'Niī Mutumia ūhuana Ngui Ndimwendete' : Those Were My Husband's Words To Me On The Day We Separated

‘There is no difference between you and a dog!’ Those were the words that Apiyo’s husband told her before he abandoned her.
Dejected, poor and with a baby on her back, Apiyo came back to Nairobi and set out to brewing Changaa and drinking all night.
If a man in a club refused to buy her a drink, she would wrestle him to the ground, make sure she has overpowered him then sit on him and take all his money. She would spend some on alcohol and the rest on food for her babies. That’s how she nursed the pain of her divorce.
Here is her story on ‘Why are you single?’

[@rosendungu8773]

My ex husband left me for an old woman from Majengo... thanks God that my doors opened for me and my 2 children...we are all in Europe and karma is dealing with him in Mai Mahiu

[@Chai-moto-fm]

That’s a nice one Karma dealing with him in mai mahiu! 😂😂😂😂

[@esthermagua8359]

😂😂😂😅😅

[@anthonymatovu6057]

Forgive him

[@NellyWainaina-pc9pp]

That is the power of forgiving.

[@auntmso]

That's what I like to hear

[@eunicenjeru215]

This lady is gifted in learning languages.She is speaking fine Kikuyu.

[@shikungugichannel5651]

I thought she is a Kikuyu 😮

[@kuirairene9590]

Since I was a small girl namjua akiongea kikuyu

[@kuirairene9590]

I know her from my childhood, we used to go to the same church St. Francis Mwihoko and I schooled with her child Ashley (Awito)in the same class.Her story is true. True we need to give her flowers 🌺🌺🌺.

[@carolinemukundi4918]

AMG Realtor's and Bountiful Safaris make this lady smile❤❤.She has such a heart of gold.A story of resilience and hard work.

[@maryndungu-bs7je]

She is such a vibe. I cannot have enough of her. The Kikuyu is better than many kiuks. God bless you Joyce Apiyo

[@rosalinemwariri9000]

Kikuyu should be a national language, kudos mama Lilian 🎉

[@sarahngugi2779]

Naniguo ena Gikuyu kiega ati Apiyo what a wonderful lady

[@mercymuriithi2669]

It's true huyu mama namjua tunaishi na yeye mwihoko,she is my role model,she has a good n abig heart, Mungu akumbariki mamayetu,gwitaga Mami,ningwendete

[@charitynganga9351]

She is very comical - wow...the power of forgiveness. May God bless her and give her favour in all she does.

[@annmaina4268]

The way she is speaking amd knows deep Kikuyu more than I do is even illegal.

[@alicemwago11]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 tiga uiru nunua Ile kitabu ya wirute guthoma 😅😅😅

[@MonicaKariuki-ei1ic]

You have said the truth th​@@alicemwago11

[@irenek5407]

😂😂😂😂

[@YvonneNjeri-cb7yw]

​@@alicemwago11 Ibuku riu ria wirute guthoma no rituire?

[@alicemwago11]

@@YvonneNjeri-cb7yw hahahhahaha 😃😃😃 aki ma onanie nindirarietha niundu wa mwana wakwa

[@dannjuguna6648]

This is the kenya we want...this lady is a vibe ❤.

[@wanjiru-yues1]

She’s a beautiful soul. Thanks Monica for hosting her. ❤

[@rachealkaranja26]

This lady is so beautiful, mature and has a very good heart. She is a seed of God.

[@cathywangari4740]

Kenyans United If you are in Diaspora That when you know you don't care which tribe you came/born from We are kenyans in blood

[@gracekarimi6378]

Thank you Monica. Biggest lesson in this interview is the joy in letting go.

[@phyloshix4153]

She is such a vibe... her eloquence in kiuk... Is amazing

[@Esenem_247]

This lady is so fluent abd she seems so open and a wonderful mature lady 😊

[@nonig8816]

Wow!! I thought she's Kikuyu, speaking perfect Kikuyu♥️

[@vinjoproducts.4655]

She is a good woman

[@sophianaropi5011]

This is a very strong, intelligent and blessed woman. She has a beautiful soul. God bless the works of her hands.

