Niam Lub Kua Muag Nrhiav Niam Tub. 7/31/24

[@tapangaher]

Such a sad story. No child should ever have to endure this pain. Hmong people need to make changes in their ways and protect our kids when we need to.

[@macydruckrey9023]

Tus me sister aw.... pab koj tu siab tshaj li os. I'm a divorced woman with kids just like you. Us women need to know that we need to put our kids first before the new person that we let into our lives. Because we can always replace a new lover but not our children.

[@saykaomee]

Both you and your ex-husband are so concerned about your spouses. If he doesn't want to do the marriage for your son, you should've. If your current husband says no, you should've told him don't let the door hit him on his way out. Spouses can be replaced, but your children and parents aren't.

[@xayxiong1061]

Agreed

[@maiyang3109]

Hmm if you listen to the story, I don’t think the mother was aware of the 3 times her son brought his gf home to marry???

[@saykaomee]

@@maiyang3109 Both the ex and the son mentioned that to her.

[@jasminexiong3603]

I am 100% agree with you!!!

[@leelao6832]

Pojniamcesthaumqaulubqawvobceglawmceshnovqabtxhuayam

[@daozonglee1017]

Stop blaming the mom. Blame the step-parents, the dad, and the grandparents. She did all she could and she left her son to take care of her younger son. She is already blaming herself, so y’all nasty people need to stop blaming her. You guys already know the Hmong culture, she got remarried so even if he is her child it is the dad’s responsibility.

[@monkeybanana9269]

Cause in Hmong society, everything is always the woman's fault. All the rules were made in favor of the man even if he is irresponsible and reckless. That's how it rolls and still is.

[@KhuaTrangthi]

Mus zoo kj os me tub aw kj nplooj siab mob npaum twg li os, kj ua ib siab mob cev nqai daim tawv ib vuag es tso lub siab so mus tag tiam no Foom lwm tiam kj tau txoj hmoo zoo dua tiam no mog

[@nraugzoovwj9638]

Pab koj tu siab kawg kaus... leej txiv twb ntshaw2 menyuam thiaj txw menyuam kom tau menyuam cas ho tsis muaj peevxwm hais kom tau niam tshiab hlub menyuam kom tsim nyog ma? Tus txiv neej zoo likoj tus qub txiv ces thiaj li txaus ntxub nyob ntiaj teb no.. menyuam tuag kiag nws ces tsis muaj dabtsi tsim nuj lawm, nws lub neej puas tshav ntuj thiab cas ho tsis kam qiv txais kom yuav tau pojniam rau nws hnub no koj twb muaj tub nyab nrog luag hu.. yeej yog nws txiv tsis muaj pervxwm hais nws pojniam muab nyiaj thiaj tsis muaj peevxwm mus qiv txais thiaj tsuas tias txomnyem xwb. Thiaj pab tsis tau tus menyuam hnub no thiaj dhau mus ua ntuj teb tag ncua.. txawj hlub mneyuam ces hnub yus laus nkoos ntshe twb tau kev pab.. hnub no tub tuag tas nws ces tag kev hlub...tsis zoo ua neeg lawm mog... xav rau lub teb lub chaw..kom nej nyob zoo xwb..

[@MloveL559]

Hmong people need to stop controlling there kids from marriage. You won't support your kids on marriage because money but you will buried your kid within the next week or two and find the income. 😭 Please remember we live in the US now no one can come in between your decisions or marriage. Rest easy such a sad tragic that could had been avoid 😢

[@nouyang3166]

We just lost our dear nephew to suicide as well. This is repeatedly happening to the hmong community, especially for the boys. Something we really need to pay attention to our kids.

[@phoebelor1173]

Kav tsij tham cov tu2 siab rau peb mloog thiab os kuv ces nim nrog koj quaj2 tu2 siab thiab os may aws cov niag neeg tsi quaj tsi los kua muag ces yog cov niag neeg tsi muaj siab muaj ntsw txawj xav txawj nrog luag quaj xwb os mog😢😢😢😢

[@ShouaTojsiab]

I’m so sorry for your loss. You should’ve taken your son with you but what’s done is done. Most children fair better with moms when parents divorce. My heart aches for you sister.

