Newborn twins are hard work! - April 15, 2014 - itsjudyslife daily vlog

[@BlueAngel2397]

Benji is such a good father and husband. Very patient and his cooking looks amazing.

[@AprilJustinTV]

Wow I learned something new! Chopsticks to mixing eggs! That's really cool Benji! Dang those eggs look soo amazing!

[@Sassybesos]

Not to impose but, just make sure you're finding time to pray together. The word says not to be anxious about anything, so stay prayed up. You two are really great parents look at how amazing Juliana is. If they're gassy try massaging their lower tummy, and bending their knees to their chest it can help. Stay encouraged and patient with one another you're a team, ultimately you want the same ending result; happy healthy babies.

[@makeupyourmind2019]

Benji your words at the beginning broke my heart. You're such a good guy. Judy most likely is not angry at you, she just expresses it with you. I can see why you giving her suggestions would bother her. Instead of doing that, maybe just ask her how you can help and let her tell you what she needs.

[@GenevieveThornton]

Aww, I love how Julianna is scared and excited at interacting with the twins. Adorable!

[@jud2171]

I love the way you keep it real Benji, when you two are a bit off balance as far as your relationship goes you express it. I appreciate the realness of your life vlogs.

[@sodapopp65]

The babies are only a month old, it's not good to just let them lay there and cry. They are newborns so it's important and very beneficial to pick them up when they cry. There is nothing wrong with what you're doing Judy. You are doing a great job!

[@TheMamakat]

I understand the stress, I became a single mom during my pregnancy with my second child, and was left to deal with a newborn and a 2 year old all by myself. I had severe post partum depression, thats lingered even 6 years later. Its a struggle. Just wanted you readers to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel for all of you struggling, thsy do eventually sleep, and potty train, and become more independent. Xoxo

[@lolsosrox]

your an inspiration, people like you are amazing!!

[@PeachyMangoPie]

Stay strong :))

[@JUICSAY]

Team single mom I have a 3 year old and I'm preggo with my second high five my dear your doing amazing

[@TheMamakat]

Wow, thanks for all the likes everyone! It really means a lot! Xoxo

[@1700aK]

Benji, you're doing a very amazing job as husband and dad. Seriously, what a supportive, caring, considerate person you are.. always cooking & spending time with the kids. Judy you are a lucky lady! :)

[@sherthom5672]

Feeling bad for Benji. He seems like he is working hard at being a good husband and father, and doing what he can to make things easier for Judy. I don't know how I would handle someone taking a stressful situation out on me if I was trying my best to help.

[@discopumps]

benji you are such a freaking sweet husband! i don't have kids or am not married yet but my boyfriend NEVER cooks and hates to do so. i can only imagine how I'm gona feel if we ever do have kids because on top of all the other crap that men don't do very well I'm gona have to be cooking too. at least judy doesn't have to worry about the kitchen! and you cook such nice meals that would be the best thing EVER!

[@samiam20100]

That sucks :/

[@nine1097]

I'm with you on this one!

[@ashlee90432]

Sadly Benji is just an exception hahaha! Lots of men hate cooking and don't have enough time and patience for it. But I'm sure he's great at something else!

[@gmogartoff]

Benji! You are such a good husband and father!!!! You do a lot!!!! You cook for your family everyday, work, take care of the kids woah superman!

[@ToriRosales]

Thanks Judy, for being so selfless and always keeping your viewers happy by posting the vlogs no matter what! You are so very much appreciated by many!!

[@EdithLiera]

Way to go Benji! As a mom of 18 month old twins myself, I know how Judy must feel. You're doing well and will adjust soon!

[@NatBittersweet]

I'm watching you guys for quite some time now and my husband keeps hearing Judy's "good morning" every day. Just at this point he told me he finds you such a nice family and he'd love to watch your videos with me. I was like "woah!" 😍 indeed, my day would not be complete without your vlogs! Thanks a lot! ❤️😘

[@corinnemunoz3084]

Favorite people to watch: Benji and Julianna! They have such a cute bond, and you can tell he misses her when she's gone

[@Zanaaa50]

Benji is a good dude. I'm impressed with him every vlog.

[@CourtneyRussRuss]

I think he's an amazing father, he's so hands on!

[@daniiapl]

I think so too, he was so honest today, the talk was so real

[@VanLeoBabe]

I have the best mom. My mom is a single parent and raised me. I thank god for my mom. After listening what benji said about moms, I just love her more and more. :) thanks benji.