[@newtonnjugunanewtonnjuguna8755]

Waaaah, pole mama Lilian , hope sisi wote wenye tunafanya gulf wameskia but, i want to remind mama Lilian that this money you used to pick or rather steal from the dramkards, most likely lead to the punishment you received, I have learned that anything you get the wrong/evil way, destroys you dearly I would want you to apologize, and kindly ask God for forgiveness and if possible, reach to those men and ask for forgiveness, kindly I really felt sorry for you, hopefully God will definitely take care for you, especially if you will manage to reach this Men

[@prophetjanekimani987]

God is not a punisher but a forgiver…. It is good to seek forgiveness from God but she should not feel condemned….she is blessed…❤ ❤

[@janeshepherd9259]

There's now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus

[@newtonnjugunanewtonnjuguna8755]

@@janeshepherd9259 , you are right, but on alight note you as a person needs to just visit them, victims, and simply say sorry and that you didn't know what you were doing, because remember that the families of the victims suffered severally because of stealing their father, the bitter tears of the victims wives, sleeping hungry because of you, there's something more to do

[@florambugua7117]

Very wise lady n determination to achieve

[@samuelnjugunakimata5576]

She very fluent in gĩkũyũ language.

[@bethkiragu3809]

Hi Kui. What an inspiring story. May the Almighty God bless you and Apiyo for such a wonderful story.

[@wanguigithaga3305]

She's an excellent mam. May God bless her so much. Thank you Kago I you are such a great soul❤

[@wanyagahostrich2443]

Apiyo is a comedian , though amekapitia she’s fighter n she have a compassion heart 🙏

[@juliuskariuki7387]

Ur chronologically of asking questions is top notch, i salute u

[@Wanguicathy]

True she is not overly curious or insensitive nampenda sana

[@nenekarain539]

True way and demonstration of forgiveness

[@MorenaacalvinChege-wz6vg]

Huyu mama n kama wajaluo wa laikipia na wakalejin ,, they speak pure Kikuyu,, naskiza hii story nikiwa Riyadh,, taking notes on how to save on My own,,,,,,Mk❤❤❤

[@chatwithanne1122]

Yes save your own money eg Kwa M-Pesa if you don't have a bank account. Never trust anyone

[@chatwithanne1122]

For those planning to go to the gulf or any country please open a bank account before you leave Kenya then you can do online banking..and have an M-Pesa.

[@reginadavid4454]

Waoh what a story she is blessed ❤

[@juliewambui3991]

What an a inspiring story,wambui ur r a strong woman 🎉

[@IreneWaithera-fp8pl]

Waoh beautiful story i lun alot from her may God bless you mama and give you your heart desires ❤️

[@user-wo5dw9om8d]

May God bless u Apiyo and monicah for this inspiring story,mama Lilian God is talking u to another level for Ur good heart.

[@susanwanjiku5839]

She is a vibe.a lady with a golden heart.God bless you Mama🙏

[@Mamake657]

Wow niko gulf nanimesoma mengi... thanks kagoni❤

[@carolinemunge1563]

This is the spirit of a mother😊❣️

[@user-jd2ke9fq5z]

Good show Monica

[@sarahngugi2779]

True we don't give because we are rich we share the little we have Joyce be blessed you worked your level best in Saudi God will reward and repay you back 🤲🙏

[@MaryWanjiku-qn7kh]

A good natured humourous sweet hearted lady. God will soon shower her with His favour. Be blessed Apiyo Wambui❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@RoseMary-xf3pt]

Wa lilian is so vibrant.. very nice story may God open doors for her

[@monicahwambui548]

God bless you mama,,I can't get enough of you.

[@rachealmukuria8846]

She's a vibe n a blessing to many

[@SicilyMureithi]

You are a blessing to the weak,may the Lord prosper her physically and spiritually

[@Alba-Shi]

I like such women. Such a vibe!🤣

[@hellenmwangi4598]

Mama you are a good story teller😂

[@lydiamaina1005]

Resilience, patient and hardworking lady

[@elizabethnganga]

True, you don't give out of abundance of material wealth but rather out of the abundance of the heart. Nyadhiwa, well done. Or do I say, Wambūi, kanyangia papo hapo👏🏾🙌🏾

[@wahana-actress]

that is me born and raised in Nyandarua but kijaluo najua kuliko kikuyu,Aheri mang`eny jaber

[@bethwambui4740]

Dealing with men who are not ready to settle or raise kids is not a joke

[@sarahmwangi6025]

I have just enjoyed the show.....this mum is a vibe❤❤❤❤

[@donnangugi9192]

l love her vibes a very good narrator ❤

[@sarahngugi2779]

Haki ako na kikuyu veeeeeeery nice 👍

[@ruthnjeri1072]

Amazing how Apiyo is fluent in Kikuyu hata hachanganyi na kiswahili...roho safi kabisa

[@patrickirungu8835]

Joyce you are wonderful woman.God bless you mama.

[@jesusfound8758]

Beautiful lady with a great ❤️ heart

[@monicahlishiar6631]

Good job💞💞💞💞

[@miriammugo5459]

Let's support her seriously so that she fulfill her desires

[@esthermumbi2600]

Very inspiring story.kagoni very soon nitapeana my story

[@blessedrose9424]

Wee kikuyu yake imeweza.. I’m a kikuyu, but hata haifiki hapo, the vocabularies weeee. Congrats Walilian…may God keep you long and protect you

[@lenahjrgensen6205]

Weee her fluent Kikuyu with no accent.. mpaka Kikuyu vocabularies

[@margaretnjeri2310]

U did good to forgive ur daughter.

