I sit and cry to this song. It has a very deep meaning one that I think most people can relate to. You break-up and still love the person. You want to be together. You sit there in your head living thru old letters and not wanting to realize what you already know. You want that person to come and tell you how they feel to untie that knot. For them to say whether or not they care or to end your misery and say they don't care and forget it altogether. It's hard not knowing it kills you inside.
@noahburgos96253 жыл бұрын
listened to this song with a crush, with already dating them, with breaking up with them, with struggling in the relationship, and every time i heard it there was new meaning. This is taking back sunday
@h3on22s10 жыл бұрын
This song means the world to me. Nice to see others appreciate it as well.
@gablummy41627 жыл бұрын
John Curtiss this is a wonderful song, needs more appreciation
@EddieG-x2g26 күн бұрын
This is a beautiful song it really is. I love taking back Sunday. The string of the guitar so beautiful and his voice is really nice too it goes perfect with the with the rhythm and the song and the strings.
@VirtualLionelMessi12 жыл бұрын
One of the most emotional songs ever... This is NOT boring. You just need a heart.
@tomvershay42813 жыл бұрын
The months they dont matter, it's the days I cant take when the hours move to minutes and I'm seconds away. This is one of the most empty feelings to feel. Also one of the greatest lines ever wrote.
@c5snow1483 жыл бұрын
the truth to this 8 month old comment and the lyrics...
@adamtheradioguy14 жыл бұрын
If you dont get chills at 2:42 you are absolutely not alive... one of the best bridges i have ever heard.... its just so heartfelt....
@eulogy4anange13 ай бұрын
Beautiful forever
@vennahennessy-stynes76729 жыл бұрын
I think there can be a lot of different meanings taken from this. For me it relates to my anxiety and depression and struggling to get through my life. So yes....it can be about love lost but I think everyone can find their own meaning from it. I love this song so much, makes me cry every time though. The beauty of music and poetry is that everyone takes their own meaning from it.
@briantirado20998 жыл бұрын
Well said my friend. =)
@jayburriswayne54038 жыл бұрын
michelle hennessy this one's all about letting go from a long distance relationship.
@jenbaker20927 жыл бұрын
Honey I think that's the beautiful thing about music as a whole. It's all about how it speaks to your soul and what it says to you. ❤ Always Keep Fighting.
@karmaisreal27616 жыл бұрын
I'm listening to it in her memory
@roberte.68922 жыл бұрын
Whatever it means to you, whatever it speaks to you, that's exactly what it's about
@Dawnannsykes5 жыл бұрын
11 years ago when I was 18, feels like a different lifetime now, but I was talking to a guy I really liked. We both loved Taking Back Sunday and he learned this song to sing and play it for me. Back then I thought I was in love. Boy was I wrong. But this song will always remind me of him, even though we only talked for a few months.
@noahburgos96253 жыл бұрын
i can play this on guitar and im so glad im not alone in that XD
@MichaelDeTorrice11 жыл бұрын
one of the greatest songs ever written. wish i could tell adam and the boys what it means to me.
@danachambers79713 жыл бұрын
@Ian Sexton I’m 30 and same. Somehow this song pretty much plays a constant loop in my head. Take me back to hearing this live before it even held such meaning in my life.
@EddieG-x2g26 күн бұрын
Such a beautiful song
@justindsalinas11 жыл бұрын
The feels on the bus go round and round
@noahburgos96253 жыл бұрын
that is hysterical XD im literally on the bus rn
@TheWysardBrian7 ай бұрын
Going round and round
@EddieG-x2g26 күн бұрын
It's such a beautiful song the strings on the guitar the way they talk such a beautiful song.
@dianaisabela21123 күн бұрын
I’m sitting in my car and the bus passed
@skttrbrain53444 жыл бұрын
God this song gets me every damn time. It's just as relative now at age 32, as it was as a teen... 🙏🖤
@anniehoneybee38668 жыл бұрын
This brings back so many memories 😔
@Wolverage5 жыл бұрын
TBS played this in Boston tonight. This song was around when a couple of terrible things happened in my life like my dad passing and me giving my dog away in the same year. This random girl put her arms around me because I was tearing up. 10 minutes before I was shielding her friends from mosh harm. Sometimes people are beautiful! What a moment.
