjala-ks6qd2 ай бұрын
Amen❤,iam glad to hear this...I will continue listening to this until it sticks inside my heart
@brendaphiri-xp1dw2 ай бұрын
me too. I was hoping to pin it so i see it and listen everyday. I struggle a lot
@daviddixon579Ай бұрын
This is very POWERFUL and USEFUL for everybody. It’s one of those EASY TO SAY but DIFFICULT TO DO scenarios. In relationships with FAMILY, LONGTERM FRIENDS and BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS it can be CHALLENGING, CONFUSING, COMPLEX & COMPLICATED. People = Problems. The OLDER I get the LESS I try to put myself in SITUATIONS of CONFLICT…
@brendaperson38902 ай бұрын
Grace, I put my emotions in a guided mode. I checked my values and put me in the cheerful not to respond to a negative attack. I chose me first by protecting my emotional energy. I moved on without any animosities. God is the head of my life, i learned that people projects their insecurities against you for their short comings. Thank you sir for helping me to understand that GOD WILL FIGHT MY STRUGGLES, AND THE BATTLE. 🙏🏾
@pamelasavai11752 ай бұрын
Thanks to this words of wisdom. Help me God.No retaliation, God fight all my battles.
@Love-w7gАй бұрын
I have been listening to this over and over and over and over again! This came on my time line. This is exactly what I am struggling when it comes to people. God bless!
@adrienejefferson84473 ай бұрын
I'm praying for ALL THIS IS A TIMELY WORD
@soibirimariulzen9560Ай бұрын
This message came at the right time. Am not happy about something and have been trying to understand why the person did that. Am not angry but somewhat sad. But I just want to maintain my peace and move on.
@nyashamangwandi8011Ай бұрын
Powerful words of wisdom Thanks be to God for Dr Myles Munroe s wisdom
@derekbarnes79862 ай бұрын
I definitely will sister. And i ask the same. At 46 im still getting verbally abused by my mom. As good as ive been to her. Paid all her bills plus financed her bad habits for about 3 years when she had no income. I tried to be the perfect son. Yet she always try to find some fault in me. She act like she hates me when i never did her any wrong. Despite how she treats me, im still good to her. Thats why i pray God bless me with a wife. Bc i desire to love and be loved by a woman. God bless
@jessicamakena3844Ай бұрын
Hi
@denisehunter2968Ай бұрын
@@derekbarnes7986 Praying 🙏🏽 for you, that God will bring your wife to you, and also the detriment that your mom has caused.
@akinyivivАй бұрын
Ooh noooo...I'm so sorry to hear this 💔
@gigi6400Ай бұрын
This message is right on time. God has heard my cry!!!
@AngelinePayangdoАй бұрын
Thank you so much for this teaching. Thank You Jesus for changing me little by little. By the Pover of Your Holy Spirit.
@lindaboakye18672 ай бұрын
Exactly what I need at present. Thank you.
@jaralynlas20202 ай бұрын
Exactly what I needed! Thank you, thank you, and thank you!❤
@AtyangWinnyАй бұрын
This message is real healing to my life.Gods grace is very sufficient!
@winniegitau43032 ай бұрын
This is what I need, it's not easy at all. I have tried to over and over but am hopeful am His grace I will master my emotions according to God's will
@denisehunter2968Ай бұрын
@@winniegitau4303 We will, yes it seems hard but , doable. We’re going to become who/ what we know we are called to be.
@julietmartin51442 ай бұрын
Totally,our actions are accountable to ones behavior.so think straight always in you.I'm bless listening to these sound word 👍❤️
@BenenDelRosario2 ай бұрын
Thank you Lord 🙏🏼 thank you Dr. Myles Munroe for the wisdom. I'm so blessed GLORY to God❤🙌🏻🙏🏼
@NancyBoniface2 ай бұрын
I wish I had this message earlier in life, I just pray for God's mercy IJN Amennn
@emilynafula79322 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏼. May the spirit of God take control of us all the time
@joanpowell6975Ай бұрын
A very powerful and inspiring message . I needed to hear this message 🙏❤.Amen 🙏 ❤
@benjamingurley31332 ай бұрын
❤ Excellent !! Brother Munroe still working ❤ Glory Glory Glory Hallelujah 🔥 Mark 13 , Luke 17 ,Luke 21 , Matthew 24 and John Chapter 6 !! Jesus the door !!! 2024 Stay Up 🔥
@marizanaude1318Ай бұрын
Thank you sir. So much wisdom.
@roylandfraser9638Ай бұрын
this channel is thee best for inspire words
@grahamcmusicАй бұрын
Well spoken ! Very wise Thank you!
