Sibusiso Ntaka described as 'abusive'

[@ckoriablack]

Such lies and protective families are the reason we are in this mess.

[@SobindaKaduze]

You can hear that this family is protective and telling lies

[@SobindaKaduze]

The family chose a wrong person to talk who doesn't know what has been going on between the two because she says she last saw the deceased lady last December in 2023

[@ckoriablack]

@@SobindaKaduze I think it is one of those anties who can speak, they're are always in first line of defence, they don't ask what happened they just defend their own. The father of the guy sounded more logical and humbled

[@IAmChosen9925]

Amen, I agree fully and I fight my Granny always about this conservative nonsense

[@MatodziRambau-k9e]

​@@ckoriablacki trust the father of the guy

[@TumeloMonare-w1w]

I sometimes wonder whether we are mature enough to be in relationships, condolences to both families

[@siviwembatane3600]

Sbu father tell us all, if this aunt is telling us a truth why she's hiding her face... This aunt probably knows that Ntobe cheated, but she'll defend another woman...

[@hgfku-tn6hb]

It happens several times where people don't want to be seen on television

[@monicakeitsione-io8qp]

Why are u hiding ur face aunt?why can't you be honest

[@NomondeDingana]

Bendihleka ntoni agiliswe kabini ndavukela ntoni aths

[@SarangMitchie]

Lol,so her cheating justifies his killing her? What madness is this? Such mentality is what's wrong with this country.

[@chloemorrison8892]

Hayi nimuncu yho and I'm afraid on behalf of the women in your families.

[@Ms-lb7lb]

Men’s comment on this is news is alarming. May God truly protect and guide women. 🙏🏽 Praying for our deliverance as women!

[@vuyisasholo1354]

The guy was very hurt it might not be her who hurt him but he was hurt and very depressed

[@_ayabulela_]

i understand your point and the truth is both partners have a hand when a relationship fails, it's a pity that whenever relationships end, its always men who get blamed and women are always the innocent ones. murder is a horrible thing and Sbu could've handled the situation better. Men are not delusional. You don't just wake up one day and decide to murder someone you asked to be your partner for life.

[@avelakhoza6140]

​@@_ayabulela_ In reality it's not about claiming women are innocent but in this case Ntobe is, because she is the victim and she was murdered. Women always endure cheating and at the end the same men leave those who held on when they were cheating, yet women don't murder them. Sibusiso is a disturbing partner anyone would never wish to have. No one has a right to end anyone's life, men cheat all the time and women don't kill them

[@dikeledimapeelo1378]

Many are in abusive relationships with hope for change

[@ntokozoguzunene1973]

Lies

[@FortuneKHULA]

even men

[@NomvuseleloNkomo]

Bazofela khonake asingene lapho

[@hloniphanintombela3118]

Why did she get back to the abusive man after she had escaped and moved on with her life?

[@Slxm_10]

A very interesting question

[@Frickflims]

You know relationships and money

[@Arike-c3q]

She was obviously fearing for her life Sometimes it’s safer to stay in the relationship then leave as you can see in this case

[@_Darkskullet]

Dont be stupid

[@VanessaMukuma]

It takes upto 10 attempts or more for a petfon to leave an abusive relationship completely.

[@thebasement3517]

I believe the aunt, why did he bump her with a car? Women in SA always go back to abusers even my mom did. Kuningi nje, umfana ube obsessed.

[@s.amusicent.382]

What he bump her with coz after he found out something that she did?

[@thebasement3517]

@s.amusicent.382 so that justifies it? Everytime they faught, he would claim that the kid is not his. Ube muhle kakhulu u Ntobe, the guy was obsessed with her and unomona

[@sbonzama7013]

This is to be expected! The aunt is trying to paint her niece with a good brush but only the 2 knew the truth!

[@FortuneKHULA]

true

[@stbltsndopnspces]

😂😂

[@nokthulabrown]

Mama speak the truth how does a married woman have a child with another man. Women live true lives and we shall not have gbv.

[@PinkDiamondSA]

So you blaming women for the disgusting behavior from men? U saying the reason GBV exists is because of a woman ?

[@nokthulabrown]

No, can woman accept the part the role they play. If you are a mother learn to be fair each and every child on earth deserves love truth. Was she right to mess up the guys life why are we such hypocrite when it comes to this gbv. If you want love get love if you want money get money with the backlash it has.