@jacksyoutubechannel40452 жыл бұрын
_This random girl put her arms around me because I was tearing up. 10 minutes before I was shielding her friends from mosh harm. Sometimes people are beautiful! What a moment._ This. This was the beauty of what (regardless of the baggage the phrase picked up later) we all dubbed "the scene." Being together, all feeling at once things you'd believed only you felt, and caring for one another because of it. I'm glad someone who sounds like they were around when it all started wrote this here for the people who won't have been. (...And for those who were, to remember what it all meant, once upon a time.)
@evanomic1915 жыл бұрын
I sung this song at my talent show and won second place, its the only Taking Back Sunday song i can sing and sound good, i love this song
@ericdykstra45452 жыл бұрын
Hope you're still singing bud. (:
@seventiesripper5 жыл бұрын
Caught this live last night. A truly beautiful experience.
@Gloam.2 жыл бұрын
This is everything❤️I’m beyond amazing. This is what I hope my music will sound like one day🙏🏾
@YuHainess Жыл бұрын
Now playing 🎶
@FudgemammalGaming9 жыл бұрын
"The months they don't matter, it's the days I can't take. When the hours turn to minutes and I'm seconds away"
@aryagharzai98916 жыл бұрын
2018.. and this song still hits you right in the feels
@mikemarcoulier61022 жыл бұрын
This song takes me to a place where nothing matters. Just that moment. 🖤
@143_Jennay6 жыл бұрын
Love this song soo much always one of my favorites!!!!! “There’s one thing I can do nothing about.....”💔
@sheIIsea2 жыл бұрын
the instrumentals in this song still hit me as hard as they did years ago. masterpiece.
@dustyfanwastaken24 Жыл бұрын
1st of February and I listened to this 😅
@Wolfstrom95 жыл бұрын
They played this at last night's concert here in manila.... damn them feels
@Tucker1245612 жыл бұрын
Taking Back Sunday are one of the best bands at layering vocals and melodies I ever came across, and for that reason alone, I still listen to them, despite having 'outgrown' most other bands. This song was also the first I song that I ever tried fingerpicking!
@jeromeguarin2282 Жыл бұрын
2023!!! Any1❤🙏🔥
@ExpectedEvil9 ай бұрын
2024 brother :)
@Dongyuuu3 жыл бұрын
This song rings in my head from time to time since 2009. Way past a decade.
@alexxy91115 жыл бұрын
i ♥lovee♥ how thier songgs always bring back memories TBS is awesome
@noahburgos96253 жыл бұрын
me: wow this song is pure genius. I wouldn't cry tho. Bridge: exists me: 😃😀😊🙃🙂😌😣😔😕😟😦😣😣😣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@ivannasmith82839 жыл бұрын
love this song.. was always a favorite of TBS
@rachellehcar443910 жыл бұрын
this song makes me think of how my children are longing to see their dad but he rarely sees them "the months they dont matter its the days I cant take when the hours move to minutes and im seconds away" "but theres one thing, I can do nothing about"
@jayburriswayne54038 жыл бұрын
Rachel Lehcar this one's all about letting go from a long distance relationship. you're close
@matthewleclere5986 жыл бұрын
Hot Dang this song is a nice punch to the ol' box of feels! Good memories and always gets me feeling like dang I miss these days. Love where I am at now and would not change it for anything in the world, but I do miss the good old days when the scene was strong and proud!
@mtgnerd99latino665 жыл бұрын
2019 and this is still the saddest song ever written, get's me every time.
@jonjongervacio96456 жыл бұрын
One of the best and well written song I’ve ever heard..
@BrickArtemis13 жыл бұрын
The best TBS song
@sonnyceeplaylist63375 жыл бұрын
My sons favorite. I will learn.❤🙏
@ohxyouxfool14 жыл бұрын
me and my buddy did this for a talent show thing. it was so sweet. props for such an awesome song.
