*NEW!* Messy To Minimal: I tried decluttering like THE MINIMAL MOM! EXTREME CLOSET DECLUTTER METHOD

[@KatherineTheGr8t]

You are like a breath of fresh air (and in Oregon w/the fires that means something : ) Nothing & mean nothing has *motivated me to declutter my closet/clothes until your video.* I really like Dawn's last two video's of helping the lady with 9 boys and your video, it's so raw - exactly what I am experiencing and how to plow through with a method that will work for me. I kind of didn't get Dawn when she decluttered her clothes but I understand you. And WOW you kept only 100 items total, congratu- lations :-D *Thank you for sharing your method and what you actually kept ie 3 of this, 3 of that. I think I can this now, again - thank you Natalie.*

[@erikastanger7848]

Dawn is my hero! I've been decluttering for a year because of her, and life has been so much less stressful.

[@designdoctor247]

Amen 🙏 agree

[@christined2495]

Dawn truly is a decluttering ANGEL

[@lizzabbott]

LOVE Dawn sooooooo much ! And now, I’m so glad I just found Natalie, too !! 💛💛💛

[@donnaroberts34]

It is well with my soul! It is well with my soul! Thank you for your wonderful video and for letting us in to your heart. God bless you and your family. ❤️🙏

[@laurenharris9510]

Love the subtle, jazzy "It Is Well With My Soul". That was super fitting for the emotional component of this video. Planning to revisit this video again once I'm postpartum again in November. ❤

[@designdoctor247]

Amen 🙏 it blessed 🙌my soul 🙏❤

[@gypsybelle4757]

I noticed it, too. She always has the best music!

[@alishajennings2013]

Congratulations on your pregnancy. I am due Dec 4th with a baby girl.

[@luciareynolds4201]

@@alishajennings2013 I just had my baby girl 4 days ago. I have three boys. Congrats!

[@luciareynolds4201]

@lauren Harris I just had my first girl almost 4 days ago. A girl after 3 boys! Woohoo. I’m with you about revisiting. Gotta fit in my clothes agin soon and then address it all again.

[@joannafoster3423]

Totally a spiritual process! Loved "It is Well" playing as you purged clothing.

[@susanpeterson9947]

Old school Southern Baptist here, I recognized it too! 💖

[@karenwstarr4429]

Amen!

[@laurahodges3615]

Would like to know who does that arrangement.

[@kathibaker1574]

@@laurahodges3615 link to the music is in the description

[@StacySanseverino]

Yes! I loved that subtle message during this process!

[@homeworkandheartwork1724]

I’ve actually be struggling with clothes. 6 pregnancies in 7 years, 3 of which made it to term (three early miscarriages)-and it has taken a toll on my body. I seriously need to do this with my clothes. Praying for you, Natalie! I know you are going through a lot right now ❤️ Also, the It is Well instrumental was my favorite background song ❤️❤️❤️

[@jerushacarlson]

You can do it! You said it: your body is gone through a lot; cut yourself some slack and give your body some much needed love! You’ve got this!

[@gabrielaklauer1440]

You can do it!!

[@homeworkandheartwork1724]

Thank you both 😭❤️

[@TheNinnyfee]

Wow, that is a lot of "experiencing life", so emotional. ❤ All the best for you!

[@FruitsandflowersBeaumont]

You went through a lot, leave the clothes for the last, do pantry, linen, garage I have 3 size of clothes, pre baby, preggo, in between. I don't know when i will be what size

[@ashleespringer4944]

Natalie, you've been beautiful at every size you've been. Not sure if it's the camera angles throughout the years, but I can never tell much of a difference in your body size (not that it even matters!). Thank you for candidly sharing your journey through the ups and downs of life because we all have them. As women, we are the crown of creation that God put into place. You've always worn His Glory well :) 💖

[@doublea6252]

Well said!!!💛

[@angelicajaramillo8167]

Wow... that hit home. " I deserve clothes that fit me". I'm ready to let go of all my cute clothes from when I was 20 lbs lighter and embrace the me I am right now. Thank you for sharing vulnerable moments so those of us who are a few steps behind can catch up to you. Xoxo

[@MagicalKim27]

Between you and your last capsule wardrobe video and that video of Dawns where she explains making yourself a uniform, I'm now at the first time in my entire life where I actually love and regularly wear everything hanging in my wardrobe and it is utterly life changing. I don't need to think about what I'm going to wear anymore. It takes me seconds to get dressed in a morning. I don't have to fight with a thousands things that aren't quite right. I feel confident and comfortable in my outfits literally everyday. And tidying up after doing laundry is a breeze. That comment "I deserve to have clothes that fit me *now*" that Dawn made in that video really stuck with me too and also something you said about only having things in your wardrobe that fit the chapter of your life that you're in right now. Such good advice. Thank you so much. ❤

[@caregiverentrepreurreimagined]

This video is inspiring already! “I deserve clothing that fits now.” I totally resonate with a being a mom with so many body changes from chronic health issues and pregnancy complications as well.