@ElizabethOnyeke2 ай бұрын
I'm glad to hear this msg
@ComfortAgyekum2 ай бұрын
Youve healed me !!! Thank you Papa
@jterdoseckjumawan56862 ай бұрын
Great message personally. God and me alone.
@Dorette-q2n2 ай бұрын
Powerful message. I Thank you
@dorcasyehilomo2 ай бұрын
Amen ,the battle is not mine,the battle is in God's hand.thank God for the message 🙏 ❤
@MsJudyWimberley2 ай бұрын
Thank you Jesus, I need this message right now, I see my growth. I didn't totally give all my power a minute ago.
@gwendolynhendfield992 ай бұрын
HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN AND AMEN THIS WAS INTENDED FOR ME, THANK YOU LORD!
@evangogungozi2 күн бұрын
Indeed silence is a proof of nature especially when accused, abused, rejected, neglected etc
@pearlstewart69955 сағат бұрын
I am grateful for this message, Pastor thank you and I truly hope this message will help others
@amakaoffiaukwu45332 ай бұрын
Coming across this message could only be God...this message came at the right time and I pray for wisdom to navigate through the challenges I'm facing presently!
@ThobekileHadebe2 ай бұрын
Thank You for such Wisdom!!!!!
@angelaspence4405Ай бұрын
Glory be to God I needed that also. With the hoilday approaching I’m sure we all are gonna have to remind calm and be humble though some mess at family gatherings. I suggest praying hard before you even get there. And keep trusting God to fight whatever battle comes up.
@nataliewalker48253 ай бұрын
I just had a similar conversation with my daughter.
@damienwelch90672 ай бұрын
I saw 👀 this at work
@MïïCïï-o5gАй бұрын
Thanks for this message.. just right for me..
@LebogangKhumalo-e2m2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Dr Myles for this wisdom, knowledge and understanding may the good God bless you where ever you are , heaven has really gain , your gone but yr Spirit still preach for us❤❤😢
@Bettykageha-e6p27 күн бұрын
Thanks again for the good teaching s
@josephinekamara46Ай бұрын
This message is for me. I am glad that I came across this message.
@lucileduckworth7377Ай бұрын
7:27 PC; Even though I have done this most of my life. Found most people don't have the fullness of it, and use hurt to find other ways to hurt! I continue to be kind, not always saying I am right.
@MzaifanKhosa2 ай бұрын
A special and unique message that cultivates harmonious relationships in prevalent confrontation indeed
@MsLyn-hn8syАй бұрын
Thank you so much for this message. I wished I could’ve came across this about 2 weeks ago.
@JenniferTomilat2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the powerful message.
@S.o.n.n.i.e_G.e.o.r.g.eАй бұрын
Amen Glory to God Hallelujah 🙏🙌
@davleenobwora2056Ай бұрын
Thanks for this.God bless you❤
@galhitsАй бұрын
Lesson picked. Self restraint in the face of pain, hurt, disappointment and anger is not easy. however choosing not to react but respond with grace is doable.
@denisehunter2968Ай бұрын
@@galhits Amen I agree it’s not easy in the face of pain . But it’s doable because we know that we can have that peace that we long for.
@sharionreese39002 ай бұрын
Pray And Move onnnn!!!
@mymusicivlife3385Ай бұрын
Thank you Jesus I need to hear this and learn from it.
@rubystephens26852 ай бұрын
Amen ❤ ❤ I Give God Glory
@victoriasusanbaldwin3765Ай бұрын
GLORY HALLELUJAH ‼️ AMEN AND AMEN 🔥🙏🏻.🙌🏻.
@dorothykennedy95292 ай бұрын
Thankyou Lord for this teaching ❤
@simonlongwe36312 ай бұрын
I will live to remember him intelligent and wise , he was such a leader , extraordinary needed all times
@Karo15-v8m19 күн бұрын
Thanks for your advice
@charmainesimmons11652 ай бұрын
Keep yourself free of hate or malice but not a victim to their whims…that is done by prayer and reflections in Gods word.
@evangogungozi2 күн бұрын
Thanks for this inspiration
@MeshellCasonАй бұрын
Thank you Father God, Hallelujah!!! ❤❤❤
@queenesther74842 ай бұрын
Powerful!
@graceabbinyohanna7037Ай бұрын
Thank you for your time on this lesson. I feel guilty, being very fast at responding so quickly even as advocate on SGBV survivors. I am unlearning to learn more.