@gypsymama47613 жыл бұрын
Tbs is hands down the most amazing band in the emo era
@thedaengelchen14 жыл бұрын
great song, i could listen to it all around the clock :P
@GrAYvTrAnE6 жыл бұрын
As ashamed as I am of my emo past, songs like this make me happy to have listened to such well written songs.
@ericevan126 жыл бұрын
Samezeez
@astridvvv96625 жыл бұрын
Don't be ashamed of your emo past. That Era was one tiny place in time and we were there to see it.
@PanzaFax5 жыл бұрын
TakingBackEmo
@Toaster___Bath5 жыл бұрын
nah fuck that dont be ashamed, we were apart of something man, we were scene
@YouTubeSlobsOnDaNob12 жыл бұрын
A true lover of music has to be eclectic in all genres... not just self absorbing themselves to one specific style. I started with hip hop or as phasedout90 would call it (rap crap), then branched out once I started playing guitar. Got Jimmy Page still rumbling through my head, along with KRS-One, Rakim, J-Boog, Bambu, Weezer, Smashing Pumpkins, Taking Back Sunday, Irie Love, Peetah Morgan, Fiji, etc. I LOVE MUSIC more than I love people.
@FloriFox14 жыл бұрын
there is one thing i can do nothing about... awesome song... tbs forever!
@evansetyawan11582 ай бұрын
sept 2024 anyone?
@savanimay12 жыл бұрын
I just cried while singing along. Dang! >.< And here I thought singing it would stop the tears.
@watomli15 жыл бұрын
thank you for posting this. i love this song
@Cucumberback18212 жыл бұрын
Good song a friend used this as the first dance at their wedding!!
@kevinadams50646 жыл бұрын
2018 still loving this song
@mcgge713 жыл бұрын
this song makes me very nostalgic even though i heard it for the first time yesterday
@mmbris13 жыл бұрын
My ex-bestfriend turned into a cokehead and I tried to stop it but I couldn't..that's what this song reminds me of..but the fact that I can sing it without breaking into tears means that after ten years, I've moved on. :) It was the one thing, I could do nothing about.
@pedropenduko30566 жыл бұрын
Listening cause they have a concert here in Manila 2019.
@milaanhielo81349 жыл бұрын
That comment about this song playing at his sister's memorial is heart-breaking. :[
@lovealot868714 жыл бұрын
this song got me through a lot in high school
@Annsterbirdd12 жыл бұрын
I agree w/ you. I personally think this song is beautiful and definitely has heart but I wouldnt go as far as to downgrade someone else's taste while you're upset that he is downgrading yours. Whatever his taste is, it sucks he doesnt appreciate this song, but hey, high five to those who do! This song speaks to me on a whole other level. I love it and Taking Back Sunday- est.2001!
@someguy81399 жыл бұрын
simply beautiful.......
@calebgroncki60454 ай бұрын
“We’ve got to get better or forget it all together.”
@Youlie199413 жыл бұрын
How can somebody NOT like this song *O*
@baleriaguzman23995 жыл бұрын
I cant stop loving you I tried forgetting you i cant let go I keep calling you hoping you notice me Why do i do this to myself
@Gr8gabe15 жыл бұрын
Think about it. "Just ask the question"- the burining question of wanting to break up. "Come untie the knot"- a "knot" symoblizes a relationship. "You try to avoid it"- Avoiding breakig up is what's stated here. And he feels lilke there's nothing he can do about it.
@collinlee59273 жыл бұрын
Played this for my girlfriend, she fuckin loved it. second time Taking Back Sunday helped me connect with someone.
@MidnightOwlLord12 жыл бұрын
Awesome song. Awesome band. Isn't that all that matters?
@rivasdebora14 жыл бұрын
this song is really deep and thats why i love it :)
@fkbtj814 жыл бұрын
I love this song
@ChrisBkoolio12 жыл бұрын
..woah, I can't believe I never noticed! :O You're totally right. You sir, are a prophet. Kudos.