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

This is so sad! Breaks my heart when parents get divorced and the kids are the ones left suffering! If you’re not capable of loving your kids, please don’t abuse them mentally, emotionally and physically!

[@nklee6154]

I tried so hard to not cry listening to this story at work. I can't imagine how he went through. This child faced very deep mental issue. Ua ntshuag hmoob ces thiaj txawj txom nyem os. Yog lwm tiag muaj tiag, nco ntsoov los nrhiav niam txiv zoo es thiaj tsis mag tsim txom ntxhiv lawm os...

[@yl7495]

Tu siab heev tiag tiag li. Vim xaiv tsi tau los yug es thiaj los poob yuamkev rau phem niam phem txiv. Yog muaj lwm tiam tiag, cim zoo zoo es nco ntsoov los yug rau tej zoo neeg es thiaj tau zoo niam zoo txiv os.

[@r6fuGhgkagdcgvcjct7r]

Niam ntsuab Teev, i relate to zaj neej neeg no. Ua rau kuv mam qhua222 tsis tau li. My only daughter who is now 16, tempted suicide at the end of May. Had i been 5 mins to late to find her, i would had lost her. Mental illness is REAL and dangerous. To our hmong families, especially our older parents, please pay attention to your kids. Listen to them and recognize their pains, and desperation for help and love. Its REAL. I experienced it first hand.

[@cindythao369]

This is why we need to knowledge our children feelings and need to put our kids priority! I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't hold my tears listening through the whole story 😢

[@xX1siabXx]

Zaj story no mas, hais tau tu siab tshaj li os… 😭 thank you for sharing. Lub neej no ces, taws tsau Tsis pom hauv ntej os. Yuav tau sib sib hlub thaum sawv daws tseem ua neej nyob.

[@StrongHeart1]

This story breaks my heart💔 so much! I couldn’t stop crying 😭 May he Rest In Peace 🙏

[@baoyang6462]

Tu siab tshaj li os tos sib ceg tshuav sib tua xwb los tsis kam nrauj ces twb yeeb vim yog hlub me nyuam dhau lawm os viv ncaus nrog koj hlub koj tu me tub kawg .

[@wanleesaesong3419]

zaj neej neeg no mas tu siab tshaj li os 😭 nhub no e kuv ua paj ntaub kuv ros koj zag neej neeg no . mas nws ua rua kuv lub qhov muag tsis pom kev ua paj ntaub kia li os sister 😭😭

[@xmay71]

To the step-mother and step-father of this child. It's your fault for not letting his parents love him. To the father of this child, I blame you. If you don't love your wife and she doesn't love you anymore, go your separate way but love your children. To the mother of this child, I'm sorry for your loss. You should have fought harder for your sons. No one loves their children more than a month. May you find comfort and peace and don't forget to love the one still living.😢😢😢

[@yl7495]

Don’t blame the step parents. Both biological parents failed this child.

[@monkeybanana9269]

​@@yl7495100%. If it's my kid, I would drop a partner like that and pick my kid. Can't expect an outsider to be more responsible or to a higher standard if the insider can't do their job to begin with.

[@CheeMoua-x8w]

Niam tshua teev kuv tus txiv wb sib nrauj thiab os tab sis kv cov nyiaj nyob hauv banks es kuv tsov rau cov me nyuam siv thiab kv tsis xav kom lawv tu siab li zaj leej neeg koj hais kuv me nyuam nyob nrog lawv txiv tab sis kv tsis khes li os lawv muab cov nyiaj ib leej yog three hundred dollars viab rau lawv very months kv tsis xav Kom lawv nyuab siab yuav tsum ua siab loj cov phooj ywg aw❤❤❤❤

[@tongyang6314]

Tu siab tshaj plaws li os tus me niam tsev aw....tos peb cov poj niam hmoob uv tag los uv dua los twb vim yog ntshai2 tej me nyuam tau ua ntsuag ciaj es tsis muaj neeg hlub li no tiag, niam tshiab txiv tshiab ces luag yeej tsis hlub yus cov me nyuam, yus yog niam yog txiv yug es yus thiaj hlub tau yus cov me nyuam xwb, hlub koj tus me tub tiag2 li os. Yog tias yus yeej hlub tsis taus cov me nyuam ces thov txhob txeeb2 me nyuam lawm nawb hmoob.