[@jackieo2403]

HI- I follow Dawn so was interested when this video hit my feed. This was a fantastic video! You are wonderful and the beauty and joy that showed on your face is truly motivating. You and I both "deserve clothing that fits now." Thank you for your honesty.

[@JL-cm7ni]

💛💛💛

[@arianevondelhaes-guenther1440]

@@JL-cm7ni lppl

[@idid138]

I'm just now watching this video, here after watching Dawn's video for the 4th time. Her video is the best, easiest, most caring video I've ever seen on this subject.

[@morningsidewithkelley]

I love Dawn so much. She makes decluttering and simple living easy, attainable, and not pretentious. I found your channel through Dawn and so appreciate your content for the same reasons. I fully intend on going through my closet again today. Thanks for the inspiration Natalie! We all love you!

[@annewhittemore3771]

💛 This helped me realize I truly don’t have that much clothing! I think the amount I have now is comparable to what you have now. I’ve slowly been getting rid of things as I realize a ton of the trendy stuff really doesn’t suit me. I’m still so unhappy with my wardrobe sometimes, but I think it’s mainly because I don’t actually have a real closet right now and no money to fill in the gaps I’m feeling in my wardrobe. That’s okay. This is the season I’m in, and this helped me realize that it’s nothing wrong that I’m doing! This did make me want to go back through it all though and be honest about what I’m not going to wear. 🤨

[@jessicagoodwin3408]

If your a mom, you need extra because kids can be gross lol 🥰

[@laurayeo7832]

I pulled everything out of my room while i was renovating. When it was all complete, and became time to start pulling things back into the room, there was just a lot of old stuff i did not want to display in my new clean space. I didn't want old clothes stored in my new closet/dresser. I brought things in piece by piece and sold what was leftover at a garage sale.. that i actually replaced what it cost to do the flooring. :D I love starting a major declutter with a completely blank canvas!

[@candace9701]

I felt that way when I moved into my new home. I didn't really want to bring it all in 😁

[@katiesoderling3596]

That’s a great idea! I think we’ll be doing some renovations next year. It’s probably a good time to find out what we truly don’t need or use. I like the idea of a garage sale to fund some projects too!

[@TheKerryBerry01]

I know there are a bunch of clothing items in my closet that I don’t reach for and I think it’s time to give my things room to breathe. 💛 Thank you for your kind words and inspiration.

[@NatalieBennett]

You got this!

[@tinkpix425]

Same! It's time to update and downsize once more! 💖

[@peanut383shoe]

💖 I went through this recently and said goodbye to all those items of clothing I was hanging onto from pre babies 🙈 it’s hard accepting body changes as a woman sometimes, well done Natalie! X

[@jenniferdamiano7447]

Yeesss!!!! Me too!!! So hard and so wonderful, all at the same time!!!

[@shantedewise7345]

So hard, I have changed three sizes 8-14 and it has taken a toll mentally, but this year I bought some clothes that flatter and fit me and Im actually liking my curves.I am working to go down at least one size!

[@ChocolateHeart90]

I have trouble decluttering my wardrobe not because of body changes but because of money. I grew up with 2 siblings and a single mum, so money was always an issue. As soon as I earned my own money I kinda became addicted to shopping. Now I battle this on and off. Sometimes I can get rid of so much and feel more free. Sometimes I fall back into buying clothes just to have more. Your videos always help me to question my actions and clean my mind a bit so I can clean my stuff and feel more free again. Thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@HannahMitchell-Art]

This is a pretty normal response and you sound aware of what’s going on for you

[@kimberlyeakin761]