[@thorsmama128]

Benji, I enjoy listening to you talk when you're cooking/in the kitchen. Its your "safe/comfort zone" and when you speak you're very candid. Thank you for being real with your viewers.

[@nskkhan]

I luv the fact that at such a young age Julianna has learnt so much.. She knows to finish her dinner and then she will get a treat and that her treat is fruit.. Hats of u guys for being such great parents..

[@TheNaprika]

Ah man! Hearing those twins cry all the time. No wonder you both are so stressed! I commend both of you. I'm not sure how you both stay so commited to vlogging with all you have going on. I feel like I need to pray for you all

[@velyniaviera]

Benji in the beginning made me teary :( He is such a great, loving and supportive hubby. Judy, it will be all worth it in the end. Remember, this too shall pass

[@GrammyMissLisa]

Judy call the lactation specialist! They can show you how to work with Miya! Benji appears to be a great help & support to you. My 1st husband did nothing with 3 babies! Not triplets, I mean 3 separate times & I took care of them by myself! My family lived out of town! Be thankful you have a lot of help!

[@carolp.6206]

Oh Peach, please! LOL

[@jeanneybabie]

Judy is doing the right thing picking the babies up. They should be held and comforted at this stage.

[@MyMamasChild2]

I think the twins are just hungry. They were a lot more content when they were topped of with the bottle. It doesn't make you a bad mom if you feed them formula.

[@AllyHunn]

I personally think Judy and Benji are doing a GREAT job raising their 2 newborns AND a toddler. On top of all that, she STILL puts up vlogs every night for all of us to see. But sadly, so many people are unappreciative of that :( Thank you for all your hard work and dedication Judy! Don't feel bad if you have to miss a couple days of vlogging!

[@TheYoungMariah]

Thank you Judy for putting so much hard work into these vlogs! I know that I and many others appreciate them and that they give us a sense of family. You and Benji are great parents and have some pretty wonderful kids. Times are hard but you're more than capable, we all know you can! So...Thank you Judy and Benji for letting us into your lives everyday! :)

[@MsEnfield23]

Agreed. :)

[@iamvanessae]

Stay calm Judy and Benji! You guys are awesome parents...things will get better:)

[@_sammydb]

Thank you for your vlogs, Judy! If you're ever overwhelmed, don't force yourself to post a vlog that day. Every job has its vacation time and you deserve yours too!

[@kukishop]

Newborns need love, especially the first months. They can't be spoilt at this age at all. Imagine being left on the bed crying for your parents an they don't come for you. Not telling what to do, just sharing my opinion :) Hope everything goes well for all the girls, you guys are a great couple :)

[@ClaudiaFerguson1]

I think Judy and Benji are stressed too and let's be honest here, they hardly ever let them cry it out. And I'm pretty sure they know what they're doing with their girlies ! My parents let me and my siblings cry it out (most of the time) and we turned out normal.. But I do hear what you're saying. (:

[@AthirahHussain]

Judy, I love that you are sharing your life on youtube and has been putting up the vlog consistently despite being busy with the twins and Julianna. I love you Judy!♥ You are like an awesome big sister to me.

[@merindastracola531]

When I was a baby I cried literally ALL the time, it got to the point where my mom didn't know what to do. The doctor finally thought to do an ultrasound and I was FILLED with gas, apparently it's quite common. That could be the cause if you're having excessive crying. But I agree, these are THEIR babies, nothing is wrong with letting them cry it out every now and then. Most of you probably don't have children.

[@ClaudiaFerguson1]

you told them alright ;)

[@crb4410]

Well the ones that do have children can't be dismissed. You can't just let a baby cry it out especially knowing their belly hurts! :(

[@crb4410]

Well the ones that do have children can't be dismissed. You can't just let a baby cry it out especially knowing their belly hurts! :(

[@ClaudiaFerguson1]

+cris be there are massages for babies to help them get it out .. Idk if you saw the blogs where Julianna was a new born and had bad gas and they did a massage with her legs (bent them and pushed them up by the side or on top of her belly in a circular kind of motion) and that really helped JB :)

[@crb4410]

Yeah I remember. She could also be eating something that could be hurting their tummies. So there are a few things to help the babied with. Message and eliminate foods that hurt their tummies.:)

[@Babiig0919]

From birth to 3 months of age babies need love and affection, it is ok to carry them around for as long as you want. At this stage in their life they do not know how to self-soothe, after 3 months of age once their needs are met and they have nothing else wrong with them, it's ok to let them cry it out because this is when they learn self-soothing. Judy and Benji you are doing a great job raising your children, I don't have children of my own but I admire your hard work and dedication you both have for your family.