[@Chuewxiong]

May, it ok to cry cov neej es tsis paub kev tu siab es thiaj tsis paub quaj thiaj cem cem yus tias ua cas yus ho quaj quaj cov ntawv ces tsis muaj siab muaj tsw xwb os. Nrog tug niam tsev tu siab kawg li os. Pab hlub nws tug tub thiab khuv xim.😢

[@meeyang9843]

Pab koj tu siab os nej cov niam txiv tsis sawm zoo cia me nyuam yuav nyab 6 me nyuam ,me nyuam thiaj tsis xum nyob ntiaj teb no lawm ,me nyuam tu siab npaum li cas 6 neb 2 tug ua niam ua txiv no na 😢😢😢

[@maitxhiablis9926]

Yog kuv ces kuv yeej tsis yuav ib tug txiv twg li lwm os. Txiv tshiab lo tseem tsis pab thiab. Txiv tshiab niam tshiab siab me tshaj vim tsis yog luag yug.. 10 leej muaj ib leej tia hlub xwb. Tu siab tshaj plawm li os.. cas neb nim xa txog neb tu kheev xwb es tsis xa txog me nyuam li

[@cua1879]

Yog tshaj. Niam los niam ua li txiv tshiab hais xwb. Txiv los txiv ua li niam tshiab hais xwb. Tsis muaj neb tus tub lawm los tsuav neb tau neb ob tug txij nkawm puag sov so xwb ces txhob khuv xim neb tub me tub ntxawg os. Twb tsis yog hais tias nws mus ua kev phem. Nws los nws yeej paub ntshaw ib tug los hlub nws thiab ua neej nrog ib yam li neb thiab nas.

[@Karena312]

This is so sad:(😭

[@See-i2i]

Cas tu siab ua luaj li o 😭😭

[@saengmany255]

Cas yuav siab ua luaj os me ab tub hmoob aw😢😢😢

[@SteveLee-ty1gr]

Niam ntsuab teev, yog leej twg mloog tsis quaj ces tsis txawj hlub neeg os

[@nkaujhmoob3961]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os. Mus zoo koj os metub. Thov kom lwm tiam koj mus nhriav tau zoo niam zoo txiv zoo txij nkawv os nawb. 😭😭😭😭

[@xiong_nploojsiab7831]

😢 tu siab dhau lawm os. Yeej tsis xav kom muaj tej yam zoo li no tshwm sim rau ib leej niam li os.

[@user-ibobpeb]

Your husband and your ex husband's wife are the same. Siab me tib yam. You should've helped your son married his girlfriend. You both failed him. May he find better parents in his next life.

[@catlily_love4293]

Nrog koj tu siab me vivncaus kuv mloog ces kuv nim quaj es peb cov sib nrauj tu siab heev li

[@lisaxiong1039]

The wife should have taken the 2 sons with her.

[@puavpheej9273]

Niam ntsuaj teev aw tsis yog koj hais neej neeg es koj quaj xwb os kuv los quaj2 nrog koj thiab os 😭 kev tu siab leej twg los kua muag yeej los ib yam os

[@ky3079]

So sorry for your loss sister. Thanks for sharing your story. We can feel your broken heart.

[@ameeshayang8949]

To the mother, you had the chance to save your son but you chose to sided with your new husband. Koj yeej tsis khwv noj khwv haus es koj tos koj tus txiv tshiaj noj xwb lov, es koj ho tseem tsis yuav poj niam rau koj tus tub. Koj xaiv koj tus txiv rau qhov no lawm, ces txawm kuv yuav hais tias koj zoo los koj yeej ua yuam kev rau qhov lawm mog tus me leej niam….

[@yl7495]

Yog 100%

[@kaciewanh1986]

Tus liam #1 dad, twb txeeb tau mus tsis hlub, tsis tivthaiv, tsis kam tsav yim, tseem yug tub dabtsi? Niamtshiab rhuav luag lub neej hlub tsis tau tej menyuam ces txhob ntshaw2 txeeb luag txiv? Tim grandparents support tub ua phem cais lub neej mus yuav tus txheeb ze. Cas lub khuj phem tsis poob rau cov neeg limhiam?