[@nokthulabrown]

Woman should love themselves first then they would stop selling themselves. Imagine if all woman were going for money not love what would we be. Lead by example not by your private part. I have kids and I always tell them easy come easy go simple.

[@nthabisengsegola]

When you look at things from such an angle you won't go anywhere. Men and women choose to get married knowing very well that whatever they have is extremely toxic. How many men and women have kids outside their marriage? Too many. Then people must come out and defend things that they know nothing about. The male in this situation is wrong for taking the life of another. What they condoned in their marriage and said yes to is the least of our concern right now.

[@sanzan8346]

You are sick! Men have children outside marriage everyday and no one kills them ..

[@mcpherrybanda8782]

Lesson of the dae..if u abuse ppl emotionally they will abuse u physically.....

[@thuliendlovu719]

Nonsense 😂 No such bullshit psychology

[@kingpk4429]

I agree, a lot has not been said about emotion abuse. Women are silent abusers and the country is saying nothing...

[@TumeloMonare-w1w]

there's no excuse for gbv, whether it's committed by male or female, if you feel emotionally abused just pack your bags & move on with your life

[@mthethelelizama7321]

😂😂😂

[@mcpherrybanda8782]

@@thuliendlovu719 it's called BTTS(draw draw..both teams to score)🤗🤗

[@71626242]

Kante SABC, are you really lacking professionalism? We would greatly appreciate your help with subtitles, as we want to stay informed about this tragic situation.

[@tumigameplays7149]

😂😂😂 Just learn a new language bro

[@loadsheddingzim]

Tragic story. You gotta love yourself before loving someone else. If this brother did that he would have had the strength to walk away. And she would have let him go. 😢

[@zolamvelase9176]

True

[@TumeloMonare-w1w]

well put, loving one's self makes it easier to let go & avoid such situations

[@hgfku-tn6hb]

His father just described him as a good guy

[@sibonelongema7286]

I grew up with him I can tell you he has never hurt a fly.

[@siviwembatane3600]

Mans are all abusived in south africa according to this mainstream media...

[@ckoriablack]

Agreeing to raise a child that is not his after being cheated on, to me that sounds more than a good guy, he just tolerated bullshit for a long time to a point where his mind couldn't take it anymore

[@glowschannel5012]

@@sibonelongema7286 He might have been gentle with flies but the man was apparently very abusive to women

[@hildadavids217]

​@@glowschannel5012No one nows the kind of life, these 2 people lived only they and God knows. The lady is not here to defend herself. Do not enter 2 people's problems, only they know. If someone does not want you, does it give you the right to take their life? No one has the right to take anyone's life. What happened to just walking away. The lady is not anyone's property. I have 2 sons and they know that, just walk away. It hurts a lot, but taking someone's life is not the answer to the problem. Why is the woman the problem? Men are cheating every day and woman must accept it.

[@malehlakamatetoa2921]

The Father said there were huge problems in the relationship 😢

[@wespeakthetruthhere7413]

He said with his own mouth ukuthi uRAF wawuzanyelwa uyena, so aunt’s story actually makes sense.

[@nokthulabrown]

We quick to put blame bcs lawrence killed her. So if you are thinking it's right, what she did look at his face the anguish the disappointment of falling for her lies again. If he was cruel, he could have just done it and let her family suffer, but he told what he did and saved everyone of pointing 👉. Let's educate ourselves about this and stop 👉 teach woman, man matter too. You can't give pain and expect love

[@austentendaupenyu4519]

Its good to walk away before it's too late this is really sad😢

[@sbonokuhlesanelemzimela]

UAnti kaNtobe unenzondo. Wenzeni umndeni kaSbu ngoba abamthumanga phela, uSbu uykhulumele konke yena.

[@YourLocalGreenscreenguy]

So true, Ifamily kaSbu ayimthumanga. Nabo futhi balahlekelwe.

[@avelakhoza6140]

Hau kodwa mfethu, mhlawmbi she's talking from a point of hurt cause kusekusha lokhu, it's not about inzondo

[@okaMbovu]

ayi ngiwumuntu wesifazane kodwa aayi angizwa kahle hle.

[@Dude-1689]

Hhay losisi uyangundaza nam angmuzwa

[@Solwazi918]

How about abulale wena maybe uzoyizwa kahle then

[@okaMbovu]

@@Solwazi918 waze wa personal nge comment engahlangene nawe.