[@yvonne0024]

From all the stories I hear from friends and relatives and what I have observed in life.... Benji is an awesome husband and father, it's rare to find a man like that now a days. Judy you are lucky to have such an awesome husband and father. :)

[@kellypaidforit]

My oldest brother was 3 when my parents had my twin brothers. So my parents went through pretty much the same thing. My grandmother and aunts pretty much lived in the house that's how much they helped out. I know right now it is very stressful but believe me when I say that you will be so happy you had the opportunity to raise twins. My brothers have such a unique bond, they do everything together still and they are 23. :)

[@stephr4065]

I don't have any children, but it looks like raising them is A LOT of work. I have a lot of respect for all parents -- especially single moms and single fathers! Benji and Judy, keep up the good work!

[@Evanandrachel]

"She womans up" should be a phrase people say WAY more often!! :D Love it Benji.

[@Erickaitious]

Seriously.

[@tatianacabrera3052]

Judy, maybe you should limit the cabbage intake. Cabbage and broccoli produce a lot of gas which transfers over to the baby through breast milk. My son was having really bad tummy aches and gas problems so my ped told me to stay away from gas prone foods.

[@toris.496]

Ahh Benji don't get overwhelmed. I can tell in your face that you are. It will all get better over the next few months...just keep helping Judy out because she needs it the most right now.

[@mnelson2008]

You are a wonderful mother, Judy...listen to no one but yourself...your belief that a baby shouldn't be left to cry is your mama instinct...a baby SHOULDN'T be left to cry. There is no manipulation; they're babies, for heaven's sake.

[@netballchick101]

I applaud you Benji, you're doing all you can. It'll get easier as you all get into a routine.

[@Julie-zj8vp]

I'm a mother of 5.. You seriously need to put the twins down.. They cry for your attention , let them cry it won't hurt them , Also be noisy around them xx benji is great he knows let them cry.. This is not hate I love you guys, just a little advice xx

[@HaileyRobinson01]

I toatally agree with u :) I'm only 13 but my mom has a daycare and she just let's them cry it out

[@mommywood1]

It's so hard in the beginning with newborns and it can be so stressful! Hang in there Benji. You're a great dad and husband, oh my goodness Judy don't take him for granted you are very lucky with all the help! My husband works two jobs and I have no help since family works!

[@skiferg]

Benji handling everything like a man !! Great dad

[@xXCarlijn12Xx]

To everyone saying they can take a break from vlogging, you gotta realise that youtube is their income; no vlogs = less money. Not hating, just saying :) I love them, they're such a cute family!

[@slh8844]

Benji, fact about almost all women: we want support, not advice or suggestions. Be next to her side and if she needs something she will ask you. Unfortunately, most of the work will fall on the mom if she is breastfeeding. Just keep being by her side and she will appreciate it.

[@janinealderete2633]

yep thats exactly it.

[@charleysmommy89]

Janine alderete 🙋🙌👏

[@FUNKYMACGIRL]

Aww benji does soo well with the twins.

[@SimplyyAndrea]

Kind of ridiculous that people are bashing their parenting. If they're fed, burped, changed, and warm...there's nothing else they can really do. They can't be held and rocked 24 hours a day..Benji and Judy are doing AMAZING. I definitely couldn't handle babies that cry that much. It's so disrespectful to bash them as parents. Like who the hell are any of you to tell them how to raise their children. No..gtfo.

[@xxPiikachu]

I Agree with you so much it's really sad people have been commenting like they're super mothers.

[@kelsjsulli]

I love this comment!! As a mother and child care provider for the past 8 years, I have yet to see a baby be seriously injured from crying. Benji said it perfectly, when you've done all you can and they're fed, not in pain, burped, warm, and changed, then there is nothing wrong with leaving them to cry for 15-20 min to see if they'll start to self soothe. I'm sure they wouldn't let them cry all day long. People forget thay this is 23 min of a 24 hr day

[@Happiepanda]

JB always makes me smile when I see her giggling when she gets close with the twins. Precious :) Hang in there guys!!