[@tengyang4830]

Twb tuaj nyob mekas es tseem them tsis taus tus nyuag nqe nyab thiab ces xuab dhau lawm os hmoob aw !

[@yl7495]

Yog kawg. Txiv los xuab niam los xuab, tsuas paub txog yav nruab nrab tau noj xwb.

[@siaonahvang7969]

😭😭😭😭😭😭 mus zoo koj is me tub ntsuj❤

[@pataoxiong]

Sister. You should had helped him with his wedding then he wouldn't chose this way. Why did you even think your life after death that even though you helped him, he wouldn't LAIG you is more important? Why you didn't just be his mom even though you might not have husband? Why did some of our hmong sister yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj li thiab os mhoob aw...😢

[@yl7495]

Niag poj hmoob no tseem xam khib txog txojkev pab nws tus menyuam thiab naj.

[@xayxiong1061]

Agreed!

[@pataoxiong]

@@yl7495 Ntshaw txiv dhau lawm ho txawj los hais khuv xim thiab.

[@yl7495]

@@pataoxiong Yog kawg nkaus.

[@tuanh-ei4ij]

Niam ntsuab teev kj tham tau kv tu sab kawg li kv ca ntsug kj quaj li hab kj tham tau z kawg kv nyam heev

[@jasminexiong3603]

Nrog koj tusiab thiab hlub kj tus me tub kawg li os tus me niam tsev. RIP os me tub..

[@macymango4134]

.. ugh , I don’t understand ppl sometimes . If the dad don’t support his marriage you should’ve!! Sometimes you need to stop letting other ppl control your life with their decisions.I have to blame it on the parents ..Don’t wait til it’s too late ..

[@4stars503]

This is a lesson to all the fathers out there,,

[@Ntxhi67]

Such a sad story sister. I’m a divorced woman with 5 children, and l left my ex-husband peacefully. A cheater will always be a cheater. All l want is my children. I never filed for child support and raised them all by myself. That was many years ago.

[@jiaxiong8991]

Pab koj tu siab kawg li os. 😢thov peb cov niam thiab txiv sib nrauj no, txawm yus tsis sib hlub thiab nyob ua ke lawm los tshuav cov me nyuam nyob ntawv yus tau hlub thiab pab os mog. Tej txiv tshiab thiab niam tshiab no siab me dhau lawm tsis pab hlub yus cov me nyuam. Yeej yog Tim koj niag txiv qub ntawv ntxuav lawv hlwb tag lawv thiaj xaiv lawv txiv ntag. Niag stepmom los siab phem qia dub tsis xav pab tus tub kiag nws thiaj tu siab. That bish would be introduced to my fist if she dare say it to my sons. Your ex didn’t even love them then why take them from you? If your current husband is like that too you could just kick him to the curb. Your kids should always come first!

[@puayang2506]

I am so sorry for your loss. I was divorced 2 years ago with teenage kids too. I am glad the ex didn’t want them so I got all 3. I can’t imagine your pain. May god bless you!!!

[@saengmany255]

Yog mas niam laus aw kuv ntseeg koj cov lus tom kawg os .

[@NoyNoy-gz4ok]

tus me niam tsev kj lub me neej mob siab thiab tu siab ua luaj kv quaj tag nrho zaj me neej neeg hlub 2 nej li os.niam ntsuab teev aw...koj pab qhia rau tus niam tsev no paub tias pab nws hlub thiab mob siab heev nawb...meb lub npe niam ces mob npaum rab riam ntsia os

[@beelao5755]

Hmong family. We don't live in the old way anymore. Please love. Life is real with consequences. Sis hlub mos.