[@mindsetmakeoverbyMaggieG]

I love this story,her spoken English is 👌.

[@gladwellgichuki2267]

She has a very good heart, May one day God fulfill all her heart's desire.

[@mercymuturi8045]

Hadi anajua jina 'Nyaciara' woiiii....Your flowers 💐💐 Apiyo

[@user-ix9cx5sh9m]

I love your locks Monica ❤

[@shirowkihara6577]

She's a no_nonsense lady 😂😂 I love ladies like her, strong go getters, courageous and who knows their worth.

[@bilhahnjeri6427]

Apiyo is such a vibe I love her positivity towards life she never gave up

[@kennethnjuguna7810]

True story kabisa..I know her ❤

[@sarahngugi2779]

Yani ngiya kwa Jaluo kwi wana ushio wa ma mother in law 😊

[@wanjiruwanganga5707]

Mother in law Hadi wazungu they can hate you😢

[@sarahngugi2779]

@@wanjiruwanganga5707 weeeh i was shocked

[@PurityNjeri-ib6mk]

She deserves to be called a mum!!! May the lord bless this lady

[@cindylombard4176]

Mama Lilian, there's a place for people like you! Nakupenda bure.

[@millicentmaina3687]

Wow she’s very fluent and honest

[@janekogi6442]

She is a community resource person

[@josephmwangi5141]

Úyú mútumia ní fire 🎉

[@MercyWangari-xm6ty]

Woow, mwarī wa Obonyo from mwihoko❤

[@davidmwangi2234]

Hook her up with wanjiru wa kiama they can make a great team

[@FaithWanjiru-oj7kz]

Am learning that Forgiveness is key so that God can bless you.Forgive from deep down your heart

[@Karenwangari-cu8dw]

She is beautiful,we are all unique and made in the image of God

[@kinjowadad2422]

Mum pole sana,wamama upitia mambo mengi sana wakilea watoto wao .micie ni ndogo.

[@mundiasophie4637]

Such a soul.

[@eunicenjeru215]

I cannot get enough of Apiyo.Eti Tusker malt.Yaan you met a very good family.

[@monicawacuka6110]

Apiyo you are amazing 😂🎉

[@gracenjoroge4150]

Wanaume ni wale wale. May Almighty help women.

[@milkanjoki5871]

kagoni.. guide yeye aende step by step coz anaenda mbele arafu anarudi nyuma

[@FaithImani-qj1ci]

Ciana itihuanaine kuri mari mitwe nakuri matari,murekere tu mum tondu niaguikire uuru muno na mwana waku,niakarihio ni Ngai, narikorwo mutumia uyu no one mundu ungimugirira kieya uyu no atethie andu aingi ena ngoro ya gutethia

[@Fey-stephen]

Weh...her kikuyu is soo fine👏 😂😂😂😂..she's just a vibe..amesema wanaume wote niwamama mmoja..the rizon why am single after first failed marriage 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@EstherMaina-ep6ue]

Apio my neighbor watu hutoka far

[@kamaunjeri7562]

If only we know that the human experience is the same

[@alicegatama]

I love this lady. She has a beautiful heart.

[@JanetJuma-hb9zl]

Waiting

[@moniwawarikuo2253]

Our God is slow to anger and forgive Pure heart ur forgiven for forgiving

[@marywaithira-wd6sv]

Connect to the person who did your locks i love them

[@sarahngugi2779]

😂😂😂😂 after two week hair style Lilian maah ndekaga wega mbia cia Saudi ma

[@rosekamau8537]

Many lessons learnt, kwanza hapo kwa kuachilia bitterness in Life😢

[@janeshepherd9259]

This one can do the work of a comedian 😅 I just love you mama lilian ❤

[@janenjuguna7904]

Mimi wacha niwatumie school fees na rent na za food nitakaa na zangu hapa USA I can’t trust anyone 😢

[@user-hv8zy5uo7x]

Aki si unisaidie kufika uko jane

[@gracewanjiru1022]

Any connections za kukuja huko

[@YvonneNjeri-cb7yw]

Yes ooh ukicheza watakushow kibembe

[@rahabmwaura1990]

She is strong

[@rosamariewanjiru8659]

Who knows what hair braid is monicah wearing and who makes them. They are beautiful

[@margaretnjeri2310]

Lakini ni msaliwa

[@NyaguthiiNgatia]

hii ulimi haijui kijaka aki,,,fluent kikuyu