Oh Natalie! I was cheering so hard for you when you were trying to make the decision about the tote under your bed. My advice would have been ‘make the container (closet/dresser) the bad guy’. Make that container your only clothing storage. You were able to just let them go! I also agree with you keeping that small container of ‘just in case’. I’m kind of calling mine a quarantine bin…knowing I’ll probably purge it later, but I’m not going to beat myself up if that is still there six months from now. Seasons and sizes change! Fitting everything in your closet will feel so good long-term! I’m like you - I can’t stand having those totes hanging over my head or hiding under the bed!!! 😉💖 You have been an inspiration to me! I’ve only been on this journey for a few months… And I have 30 years of marriage that has been sentimentally (hoarded) stored throughout my house. I have gone through slowly and done it in layers like Dawn discussed. I’m getting ready to tackle the attic… The last frontier lol! I do believe there will be a lot of emotions though. Totes of holiday Decor and children’s toys and keepsakes. As a teacher I’ve claimed this summer as the year I take my house back - With the help of my KZbin friends! Lol Thanks so much for your content! Blessings to you!

[@christinegonzalez7976]

Just found you and we have some things in common! Seattle area, chronic health conditions, church goers, and I'm not a minimalist yet but thats the end goal :) This video was so helpful to me. I look forward to seeing more from you!

[@cortneyokeefe8833]

Admitting to yourself that you're not going to fit back into some of your clothes is so. hard. But, then it's so freeing. 💛

[@micheledryden1057]

Thank you for being honest and transparent about your emotional and physical journey, Natalie. We're walking along side you and appreciate your support. Smiles...💝

[@happymimi5668]

Listening to “It Is Well With My Soul” while decluttering is perfect. Thank you!

[@joytoves9116]

💛 It’s so easy to keep clothing we associate with good memories or seasons of life, but the memories are what we need to keep, not the items. You did such a great job with your closet! ✨

[@gypsybelle4757]

Natalie, you are a weekly inspiration for me and whatever I am going through. Health, family, decluttering, getting it done, giving myself grace and giving it all to God. Thank You for blessing Me (and all of us) through your kind spirit. 💖💛💖💛

[@actuaryaltair6280]

I have the feeling I share your struggles with getting sick at most things I eat and how I feel about it. So refreshing to hear I am not alone.

[@therealcolleengordon]

Love this message Natalie! I’m 8 months postpartum with my first and really struggling with my body. I recently bought some pieces that actually fit me and even though I have a lot of work to do to get back to where I’d like my health to be, I at least feel comfortable in my clothes every day to do it. Thank you for the validation 💛💛💛

[@soniagarcia4899]

💛 Love your videos and hearing you talk. Your voice is very calming to me. Hugs from Portugal 😍❤️

[@tinab758]

Appreciate and respect your self-disclosure. You have come a long way with your courage & commitment.👏

[@raechelbrennan6012]

Thank you so much for sharing your personal story. Illness, chronic illness and pain-they are a huge part of so many identity issues we have with our closets! It does make us want to cry that keeping clothes is in no way going to heal us…

[@barbaramoss6413]

You did a great job demonstrating The Minimal Mom reverse declutter I just watched. Thank you for including the after shots of your closet. Thank you for sharing such personal comments to encourage me and your other viewers. You are a blessing to many, Natalie! 💛

[@tiffanybrantley7039]

"I deserve to have clothes that fit my body now" is something that I am really working on! The minute I say "one day I might..." I go ahead and put it into the give away bin. And that has really made me feel so much better in the body I'm in right now. Loved the video!

[@constance-kohctahcn-h2931]

Can we talk about this absolute jam version of “It is well with my soul”??? So good

[@dannhorne9782]

Loved listening to It Is Well as you decluttered

[@JoyfulLivingLinda]

Wow, the idea to put out a weeks worth of clothes to wear is such an amazing idea. I definately need to try this!

[@jerushacarlson]

I have been working on becoming minimalistic for almost a year… my closet is my first triumph area…. So, to see the rest of your house, I was flabbergasted at the amount of clothes you had in your closet… which makes me feel more confident that I can do this with the rest of my home! 💪🏼 We’ve got this! Thanks for the motivation!!!

[@ChristysChannelYall]

“I volunteer as tribute” 😂😂

[@amybee40]

So funny!

[@livesplendid3728]

My butt does this haha!

[@michelleanderson8449]

💛💛💛 Your declutters are my all time favorite of all the you tubers I watch. They are always the perfect mix of realistic but yet still very impactful. Your voice is calming, your tone is encouraging and never patronizing, and your music choices are so soothing. I know I have told you many times throughout the past 18 months, but your videos have changed my mindset in a way that I am so grateful for. I’m thankful for you.