[@dewmo767]

Ua lub neej ces txuwm yog zoo li no tiagluwv tsis hlub yus los xav li ko es thiaj li ua neej tuag tsau nab cia es thiaj li tsis paub lwj li os lam nyob rau tej me nyuam txoj kev lub kua muag xwb os ib tsoom mi niam tsev os tu siab kuwg li mog😂

[@hmoobheroe]

The cruel reality of our human hearts and the hardships of life. 🙏🙏🙏

[@nouxiong2284]

Yim koj ua tsis taus niam xwb os tus viv ncaus aw, yog koj lam ib nyuam ua taus niam me ntsis ces koj tus me tub yeej tsis tuag li os, tab sis yeej tsis muaj leej twg paub pom tom ntej. Kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg no mas kuv quaj quaj vim kuv lub neej zoo li koj lub thiab kuv tus tub hlob los kuj tuag ib yam li koj lub thiab, qhov txawv ces kuv tus tub tsis yog nws tua nws tus kheej hos yog nws tu tu siab es nws mob mob nws thiaj tau xiam lawm. Tus me viv ncaus aw kuv ces niaj hnub no yog kuv hais kiag txog nws xwb ces kuv yeej quaj li quaj lawm xwb thiab os..vim kuv los nco nco kuv tus me tub kawg nkaus li os viv ncaus aw..😢😢😢😢

[@JayYang-v7t]

Leej twg ke mloog ke quaj li kuv os 😭😭

[@sanhsung3100]

kuv lov zoo ib yam 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister hlub koj thiab koj tus me tub kawg os😢😢 paub tias ua neeg tsi kawg tsi txhob sib yuav os

[@OppoOppo-nc3jv]

Zaj no tu siab tiag2 li os quaj2 mob taub hau tag li😢

[@TraciNagel]

Parents- please love your kids. Never choose someone who don't love your kids! No man or woman should come before your kids. My kids are always my number 1 priority. Please love your kids.

[@whippedforkimtaehyung3087]

This is the saddest story ive heard of May's. I balled my eyes out and had to listen the second time to hear everything to end. Makes me so furious at the parents. The mom should've taken him in, its not his job to take care of his younger brother. If the stepmom was that bad, she should've had fought custody of the younger son. Everyone failed him that he felt that was his only option. Nothing is better than a mother's love. I deeply hope that beautiful child find happiness and love in his next life and he is at a better place and find comfort. My heart hurts and goes out to him. Mom pls take care of the ones that are with you now. God bless.

[@meenalor1243]

eb.....lub neej no es cas yuav tu2 siab vim yus lub neej sib nraug tag cia me nyuam ua ntsuag ciaj nrog leej txiv nyob

[@sombunman5551]

Ghov nyuag sib nrauj xwb tsis muaj teeb meem li os , phem neb ob niam txiv dev xwb naj !

[@waatchdogs6184]

I'm listening again amd I'm crying hard again. Your poor son. Love him so much shame on you both

[@sombunman5551]

Tsam no txhob ua txuj hais li ub li no peb ntxub neb kawg li

[@thaevang5369]

Koj tus tub tus hluas nkauj los yeej tsis yog neeg zoo kiag. Thaum muaj qab ces xav noj thaum muaj iab ces tso tes khiav xwb.

[@sombunman5551]

Tuag lawm cais zoo neb ob niam txiv siab kawg tsis muaj neeg tab kaum neb lawd

[@ShannenChang]

Tusiab nrog koj os sister awe! Yus cov menyuam es nim yog yus lub siab lub ntsw tiag2 li os 😰😭

[@mrs.sheila3554]

I understand you and every word of your story. 😭 stay strong and fight for your children even if the new husband says no. Even if it cost you to have another failed marriage. No man is worth the battle when it comes to your children. Only mothers understands how much it hurts.

[@yahookv15]

Problem here is the parents picked people for themselves only. That’s why as divorcees, you needed to pick people who were there for you and your kids. There are good people out there, you just need to make sure you take your time to find them. My new husband not only helped with $2,000 but we also did 2 hand tying ceremony for them. Once when she first was brought home then again when they went to my Nyab’s for the wedding. It’s unfortunate that this young man did not get the help he needed.

[@Cindy-s1t]

So sorry for your loss. You did all that you could. He’s no longer suffering. Seems like he’s been depressed for a long time. God sees all

[@NinaHawj-d3g]

ntuj aw... twb tuag es mam quaj mam hlub lig dhau os. yug tau twb g muaj peev xwm tsa yuab tsa yim rau tej menyuam

[@cathythao9094]

Tus me niam tsev aw yus tus me nyuam tuag tag mas yus hlub tsaj plaws li os. Kuv tus me tub niam tuag tau 1 lub xyoos no es kuv niam quaj tau ib xyoos no os. Xa txog nws lub me tsej muag thaum twg ces lub siab mob thaum ntawv os. Tus siab thiab khuv xim tsaj plaws li os.