[@arliruiz6417]

I don't understand why everyone gets on Benji's back so much. You can tell he really tries. The stress is allowed to get to him too, not just Judy. There's things we don't see as well. But they're both trying. Hang in there guys! You guys are doing great raising 3 beautiful little girls (:

[@kristinsapperstein2942]

Thank you for working so hard every day to get your vlogs up when you have so many other duties!! Love watching you all!!

[@whsnfl]

Judy, I understand your frustration and wanting to let your anger out on someone but I hope you do realize how blessed you are with a husband who's always supportive and there for you. Plus, you have a great sister-in-law and amazing parents who are willing to help you with the girls. Count your blessings. And this is not a destructive criticism coming from a hater by all means (for all yall who likes to start shiz on KZbin). I watch your vlog religiously and I'd hate to see you and Benji go through so much stress not only from taking care of the girls but also from letting your frustration out on each other. Love you guys!

[@jaccnw]

Totally agree. She should count her blessings. My husband was in Iraq and not even close to my family to have help me with 3 kids!! Her support system is amazing. Lol

[@amaibrahim7683]

Agree i have twins now 1 yr old my mum died a couple yr ago very unexpected.i have NO other family or friends to help.my twins are with me 24 7 she is really lucky

[@GlossAndGlitz]

Benji is an AMAZING father. Period.

[@DakotaHaapala]

Such an amazing family! Julianna and the twins are so adorable!! Its so cute that Julianna is talking so much now.

[@sharonmarie919]

o.0? how are they amazing, cute but so horrible at the same time, im confused xD

[@soldonHim]

Did you mean adorable instead of horrible?

[@DakotaHaapala]

Yes haha it autocorrected!!! oh boy.. i'll edit that..

[@DakotaHaapala]

Sharon Ruiz I meant adorible.. Autocorrect changed it

[@sharonmarie919]

Dakota Haapala :D

[@gflenoy]

Judy, you should try an experiment with the twins. When they cry turn on the vacuum cleaner and see if they immediately stop crying. Of course you want to make sure they have already been fed and dried. I am a mother of 4 and it worked for me. Back in the day I recorded the sound and played it for my babies and they fell asleep. Let me know if it works for you. Ms. Gina :-)

[@macaroonscandyfloss]

There are different parenting styles one can adopt, you can let a baby cry it out once you have done everything possible for them, or you can have them attached to you a lot of the time and attend to their every cry. Judy has a hormonal attachment to the twins in a way a man cannot have, which is why it's easier for benji to let them have a little cry. I don't actually think there is anything wrong letting them have a little cry now and again. There are many opinions on when a baby can start to manipulative crying, but I am a midwife and I can tell you sometimes babies just cry! Maybe try some Infacol for the girls before feeding, or there are natural granules you can buy which go under the tongue of a baby and dissolve which help with gas and aid digestion. Some baby massage might also work for their tummies. Whichever style they chose adopt is really up to them, negative comments are not good for a mother who has recently had a baby- it's important to remember that Judy will be reading these comments and it's a sensitive time. I think you're doing a great job guys! Julianna is such a beautiful clever little girl too

[@bunnehead]

oh my gawd i know that babies cry sometimes, but seriously, these babies apparently need some formula to start with and then to be in separate cribs to sleep. It worked for the first few days with them right next to each other because it was like being in the womb, but now it is time for them to not be constantly laying next to each other. It would be helpful for them to sleep in a nursery or bedroom where there isn't noise all the time, like their toddler sister banging on her play piano or their parents talking to their camera. Some babies can sleep with background noise and others need quiet in order to sleep. Some babies need pacifiers. Some babies need to be held even though you have checked off everything on the list, because they want to feel the love from their parents. So before you just let them cry it out, try rocking them in a rocking chair. It works wonders. Between not getting enough in their bellies, to the noise downstairs, to waking each other up because they are always next to each other, no wonder you guys are ready to pull your hair out. Imagine the babies happier, then you would be happier and Julianna would be happier. It's all said in love. Trust me.

[@xoxokarmen20]

Judy has been taking out all her anger on Benji, it's very noticeable on the vlogs:(! It's okay benji hang in there, they need you :)!