[@jocelynh1603]

Currently waiting for baby to arrive and my closet feels like it's exploding with maternity, nursing, postpartum, and fit me eventually clothes. Eventually I will have an organized, decluttered closet just not today.

[@jmljasmine]

I'm 2 months postpartum so I feel you

[@laurabaze874]

That’s an overwhelming place to be… I felt the same way during that time!

[@ednarose86]

Same boat! I have a 4mo old and while I was pregnant, I felt the same way.

[@shelbys2750]

I have had 4 babies, this last one is 7 months old, and we havent decided for sure if we are done. So I have a box of maternity clothes, a closet of what fits me while I'm breastfeeding (because I never lose all the weight till I wean), and a box of things that may fit me again someday. It's a little overwhelming when I'm in a transition but it's also a reminder of how amazing the body is to create and sustain life.

[@dp2404]

I am 7 years post partum 🤣🤣🤣 and I am finally back to my pre-partum weight. I don't own almost any clothing item I had before pregnancy, because the shape of my body has changed. If only I had known this before, I would have avoided all the trouble of the transition phase

[@shirleysmith9146]

thanks for the music It I Well With My Soul.

[@CKClevmama]

Great song choice..."It is well with my soul." Proud of you Natalie!

[@lisaclarke5272]

I was thinking the same - perfect song for what you are doing!

[@jewelvannucci3129]

I think that it is a beautiful thing two wonderful woman sharing their blessings and complimenting each other! This world needs more people being kind and helpful!!!

[@SamanthaSmithF0422]

💛 this definitely gave me a different approach to decluttering my clothing...I am also guilty of hidden spaces filled with items and they totally give me anxiety. Thank you! Love all your videos 💕

[@dorisochoa116]

You’re so right when you say it feels better to donate it instead of feeling guilty and keeping it. After I watched your video I felt more motivated to part with some clothing items I’d been making excuses for and kept holding onto. Letting go of those items did make me feel more relieved and at peace. I’m always looking for ways and ideas to make my home feel more peaceful and relaxing. Thank you for all the information you share. It’s really appreciated! :)

[@capricebachor7632]

Love that you added “It is Well” in there 💛

[@itschristineg]

So good. ❤️

[@nataliegarcia73]

Love your honesty. I had to get rid of a lot of my summer clothes this year because they just didnt plain fit. It was the first time I have experienced this, as you get older your body changes to suit what you need at that time and i said goodbye to a lot of clothes I've worn for a while. The silver lining is it allowed me to shop thred up and fill my closet with things that fit that I love! And I hope that it made someone's day to find my clothes I loved second hand It's a better life cycle than keeping it forever and not using them ❤

[@randijohnson3806]

Once you put everything on the bed, you could really tell you like the blush and maroon tones.

[@elizabethreighley8483]

You are seriously a ray of sunshine 🌞 💛💛 your words are always encouraging and honest about the various struggles that come with pregnancy/post partum changes. We are so quick to dress up growing bellies but I feel society stops us short after giving birth and we suddenly don't know how to handle or dress (or really even celebrate how amazing our bodies truly are!) ourselves afterwards! Deserving clothes that fit us as we are now is so true! Sidenote the 'hidden places' of our houses could be a good video to cover! I am off to tackle our guest bedroom which doubles as our catch all, will be watching your house declutter to get me through this 🙈🙉

[@sharonshmuel3386]

Love a declutter looking forward to seeing this ❤️

[@VeryGreenly]

Thanks for filming this challenge and discussing your experience. I used Dawn , The Minimal Moms words of wisdom to let go of my maternity clothes and deal with some grief from not being able to have another pregnancy. I was also hanging onto and clothing that didn’t fit but was causing guilt and body shame. I appreciate your heart and love that your prioritizing your health.

[@fatine88]

We’re moving soon and I’m dealing with a lot of conflicting feelings about my clothing because I’ve recently lost a lot of weight but I’m noticing that clothes don’t fit my body shape like the did before. This is the video I need right now. 💖 #PREMIEREFAM

[@anaminton8585]

You seriously are incredible at picking music. The upbeat “It Is Well With My Soul” during a hard closet clean out? Brilliant. I think it all the time, though! You are so gifted at what you do.

