Something my grandmother instilled in me. "Never tell people what your doing, tell them when its done"
@selenyalcin3667Ай бұрын
I did this mistake so many times in the past, and still need to get better at it. This time, no more sharing before things get real.
@preawchatgorhor9148Ай бұрын
Me too
@staceyrobinson8912Ай бұрын
Silence is wisdom. Proverbs 17:28
@memeaweke5363Ай бұрын
And 18:2
@blesd4successАй бұрын
We are created in the image of God and God SPOKE everything into existence.
@GoldStandardBuenosAiresАй бұрын
THIS, I agree with.
@camillen.isaacs-morellАй бұрын
I should have heard this when I was in my 20's
@reinadelpalacioАй бұрын
I know 😢 me 2
@Elle-ft7fgАй бұрын
Honestly, I thought about that. Personally, I wouldn't have heard it it the same in my 20's as I hear it now
@MadameAllen-g8cАй бұрын
Don't talk about it. Be about it.
@GoldStandardBuenosAiresАй бұрын
THIS, I agree with🍉🌈🐾
@Ariesgang81Ай бұрын
I never understood why people always say don’t tell people what you are working on but I understand now
@cvhaynes8002Ай бұрын
Same! Now I’m wondering if that is an Aries thing lol. Because I’m thinking Idc who knows I’m gonna make it happen. But this makes sense when she explained it.
@evakober9873Ай бұрын
Same here. Why did I learned that lesson at the age of 44😢. It’s better now than never. 🙌🥂💪
@theseniorbarbershopcollett2108Ай бұрын
OK April I can’t stand you. You’ve been really brought to us the screws over a whole bunch times yeah and he came after us to only try to kill us.
@ismaellewe7041Ай бұрын
What if you're an Estate Agent that requires you be out there and tell people what you do.. how are you going to be out there if you do it in silence
@Fegga1955Ай бұрын
@@ismaellewe7041means personal steps not to be shared
@mariposa1933Ай бұрын
A woman of wisdom always moves in silence for a reason. To protect everything she holds precious….😉
@QuoteQuest_worldАй бұрын
It's her voice for me. It resonates within. Very calming.
@tizamorris6554Ай бұрын
Yes, don't want putting there negative energy on my dreams and desires
@MariaGregg-q4hАй бұрын
Right ✋✋
@mysteryman7024Ай бұрын
I'm with her all the way. But the sad part is some people don't really want you to succeed & they'll purposely discourage you SPITEFULLY. I've always kept my mouth shut I guess I always will!🙏
@Fegga1955Ай бұрын
Perfect
@percycepion6070Ай бұрын
This is excellent advice regardless of who or what is speaking it. Focus on the words.
@AmanSS890Ай бұрын
The more better you do it just reminds them of what they were not able to do them self could have done it but didn’t . So your success reminds them of what they could have down . And they start to resent your success. So it’s better not to mention your success to them . Be around people that lift you up not drag you down . You don’t want there negative energy dragging you down .
@builtbyrecoverytexasАй бұрын
Problem is I only learned how to love people that did that. Took some time and lot of reading to understand it all applying all of very difficult when that negative is stacked against you
@donnakidd7464Ай бұрын
When I tell you, Oprah said that thang. Strong wisdom reached by many! Thank u for this! I needed to hear this.
@YelliBogАй бұрын
This is so true Oprah, you are on point with this. This is something people should listen to once a week, it works every time, every day. Thank you so much ❤
@annamaria9899Ай бұрын
Everything said I have experienced, I realized this just recently how múch energy I wasted on explaining myself, how much I was faced with peoples doubts and opinions and their projections on me, here I am standing and gathering my len strenght and energy, I guess I did it because I didnt know better, only after the experience I see that it was part of the process, next tíme I do it better. Thanks for sharing this video, it helped me to anchor something what I came to realize ❤
@ZorbakozakАй бұрын
To me, never telling people what to do is just as important as stopping people from doing the wrong thing or helping them understand the consequences and working hard at convincing them of this.
@vlhoward6431Ай бұрын
Oprah, Thank you for your insight and this powerful advice.
@goldenblue3865Ай бұрын
My parents were extremely evolved individuals 💫💫🌟💫… I was taught this information at age 8. This is true … It really works !
@ladiijАй бұрын
“Lord I hear you… I understand my ASSIGNMENT!” #YourDreamIsYourAssignment
@monapurbakanti9788Ай бұрын
Feels like Oprah knows what I've been through and she's talking to me 💖
@Hello-y2hАй бұрын
Wonderful... I always always go through their negative opinions and limitations they make to me whenever I tell people that I start my diet or plan
@LebogangmatshabisaАй бұрын
Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.
@dottiestaxxАй бұрын
Real talk, every time I told my older sister 1 of my goals she would bad mouth it
@Fegga1955Ай бұрын
Perfect ❤
@tanzaniab.miller6457Ай бұрын
Watch that one.