@Vampani9315 жыл бұрын
love this song...bitter sadness
@TheGamebuster10112 жыл бұрын
Yup that is how i felt about my ex i loved him but i know i have to move on he was cruel to me but all of us will move on but when i listen to this song it make me cry because it was deep
@TheSpookychick9 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful fucking song with beautiful fucking lyrics. I love Adam's singing on this, too. TBS forever, motherfuckers. XD
@ikrite7373715 жыл бұрын
i loveeeeeee this song
@fkbtj814 жыл бұрын
I love this song
@MRSDGAF2412 жыл бұрын
This is mine and my husbands wedding song. Its us. It was us. Lets just say it brought us together and now its forgotten.
@1minus1equals110 жыл бұрын
I just realized the meaning of the album cover... It just suddenly hit me after months of not ever really thinking about it. Wow, that's dark.
@AJSpringState10 жыл бұрын
What does it mean?
@1minus1equals110 жыл бұрын
Well, it seems to be a picture of John (and of the same highway theme as their debut album cover).
@AJSpringState10 жыл бұрын
ohhhh :(
@delinamoss929012 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of how many obstacles there are with love. WHY can i 'do nothing about it' i dont even know
@kimberlyroseescalante66239 жыл бұрын
nice song..
@jameelhammond968411 жыл бұрын
Meh... Then they move on and find someone else, and it's like all the lights turn off. But you're still there.. left in some kind of apathetic state of oblivion. Then you move on and find someone else but somehow it's still not quite right. And i could go on but i won't because i've said too much already :(
@fredyjv167 жыл бұрын
Jameel Hammond I'm feeling this right now. It's not easy at all, but I do hope things have gotten better for you my friend
@martinspoonboy15 жыл бұрын
its funny how everyone pours out their hearts on the comment section - its quality reading .
@BMXorHOMICIDE14 жыл бұрын
i fear that i will need this song in the future..
@XoscillatorX4 жыл бұрын
“Love is brilliant, even if it doesn’t work.”
@Bearslikejaimie6 жыл бұрын
I did a cover of this song with my sister and it will never EVER match up to the original. I cry almost Everytime I hear it.
@darielbrock82812 жыл бұрын
truely amazing song :)
@sosfungirla15 жыл бұрын
Looove itt !
@bravo808mon25 жыл бұрын
My middle school Days 😇🤟
@ShowMeYaMovez12 жыл бұрын
What a song.
@jacobcampos979714 жыл бұрын
amazing song
@kellieberry224211 жыл бұрын
I really like this song :)
@adamsong46078 жыл бұрын
this song makes me cry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@snow10209215 жыл бұрын
there there *pats* everything will be better :]
@zopitodark13 жыл бұрын
beautyfull
@tulakhang14 жыл бұрын
i use to date this half malaysian girl and this song goes to her.. we didn't make it though
@taniacarlilex64308 жыл бұрын
great song (: !
@AmberAnatomyy13 жыл бұрын
Made me cry a bit..
@PotassiumPoisoning11 жыл бұрын
That's why I'm here.... I love her, and it's to be the end of me...
@Msmendozita009 жыл бұрын
Waaaa! :,( still an amazing song!
@noahburgos96253 жыл бұрын
why is send the pain below (by chevelle) suggested after this XD
@reeserocks2 жыл бұрын
JUST LIKE SUFFOCATING
@McFlySuperPunkGirl15 жыл бұрын
My ex and my song ;/ we live far apart...and we just broke up.. this song has so much meaning now..
@yadiracruz270411 жыл бұрын
My ex sent me here lol
@skycorpse83787 жыл бұрын
same hahaha
@jacksyoutubechannel40452 жыл бұрын
Comments sections like these, filled with people relating because they're going through a breakup or reminiscing about the person who played them this song for the first time, make me wonder how often both sides of those stories have written here. ---------- I saw an ancient comment saying the lyric is "say you want care." I'm sure I don't know them, but I can't help but wonder: is it our shared inside joke, was it a more ubiquitous joke than I realized, or did they just mishear the lyric?
@cmcov2 жыл бұрын
Who says "I can't go back"? 2021
@Annsterbirdd12 жыл бұрын
All riggghttttt, all righttttttt
@jusifer13 жыл бұрын
it's about fixing a relationship kid, that simple.. everybody notices that. the title references the musical structure not the lyrics, TBS has a habit of not giving their songs obvious titles, unlike most artists that name their song after it's lyrics