[@sarahhernandez5425]

This video really spoke to me because before I even watched it, I was thinking, "I don't really need to declutter my closet, except there's all those clothes that don't fit since all the staying at home during 2020... I can't get rid of those, I'm going to lose weight and get back into them! What if I miss them when I'm back that size?" BUT, this video gave me the push I needed to remember and accept that I can always buy clothes in a smaller size *if* I need them, when I need them. And right now they're not doing any good taking up space and making me feel bad knowing they're there. I know this video is a few weeks old,, but thank you Natalie, for this push that I needed today! (But also, I appreciate that you kept a few items that you love)

[@helenaschwartz4402]

When I’m decluttering, sometimes I remember something I considered getting rid of last time and often find myself thinking “oh I hope I got rid of that last time” then I know it’s time for it to go 🤣

[@SliceofLiz]

I have the hangers going the opposite direction for my "maybe" clothes so I can revisit them in the next declutter. It's helped a lot since I started doing this

[@wedyenohraindrops]

Hi Natalie, I recently quit my job after a career change (due to burnout) and am spending my second day at home off of work. My fiancé is supportive, but made a comment about me staying at home which made me feel the need to justify my non-working existence . . I already had plans to clean the toilets / house, etc. but am trying to be kinder to myself. It’s been hard to get going this morning and I just wanted to let you know your videos are such a comfort to me in helping me get motivated during this difficult time. It was inspiring to know you were going through some negative emotions yourself and able to work through it via the process of decluttering! Thank you! 💕

[@alexaclaybaugh]

Watched your messy to minimal series while decluttering my own home after having a baby - it was great motivation! Thanks for the encouragement 💖

[@dauriagroux-holt4028]

Hi Natalie! Fellow Seattle-ite here. I've been watching your videos for a while now. When you mentioned that the clothes in your closet that don't fit are mocking you, I absolutely could relate to the feeling! A mindset shift that I've worked on over the years is thinking about how clothes are made to fit me and I am not made to fit my clothes. In addition to that, considering that your chronic illness called for smaller clothing - what an act of love to honor the healthy body you have now.

[@neahughes1579]

Love the music today! It Is Well With My Soul is one of my favorite hymns.

[@tannaphillips6840]

I love that ‘ It is well ‘ is playing in the background!! Just think how much you are blessing someone else as you part with these items!!!Looks amazing!! Very helpful!!! Thank you for sharing!

[@OtherbeautyforeverX]

so excited for this new upload! watching your videos has made me realize that decluttering is well needed in my life and has made me super motivated to get my house cleaned😊

[@gatorgirl2121]

💖💛💖💛💖Natalie, you are about 15 years younger than I am, but you inspire me so much every day! I find your videos so peaceful and encouraging. Your faith is refreshing in this time of unrest. I am so glad I found your channel. You are sincerely such a wonderful mother and loving wife, from what you share in your videos. You should be so proud of how amazing your kids are. I have so much respect for you! Thankful for you❣

[@nataliesutherland1018]

Im so happy others are on the same journey as me

[@britniewing4012]

Wow, thank you! You said something about how your body is different but you are healthier. I have dealt with gut issues, sibs, and now have fibromyalgia. I have been dealing with the body issues of the fact that I have on more weight but I feel so much better rather than being skin and bones. I needed to hear what you said! Thank you!

[@courtney9694]

I love cardigans. For a Floridian I have a ridiculous amount. This was very motivating 💛 #PREMIREFAM

[@NatalieBennett]

Hey Courtney! You are the winner of the #PremiereFam giveaway! Email me at [e-mail] so we can get in touch!!! 💛💛💙💛💛💙💛💛

[@megancraig8145]

I’m right there with you Courtney! Love being cozy with my cardigans and hoodies buuuuut it’s FL! 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@christined2495]

I loveeeee cardigans ❤️

[@susanpeterson9947]

I’m also a Floridian (born and raised). Knitting is my passion and my weakness is SHAWLS of all things! I need to start giving some of them away, I guess, or I won’t be able to justify making any more.

[@skipper2282]

I started storing my holiday related clothing with my holiday decor. This also allows me to store the next size up holiday shirt I pick up for my kiddo post season.

[@karenhoward8542]

I remember spending two weeks salary on a gorgeous off white linen suit that made me feel like a million dollars, and being so sad when I had to let it go. The end of the single business woman era. Feel the emotions my dear.