@judywinters8615Ай бұрын
i respect oprah so much
@DARKANGELOFLIGHT3Ай бұрын
I have said this since I was born and people never understood this concept. Present your idea or concept once you have internally established the baseline.
@PaigeSantiago-w4tАй бұрын
I appreciate how detailed your explanations always are.
@CriosoteАй бұрын
This is a very individualistic perspective. Our visions should be in concert with our communities working towards goals that build all of us up. This is coming from a perspective of famine instead of abundance. Speaking actually helps me develop my vision.
@monarehayem5263Ай бұрын
Gosh . This is what my opinion and what I keep telling my children and this thing I learned it from my gramma . But it doesn’t that I went though stupid situations before when sharing my plans with other . True life is a journey not a distension . Love it .
@NeneMac-r9pАй бұрын
Thank you Jonathan , the message is so meaningful and it validates what Rosie’s Female Minister Years ago , Johnny Coleman said, and I applied it to self and used it as a guide. She said, “Never tell your Dream, because the day you do , there will be many people praying it will never come true. So thank you for your love and understanding, but God ‘s have this!!Amen!!!🙏🏽❤️😍
@cheyennestreeterАй бұрын
7:23 this!!!! This is why I regret telling my mom that I was figure skating.
@jesssmith2064Ай бұрын
Wish I knew this before I blabbed…people showed their true colours
@mydarlingizzyАй бұрын
Sometimes it’s necessary to see who is really on your side
@tanghoАй бұрын
I been thinking this . Appreciate the confirmation
@cynthialogan8596Ай бұрын
Oprah God is with you and in you believe this.
@CoxChiropracticCareАй бұрын
at first I didn’t like how repetitive this was but I kept listening bc I know I needed to keep hearing it! ❤❤❤
@IgoWillieАй бұрын
This is a lesson and I have learned something meaningful today and I thank you.
@Linda-l7vАй бұрын
You don’t have to tell us, we see and read, what you do!!!!
@marisagomes566Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Oprah, for the lesson. ❤❤Regards from Portugal and Angola.
@markm1720Ай бұрын
Profound and so true.
@monikabaster4955Ай бұрын
I love how she speaks, inspiring to myself. It is really hard to live in todays world full of noise - how to choose the proper way. We need to think about our self to make this world better place to live
@sandravillegas2829Ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!!
@aminatouthiam6443Ай бұрын
I will come back tomorrow morning to continue the reading.
@thokozilesiamsipa8877Ай бұрын
Very true ❤
@KathyMcDevittАй бұрын
So true..keep my dreams private.
@StarklyPositiveАй бұрын
Agree to own your own narrative and stop justifying to others about your own decision.
@Tutume1111Ай бұрын
It's true to certain degree but then again some people are keen on helping you to achieve your goals if they see your enthusiasm and belief ..at the end we are social animals and can go further by collaborating with others rather than on our own
@missuniverse8931Ай бұрын
You don’t share with people who are only wanting to know so that they can try to sabotage your success.
@ceoaАй бұрын
Thank you for expressing my thoughts. 🕊️✨ Grab a boost from people with positive vibes only. Even the ones that don't know how much sweat and tears you put in each day, can give encouragement if they're Really enthusiastic for you.
@mydarlingizzyАй бұрын
Staying quiet is so lonely though
@Fegga1955Ай бұрын
Means plan alone,people can ruin plans,done to me.
@MYAFCCAАй бұрын
Thank You Oprah
@SucdiQadiijoАй бұрын
Thanks oprah your give good advice for us
@SuzyHarrisMusisiАй бұрын
I know this since childhood 👌.
@sila502Ай бұрын
Thankyou 🙌🏻💪🏻🫶🏻
@FeefeeDelights9886Ай бұрын
Absolutely so true!
@peachesjohnson9387Ай бұрын
Amen and WELL SAID ❤
@NAVYABHANАй бұрын
Even if it’s her, and she is reading from a script/AI, the information is good and has a very strong utilitarian use in my life for my future plans! I like it!👍🏿
@arte7solАй бұрын
I have always thought this. And have witnesses when I have shared how the energy of the room, of certain people shifts. Vs. When I have kept things to myself. There is a difference when I deliver the end result vs the idea, the concept, the process. I dislike the negative feedback from people who think they know me or have a full understanding on the topic at hand. How about when something has happened and people are wuick to crtici? Also another reason why to keep things to yourself. People are quick to add their opinion when they watch a Wins or loss. But they dont care on the efforts it takes to win or even have a loss. Even with the loss we can learn with out negative feedback.
@sophieb86Ай бұрын
Thanks Oprah!