[@Solwazi918]

@ wena ihlangene nawe yini le ongayizwa?

[@okaMbovu]

@@Solwazi918 heal sisi,engathi ungathola ukwelapheka.

[@MatodziRambau-k9e]

This family is rotton why didnt they open the case against the guy during the car accedent thing .or the lady family was benefiting from the relationship

[@thulambuli1779]

Listening is a skill.

[@MatodziRambau-k9e]

@thulambuli1779 that is my opinion not facts

[@thulambuli1779]

@@MatodziRambau-k9e She answered your question, if you listen carefully or you were listening with your formulated opinion already?

[@avelakhoza6140]

But you said it's "rotten" that word was conclusive of you expressing a fact. Sometimes families don't like tension, how many families do you know that went to open a case on behalf of the abusee? And the lady went back to the abuser without opening the case as well, it's a matter of sweeping matters under the carpet often practiced by black families, which is wrong

[@Used-h4w]

The Raf story is not making sure 🙄

[@just_by_luck]

What do u expect?! People must speak truthfully even if the truth does favour u ! It doesn't make sense that he was abusive but at the same time the girl wanted him back and distroyed his relationship

[@avelakhoza6140]

Unfortunately it's always the case in abusive relationships, kubane obsession nje engenzi sense

[@ntokozozulu4284]

Why are people believing a murderer..mmmh rest Ntobe

[@PinkDiamondSA]

Nobody will really know 😢 only them 2 behind closed doors.

[@njabulongcobo7633]

beyaphi ku-sbu if eseqhubeke nempilo?

[@avelakhoza6140]

Bekavumelani uSbu sekaqhubeke nempilo, ulala kanjani kaSbu uSbu avume naye enomuntu omusha, ubezogcina secheatela the new girlfriend loSbu nalomuntu wakhe, why guys do this vele...abalale ngoxolo, their relationship was toxic

[@nokthulabrown]

That man could've found a desent girl and married her. Not ruff money

[@IreneBunei-pj9hw]

The devil stole his thoughts to think that was the only woman. He is dead& totally destroyed

[@avelakhoza6140]

I agree with this, it's never worth it to be called a murderer, something one could have avoided by finding a decent person, given that he should also be a decent person. This relationship was toxic

[@sandisiwencube945]

It's so easy for all of you to judge behind the screen yazi. There are many cases where benizothi indaba yabantu ababili ayingenwa. In this case, both the victims were wrong! And It's understandable that both families would want to defend their loved ones. Some of the people in this comment section are just using the victims to vent out their own past hurt based on their own personal experiences. It's sad to see that ngathi a lot of people would do the same thing to their former partners whether it's playing them or killing them. Umhlaba esiphila kuwo uyethusa.

[@avelakhoza6140]

You make so much sense, it's really sad, in every way for both families and they were both wrong, cheating is wrong and killing is wrong. It's sad all round

[@tumelomarungwana9321]

Let the police take test of the child

[@rasluckyhaji377]

So from my understanding the fiance (dead woman) after their reconciliations stole the husband phone at night while he was sleeping took a video of the man sleeping and sent it to the man,s new girlfriend and bragged that the are back together the man,s new girlfriend than dumped the man when the man went back to the dead woman to say now that you have messed up my new relationship we are than back together the dead woman also dumped him so that set the man off no excuse for murder but the dead woman was so evil why was she so abusive this wasn't like she had moved with her life and the guy was jealous the guy had moved on and she come back to destroy the guy,s new relationship without intentions to rebuild their own marriage so she got what she deserve Remember she cheated on him and got pregnant for other man and the guy took her and the child We need stop thinking that gender based violence is when a man abuses or kills a woman,that mentality is the reason why women keep dying,most of them think when they abuse men it's a game not abuse,when a female victim calls emergency number the whole police force rushes to the scene including minister of defense but when a man calls the same number they turn him into a joke

[@lukevilla1046]

Y'all still say allegedly when it's obvious 😒 how much proof 🧾 do you need.