[@jessicakoppers1121]

💖💛 I love the minimal mom and she is how I found your channel! I agree that her method works really well. I personally am still struggling to balance the seasonal clothes but now I try to just have winter/fall and then summer/spring as I am in Canada. I loved how you said it feels like my closet can breathe! That is how I feel now that I have gotten my clothes down to a good amount for me. My struggle also is changing in weight - this past year I had to teach from home instead of being on my feet in the classroom and not moving as much everyday really changed my body and sadly impacted my wardrobe which made trying on clothes from last summer not as fun. But instead of holding on I let go of many pieces and said why bother feeling disappointed every time! We all deserve to feel happy and brighter in our clothes every day ❤️

[@lindamcdermott5475]

You have inspired me to look at the things in my closet. I’ve decluttered before, but still have things that I have not worn in years, but keep just in case. Your words “I have 100 items to serve me for 365 days” was brilliant. It put so much into perspective for me. Thank you. Stay healthy….💛

[@danielleroth2947]

💛 one of the best clothing declutter videos I've seen! So inspiring!

[@julias259]

Thank you Natalie for another inspirational video. I have found that donating my clothes to our local women's shelter has made me understand need versus want. So many people can benefit when you realize how little we really need and give up our excess. I have learned so much from you and Dawn.

[@jennifermorley6487]

Natalie, this is exactly what I needed today. As another woman who has dealt with some pretty serious chronic health issues, I have really struggled with trying to declutter my clothes. It is a very emotional process that tends to cause me a lot of stress when I try. God used you to speak to me tonight and I am so grateful.

[@melanieo.1725]

Hi Natalie, thank you so much for your lovely and very encouraging video. I recently decluttered my wardrobe. I am living in an area where we have four seasons, so a lttle bit comparable to your area. I managed to put clothes which didn't fit anymore into boxes to store them in the garage. I then kept only a capsule wardrobe which I am going to wear now in the summer time. Your video gave me lots of courage to tackle the stored summer items again. I thought I might store them for next summer, but many of the clothes fitted when I was weighing much too less. They are many skirts and dresses and they are connected with a toxic relationship. In that time I was only 56 kg but I am 1,78 you see. That was a very unhealthy time for me. Thanks for sharing your experiences and emotions. Your video really opened my eyes that 1st I don't have to cling to clothes which were connected with a sad time, 2nd that other women could love and enjoy them better then me because they are just very fine pieces. Thanks a million Natalie for bringing me a bit further an my journey to a more healthy life. God bless you and take care Love from North Germany

[@rndsaneo2172]

Thank you for sharing your honest approach to decluttering your wardrobe and all the emotions that came with it-I’m in a similar season, where I need to let go of certain items because after having two babies, I know that some styles don’t make me feel my best anymore, even if they “fit”….*sigh* “letting it go actually brings more peace into your life…” yes 👏

[@amandaolmstead9903]

💛 Thank you so much for this video. You are not alone in your feelings. As women, and Mom's especially, our bodies are constantly changing. It is so important to keep only the ones that are serving us in our current stage of life. Congrats on getting healthy. Hugs.

[@susancrump2896]

💛💛💛i did this a few months ago and literally had 10-12 garbage bags of clothes that did not fit or wore in YEARS. it was so wonderful to scale waaaay down to about 50-60 items, not including jeans, workout clothes, pjs, swim. But it is so freeing when you don't have clutter!

[@Hosenfeld24601]

My family has been practicing minimalism for eight years, and I've found practicing other methods of decluttering to be extremely helpful. Asking new questions, looking at my things from different perspectives, it helps me continue to pare down. It started with my wardrobe and now we have what many consider extremely minimal for a family of six but feels restful and manageable to us.

[@nicolebellemore703]

There’s something about your clothing videos that just get to me more than any other minimalist clothing videos. It’s the hardest area to do decluttering for me. I’m the same size as I’ve always been and I find it so hard to let go of perfectly good clothes that still do fit. I almost wish more just didn’t fit! But I’ve got this video on repeat as I go along and it is helping!

[@melissarogers4589]

💛I understand about the difficulties with getting ill from foods. I’ve been healing from Lyme’s disease for about 6 years. My Jesus is so precious to me because of His presence during this time. There was a year I could only tolerate 3 foods and it was scary and painful to go through that, but The Lord is so good, sovereign, and He was right there with me through all of it. The Lord has blessed you Natalie and you are a blessing to me. I am so much more healthy, and even though there are struggles, I am encouraged. It is so comforting to hear your faith shine through .