@ernestgreen254Ай бұрын
Not a Oprah fan but dammit she's 100% correct a very imperative video, appreciated seriously FONTE THE INTROVERTED VISIONARY published poet /diversified ✍️ writer
@elenadmytrieva4836Ай бұрын
On the other hand, I shared one idea with the business owner and she gave me a great idea. I had this idea before, but hesitated. So it depends
@sila502Ай бұрын
So helpsom 🙏🏻
@ConfiançaGlendaCatsandeАй бұрын
Very true
@leabritto1935Ай бұрын
I never tell people anything I think is person to me. I never tell people’s anything! It’s not a secret it’s my privacy of my self and life it’s protecting me my and I! Alway was like that since when I payed attention to not everyone is your friend or wants the right thing to have for you. And it’s funny how people ask the same ???over and over again in different ways trying to get what they want to hear.
@SugurmommaАй бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing.. you are an excellent teacher. May God continue to bless you ❤.
@yeseniasplace2 ай бұрын
Wow so good
@ishalph452Ай бұрын
God of heaven is above all
@elena-251Ай бұрын
Thank you
@ladyt4478Ай бұрын
OW always has the best glasses.
@haidehghaderi367Ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🙏
@gprastogiАй бұрын
Great thought process - thank you 🎉
@SteveElwin-p7dАй бұрын
Thank you my nubian queen
@lydiacaton31112 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@laurenfitzgerald1672Ай бұрын
Wow this is brilliant!! Sometimes I think the notion of being 'vulnerable' to connect with others gets miskewed when in reality there is validity and growth in keeping some things closer to yourself
@tigerlee9613Ай бұрын
Oprah doesn't talk like this and have these concepts in life. She is a talk show host. She talks about people's deepest desires and thoughts.
@memedicine12 ай бұрын
this is sooo sooo good
@mayraestrada-perez6047Ай бұрын
Wow thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
@jacintacz9760Ай бұрын
Great video 💯
@marlenerami3151Ай бұрын
This is so true Oprah
@Ms.NayNaay888Ай бұрын
2:06 my teachings of today - this❤
@CoachingAzZaCareАй бұрын
So true! 🧡
@OleLiviaАй бұрын
AI Voice overs are so dangerous... but the Message is Golden!
@gildagivenАй бұрын
Thank you :)
@adrianimee8665Ай бұрын
Profound 🧐
@JaneESeymourАй бұрын
'Loose lips, sink ships'. My mother would say that. I now know exactly what she was saying.
@welcometomyworld4871Ай бұрын
No. JUST WATCH WHAT THEY DO. That tells a LOT
@TrendspottifyАй бұрын
Sara Blakely says the same in her masterclass. There is obviously something to it - both women incredibly successful
@RadiancegraceАй бұрын
Spot on
@eduardor0605Ай бұрын
❤ this is awesome
@Scarlettsview99Ай бұрын
Very good info
@demolaayorinde3599Ай бұрын
As for me l tell people what l want to do. I get it done with power of God. If l don’t say it . I can do it. I don’t care what people say.
@Fegga1955Ай бұрын
Perfect ❤❤❤no one really cares
@Ms.NayNaay888Ай бұрын
8:52 yes yes yes... Truth ❤
@kbenjamin7677Ай бұрын
It's not Oprah though, but it's true
@MaricelCollado-m1kАй бұрын
Nice quote❤️more true🌸
@venishajohnson1603Ай бұрын
Amen 💜💜💜
@builtbyrecoverytexasАй бұрын
This is great but 1 question. How to proceed with potential investors on ideas you have if buisnesmodels done and really just need seed money.
@MaryOlareАй бұрын
Sounds like Ai, when Oprah speaks it has energy in her voice, this voice lacks energy it actually lowers the vibration of the speech, which is unfortunate because the advice is actually golden. 😥
@MJ-ye7ddАй бұрын
This is AI ,,I could tell 💯
@edgargarcia5741Ай бұрын
True 😢
@melliesweets70Ай бұрын
Yup. But the message is solid
@brendareeves2593Ай бұрын
I made this mistake and learned that people will give you advice based on their own fears.
@adlyneblessing707Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@jehncooper5879Ай бұрын
Wow awesome ❤
@ceoaАй бұрын
Give yourself the freedom to experience life fully, without the limitations of closing yourself off too soon. Remain curious. 🌿 Build privately.🌿 Become in tune with your intuition.🌿
@memedicine12 ай бұрын
Is this AI ? LOL if it is I don't care it's good
@_yashsingh_2 ай бұрын
It really is but its great
@jesssmith2064Ай бұрын
Sounds like a Harvard speech. I agree!
@Trendycosmetics-os6ghАй бұрын
Yeah right. You need a backbone
@DonovanRobinson420Ай бұрын
It is, but don't lose your ability to tell the difference 💯
@brightgreenleavesАй бұрын
It’s so good! Wonder if it’s all her own words though