[@Charmaineeeee]

I feel for judy and benji just hearing the babies cry on the volgs made my head hurt, but hang in there guys its only 5 more months, you guys are very good parents btw, very loving and caring

[@JazzysHomeCookin]

I see lots of people complaining about the twins not being the intro yet... but not seeing anyone taking it upon themselves to make the intro for them...lol

[@khmeramerican1]

thats a good idea! contest?! just like the shirts? that would be awesome

[@JazzysHomeCookin]

Tiffany M I know right!

[@safiya15]

Amen!

[@anniew9340]

People are so inconsiderate. They're busy with the babies -.-

[@JazzysHomeCookin]

Annie W Right!

[@SimsTherapy]

After seeing that steak sandwich I got really hungry! Benji you are awesome taking care of Judy

[@BeeutyObsessed]

Truly amazes me how even with newborn TWINS, they still find the time and energy to upload every single day! Thank you for sharing your life with us!

[@juicyjaynie]

Judy is a real supermom! I'm glad she keeps up with the vlogs even with 3 little girls around and Benji is a great help and a superdad as well :) you both are so awesome!

[@d_michellee]

I'm all for Benji, he's an amazing father & husband. People need to give him more credit.

[@xx69m0nika]

Aw benji, all will be well very soon. You're a great father and husband.

[@CLASSICNEGRITA]

Benji turning into his dad is a good thing. Cuz Benji's dad is AWESOMEEEEEE!!

[@stephaniesummers860]

People can be so rude and hateful!!!! I really hope you pass by those comments, Judy. You're an amazing mother doing the best you know how with what you have. My prayers are with you!! Don't let a few negative-nancies get you down! ❤️❤️❤️

[@AgataLib]

omg Benji, that speech while making breakfast was really moving, it's so great that you understand the struggle Judy goes through as a mom! And I'm sure that she sees that and is grateful too, even though she is stressed out. You both are wonderful parents :) Judy, you are a superwoman, remember that ;)

[@MaddieHaley]

I feel bad for Benji when the girls are teens and everyone in the house is pmsing 😂

[@ZebrasEatMarshmellow]

Omg.... you're right that's going to be very hard lol!

[@nightingale-e3i]

OMD I didn't even realise that! :OOOOOOOO

[@29ammu]

Top 5 comments on ItsJudysLife vlogs: 1. Why is there so much Benji/cooking? Benji doesn't do anything for Judy. 2. Judy needs to take a chill pill, she is so spoilt 3. Don't hold babies like this, hold babies like this. Do this for gas, don't do this for gas. Let them cry. Don't let them cry. 4. Why do you favour this child over that child? Judy only cuddles Miya and not Keira. Judy and Benji neglect Julianna by sending her to her grandmother's house. 5. Benji is so insensitive by saying things like 'Miya is the one giving us trouble'. This will affect her in 20 years. Do people ever bother to notice that Benji does so much work around the house, is such a good father and husband and cooks healthy meals for his family every day? Or that Judy manages to vlog daily, take care of 3 children which is not an easy task and put up regular videos on her other channel? And that they do so much charity work out of the goodness of their hearts? People that judge to this extent sicken me. Well done, Judy and Benji, you guys are doing great :)

[@geishaui]

Benji is stressed because he becomes the shock absorber. I can relate since my husband was like that when we had our baby. I can say he is doing everything he could. Both of you are trying but sometimes the moms need to take it easy on the dads. It's crazy. I only have one and wouldn't even want a baby soon. We want to enjoy our first baby. Good luck guys. Breath. :)

[@Elizabeth-lj5ke]

Thank you SO much for always putting up a vlog Judy! It brightens my day! I love how dedicated you are considering you have twins now!

[@bbmci]

Benji, you are the sweetest most caring father! Your wife and 3 daughters are so lucky to have an amazing, hands on husband/dad like you! You take such great care of everyone. Judy, you are also an amazing mom. You have such a blessed family. Hope things get easier on everyone soon! But just remember, all your hard work will pay off it in the end!

[@DejaJourney21]

I think that Benji's discipline style is kinda different then Judy's. I think that's why JB is more calm because she knows what to do and what not to do.