[@debbiemyer3006]

Thank you for your kind sharing ~ such honesty and openness. You are kind both to yourself and to all of us. Being real about our changing needs comes as we all move forward in life. So great not to be stuck! And you are definitely NOT stuck! Good for you, Natalie! Am cheering you on. 🤩

[@Lena-ek1xx]

Hi N! I started following you as we have similar approach to certain things and it's nice to see other's people ideas on organising and what we can do different or better. I was in similar situation with my health after pregnancy, things have been bad however last summer I told myself, if I can't wear my clothes till next summer I am getting rid of it because I couldn't wear them last 3 years....and then my doctor recommended diet and 3 months after puf, I lost 15kg and I fit everything! I am soooo grateful that I kept all my old stuff as my style is classic and my taste haven't changed and now I don't need to give bunch of money for new clothes. Every journey is different and this is just small example of when not getting rid of stuff is good. My approach is generally, if we don't use something, it has to go, but this was exception 😊

[@christiana_mandalynn]

So that video from Dawn the Minimal Mom - I had watched her video FOUR times, and then had it playing in the background as I did a Declutter several months ago. The fact that you did a declutter based on her video means the world to me. In fact I began tearing up when you talked about the emotions associated with your clothing and how letting things go was almost a spiritual journey for you. 💖 I’ve had 4 kids and am 1 year postpartum right now and my weight has fluctuated all over the place. I’ve been thrifting secondhand items because *nothing* I had was fitting and I felt so discouraged, but resolved to try and find my personal style with getting thrifted items. But it resulted in me having way too much and I was storing it in bins, too stressed to go through my old clothes, the thrifted ones that I wound up not liking and storing, the too big clothes, the pregnancy clothes, and my seasonal/winter clothes. So. Many. Bins. I wanted to let you know that right when you began pulling things out onto the bed to declutter, I quickly began pulling out my bins to do it alongside you! I condensed everything down to just one small pregnancy bin *in case* that consists only of things I loved during pregnancy; and one larger bin of tops, skirts, trousers/pants and colder weather items that I don’t want hanging in my closet right now (I don’t have a dresser space). I even drastically cut down on my shoes. So thank you for helping me tackle this huge source of stress for me! I was feeling so bad about having spend money of thrifted things but having not liked them, and tucked it away in a bin instead. Facing it is really helpful. I feel like my closet can breath now. It’s such a relief.

[@mimigideon1359]

This was truly beautiful to watch. And you are right, it is a “heart” issue. It’s easy from the outside to look at you and see how beautiful you are and think you never struggled with body image, but it’s also unfair to you and what you have gone through. You said that these clothes are just textiles we cover our body with, but also, these bodies are just skin and bone that we cover our souls with and I think that your soul is beautiful.

[@annetteelder-clark505]

When going thru divorce my bestie used the 100 method. She kept 100 things in her kitchen,100 items in the garage, 100 bks & CDs & DVDs, 100 items in clothes closet,100 items in attic storage (kids momentos, photos, & decorations),100 items in utility room & hall closets. I helped her go thru stuff because I wasn't sentimentally attached to her belongings. We got rid of sooo much in one 3 day wknd. She was so happy. She even downsized her home, moving from 4 bdrm house to 3 bdrm condo. She now raves about the 100 method & how lighter her emotions are. 🙂

[@madeleinesvensson-m3y]

I’m decluttering my entire hone atm. I get so much anxiety thinking about and seeing/finding all that stuff everyday 🙈 There’s literally nothing in my home I couldn’t live without. I just need my loved ones 🥰

[@Rachel_seethegoodandbeautiful]

💛 I really enjoyed this. Sometimes these big decluttering jobs bring up a lot of emotions. With the reverse decluttering of clothes I think of it as if I was going on a trip for a season, what items would I want with me in one big suitcase. My wardrobe is very minimal now, fits on about 28 hangers + socks, under things, pjs and activewear that all fit in one drawer of the dresser I share with my husband. I’m starting to notice wear more with fewer pieces but most often discard a piece without replacing now. I’m considering investing in 10 great pieces at once this fall for a more thorough wardrobe refresh since I’d like to present myself better. For now, I’m wearing stuff that looks okay and keeps me cool through the summer because comfort is becoming a bigger consideration as the years go by. I appreciate your take on minimalism.