[@zootshajkoj3736]

Niam ntsuab teev aw koj quaj quaj los kuv twb quaj nrog koj kawg li os! I love how passionate you are with your storytelling and real emotions! My mom would always tell me stories like you and we would cry. And its okay to cry because it hurts to hear these kind of stories. Yog leej twg quaj tsis tau rau cov dab neeg no ces , tes zaum luag lub neej zoo thiab tsis tau ntsib dua es thiab li tsis paub qhov yus quaj li os

[@maipha8560]

I don't understand these parents. Divorced or not, it's both your responsibility to help your children to be independent and live their own life. Some Hmong people mentality, they would rather pay for a funeral that is $20k or more vs helping their child have a future for $10k or less.

[@mvng1516]

Lock up the stepmom and father! They failed your son.

[@xayxiong1061]

Well the sons covered everything up like they’re in the jungle with no education

[@phoojywg417]

Nrog koj tu siab thiab khuv xim koj tus mi tub os tus viv ncaws aw. Hlub koj kawg li os. Ib leej niam txoj kev hlub ces yeej tsis paub xaus li. Yeej yuav nco mus ib sim neej.

[@YeeXyooj-j5i]

Vuag hmoob meskas tseem muaj cov poj niam phem li no thiab los tu siab tiag2 li lauj zaj no mas kuv tauv g tau kuv kua muag li os

[@cuayajnkaujhmoob]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@teddym1711]

cov leej txiv phem, qhov muag tsis pom tsis ntseeg ces zoo li no tiag

[@TouMobile-q6u]

Quaj² nrog koj li os 😂😂😂😂😂

[@palee73]

Neb ob leeg tseem muaj txoj sia nyob cas leej txiv tsis pab los koj ho tsis pab thiab. Yuav Cia Kom tus me nyuam tuag kiag es mam los khu xim na los

[@gracexiong8181]

Yeej yog li koj hais, tus niam no ces yeej tsis hlub nws tus menyuam tiag, vim nws hlub nws tus txiv xwb...

[@palee73]

@gracexiong8181 I know right! I don't know how people can do that to their kids. Nrog tus me tub uas ncaim mus lawm tu siab tshaj vim los xaiv tau ib leej niam leej txiv tsis hlub yus na.

[@yl7495]

Ob niag tsov tom no tsi tsimnyog tus menyuam tuag rau li os. Ob niag tsov tom no twb muaj sia nyob qhuas ntxhias qhov muag ntsuab xiab los cia tus menyuam txom txom txom txomnyem cuag li tsis muaj niam muaj txiv. Ob niag tsov tom no ces, tsuas paub txog nkswd txojkev zoo nyob xwb xwb li, thiaj ua ua txog ntua tej menyuam tuag kiag.

[@LillyBliatout]

Tus viv ncaus, , lub neej sib nrauj yeej qaub yeej iab... Vim ki no oeb yeej hlub koj nawb... Tsuas yog kuv siab tawv dua koj xwb...kuv vuag kuv cov me nyuam ua ntej tus Txiv qub lub siab phem thiab tus Txiv thiab lub siab cheem kom txhob care...

[@AneeN1995]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Suicide is a big thing in our hmong community for our young adult kids and it is one of my biggest fear that’s why I always telling my husband to go soft on them. They are built different from us who grew up in the 80’s and 90’s.

[@chouyang2955]

Tsis muaj nyiaj yuav pojniam ho muaj nyiaj los pam

[@nouyang6342]

Both parents failed this young man. He had no support. Show up for ur kids. Do better for them. RIP.

[@KaosouaThor]

😢😢mloog e kv quajz kv ncoz lb tu me tub heev os vim u g txawj sib hlb xb

[@maimoua1371]

Wow txij hnub no mus thov kom cov niam txiv tog ntxhais los yuav tau tseg txoj kev txwv yus tus ntxhais thiab yog lawv txaus siab lawm ces cia li cia lawv sib yuav free of cost nqe ntshoob lwm hnub mam ua tom qab thaum 2 tug menyuam khwv tau $$$

[@yayaj2568]

What a sad story both parents failed him and his girlfriend! 20k! Check yo self girl and her parents for being so damn greedy! If that girl loved him even if the family says no, i don't care its you and me! We will build this relationship from the ground up! I got you boo!