[@cindyrambau4476]

Lawfully is under investigation 😂😂😂there’s is no such as obvious

[@samuelmathomane7198]

How come you come with a child from another man, she was not alright

[@SheCanSmile]

Well he knew it and seemingly accepted it

[@ntokozoguzunene1973]

​@@SheCanSmilethat makes him a good guy, no man can ever accept that

[@sanzan8346]

So deserved to die? Niyoze niyiqonde lento yokubulawa kwabantu besifazane mhla yenzeka kwi family zenu🤞🏾

[@avelakhoza6140]

​@@SheCanSmileTrue, he was just not right upstairs too

[@kiratwatson4164]

all lies what about the emotional and physiological abuse that our fellow brother suffered from the lady .what happened is not good but they must stop lying nje

[@mthethelelizama7321]

Reap what you saw...

[@avelakhoza6140]

Have the same energy when it's your child or sister. Men cheat all the time, no one kills them. I personally never cheated but have been cheated on and accepted the child of another woman, I didn't kill him, I left when I got tired, when are men reaping what they are sowing, you guys are so biased and sound evil

[@nay26love3]

The devil can make you do stupid things , protect your hart and don't fall in love

[@nokthulabrown]

We always blame the guy why not look at the history not your feelings rest in peace lawrence even if you were wrong to kill her may god forgive you for murder but i feel your pain.

[@Pat_Dube]

Ayy this aunt is just taking sides in such a sad moment.

[@nokthulabrown]

Ooh by the way im a woman and I stand against gbv. But will not be a hypocrite just bcs I can no. Woman tell the truth stop lying. I have sons and a daughter so does that mean my child can do just as they please bcs we will say gbv? South Africa can we be real for once.

[@lulamafani1200]

Loud please!!!

[@thobekilesibanda4345]

Did you hear her side of the story??? Clearly you have never been with a narcissist or a person with a personality disorder

[@avelakhoza6140]

It is a GBV is someone dies, because no one has a right to kill anyone. Both men and women should be free to leave if they don't wanna be in a relationship anything without being forced to stay or killed. No excuse for a murder, if this is what you're thinking, then I guess you will advise your girl kids to kill their partner if they cheat on them, because apparently it's alright as per the comment you make here

[@samuelmathomane7198]

Stop lying about violence, talking about chatting

[@Meza.Mani87]

Exactly what I was suspecting....he was probably abusive....

[@jabulindelwa9601]

Abuse people ,they wil deal with you nicely ,that lady was abusive to that man

[@siyamcelavdyezanivd7927]

Kuyavakala sowukhuluma ukuthi ,umgcine kudala uyathithiza

[@martinshabangu9854]

After hearing this RAF definitely will not pay mos hebanna

[@zolamvelase9176]

Tjoh...

[@iAMkingdom-y4q]

Looks like they also didn't disclose that he was the one who hit her with a car.

[@vusumuzi_mathumo]

Yekani ukufeba

[@nokthulabrown]

True stop ubufebe

[@avelakhoza6140]

Men and Women yekani ukufeba, yekani ukubulala. Ayikho nje engcono,

[@ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni]

If he was abusive, the girl should've left him. Instead of taking her back....the guy ubenga move on.

[@hgfku-tn6hb]

How many women are in Abuse relationships and can't move out? Is it as easy as you think?

[@siviwembatane3600]

That's true, and the guy was already move on, the wife wanted the guy back... And it's seems all the man are abusive, what about the wife brought a child of another man...

[@dikeledimapeelo1378]

many

[@ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni]

@hgfku-tn6hb The boys father says it is known that she asked asked the family to take her back, had asked for forgiveness. No one said it was easy to leave abuse. But she should've left and moved on. There are avenues with the law to assist. Why even go and take videos and share with his girlfriend. I get your angle, but aybo, let's also bring common sense here. Is there a report that she made etc, etc.

[@jabulindelwa9601]

You can defend the lady as much as you.want ,because you are like her,using man for ur needs ,but the sad part you will follow her to grave,man wil deal with you nicely 😊

[@allthingsme6675]

Sbu's had no control over what he did,why must they be held responsible for what he did.Sad all round😢😢😢

[@avelakhoza6140]

How did he not have control over taking a life of another human being, would you say the same if it was your family member that was murdered?

[@learamailane8350]

Hae! People out here making umjolo their entire lives😢

[@avelakhoza6140]

Imagine😢😢

[@thamimtetwa2170]

she shot a video and showed his girlfriend why did she do that

[@sbusisojustice4168]

This aunt you can hear that she's lying

[@Fikile-b7u]

Nceseni mndeni ngolahlekelwa ingane yenu ngesihluku kodwa engathi khona lento eniyifihlayo lah

[@CushasebevalileZungu]

Uthatha I side lo anti indlela engimuzwa ngayo

[@dephine8815]

The family is angry cz they might not get RAF money anymore.