[@johncampbell5741]

Great video! Thanks for sharing the whole process and commenting on the emotional aspects of decluttering clothing. I really enjoy both your channel and Dawn’s, so this was a treat. I appreciate that the content is motivational as well as practical and understanding. We’re not always feeling ready to tackle these projects but it’s helpful to try different approaches and it’s so satisfying to reap the rewards of that effort in the form of a more orderly, attractive, functional space in your home.

[@tubeyou2184]

That is the most mellow version of It Is Well With My Soul I've ever heard. Gorgeous! 11min mark

[@emilydelvalle1597]

I really loved the subtle encouragement of the song It Is Well with My Soul playing. Kind of emotional and comforting.

[@searlepage4655]

This is Katrina on my husband's tablet he prefers my iPad. Totally understand clothes not fitting. I lost 100lbs 2 years ago ,but I loved getting rid of bigger clothes ,2 years later I'm still 100lbs down. I could go another size down but am happy where I am. Australian size 8/10 instead of size 20/22. It's so freeing when everything in your wardrobe fits and I wear all my clothes on rotation. 3 of each basically so not too much. Enjoyed this video.

[@lorrainesworld6785]

I plan on tackling my closet declutter next week. Yesturday I decluttered and organized my shoes and blankets. Thank you for the inspiration and sharing your journey.

[@chereederry7939]

💛 I filled a box with clothing that has been hanging in my laundry room (my former closet) while I watched you!!! Most of the clothes had been hanging, unworn for over a year. Thank you for sharing this journey with us!

[@care4teaching]

Natalie, we adore you! My daughter recognizes your voice and comes running to cuddle and watch your videos with me. Thank you for sharing your heart and decluttering advice. You are truly an inspiration!

[@beccat5727]

💛 Will definitely be implementing a small “maybe” pile instead of my current large “someday may fit” pile. It’s time to just keep what works now.

[@kamloopscruiser874]

Processing the feelings is HUGE with all decluttering decisions and especially clothes. You nailed it! 👍❤️ I like this concept of choosing what’s working, kind of like pulling out a mini wardrobe for a trip.

[@Nan-59]

I sure understand chronic illness. It's so hard when everything you do takes soo much out of you! I have fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis etc. and having energy is a really big struggle for me. 💞

[@asteria5382]

This is 100% a spiritual process, because as much as yes it is just clothes, it isn't. Things we own, things we use, things that share our space...It all ends up carrying energies, memories, and attachments, so it is perfectly valid to be sad about letting it go, but it is such a therapeutic release when you get rid of it. I have struggled with an ED for a good part of my life and it took me over a decade to finally let go of the clothes I used to wear and it was so hard. But you're absolutely right: You are in a healthier, better place and it's important to remember that you deserve clothing that doesn't have those negative attachments to them.

[@laurajunebaran8898]

I have been on this kick to organize and clean out every section of my home. Keeping myself busy as a stay at home mom. Your videos always give me motivation and wonderful ideas 💖

[@summerrobertson1617]

This is the first video of yours that I have seen. I am now following. I've had several surgeries in the last 7 years so clothing has been a struggle. I love heels and such but it no longer serves my soul. I think I'm ready to do this process after watching you share bits of your story and process. Thank you so very much.

[@lavenderandluxury]

Sweet Natalie, thank you so much for being so open in this video about your journey. I have been struggling with my health/weight for sometime and I too have struggled with getting rid of things I would love to get back to, but reality is my body has changed from having another baby, and just health reasons. This video was exactly what I needed to motivate me to LET IT GO. Again thank you so much.

[@jennybird2770]

I hear you about all the emotions that come up when decluttering. I let myself feel it because it helps to acknowledge it and then I can let go. After that stuff is gone I always feel relief and move on. So glad your health is feeling better. :)

[@rebeccarendle3706]

Someone that "hates" clothes shopping to! 🤗. So true about Suff hidden Seasonal bins are killers... I never have them.. I have everything in my wardrobe.. I have one shelf with my winter and skiing coats with gloves, scarfs, etc..eg for lower than - 10c I have a shelf for swimming, shorts, etc for really hot eg up to +40c. So I have 2 shelves for "extreme" weather clothes. The rest of my wardrobe is stuff I can wear all year around.. Because I use the "onion" approach for most clothes..." If warm less layers, if cold more layers." I decluttered all my expensive pre-kid shoes.. My feet grew a size and have never gone back. It hurt.. I think all women struggled with loosing their former bodies after different life phases eg kids, menapause. Well done Natalie👏!... Love the "healing" music choice 🤗