[@marylee5608]

Txog rxij 1 tug me tub tuag vim 2 niag niam txiv dev laus liam2 ces yeej yog tim 2 niam txiv dev liam txwv phem sib xws. 2 ntsej muag dev ua rau tej menyuam tag kev ciasiab xwb. Menyuam zoo ho tau niam thiab txiv liam22222. Kuv tu 5 tug ntxhais loj tas txawm tus puav tawv2 los kuv yeej pab tau tas nrho tsis ua rau menyuam tag kev cia plawv. Peb yug mob plab tsimnyog peb tiv thaiv tau tej menyuam tsis pub lawv muaj kev ntshaw. Menyuam mloog lus dhau thiaj tuag, peb cov heev2 tsis tuag vim peb pab tau peb tej menyuam dua.

[@zoolikuv]

Sorry for your loss. No parent is a perfect parent.

[@xisha873]

Cas yuav tus siab Ua luaj li os 😭😭😭😭

[@oppolaos7589]

Xav tia me nyuam ntsuag nyob nplog teb thiaj txom nyem xwb no me nyuam ntsuag hmoob meskas lo tseem txom nyem npaum no thiab

[@maychovue8598]

The problem is both parents put their own interests first instead of their children. These couples are not the only parents that put their own interests before their kids. Many parents have kids without wanting to be parents. I would never put any man before my kids. Many parents (women do it the most) used their kids against each other. I hope some parents learn from this story.

[@saalienahvajj5506]

I never understand these step parents that don’t love kids. You know they have kids when marrying them yet u don’t love the kids smdh horrible father too

[@PaoVang-og6hv]

I’m so sorry for the son who pass away may you find a better parent in your next life. I feel bad for the mom,but still shame on the parent. If they can’t protect the kid then don’t have any kid. They totally fail him. If I was her I will divorce that man the moment he said no. She’s going to live with this guilt throughout her whole life.

[@TubLajLim]

Tu siab Ua luaj li lawv os nim nrog koj quaj quaj kawg li os niam laus aw

[@yuglosuahmoobtsisyuamkevya7530]

Nrog koj tu siab os tus me viv ncaus. Kuv tsis nkag siab hais tias cax nej twb yug tau es txawm nej sib nrauj tag lawm los tus me nqi nyab xwb Cas tseem tsis kam them thiab ns tsis hais tu niam los si tus txiv ns. Pab koj tu siab tab si kuv tsis hlub txog neb ib niam txiv li os. Yus tus me nyuam xwb es cas tseem tsa tsis tau cuab yig rau yus tu me nyuam thiab neb mas tsim nyog tuag xwb os

[@roseklo]

Neb ob niam txiv ko es me nyuam yuav2 poj niam no ces hais tias tsis muaj nyiaj. Chim no me nyuam tuag lawm no ces ho muaj nyiaj los tha me nyuam. Mloog zaj no mas pab hlub neb tus menyuam dhau lawm.

[@diannamoua2273]

Sister aww, i feel your pain. Most men will never love our children like the way we women do. I am a divorce too for 22 years. I have never been marry again because i am afraid like your story.

[@yunothoj]

When adults say that children should just deal with a divorce! Please don't put your children thru this misery! Imagine being in their shoes! 😢

[@nouyangvideos6295]

Ua li cas es cov poj niam no yuav xaiv tus txiv mob hlwb es tseg yus tej me nyuam ua tsuag es tuag li tsis kes li ruam nrau heev. Tsis muaj niag txiv mob hlwb yeej ua tau neej na

[@May-f5f]

Txawm li cas los yog yus nyob rau qhov twg los nim yog yus mi nplooj siab es yus thiaj li mob siab tshaj plaws xwb os... Nrog koj pab hlub2 koj tus mi tub os

[@Ncohnubno]

Even if the boys are with the dad, you can still pay for his wife.

[@TubLaibVaj]

How bout Hmong people just drop the dowry requirement to stop the pressure on the young lovers?

[@monkeybanana9269]

​@@TubLaibVaj: My thought exactly. But we all know the majority won't.