[@Mara-es2nq]

Hi Judy and Benji! I suggest you talk to a lactation consultant about your twins being fussy. She will most likely tell you they are having a growth spurt and need more mommy-milk! They are also more fussy during these growth spurts and need some extra love. My son is now 1 year old and used to feed EVERY 2 hours until he was 8 months old and EVERY hour when he was having a growth spurt (with 6 weeks, 12 weeks, 4 months etc). Please don't give up on breastfeeding and please dont supplement with formula, otherwise your breasts think they can stop producing more milk and you will slowly ruin your supply. Your twins behavior is completely normal. Try to nurse them more often and you will see the results within a few days. You guys are doing a great job! Greeting from Germany

[@lesliem8676]

As a mother of a 8 year old son and 7 year old twins (son and daughter ) and a 4 year old I can tell you it's really hard to handle . I'm so happy you to have each other to care for one another I promise as the girls get older it will be easier ps I'm a single mother and it's been so rough but my kiddos are worth everything in the end :) their little hugs and kisses are priceless and even when I'm not looking my best because mommys just to tired they still call me beautiful and it's all I need to get by .. You're blessed in a tons of ways once you get passed the hard parts its all amazing after that ... Love y'all

[@babybabyfish32]

It must be hard to raise so many kids around the same age. Keep it up, and best of luck!

[@lesliem8676]

Thank you so much :)

[@sri4suja]

You are an amazing woman....God bless you and your kids...

[@lesliem8676]

Awe thank you Hun you're a wonderful person and that just made my day :)

[@gabriellacifone402]

I seriously don't understand why people are talking bad about Judy and Benji as if they are doing something completely wrong. They parent perfectly! their kids are raised the right way. Nothing is wrong with Judy having her OWN time when the kids nap because that is something mothers don't get the chance to have after giving birth! and Benji does nothing wrong but contribute to the twins and Juliana. He makes sure they are all fed every single day and well taken care of!

[@everlynevins]

Because all these Negative Nancys want to pretend that they know everything. That's KZbin for you. Half the time the people criticizing don't even -have- children...yet they insist on telling other people what is good for /their/ children.

[@EarthAngelinKC]

Can't imagine how parents with triplets,quads,quints etc manage. It takes a village for sure and lots of patience & kindness. Best wishes.

[@b0dianab3auty]

Every time I hear the twins cry I wish I was there to help while u and benji relax. You both are great parents.

[@noarotenberg8006]

I know it's a bit pricy but it's well worth the investment of the swing set for the babies, I am sure you can get twin size, it goes in all directions, it swings it bobs up and down like you do manually so you'd be able to hold each other more rather than the twins :) something like Anna and Joffee have for Eduardo

[@VernaVolker]

I think they can afford two swings. It would really help them

[@noarotenberg8006]

I hope they get it. The fact that BENJI can't hold his sandwich with two hands having to rock the girls breaks my heart :/

[@HeyItsAllie97]

I don't know how Benji deals with Judy. I'd go crazy. You're doing a great job benji!

[@bellejolie77]

Please stop letting your infants who are barely a month old "cry it out." That method does not work on babies who are so young. Infants want to be held and comforted. They're not trying to manipulate anything out of you. It's not a motherly instinct to want to help crying babies, it's a HUMAN instinct.

[@ivlogwendy]

Right idk why they want to do the "cry it out" method to new borns thats a bit harsh. And then they say it all cool in the vlogs to make it even better like no I don't believe in that and never will and just because you said it doesn't make it acceptable. If my baby is crying i'm going to give him/her the security and hug them and kiss them, they are only babies once in their life time. They are only making things harder by letting them cry because they hear it all day and babies feel unwanted.

[@bellejolie77]

Wendy Romero I totally agree! When they're that young, they're crying because something is wrong. Babies don't just want attention, they NEED it.

[@LovelyCuteCharms]

Yes it does work

[@bellejolie77]

LovelyCuteCharms It does not. The only thing it does is cause stress for both the babies and the parents.

[@bellejolie77]

Wendy Romero Yeah, exactly. Newborns need more than just milk and a clean diaper. I don't think crying it out promotes self-soothing techniques at all. Not at the infant stage. They are literally fresh out of the womb and have no idea what is going on.

[@TheDulceCoffee]

I feel so bad for Benji, he's such a good man to Judy and a good daddy. I know you're stressed Judy but show Benji some love too.

[@faiyahhh]

Oh man i just wanna give Benji and Judy a great big hug. This stressful phase will past please be strong guys

[@mirandahaddow]

Judy we understand if you need a break. Don't worry about us!