@ArsalanArs-g5n2 ай бұрын
Inspirational ❤
@bennysakutukwa10882 ай бұрын
So timely in my life
@veemiller6077Ай бұрын
Dearest sister of my heavenly Father. I cried as I read what was written by you. It was if you knew what my family has accused me of. Pray, Pray and then Pray. God said that he will give us houses that we did not build and wells that we did not dig. He will send you family that longs to know you by your heart rather than your rights or wrongs. He sent you me. A new family member. Together we shall pray that the Lord will destroy what is trying destroy your family's peace. Write anytime.
@tanyaoliveras985420 күн бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@valeriejones786Ай бұрын
Lord I am so glad that I run across this I needed this God forgive me for everything
@marciahendricks917Ай бұрын
Thank you Lord i need this❤
@OmotolaChristianahАй бұрын
Thank you Jesus for making me come in contact with this powerful message.You knew the messages I needed during this trying time. LORD I REMAIN GRATEFUL REGARDLESS OF MY SITUATIONS
@denisehunter2968Ай бұрын
@@OmotolaChristianah Praying 🙏🏽 for you.
@rterry5877Ай бұрын
Today, I confess I'm guilty. Today I chose to release MYSELF. God forgive my emotional immature ness. In Jesus Christ name amen.
@4WarriorofGod4Ай бұрын
Amen I pray the same Lord forgive me for reacting being immature. Holy Spirit I ask that you help me have self control give me wisdom and the fear of God to zip it. Thank you Lord in Jesus name
@gracetracy2342 ай бұрын
THE TRUTH REVEALED! THIS IS LOVELY..❤️⛪️
@RichmondLin-g7tАй бұрын
Your message has great potential, but it can be even more impactful in a concise format. Embrace the power of brevity and clarity!
@KerriAboud-ql7ddАй бұрын
Can relate to that
@RutendoSevenzayi2 ай бұрын
So powerful
@margaretonobume82812 ай бұрын
You are right 👍
@arlenerolle75982 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@petuaakom58032 ай бұрын
Great learning
@myrnabudna36023 ай бұрын
Amen hallelujah make sense
@tsilambilugirlinah18552 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Surrendered452 ай бұрын
Yes indeed❤amen
@lashellewilliams7069Ай бұрын
Amen! !!!
@thomasthetankengine1372 ай бұрын
thank you lord for your love ❤️❤❤❤
@kahsayhailemariam59192 ай бұрын
I thank God for Dr myles before l learn by his books now with youtube & his sermen glory to Jesus !
@thabiengwenya568426 күн бұрын
Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@BukolaBalogun-iq6ttАй бұрын
I thought I was wrong by acting muron not reacting on anything I just knew it naturally gave peace,, the one who wronged you and see that you weren't reacting will naturally be unrest, because he,/she wouldn't understand your reason of not reacting, but it gives inner peace,, thank you for your words I really appreciate and really feels happy because I could mirrors myself,, Its , 💯 perfect ironic of lives🎉🎉🎉
@ShafondaSheppard-s7fАй бұрын
God has them!
@lucileduckworth7377Ай бұрын
You are right, ❤Margaret...it's always right.
@LalpuioАй бұрын
In word, can be said but so hard in action, when the time comes it's hard.But trying is a must.
@gracedzaramba9366Ай бұрын
Thank u Lord my health and my mind has been totally disturbed coz of my kids and my husband they gang up on me and Iam so so hurt coz I am always angry on them thank u frm now iam going to try not to be angry on them and also try to control my anger coz of my health thank u Lord
@adonoahjos58962 ай бұрын
I always watch this for my video :) XD :D
@reneanorman2 ай бұрын
It's hard to remain silent when they're dragging your name on social media.
@dsquarechannel99042 ай бұрын
How did your name get to social media at first?
@reneanorman2 ай бұрын
@@dsquarechannel9904 a person who I thought was a sista close friend
@Nambozobev2 ай бұрын
keep holding on
@conniekayk.44502 ай бұрын
Silent is gold...they might drag your name in the mud but they won't take anything from you unless you sell out your peace by retaliating.
@denisehunter2968Ай бұрын
@@reneanorman I know what that feels like. Same thing happened to me by so called family x. I didn’t even know that I was being dragged on social media until my son called me & told me. But we’re going to be alright.🤗🤗🤗
@jaytasiamgotchgotch47962 ай бұрын
I have this man who keeps threatening me hurting me laughing at me treating me like nothing and I pray God removes all pain from me and bless me with some one who is heal and ready to live by his laws
@rochellelove37852 ай бұрын
Is this a mate or neighbor? Can you call the police or move somewhere else to be safe without letting them know where you went? I'm praying for all hedge of protection around you.