[@phumzilepatiencenene3025]

😂😂😂😂

[@thuliendlovu719]

Well...if you didn't know, they will receive it on behalf of the beneficiary. Works the same as when a person dies and the family claims. So stop with the cheap speculations

[@lulamafani1200]

Auntie Auntie, please! Uyabonakala futhi ukuba awuyazi lento uthetha ngayo 😢

[@lulamafani1200]

Usixelela ngo ndivaa!! Mximf

[@MargaretMaimela-lw6kh]

Aunty lying on a public platform 😅

[@kimkaans1072]

Subtitles.

[@thubelihlesamkelo2266]

Niyazivuna ingane zenu noma zi wrong

[@Tigererolo]

Satane tse phelelang basadi tsee. Haik! Jwale u shwele morena u ipolaela letekatsi. Bothata ba banna ba selehe bana ke hore they invest too much in a relationship to a point where they lose themselves. Le layane difebe ting.

[@lozithanoziphomahlangu9036]

bantu yekani ukwehlulela

[@iAMkingdom-y4q]

Okuzwakalayo ukuthi wamqhufuza ngemoto. Okunye u ntombazane akazwakali kahle

[@KingP-h9q]

I haven't been heard about painful the guy talked that he raised a child even knowing that is not his kid after that the good continue stayed with her after the painful situation.

[@nonsindisomjweni7697]

Aunty ayikho lento aychazayo sekhulumela ingane yakubo nje kphela yin esho izinto ezimbi kphela ngoSbu, ikhona kwayona imvu egqoka iskhumba segusha?

[@GomeHoldings]

Azifani izitori ezixoxwa abazali. Lapho no-anti ubehlala eThekwini kakhulu. Asifani istory. And ngeke abe right both sides. Abalale kahle bobabili. Kuningi. Kubuhlungu.

[@SisYapie]

Aw kahleni bo nani ngyani blamer mndeni💔

[@portiamaleshoane3425]

The aunt is lying finish.

[@ntokozoguzunene1973]

This lady is telling lies, you can hear

[@AllenKhumalo-mf1sm]

Mummy you lieying tomuch

[@thandingcwatywa8769]

Eysh😢😢😢

[@SilingeneMchunu]

This man he was abuse 😢

[@PreciousLukhele-t4l]

It pain fully

[@Fikile-b7u]

Koswa uNtobe kwi video uvela ehappy nje akabonakali njengomuntu ohlukumezekile

[@bontsifrance9002]

We can say what we what but the truth knows by two mtsrip😢😢😢😢😢

[@Gao_Phala]

I believe you. RIP beautiful Nontobeko, South Africa failed you

[@jabulindelwa9601]

How did they failed her,coz ubufebe bakhe obumbeke kulendawo akuyo,who gave woman rights to abuse man,and act victims 😊

[@Gao_Phala]

@ tsek

[@portiamaleshoane3425]

Which country failed her cause she's the one who went back for love back

[@Gao_Phala]

@@portiamaleshoane3425I have edited it and added the country 😊

[@nokthulabrown]

South Africa never said feba or play with other people children heart. She was cruel he was human as she was

[@busidominance]

Uzothini lo ngoba ngu Aunt ka mufi we sifazane

[@PhumlaniSithole-c4t]

Nani bantu beyindaba niyasbanga iscefe ngeke besavuka labantu ukulokhu nibuza labantu ngeke kubavuse

[@Used-h4w]

Hai the aunt is lying 😂😂

[@SethabileSimelane-s1l]

😂😂😂😂ay cha uyabuduzela

[@mthokozisipatrick2439]

Waqhubekelan nomuntu o abusive yoo yebana ayikho nje lento

[@sbudashap]

Lies lies lies 😢

[@NdumiePhochana]

Chaaa aunty una manga angi muzwa kahle uyangingiza nje

[@QinisoMsane]

Yekani ubufebe

[@sanelealex8422]

Losisi unamanga

[@thobekilesibanda4345]

She hurt that’s the reason she can’t really speak

[@tshegofatsosinatra9963]

They look alike with that child so I believe her… aii