[@VictoriaAnneFlanagan]

Thank you Judy and Benji for uploading the vlogs even though you're super busy with the babies :)

[@AppleGeek2008]

Im a single mom to a 2 year old (as of april 6th) and a 5 month old its hard but we get through. You're doing an amazing job to have twins and jb and still have time to put up videos!

[@miriagantwarg1836]

Aww Benji your the best husband and dad, Judy is extremely lucky.

[@saraheid2273]

Breast milk is digested in an hour on a half, on the other hand formula is digested in 3 hours. That's why bottle fed babies should eat every 3 hours. Plz Judy feed the twins on demand they are getting hungry in less than 3 hours that's why they are crying. Ps. I'm not being mean lol just an advice

[@Fiore61106]

I agree... I had a nurse come to my house when I had my daughter it was a program for first time mommies. Any how she told me to feed my baby on demand specially if I was breastfeeding her so that's what I did. She would eat every 2 hrs... With fórmula she would eat every 3-4 hrs.

[@saraheid2273]

Yes. Babies also don't cry with no reason. And FYI , crying is a late sign of hunger.

[@ericarussell22]

It helps her to not walk on her tippy toes if you keep her in shoes(preferably like stiffer sneakers) for a majority of the day. Walking on her tippy toes will eventually damage her feet and she'll end up having to get that corrected.

[@HeyTwinTv]

Poor Judy and Benji!!! I feel bad for my parents now :-( Hint, we're twins too Lol

[@itsallme1611]

Judy, you guys look so stressed and it shows. PLEASE take like a week vacation from vlogging and editing. You guys need the break. I'm sure everyone who truly watches you guys and appreciate all the hard work you put into your channels will understand. Marissa is a great person to ask for advice. She's an amazing role model. Love her! And, love you guys.

[@nimedhel09]

It's normal to be stressed out, guys! You have 2 newborns that cry a lot, and a toddler. I really don't know how you do it, really! You're amazing parents and good people. However, I understand that you get on each other's nerves and all, so I think that you should take a bit more alone time for each one of you and not be together all day every day. That's just an advice from a loyal subscriber :D

[@PikiMcCullough]

Benji is a loving and caring husband and father. It is a delicate situation. But Judy has to realize you are on her side and not against her. Raise a child is not easy, no matter how many you have. You are sensitive to Judy's needs and moods, and that is awesome. Judy should be and feel blessed for have you at her side. Judy we know you are tired and so, but please be anxious or nervous will pass to the twins, believe me (y) Love your family and i hope one day to have one like that ♥

[@beccaliz]

When I first saw Julianna with her hair up in ponytails I thought she looked like Boo from Monsters Inc! It would be a cute costume idea!

[@msprettyk6102]

Julianna should be boo then for Halloween

[@claudianarnoldo12]

The babies cry because their starving. Like your mom said in yesterdays video. Maybe supplementing with formula will help them valance. Their a little older they need more food. Hope this tip helps!!! Xoxo! Loe your videos!

[@qellyisbeast]

I'm pretty sure they aren't "starving" ... Just breastfeeds whenever they're hungry if that's not obvious.

[@AlrightDarlingx]

if they where starving they would be loosing weight

[@claudianarnoldo12]

Their hungry sooner then every 3 hours is what I meant. The cry they have is from a hungry baby.. Hungry not starved!

[@ASUSENAGAVINO28]

Claudia V totally agree

[@AlrightDarlingx]

Claudia V all babies crys are different, you cant just tell a babys needs from their cry from a few videos. They wouldnt settle if they where really starving

[@TaylorNicholC]

Judy take a break if you need it lady! You and benji work hard and we all appreciate but would totally understand if you took a couple days for your mental health. Love!

[@canadianqueen76]

Benji is so awesome! Keep the food coming Judy needs her strength. Prayers sent up for the family.

[@lillithremedy]

I look forward to your vlog every morning :) im childfree right now and watching you guys makes me oscillate wildly between wanting them and thinking they'd drive me to despair! All that crying, I just couldn't cope. I really hope it gets easier for you guys soon xx

[@LALAMYY]

To everyone, why does everyone making such negative comment? Every parents have the rights to use their own methods for the babies. Don't you feel they're caring them so much? So many parents just hit their kids when they cry non stop. You guys need to understand how hard they need to take care the babies when they can't even vent out their anger at the baby.